There is that. There's also a perception that a show-biz career is a marriage ender. Show business can be so demanding, especially when the idol in question is very active in it. To be successful...to be "on" for the fans and well prepared often means that spouse and family have to take a back seat and simply accept that their role is to cheer for the famous family member and not get in the way. It's not going to be the same for everyone. But the dynamics that are in play with any significantly popular idol just are not family friendly. A lot of celebrities are not going to want to marry other celebrities because they know how impractical it can be. Non-celebrities who are self-aware and perceptive are also not going to want to marry a celebrity because they know they're often going to be shunted off to the side while their spouse spends all his/her time hanging out with rich, famous, attractive people.
@@TEAM__POSEID0N This is why the most successful celebrity marriages are between two celebrities or people in the celebrity support industries. Only they have the understanding needed to tolerate their spouse's careers.
you say that but the second a leak comes out that some ones favorite Kpop hottie is dating they lose the "innocent" im just a cute kpop bunnie and the internet goes in a uproar. people freak out over their outfits lol. you really think they are ok with them dating
@@Allhavengames I see your point, fr you got a fair point, some "Fans" will go crazy from that and throw backlash to the couple, just like the Lee jaewook fiasco that happened in January, stuff like that and Fan-wars i hate them, I'm glad i don't have X/ Twitter because i heard toxic K-pop fans come from X/ Twitter, if you or still had X/ Twitter is it true?
@@Madchad6969the people that are in the kpop industry are all kpop singers. and they are people like you and me. it is their job, they work and they have lives like you and me. stop being a toxic fan. by your logic Chris Martin the singer of Coldplay should have retired on 2005 because he got married and had a child. but he hasn't. he still performs.
@@warrior6673 they are famous celebrities stop comparing your self to them it's like you saying you are Elon musk because you are a human but you are clearly not Elon musk or do you think that you are a BTS member
If you look back at western celebs, these guys were all in relationships, marraiges ,early on in their careers . The western fans didnt mind, they idolised them for their music / acting, but let them breathe and live their lives as well. Asian fans seem very obsessed with celebrities and think they have axright to dictate how they livd their lives ,which is wrong and very immature.
@@user-cj5tm3te7c The correction should be idol fans. It's not just in Korea but it's the same for the Japanese with their idols too. People don't care too much for musicians but if they're an idol or are marketed as one, this culture exists.
The idols are conscious that a major part of their fandom would turn their back on them for dating because in their delusional minds, the idols should stay single because fans think they are entitled to controlling their decisions, look at Chen from EXO, he was ripped apart by the public for marrying and having 2 children, the only idols I know who had success in marrying is Gummy and Taeyang
@@woomino1246 South Korea netizen are crazy as hell. Hollywood or Bollywood or my country entertainment are better than crazy kpoop world/Korean netizen. Beyonce/Drake/Madonna,,etc still rich and famous as hell after get married/divorce many Times . Kpoop Idols should stop acting like an angel or being two face snake 😷
These idols live such a sad life. They are living their dreams to be in front of the camera, but they are not free. Their lives and careers are tied to their companies and possesive fans.
Cause those so called fans feel since they spemd alot of money on them, that they feel they can dictate to these kpop idols what they can and can't do off stage. When in reality there just isolating them and then wonder why these idols get depressed and etc.
Suju members are semi traumatized of marriage due to what happened to Sungmin. It has been more than 10 years and he still is a hiatus member, because korean fandom. It was only until this year that Wookie broke the curse by marying. There was still hate towards him but it was over shone by the fact that for the first time in years all the OG members were gathered in the same place.
You say this about Idols but a lot of people in Korea generally aren't getting married as well as in other first world countries and even when they do the divorce rate is so high
However, this is a Western way of thinking and it can happen that even if you are affected by negative comments or hate, you continue with your partner, it only ends when your partner chooses it, it is different in Asia and very toxic because companies sell them as just a product for consumption. The mentality that they should not have a partner causes many idols to abandon their careers in order to get married and have a family.
Birth rates go down when there are economic impacts. If there is not enough money for the youth to live off of how are they suppose to support a family. You can’t make people to get married when the rental property or even housing property is through the roof. There is a lot of stressors.
gdragon go through heartbreak, he said he wanted to get married on 2013 while untitled 2014 released on 2014, that's his biggest 'abt my heart type of a song' to fans and he never clarified what it is abt but you will understand with his lyrics, some said the song is abt nana komatsu. If we look at how much of a heartbreak that song was and how much of a struggle he is in with his mental health, it's safe to say his marriage won't come just like that.
Yeah i remember back in the days everyone called nana komatsu g dragon's girlfriend. It's sad that they didnt end up together. ı think komatsu is married now
This song is about Kiko, with whom he had an on/off relationship for 6 years. As far as I know, it would have ended between the end of 2014 and 2015. The nana he met in 2015, but it didn't last long (it didn't seem to have been something deep).
His comment about how dating had too much bad, and being married would be easier makes it sound like he would not be a good husband. Sounds like he wants someone who can't easily leave when he neglects them for work, but who takes care of all the domestic work. Which i guess isn't bad if someone wants a rich husband and to be a SAHM to a husband who isn't around much.
It so selfish for fans to expect these idols to stay singleand attacking them for having a partner during their activity period in which they are in their prime and then when they get older they forget about them and move on to a new bias leaving them traumatised and way to exhausted to find the one
Taeyang of Bigbang is one of the luckiest. When he announced his engagement the VIPs are very supportive and sending funny pics of him to Min Hyo-rin. VIPS sent a lot of love and support to them.
My opinion is that every person, celebrity or not, take ownership of your life. You live it, not others. It is your happiness. You only have to answer to yourself. Those who criticize you are unhappy with their lives and want to see you in their imaginary world. Having a successful relationship is also hard work, just as having a successful career. There are always challenges and sacrifices, play safe is a killer for all or it will just not happen at all. So, go get that partner and live a happy life, and flip the critics!
Korean celebrities, actors or kpop idols are too scared to date, not necessarily because of the scandal but because they are terrified of upsetting their fans. Because fans react so negatively but also because the Korean press unnecessarily invade celebrities privacy with the excuse that it is in the public interest. On the other hand there are some celebrities who don’t care, they date, get married etc and pay no mind to what fans or others think. But they are in the minority.
As a fan of heechul he does wants to get married he lost a lot of confidence in his looks and age he also to hung on the idea of being independent but yet he really wants to get married hope he does some day
Being an artist in Korea is a lifestyle, not a job. Therefore fans can't even draw the boundaries and think the artists belongs to them 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. The fact that entertainment companies promotes and enable this kind of thinking only make things worse. Until entertainment companies treat jobs as just a job and the public see things the same way, don't expect change anytime soon.
Meanwhile for what I heard talking to onces they hope that whatever Twice members want they get it, if is a marriage, kids or not. they still young but meeting the right person as Gumiho said it's hard for normal people so for celebrities (and rich people as well) it's much harder... at least it's an arrangement LOL those relationships look kinda stable hmmm XD
Park bom is sick. So don't compare her with talentless ajhumma dara who already have a lot of money and Fame and healthy. Talentless ajhumma dara already have everything. So she should get dating scandal first!!!
