Good message. Just because you went no contact-doesn't mean they will. They really don't like you. That's not your friend. Whatever you do-don't accept a "friend request" from them.
Trust me...aint no return. She can carry her ass where ever the hell she is going and not come back. I know too much to slip up. They wouldnt even be the last person id call for ANYTHING personal
That's why I just moved. He contacted me May 7th. My last day on my job was May 13. I left town. He did not expect that. He has been trying to get in touch with me. I'm hiding out.
My ex kept tabs on almost all of his exes. His Facebook looks like he never uses it. Just a profile pic. But he stayed on there talking to other women. Candy crush is what you saw if you walked past. SMH!😅
What's just as weird is that they will do all kinds of ducking and diving trying to keep you from finding out anything about them, even though you are not even checking for them. But at the same time, literally mirroring you on everything! I had 1 even pop up on me at a book store that I had not been to in 3 years. He just walked in on me literally out of nowhere. I had not set foot in that store for over 3 years, but decided to stop in there one evening and out of the clear blue ole boy walked right in there looking for me. Wow. I have never given him my address, but he has shown up at every address I have had since I left him. But he makes it a point to hide any and everything about themselves. Never once have I bothered them, I want nothing to do with him, but because they are stalking you, they must pretend to be a victim and hide from you, even though you are not. They are notorious for that. *The real flip mode squad!* They are the stalker, but they swear it's you. Meanwhile, they know who you are dating, who you are interacting with, where you live, what you had for dinner, and if you passed gas in the bathroom! They will tell on themselves by saying random stuff that is completely fabricated, but they are going off what they think they know because they are, in fact stalking you. And they are *always* using fake profiles to harass and watch you online. But like I said, they will try to confront you whether it be directly or via goofball flying monkeys. Made-up stuff about your character and even what's going on in your life will be thrown at you from other sources. You may have someone say something completely off the wall to you, and you are baffled as to where it came from and why it was said. It's the narc! Another nice gem, Brother Quinn. 💎 👍🏼
You said it all! This describes my ex narcissist perfectly. They are extremely secretive about what goes on in their lives but are watching you behind the scenes. He knew all about a friend of mine who he thought I was dating. I had not heard from him in over a year after I discarded him. They always come back. Unfortunately.
Yes they aren’t worth the pain of looking back. It will just set you back in your own healing while they move forward without a care in the world. They like to keep you stuck if you allow it. Thanks Quinn
My narcissistic ex calls from his Google Home device, I can't block it since it's not an actual phone number. Look out for calls from a private number. I can and have blocked him everywhere else I can. He also once tried to message me on my online sales platform via email as well. Just keep your eyes open. Time does not matter, I am learning, some of these people will just not stop trying. Stay strong like Quinn says, you do know what will happen if you let them back in your life. Even if you feel low and lonely, just don't do it. I learned the hard way for too long and can say from experience....just stay away, it's better than wracking up more trauma and bad memories.
I pray they find a way to block unknown texts on WhatsApp. For now, you can silence unknown callers on WhatsApp but once they start allowing you to block unknown texts, it's going to be a wrap for a lot of them.
The hoover came with a letter since i am NOT on social media and it came during a sacred month for us muslims where we Fast and have to be the Best in manners, he tought i would then have to forgive i guess... But It is GOD that took him out of my life so i am required to keep him out !!!!! Wrong strategy... 😒
Mine never bothered me when I when down and out. It was always when life was good and I was so unexpected of their return, and here they came. I was always in a good and happy place when they resurfaced.
That’s crazy because I’m one of the ones who think that my narc ex is way too busy and couldn’t care less about me. He acts like that so much that I definitely believe it lol he’ has 2 businesses and he runs so much from his feelings that he purposely will keep busy to not deal with them. & he acts like he dislikes me so much that I assume he’s never stalking me. But this video is making me wonder 🤔
I've been no contact for several years now and I'll never go back or accept a hoover. I pay close attention to my social media accounts and any names I don't recognize or know in any form automatically get blocked and deleted. I also keep call blockers on my phone so if the number is not in my contacts it doesn't get through. I also keep my friends list hidden for this very reason. Family members also know not to accept any friend requests from him or any strange requests that they do not know either.
