Narcissistic rage can blind a narcissist into accidentally killing someone. I have witnessed this. To push someone over the edge into suicide and feeling victorious that they caused it, is extremely sick. Extremely strange. But, ultimately if you are dead, they can't use you anymore.
So true about being deceased . Among my neighbours , were 3 who managed to be the top 3 for complaints , due to their narcassisim - 2 of the three , were responseable for 18 murders , and several malicious evictions by equally narcassistic staff in the landlords office . Only 2 of the 18 deaths , went to court , and gag orders , successfully gained by the landlords staff . I am at present n a circular conversation with them , and seeking a lawyer , to deal with them , as I've had enough of the attacks , stalkings , burglarys etc .
I respect your opinion, HG, but there are many narcissists and psychopaths who do mean their threats and do act on them, especially when they perceive a loss of control.
A relative constantly tries to undermine me, trying to make me look stupid, unreliable, takes every opportunity to prove me wrong, them right, me weak them strong. You say it in one word: devalue.
My narc ex planned to kill me. A flat tire stopped his plot. He then attempted to hire people to kill me, but they sent a message to let me know he was off the deep end. Narc actually admitted he planned to hire someone to kidnap and SA me for a week before delivering my severed head in a box. I am confident in my purpose in this life and never feared him because I knew that despite his real threats, I have divine protection. Dying at his hands is not part of my soul plan. Everything he tried to do backfired on him, much like That One's Wife.
@@Sally-nse2 Thank you for asking. All good. I never feared ex, which was why he hated me. I knew that no.matter what he tried to do, my purpose is greater than his hatred of me.
Divorced a (greater) psychopathic narcissist 7 years ago. I became a useless appliance with fibromyalgia however I was earning disability income, in a house that was paid for and was looking to inherit a bit of money.. He couldn't sustain stable income so it was about money for him. No threats, however he said he "had a sick wife" online. At the end, he sat on the edge of my bed when I said that I think I needed to go somewhere (for psychiatric help). He just stared at me. That probably would have suited him. Ugh!! Solid NC for over 6 years, after he hacked into my checking account and stole money. I had started dating someone and he was furious, despite what HE had done. I had remained calm and called the fraud department. He's remarried and has stayed away from me. I still have fibromyalgia but am sane and single now.
I am hopeful your fibromyalgia is being managed as well as it can be, although if you were found eligible for disability benefits it must already have a significant impact on your life. Wishing you well. (I have a related disease, secondary progressive MS. It's been life-changing. )
As HG explained there are many narcissists who do not actually kill however thanks to this video I can see that I really was in danger before I escaped 33 years ago. It only recently dawned on me (how blinded could I have been?) that the puncturing of something in the car engine thus allowing petrol to spill onto the hot engine and the only. Other person with access to open the bonnet was my husband at the time. Then I had a moped because he wanted the car. The brakes were tampered with mysteriously. After I got away he threatened to firebomb my house and run me off the road, lurking outside my office and spying on me. Thank you HG this is double confirmation that I was not going mad.
My narc left a message on my answer phone telling me, you made a mistake, now you die. A few days later he cut the brakes on my car. Luckily I noticed dull braking and went to the garage. I then moved away a few weeks after that in the one time I knew he was out of town. I went grey rock with everyone to protect myself.
I learned from you HG, that to the narcissist that I was with, the threat itself was more powerful to him, than him actually executing it. That is powerful knowledge, and it has helped me become less fearful and less anxious. Thank you 🥇
Excellent review, HG. This video, plus the video: The Narcissist And Threats, are so informative and exemplify the level of accuracy in your work compared to other so called "experts" on narcissism.
I'm writing a crime story with narcissistic characters and I find your vids an absolute treasure trove of information for realistic character development. Thanks HG!
My x BPD Narc, hung me from a tree. He is convinced of kidnapping n attempted murder. He managed to out-wit the local law, which isn't difficult. And is now 'on the run' with a warrant.
Would they kill you if they already had a assault against an ex gf on there record, they'd regularly strangle to the point of passing out, when you finished with them over the phone they said I was worth going down for, also know they'd drove past the house (I'd luckily moved out of) when he started stalking online with fake accounts, he'd be more violent in the bedroom, I take disability medicine that makes me very drozy, and I've been been crying begging for him to stop? It's only the 1 I got away from 3 years ago, got a restraing order for 6 months when I had a breakdown, he called me out of nowhere the other week, stopped it ringing and deleted the call, why did he call? Will he again? I feel sick with worry I've not gotten rid of him😢
Regarding 'rivals' (business / commercial / political) - it has been interesting to observe updates on the ongoing covid.inquiry and see who is 'slaying' who, including reputations of others. Thank you for reposting this video HG 🤍
Narcissistic rage can blind a narcissist into accidentally killing someone. I have witnessed this.
To push someone over the edge into suicide and feeling victorious that they caused it, is extremely sick. Extremely strange.
But, ultimately if you are dead, they can't use you anymore.
So true about being deceased .
Among my neighbours , were 3 who managed to be the top 3 for complaints , due to their narcassisim - 2 of the three , were responseable for 18 murders , and several malicious evictions by equally narcassistic staff in the landlords office .
Only 2 of the 18 deaths , went to court , and gag orders , successfully gained by the landlords staff .
I am at present n a circular conversation with them , and seeking a lawyer , to deal with them , as I've had enough of the attacks , stalkings , burglarys etc .
