My husband has been hot and cold with me these past couple of months. First he said he wanted to separate and now he’s still unsure about our relationship. I’m looking to purchase your book- Breaking the cycle, but unsure if it’s more towards men. Would this help me from a women’s perspective? Thank you so much for your videos.. it’s helped so much so far as we haven’t fought in a month.
The book defines a marriage that is well operated, giving most a "oh, now I get it" look at marriage. But when your marriage is way off track then you need the course so you can get back to the basice and the wonderful opportunities
I’m a wife and I myself am hateful and resentful towards my husband. He NEVER helps with the kids. I’m so sleep deprived and exhausted and burnt out, our toddler rarely lets me shower, I never even wanted kids to begin with yet I’m the one stuck with them constantly. Meanwhile my husband gets full sleep in his own room, showers every morning, runs his own business and thrives. He says he’s glowing up and I’m fading out. I want to just leave him and let him keep the kids that he wanted so bad yet won’t take care of.
These times when the hormones are in full gear will get you tinking all sorts of negative thoughts. Turn to God when you are freaking out and listen for His calming love to engulf you. Your marriage and family will become a blessing like you never imagined possible as you learn.
I am all for fighting to save your marriage, however I’m not sure it’s wise to let men off the hook my saying the reason for their infidelity is because they are not happy. I am deeply unhappy with my marriage at the moment, however I have made a choice to stay faithful rather than stepping out. They too can exercise the choice to put some effort into working on the marriage rather than feeling justified to commit adultery.
I've been doing this since 2001 and with tje thousands we have helped with this it is only the women who can recover from their spouse's infidelity. So we teach them how to do so and it works. We don't blame or condemn in the process. themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
Your example of why men go elsewhere because the “candy” is no longer satisfactory at home is a good analogy. Never heard it before, but does make sense and is the best explanation of why infidelity happens. But. Excuse me. When a woman has done EVERYTHING to keep her husband happy and their marriage going but he STILL doesn’t love her anymore, I don’t think any course or book for women will help. Even if SHE changes, then WHOM does she become losing HERSELF - for WHAT? A marriage is between two people. Not just one. So he is unhappy with you. He can leave. Let him go. As my great-grandmother told me: It’s better to be alone and in peace, maybe happy than be unhappy with someone who does not love you anymore. Period.
Period? Not so, and our testimonials prove that what we all learn growing up is inadaquate for us to enjoy the wonders of marriage. The key is to learn to love as God loves us, then we can have it all themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@@TheMarriageFoundation YES. Love God above all else. However. If your spouse, partner, does not love you anymore, “the wonders of marriage” simply are not there to enjoy. It’s very good to remain positive about marriage but what if the spouse batters the wife physically to the point of it endangering her life over it if she doesn’t leave? PLUS the abuser’s infidelity, alcoholism and character assassination of the spouse… . Or mental abuse where the wife is then consumed in mental illness and on anti-depressants to help her in her everyday life; which isn’t a life because she cannot function on a normal basis? The constant financial inaccessibility, deliberate “needling” and lying to belittle the spouse… . The love that wife had for her spouse is negatively affected. Does a spouses life matters there? I know it does. “The marriage vows have already been broken and there is no marriage there anymore” as my Catholic priest mentor told me. God sees what went on in that marriage. Those are also testimonials that should be acknowledged.
All true. My husband was controlling, manipulative and mentally abusive. Until one day I catch him seeing another woman behind my back, taking out daughter to her, our daughter calling her mother?! I was shocked. And all this while I had 2 miscarrages. He continue to abuse me mentally, causing how bad I am, demanding all my salary to use to pay bills, food and etc. When I couldn't hold anymore because my heart was broken, how he could go to other woman and I confront him, he beat me. My eye, my leg, my arm. I found out that for more than an year he was chatting on Facebook with other women, speaking with women during the night, while I was asleep or waiting him to come to the bed to me. I tried to forgive him, but he continue to lie in my eyes when I told him I know. At the end he told e that he is entitled to go to other women, because he had to punish me, because I am fat, and I don't look after him. Tell me please how it is possible for 5 years of marriage me to be all the time at home, not going nowhere with him - small holiday, walk in a park, centre as a family me and him and our daughter. How it is possible not to go nowhere together as a family , but to go 2 to zoo ,because I insisted and I payed for the tickets and because it was my daughter's birthday. How I can continue to love my husband after daily he mentally abused me, he beat me because of other woman, he isolated me from my parents, he did not let me go to go outside, controlling if I go somewhere with our daughter, obviously ashamed to be with me, to be seen with me outside. And I tried everything to please him, I gave him all my money, salary. And still he went to another women. I don't care anymore if he slept with her or not, he already told me that he will cheat in me, the pain I have is the betrayal, that in my eyes he is telling that he loves me and after that he is going to see her, to buy her food with the money I gave him, to buy her clothes and etc. God is witness I tried to save the marriage, I tried everything, but I don't trust him anymore, because he cheated not once, but repeatedly. I stayed with him, because of our child, I stayed with him because he told me that all is my fault and I deserve this. But now, I am ready to let him go, I don't want to cry anymore, I don't want to be mentally abused, I don't want to be quiet, to walk on shelves, because I don't know if any of my words will make him angry and he will start trolling and breaking chairs, knives, clothes and etc. I started therapy online, because e put me so much down, he lower so much my self esteem, he did not let me go to work, because he doesn't want to look after the child for 3 days from 8-5, he doesn't permit me to send our daughter to a nursery and soon she needs to start school, even the school he doesn't permit. That's why I took decision to leave him. And the worst part is after everything, after 2 miscarrages I got pregnant again. And he told me that because it is a not a boy, a son he wanted he doesn't want to look after the baby. He told me in my eyes, because it is a not a boy he doesn't want it. This was the final drop of everything. I decided that will be better to be alone. Now will have a huge fight about the children for custody,, and the divorce will be long process... I also detect through my therapy that he is a narcissist person. And his behaviour is normal fot his diagnosis. But he will never admit it. And I don't think it is normal to have a child and for 5 years to buy for it only 2 pairs of shoes and 5 clothes. Nothing more. He doesn't to read books for her, to buy toys or take her somewhere like library, cinema, zoo. So I decided that if he treats his own flesh like that there , if he continue to abuse me, there is no point for me to try to save marriage, when obviously he doesn't want this.
