I grew up with a Dwight.Maybe even worse than Dwight if that's possible. Until he left when I was 14. This film always hits so deep within me like an atomic bomb. I love these actors and I thank Mr. DeNiro for portraying my father so accurately, as well as Mr. Dicaprio for portraying my own self. This film helped me so much when I was 14.
I'm so sorry for you. I hope you're better now .. I didn't even ever experienced these. But I feel it by Leo and DeNiro's performance. It's soheartbreaking
Worst Dwight I ever met was at this one paper company. Me and my buddy Jim would always prank him because of how annoying he was. He owned this huge beet farm and he was obsessed with eating beats, I’ll never forgive that man.
My biological father was a Dwight, I despised him in life and after he died. However, what set me free from the traumatic memories, was by learning to understand what life experiences shaped him into a Dwight, and with that understanding came compassion and forgiveness.
@@leeturner8023 good for you. Seriously. These people aren't born like this. Sometimes their childhood is worse than what they eventually become. Hope you are doing well
He was really good in this movie but he doesn’t deserve best actor for this role , he was up against Liam neeson for Schindler’s list and Tom Hanks for Philadelphia who were both better but Leo is a better actor overall imo.
Yeah. Same thing we will remember our crazy fathers and all those horrible nights what we've been through.That deniro's line was exactly what my father would say to me
The movie is kind of sloppily written. I read the book and in the book Toby takes off immediately but the mom stays behind for a little bit. The Mom leaves a few months later moves all the way across country to Florida and Dwight ends up showing up at her place and tries to kill her and gets arrested would have been more interesting of a movie if they would have left that part in instead of ending it here
I crew up in house violence. My father was abusive towards my mother. We stayed with him till i was 14 years old. I can not watch this movie without getting depressed. Robert plays it so well and Leo and Ellen as well. Maybe one day i can watch it.
A whole generation of abused kids out there, and people have the guts to ask why the world is in the shape it is.... It's called PTSD folks, currently the world is in a state of massive uncurable PTSD.
What in the hell is wrong with the world when your reading comments and find out that you weren't alone on having a father/step-father like this?? I first saw this and lost it emotionally. Really hit home.
Lol i was hoping he'd drive by in his car with his head hanging out the window chanting "what about me?!" over and over without ever stopping, just endlessly chanting as he faded into the distance... I need another drink
We should give some credit to the person Leo is portraying. Tobias Wolff grew up to be a wonderful author, especially his short stories. Both he and his older brother are incredibly talented. The Barrack's Thief and In Pharaoh's Army are excellent reads.
Absolutely! I discovered him through this movie and he has become one of my favorite authors. A very talented and intelligent man. He's very honest about his past and is proof you can turn your life around
Leonardo Di Caprio is great in this scene, the way he screams as he looks towards the mountains is utter freedom and joy! It really brings an emotion inside and made me tearful for them both, great story!
i had a besterd stepfather..but i never even felt Like MY STORY IS SAD...its not because he is not cruel enough..he is..ITS BECAUSE i was living in my own world..I never cried for reasons others usually do..I took everything as cartoon characters...YUP..I NEVER CONSIDER my story as sad..There are people with even more sad story
It's sad, when kids aren't loved as they are entitled to be .sad when I compare your life to how my Husband loved his children and my Father did also. NOW I APPRECIATE WHAT I TOOK FOR GRANTED..
I actually lived in Concrete, Washington where part of the movie was filmed. My family and I lived in the middle of town at the time of the filming. I mean right in the middle of town! I was nine years old, and if I remember correctly, filming began in the spring of 1992. I have memories when when the production was filming this movie. I remember that it was a big hassle when filming started because we could only go though town certain hours of the day. Also I believe members of the production would come over to my house and tell my mother to not go into town because they were filming. Boy was my mom not happy! My mom and her significant other would have to hurry up and run their errands before filming started up again! I also remember my mom, her boyfriend, and I went to a local restaurant for dinner. Robert Di Niro was there eating supper. There was a group of women at the table next to us waiting for him to finish eating so they could get his autograph. My mother was not one of them! My family could care less about the or the actors that came to town. However it was fun to point out the places in Concrete scenes in the movie because I go to those regularly.