@@LitaLagi What? Bom and Dara both deserve love. If you have to disrespect one member of 2ne1 in order to bring up another than you are not a Blackjack(2ne1 fan) ,Bomshell (Park Bom fan), Daraling (Dara Park fan) GZB(CL fan ) or POS(Minzy fan) because we support all 4 of our ladies unconditionally.
I think this is an issue in South Korea as a whole. Cause aren't they worried about the drop in birth rates that is supposed to only grow in the future...
Yes but you also don’t have a career in entertainment in which your fans think that they own you. And would be very upset if you got married because you nurtured a weird parasocial relationship with them.
Let’s be fr here, not much people would care about you getting married or dating if you’re no longer one of the biggest names in the industry. Not saying no one at all, it’s just that there seems to be more people complaining how fans cannot let idols nor celebs date than people who actually cannot let them date. Maybe there are like the ones in the Chen case where alot of KEXOLs who went on clown mode to object his marriage and only like 20 ppl showed up, but other than that, most reactions are support
With their popularity, Kpop idols can find easily woman and man as lovers. But marriage, their patners may see it as difficult life decisions. No privacy from paparazi 24 hours, hatred and jealousy from fans, public and media attention or blaming for anything they do (even for simple common thing, people will make it big crusial mistake or topic to debate). It's not easy to find someone who is willing to share life with all those difficulties. I remember marriage of Yuzuru Hanyu (Japanese athlete) His popularity in figure skating world equals to BTS popularity today in music industry. She divorced Yuzuru because she got depressed with everything in Yuzuru's life as worldwide famous person. Paparazy stalked and stayed around their house 24 hours everyday. Yuzuru's fans attacked her in social media. She lost her privacy and freedom as normal human. Loving each other is not strong enough for them to stay in marriage. Yuzuru got divorce, after marriage for 4 months only! 😢
@@Kaychanne_ kpoop Idols should stop acting like an angel or being two face snake. I bet talentless ajhumma dara/Park Bom/CL have many dating scandal like Taylor Swift.
Maybe the companies should change from pure profit motivation to helping their artists to live happy, healthy lives and thus helping their fans to do likewise. A happy, healthy Korea, and maybe a whole world. That might be an interesting idea.
I understand the people in the comment section talking about the fact that people just don't want to get married to sometimes for the fact that you know in Asia people getting married and the birth rate and stuff are going down cuz that is true. But you would be surprised at how many celebrities even younger ones not even just these older ones and not even just in Korea have talked about wanting to get married. Then having that idea of wanting to get married and have kids but also being absolutely fucking terrified of doing so. And it has nothing to do with like the economy and how the world works. Because the sad truth is as long as you have money that shit doesn't affect you as much as you think it would. Like this is speaking from semi personal experience of having relatives that are filthy rich I'm talking part of the fucking 1% in the world type of Rich you are not affected by shit that's affecting daily normal people like they aren't even fully grasping how bad of a recession the rest of the world is in because it's not affecting them like that. if you are smart and in the entertainment industry especially if you are well beloved and liked you're making bank. There have been idols who talked about the fact that them and their parents were really smart so now they own property not only in South Korea but in other countries they own real estate they rent out spaces like they make money. The issue is the really really bad parasocial relationships in Asia. Yes it does affect international fans to but it's so much worse with the Asian fans. The way that idols are seen as property and objects more so than human by the Asian fans is kind of scary it's to the point where no one really bats an eye at them having people following them around and stalking them like the Asian fans barely sit there and talk about it as much as the international fans where it's like that's weird you shouldn't be following them places and if they call you out rightfully so while Asian fans will be like they shouldn't have said anything. I have literally seen and had conversations with some of them where they'll sit there and say the idol deserved whatever backlash they might have gotten for sitting there and trying to expose a stalker or for filming stalking people cuz that has happened multiple times where idols will grab their own phones and start filming these repeat offenders. And "accidentally" posting these pictures up or sharing them whether it's through a paid service or a public one. And the issues also the companies because let's be so fucking for real you don't see issues like this with certain companies like JYPE does not have this issue as much as some of the other companies do people or fans of twice are totally perfectlyhere for and find with the members dating and I don't think any of their fans would sit there and have a bitch fit or hissy fit about the girls getting married either and they do have quite a lot of male fans even though people don't think that I've gone to twice concerts I've gone to two of their concerts in Asia and I've gone to two of their concerts internationally and you would be surprised that there were surprisingly more male fans there then you would assume especially at the Asian concerts while at the international concerts there was slightly more female fans. But ultimately whether it's a female or male fans they have a pretty good fan base that has a more healthy parasocial relationship where it's like they like the girls they like the music and stuff that they come out with but they're perfectly fine with them having actual lives outside of being an idol. And their company helps with that because the company doesn't promote twice as the obtainable girl group where it's like their objects and not people. They're not out here pulling a Hybe where the members are perfectly fine with choreography and they like having Duo choreography but because the fans are having a hissy fit and a bitch fit over one a non-real person in the music video it was literally a I believe it was like an AI generated girl in one of their boy groups music videos it wasn't even a real actress and their fans lost their shit and then when they had a choreography with female backup dancers mind you these men in this group are like in their early twenties and I think some of them might have still been late teens like 1819 and these backup dancers are most likely like seasoned dancers in their mid to late 20s so there's like clearly nothing fucking going on between any of them but their fans had such a bitch fit that the company actually changed the choreography. and the crazy thing is that clearly the members did not like that and you can tell because there were videos and stuff of the members learning and doing the new choreo and genuinely looking a little pissed off at the fact that they had to learn a entirely new choreography because their fans were losing their shit over them doing their job with female backup dancers and the company fed into that delusion. When companies do things like that it makes those pair of social relationships worse and it makes it harder for these idols to date let alone get married like that's the big issue it's not even oh they're not even able to get married it's like they're not even allowed to be human. SME literally got rid of an entire member from their new boy group they just debuted he was actually one of the more popular members at that he had barely been in the group for like 6 months and because pictures of him pre debut before he even became a K-pop idol. Pictures and photos of him having a girlfriend before he was a celebrity came out and they literally cold this man out of his group they literally on debuted his ass technically he's on hiatus and still part of the group but let's be so fucking for real they basically kicked him out of his group because of the fact that fans were losing their shit primarily Asian fans over him having a girlfriend before he debuted. Which is scary because then it leads to a bigger issue and a bigger picture where it's like it's going to get to the point where these companies are going to have to start debuting AI generated groups because the fans aren't going to allow for humans to be humans. if they are threatening because that's something else that they've done whether you're talking about like the Karina situation or other idols were they literally threatened to cause physical harm to the member or their partner along with threatening to sit there and like cut off the bag which is what the company's care about more it's like it's gotten to the point it's genuinely concerning companies need to go back to how they were during like second and part of 3rd gen. I remember people dating from