Signs your marriage is over…Well let’s see, when he verbally abuses, sleeps on couch last 2 1/2 yrs due to worn mattress cause discomfort(herniated discs) but makes no effort to replace when suggested & moves out of bedroom after argument 2 1/2 yrs ago with clothes packed in bags still & says in case he decides to leave any time he can, threatens to get a lawyer move out take my name off bank acct numerous times & says who’d want to sleep in the room with someone like u during other argument & admits he’s one foot out the door, no physical intimacy in years & makes no effort despite my efforts. Major signs a marriage is over!
My husband said he no longer loves me and wants a divorce. I know what led him to this, not much or my fault. It’s because we are so different and have different life goals and hobbies. I am always giving in but it’s not enough. I am considering purchasing your course but I am not sure if it would help as he’s no longer in love and wants out so much it hurts.
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My husband has been hot and cold with me these past couple of months. First he said he wanted to separate and now he’s still unsure about our relationship. I’m looking to purchase your book- Breaking the cycle, but unsure if it’s more towards men. Would this help me from a women’s perspective? Thank you so much for your videos.. it’s helped so much so far as we haven’t fought in a month.
The book defines a marriage that is well operated, giving most a "oh, now I get it" look at marriage. But when your marriage is way off track then you need the course so you can get back to the basice and the wonderful opportunities
Thank you Paul.
You are very welcome and God bless your marriage🙏
I’m a wife and I myself am hateful and resentful towards my husband. He NEVER helps with the kids. I’m so sleep deprived and exhausted and burnt out, our toddler rarely lets me shower, I never even wanted kids to begin with yet I’m the one stuck with them constantly. Meanwhile my husband gets full sleep in his own room, showers every morning, runs his own business and thrives. He says he’s glowing up and I’m fading out. I want to just leave him and let him keep the kids that he wanted so bad yet won’t take care of.
These times when the hormones are in full gear will get you tinking all sorts of negative thoughts. Turn to God when you are freaking out and listen for His calming love to engulf you. Your marriage and family will become a blessing like you never imagined possible as you learn.
I am all for fighting to save your marriage, however I’m not sure it’s wise to let men off the hook my saying the reason for their infidelity is because they are not happy. I am deeply unhappy with my marriage at the moment, however I have made a choice to stay faithful rather than stepping out. They too can exercise the choice to put some effort into working on the marriage rather than feeling justified to commit adultery.
I've been doing this since 2001 and with tje thousands we have helped with this it is only the women who can recover from their spouse's infidelity. So we teach them how to do so and it works. We don't blame or condemn in the process.
themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@@TheMarriageFoundationSo women have to accept no help from husbands?
You have issues yourself if your okay with giving him the kids!!! Why would you do that? Sounds like you're a cold mama
Your example of why men go elsewhere because the “candy” is no longer satisfactory at home is a good analogy. Never heard it before, but does make sense and is the best explanation of why infidelity happens.
But. Excuse me. When a woman has done EVERYTHING to keep her husband happy and their marriage going but he STILL doesn’t love her anymore, I don’t think any course or book for women will help. Even if SHE changes, then WHOM does she become losing HERSELF - for WHAT? A marriage is between two people. Not just one. So he is unhappy with you. He can leave. Let him go. As my great-grandmother told me: It’s better to be alone and in peace, maybe happy than be unhappy with someone who does not love you anymore. Period.
