For anyone who has anxiety or wants to know more about anxiety in black women. PLEASE READ Soothe Your Nerves The Black Woman's Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Anxiety, Panic and Fear by Dr. Angela Neal-Barnett. 10/10 amazing book for Black Women who are healing and interested in understanding Black women's mental health 👏👌🏾
Whatever is meant for you will always find its way so you have to take it easy and get rid of the feeling of disappointment if you don't get what you want. It simply means it's not meant for you. Life is a flow. Just go with it.
Bestie my state of flow was magical. Just got of the toxic relationship that needed to be X’d frfr and I took some time to myself. 3 months of a vacation-ish between semesters and started to finesse and manifest and dream job ,higher pay, promotion, and new bae in 3 months following my hiatus. It all came to me. Boom boom boom. Back to back. I’m looking stuck like wtf looking back like I didn’t just do what you been preaching without knowing. It was a BLESSING. It was Magical 😫😫💕💕
i am also in my era where I understood that I am no longer a corporate baddie, and now I have launched my own podcast on spotify and youtube, and launched a small book on my instagram - i am so hopeful and happy, my ideas are FLOWING. YAYY!
I hit 50k subs in two months which is super exciting but I was struggling with finding that flow as you say, but this video came at just the right time. Thank you!
This is our magic spiral: flow brings happiness and happiness brings flow. Our inner decision brings us closer. Happy flow to all of you and please stay there as long as you can. Much love 💕 Matthias 👋
I needed this talk because I am always getting in my own way . The Logical side of me . And I want to do so much but then the logical side and anxiety gets to me and I just need to breath through it and remember to hold on to my faith . ❤
100% could relate to you about everything in this video..especially about working at a job that feels so forced (done that for the past 10 years)..but I also hit rock bottom a month ago and end up quitting my job. Now I am taking a bet on myself and doing what I love which is creating content. It doesn't feel forced rather feels so right to me..
I just needed to take a moment to tell you that you're amazing. I grew up in a family with an extreme scarcity mindset and your abundance mindset video and subsequent videos like this one have really helped me step away from that and towards the life that God has always intended for me. Keep being you B! -V
Yes I've seen this with some of my friendships/relationships in the past. One of my best friend's I have I met her at work and would talk all the time but never hung outside of work until a full year later. Our friendship feels very natural & I feel like we could hang out all day and talk about absolutely anything and not feel shame or embarrassed. But with a different friend I had, it was a completely different story. She had just moved to the city I was living in at the time and we met at a service activity. We got each others numbers and started hanging out right away. I was struggling with friends at the time so I feel like we would just hang out cuz we didn't have really anyone else to do stuff with. We spent a few holidays together like New Years & 4th of July together and those memories are honestly awful! That friendship ended, but it was mutual. The last experience I'm gonna share happened in January when I started dating this new guy. I felt so confused & anxious! I literally wrote in my notes that I felt like I was in an ocean, swimming against the waves trying to make this work, when I should just let my real feelings flow And break it off. But then I decided to give it another shot and I erased that note on my phone🤦♀But that only continued the anxiety of knowing that this isn't the right person for me. So anyways, TRUST your gut and stick with things that feel right for you & your life, and revaluate the things that feel like are weighing you down.
Your videos always come at just the right time, I swear! I’m literally right at this phase, telling myself everything I want is literally right around the corner and I’m staying in ready mode because it’s coming. therefore I am acting as if and enjoying each day as it comes. Thank you Bria ❤
Hello Brains and Beauty, I would like to thank you for this one. I am currently in this. Was in corporate America, God said nope but my conversation with Him was Lord, I still need an income so I went back in as a temp, He said nope again. I love creating content on my channel, but I need an income. Something monumental will happen in my favor, when He decides. So honestly, I so appreciated this and I know I have to just follow His lead. I'm a Virgo, so my 1st name is Logic 🤦🏽♀🙃😄I'm trying to be an obedient child of God by sitting still and listening. So this was for me, thank you so much for this! New subbie here 🙋🏽♀
Just experienced a life changing event it was amazing and my tarot lady said confirmation is I would hear fireworks and I did then got invited to help run prestigious event so amazing magic is real !
I wanna say Bestie B your content has really been helping me. This is my second video today! And I just saw a Snapchat story all about you. Your the #blueprint!!
