I have encountered so many fakes that I can smell it from afar and flee from the first sign. Learn to be immune to it because the best is unfortunately buried deep among them. You need to reach in and leave it out. Then, everything before has become insignificant.
😂😂😂😂 I bet. I am trying to get over of the ghost of my ex . Funny thing I never been ghosted my past relationships they all faced me and this is the first time something like this happened to me . It hurts like hell but HELLL No I just blocked him
@@rosag7386 I can only say some men are such pussy to face a situation. Eithet they lack the skill or lack the confidence. The last situation is they are such a jerk and it's not as if they do not know themselves. They would rather play ostrich and let the storm blow past. You bet there was a survey comducted and you won't be surprised to find more women than men want a closure in a relationship. Men do not find it necessary and deem it as understood. They nicely put it as they don't want to hurt the women, but they have already done it with their action. 😠
Jeez man it was, just a match in bumble.. I have ghosted so many matches on tinder and like 2-3 girls have ghosted me.. I don't think it's such a big deal..
I agree with this statement 💯 I tend to get attention maybe cuz I'm single and sometimes it comes from committed people or sometimes even a same gender altho I have tried to convince myself it's not what it looks like. but later I opened my mind and saw it for what it is, and well, as flattering as it may be, it is our sole responsibility not to lead others on in any way or give them any hope where there isn't any.
These women today dont even care about how they damage you, they INTENTIONALLY play w your emotions so they can post it online. Women have lost their minds.
I ghosted a woman because I was getting laid off from my job and didn't know how she would handle it. I thought she would dump me. I have regretted it ever since and often think of what might have been.
If they ghost you, please leave them alone, you'll save yourself from heartbreak, self doubt, anxiety. It happened to me last year, I just wish I saw this video then 😔
I ghosted a woman because I was getting laid off from my job and didn't know how she would handle it. I thought she would dump me. I have regretted it ever since and often think of what might have been.
Khyalo Ki Duniya if you TRULY are in love with someone, then you could NOT and would NOT EVER even THINK about entertaining the thought of being with someone else. If you can do that; have feelings for a second person while you are with another, then, you never really loved the first person to begin with. And you’re probably a cheater and a liar and a snake. Real love commits itself to being with ONE individual because that person is more than you could ever ask for or want in a mate.
If they used you, that means they never cared. If they stop using you, they simply stop. Doesn’t mean they stop caring (cause they never did), rather means they see nothing in for them having you.
Actions speak louder than words. If someone genuinely cares about you, they’ll make time for you. I had someone who did, and it was great for a little while. Then, they changed as if I never knew them. They dropped me like I never mattered. It hurt for a while, because I’d see them at work. But it was a blessing for me, because I knew that I wouldn’t want to do the same to someone else, and damage them more. Everyone’s got their own battles and pains. I wouldn’t want to be one of the people to add on to it. Move on, no matter how hard it is. Because once you do, you’ll become a magnet for someone who really cares about you, and you’ll look back at the past and feel happy you went through it. You are worth it. You are enough. Keep going and don’t give up.
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Recognize the red flags and accept them. Don’t make excuses for their behavior. People say they were busy and yet they would be glued to their phone 24/7.
Says he's super busy and couldn't answer his phone, it was in the house, he outside, working. Yet when I am there he has his phone within reach, answering incoming calls on the second ring.??????
It's too much players, because of school, social media and life basically. When these "players" see what they want, they go after it because all the players wanna do is bang but when the "players" get into a relationship with a "non-player", then all hell breaks lose because one person wants s relationship and the other wants to bang and go to the next. I ain't no player, and it's hard to get a relationship with someone these days because of players. I'm sorry for your breakup but it hurts more when I can't even get a relationship. 😲💯🙏
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I'm in this situation right now and it's painful. Your video popped up in perfect timing. Edit: thanks for the likes everyone! Each like made me feel less and less alone and with that being said, I'm through with the problem. I'm happier now and I pray and trust you wonderful people are too! Xx
Ghosting is for lower level peeps, it's a blessing that they have disappeared! Don't let no one make you feel less if they do this to you. Be in your power and keep going!
This words just went deep into me... I really appreciate this advice.. Sometimes it's hard to forget or let go, even when we know they have ghosted already.
@@doctorjayden5579 Yep it is hard, I know how you feel, but I love myself more and happy to do me until the right person enters my life. Raise your vibration this is how you ward off these type of people.
@@helenah7965 Hi 👋 😍, Your comment actually got a hold on me, somehow a relieve like this is what I do need, I know it isn't right doing this here, but then where would have been the perfect place; once again; My name is Jayden, do you mind if we connect and get to know more about ourselves and see where it takes us?
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Real love doesn't disappear , conditional love is like watered down alcohol its not even close to as strong and doesn't produce the same effect . Unconditional love is like straight liquor if you don't drink it responsibly it can make you sick or kill you. Not that love is the same as alcohol lol it's just the analogy to use to describe it...
