The Abusive Ex Syndrome. The non narc won’t dump all the specifics immediately. The narcissist will. * Triangulation * Smearing * Pity Play (Control And Fuel) 🚩 🖤 Thank You HG Tudor.
This turning of the tables by the narcissist is frightening. How many have gotten away with crimes such as murder? Or are they unmasked during cross examination or not?
This goes with friendships as well. The release of events, the embellishment for pity play, and control fuel. I see this with a LOT of You Tube Creators who are either unaware or are aware and use it strictly to control their audience. Thank you, HG. 😎
I'm not calling them all narcissists, but all my life people have told me the most personal information or stories very shortly after the initial hello. Ive felt like a street therapist since i can remember and though it can be annoying, rude, bad timing, or simply too much, i genuinely care so i take them seriously and listen.
HG, How do you tell the difference between a narc smearing their ex and an empath or normal telling about their abusive ex? Thank you for providing the answer in this video, HG. ❤❤xx
@Rebeccax0x0 this is a very good question. I've been in and out of narcissist survivor groups for years and they are full of attention and sympathy seekers claiming they never did a thing wrong. Many of them are unaware covert narcissists. I went through a ton of soul searching and saw that I repeatedly overlooked red flags and accepted awful behaviour because of my own issues. It's not to say we are to blame. Only that we need to look at our own behaviour first if we want to improve our outcomes.
In a more direct answer a narc will only do a basic self analysis and will come to the conclusion that they are mostly blameless no matter the facts. Most other people will start out this way, then realise we contributed to our own downfall.
When listening to this, it seems as if the recipient of the abusive information should do no more than a curt nod to stave off any inadvertent fuel. Obviously, that wouldn't happen. We, with sympathetic hearts, feel for those done wrong (or supposedly done wrong), enter emotional thinking. Quite the conundrum. ❤
I actually feel some degree of sorrow for Narcissists... I am sure when these individuals were born they would not have chosen to have been raised in a "Lack of control environment" with physical, verbal, s*xual abuse, Grade B syndrome, etc, and not been born with a brain that was genetically predisposed towards Narcissism inherited from one or both of the parents. The "Lack of control" environment in the development years is what... "Does the irreversible damage" Thank you so much for this channel, HG Tudor.
My family member was born with a genetic strain of narcissism and then was spoilt rotten as a child. I do not feel sorry for them. The harm, hurt and division they have created within the family has been horrendous.
The Abusive Ex Syndrome.
The non narc won’t dump
all the specifics immediately.
The narcissist will.
* Triangulation
* Smearing
* Pity Play
(Control And Fuel)
🚩
🖤 Thank You HG Tudor.
This turning of the tables by the narcissist is frightening. How many have gotten away with crimes such as murder?
Or are they unmasked during cross examination or not?
This goes with friendships as well. The release of events, the embellishment for pity play, and control fuel. I see this with a LOT of You Tube Creators who are either unaware or are aware and use it strictly to control their audience. Thank you, HG. 😎
I found this video extremely interesting, insightful and useful. A resourceful tool to utilise in the future. Thank you for the videos today, HG 💟
Thank you, HG! 💜Yes, this video covers friends or in my case, former friends.
Thankyou HG.❤️🌻
I'm not calling them all narcissists, but all my life people have told me the most personal information or stories very shortly after the initial hello. Ive felt like a street therapist since i can remember and though it can be annoying, rude, bad timing, or simply too much, i genuinely care so i take them seriously and listen.
HG, How do you tell the difference between a narc smearing their ex and an empath or normal telling about their abusive ex? Thank you for providing the answer in this video, HG. ❤❤xx
@Rebeccax0x0 this is a very good question. I've been in and out of narcissist survivor groups for years and they are full of attention and sympathy seekers claiming they never did a thing wrong. Many of them are unaware covert narcissists.
I went through a ton of soul searching and saw that I repeatedly overlooked red flags and accepted awful behaviour because of my own issues. It's not to say we are to blame. Only that we need to look at our own behaviour first if we want to improve our outcomes.
In a more direct answer a narc will only do a basic self analysis and will come to the conclusion that they are mostly blameless no matter the facts. Most other people will start out this way, then realise we contributed to our own downfall.
When listening to this, it seems as if the recipient of the abusive information should do no more than a curt nod to stave off any inadvertent fuel. Obviously, that wouldn't happen. We, with sympathetic hearts, feel for those done wrong (or supposedly done wrong), enter emotional thinking. Quite the conundrum. ❤
Noteworthy! Thank you Hgt!
Cheers 🎉
When they are finally your ex, you have to ask yourself why? 😁😁👌🤣
I actually feel some degree of sorrow for Narcissists... I am sure when these individuals were born they would not have chosen to have been raised in a "Lack of control environment" with physical, verbal, s*xual abuse, Grade B syndrome, etc, and not been born with a brain that was genetically predisposed towards Narcissism inherited from one or both of the parents.
The "Lack of control" environment in the development years is what... "Does the irreversible damage"
Thank you so much for this channel, HG Tudor.
My family member was born with a genetic strain of narcissism and then was spoilt rotten as a child. I do not feel sorry for them. The harm, hurt and division they have created within the family has been horrendous.
100% Facts
I don’t speak about my ex cuz why waste anymore of my time on him. Plus, I’m not that weak.
What happened to HG's other channel of TOW ?? There are no new videos there ?