Mines been showing up at the lake where i go kayaking and im pretty sure driving by my place. Im off all social media though and live 35 min. Away from her.
" The narcissists have a lot of time on their hands " this is so true. The one I knew said she knew exactly what time everyone on her street went to work and arrived home because she sat in her window watching all day.
Yup they try to hoover your healing looking to start chaos Drama!! Feed that fuel ⛽ it's the energy they need most that's why you have to shut down all contact moving forward if a Narcissist hoover in Sercert then u know a Narcissist can't be trusted!!
The narc. lives 3 hours away in another town! His brother lives near me 4 blocks away! His brother is driving by my house everyday! And the X's niece lives 4 blocks away too, she shows up at my neighborhood bar, I stopped going there!
They don’t give up either. Over 4 years mine still trying to get a reply but no way. He is always staking by what he says he sees on my accounts. Even though he’s blocked everywhere. Relentless wit fake accounts
Facts Quinn, I blew that bridge up to the point she knows coming towards me, and yes she tries to Hoover. There's a church behind my backyard. I've seen her car there, not fooling nobody. I'm sure she'll try one day to get in my face if it happens it's still no contact. We ain't gotta speak to these people. Peace Bro 💯💪🏿
Narc just hoovered me with a birthday CashApp. Last time he saw me over a year ago i was out on a date looking goodt. This is the 3rd CashApp I refunded and blocked. Keeps creating a new CashApp along with the multiple email addresses and social media accounts. Boy i I don't need your lil hunneth dollars😂 Return to sender
I’ve noticed he will come out of nowhere with some BS surrounding the kids when everything is going well. I assume this is when his other projects are going off the rails.
I agree with everything you've said in this video, and as far as I'm concerned when it comes to the hoovering if you're someone who's weak and are still reminiscing about how you've felt about them before you decided to go no contact you will fall right back into a vicious cycle with them, but if you're a strong individual and you know what they're capable of and what they'll do to you again if given the chance you would avoid them completely, I learned along times ago it's not so much in what a person says to you its how you respond.
33 years have past, on May 11th 2023 a friends request on social media, His finger accidentally slipped on it.😂 25 years of study of all cluster B and mental health in general, I was naive to it back in the day. Dirt is gone.
Once a year every year for the last five years… blocked on my social media, numbers been changed but gmail only sends the messages to spam so I get it and DELETE cuz who got time!! 😅
Quinn hi you are so right I dealt with narcissistic stalking from a step sister for yrs it kept me broke from harassing me at my apt had to move and trying to get me fired but my boss caught the lie he knew my character great topic Thank you ❤
I was caught at a bad time. I didn't show up at Church one Sunday. She called me to check up on me. I guess she thought she would catch me weepy and bed ridden😢😢😢. Not so! I was as perky as ever. That tends to happen when I'm caught up in my hobbies.😅😅😅😅
Not bed ridden. They be too pissed when they see you aren't sad. These damn monkeys are everywhere. They keep trying to get my attention through different people. I pay attention to the questions I'm asked. They never get tired of poking at you. Always spying n sending their fake ass undercover agents to get Intel. These whores have NO real life.