Period? Not so, and our testimonials prove that what we all learn growing up is inadaquate for us to enjoy the wonders of marriage. The key is to learn to love as God loves us, then we can have it all themarriagefoundation.org/reviews/
@@TheMarriageFoundation YES. Love God above all else. However. If your spouse, partner, does not love you anymore, “the wonders of marriage” simply are not there to enjoy. It’s very good to remain positive about marriage but what if the spouse batters the wife physically to the point of it endangering her life over it if she doesn’t leave? PLUS the abuser’s infidelity, alcoholism and character assassination of the spouse… .
Or mental abuse where the wife is then consumed in mental illness and on anti-depressants to help her in her everyday life; which isn’t a life because she cannot function on a normal basis? The constant financial inaccessibility, deliberate “needling” and lying to belittle the spouse… . The love that wife had for her spouse is negatively affected. Does a spouses life matters there? I know it does.
“The marriage vows have already been broken and there is no marriage there anymore” as my Catholic priest mentor told me. God sees what went on in that marriage.
Those are also testimonials that should be acknowledged.
All true. My husband was controlling, manipulative and mentally abusive. Until one day I catch him seeing another woman behind my back, taking out daughter to her, our daughter calling her mother?! I was shocked. And all this while I had 2 miscarrages. He continue to abuse me mentally, causing how bad I am, demanding all my salary to use to pay bills, food and etc. When I couldn't hold anymore because my heart was broken, how he could go to other woman and I confront him, he beat me. My eye, my leg, my arm. I found out that for more than an year he was chatting on Facebook with other women, speaking with women during the night, while I was asleep or waiting him to come to the bed to me. I tried to forgive him, but he continue to lie in my eyes when I told him I know. At the end he told e that he is entitled to go to other women, because he had to punish me, because I am fat, and I don't look after him. Tell me please how it is possible for 5 years of marriage me to be all the time at home, not going nowhere with him - small holiday, walk in a park, centre as a family me and him and our daughter. How it is possible not to go nowhere together as a family , but to go 2 to zoo ,because I insisted and I payed for the tickets and because it was my daughter's birthday. How I can continue to love my husband after daily he mentally abused me, he beat me because of other woman, he isolated me from my parents, he did not let me go to go outside, controlling if I go somewhere with our daughter, obviously ashamed to be with me, to be seen with me outside. And I tried everything to please him, I gave him all my money, salary. And still he went to another women. I don't care anymore if he slept with her or not, he already told me that he will cheat in me, the pain I have is the betrayal, that in my eyes he is telling that he loves me and after that he is going to see her, to buy her food with the money I gave him, to buy her clothes and etc. God is witness I tried to save the marriage, I tried everything, but I don't trust him anymore, because he cheated not once, but repeatedly. I stayed with him, because of our child, I stayed with him because he told me that all is my fault and I deserve this. But now, I am ready to let him go, I don't want to cry anymore, I don't want to be mentally abused, I don't want to be quiet, to walk on shelves, because I don't know if any of my words will make him angry and he will start trolling and breaking chairs, knives, clothes and etc. I started therapy online, because e put me so much down, he lower so much my self esteem, he did not let me go to work, because he doesn't want to look after the child for 3 days from 8-5, he doesn't permit me to send our daughter to a nursery and soon she needs to start school, even the school he doesn't permit. That's why I took decision to leave him. And the worst part is after everything, after 2 miscarrages I got pregnant again. And he told me that because it is a not a boy, a son he wanted he doesn't want to look after the baby. He told me in my eyes, because it is a not a boy he doesn't want it. This was the final drop of everything. I decided that will be better to be alone. Now will have a huge fight about the children for custody,, and the divorce will be long process... I also detect through my therapy that he is a narcissist person. And his behaviour is normal fot his diagnosis. But he will never admit it. And I don't think it is normal to have a child and for 5 years to buy for it only 2 pairs of shoes and 5 clothes. Nothing more. He doesn't to read books for her, to buy toys or take her somewhere like library, cinema, zoo. So I decided that if he treats his own flesh like that there , if he continue to abuse me, there is no point for me to try to save marriage, when obviously he doesn't want this.
Signs your marriage is over…Well let’s see, when he verbally abuses, sleeps on couch last 2 1/2 yrs due to worn mattress cause discomfort(herniated discs) but makes no effort to replace when suggested & moves out of bedroom after argument 2 1/2 yrs ago with clothes packed in bags still & says in case he decides to leave any time he can, threatens to get a lawyer move out take my name off bank acct numerous times & says who’d want to sleep in the room with someone like u during other argument & admits he’s one foot out the door, no physical intimacy in years & makes no effort despite my efforts.
Major signs a marriage is over!
You can keep on that trend or you can do somethiing like the course for woemne and turn everything around
My husband said he no longer loves me and wants a divorce. I know what led him to this, not much or my fault. It’s because we are so different and have different life goals and hobbies. I am always giving in but it’s not enough. I am considering purchasing your course but I am not sure if it would help as he’s no longer in love and wants out so much it hurts.
Trust your heart. get the course and heal yourself and your marriage
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