I love her so much that Im doing this right now, she told me to forget her and move on yet I can't. I'm just so into her that I let myself into her all over again.
The moment you feel you were avoided by someone, dont ya ever disturbed them. Learn to handle sadness and disappointments. If they contact you, go reply but, Never start a conversation to them. Silence is powerful than speech. Silence means a lot. Less talk, less mistake.
So right.. but sometimes we choose despite the other person never needed us. Sometimes we do so much for someone just for a fact that we like him or her...
Asad Shaikh Exactly 💯....and with time you realise that your energy is not reciprocated and that's really hurts and you are left with no choice, just have to distance yourself 💔
And mine. Was watching this while waiting for someone to maybe text me after 3 days... Well this video made me actually want to say goodbye to them and never look back.
@@M2Musics 'friends'...this word is useless for me now... Anyways don't worry...you'll come out of it... Be true to yourself, we are way to strong thn we assume 😎
“Don’t let people get attached and drop them like they don’t even matter.” Please just don’t. If you’re reading this, and you’re one of those love-bombers just playing the field… just stop. The ones on the receiving end don’t deserve that heartbreak. It’s cruel and callous. Be decent, at the very least, and just be honest from the get-go.
allen catabay I just realized this today. Same guy been screwing around with me for years. He disappears for months, and then tries to reconnect. Buh bye. Not going to happen again. I am worth more than that. Block. Delete.
We've been texting and video calling for almost 4months and i was so excited coz we were making plans to see each other personally but when he was finally back home. He ghosted me, unfriended me on facebook but before he did that, he posted pictures of him and his girlfriend. I felt so heart broken back then but I always thought God sees behind the scene and he is protecting me.... I know at the right time someone out there will love me much more than i deserve. *spreading love to everyone* ❤❤❤
La Negsraj So true!!! God protected you from the evil games he was playing. Now you know God knows who you are. Now walk with our Creator and give him praise for the Love he gives us♥️♥️♥️⚡️
@anurein 0506 It’s definitely easier said than done, and take time to heal. But the sooner you let them go, the sooner you open yourself up to finding someone who loves you the way you deserve to be loved, and gives you the attention that you deserve.
I recently got ghosted. And there are things I've learnt. I don't see myself as a victim of anything. I too was unsure of my feelings for him. And there parts of me that were starting to open up to the idea of being with someone like him. Being ignored is not easy but everyone is going through something or trying to work on themselves. So while I am accepting what happened, there's apart of me that wants to cry . There's apart of me that remembers the good he has done for me. There's apart of me that wants to focus on my own growth. There's apart that wants to laugh at myself. ❤ Everyone is a work in progress. (I needed to get that out).
It hurts when you get ignored or ghosted, but as the person that got dismissed, it's important to hold yourself to a high standard and deal through the pain of being played with. Don't keep reaching out... It will only hurt you more.
True it hurts so much I asked him to meet just to talk he said yes gave me the time and never showed up I was devastated but disappointed at myself because he is not worthy and did not respect myself so I just deleted his number so my heart won’t betray me again .
@@lailai4263 I feel all of you guys and girls. I'm a guy, and it does happen to us too! I've been talking/with this girl for a little while and she's becoming more and more distant, but she's got guys in her DMs daily. Now it's at the point that she doesn't want to hang out or even message me out of nowhere. No fight, no conflicting feelings about each other. She just disappeared and it's been killing me for the past week.
I experienced ghosted by someone. I met her through facebook. We chatted on messenger and she told me that she likes me then all of a sudden she's been cold to me after her ex wanted to get back to her. It really hurts but the lesson I've learned with this experience made me stronger and wiser. I wont let this happen to me next time. Hope you too guys.
@@feliciacarrington681 This is time to come up with ur best version nd after this u will find urself such a strong person nd he gonna regret it all life!
I agree with the statement. My ex-Godbrother had the audacity to ghost me. He wasn't just a friend. He was my Godbrother. He was the only one for me when I had depression and suicide ideation. I had a failed attempt in his home with his knife. He was still in touch with me 2 years after I moved back to my home country but then ghosted me. My mum said he's probably having a hard time himself but I checked his Fb and he did have fun. I was still very mentally ill but surprisingly managed to not get upset about it, told myself he's not worth it and moved on. He could at least tell me he could no longer deal with my depression and then cut off contact. I guess he'd rather ghost me than be upfront, so much for a 40 year-old Ivy League graduate. I deleted him from my Fb friendlist without blocking and he never added me back.
@@maishayartonahi its a lie. 80 percent of people want to hurt you to feel better about themselves. there is no "i dont wanna be mean, so i'll just ignore her" bullshit. people always know what they do. stop believing that people are busy, were asleep, or didnt have time to reply to you. imagine if someone like Rihanna messaged him, would he ignore her and deal with his "family issues"? of course not. every single thing anyone says is a lie. trust only yourself
@@TheDarkDragonDemon guess what? Yesterday he told me he has no love for me..he feels nothing about me. While typing this , my hands are shivering. I am totally shattered. Just can't believe. I am broken into pieces. I madly loved him. Its so so so hard to trust anyone. I have been crying from yesterday. Should I accept the fact that there is no true love now.