My ex always said he is easy to dump and will never bother me, he definitely didn’t lie he has no social media of any sort he doesn’t believe in it, I don’t know why but I’m sad he don’t Hoover but I wouldn’t dare return back to jail
Why do narcissistic love men and use women to play games with and abused and give everything thy have give and or off together with a man and don't do for a woman salf fish doing woman things with a man so call friend that he surpos to be doing with his woman but want put a man over his woman why is that
Please do a video on more in-depth forensic stalking that is so easily accessible and utilized by narcs. Including: 1. Downloading spyware on your phone to view all your photos, text messages, vmail, email, etc. They do not need access to your phone, just your phone number. 2. Downloading apps to hide their devious acts like nude photos and videos and text messages with others. There are hundreds of apps for iPhone and Androids. These apps look and act like the real deal but are decoys. Look up “secret” or “hidden”calculator, vault, or stock market, to name a few. These apps have built in messengers, you can change the icon at anytime, and you can hide the app simply by lifting or moving the phone. You can also program the app to delete messages in a certain timeframe. You have to know the password to get behind the wall to see past the app icon. 3. List all the messaging tools available. Games also have hidden messaging features. 4. So much is talked about dating apps but there’s more savvy options available like Ashley, Escort, Only Fans, etc. 5. Duplicate phones, iPads, and smart watches make it easy to cheat. Don’t assume because the phone is visible and accessible that you’re safe. 6. You can download listening devices off Amazon like phone charges or outlet options that serve as listening devices. I’m sure others exist on the dark web. 7. Your phone and computer camera and microphone can be accessed remotely. Review the owners manual or Google how to shut it off. Ignore the phone company remarks that it’s not possible to tap a device. It is. It happens too often and unless a person has experienced it, they won’t know. 8. Apple makes a chip that can be placed on your suitcase or car in seconds. It’s easy to track you. 9. iPhone built in tracking services like “find my phone” or Google Maps can be used to find you. There’s many more but these are the lie hanging fruit that victims should be aware of for their protection. PLEASE cover this topic. Technical stalking is not discussed enough yet it is widely used by toxic people.
Lets not forget the iPhone now has an eavesdropping function when connected to bluetooth audio devices. You can listen to the background of wherever your phone is if you’re in range.
The best part is...only God can stop them. There is no privacy or safe space for victims. The world is consumed with darkness and the few real ones are ensnared by these flying monkeys. Just know they ain't shit. God sees everything. Focus all of your energy on you and don't associate. The blessed don't beef with the miserable. What do you know about misery? It LOVES COMPANY. Issa bored whore. Dassit.
A lapse will set you back and hurt you even worse. Don’t do it! Keep moving forward.
for real ex see you happy moved on ex wanna come back to finish you off ... destroy your life
@@blessedchildofgod9112EXACTLY!!
Truth!!!
Facts they don't no whats coming next ..
It seems like they work and stalk like they never sleep.
Work to stalk YOU. That's it. Some will totally bypass washing Dat ass cuz the FOMO be too real.
Watch out for fake profiles friend requests
Facts
I either did something right, or I was just that worthless to her.
I haven't heard shit from her.
Good message. Just because you went no contact-doesn't mean they will. They really don't like you. That's not your friend. Whatever you do-don't accept a "friend request" from them.
Exactly! I had to block my ex! He had the audacity to send me a friend request on IG.
@@pamela14989😂😂 desperate narcs
😂😂
ex always in the background lurking watching stalking even if they in another relationship
True ..
He wears a hat with fake dread braids hanging from it. 🤦🏻♀️ he disguises himself. Wow. Weird shit
The narc isn’t stalking me.. he’s too prideful and preoccupied with Ms. Bobble head, the new supply. Thk God!!!
They're always lurking in the bushes 😅 We need find some narcissist repellent to spray them with when they try to come back 😅
😂😂
Trust me...aint no return. She can carry her ass where ever the hell she is going and not come back. I know too much to slip up. They wouldnt even be the last person id call for ANYTHING personal
If my ex-husband EVER tries to hoover me again, I'm calling the cops and have him arrested for trespassing!
That Hoover be coming boy!!!! They so fake it’s nuts!lol
That's why I just moved. He contacted me May 7th. My last day on my job was May 13. I left town. He did not expect that. He has been trying to get in touch with me. I'm hiding out.
My ex kept tabs on almost all of his exes. His Facebook looks like he never uses it. Just a profile pic. But he stayed on there talking to other women. Candy crush is what you saw if you walked past. SMH!😅
What's just as weird is that they will do all kinds of ducking and diving trying to keep you from finding out anything about them, even though you are not even checking for them. But at the same time, literally mirroring you on everything! I had 1 even pop up on me at a book store that I had not been to in 3 years. He just walked in on me literally out of nowhere. I had not set foot in that store for over 3 years, but decided to stop in there one evening and out of the clear blue ole boy walked right in there looking for me. Wow.
