I’m going through this with a guy I’m seeing. I tell him my wants and needs as far as relationship. He told me I’m too emotional for him. He said we can be friends with benefits and the more time we spend together the closer we’ll get. But he is back on dating site saying he’s looking for a serious relationship. I confronted him about it and he tells me he is there because it’s a time killer when he’s bored
Take it as he isn’t ready for any kind of relationship. If he isn’t available to create space for your “too emotional” side then he likely doesn’t have space for his either.
Ma'am - You are the time killer. Aka, the placeholder. Until he finds the girl that he dreams of and really wants. Please walk away from this man for your own sanity.
I’m going through this with a guy I’m seeing. I tell him my wants and needs as far as relationship. He told me I’m too emotional for him. He said we can be friends with benefits and the more time we spend together the closer we’ll get. But he is back on dating site saying he’s looking for a serious relationship. I confronted him about it and he tells me he is there because it’s a time killer when he’s bored
Take it as he isn’t ready for any kind of relationship. If he isn’t available to create space for your “too emotional” side then he likely doesn’t have space for his either.
Ma'am - You are the time killer. Aka, the placeholder. Until he finds the girl that he dreams of and really wants. Please walk away from this man for your own sanity.
You said it
I’m watching someone be a placeholder .
Is it a close friend of yours?