As I’m sitting here on break, at my corporate job, this video really resonates with me. I’ve been in a box, for 10 years (only 29 mind you lol) and I’m over it. Thank you for this reminder, it’s time to grow 🌻🙏🏾
Honestly whenever I’m single I’m in flow. And all of my relationships have felt forced. So maybe that’s a pattern I should start looking at more carefully 😭
GIRL! I love this. Especially the part about control… I learned in therapy that controlling situations (whether consciously or subconsciously) is a way to protect ourselves from pain, protect our ego. Ego stifles creativity and new ways of doing things. Everything you said was so spot on 🤍
As a new TH-camr, i needed to hear that. I have been posting everyday when I made a decision to be more active on TH-cam and I found myself discouraged after posting over 300 videos with minimal growth so I'm learning to take it easy and open myself up to more possibilities instead Great video
Thank you so much for this video! It’s so scary letting go and not having that expectation attached to the outcome and instead just having more fun through the process! It’s terrifying! I just needed this to know I’m not crazy trying to pursue my passions ❤
Hi Bria, new subscriber here, you are amazing. Thank you so much for opening my eyes in finding out that I'm getting in my own way and that I need to get myself into flow!
I really enjoyed this! Thank you for the reminder and the positivity. This really made me feel empowered and inspired. Proud of you and can't wait for the next video 💚✨
So this is an interesting question. My thoughts can be negative but I would still attract favor. For example, I would dread that my coworkers would be mean to me and ignore me, but they end up being so sweet and nice and attentive this whole year. Then last week there was a contest that I initially refused to do because I thought I would not get any prize at all and I would just embarrass myself. But I ended up playing the game and won a years supply of hair products, spa treatments, free seminars and more! This was all the while I was having negative and jealous thoughts. So now I’m very confused. Is it that deep down, in the midst of my negative thoughts, that I believe I am actually lucky? A lot of these videos say what you think is what you get but if that was the case, why are good things happening when I have negative thoughts?
Having negative thoughts come up is completely normal.. It’s when you ponder on them and let them take over your mind for prolonged period of time when it is an issue. In your case you actually reacted well to your negative thoughts, it did not ultimately stop you from taking any action which is what everyone needs to learn to master :)
Definitely have to believe it, that's what I have a problem with, believing. I’m glad that I am seeing people making a career out of content creating, never would have thought that. Now with examples I can see that it is possible for me in the future.
this video was perfect for me!! I've been trying to "force myself" back into being consistent on social media, but I needed to think back to when my flow was the best- when I first started I was doing vids 2x a week for months, because I wasn't overthinking it and overcomparing every video idea. Because filming & editing & sharing my content, is truly what makes me the happiest 🤍
For anyone who has anxiety or wants to know more about anxiety in black women. PLEASE READ Soothe Your Nerves The Black Woman's Guide to Understanding and Overcoming Anxiety, Panic and Fear by Dr. Angela Neal-Barnett. 10/10 amazing book for Black Women who are healing and interested in understanding Black women's mental health 👏👌🏾
Thank you!!!!!
Thank you so much!!!
Thank you! Struggling sooo hard right now.😢
Why is it specifically black women?
@noulakouakou3712 Ever heard of cultural competence?
As i'm listening, I'm feeling my mind clear. Things are always working out in our favor. What's for you won't miss you!
Whatever is meant for you will always find its way so you have to take it easy and get rid of the feeling of disappointment if you don't get what you want. It simply means it's not meant for you. Life is a flow. Just go with it.
Bestie my state of flow was magical. Just got of the toxic relationship that needed to be X’d frfr and I took some time to myself. 3 months of a vacation-ish between semesters and started to finesse and manifest and dream job ,higher pay, promotion, and new bae in 3 months following my hiatus. It all came to me. Boom boom boom. Back to back. I’m looking stuck like wtf looking back like I didn’t just do what you been preaching without knowing. It was a BLESSING. It was Magical 😫😫💕💕
I totally feel in a state of flow when I'm creating... videos, writing, cooking, all of it. gotta follow the path of least resistance
This was me. Corporate wasn’t for me, I didn’t push it. I enjoyed home economics, Creating brings me joy and purpose.
Hair, skin, nails are beautiful... What a stunning topic of today.
Omg you remembered Ramadan!!! Thank youuu🥰🥰🥰🥰
i am also in my era where I understood that I am no longer a corporate baddie, and now I have launched my own podcast on spotify and youtube, and launched a small book on my instagram - i am so hopeful and happy, my ideas are FLOWING. YAYY!
I hit 50k subs in two months which is super exciting but I was struggling with finding that flow as you say, but this video came at just the right time. Thank you!
Can you share your top tips on how!?😅 that’s amazing
This is our magic spiral:
flow brings happiness and happiness brings flow.
Our inner decision brings us closer.
Happy flow to all of you and please stay there as long as you can.
Much love 💕
Matthias 👋
I needed this talk because I am always getting in my own way . The Logical side of me . And I want to do so much but then the logical side and anxiety gets to me and I just need to breath through it and remember to hold on to my faith . ❤
100% could relate to you about everything in this video..especially about working at a job that feels so forced (done that for the past 10 years)..but I also hit rock bottom a month ago and end up quitting my job. Now I am taking a bet on myself and doing what I love which is creating content. It doesn't feel forced rather feels so right to me..