I have never given him my address, but he has shown up at every address I have had since I left him. But he makes it a point to hide any and everything about themselves. Never once have I bothered them, I want nothing to do with him, but because they are stalking you, they must pretend to be a victim and hide from you, even though you are not.
They are notorious for that.
*The real flip mode squad!*
They are the stalker, but they swear it's you. Meanwhile, they know who you are dating, who you are interacting with, where you live, what you had for dinner, and if you passed gas in the bathroom!
They will tell on themselves by saying random stuff that is completely fabricated, but they are going off what they think they know because they are, in fact stalking you.
And they are *always* using fake profiles to harass and watch you online.
But like I said, they will try to confront you whether it be directly or via goofball flying monkeys. Made-up stuff about your character and even what's going on in your life will be thrown at you from other sources.
You may have someone say something completely off the wall to you, and you are baffled as to where it came from and why it was said.
It's the narc!
Another nice gem, Brother Quinn. 💎 👍🏼
You said it all! This describes my ex narcissist perfectly. They are extremely secretive about what goes on in their lives but are watching you behind the scenes. He knew all about a friend of mine who he thought I was dating. I had not heard from him in over a year after I discarded him. They always come back. Unfortunately.
Yes they aren’t worth the pain of looking back. It will just set you back in your own healing while they move forward without a care in the world. They like to keep you stuck if you allow it. Thanks Quinn
Facts
If they know your in contact with somebody on social media they will follow them too 😐🤦🏿♂️
My narcissistic ex calls from his Google Home device, I can't block it since it's not an actual phone number. Look out for calls from a private number. I can and have blocked him everywhere else I can. He also once tried to message me on my online sales platform via email as well. Just keep your eyes open.
Time does not matter, I am learning, some of these people will just not stop trying. Stay strong like Quinn says, you do know what will happen if you let them back in your life. Even if you feel low and lonely, just don't do it. I learned the hard way for too long and can say from experience....just stay away, it's better than wracking up more trauma and bad memories.
I pray they find a way to block unknown texts on WhatsApp. For now, you can silence unknown callers on WhatsApp but once they start allowing you to block unknown texts, it's going to be a wrap for a lot of them.
“You know what the outcome is going to be”. Absolutely correct.
True indeed. It will be worse.. much worse. You dodged a bullet. When you ever give in, you’ll just give them an extra bullet to destroy you. Fr 💯
There always lurking and popping up.
The hoover came with a letter since i am NOT on social media and it came during a sacred month for us muslims where we Fast and have to be the Best in manners, he tought i would then have to forgive i guess... But It is GOD that took him out of my life so i am required to keep him out !!!!!
Wrong strategy... 😒
I caught him riding by my old job sight passed right by of him. He need to go sit down
Mine never bothered me when I when down and out. It was always when life was good and I was so unexpected of their return, and here they came. I was always in a good and happy place when they resurfaced.
That’s crazy because I’m one of the ones who think that my narc ex is way too busy and couldn’t care less about me. He acts like that so much that I definitely believe it lol he’ has 2 businesses and he runs so much from his feelings that he purposely will keep busy to not deal with them. & he acts like he dislikes me so much that I assume he’s never stalking me. But this video is making me wonder 🤔
I've been no contact for several years now and I'll never go back or accept a hoover. I pay close attention to my social media accounts and any names I don't recognize or know in any form automatically get blocked and deleted. I also keep call blockers on my phone so if the number is not in my contacts it doesn't get through. I also keep my friends list hidden for this very reason. Family members also know not to accept any friend requests from him or any strange requests that they do not know either.