@@maishayartonahi I experienced similar things! He kept saying he is miserable and stressed because of exams and essays, haven’t met for two months; yet on ins two more people followed him and he followed back; I questioned his infidelity but he blamed me; then he disappeared forever.
Don, t just text or call someone when you are alone... That's the moral of this story... Be alone be independent focus on your goal and I'm sure the right person will walk in your way... We don't need to look after that or search in social media... Everything has a timing...
I don’t let myself get attached to people so easily. Never rush into relationships with people so fast & be careful not to give up your phone number to quickly either.
The cruelest thing you can do to someone is awaken their feelings and their love, without having any intention of actually pursuing them,or when you are unsure of how you actually feel about them. ~Bob Marley.
Sounds like my American college (NOT prep school)experience in a nutshell. International students esp have that problem. It's hard to tell whether an American is really interested in you or just polite. I think the Korean language approach is actually good in this sense. It has a high power-distance style with honorifics and suffixes relating to age, position, and also closeness so you know how close you and the other person are based on your language so you won't misunderstand someone polite and friendly as really wanting to get close to you.
It's so hard to deal with, consumes so much time to get back to the normal course of our life!! Actually the thing is very few people care about others.
It happened to me 3 weeks ago. The damage to your mental health, self esteem, confidence, your sleep and sanity goes beyond words. We were doing so well and then she just ghosted me after over 4 months of being in a committed relationship. It hurts so.
More people are superficial and are in constant search of wanting happiness. They lack inner sense of value. They are empty so never feel bad because of their insecurities. 🙏
@Sarah Kimverly are you confused? Be happy without having to chase and restore a man. You are a complete unit and you should find happiness and peace within yourself. 🙏 🙏
Yes, true. Im going through it now. Have been ghosted, silent treatment for many times. Yet i still forgive, forgive and forgive him. But now, it's going to be the last time. Im done. Checkmate.
Usually this is a line used by people who can’t give or willing to give to anyone, they don’t want people to have any expectations from them. Its like they use it as an excuse to justify their ignorance. Sure if you do something for someone, you care for them, you do right to them but eventually same person starts to ignore your or even insults you because they don’t want you anymore. Then there is a problem, truth is that nobody wants to be disrespected by the person that you cared for. Sure don’t give them anything in return but atleast don’t make their efforts look worthless. When it comes to me, i always tell people they can expect me to be there for them in their good and bad, and when some one give me one, i thank them by giving them 10. This is my definition showing respect and greatfullness. Always remember actions are louder than words.
@@WORLD8NSH5KNIGHT1 Exactly. I can't fall in love at all if I'm not hoping for it to happen. And that means.... expectations. I'd rather die right now than not be able to love.
My cat left the house 2 months ago and never came back,he was with us throughout the time he was a kitten to becoming a cat.He ghosted me when he knew his spoon feeding (food on time) needs are over!
It’s worse when someone ghosts you who you know in real life and got really close to. Don’t need him to want a relationship with me. I just want to know he cares.
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I've realized, those who ghosted you truly did you a favor! Do you really want to continue a relationship or friendship with someone who behaves and treats you in this way? You deserve better! If someone wants to walk out your life, let them walk. Bless them, wish them well, and then move on. At least they teach others how to NOT treat people, and that our value is not based on whether someone accepts or rejects us. Our value is innate because of our Creator, Almighty God. You will overcome, and become stronger as a result, it's hard to see that while you are hurting, but the pain will subside. The people who were meant to be in your life will remain.
Thanks bro. Just need some time to let it all sink in and gradually get over this now. Ghosting is the most cruel, immature, childish and evil thing she ever did to me. There was no reason, no communication, no dialogue, no closure just no more texts, calls, mail, no more care and love from her. I don't know if I will ever trust another woman ever again.
Watching this literally broke my heart . Get well soon to all those people out there who are ghosted in sm way or other . You deserve the world don't loose hope . Amen ❤️
I’ve bee ghosted recently and it’s killing me, tbh. The longer it goes on, the more confused I feel. I had several really good dates with somebody. Then one day of no contact turns into almost a month and I have no idea why. I didn’t do anything wrong, there was no hint, clue or suggestion this would happen...and it absolutely sucks. You want to keep asking questions and to try and get a response but at the same time you know you should probably leave it and let this bird fly away. It’s difficult as I only had really good times with this person....I know they had a good time too. It hurts your pride, self esteem and confidence. I don’t even hate this person or have negative feelings towards them...I just wish I knew why they felt like I could be dropped like I didn’t matter and with no consideration for how it might feel. If I was an arsehole or rude to them, or we argued or didn’t get on then maybe I could begin to accept and understand being ghosted...but it was the complete opposite.