groups and I remember like rumors going around of all this person might be dating this person and the company statements would always be. And I'm clearly paraphrasing the shit out of this. " We don't know what the fuck they're doing outside of work. As long as they show up to work they do the work and we're getting paid we could give two shots if they're dating someone go touch grass bitch." Those were the days and the only time you would get the companies making a statement would be if the idol and their partner decided yeah sure just make sure that they know the rumors are true or being like no I'm not dating that person squash those rumors. Not to mention the fandoms were a lot more sane back then in terms of you had more fans that understood that this was a job and this wasn't their entire life versus fans that were like way too obsess and way to attached to them like there has been a rise in soccer fans since they've been more people becoming fans of k-pop. There's like three of them off the top of my head that I can't think of that are notorious specifically with SM artists that have literally moved from other countries there's two of them that move from the North American continent one from Canadaadd one from America who literally went through the process of getting visas and everything to move to South Korea so that they can sit there and stalk their favorite idols full-time and that's what they do they literally follow them around everywhere take a bunch of pictures and then post them up and share them on to Twitter and they have other pictures that they sit there and allegedly sell to fans who are willing to Shell out hundreds of dollars for them and it's really fucking creepy.. But the companies do not help by sitting there and basically allowing fans to get away with this creep shit behavior and feeding into the delusion. It is one thing to allow the fans to be a little delusional and allow the idols to feed into their delusion it is another thing when you are going so far as to do every and anything to make the fans happy even if it means dehumanizing your artist which I think is what a lot of these companies are starting to do and why it's such a big issue and it's more than just oh these idols can't get married or these idols can't date it's like they might put themselves in the people that they're with in legitimate danger
Philippines seem to have double it population in just 40 years, if this babies boom culture never stop then Philippines will be in big social crisis in near future. Get rid of the catholic churches influence and enforce 2 child policy might improve, but the corruption in Philippines government department say meh.... OFW slave export will do the job lol
I remember what happened to Chen before the announcement he was doing a exo concert you could see how visibly stressed out he was and the members were comforting him the backlash was so intense but the exo brotherhood was bigger than all the anti (I'll never understand fans obsession with idol dating life let them live they r humans too) and they stuck together and seriously it isn't like he broke any law (some real law offenders have lesser backlash) he just found his partner and was having a baby I'm glad he was firm about his decision and from what I can see he is happy with 2 baby girl now it's annoying these "fans" will be the ones bashing idols for getting dating/married but when their idols are older will be the same ppl who complain why their idol is single
I think it's a problem with the Koreans. Because Justin Bieber had much worse fans than the Koreans and he married at the age of 24, he was super young at the time. He suffered hate, but it never really affected his career
One other reason is because there are over infatuated delusional side of fans that will destroy a idol's career if they hear that their beloved idol is rumored dating/is dating. This is also the problem with some Japanese idol fans.
Do you hate men? wtf kind of question was that to DARA. No obviously she wants a man in her life but maybe marriage is not it and that’s okay. She finally happy
What if they can't have kids or are struggling to have them? It's a touchy subject, and I don't think there should be a video pointing out that they don't have kids. Plus I agree not our business at all.
Because of the company and stupid fans who can't digest the fact there favorite idols or actors are dating or getting married. This is the result of it. As someone who loves kpop or kdrama I would be really happy to see my favorite idols getting married have kids be happy I will always cheer for them... I wish this changes and kdrama or idols could get married and be happy.
Some of these idols, I have to say, couldn't even be in a relationship. Imagine dating a 27 year old Jaejoong at the time who would have sasaengs break and enter his apartment just to snap pictures of him sleeping. It's scary enough for him as it is but for the sasaengs to know he's dating someone??? Imagine the threats, the danger. I feel like that's the reason why some of them are very apprehensive. They're probably thinking: am I selfish enough to try and be happy while my partner's life is in danger just because they met me?
Fans are unhinged. The tradition of writing an apology note to fans when getting married - even most popular, beloved by fans and nearing 40 but nets getbent out of shape. Watching Cha-Woo crying about loneliness and wanting to date and be married broke my heart.
Reason 1 : their popularity and success depends on them being single Reason 2 : they are rich, they fear losing their assets cause of possible divorce Reason 3 : they grew comfortably as individualistic over the years
NO WAY. BOA IS YOUNGER THAN DARA? i mean its just that boa has been around for so long that i thought she would be older... both of them age like fine wine though.
The companies pour millions into the groups with no guarantee of return. If the artist reads the contract, signs the contract, gets paid, then not much room to complain about the dating ban. Seems like a dumb ass rule but nobody is forced sign.
If a person decides not to be married for whatever reasons, there is nothing sad about it, even if it’s because your mother likes a tv show you are in. Why don’t you people mind your goddamn business and stop passing judgments on why people choose to stay single will ya?
These idols are basically indentured servants since the age of 14. By the time they start dating, they are in their late 20's and closer to 30. To begin dating and having serious relationships and break-ups etc. are things you do between 20-29. At the age they are now they should begin having kids, not beginnning to date. The dual problem is their potential partners (both men and women) are going to be looking for people in their early 20's and so they are facing competition from girls in their early 20's while they are entering their thirties. The last problem which I think is the biggest problem is these idols have no life skills. They have had their lives scheduled for them since ery young and the ones that do hit it big, like BLACKPINK, are even more pampered as adults. They are modern day princesses in actuality. They have food ready for them whenever they want, they are driven to and from locations, they have bodyguard to open doors and protect them 24 hours, they are dressed by stylists, they have personal assistants that plan their flights and activities. Their finances are handled by accountants and lawyers. They don't have any actual adult responsibilities on a day-to-day basis that would make them succesful life partners. Because marriage is very much like having a business partner (wife depends on husband to pick up the dry cleaning, husband depends on wife to keep track of kids medication etc.) and when you marry a person who is only beginning to develop the skills and responsibilies of a wife and mother at 30 years old, let alone a girlfriend. It won't work. Every aspect of their day is either with a manager or assistant helping them. NOW, if they do get beyond dating and actually marry. These idols would never have any of the life skills to create a stable family or keep a man for decades and stay together with until having grandchildren. They would have to cook and clean and get up at all hours of the night to feed and raise kids. And raising kids is exhausting. I said it here first, check back on this comment in the next few years, I guarantee if any of the BLACKPINK girls get married, they will be divorced within 5 years. Lisa especially, she has the least to offer a man beyond her looks. Jennie is part of a chaebol family so may her husband will stick around for the money and cushy life ot else he will be threatened by the chaebol family to stay with Jennie. Rose is too much of a child to ever have a man take her seriously as a responsible mother. Jisoo...maybe. She seems stable enough that she could be a mature dependable wife. Her ability to increase Dior's yearly revenue by upwards of %500 means she is a cash cow for the French fashion houses and evidently she is a pleasure to work with, a real professional, not a diva, and reportedly is friendly with everyone regardless of position/title on a project. And she has a personality that charms the heads of marketing.