I respect your opinion, HG, but there are many narcissists and psychopaths who do mean their threats and do act on them, especially when they perceive a loss of control.
A relative constantly tries to undermine me, trying to make me look stupid, unreliable, takes every opportunity to prove me wrong, them right, me weak them strong. You say it in one word: devalue.
my ex narcs wife did die and now i believe he drove her to it while pretending to be the hero
My mum's 2nd hubby , was like that - mum was his second victim .
@@davidarundel6187 oh gosh horrible...they seem to get away with it!
My narc ex planned to kill me. A flat tire stopped his plot. He then attempted to hire people to kill me, but they sent a message to let me know he was off the deep end. Narc actually admitted he planned to hire someone to kidnap and SA me for a week before delivering my severed head in a box.
I am confident in my purpose in this life and never feared him because I knew that despite his real threats, I have divine protection. Dying at his hands is not part of my soul plan. Everything he tried to do backfired on him, much like That One's Wife.
Jesus I’m glad you survived, are you ok/safe now? If you don’t mind me asking
@@Sally-nse2 Thank you for asking. All good. I never feared ex, which was why he hated me. I knew that no.matter what he tried to do, my purpose is greater than his hatred of me.
Well.. the dead don't talk. Then they can say whatever story fits their needs.
Divorced a (greater) psychopathic narcissist 7 years ago. I became a useless appliance with fibromyalgia however I was earning disability income, in a house that was paid for and was looking to inherit a bit of money.. He couldn't sustain stable income so it was about money for him. No threats, however he said he "had a sick wife" online. At the end, he sat on the edge of my bed when I said that I think I needed to go somewhere (for psychiatric help). He just stared at me. That probably would have suited him. Ugh!! Solid NC for over 6 years, after he hacked into my checking account and stole money. I had started dating someone and he was furious, despite what HE had done. I had remained calm and called the fraud department. He's remarried and has stayed away from me. I still have fibromyalgia but am sane and single now.
Sad to hear of your Fibromyalgia . I hope you are able to find releif from the condition - a Freind passed from it & cancer , 5 years back .
@@davidarundel6187 Sorry to hear that. What kind of Cancer was it? Luckily fibromyalgia does not get worse over time 😊
Fibromyalgia can be helped with homeopathic remedies but they do cost money. Start out by googling essntial oils for fibromyalgia.
I am hopeful your fibromyalgia is being managed as well as it can be, although if you were found eligible for disability benefits it must already have a significant impact on your life. Wishing you well. (I have a related disease, secondary progressive MS. It's been life-changing. )
..a greater that could not sustain a stable income?
I just can’t share your channel enough with the ladies in my life. Knowledge is power thank you
Not only for ladies. It works both ways as I’m now learning, indirectly. Thanks to HG.
As HG explained there are many narcissists who do not actually kill however thanks to this video I can see that I really was in danger before I escaped 33 years ago. It only recently dawned on me (how blinded could I have been?) that the puncturing of something in the car engine thus allowing petrol to spill onto the hot engine and the only. Other person with access to open the bonnet was my husband at the time. Then I had a moped because he wanted the car. The brakes were tampered with mysteriously. After I got away he threatened to firebomb my house and run me off the road, lurking outside my office and spying on me. Thank you HG this is double confirmation that I was not going mad.
My narc left a message on my answer phone telling me, you made a mistake, now you die.
A few days later he cut the brakes on my car. Luckily I noticed dull braking and went to the garage.
I then moved away a few weeks after that in the one time I knew he was out of town.
I went grey rock with everyone to protect myself.
I learned from you HG, that to the narcissist that I was with, the threat itself was more powerful to him, than him actually executing it.
That is powerful knowledge, and it has helped me become less fearful and less anxious.
Thank you 🥇
My mom tried to kill me
Excellent review, HG. This video, plus the video: The Narcissist And Threats, are so informative and exemplify the level of accuracy in your work compared to other so called "experts" on narcissism.
Kintsugi❤
I am much more valuable after I have been broken.♥️
I'm writing a crime story with narcissistic characters and I find your vids an absolute treasure trove of information for realistic character development. Thanks HG!
Congratulation with the 200.000 milestone🤩 May this number continue to rise exponentially 🤞
I would or could not understand this dynamics, but thank you for sharing the wisdom of your world.
"Nosey law enforcement" 😂😂😂
My x BPD Narc, hung me from a tree. He is convinced of kidnapping n attempted murder.
He managed to out-wit the local law, which isn't difficult. And is now 'on the run' with a warrant.
Yup
Would they kill you if they already had a assault against an ex gf on there record, they'd regularly strangle to the point of passing out, when you finished with them over the phone they said I was worth going down for, also know they'd drove past the house (I'd luckily moved out of) when he started stalking online with fake accounts, he'd be more violent in the bedroom, I take disability medicine that makes me very drozy, and I've been been crying begging for him to stop? It's only the 1 I got away from 3 years ago, got a restraing order for 6 months when I had a breakdown, he called me out of nowhere the other week, stopped it ringing and deleted the call, why did he call? Will he again? I feel sick with worry I've not gotten rid of him😢
Regarding 'rivals' (business / commercial / political) - it has been interesting to observe updates on the ongoing covid.inquiry and see who is 'slaying' who, including reputations of others. Thank you for reposting this video HG 🤍