Been divorced 5 years new supply has been on my page 💀. Probably him, I refuse to break no contact 5 years strong 💪🏼. Embarrassing dude move on.
dont do it ! ex see you happy moved on ex just wanna come finish you off because ex couldn't the first time..ex come back to destroy your life !
Facts ..
They learn the hard way ..
Mines been showing up at the lake where i go kayaking and im pretty sure driving by my place.
Im off all social media though and live 35 min. Away from her.
Or, they make sure you 👀 SEE their new supply so you feel hurt, and chase them down. THEY WANT TO BREAK YOU. 👋
Mine was at the lake with her new supply yesterday even though she doesn't live in my town nor does he. But she knows I kayak there and when.
" The narcissists have a lot of time on their hands " this is so true. The one I knew said she knew exactly what time everyone on her street went to work and arrived home because she sat in her window watching all day.
That’s sick smh
3 years and I’ve not been hoovered???
Thank your lucky stars 😅
That’s a great thing! Don’t question it or look for it. Being hoovered sucks. It’s really a bad thing when they do it.
Just don’t understand it everyone says u get hoovered?? I got left with no closure for 3 yrs now ..?? So where is this hoover ??!!!!
Been 2 years and same, I made the mistake of making contact myself a few times, my head was so messed up
I noticed them stalking around 17 years ago or so
Yup they try to hoover your healing looking to start chaos Drama!! Feed that fuel ⛽ it's the energy they need most that's why you have to shut down all contact moving forward if a Narcissist hoover in Sercert then u know a Narcissist can't be trusted!!
I’m starting to hate technology cuz of this very thing
The narc. lives 3 hours away in another town! His brother lives near me 4 blocks away! His brother is driving by my house everyday! And the X's niece lives 4 blocks away too, she shows up at my neighborhood bar, I stopped going there!
They don’t give up either. Over 4 years mine still trying to get a reply but no way. He is always staking by what he says he sees on my accounts. Even though he’s blocked everywhere. Relentless wit fake accounts
Facts Quinn, I blew that bridge up to the point she knows coming towards me, and yes she tries to Hoover. There's a church behind my backyard. I've seen her car there, not fooling nobody. I'm sure she'll try one day to get in my face if it happens it's still no contact. We ain't gotta speak to these people. Peace Bro 💯💪🏿
Good afternoon everyone
Narc just hoovered me with a birthday CashApp. Last time he saw me over a year ago i was out on a date looking goodt. This is the 3rd CashApp I refunded and blocked. Keeps creating a new CashApp along with the multiple email addresses and social media accounts. Boy i I don't need your lil hunneth dollars😂 Return to sender
I’ve noticed he will come out of nowhere with some BS surrounding the kids when everything is going well. I assume this is when his other projects are going off the rails.
What about cyber hacking without you even knowing?
That's real big. They won't stop and don't accept no. Plus they get permission to bother you. They have tons of friends.
Sad truth
Come thru Quinn , just got a hoover after 2 years, i wss ready with the brick wall and he felt it.
I agree with everything you've said in this video, and as far as I'm concerned when it comes to the hoovering if you're someone who's weak and are still reminiscing about how you've felt about them before you decided to go no contact you will fall right back into a vicious cycle with them, but if you're a strong individual and you know what they're capable of and what they'll do to you again if given the chance you would avoid them completely, I learned along times ago it's not so much in what a person says to you its how you respond.
33 years have past, on May 11th 2023 a friends request on social media, His finger accidentally slipped on it.😂 25 years of study of all cluster B and mental health in general, I was naive to it back in the day. Dirt is gone.
I got so many Hoovers in the toxic marriage. Last time, nope changed everything he can’t find me.
Once a year every year for the last five years… blocked on my social media, numbers been changed but gmail only sends the messages to spam so I get it and DELETE cuz who got time!! 😅
Quinn hi you are so right I dealt with narcissistic stalking from a step sister for yrs it kept me broke from harassing me at my apt had to move and trying to get me fired but my boss caught the lie he knew my character great topic Thank you ❤
Going through the stalk now
PERFECT EXPLANATION!..