Yes.. Being blocked on WhatsApp out of the blue, for no apparent reason when you had an hour of lovely chat 5 min earlier really hurts your feelings. I've been depressed for 3 days. Today I'm feeling better. I don't know the guy that well so it's not love. But it shatters your self esteem being ghosted like that. I wish he had messaged me and told me what brothered him but he chose the easy way out. Social media is full of cowards.
@@Trisof88 thank you for your wise words. I appreciate it. I'm slowly but surely getting over it but it still hurts so your comment was more than welcome. Have a lovely day .
Yeah man this exact same thing happened to me. It was more of a summer fling thing not a relationship but still we had hung out a lot and I thought we were both having a good time then I just get left on read randomly. And I’m not pissed at her, it’s completely her right to make the decision to end it but it’s just so frustrating not even knowing what I did wrong and thinking I fucked up. I guess I’m just trying to look on the bright side and I’m saying to myself at least she made it obvious she wasn’t into me anymore and I can now move on.
You meet someone. You two get close. It's all great for a while. Then someone stops trying. Talk less. Awkward conversations. No communication whatsoever. Memories start to fade, then that person becomes that person you KNEW. That's how it usually goes, right? Sad isn't it.💔😭... #Ghosted
Going from an 8 year relationship to then using dating apps (or just dating in general) has single-handedly been the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. I’ve been ghosted more times than I can count, just because I wear my heart on my sleeve and tell them how I feel. Dating nowadays is a game of “whoever can give a shit less-wins.” It’s so disheartening and I’m slowly giving up.
Same for us men, shame the amount of people on here who've been ghosted, some of the people may match. Atleast nobody is ghosting anyone. It only takes a simple sorry, but this isn't what I'm looking for etc. Then everyone can move on.
Man sometimes can get confused or realise that he is not ready to.commit.It is an act of cowardice. Good or bad. -- hard to tell. Always show him that he has much to lose in the end.
@K. Vijaya Durga delete everything related to him /her and stay busy so you won't have time to think about them. Move on 😇keeping memories and being depressed don't make your life happy 🤗
It's so hard to let em go😭😭😭 being addicted to someone and being ghosted is so painful I've been depressed for 3weeks now couldn't even chat with anyone else
@@authoritygee4816 don't be depressed .. And stop thinking about them. What you get by being depressed ? Will they come back to you .....by depressing yourself?? Just focus on your goals and move on 😊. Feel free to talk with me. And give me chance to motivate you 🙂
Worldly people Only live for themselves and their "Own happiness" and not your happiness. We are literally begging for love from Beggars who are Also looking for happiness. Yet they never find real happiness with all the hookups, sex etc. Because when they're not getting that hit/high ..they're sad again. Greed decreases ..and love decreases... greed increases and love increases = wordly/ temporary love. Only selfless people bestow love upon others. There is a difference between showing love and thinking about the welfare of others + love. Wordly people can Only show u love. But only saints and God think about your welfare .they will give divine love.
I’ve been through this lately and damn how much it hurts to be lead on. Don’t waste someone’s time pretending that you have feelings for them. Be sincere or LEAVE THEM ALONE.
I'm.smarter now. I don't even believe if they proclaim that I am the love of their life. Nothing is for real until they show their commitment. Don't let them justify and embellish their unreasonable action with nice sounding words. Worse still, love can be blind esp to some women.who try to justify their man's action so that they can forgive him and pretend nothing has happened. Wise up or get trampled upon.
@@social76 totally agree.. even tho... sometimes i want to message that girl... but i know that i mean almost nothing to her... so if i will msg her... i will just damage myself by wearing pink glasses once again(
Cyber Duck Maybe they just don’t give a fuck about anything. I don’t , I never message anyone , never call anyone. Unless until I have something important to discuss. Some people just don’t like chit chat.
No one is ever too busy, you are not a priority to them. Only acceptable reason for me would be health , can't do nothing when you are sick, otherwise you are not their priority.
I just got ghosted after 3 months of 24×7 chatting and lots of emotions...thnx for uploading this video...really needed this one 😞 "When someone disappears, don't let them reappear just because they feel like it" This line gave me strength...thank uh❤
Same here tanvi .. We chatted for 3-4 months .she lives in another city . Now she doesn't text at all . I don't know how can she even have the courage to ghost someone whom she chatted for 3 months daily ??
Probably really killed themselves physically. Cornered someone who feels already defeated even more. Sealed a final blow of "you don't matter" so they threw you away just like that, even lower than trash or shits.
