Binding : If the Narcissist Was Honest

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 ม.ค. 2025
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    The narcissist must bind you to him or her. If the narcissist was honest about why this is done, what purposes it serves and how you are regarded with respect to that binding, what would the narcissist say? Time for you to find out.
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ความคิดเห็น • 31

  • @No-Name-f8p
    @No-Name-f8p 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I really was “in the center, on the pedestal of an illusion!” 👺

  • @sarahsilver4008
    @sarahsilver4008 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    He fooled me and hurt me, but I got out very quickly. I realised almost immediately when the devalue/discard phase began, but I was so confused and in shock that it took a couple of months for it to sink in. During that time, I told him I would not participate in merry-go-round conversations or gaslighting, which did not go down too well. He actually "indirectly" confessed that he was "maybe" a narcissist, he recounted his childhood and relationship with his mother, and how he disassociated, and that he had a habit of wrecking peoples' lives. He became hell, cold, twisted, manipulative--another person entirely. I loved the person I thought he was and am still ruminating even now, I admit, but I will not go back. He is trying to hoover but I am not letting him back in. I fell out of love with him as soon as I fully took on board what he was, but had to spend 45 days at his house because at that point I had lost my home. It was extremely painful but I understood that none of it had been real and that somehow made it easier. A month and a half after breaking away I still feel wounded but it gets better every day. In my eyes I am sovereign and he has no right to my energy.

  • @flapper27
    @flapper27 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Thank you for these marvelous videos, HG! 💜

  • @rahoche3
    @rahoche3 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    All true and disheartening. Even after escape, the ties remain longer than one would like. It seems they will always be there, perhaps in a lesser form after time, but there none the less. Thank you, HG, as always.

  • @ihdtdd
    @ihdtdd 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Entertaining them in your mind is binding them to you. Financial hardships resulting from the narcissist is also binding. Continual slander of you, they also bind you, you're unable to control. GOSO and know it's a heroic move and will over time, sometimes decades, pay off.

    • @davidarundel6187
      @davidarundel6187 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Its worked very well on both , the landlords staff - All of them - and the neighbour's, in 3 blocks of about 200 flats - some have taken a while to learn , not to mess me around , while working , or visiting freinds in said blocks .
      Pets , farm animals and birds , all know their friend's, so to speak as they don't fly off but stay near .

    • @user-yts-x8g
      @user-yts-x8g 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@davidarundel6187 Sorry about that, sounds rough. Apartments or co-op complexes can be rough with limitations on people's individually and narcissists looking for fuel, especially when they have power on a condo board in a position to slander and impose fines to extort money.

  • @maryarchangel2131
    @maryarchangel2131 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Demons work through the narcissist to steal your soul

  • @bonnielee7134
    @bonnielee7134 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Hi H.G. You say, “ bound to the hope “. I just recently saw, in a comment section, someone call that, hopium. Hahaha!

    • @lorishu48103
      @lorishu48103 วันที่ผ่านมา

      A prisoner of hope - Zachariah

  • @MargaretM-vd7bb
    @MargaretM-vd7bb 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    These Videos need to be listened to before you enter into a Relatioship. Thankyou for your Honest Analysis HG.❤️🌻

  • @חנהכהן-ד9ר
    @חנהכהן-ד9ר 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Superb description!

  • @monka124
    @monka124 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    It's a question of lust
    It's a question of trust...
    Dave with his panty dropper voice with those beats that always bring trouble and fun. Much like you, I imagine.

  • @tamaradelaney5160
    @tamaradelaney5160 วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's interesting to hear what they're thinking, except I did none of these things.
    After 21years, there was zero longing.

  • @mariemohan2383
    @mariemohan2383 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yes..yes.. feel nothing…smh..True…Gio Mee - IS THIS THE WAY 🎶🎼😏

  • @ihdtdd
    @ihdtdd 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    No you can't keep a toothbrush here, take it with you or the cleaning fairy will throw it away.

  • @matthewmason2793
    @matthewmason2793 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I sure can't wait to find out what happens to Ashleigh and Wynn, now that their relationship is about to tail spin...

    • @lorishu48103
      @lorishu48103 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Me too I been waiting ?!!!

  • @silent_lucidity6375
    @silent_lucidity6375 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This world and all the characters in it is akin to a computer game gone amuck..
    Time to change the "program"....

  • @justanopinion_really
    @justanopinion_really วันที่ผ่านมา

    HG, as a narcissist how do you reconcile the empowerment you give those of us who have been victimized by a narcissist(s).

  • @bonnielee7134
    @bonnielee7134 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Yeah. Well. What can I say? Just a sad reminder of what a shit show, that I went through as an unfortunate part of my healing journey.
    I wondered, was the love bomb inside of me? And, your ties, were really my ties because I wanted control.

  • @nobodynobody695
    @nobodynobody695 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

  • @Leah-i1e
    @Leah-i1e 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Sounds childish to me.

    • @No-Name-f8p
      @No-Name-f8p 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I fell for it 😮

  • @No-Name-f8p
    @No-Name-f8p 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I said, “Leave now and take the cheap food you put in my refrigerator with you!” 🫵🏾