Needed this video today as I’m feeling in a little bit of a funk with growing my TH-cam channel. Thanks for the awesome insight as always! ❤
same i've given up on the long form conent, i'm just gonna post my mini videos and keep it pushing
You real close to that 1k just keep pushing you got this💪
Best of luck
I just needed to take a moment to tell you that you're amazing. I grew up in a family with an extreme scarcity mindset and your abundance mindset video and subsequent videos like this one have really helped me step away from that and towards the life that God has always intended for me. Keep being you B! -V
Yes I've seen this with some of my friendships/relationships in the past. One of my best friend's I have I met her at work and would talk all the time but never hung outside of work until a full year later. Our friendship feels very natural & I feel like we could hang out all day and talk about absolutely anything and not feel shame or embarrassed. But with a different friend I had, it was a completely different story. She had just moved to the city I was living in at the time and we met at a service activity. We got each others numbers and started hanging out right away. I was struggling with friends at the time so I feel like we would just hang out cuz we didn't have really anyone else to do stuff with. We spent a few holidays together like New Years & 4th of July together and those memories are honestly awful! That friendship ended, but it was mutual.
The last experience I'm gonna share happened in January when I started dating this new guy. I felt so confused & anxious! I literally wrote in my notes that I felt like I was in an ocean, swimming against the waves trying to make this work, when I should just let my real feelings flow And break it off. But then I decided to give it another shot and I erased that note on my phone🤦♀But that only continued the anxiety of knowing that this isn't the right person for me. So anyways, TRUST your gut and stick with things that feel right for you & your life, and revaluate the things that feel like are weighing you down.
Your videos always come at just the right time, I swear! I’m literally right at this phase, telling myself everything I want is literally right around the corner and I’m staying in ready mode because it’s coming. therefore I am acting as if and enjoying each day as it comes. Thank you Bria ❤
I AGREE 100% YASSSSSS I APPRECIATE YOU BESTIE B & IMAN THANK YOU FOR TAKING THE WORDS RIGHT OUT OF MY MOUTH - LOVE SENT
Thanks Bria :) You are a G. Been telling myself: if you want to have a miracle you have to allow miracles into your mind
Hello Brains and Beauty, I would like to thank you for this one. I am currently in this. Was in corporate America, God said nope but my conversation with Him was Lord, I still need an income so I went back in as a temp, He said nope again. I love creating content on my channel, but I need an income. Something monumental will happen in my favor, when He decides. So honestly, I so appreciated this and I know I have to just follow His lead. I'm a Virgo, so my 1st name is Logic 🤦🏽♀🙃😄I'm trying to be an obedient child of God by sitting still and listening. So this was for me, thank you so much for this! New subbie here 🙋🏽♀
Just experienced a life changing event it was amazing and my tarot lady said confirmation is I would hear fireworks and I did then got invited to help run prestigious event so amazing magic is real !
Girl I just found you and your videos bring me SO MUCH PEACE and knowledge! It's like you get exactly what's going on in my head. Thank you!
Ugh growing my TH-cam has been such a process but your videos always make me see there’s light at the end of the tunnel
Hi Alexis. Happy Saturday! I’m going to subscribe to your channel now 💜
@@ysannel2728 Omg That’s so sweet Ysanne! I can’t thank you enough! I hope you enjoy and stick around!
@@AlexisBelon It’s my pleasure Alexis! Can’t wait to see your amazing content.🫶🏾
Me too! Feels like an uphill battle always
I wanna say Bestie B your content has really been helping me. This is my second video today! And I just saw a Snapchat story all about you. Your the #blueprint!!
As I’m sitting here on break, at my corporate job, this video really resonates with me. I’ve been in a box, for 10 years (only 29 mind you lol) and I’m over it. Thank you for this reminder, it’s time to grow 🌻🙏🏾
istg your videos are divinely timed for me
Love the message! I struggle with this sometimes going off course but as soon as I go the intended route everything falls back into place.
Honestly whenever I’m single I’m in flow. And all of my relationships have felt forced. So maybe that’s a pattern I should start looking at more carefully 😭
GIRL! I love this. Especially the part about control… I learned in therapy that controlling situations (whether consciously or subconsciously) is a way to protect ourselves from pain, protect our ego. Ego stifles creativity and new ways of doing things. Everything you said was so spot on 🤍
This video was crazy bcuz I'm dealing with similar things very helpful keep am coming queen
i cant stop staring at your hair's state of flow thoo 🤩💅
“Feel more than think” love that!