@@samantham6375 No. Just because I lived in Concrete, doesn't mean I knew these people. If they, lived there they probably moved on. Tobias did not even live there.
this movie taught me to be aggressive in defence, have no mercy for anyone who lays a finger on me, no matter its with eye thumbing, weapons or whatever, being able to defend yourself and become strong and scary is so important
reminds me of my own life, I had a hard start and poor starting conditions in life. now with 35 it I have achieved so much, and it feels like a dream when I do think of my youth
Sometimes the bruises are all on the inside . Emotional / mental abuse is so hard because there's nothing to show for abuse . And physical abuse gets more attention and help than narcissistic mind fuxking
The 90s... What a decade of great films
the best
@@thaistompthe best must be 80s but 90s is one of best too
Technology was not as advanced but the 90s produced so many greater films than today . I love 90s films
90s is the greatest decade of films.
I cried Leo is so talented!
He is quite good at times. I really like him in Blood Diamond. He is so believable in that movie.
And Robert to
Eliza Dushku character should have went with them
I didn't notice anyone besides Robert De Niro. Period.
Good movie
I grew up with a Dwight.Maybe even worse than Dwight if that's possible. Until he left when I was 14. This film always hits so deep within me like an atomic bomb. I love these actors and I thank Mr. DeNiro for portraying my father so accurately, as well as Mr. Dicaprio for portraying my own self. This film helped me so much when I was 14.
I'm so sorry for you. I hope you're better now .. I didn't even ever experienced these. But I feel it by Leo and DeNiro's performance. It's soheartbreaking
Worst Dwight I ever met was at this one paper company. Me and my buddy Jim would always prank him because of how annoying he was. He owned this huge beet farm and he was obsessed with eating beats, I’ll never forgive that man.
Sei piu shemo cretino
My biological father was a Dwight, I despised him in life and after he died. However, what set me free from the traumatic memories, was by learning to understand what life experiences shaped him into a Dwight, and with that understanding came compassion and forgiveness.
@@leeturner8023 good for you. Seriously. These people aren't born like this. Sometimes their childhood is worse than what they eventually become. Hope you are doing well
How could Leo rocks in every role in every movie and just won only 1 oscar ....????? I really love his acting so much !!!! 😘😘
Cause he would have plenty of them :D
Politics.
Because he is real talent and the rest are laughs and just fake playing with the Illuminati. Leo is a boss.
Because there were better performances that year
He deserved an Oscar for many movies. He should have at least 3 oscars.
Leo and De Niro's acting were fucking amazing in this film
Apparently even off set DeNiro never came out of character. He wanted Leonardo to be terrified of him, more effective
This was leos first film
@@MsElaine1984 method acting
💯
@@abdulmumin6251. It was DeNiro who recommended him for it.
he can handle lot of emotions still when he was small.... he so talented I think he deserves Oscar for best actor... for this movie....
He was really good in this movie but he doesn’t deserve best actor for this role , he was up against Liam neeson for Schindler’s list and Tom Hanks for Philadelphia who were both better but Leo is a better actor overall imo.
he was 20 in this movie lol
A cried a lot with the ending,the way his mother left and he was alone in the world.
Why did she leave ?
Because they went their separate ways.
I know but why did they go their separate ways?
Because he had been accepted into a college in another city.
k thx
What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger 🙏
You can bet your ass on that 👍🏾💪🏾
Absolutely
Sometimes that means that you'll have to ultimately divorce your family.💜
Kelly Clarkson, lol
Beautiful scene, so few know the feeling of escaping a depressing living situation or small town.
This was the story of my childhood, my parents and then subsequently my first marriage. There is hope, there is sun on the other side...