I think that celebrities need to normalize having relationships. Ex: Chen of Exo is married, yet his wife is a mystery to the public. Much famous celebrities are married and you hardly see them out in public with their spouses or children. If they normalized relationships then their fans wouldn't go batshit crazy by seeing that they too have and experience normal things in life like dating, breaking up, marriage, having children or not. There is nothing wrong with being single and not having children. They need to also be comfortable normalizing and expressing that marriage is not for everyone and nor is having children and it doesn't make them selfish. They have fans who are not married, who have married but divorced, who have children and regret it or who can't have children at all. That needs to be normalized as acceptable. I'm in my late 40's, I married because of societal pressure, that it's what women are supposed to do...the marriage ended in divorce. I never married again and I never had any children. My life is not lacking because I have neither. I enjoy the life I have established for myself. So the fans need to mature up and realize that their favorite idol is not going to spot them at a concert and fall in love and marry them, nor will they bump into them on the streets and go onto marry them...idols need to take control of their lives, stop worrying about it all ending if they get caught dating or show off their partner...just step out and live proudly...the more of them that do it, and stop apologizing to people that don't know them...then the better their world will become.
no one should have to apologize for being in love. some of yall dont want them to be in a relationship just because theyre ur "bais" or you "love them." you dont even know them outside their public celeb life. i mean be honest with yourself, these idols have millions of fans and the chance of you ending up with one of them is extremely slim. its so halfwitted that they cant be with anyone for 5 years in the first place. its a basic human emotion, its not something that can be controlled. if you love someone for who they really are, then go for it.
sad truth, how come there are so many unmarried american? there are unmarried people everywhere in the world, not just KPOP idol. marriage rate is declining each year, eveywhere.
First. Kim Heechul is merried if you watched ugly duckling than you know he merried himself. Second. It's non of our business if ther are merried or not.
Not a surprise though, because even non celebrities does not want to get married nowadays. I would believe that 90% of people will choose to marry their pets instead 😂 With what's happening in the generation right now, even myself would just like to be single than dealing with some bullshits all my life. If you find a good partner to spend your life with then you are lucky enough.
Becuz, a bunch of hormonal girls have decided that if they can't have idols, no one can. The netizens are the absolute worst when it comes to parasocial issues.
Die Fans sind selbst daran schuld, sie können oder wollen nicht akzeptieren, das die Stars auch Menschen sind. Die sich nach einer Familie sehnen, einen Ruhepol nach dem hektische und stressige Arbeit. Am besten sollten sie nicht essen, trinken und schlafen, damit die Stars 24 Stunden, 7 Tagen sie unterhalten. Statt die Zeit im Netz zu verbringen, sollten die Fans eine andere App benutzen namens Gehirn. Ich mag die Vielfalt an Musik: Heavy Metal, Rock, Soul, R&B, Rapp, Punk, Reggea, Latin und Pop. Wann immer ich höre, dass ein Star geheiratet hat und Nachwuchst bekommen haben, freue ich mich mit ihnen, den sie sind endlich zu Hause angekommen. Alle Mitgliedern von Bon Jovi sind verheiratet, ebenso von NKOTB, BSB, N´SYNC, Take That, Christina Aguilera ist sogar Mutter von 3 Kindern. Es klappt super, wenn beide einander vertrauen. Nur s kann die Beziehung langfristig bestehen.
Well, look at Kim Jongkook. Turbo was a long time ago and yet he is unmarried. It is tough in Korea because Korean girls do have their expectations like Chinese girls. It is also cultural. Plus, because the country is still traditional like many Asian countries, living with a partner is frowned upon.
Marriage is such a joke for Korean celebs when they need to trade their bodies for drama roles, placement in the team and line for songs. If they want to get married they need to quit their career which is to be a boyfriend or girlfriend to their fans but they are too greedy for the fan's money. Look at IU who hid her 7 years relationship with the actor.
I feel like G-Dragon is gay idk😭 or he'd remain unmarried even tho he's the one who always expressed wanted family or kids... Also stop bringing up jennie w him cuz its just a dumb rumor to set him up
It's not like that maybe some of them but we have idols who already married but still have fan support them like taeyang of bigbang actually it's depends on fans
Jang woo hyuk too ! He was apparently dating a japanese avtress back in 2014 and they were together for a long time so i figured they would end up together. But he's already 46. I would have married him only if i wasn't 18 lol that would be gross
@@athenagodess356 u must be a pinoy or daragon fantard. Ur talentless ajhumma dara is nothing without Philippines connection. She Will collapse after voice battle with other 2ne1 members or Gummy or Lee hi on stage. She is a snake.
The biggest cause of unmarried celebrities is the misconception that marriage is a career ender
There is that. There's also a perception that a show-biz career is a marriage ender. Show business can be so demanding, especially when the idol in question is very active in it. To be successful...to be "on" for the fans and well prepared often means that spouse and family have to take a back seat and simply accept that their role is to cheer for the famous family member and not get in the way. It's not going to be the same for everyone. But the dynamics that are in play with any significantly popular idol just are not family friendly. A lot of celebrities are not going to want to marry other celebrities because they know how impractical it can be. Non-celebrities who are self-aware and perceptive are also not going to want to marry a celebrity because they know they're often going to be shunted off to the side while their spouse spends all his/her time hanging out with rich, famous, attractive people.
No it's the phycos knets so call fans are sick
@@TEAM__POSEID0N This is why the most successful celebrity marriages are between two celebrities or people in the celebrity support industries. Only they have the understanding needed to tolerate their spouse's careers.
A big part of this is the fact that a lot of idols success is based on the “boyfriend/girlfriend fantasy” that is cultivated among fandoms.
But it is a career ender for some, especially when a celebrity is marketed as someone boys or girls fantasize about as their spouse.
If they want a relationship they should go for it, idols don't need to hold back, I don't care what they do as long as they're happy
you say that but the second a leak comes out that some ones favorite Kpop hottie is dating they lose the "innocent" im just a cute kpop bunnie and the internet goes in a uproar. people freak out over their outfits lol. you really think they are ok with them dating
@@Allhavengames
I see your point, fr you got a fair point, some "Fans" will go crazy from that and throw backlash to the couple, just like the Lee jaewook fiasco that happened in January, stuff like that and Fan-wars i hate them, I'm glad i don't have X/ Twitter because i heard toxic K-pop fans come from X/ Twitter, if you or still had X/ Twitter is it true?
Internet: *hate on idols for dating*
Also the internet: "Why don't kpop idols get married?"
If you want to date you can leave idol industry and become a normal every day person like you
@@Madchad6969the people that are in the kpop industry are all kpop singers. and they are people like you and me. it is their job, they work and they have lives like you and me.
stop being a toxic fan.
by your logic Chris Martin the singer of Coldplay should have retired on 2005 because he got married and had a child. but he hasn't. he still performs.
@@warrior6673 they are famous celebrities stop comparing your self to them it's like you saying you are Elon musk because you are a human but you are clearly not Elon musk or do you think that you are a BTS member
@@warrior6673 I am not talking about marriage I am talking about dating ban
@@Madchad6969 simple answer is men don't want to find out their kpop bias is being touched by some guy, it destroy their cute, untouched image
If you look back at western celebs, these guys were all in relationships, marraiges ,early on in their careers . The western fans didnt mind, they idolised them for their music / acting, but let them breathe and live their lives as well. Asian fans seem very obsessed with celebrities and think they have axright to dictate how they livd their lives ,which is wrong and very immature.
Nah they hated Justin's gfs and sent death threats and everything.
Not all Asian are like kpop stans
@@user-cj5tm3te7cok, but all saesangs ARE Asian … so what now
@@user-cj5tm3te7c The correction should be idol fans. It's not just in Korea but it's the same for the Japanese with their idols too. People don't care too much for musicians but if they're an idol or are marketed as one, this culture exists.
