Polyamory, infidelity, shooting your shot and more featuring Benjamin Zulu
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ต.ค. 2022
- Welcome back to #over25mondays ! Today we are discussing controversial relationship questions submitted by our Instagram audience, with the help of Benjamin Zulu!
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When Jules is quiet and humble, you know it's getting serious 😂😂🤩🤣🤣🤣
I COULD NOT SPEAK!
I think it's because she does not agree with most things he is saying ,,,y'all can come for me but I really disagree with alot of things he is saying
@@Faith-er2ri no wonder no one cares what you have to say😂
@@Faith-er2ri 😂😂😂😂😂 It's okay to disagree 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@annalisekathomi2336 😂😂😂😂😂
Ivy's facial expressions are sending me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 she's deep deep in the conversation.. love her!!
❤️❤️❤️ For shikie
She is a really good listener
I thought i was alone 🤣🤣🤣. I love Just Ivy aki
😅😅😅
🤣😂🤣🤣
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Benjamin is a blessing to this generation!! I'm 23 and don't really have a male figure who'll speak to me about these vital life lessons but God uses Benjamin each time to motivate and inspire me🙏thanks for having him on the show
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benjamin zulu is not a male figure he is a woman in a man's body
@@theascendancy2024 how🥺
How y'all were silent through this episode is the same reaction we the audience have just listening to facts 😂. Benjamin Zulu 👏👏👏
Facts😂...sijawai nyamaza that long
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Speechless 💯😂 so much insight
And wishing am 23now 😂😂😂
I'm in Awe!! Use this comment section as Benjamin Zulu's life quote dump, I'll go first : "Relationships don't survive because the guilty are punished but because the wounded are merciful".
“Whoever shoots their shot first, is the one leading the relationship” 🤯 JEESUUS, the FACTS are FACTING today😩😂
The collaboration I never knew we would get but ❤
This is a banger 🔥 🙌 👌 👏 💯
Same here...
Saaame,I’m so glad they did this🔥
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When he said "In school you are judged by your answers and in life by your questions"😂I just put a hand on my head ,waaahhh!!!
WE NEED A PART 2 guys 👏👏👏👏...... I love this women using their platform to refine and equip fellow ladies with the tools to navigate our love life's juu wueeeeh....
I second this. Part 2, 3 and many more 🙏
Yes.....
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A part 2 is really needed
Yes, maybe also dig more on his TH-cam channel as well
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Wow. I'm 34 and I agree with Zulu 100%. At 22 I would have thought he's pushing it but looking back I agree. Hind sight is 20/20. Let those who have ears hear these gems and apply them when they still have the time
Requirements are not the rules you shout at him, they are the rules you live by... (Goodnight, Merry Christmas, Happy New year...the year can now end.😆😆😆) That my friends, is the part where Zulu should drop the mic (but pick it back real fast because we need such council 👌) Best show yet👍) Shikie❤❤❤
Amen
😂😂😂for sure
You guys remember when jules said that her mom ongezeas tv volume when Benjamin is talking so that jules can hear lmao 😂😂😂
Which episode was this please??! That's hilarious!
This was the first thought when i saw him😀
I rarely listen to "life coaches" or "socialogist" and the whole lot cz, most of them speak like they know your whole life story, they generalize a lot of issues and simply put, life is not that simple. That said, Benjamin is cut from a different cloth, he is very subjective and doesn't teach perfection, rather he looks at life as an average of two things, good and bad, right, wrong, failures and lessons cz life can't be without the two sides, and that's why I listen to Benjamin and thoroughly enjoyed and learnt a lot on this episode. 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Ivy's expressions are killing me, lmao.😭
Get well soon, Shikie. 💖
The head nodding is nodding 😂😂
Wueh!! Ameona mambo
@@elvisjonyo2624 😂😂Aki
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Me too. kept laughing all through! Bless you Benjami, I need to read that book even though im over 25
The white dress 😍😍😍😍😍 Ivy looking like a billion dollars!!!
❤️❤️❤️ Sending love to Shikie. Get well soon
❤️ Much love to Jules
❤️ Lorna
Lornzie has been giggling like a baby the whole time she looks so happy.
So true lol. She was giving "I know I made the right choice for myself with Mr G.'
Very true this whole conversation sat well with her ONLY..the things he mentioned I think she has applied in her life..
Hi namesake😀 I'm called Shalom too (but a He🤣)
@@mizzcatt7691 I feel like lornzie is the most level-headed emotionally intelligent of them all. I genuinely enjoy seeing her
@@Habibtay so true I totally agree..like she is not trying too hard..her delivery when it's her turn to speak is so effortless..easy going yet very intelligent
Wow!
You know sometimes it's so easy to let someone wear you down, but you knew all along they don't qualify. Yet they are so persistent you wonder if it's you that's addicted to searching for the inaccessible in life.
Yoooh I was downloading points over and over. Ivy's head stayed up 😂
Benjamin is a force, this generation needs such a big brother to correct the madness we normalise.
Part two three and four please.