So you’re an abusive asshole now too?
@@thefatvegan5008 women can be abusers too you dirty fucking vegan.
@@meatballsandwich5329 yes they can!
"You'll remember me." That line will haunt me for the rest of my life the day Robert DeNiro dies.
noooooooooo, no no, never, I adore this guy he is such an incredible actor, one of best actors ever:)
Right
Yeah. Same thing we will remember our crazy fathers and all those horrible nights what we've been through.That deniro's line was exactly what my father would say to me
bob deniro aint goin anywheres anytime soon
Stfu gay
They didn't even have time to pack ..They were desperate they just took off !
@Anne Boleyn What would you do if you were in that situation? Sometimes leaving like that means you are free from assholes like Dwight.
I would too just some money and go
If you watched the entire movie they did this other times, he wasn't the first they just picked up and left.
The movie is kind of sloppily written. I read the book and in the book Toby takes off immediately but the mom stays behind for a little bit. The Mom leaves a few months later moves all the way across country to Florida and Dwight ends up showing up at her place and tries to kill her and gets arrested would have been more interesting of a movie if they would have left that part in instead of ending it here
They left. They got out. One of the most satisfying and memorable endings in film.
Me and my best friend watched this movie in 1994 at 3am on HBO . I miss the old days
It always haunted me that they leave the sister behind with De Niro’s character.
I haven't even scene it yet and i thought that straight away. Wtf
Theres nothing they could do anyway she was his unfortunately..x x x x x she will wait her time and get out I always thought..x x x x x
She was a made woman and Toby wasn't. And we had to sit still and take it. It was among the Italians...
I know, and it bothers me even more that she said that she would miss him and was happy for his scholarship and he couldnt even say bye to her ffs..
@@Agent1W lol Goodfellas! 😂😂
I crew up in house violence.
My father was abusive towards my mother.
We stayed with him till i was 14 years old.
I can not watch this movie without getting depressed. Robert plays it so well and Leo and Ellen as well.
Maybe one day i can watch it.
Sorry man.
Leo's smile makes me so happy 😊😊😊😊
Me too!
Me toooooo
He’s so beautiful
this boys life is my life, and so many of my generation.
A whole generation of abused kids out there, and people have the guts to ask why the world is in the shape it is.... It's called PTSD folks, currently the world is in a state of massive uncurable PTSD.
Agreed. But now its our turn and chance to right the ship and ensure it never happens again...
Girls too ! We females got abused as kids as well
Sooo
Heaps of kids family scapegoat raised by Narc and
1:35 like arnie lol
Indri Horan that’s cuz it is just in a different movie
😂😂😂
yeah xD
Lmao😂
Indri Horan am dead 😂😂
Why is it that Leo has only ever won one Oscar. His performances in Basketball dairies and What's eating Gilbert Grape were mesmerising.
Il est incroyable dans Gilbert grape c est vrai❤
Like Meryl Streep. Only one.
Great performances all round. De Niro is so convincing as a tyrant who is ultimately powerless outside of his domain.
Regardez les nerfs à vif avec lui vous allez être impressionné 😊
look at di caprio's performance as he walks out....what he did there,man,that is HIGH LEVEL acting.
When he walks out was actually the easiest part to act here as that bit was a very cheesy scene😅
What in the hell is wrong with the world when your reading comments and find out that you weren't alone on having a father/step-father like this??
I first saw this and lost it emotionally. Really hit home.
Narcissistic personality disorders are enabled and rewarded
Three hours later....WHAT ABOUT ME! WHAT ABOUT ME!
Lol i was hoping he'd drive by in his car with his head hanging out the window chanting "what about me?!" over and over without ever stopping, just endlessly chanting as he faded into the distance...
I need another drink
Because your emotionally unstable that’s why
The score for this film is hauntingly beautiful. It brings all these emotions up for me. I smile with tears.
One of the three greatest movies ever made.