Avoid meeting people online - honestly it really isn't worth it and it isn't even natural feeling attracted over a image of someone than seeing them in person. You're likely to have better success meeting people in person and seeing how you really get along with them than chatting to them on text
@@michellekahlez2105 I’m like very pretty, everyone tells me I should model and this happens to me all of the time. I get ghosted. I am successful, I own a 270k home, have my own business, educated have a college degree, and outgoing. I literally do everything right and my experience with online dating ends up the same... I’m not dating anymore. I’m done
@@ceyciemateo9411 and in my case... So this guy was RLY CUTE NO CAP. We met on a dating app. He's the one who liked my profile first then I asked him for his number then he gave it out. He used to complimented me a lot, even KEPT BEGGING TO ME FOR SENDING HIM MY PICTURES and initiating a convo for solid 3 times. We texted almost like everyday but then he suddenly blocked me just yesterday for no reason after I was asking him about ''how was ur school day'' in voice note. wtaf I RLY WISHED WE COULD BE FRIENDS IN A LONG TERM BUT GOSH LIKE CAN U TELL ME WHERE'S MY FAULT PLS? 😭😭😭 it's painful
I was always the one texting her & messaging her first . I was the only one asking about her etc but she never used do anything first . So I stopped talking . This is called Self Respect ❤️
Same here but when I disappeared she started chasing me and I thought she was interested but I realized that she only wanted my attention and validation so in some cases I feel like you have permission to ghost someone without any explanation.
A little bit tbh... but more often we feel like whats wrong with us or with them that they have stopped texting us?? Like out of nowhere we just try to guess the reasons!!
This is why texting is dumb. When you talk to someone in person (or even on the phone) they have to respond to you. Texting is an inferior form of communication anyway.
@@slabua At least when they dont respond in person, you'll know for sure that they don't like you. With texting you'll always be wondering if she just hasn't checked her phone yet, or if her phone died, or she left it in her car and hasn't noticed yet, or if she took some time to think of how to respond and then fell asleep, OR if she doesn't want to talk to you. You always think there's a chance that there's an explanation why they haven't texted you back other than they just don't like you, and it sucks being strung along like that and sitting around waiting for a text that's never gonna come. (Don't do that btw)
@@slabua This is why I don't text people I have a crush on anymore. I just call them and if they don't answer, leave a message telling them what you wanted to say and to call you back. If they don't call you back, MOVE ON. If she's not interested in you, you'll never convince her to be interested in you. Trying to get someone that doesn't like you is a waste of time, and it makes you miss opportunities with other girls that maybe WILL like you cos you're so focused on a girl that doesn't even like you.
Damn! I needed this right now, I think I was about to hurt someone as someone else ghosted me a few months ago. Don't ever do things to someone innocent which were hard for you to face. We hardly realise this at that point of time, but we should be conscious enough to step back if we don't have feelings for someone. This video guided me today. Thank you ✨🙏
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Maybe the best reply out of good replies! Because I used to pretend like it didn't happen only to have it BLOW UP MY.FACE a little while later from them inevitably.V( guess who beat up who? It wasn't them beating up me, but me beating up myself for putting up with them afterwards
1 year of being best friends and 2 years of being lovers with the same person. End up being ghosted like we never met. Never expect it would end like this.
The reason god separated you from her/him because god listened to those backbitchings and shit you never noticed.😊 Don't worry,you will end up with your perfect soulmate,the one who is made for you,the one who is made like you and most importantly ,the one who is made for forever.But for now ,value and care for those who are and always be with you.😊😇
@@marijaalilovic6453 i feel like it's for experience because anything bad that happens is a learning curve. Im a true believer that everything happens for a reason and sometimes people are taken out of your life to be replaced with something or someone better
It's true, humanity on a whole just hates each other. Humans, has nothing better to these days then dump people (good people with wiser intentions). Shame
I wish I couldn't gree, but... there must be a hope.... it so sad that for now you are right. Most people love to play with the emotion with others and that is very dangerous and sad ;(
@@Exigoo Just take it easy and focus on what makes you happy. Spend more time on things you can control in your life, rather then focusing on things you can't . Only, time will tell.
When people try to destroy you, it reflects who they are and not who you are. And honestly, it's easier said than done but it's a blessing if such double faced people disappear from your lives on their own.
Being ghosted sucks. But, he is so right. Someone ghosting you does not define your worth or value. It's a reflection of theirs. If people want to walk away, let them. Right? It's not rejection, it's redirection to something better for you. Sending all positive love and energy to everyone. ❤ thanks for the reminder. Great video. We are all amazing in our own way.
If they stopped messaging you then they did you a favor. Why would you want someone that doesn’t want or need you? This way you have room to grow and make space for the ones that do want and need you.😊👍
If she stopped msging then find the reason and stop making mistakes....and make her impress impress impress.....one day will come when she said yes..to u.... that's the madness of love and she will understand...
True.But at same time this sentence does nt stopped.It will continue.None will be with us permanently.They will kept love n go.Cz this world ppl mind is alws changing according to selfishness n lust.This ppls dono meaning of True love rdy!. Such a shame!
Had this girl I was really good friends with at work. The day I left the organization, she did not even call or text me. Didn't even reply to my messages. I have to say the ghosting was amazing here. It felt like there was never a bond between us.
I've been ghosted so much times, I feel like a spirit now
Hahaha keep fighting 💪
I have encountered so many fakes that I can smell it from afar and flee from the first sign. Learn to be immune to it because the best is unfortunately buried deep among them. You need to reach in and leave it out. Then, everything before has become insignificant.