@@mariasol1545 because it's a korean word for obsessed fans. Otherwise you can find such fans for western music artist too
The idols are conscious that a major part of their fandom would turn their back on them for dating because in their delusional minds, the idols should stay single because fans think they are entitled to controlling their decisions, look at Chen from EXO, he was ripped apart by the public for marrying and having 2 children, the only idols I know who had success in marrying is Gummy and Taeyang
@@woomino1246 South Korea netizen are crazy as hell. Hollywood or Bollywood or my country entertainment are better than crazy kpoop world/Korean netizen. Beyonce/Drake/Madonna,,etc still rich and famous as hell after get married/divorce many Times . Kpoop Idols should stop acting like an angel or being two face snake 😷
Yes
Dang. I feel bad for Dara that her anxiety was that bad. But I especially feel bad for her ex getting stood up before vacation. 😮😅
Yeah ghosting him like that, she apologizing to the phone sounds mental.
@@shawnthorington7723IKR Like wtff
These idols live such a sad life. They are living their dreams to be in front of the camera, but they are not free. Their lives and careers are tied to their companies and possesive fans.
Cause those so called fans feel since they spemd alot of money on them, that they feel they can dictate to these kpop idols what they can and can't do off stage. When in reality there just isolating them and then wonder why these idols get depressed and etc.
@@Nitesravenmost don't even buy the stuff
They chose to be in that industry,you know, once you are in the limelight, you are like living in a glass house
Suju members are semi traumatized of marriage due to what happened to Sungmin. It has been more than 10 years and he still is a hiatus member, because korean fandom. It was only until this year that Wookie broke the curse by marying. There was still hate towards him but it was over shone by the fact that for the first time in years all the OG members were gathered in the same place.
Yes😢
You say this about Idols but a lot of people in Korea generally aren't getting married as well as in other first world countries and even when they do the divorce rate is so high
Korea has the lowest birth rates in the whole planet
However, this is a Western way of thinking and it can happen that even if you are affected by negative comments or hate, you continue with your partner, it only ends when your partner chooses it, it is different in Asia and very toxic because companies sell them as just a product for consumption.
The mentality that they should not have a partner causes many idols to abandon their careers in order to get married and have a family.
Birth rates go down when there are economic impacts. If there is not enough money for the youth to live off of how are they suppose to support a family. You can’t make people to get married when the rental property or even housing property is through the roof. There is a lot of stressors.
gdragon go through heartbreak, he said he wanted to get married on 2013 while untitled 2014 released on 2014, that's his biggest 'abt my heart type of a song' to fans and he never clarified what it is abt but you will understand with his lyrics, some said the song is abt nana komatsu. If we look at how much of a heartbreak that song was and how much of a struggle he is in with his mental health, it's safe to say his marriage won't come just like that.
Yeah i remember back in the days everyone called nana komatsu g dragon's girlfriend. It's sad that they didnt end up together. ı think komatsu is married now
I think its about Kiko Mizuhara…they dated from 2010 to 2014
This song is about Kiko, with whom he had an on/off relationship for 6 years. As far as I know, it would have ended between the end of 2014 and 2015. The nana he met in 2015, but it didn't last long (it didn't seem to have been something deep).
His comment about how dating had too much bad, and being married would be easier makes it sound like he would not be a good husband. Sounds like he wants someone who can't easily leave when he neglects them for work, but who takes care of all the domestic work.
Which i guess isn't bad if someone wants a rich husband and to be a SAHM to a husband who isn't around much.
It so selfish for fans to expect these idols to stay singleand attacking them for having a partner during their activity period in which they are in their prime and then when they get older they forget about them and move on to a new bias leaving them traumatised and way to exhausted to find the one
I can confirm you that most of the negativity regarding idols dating or getting married comes from knetz.
Not from international fans. International fans want their idol to be happy.
It's actually international fans I bet you koreans know that their idols are dating.
Taeyang of Bigbang is one of the luckiest. When he announced his engagement the VIPs are very supportive and sending funny pics of him to Min Hyo-rin. VIPS sent a lot of love and support to them.
My opinion is that every person, celebrity or not, take ownership of your life. You live it, not others. It is your happiness. You only have to answer to yourself. Those who criticize you are unhappy with their lives and want to see you in their imaginary world. Having a successful relationship is also hard work, just as having a successful career. There are always challenges and sacrifices, play safe is a killer for all or it will just not happen at all. So, go get that partner and live a happy life, and flip the critics!
Korean celebrities, actors or kpop idols are too scared to date, not necessarily because of the scandal but because they are terrified of upsetting their fans. Because fans react so negatively but also because the Korean press unnecessarily invade celebrities privacy with the excuse that it is in the public interest. On the other hand there are some celebrities who don’t care, they date, get married etc and pay no mind to what fans or others think. But they are in the minority.
As a fan of heechul he does wants to get married he lost a lot of confidence in his looks and age he also to hung on the idea of being independent but yet he really wants to get married hope he does some day
😢 yes
Dating and marriage just aren't worth it. It's not just celebs who aren't in relationships.
Those aren’t fans if you wish a person bad IMO
Being an artist in Korea is a lifestyle, not a job. Therefore fans can't even draw the boundaries and think the artists belongs to them 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. The fact that entertainment companies promotes and enable this kind of thinking only make things worse.
Until entertainment companies treat jobs as just a job and the public see things the same way, don't expect change anytime soon.
Meanwhile for what I heard talking to onces they hope that whatever Twice members want they get it, if is a marriage, kids or not. they still young but meeting the right person as Gumiho said it's hard for normal people so for celebrities (and rich people as well) it's much harder... at least it's an arrangement LOL those relationships look kinda stable hmmm XD
Park Bom should be on this list. She is the oldest member and according to her she's never had a boyfriend. If Bom can't find a man there's no hope.
Park bom is sick. So don't compare her with talentless ajhumma dara who already have a lot of money and Fame and healthy. Talentless ajhumma dara already have everything. So she should get dating scandal first!!!
@@LitaLagi What? Bom and Dara both deserve love. If you have to disrespect one member of 2ne1 in order to bring up another than you are not a Blackjack(2ne1 fan) ,Bomshell (Park Bom fan), Daraling (Dara Park fan) GZB(CL fan ) or POS(Minzy fan) because we support all 4 of our ladies unconditionally.
@@v.i.pplayingblackjack nope. Ur talentless golddiger ajhumma dara is spoiler Brat. She don't deserve Fame or money or boyfriend or happy life.
@@v.i.pplayingblackjack nope. Talentless shameless famewhre ajhumma dara
@@v.i.pplayingblackjack nope. Snake talentless spoiler Brat ajhumma dara need to get exposed first.
Some labels like SM DO let their idols date. MOST do in fact. They are just expected to be discreet about it.
I think this is an issue in South Korea as a whole. Cause aren't they worried about the drop in birth rates that is supposed to only grow in the future...
really great video thanks! 😊
Thank you ❤️
i am a non-celebrity and i don't want to get married , and guess it is not about career , it is mainly about what we have been through
Yes but you also don’t have a career in entertainment in which your fans think that they own you. And would be very upset if you got married because you nurtured a weird parasocial relationship with them.