I was caught at a bad time. I didn't show up at Church one Sunday. She called me to check up on me. I guess she thought she would catch me weepy and bed ridden😢😢😢. Not so! I was as perky as ever. That tends to happen when I'm caught up in my hobbies.😅😅😅😅
Not bed ridden. They be too pissed when they see you aren't sad. These damn monkeys are everywhere. They keep trying to get my attention through different people. I pay attention to the questions I'm asked. They never get tired of poking at you. Always spying n sending their fake ass undercover agents to get Intel. These whores have NO real life.
Thank you for sharing your knowledge, you saved my life and just wanted you to know that.
Once again so true.
Even an emoji given on your Facebook is a hoover... .he never speaks just gives an emoji and i ignore it every time.
100% on point, exactly what happened
These comments are so funny some of them. I've never laughed so much on a Quinn video and then reading comments after😂🤣
I wish I knew lol, it’s been over two years no contact and I’ve had no direct Hoovers. My social media is deleted/ deactivated
Wow!
My ex always said he is easy to dump and will never bother me, he definitely didn’t lie he has no social media of any sort he doesn’t believe in it, I don’t know why but I’m sad he don’t Hoover but I wouldn’t dare return back to jail
Excellent content
It's Quinn "Pimp-Pimpin'" Qlutchinson coming in clutch with yet another banger!! Thanks for this fr.
👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
If nothing happened to torture me with the 🐕🦺 narcboi was creating chaos & ride to the rescue 🐎⛑️
Why do narcissistic love men and use women to play games with and abused and give everything thy have give and or off together with a man and don't do for a woman salf fish doing woman things with a man so call friend that he surpos to be doing with his woman but want put a man over his woman why is that
Quinn, what if you only have a profile pic up, and your page is PRIVATE!?
Yes! Good question 🤔
Thier friends connected with you watching your socmed..especially myday haha
Please do a video on more in-depth forensic stalking that is so easily accessible and utilized by narcs. Including:
1. Downloading spyware on your phone to view all your photos, text messages, vmail, email, etc. They do not need access to your phone, just your phone number.
2. Downloading apps to hide their devious acts like nude photos and videos and text messages with others. There are hundreds of apps for iPhone and Androids. These apps look and act like the real deal but are decoys. Look up “secret” or “hidden”calculator, vault, or stock market, to name a few. These apps have built in messengers, you can change the icon at anytime, and you can hide the app simply by lifting or moving the phone. You can also program the app to delete messages in a certain timeframe. You have to know the password to get behind the wall to see past the app icon.
3. List all the messaging tools available. Games also have hidden messaging features.
4. So much is talked about dating apps but there’s more savvy options available like Ashley, Escort, Only Fans, etc.
5. Duplicate phones, iPads, and smart watches make it easy to cheat. Don’t assume because the phone is visible and accessible that you’re safe.
6. You can download listening devices off Amazon like phone charges or outlet options that serve as listening devices. I’m sure others exist on the dark web.
7. Your phone and computer camera and microphone can be accessed remotely. Review the owners manual or Google how to shut it off. Ignore the phone company remarks that it’s not possible to tap a device. It is. It happens too often and unless a person has experienced it, they won’t know.
8. Apple makes a chip that can be placed on your suitcase or car in seconds. It’s easy to track you.
9. iPhone built in tracking services like “find my phone” or Google Maps can be used to find you.
There’s many more but these are the lie hanging fruit that victims should be aware of for their protection. PLEASE cover this topic. Technical stalking is not discussed enough yet it is widely used by toxic people.
Lets not forget the iPhone now has an eavesdropping function when connected to bluetooth audio devices. You can listen to the background of wherever your phone is if you’re in range.
The best part is...only God can stop them. There is no privacy or safe space for victims. The world is consumed with darkness and the few real ones are ensnared by these flying monkeys. Just know they ain't shit. God sees everything. Focus all of your energy on you and don't associate. The blessed don't beef with the miserable. What do you know about misery? It LOVES COMPANY. Issa bored whore. Dassit.