@@maureenkam9212 thank you. You made my day with those little words. Love you for that.your life gonna be successful
😂😂😂😂 I bet. I am trying to get over of the ghost of my ex . Funny thing I never been ghosted my past relationships they all faced me and this is the first time something like this happened to me . It hurts like hell but HELLL No I just blocked him
@@rosag7386 I can only say some men are such pussy to face a situation. Eithet they lack the skill or lack the confidence. The last situation is they are such a jerk and it's not as if they do not know themselves. They would rather play ostrich and let the storm blow past. You bet there was a survey comducted and you won't be surprised to find more women than men want a closure in a relationship. Men do not find it necessary and deem it as understood. They nicely put it as they don't want to hurt the women, but they have already done it with their action. 😠
if i feel avoided by anyone, i never disturb them again.
Grace Jegels yeah I did that to the girl I was talking to...she hasn’t even messaged for a week.
@@blossom6235 Thank you and merry Christmas !
Grace Jegels know ur worth man. Good move.
Well said, totally agree with your comment. If am avoided I let them walk.
That's what I do.
If they stop messaging...........consider it a blessing😉
Right 👍
Its true blessing
😂right . I agree but then I found myself crying for him that m-- does not deserve any of my tears
@@rosag7386 rights, put everytime yourself in priority .
Yeah right
Was ghosted by someone I was going to marry. Breaking up is hard enough but being ghosted fucks you up for the rest of your life.
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@Ferzzy no closure whatsoever. Just ghosted and blocked
Honestly same
@daniel nicholas Drake thats sad 😢
It's so dangereous to play with someone's emotions, because you have no idea the damage you're causing
Jeez man it was, just a match in bumble..
I have ghosted so many matches on tinder and like 2-3 girls have ghosted me.. I don't think it's such a big deal..
I agree with this statement 💯
I tend to get attention maybe cuz I'm single and sometimes it comes from committed people or sometimes even a same gender altho I have tried to convince myself it's not what it looks like.
but later I opened my mind and saw it for what it is, and well, as flattering as it may be, it is our sole responsibility not to lead others on in any way or give them any hope where there isn't any.
People actually care less than less about the damage they cause in every actions in their lives. They only care about themselves. We all do...
These women today dont even care about how they damage you, they INTENTIONALLY play w your emotions so they can post it online. Women have lost their minds.
Like IGAF. 😂😂😂
Stay away from social media, get off your phone, work on your health and mental health. You’ll be fine❤️
Then why you are here?
Yes it really works 😊
@@aayushiupadhyay554 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
That why ghosting has been common lately
MOHAMMAD AYOOB BHAT probably ghosting
Don't play with anyone's emotions who truly care for u.
Yes please...it is a good thing to be responsible for yourself!❤
True
I ghosted a woman because I was getting laid off from my job and didn't know how she would handle it. I thought she would dump me. I have regretted it ever since and often think of what might have been.
@Cindy Ella how are you feeling Ella ? Are you ok?
@Cindy Ella you will get better and I am speaking directly to you. You welcome.
If they ghost you, please leave them alone, you'll save yourself from heartbreak, self doubt, anxiety. It happened to me last year, I just wish I saw this video then 😔
This happened to me also this week I feel more heartbroken & I want to end my life it’s hard finding people to have a great conection & friendship
It happened with me last week. I wish I had seen this video earlier
It's happening to me now 😞
@@TurtleBug101 same were good ppl karma is gonna get them 💯😞
@@stonergee420 true ❤
*_If you text, call, and get ignored than just move on._*
*_THIS IS CALLED SELF RESPECT._*
Politely end it with them first. Never reward a ghoster by pretending not to notice.
@@missminti that's too a good option !
It is NOT that easy! Not a robot, can't just switch OFF.
PREACH! It’s all about the mind
True
It’s amazing how we ghost the people who genuinely care about us and seek the attention who don’t give two shits.
Right ... That's why I am keeping my distance from her
HamzatheFarhat true
Damn this is very true
because they are ugly and we are attracted to gorgeous looking ppl who treat us like shit. Someone had to say it.
If a attractive person is too clingy .we will gradually lose interest.. it's our ego that pushes us to get hold of person ignores us.
"Someone disapearing doesn't affect your worth, it reflects their priorities"
Well said😔
Excellent!
great so im not the priority even when they said i was :((((
I ghosted a woman because I was getting laid off from my job and didn't know how she would handle it. I thought she would dump me. I have regretted it ever since and often think of what might have been.
I feel confident nd happy to hear this.
And you are not theirs
"You're too good for someone who isn't sure about you".
Khyalo Ki Duniya if you TRULY are in love with someone, then you could NOT and would NOT EVER even THINK about entertaining the thought of being with someone else. If you can do that; have feelings for a second person while you are with another, then, you never really loved the first person to begin with. And you’re probably a cheater and a liar and a snake. Real love commits itself to being with ONE individual because that person is more than you could ever ask for or want in a mate.