That is deep but true. I can relate to that.
if u want to beloved u can get married . but sometimes hoping choose right partner . and having baby
Let’s be fr here, not much people would care about you getting married or dating if you’re no longer one of the biggest names in the industry. Not saying no one at all, it’s just that there seems to be more people complaining how fans cannot let idols nor celebs date than people who actually cannot let them date. Maybe there are like the ones in the Chen case where alot of KEXOLs who went on clown mode to object his marriage and only like 20 ppl showed up, but other than that, most reactions are support
With their popularity, Kpop idols can find easily woman and man as lovers. But marriage, their patners may see it as difficult life decisions. No privacy from paparazi 24 hours, hatred and jealousy from fans, public and media attention or blaming for anything they do (even for simple common thing, people will make it big crusial mistake or topic to debate). It's not easy to find someone who is willing to share life with all those difficulties.
I remember marriage of Yuzuru Hanyu (Japanese athlete) His popularity in figure skating world equals to BTS popularity today in music industry. She divorced Yuzuru because she got depressed with everything in Yuzuru's life as worldwide famous person. Paparazy stalked and stayed around their house 24 hours everyday. Yuzuru's fans attacked her in social media. She lost her privacy and freedom as normal human. Loving each other is not strong enough for them to stay in marriage. Yuzuru got divorce, after marriage for 4 months only! 😢
Marriage is kinda outdated for today's modern values, especially for people in the entertainment industry
@@Kaychanne_ kpoop Idols should stop acting like an angel or being two face snake. I bet talentless ajhumma dara/Park Bom/CL have many dating scandal like Taylor Swift.
You mean woke culture? Oh you are right about it being modern. But its definitely not a "value"
@@alrose8870 yeah. They are not different than prostitute.
@@Kaychanne_ values??? She love free sex and never loyal.
Why these idols care what people think? International fans are ok. Just listen to people who support your happy decisions.
Maybe the companies should change from pure profit motivation to helping their artists to live happy, healthy lives and thus helping their fans to do likewise. A happy, healthy Korea, and maybe a whole world. That might be an interesting idea.
Oh sweet summer child, it not gonna happen as we live in the capitalism world. Even the happy and healthy life have the price in today society
I understand the people in the comment section talking about the fact that people just don't want to get married to sometimes for the fact that you know in Asia people getting married and the birth rate and stuff are going down cuz that is true.
But you would be surprised at how many celebrities even younger ones not even just these older ones and not even just in Korea have talked about wanting to get married. Then having that idea of wanting to get married and have kids but also being absolutely fucking terrified of doing so.
And it has nothing to do with like the economy and how the world works. Because the sad truth is as long as you have money that shit doesn't affect you as much as you think it would. Like this is speaking from semi personal experience of having relatives that are filthy rich I'm talking part of the fucking 1% in the world type of Rich you are not affected by shit that's affecting daily normal people like they aren't even fully grasping how bad of a recession the rest of the world is in because it's not affecting them like that.
if you are smart and in the entertainment industry especially if you are well beloved and liked you're making bank. There have been idols who talked about the fact that them and their parents were really smart so now they own property not only in South Korea but in other countries they own real estate they rent out spaces like they make money.
The issue is the really really bad parasocial relationships in Asia. Yes it does affect international fans to but it's so much worse with the Asian fans. The way that idols are seen as property and objects more so than human by the Asian fans is kind of scary it's to the point where no one really bats an eye at them having people following them around and stalking them like the Asian fans barely sit there and talk about it as much as the international fans where it's like that's weird you shouldn't be following them places and if they call you out rightfully so while Asian fans will be like they shouldn't have said anything.
I have literally seen and had conversations with some of them where they'll sit there and say the idol deserved whatever backlash they might have gotten for sitting there and trying to expose a stalker or for filming stalking people cuz that has happened multiple times where idols will grab their own phones and start filming these repeat offenders. And "accidentally" posting these pictures up or sharing them whether it's through a paid service or a public one.
And the issues also the companies because let's be so fucking for real you don't see issues like this with certain companies like JYPE does not have this issue as much as some of the other companies do people or fans of twice are totally perfectlyhere for and find with the members dating and I don't think any of their fans would sit there and have a bitch fit or hissy fit about the girls getting married either and they do have quite a lot of male fans even though people don't think that I've gone to twice concerts I've gone to two of their concerts in Asia and I've gone to two of their concerts internationally and you would be surprised that there were surprisingly more male fans there then you would assume especially at the Asian concerts while at the international concerts there was slightly more female fans. But ultimately whether it's a female or male fans they have a pretty good fan base that has a more healthy parasocial relationship where it's like they like the girls they like the music and stuff that they come out with but they're perfectly fine with them having actual lives outside of being an idol.
And their company helps with that because the company doesn't promote twice as the obtainable girl group where it's like their objects and not people. They're not out here pulling a Hybe where the members are perfectly fine with choreography and they like having Duo choreography but because the fans are having a hissy fit and a bitch fit over one a non-real person in the music video it was literally a I believe it was like an AI generated girl in one of their boy groups music videos it wasn't even a real actress and their fans lost their shit and then when they had a choreography with female backup dancers mind you these men in this group are like in their early twenties and I think some of them might have still been late teens like 1819 and these backup dancers are most likely like seasoned dancers in their mid to late 20s so there's like clearly nothing fucking going on between any of them but their fans had such a bitch fit that the company actually changed the choreography.
and the crazy thing is that clearly the members did not like that and you can tell because there were videos and stuff of the members learning and doing the new choreo and genuinely looking a little pissed off at the fact that they had to learn a entirely new choreography because their fans were losing their shit over them doing their job with female backup dancers and the company fed into that delusion. When companies do things like that it makes those pair of social relationships worse and it makes it harder for these idols to date let alone get married like that's the big issue it's not even oh they're not even able to get married it's like they're not even allowed to be human.
SME literally got rid of an entire member from their new boy group they just debuted he was actually one of the more popular members at that he had barely been in the group for like 6 months and because pictures of him pre debut before he even became a K-pop idol. Pictures and photos of him having a girlfriend before he was a celebrity came out and they literally cold this man out of his group they literally on debuted his ass technically he's on hiatus and still part of the group but let's be so fucking for real they basically kicked him out of his group because of the fact that fans were losing their shit primarily Asian fans over him having a girlfriend before he debuted.
Which is scary because then it leads to a bigger issue and a bigger picture where it's like it's going to get to the point where these companies are going to have to start debuting AI generated groups because the fans aren't going to allow for humans to be humans. if they are threatening because that's something else that they've done whether you're talking about like the Karina situation or other idols were they literally threatened to cause physical harm to the member or their partner along with threatening to sit there and like cut off the bag which is what the company's care about more it's like it's gotten to the point it's genuinely concerning companies need to go back to how they were during like second and part of 3rd gen.
I remember people dating from groups and I remember like rumors going around of all this person might be dating this person and the company statements would always be. And I'm clearly paraphrasing the shit out of this. " We don't know what the fuck they're doing outside of work. As long as they show up to work they do the work and we're getting paid we could give two shots if they're dating someone go touch grass bitch."
Those were the days and the only time you would get the companies making a statement would be if the idol and their partner decided yeah sure just make sure that they know the rumors are true or being like no I'm not dating that person squash those rumors.
