Thank God I had distanced myself from my jr. High best frenemy by college. I didn't know she was a narcissist; just knew I was happier around other people or just alone.
Funny how asserting control for a narcissist is actually deniing theyre own feelings and make some excuse in their head that fits the arrogant narrative. Its still an illusion
Too late. I did tell the narc, but it was after 2 years. I resurfaced, she tried to hoover, and i asserted a boundary. This was a provokation and a mistake i suppose. I fully expect another massive smear. I don't want to have any contact and I'm impervious, but the damage is to my social life and mutual friends. But you really cant win whatever you do. The narc is awfully far gone. Yes I see she gets fuel from any drama or support she can derive from it. I got quite a frenzied attempt to control for a secondary source. I think by now she knows I won't be hoovered but she can milk the situation.
I didn’t think I’d ever been ensnared but you pretty much just described my on/off relationship of the last 23 years!!!
Yes, H G can be quite a revelation.
@ no kidding!!!
How could you NOT know you're in an abusive relationship (on and off) for 23 years?
On and off is def abusive !! 🎉 repeated broken Boundaries and no change in behavior that’s manipulation
Thank you, HG. Always a good refresher!!
Thank you, sir. Much appreciated. I hope you had a wonderful Christmas.
Drunk deep at the well of Tudor .. I chuckled .. 😆
I dodged 3 secondary source Narcs this year 😂, thanks to HG Tudor’s videos and 1 audio consultation.
Thanks HG
Thankyou HG.❤️🌻
Elementary my dear Watson!
Not elementary to most folks 🙄
Thank God I had distanced myself from my jr. High best frenemy by college. I didn't know she was a narcissist; just knew I was happier around other people or just alone.
Thank you for these videos, HG! 💜
Excellent advice, HGT🌹🤍
Comprehensive explanation to-boot.🙂👍
Solid no contact 👍👍👍
HG❤👋👋👋
Funny how asserting control for a narcissist is actually deniing theyre own feelings and make some excuse in their head that fits the arrogant narrative. Its still an illusion
Too late. I did tell the narc, but it was after 2 years. I resurfaced, she tried to hoover, and i asserted a boundary. This was a provokation and a mistake i suppose. I fully expect another massive smear. I don't want to have any contact and I'm impervious, but the damage is to my social life and mutual friends.
But you really cant win whatever you do. The narc is awfully far gone. Yes I see she gets fuel from any drama or support she can derive from it. I got quite a frenzied attempt to control for a secondary source. I think by now she knows I won't be hoovered but she can milk the situation.
Never will this bloody narc leave me alone because this is a control issue. I am prepared to walk away.
If you dump them they reach out again to dump you!
HG. Have you seen the video of New York State Correction officer's beating a man to death ? It's headline news. Can you do videos on that please.
Do you all have Wal mart in GB?