Intruder what are the other two
What's the other 1
2
e.mc2 uh no he means this is one of his favourite movies. Go to specsavers mate
Good movie but top 3 , are you crazy it’s not even in Leo’s top 3 movies.
Leo is one of the most talented actors!!! Brilliant!
Toby knew all it took was to get his mom to see that she doesn’t need Dwight and when she leaves she’ll have no worries and happiness without him
There's no more movies like this again.
We should give some credit to the person Leo is portraying. Tobias Wolff grew up to be a wonderful author, especially his short stories. Both he and his older brother are incredibly talented. The Barrack's Thief and In Pharaoh's Army are excellent reads.
Absolutely! I discovered him through this movie and he has become one of my favorite authors. A very talented and intelligent man. He's very honest about his past and is proof you can turn your life around
No. Dwight didn't stay in Concrete until he died. He tracked Toby and his mom to D.C. and attempted to kill her via strangulation and got arrested.
Maria Fox really that happened
Really?
Marc Man that’s what always happens
Wow
Liar
Leonardo Di Caprio is great in this scene, the way he screams as he looks towards the mountains is utter freedom and joy! It really brings an emotion inside and made me tearful for them both, great story!
I can’t be the only one who thought the boy was gonna die because the title right?
Fat-Black-Jesus in the minority
Harry Potter hi Harry.
The beauty of them running away✨💙 (scenery, music,smiles, body language and knowing what they’ve been through)
Dwight was such an evil bastard that robert deniro played him brilliantly
i had a besterd stepfather..but i never even felt Like MY STORY IS SAD...its not because he is not cruel enough..he is..ITS BECAUSE i was living in my own world..I never cried for reasons others usually do..I took everything as cartoon characters...YUP..I NEVER CONSIDER my story as sad..There are people with even more sad story
It's sad, when kids aren't loved as they are entitled to be .sad when I compare your life to how my Husband loved his children and my Father did also. NOW I APPRECIATE WHAT I TOOK FOR GRANTED..
What about me?
what a scene
my mind got so relaxed and relieved after watching them run👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Great movie great actors
I cried so hard
I LOVE THIS PART OF THE MOVIE AND I LOVE LEO!!! (: Leo GRABS MY HEART in every movie! I love him so much!!! xxxxx
DICAPRIO LOOKED LIKE A KID WHEN HE WAS A TEEN
It's a curse
Teen is a kid lmao
Well that's not a bad thing
I actually lived in Concrete, Washington where part of the movie was filmed. My family and I lived in the middle of town at the time of the filming. I mean right in the middle of town! I was nine years old, and if I remember correctly, filming began in the spring of 1992. I have memories when when the production was filming this movie. I remember that it was a big hassle when filming started because we could only go though town certain hours of the day. Also I believe members of the production would come over to my house and tell my mother to not go into town because they were filming. Boy was my mom not happy! My mom and her significant other would have to hurry up and run their errands before filming started up again! I also remember my mom, her boyfriend, and I went to a local restaurant for dinner. Robert Di Niro was there eating supper. There was a group of women at the table next to us waiting for him to finish eating so they could get his autograph. My mother was not one of them! My family could care less about the or the actors that came to town. However it was fun to point out the places in Concrete scenes in the movie because I go to those regularly.
Did your family know Dwight he passed away few years before the movie. Was he a angry old man?
@@BrianSmith-yq7ys No
@@123451248ifywhat about Arthur Gayle? Do you know him? Did he really exist? Where is he today?
@@samantham6375 No. Just because I lived in Concrete, doesn't mean I knew these people. If they, lived there they probably moved on. Tobias did not even live there.
Leo ..is so talented... Oscar not deserve for leo... Because he so talented more than the oscar!!!
I love Robert De Niro. Epic actor. 😘
It takes talent in order to play as a asshole, and he did it well in this movie.
@@Starnerdz De Niro wasn't acting, he truly is an asshole.
I loved his yelling "What about us? by Pink"
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Yep
Leo is a totally bae
I bet Dwight died a sad, lonely old man
The mom and the son have some great chemistry on screen.