Not to mention the fandoms were a lot more sane back then in terms of you had more fans that understood that this was a job and this wasn't their entire life versus fans that were like way too obsess and way to attached to them like there has been a rise in soccer fans since they've been more people becoming fans of k-pop. There's like three of them off the top of my head that I can't think of that are notorious specifically with SM artists that have literally moved from other countries there's two of them that move from the North American continent one from Canadaadd one from America who literally went through the process of getting visas and everything to move to South Korea so that they can sit there and stalk their favorite idols full-time and that's what they do they literally follow them around everywhere take a bunch of pictures and then post them up and share them on to Twitter and they have other pictures that they sit there and allegedly sell to fans who are willing to Shell out hundreds of dollars for them and it's really fucking creepy..
But the companies do not help by sitting there and basically allowing fans to get away with this creep shit behavior and feeding into the delusion. It is one thing to allow the fans to be a little delusional and allow the idols to feed into their delusion it is another thing when you are going so far as to do every and anything to make the fans happy even if it means dehumanizing your artist which I think is what a lot of these companies are starting to do and why it's such a big issue and it's more than just oh these idols can't get married or these idols can't date it's like they might put themselves in the people that they're with in legitimate danger
I hope that here in the Philippines the birthrate will go down to the deepest rate
lol
Not happening when during the pandemic it actually skyrocketed 😭😭😭😭 people really had nothing better to do.
Philippines seem to have double it population in just 40 years, if this babies boom culture never stop then Philippines will be in big social crisis in near future. Get rid of the catholic churches influence and enforce 2 child policy might improve, but the corruption in Philippines government department say meh.... OFW slave export will do the job lol
You must be tired of white dudes stealing your women.
Because of all their obsessed, delusional fans that don’t lets them
The companies pushing the perfect girlfriend/boyfriend thing sets the stage for it.
I remember what happened to Chen before the announcement he was doing a exo concert you could see how visibly stressed out he was and the members were comforting him the backlash was so intense but the exo brotherhood was bigger than all the anti (I'll never understand fans obsession with idol dating life let them live they r humans too) and they stuck together and seriously it isn't like he broke any law (some real law offenders have lesser backlash) he just found his partner and was having a baby I'm glad he was firm about his decision and from what I can see he is happy with 2 baby girl now it's annoying these "fans" will be the ones bashing idols for getting dating/married but when their idols are older will be the same ppl who complain why their idol is single
Fans are the biggest issue.
I think it's a problem with the Koreans. Because Justin Bieber had much worse fans than the Koreans and he married at the age of 24, he was super young at the time. He suffered hate, but it never really affected his career
One other reason is because there are over infatuated delusional side of fans that will destroy a idol's career if they hear that their beloved idol is rumored dating/is dating. This is also the problem with some Japanese idol fans.
Do you hate men? wtf kind of question was that to DARA. No obviously she wants a man in her life but maybe marriage is not it and that’s okay. She finally happy
I bet she is gay. Thats why she act like weirdo in 2ne1 MV.
Do a video on kpop idols who are married but don't have kids and why.
I will look into it as I only know Lee Hyori is married but doesn’t have kids
@@gumihoiinclude rainbow's kim jisook she was married nearly 4 years ago and still no child/children
None of our business, now is it?
What if they can't have kids or are struggling to have them? It's a touchy subject, and I don't think there should be a video pointing out that they don't have kids. Plus I agree not our business at all.
Kids are overrated 😂
Because of the company and stupid fans who can't digest the fact there favorite idols or actors are dating or getting married. This is the result of it. As someone who loves kpop or kdrama I would be really happy to see my favorite idols getting married have kids be happy I will always cheer for them... I wish this changes and kdrama or idols could get married and be happy.
This is so sad! People are so weird for not letting these artist live a full life if they want to.
Lot of peoples didn’t get married but still has a partner. I don't think Kpop idol an actor or actress would preferrer this way too.
Of course they should get married if they are in love. They are human too.
Some of these idols, I have to say, couldn't even be in a relationship. Imagine dating a 27 year old Jaejoong at the time who would have sasaengs break and enter his apartment just to snap pictures of him sleeping. It's scary enough for him as it is but for the sasaengs to know he's dating someone??? Imagine the threats, the danger. I feel like that's the reason why some of them are very apprehensive. They're probably thinking: am I selfish enough to try and be happy while my partner's life is in danger just because they met me?
Fans are unhinged. The tradition of writing an apology note to fans when getting married - even most popular, beloved by fans and nearing 40 but nets getbent out of shape. Watching Cha-Woo crying about loneliness and wanting to date and be married broke my heart.
Reason 1 : their popularity and success depends on them being single
Reason 2 : they are rich, they fear losing their assets cause of possible divorce
Reason 3 : they grew comfortably as individualistic over the years
NO WAY. BOA IS YOUNGER THAN DARA? i mean its just that boa has been around for so long that i thought she would be older... both of them age like fine wine though.
The companies pour millions into the groups with no guarantee of return. If the artist reads the contract, signs the contract, gets paid, then not much room to complain about the dating ban. Seems like a dumb ass rule but nobody is forced sign.
they're career ender when they Married
It's a Choice not a big deal about it when they're happy
Marriage is not for everyone
It's not just pop stars who don't marry young anymore.
If a person decides not to be married for whatever reasons, there is nothing sad about it, even if it’s because your mother likes a tv show you are in. Why don’t you people mind your goddamn business and stop passing judgments on why people choose to stay single will ya?
These idols are basically indentured servants since the age of 14. By the time they start dating, they are in their late 20's and closer to 30. To begin dating and having serious relationships and break-ups etc. are things you do between 20-29. At the age they are now they should begin having kids, not beginnning to date.
The dual problem is their potential partners (both men and women) are going to be looking for people in their early 20's and so they are facing competition from girls in their early 20's while they are entering their thirties.
The last problem which I think is the biggest problem is these idols have no life skills. They have had their lives scheduled for them since ery young and the ones that do hit it big, like BLACKPINK, are even more pampered as adults. They are modern day princesses in actuality. They have food ready for them whenever they want, they are driven to and from locations, they have bodyguard to open doors and protect them 24 hours, they are dressed by stylists, they have personal assistants that plan their flights and activities. Their finances are handled by accountants and lawyers. They don't have any actual adult responsibilities on a day-to-day basis that would make them succesful life partners. Because marriage is very much like having a business partner (wife depends on husband to pick up the dry cleaning, husband depends on wife to keep track of kids medication etc.) and when you marry a person who is only beginning to develop the skills and responsibilies of a wife and mother at 30 years old, let alone a girlfriend. It won't work.
Every aspect of their day is either with a manager or assistant helping them. NOW, if they do get beyond dating and actually marry. These idols would never have any of the life skills to create a stable family or keep a man for decades and stay together with until having grandchildren.
They would have to cook and clean and get up at all hours of the night to feed and raise kids. And raising kids is exhausting.
I said it here first, check back on this comment in the next few years, I guarantee if any of the BLACKPINK girls get married, they will be divorced within 5 years. Lisa especially, she has the least to offer a man beyond her looks. Jennie is part of a chaebol family so may her husband will stick around for the money and cushy life ot else he will be threatened by the chaebol family to stay with Jennie.
Rose is too much of a child to ever have a man take her seriously as a responsible mother. Jisoo...maybe. She seems stable enough that she could be a mature dependable wife. Her ability to increase Dior's yearly revenue by upwards of %500 means she is a cash cow for the French fashion houses and evidently she is a pleasure to work with, a real professional, not a diva, and reportedly is friendly with everyone regardless of position/title on a project. And she has a personality that charms the heads of marketing.