Kind request OVER 25, make all your episodes this fire or more fire moving forward, use this episode as The Standard. The only way is up- keep moving 👏
This found me right at the 25. I'll be listening to this over the years. Out here is the ghetto!!!! Live like you don't joke!!1
Go to his TH-cam page for more wisdom sis.
Whenever i listen to Zulu. I thank God for saving me nikiwa pre 25. I made alot of damage..not many say this, but growing up in a healthy home makes you trust easily..me sikujua dunia ni cruel..thank God at some point i was completely shaken. That was my wake up call..
I'm way over 25, married, a believer and all I can say is that I approve this message. You need to grow first then you will have something of value to give into a marriage/ relationship. You will also be able to make better choices. You will succeed by setting the right foundation and not trying to repair a faulty base when the marriage is already several years in. The rules are pretty simple, we often add many twists out of selfishness and they end up messing us up. Lovely conversation. Please invite Benjamin again, have more questions/ topics and also have gents on the panel please.
This is so encouraging! As someone over 25, I'm looking forward to dating and marrying right💯
Thank you Over 25 for inviting Benjamin! He always reminds us where to collect our senses 😂😂. We appreciate a healthy call out & the guidance.
By far my favourite episode. Ive never given him a chance because he is a man😂😂 but I've been officially converted.He should come back. So much wisdom
OMG!! , This is the most intense conversation especially the money management discussion!! @37 I just felt like I was below 25. banange!!!!
Benjamin the way you have delivered this segment 😍😍,,, no laughing laughing, or laughing at your inside jokes.....or straying away from the question.....
You really really have delivered quality 👏👏👏
Also the girls, no talking over each other, just listening,
this was such a good episode over 25!
I had goosebumps the whole episode. I'm one year down in my singlehood era and I'm glad I am learning through lessons. This is an episode I didn't know I needed and I know I'm not the only one. Thank you ❤
Go for it❤️
SAME!!
I'm under 25, and I was getting triggered the whole episode. Mirroring Ivy and Jules' reaction. I had to get a notebook coz wueh...
For sure, you're not alone.... Mind-blown from pretty much the beginning..
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The way Benjamin has humbled our girls😂😂this has been my fave episode so far
Deep stuff, very important conversation! Suddenly not feeling bad for how long I've been single because I have been very intentional about personal development and realize the importance of mentorship. Wish you girls would take these conversations further and have live fireside chats in high schools and Uni, we've really dropped the ball on that generation.
Okay after this,I'm going to sit quietly with my thoughts .
This is eye opening and thought provoking. He should definitely come back again and again.
OMG!!! This piece on “till death do is part” has just set me free from guilt I’ve had for over 10 years following my failed marriage. I had to go. Wow! Powerful work! Thank you Benjamin!!!! ❤
For some reason, I knew this conversation would open old wounds for me, forced acceptance and literal healing, Today I mark that day, why I love these ladies, why Benjamin Zulu cuts deep but you know you'll heal, Thank you for the collaboration and a part two if possible💖.
Hi also try kev hicks, he is also quietly wise
I feel 10 years older😂.
Thank you so much ❤️
Get well soon shikie❤️
Half way through and I can already feel the weight of this conversation. THIS WAS NEEDED!!!!❤❤❤
An episode I couldn’t miss for anything. Loved it
I literally had to get my notebook and write down the wisdom points. Thank you for this episode Over 25 and Benjamin.
Sijawahi tense hivyo nikiwatch over25😂. I am glad that in spite of the diverse views and perspectives on issues the conversation remained respectful. Keep up the good work ladies.
This has got to be one of the most self awareness eq show ever. Thank you big sisters for this
This was the best episode so far for me, loved it!
One of the best collabs I've listened to this year❤️
Julia- would you like to say a few things before we begin?
Benjamin- says 1 million things, & he hasn’t even started 😂
We love you Ben
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😂😂it's Ben being Ben
I love his gem.
😂😂😂so true
I agree with you Benjamin is always on the go even before invitation cos his introduction itself is a full show already
This was EverythANG!!!🙌🏾 Oh how I love Zulu🖤
and Ivy was me the entire period!!😂😂shook and Inspired 👌🏾🫶🏾
Such a wholesome one hour to kick start my week.
This was so insightful. I didn't even realise it was one hour, wow. Thank you so much 💓
21 minutes in and my mind is blown infinite times. Best episode this season yet 🤩
We all needed this episode wow! Benjamin hit the nails on the head. Extraordinary episode ladies thank you so much
We need a part two, this was quite educative
I love the way Benjamin zulu gets to the Bible and His respect for God.
Thank you so much for making life so easy for us
The kind of episode you just have to grab your book and pen!!!come on!!
Steady recovery Shikie❤
Barely 15 mins in and there's so much wisdom😍👏👏
So far this is one of the best episodes from over 25!! I love it❤️❤️
Part 2 please!! This was a great conservation 🙌👌
My life motivators in one sitting 🥰I hit 25 the other day & now I can legally watch you guys☺️ For Benjamin I usually read his posts every day and I'm glad of what I have learnt from him
This is my best episode of over 25. Please, part 2-5
Yayyyy! This collab is something I’ve been wanting to see for such a long time!!!! Amazing!!?❤️❤️❤️
Thanks Over 25 for bringing Benjamin over... We definitely need him back ❤️
Am loving Ivy’s facial expressions 😂❤
Get well soon shiko🤍
Wow. Thank you girls for bringing Benjamin in our show
Learning alot!