Don’t be with someone if you feel alone.
Then what should I do...?
@@missenglish4599 Better to be alone than desprate
Yes I do the same
@@shaguftaqueen693 I understand your position but there's this person in your life who understand your feelings the more
Than what I am supposed to do:(????
It's sad when someone just uses u and then stops caring...
People that use people don't care about the person, they care about what they can get.
I remember you from that Indian matchmaking show on netflix i think. I hope that you’ve found love. Best wishes
It really hurts😭😭😭
especially if they caring enormously for long time and then suddenly stops. that hurts.
If they used you, that means they never cared. If they stop using you, they simply stop. Doesn’t mean they stop caring (cause they never did), rather means they see nothing in for them having you.
Actions speak louder than words. If someone genuinely cares about you, they’ll make time for you. I had someone who did, and it was great for a little while. Then, they changed as if I never knew them. They dropped me like I never mattered. It hurt for a while, because I’d see them at work. But it was a blessing for me, because I knew that I wouldn’t want to do the same to someone else, and damage them more. Everyone’s got their own battles and pains. I wouldn’t want to be one of the people to add on to it. Move on, no matter how hard it is. Because once you do, you’ll become a magnet for someone who really cares about you, and you’ll look back at the past and feel happy you went through it. You are worth it. You are enough. Keep going and don’t give up.
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Same
How did you deal with it at work?
At least by reading the comments, I realized, I'm not the only one who is going through this.
Hahahahaa
That's why we are here
@@xxxxx-1234 ik
Vedika,I feel you. The first time I was ghosted was absolutely one the most painful things ever 💔
I am going through it right now
Recognize the red flags and accept them. Don’t make excuses for their behavior. People say they were busy and yet they would be glued to their phone 24/7.
MilesAndHeights Ikr 😏
Sooo true... Amen🙌🙌🙌
Says he's super busy and couldn't answer his phone, it was in the house, he outside, working. Yet when I am there he has his phone within reach, answering incoming calls on the second ring.??????
Right!!!
Very true
Why in the world we are always mismatched... I hope players meet their own and the goodhearts meet the nice ones.
I wasted a lot for being with the wrong person.. Now i dont even know if il ever risk falling in love.. Love just to end up in isolation.
Amen!!!
It's too much players, because of school, social media and life basically. When these "players" see what they want, they go after it because all the players wanna do is bang but when the "players" get into a relationship with a "non-player", then all hell breaks lose because one person wants s relationship and the other wants to bang and go to the next. I ain't no player, and it's hard to get a relationship with someone these days because of players. I'm sorry for your breakup but it hurts more when I can't even get a relationship. 😲💯🙏
@@realbennyluke 😳
@@misstechno8936 🙃
This video is so important. Nobody deserves to be ghosted or treated like they don’t matter. It creates so much pain.
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True I'm blessed that my ex still want to be my best friend
I'm in this situation right now and it's painful. Your video popped up in perfect timing.
Edit: thanks for the likes everyone! Each like made me feel less and less alone and with that being said, I'm through with the problem. I'm happier now and I pray and trust you wonderful people are too! Xx
Kriston Quartz same thing with me at this moment and literally painful like i wanna punch him.
Same here man.. The anxiety, frustration, helplessness 😶
be strong, time heals all wounds
@@jovelyncastillo2245 I know exactly how you feel. I'm putting my happiness first this time.
@@rickysarkar5169 And all we can do is allow time to heal us
Reading all the comments makes me feel iam not the only one who's hurt 😊
Kashaf Arif same here 😔😢
@@shajaniperera2931 now Iam happy don't care anymore 😁 you should do the same 😊😁
Absolutely true.....
☺️ya
Same
Ghosting is for lower level peeps, it's a blessing that they have disappeared! Don't let no one make you feel less if they do this to you. Be in your power and keep going!
This words just went deep into me... I really appreciate this advice.. Sometimes it's hard to forget or let go, even when we know they have ghosted already.
@@doctorjayden5579 Yep it is hard, I know how you feel, but I love myself more and happy to do me until the right person enters my life. Raise your vibration this is how you ward off these type of people.
@@helenah7965 Hi 👋 😍, Your comment actually got a hold on me, somehow a relieve like this is what I do need, I know it isn't right doing this here, but then where would have been the perfect place; once again; My name is Jayden, do you mind if we connect and get to know more about ourselves and see where it takes us?
@@doctorjayden5579 That's very sweet, however, I'm with someone at the moment.
@@helenah7965 You sound like a lovely person, your man is lucky,
"And if you've ever been ghosted, just remember : It's better they did it now rather than later on"
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"When someone disappears, dont let them reappear just because they feel like it"
I couldnt dodge that one
Best comment..
wish I heard that one about 10 years ago...would have saved me a lot of trouble! lol
Real love doesn't disappear , conditional love is like watered down alcohol its not even close to as strong and doesn't produce the same effect . Unconditional love is like straight liquor if you don't drink it responsibly it can make you sick or kill you.