Heartbreaking and heartwarming at the same time. Leo was born to be a brilliant actor.
His mom looked so happy to see him happy
this movie taught me to be aggressive in defence, have no mercy for anyone who lays a finger on me, no matter its with eye thumbing, weapons or whatever, being able to defend yourself and become strong and scary is so important
What do u think jack become after the movie? I bet he make many money and live a fulfilling life
Legend has it, Robert is still asking, “What about me?”
This comment section made me realise how lucky I am to have such caring father.
I just love the soundtrack!!😍😍😍
One of the best endings in cinema history.
Touching scene.
I’m glad those two left Dwight because they deserve freedom and peace ☮️ from him!
Best actors
Oh my goodness Leo you really touched my heart,
Legend has it that he's still saying "what about me"
Keep running and never look back and don't turn back
In his younger days Trump could have played Dwight, he has the "What about me?" line down perfectly.
I'm glad that they were able to escape him! Still sad though!
I was literally crying right now I've never watched this movie before expect this part
Que tremenda película y que final! libertadora y con esperanza! julien castera
beautiful and powerful scene !
This is such a great movie!!
This was in my recommended list and I don't know what movie this is.
Same
yeah someone tell us movie name
It’s “This Boy’s Life”😊
I finally know where the LoveLine "liar liar whore liar and you know it!" thing comes from! OMG! I had no idea for 20 years!!
This boy's life
1:34 when the liquor kicks in 😂
reminds me of my own life, I had a hard start and poor starting conditions in life. now with 35 it I have achieved so much, and it feels like a dream when I do think of my youth
Leo before puberty 😂
What about me..? Dude..., you dug your own grave of misery.. so now you gotta lie in it.
Zachary Johnson why did his mom leave hime
@@dasanisansbury1871 I think it's obvious...
damn dirty Leo wanted the mom all to himself. i like it.
Thanks FOR your movieclip
GOD bless everyone
Barakallah fiikum 😂😂❤❤❤❤
Wait what about the sister? They just leave her there with the dad?
Nothing they could do she his unfortunately for her she would have too wait like her brother and sister did..x x
To be fair he was never cruel to her
The could’ve at least said goodbye to her.
She had no guts to leave probably anyway judging from the scene
DeNiro did such a great job portraying a Sadistic Narcissist….I feel zero sympathy for him as he cries “what about me”
He still has a higher than average voice today.
Independence Day for mom and son
He didnt even pick up and leave he just left
Leonardo 😍💕
My stepfather was violent towards us kids but my mom stayed with him. 😢
great movie great cast you know Ellen Barkin was always amazing...and when she came back for the tv series she ROCKED IT
The best movie of Leo! 😍
Excellent Film A++++++ Excellent Cast
"What about me? " ...what about you?
Imagine your mom had to leave you somewhere new.That was just devastating. But on the other hand Leo is so talented.
This movie really defines life in gen, the highs and the lows, but mostly the lows 😢
DiCaprio was a phenomenal child actor.
C est un phénomène tout court❤❤❤
That Duckie hair only Duckie could get away with. ;)
I love this film so much 💛
Sometimes the bruises are all on the inside . Emotional / mental abuse is so hard because there's nothing to show for abuse . And physical abuse gets more attention and help than narcissistic mind fuxking
mental and emotional is far worse
Damn, De Niro plays this really well. You really feel the narcissism in his character.
He plays anything brilliant
i first saw this movie at home
Leo is a pure genious when it comes to acting.
That title sounds really depressing
Dwight knows a thing or two about a thing or two!!!
He knows stuff about that boy that could fill a book.
What a great movie.
Classic “I love you I hate you but don’t leave me”
lust isn't love
1:33 I relate to the pure joy of leaving dead af town along with a constant fight in the house. The best thing ever🤪
Leo is so talented!!!
I love leonardo good performance beautiful blue eyes man 😗😗