Why it's so easy for a narcissist to detach from you like you never existed

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  • @Payday-ky7mb
    @Payday-ky7mb 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Emotionally dead, spiritually dead, morally dead, and financially suspect. They keep their fronts all the way up at all times. Once they are exposed they have to move on quickly to keep the fantasies going. Social media is their breeding grounds. The hurt they try to make others feel is how they feel at all times. They have to inflict pain on others to feel better about themselves. Being alone means they have lost and that feeling of lost hurts more than anything.

  • @RadekTheCourageDog
    @RadekTheCourageDog 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    “Because you never existed.” That hit me hard

  • @browneyes9507
    @browneyes9507 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    They have no choice if you went completely no contact, changed ur number & moved away. Like I did - Trust & believe they don’t ever forget the best they ever had.
    They had someone else on the side anyway ( usually garbage )
    But, Regardless who they with, they must move on they cannot be alone. But if you discard them first, like I did, a narcissist injury will linger 4ever..

  • @sayeda55
    @sayeda55 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Why you became inactive Quinn?I miss your videos.Don't disappear again. ❤️

  • @Mindyourbssb
    @Mindyourbssb 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    His detachment turned out to be my blessing. 3 weeks into the relationship i wanted out. I knew that he had some kind of psych disorder but couldn't determine which one. Until i saw your videos Quinn. Thank you for educating me on this topic. I always thought that there's some humanity in everyone. I was wrong . Now I move with caution. You have given me the tools to smoke em out and and never get caught up again. I'm well along in my healing process and carry no residual residue of their toxicity. Ladies stay alert and keep your boundaries. Your happiness doesn't depend on no one but you. To yourself be true. Be well everyone.

  • @edith4334
    @edith4334 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    For what it's worth they move on in a flash

  • @chriscole5990
    @chriscole5990 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    They really are some crazy people! 😳

  • @odessaclark4882
    @odessaclark4882 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Mentally they're not living in reality!

  • @MJ-yg3cb
    @MJ-yg3cb 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    True. As soon as you break character they ditch you as if you never existed

  • @dwddavidsway71159
    @dwddavidsway71159 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    The actor projector director studies and mirrors to hook you, to their premeditated menu of the cartoon venue they Frankenpsycholy create for you to recreate yo ass! A true horror! The Hook that may Cook a soul . . . Hooked at 16 cooked by 49, 15 years NCGR in a 44 year marriage.
    Quinn, you have a unique ability to articulate the truth in a visual way, a gift brother, thank you so much for sharing your gift with all of us,
    Peace, ~Dwd~

  • @hannahassan2574
    @hannahassan2574 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Omg ..where have you been?..we missed you ❤

  • @Kia-v2p
    @Kia-v2p 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I had move on from no contact never again

  • @talkinfanci
    @talkinfanci 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The truth hurts. This truth surpasses narcissist. People I know have consistently given more credit than I deserve or have under credited me. My ex narc never knew me. It’s painful to know none of it was real, that I never existed 😢I was so foolish & naive & in denial when my gut told me things were off. The hardest part is knowing I’ve been a fool on accident

  • @hauntedsalmon7931
    @hauntedsalmon7931 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    What?! You aren’t the person I fantasized to be in my delusion? So long!

  • @kayserasera6460
    @kayserasera6460 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Hey Quinn. Welcome back! I always wondered about this at first, but once I started to become indifferent to the situation I didn’t care to understand why anymore.

  • @IntegrityMeansAll
    @IntegrityMeansAll 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Hope you’re okay Quinn. It’s been so long since the last video

  • @carolinegriffin3908
    @carolinegriffin3908 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I see this so much in my life. This is so true. You have to be yourself to the end and build on yourself. Stay true to yourself always. You are your own individual, and nothing nothing like them they realize.

  • @spagone77
    @spagone77 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I've been listening since you started keep spitting that truth

  • @susiep.7372
    @susiep.7372 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Wow, that's a great one !! It shows how disturbed they are. Good to hear from you again Quinn !! I hope you are doing good !!

  • @ericalashan1923
    @ericalashan1923 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I'm free 😊.. as soon as they see u being u its done....lol. When u call them on their ish they are done...."What about me?... then screw u!"...then...."can we talk...can I just look into ur eyes" 😅

  • @mimi4pdx
    @mimi4pdx 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Quinn! Long time no see. Wow I just lived through every word you just spoke. I couldn't BELIEVE how fast I was dismissed! Not just by her (my supposed BFF of 25+ years) but by everyone in her crew it seems like. No telling what character bashing she put out on me. I think she also tried to set me up to be physically hurt too. The breakup process was such a shock to her, it was like a reality show. But I don't care. I tested HER character and she failed miserably. Not just her, but once I got ALL of the haters out my life and only kept the people who truly wants to see me succeed, my life has been lovely and moving alot faster!! Wish I would have recognized them earlier. Thanks Quinn.... you were right on the money again 🥰👍

  • @karlov13
    @karlov13 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Excellent video! Glad that you are back.

  • @shaunnaR
    @shaunnaR 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Great video! Welcome back!

  • @whenthasmokeclears
    @whenthasmokeclears 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes! Sam Vaknin has touched on this many times.

  • @uniquedawn2183
    @uniquedawn2183 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Well Worded! 💯

  • @BlondeVolDoll
    @BlondeVolDoll 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Such a great question. I have also wondered

  • @elocinselig3327
    @elocinselig3327 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He just ghosted me and his Mom again because we weren't letting him get over. I can understand me but he ghost his mother all the time.

  • @danasmith8390
    @danasmith8390 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Spot on explanation much appreciated

  • @liltoenail7476
    @liltoenail7476 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Miss you Quin

  • @palomahair8616
    @palomahair8616 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Best is not wonder can drive u crazy in that process

  • @b.tabati911
    @b.tabati911 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Always nailing it Q… makes so much sense… Thank you and take care!🙏🏽

  • @jesperandersson889
    @jesperandersson889 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you ARE the radio voice spannnxxxx!!!

  • @theresalyde9663
    @theresalyde9663 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤Miss you Quinn 🙏 welcome back 🙏 God bless 🙌 you ❤️.

  • @ursulanicholson5166
    @ursulanicholson5166 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @koconutkirby4135
    @koconutkirby4135 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    These are so informative I’ve been subscribed for years in still learning ❤