This here is a gem,we appreciate you Benjamin.This is the collabo we didn't know we needed.
We need a part 2. This was soo insightful
11 minutes in and this is my fav episode yet! This guy knows what he's talking about. Great conversation
This is the most insightful video. We need part 2,3 and so on PLEEEASE
Benjamin; you are a GEM! Big up to over 25 for having him on board.
The collaboration we didn't know we needed.
Great episode 👏
Nice to see Zulu in the panel today. Solid convo. Get well soon Shikie❤
I love and enjoy This channel and rarely comment today though 😂 that part of shooting your shot those reactions are priceless 💯 keep doing what you do ladies were here watching, listening. Nice content 👍
Finally Benjamin Zulu is here. An episode i have been waiting for
What a good episode, congrats over 25 i love it so much😊😊
What a great episode ladies. Thank you for having Benjamin on, he shared so many great gems !
This is the best best episode of over 25 ever. Thanks to Benjamin. Love you over25.Very educative.
This is one of the best shows on the over 25 channel.
This was a fire episode🔥 Can't wait for more! 🙏
Wow!!!!!! I did not know how much I needed this episode!!! Wueh!!! Been struggling with being single for the longest but really looking forward to seeing it as a blessing and an opportunity to become a better, if not the best version of myself. Thank you, Benjamin and Over 25!!!
PS Get well soon Shikie 🤎🤎🤎🤎
Wow... My favourites linking up... I was so excited just to see you on the same show and y'all have killed it!!! 🔥❤️🔥
Great job Over 25!! I have shared with my two besties. This was awesome, hopefully part 2 is loading... I can't believe how fast time passed.
Gem dropping the whole time. Thank you Benjamin. Love from SA🇿🇦
I love this conversation ❤️ Get well soon Shikie❤️
This was very enlightening..thankyou girls and benjamin for having this collabo
Mind blown! Wow! I hope he’ll be back. Thank you ladies
Even before I watch, I love this already !!!! The guest with the mostest 🤗🤗🤗
This is my fav episode🥰🥰 Thankyou benjamin. Intentional singlehood is my way of life now
My friends, Benjamin is a force to reckon with... Soo much wisdom oozing from this video
Me and Jules in the "weuh" corner.Thanks Over 25 for gifting us Zulu❤❤
Inspired, justified, educated and grateful for episode🙌
❤️ for Shikie, quick recovery.
Wonderful discussion, unlearning and relearning alot today.
The gems of wisdom dropped. Definitely going to rewatch.
God bless you for opening such a platform 🙏🏽
WOW WOW WOW. I have learned A LOT. Great show.
Get well Shikkie! ❤❤
Been waiting for this episode.... I haven't even watched but I know its gonna be good. Anywhere Mr. Benjamin zulu is I have to be there.
This is one of the most insightful episodes...you should have a part 2.
Fire episode. Thank you, ladies, Zulu. Totally loved the wholesome conversation. Speedy recovery Shikie
Am so happy you brought Mr. Benjamin to the show!!!😃😃Alililili
I must be dreaming. My two most favourite podcasters collaborating. Christmas came early for me for sure!
This is one of those episodes you come out richer in wisdom. Power collaboration is what i would call it ✊
I rarely comment on these videos but today I feel compelled to coz of Jules' outfit. I loooooove love it!
Get well Shiky ❤❤. Deep conversation, so enlightening Zulu is always a vibe and so is over 25.
What he's saying about finding a woman who's fully invested in you as a man is super true, and it shouldn't be a front, cause we'll know, vibes don't lie, it should be something you're genuinely interested in. That shit is super important and rare at the same time. Finding someone who understands you as a man and wants to get to know you and accepts you for who you are, that for me is your soulmate.
But some men still cheat despite this. Why?
@@bee4702 if you see a man cheating, its either he's just a fuck boy or there's something he truly lacks in that relationship i.e the marriage or relationship has become boring and he needs a kick. But I highly doubt if a man can cheat on a woman he truly loves. If he realizes that something's missing, he may try to discuss it with his woman but some women are too proud, so he opts to look for whatever he misses outside, or sometimes he doesnt even go looking for it, he happens to stumble on it when he needed it the most.
@@k3ygvrvalways making excuses women also get unhappy in relationships that lack things and yet we don’t go cheating it’s men who actually have problems communicating this is a well known fact not women.
@@tytypartridge3135 yes communication is sth that most of us probably struggle w sometimes, goes both ways though.
One of the best discussions ever.. i loved this. He should come back.
I swear this was just that episode that doesn't let you sip anything... spitting pure gems!
I started watching you people when I was under 25 and now am over 25. I have learnt alot from this channel. Thank you for bringing Benjamin Zulu😊