As a new TH-camr, i needed to hear that. I have been posting everyday when I made a decision to be more active on TH-cam and I found myself discouraged after posting over 300 videos with minimal growth so I'm learning to take it easy and open myself up to more possibilities instead
Great video
Thank you so much for this video! It’s so scary letting go and not having that expectation attached to the outcome and instead just having more fun through the process! It’s terrifying! I just needed this to know I’m not crazy trying to pursue my passions ❤
10:40 don’t give up ❤
Yes!! I have been in a state of flow. It’s the best. I loved this video. Very inspirational and many great reminders to trust in the universe. ❤
This was super helpful! 😊thank you
I really needed this. Thank you!💯
I couldn’t have watch this video in a better moment. Thank u so much! ❤
loved the water sign energy coming through with this ❤
Girl you are blessing us with these helpful tips . May God continue to bless you and your works amen
Thank you for this. This was exactly what I needed at this moment
Hi Bria, new subscriber here, you are amazing. Thank you so much for opening my eyes in finding out that I'm getting in my own way and that I need to get myself into flow!
Did you have to read my whole life with this awesome video?? Thanks bestie ❤
Great video! Thank you!
This video was truly right on time. Thank you for sharing your journey. ❤
wow i had so much aniexty this week...thankyou for this video i feel so much at ease
It was just like you described it, so many ideas, not enough time!
I definitely needed to hear this! Ease and flow.
I really enjoyed this! Thank you for the reminder and the positivity. This really made me feel empowered and inspired. Proud of you and can't wait for the next video 💚✨
You just reminded me of the scripture in Romans 8:28 "And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him" ❤
Bria, for me you're the CELEBRATY.
thank you so much !
Ramadan Mubarak to you too bestie ♥️
Love the floral and the nail color too 🎉🤩
Michael Jackson & Chris Tucker = ♥️ ✨️
Yay a new post 🔥 💪🏽 I want to hop on a podcast episode.
I loveee this and also NEEDED this so much currently! Thank you Bria
How do u tell if it is not a path that is suitable for you, or it is a path that is suitable for you but u are reaching a breakthrough point?
Love your TH-cam! ❤
This is such great advice, Thank you❤️
You’re beautiful keep going you made it this far.
Honey my husband loved this video! You say things well. I ❤️ u. Damn. Reflection.
I want to be in the state of flow 🙏🏾
So this is an interesting question. My thoughts can be negative but I would still attract favor. For example, I would dread that my coworkers would be mean to me and ignore me, but they end up being so sweet and nice and attentive this whole year. Then last week there was a contest that I initially refused to do because I thought I would not get any prize at all and I would just embarrass myself. But I ended up playing the game and won a years supply of hair products, spa treatments, free seminars and more! This was all the while I was having negative and jealous thoughts. So now I’m very confused. Is it that deep down, in the midst of my negative thoughts, that I believe I am actually lucky? A lot of these videos say what you think is what you get but if that was the case, why are good things happening when I have negative thoughts?
Having negative thoughts come up is completely normal.. It’s when you ponder on them and let them take over your mind for prolonged period of time when it is an issue. In your case you actually reacted well to your negative thoughts, it did not ultimately stop you from taking any action which is what everyone needs to learn to master :)
You are truly so so beautiful, inside and out
Great video and perfect timing as always bestiiiie B 💕✨
She is really pretty that's why i watch
Hey Bria you have a fan in Kenya
I love your videos girl! Keep it up❤️
Quality content right here!
Girl I love your couch 😢 where is from ?
Love this content
Eres la mejor en esto. I love your videos!!!!
I love you 💞
Soo helpful!! ❤
Id go into flow playing sims as a kid 😂
Facts
If you get a fish to climb a tree; itz gonna look like a dumb ass 🤣😭💖✨
Bria has done it again
You are very pretty and impeccably inspiring and cool. Just so’s you know. Wish you could teach all the little girls in America to be awesome sauce.
Here every week B❤
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💞💞💞💞💞💞
First ❤
Definitely have to believe it, that's what I have a problem with, believing. I’m glad that I am seeing people making a career out of content creating, never would have thought that. Now with examples I can see that it is possible for me in the future.
This is so reassuring. I quit my job last year to find one that fuels my passion and this is just a reminder that I need to keep going ❤️🫶🏾
this video was perfect for me!! I've been trying to "force myself" back into being consistent on social media, but I needed to think back to when my flow was the best- when I first started I was doing vids 2x a week for months, because I wasn't overthinking it and overcomparing every video idea.
Because filming & editing & sharing my content, is truly what makes me the happiest 🤍
This video came at the perfect time 🥹❤️
It’s a shame we are still having this problem ! It’s super true ! You are gorgeous 🩷
Amazing Bria 🫡 you are truly inspiring
Tell the universe your goal and it will provide you with the quickest shortcut 🫶🏾✨