Why narcissists invalidate you by spinning the issue around and making it about themselves

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 10 พ.ย. 2024

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  • @jessicahamilton3314
    @jessicahamilton3314 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    It's infuriating when they compare a mountain to a mole hill and claim, " you did the same thing too." It makes you want to slap the taste out their mouth. The best thing to do is get far away. Don't even try to make it make sense. They know exactly what they're doing.

  • @treelover1050
    @treelover1050 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    SOUNDS LIKE THEY ARE A WASTE OF TIME. NO ACCOUNTABILITY.

  • @TRdoFbS
    @TRdoFbS 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Just went through this. Among what you said in other videos as well. Where/how do these people come from/about to torment others; especially the ones who support & love them. It is so unbelivably sick.

  • @everett552
    @everett552 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I dropped a long term friend because of this. After distancing myself to regroup and reevaluate this situation, I started the fade out phase until i was completely out. This can't be stressed enough.....Peace over everything and everybody✌️

  • @Princessju_
    @Princessju_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    They all act the same way it’s laughable 😂

  • @MiMi_X1
    @MiMi_X1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Yea this is a red flag for me and it’s very frustrating and annoying.

  • @hauntedsalmon7931
    @hauntedsalmon7931 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    A family member does this. Hangs up when she hears something she doesn’t like. Gaslights me by telling me what I am saying or thinking. She finally blocked me and did me a big favour.

  • @chandranicole95
    @chandranicole95 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    4 years of that behavior…I’m done done!

  • @johnsherman4035
    @johnsherman4035 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A personality disordered person will also shift context to themselves to demean others or to avoid being embarrassed. That's why you can never "win" in a situation because their cognitive disonance won't process the context clearly.

  • @miaspeakstv
    @miaspeakstv 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I know exactly what you're talking about! & when they reverse it they do it in a angry or sarcastic way its all a game to them & it's all about them 💯
    Would this be considered gaslighting?

  • @SophiaDilworth-bq7sg
    @SophiaDilworth-bq7sg หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The Narcissis dont do fairness period 😮

  • @CarsonDouglas
    @CarsonDouglas 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Bro, its a demon controlling all real narcissist. How are all the humans deploying the same tactics ? Like from a script. Its a age old demon.

  • @TRdoFbS
    @TRdoFbS 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is the very best channel on this topic I have found. Thank you!!! ❤

  • @Crystal-yc7cs
    @Crystal-yc7cs 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Well Spoken!"

  • @Corkie83
    @Corkie83 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The one that haunts me is ‘I did it for you, it was best for you, I was just making it worse for you’ when he’d just left me after my mum died in a vile and rageful way 😔

  • @theQueen-xb3uo
    @theQueen-xb3uo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    🎯😎😎🎯 ABSOLUTELY

  • @marihunt4314
    @marihunt4314 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is exactly what my fiancé does!

  • @moneymitchamp
    @moneymitchamp 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Had a few homeboys that would do this

  • @edith4334
    @edith4334 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I call it a monologue at one point you almost dose off

  • @ursulanicholson5166
    @ursulanicholson5166 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @okokc11
    @okokc11 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼

  • @MelissaM.3121
    @MelissaM.3121 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    💯💥

  • @apubanerjee5496
    @apubanerjee5496 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂😂😂 😂😂😂
    THEIR ENTIRE LIFE IS :---
    PASS THE BATON
    &
    BITE THE DUST ,
    👇
    JOCKEY SPINNING EQUATIONS
    TO MAKE IT EQUAL ,
    WHICH IS COMPLETELY ,
    UNEQUAL ,
    👇
    IN ALL RESPECT & IN ALL WAYS .
    😂 NOTHING TO DO AT ALL 😂 ,
    ONLY WATCH THE CIRCUS ,
    TOTAL FREE OF ANY COST .
    😂😂😂 .