I think that celebrities need to normalize having relationships. Ex: Chen of Exo is married, yet his wife is a mystery to the public. Much famous celebrities are married and you hardly see them out in public with their spouses or children. If they normalized relationships then their fans wouldn't go batshit crazy by seeing that they too have and experience normal things in life like dating, breaking up, marriage, having children or not.
There is nothing wrong with being single and not having children. They need to also be comfortable normalizing and expressing that marriage is not for everyone and nor is having children and it doesn't make them selfish. They have fans who are not married, who have married but divorced, who have children and regret it or who can't have children at all. That needs to be normalized as acceptable.
I'm in my late 40's, I married because of societal pressure, that it's what women are supposed to do...the marriage ended in divorce. I never married again and I never had any children. My life is not lacking because I have neither. I enjoy the life I have established for myself. So the fans need to mature up and realize that their favorite idol is not going to spot them at a concert and fall in love and marry them, nor will they bump into them on the streets and go onto marry them...idols need to take control of their lives, stop worrying about it all ending if they get caught dating or show off their partner...just step out and live proudly...the more of them that do it, and stop apologizing to people that don't know them...then the better their world will become.
no one should have to apologize for being in love. some of yall dont want them to be in a relationship just because theyre ur "bais" or you "love them." you dont even know them outside their public celeb life. i mean be honest with yourself, these idols have millions of fans and the chance of you ending up with one of them is extremely slim. its so halfwitted that they cant be with anyone for 5 years in the first place. its a basic human emotion, its not something that can be controlled. if you love someone for who they really are, then go for it.
sad truth, how come there are so many unmarried american? there are unmarried people everywhere in the world, not just KPOP idol. marriage rate is declining each year, eveywhere.
... There is a hypocrisy w/ fans. You can date or get married ... as long as WE approve them.
I see too many divorces and splits and kids getting sçred over. Stars have terrible divorces in the public, so humiliating. Stay single
They don’t have to settle
wait, I though Max changmin got married!? he had a kid in 2022
Why should they?
even taeyeon of snsd, sunny etc... why don't they marry? sunnu dosen't do anything much and taeyeon has already done more than enough!
Good Choices
They probably are married but won’t tell us
I luv dara nunna
Sad thing about life
It's so sad that the country with the lowest birth rate in human history forbids its most beautiful young women from dating.
First. Kim Heechul is merried if you watched ugly duckling than you know he merried himself.
Second. It's non of our business if ther are merried or not.
Wrong, Sandara had a boyfriend (now ex-bf) back in Philippines, his name is Joseph Bitangcol.
Not a surprise though, because even non celebrities does not want to get married nowadays. I would believe that 90% of people will choose to marry their pets instead 😂 With what's happening in the generation right now, even myself would just like to be single than dealing with some bullshits all my life. If you find a good partner to spend your life with then you are lucky enough.
Becuz, a bunch of hormonal girls have decided that if they can't have idols, no one can. The netizens are the absolute worst when it comes to parasocial issues.
Hee. Chul? He loses his mind over a splatter of pasta sauce and lives in a sterile all-white house that looks like a sanitized lab.
Die Fans sind selbst daran schuld, sie können oder wollen nicht akzeptieren, das die Stars auch Menschen sind. Die sich nach einer Familie sehnen, einen Ruhepol nach dem hektische und stressige Arbeit. Am besten sollten sie nicht essen, trinken und schlafen, damit die Stars 24 Stunden, 7 Tagen sie unterhalten. Statt die Zeit im Netz zu verbringen, sollten die Fans eine andere App benutzen namens Gehirn. Ich mag die Vielfalt an Musik: Heavy Metal, Rock, Soul, R&B, Rapp, Punk, Reggea, Latin und Pop.
Wann immer ich höre, dass ein Star geheiratet hat und Nachwuchst bekommen haben, freue ich mich mit ihnen, den sie sind endlich zu Hause angekommen. Alle Mitgliedern von Bon Jovi sind verheiratet, ebenso von NKOTB, BSB, N´SYNC, Take That, Christina Aguilera ist sogar Mutter von 3 Kindern. Es klappt super, wenn beide einander vertrauen. Nur s kann die Beziehung langfristig bestehen.
100% crazy ass fans who think they own them (mostly boy groups)
Well, look at Kim Jongkook. Turbo was a long time ago and yet he is unmarried. It is tough in Korea because Korean girls do have their expectations like Chinese girls. It is also cultural. Plus, because the country is still traditional like many Asian countries, living with a partner is frowned upon.
Half of tvxq married😂😂
Its their choice of life, so let s not judge them.. ❤
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Jessi also
Because of MONEY and FAME. That's the only reason they don't married.
Are you married? Yes/No, why?
Because fans are toxic af.
Kpop stans need to get over it and accept idols being in relationships.
Marriage is such a joke for Korean celebs when they need to trade their bodies for drama roles, placement in the team and line for songs. If they want to get married they need to quit their career which is to be a boyfriend or girlfriend to their fans but they are too greedy for the fan's money. Look at IU who hid her 7 years relationship with the actor.
I feel like G-Dragon is gay idk😭 or he'd remain unmarried even tho he's the one who always expressed wanted family or kids... Also stop bringing up jennie w him cuz its just a dumb rumor to set him up
Yeah. ITS sooo obvious. G-Dragon is Jaden Smith 2.0.
I get this feeling too 😂
I don't think so...he had a lot of ex girlfriend
@@Mommae19 Puff Diddy have a lot of girlfriends too.
@@LitaLagi He’s not diddy
Yea remember what happened to Karina
Ordinary south koreans doesnt want to marry esp women, what more with celebrities
They are greedy don't want to out of market because their fan wont love them also leave them no fan no work 😂😂😂😂
It's not like that maybe some of them but we have idols who already married but still have fan support them like taeyang of bigbang actually it's depends on fans
Napaglipasan ng panahon kasi
Jang woo hyuk too ! He was apparently dating a japanese avtress back in 2014 and they were together for a long time so i figured they would end up together. But he's already 46. I would have married him only if i wasn't 18 lol that would be gross
Marriage and kids are outdated anyway.
They should get marry. It is the right thing to do.
Kpop need a real paparazi like TMZ. I dont believe talentless ajhumma dara dont have dating scandal for 10 years in Korea!!!!
IKR
Why south Korea keep protecting talentless ajhumma dara from dating scandal???? G-Dragon or SNSD or blackpink have many dating scandal!!! So unfair!!
Because of people like you. Stop calling her talentless, she is one of the best.
@@athenagodess356 u must be a pinoy or daragon fantard. Ur talentless ajhumma dara is nothing without Philippines connection. She Will collapse after voice battle with other 2ne1 members or Gummy or Lee hi on stage. She is a snake.
@@athenagodess356 stop using drugs. Ur talentless dara is talentless singer.
@@athenagodess356 u must be a pinoy. Ur ajhumma idol is talentless singer.
@@athenagodess356 stop being a blind sheeple. She is talentless singer. She is nothing without Philippines connection.
G-Dragon is Jaden Smith 2.0 🌈 its soooo obvious.
Why these idols care what people think? International fans are ok. Just listen to people who support your happy decisions.