Not that love is the same as alcohol lol it's just the analogy to use to describe it...
I love her so much that Im doing this right now, she told me to forget her and move on yet I can't. I'm just so into her that I let myself into her all over again.
Good advice
Always remember to treat people the way you'd rather be treated! Life works in a cycle.
Healthy Lifestyle does the people experience the pain dat they hav created to us after some days or later???
That's Karma
What eventually goes around - comes around... eventually...
I prefer this: Treat others how they want to be treated
@@whoknows8661 sounds awesome!
Ghosting someone is an act of a cowardliness.
It’s like an iconic character said... “You don’t get to do that, to come into someone’s life, make them care and just check out”
Dale from the walking dead said this 😭
@@maurisagreen7478 Exactly 😭😭 he was such an amazing character
It all depend's upon priority , no one is that busy.
From punjab 😱😱😱
kung nais mong maging masaya habang buhay.matoto kang maging masaya mag isa.:)
Right ✌👍
100 % right
True
The moment you feel you were avoided by someone, dont ya ever disturbed them. Learn to handle sadness and disappointments. If they contact you, go reply but, Never start a conversation to them. Silence is powerful than speech. Silence means a lot. Less talk, less mistake.
What is told is exactly correct..
Super word you spoken .
Let's be in contact ...7671845456..or wattsup..
Tqqq
But I just don't wanna miss her
i just contacted her and she replied
@@MasterPandaBearChannel what
@@abdulsameeh_666 now she ignoees me
"someone disappearing doesn't affect your worth , it reflects their priorities".- jay..
It also reflects their cheap character
Mr. @@samiam4323 agreed with u.
❤️
Very well said
☺
Well at least 3357k people understand and will not ghost anyone. Thanks Jay Shetty.
Choose people who choose you
So right.. but sometimes we choose despite the other person never needed us. Sometimes we do so much for someone just for a fact that we like him or her...
Asad Shaikh Exactly 💯....and with time you realise that your energy is not reciprocated and that's really hurts and you are left with no choice, just have to distance yourself 💔
They choose you at first then change their mind
@@yosrab95 they choose you for a little while and then drop you
Noone is forever I guess
I guess like music,they're ghost notes,skipping a beat around.
"when someone disappears, don't let them reappear just because they feel like it. "
This line solved my all sorts of doubts.
Thnks😘
Mine too! 😉
And mine. Was watching this while waiting for someone to maybe text me after 3 days... Well this video made me actually want to say goodbye to them and never look back.
@@SlavicStar14 same problem bro
Tanu Verma I’m going threw this right now! That line opened my eyed to the fakeness of my “friends”
@@M2Musics 'friends'...this word is useless for me now... Anyways don't worry...you'll come out of it... Be true to yourself, we are way to strong thn we assume 😎
The number of times I've been ghosted...I feel like I could write a book about paranormal activity.
😂😂😂
@@preciosomilagromaravilloso4085 🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
LMAO!!!!!
😂😂😂😂😂
“Don’t let people get attached and drop them like they don’t even matter.” Please just don’t. If you’re reading this, and you’re one of those love-bombers just playing the field… just stop. The ones on the receiving end don’t deserve that heartbreak. It’s cruel and callous. Be decent, at the very least, and just be honest from the get-go.
When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time. - Maya Angelou
allen catabay I just realized this today. Same guy been screwing around with me for years. He disappears for months, and then tries to reconnect. Buh bye. Not going to happen again. I am worth more than that. Block. Delete.
That's so true!
allen catabay 👍🏼👍🏼
true... True... TRUE!!!
The comma goes behind "believe them," but yeah.
We've been texting and video calling for almost 4months and i was so excited coz we were making plans to see each other personally but when he was finally back home. He ghosted me, unfriended me on facebook but before he did that, he posted pictures of him and his girlfriend. I felt so heart broken back then but I always thought God sees behind the scene and he is protecting me.... I know at the right time someone out there will love me much more than i deserve.
*spreading love to everyone* ❤❤❤
La Negsraj
So true!!! God protected you from the evil games he was playing. Now you know God knows who you are.
Now walk with our Creator and give him praise for the Love he gives us♥️♥️♥️⚡️
Hope you are doing okay love!
Creepy people
That's horrendous. I'm so sorry that happened to you.
Yes very true
If they stop messaging - DROP THEM.
At some point we think about them. Maybe if we see their stories or pictures
It’s easier said !
Exactly. Their loss. Whether a friendship or a possible relationship.
Yeah, but wait for a little bit bc maybe something big actually came in the way that they couldn't help.
@anurein 0506 It’s definitely easier said than done, and take time to heal. But the sooner you let them go, the sooner you open yourself up to finding someone who loves you the way you deserve to be loved, and gives you the attention that you deserve.
I recently got ghosted. And there are things I've learnt. I don't see myself as a victim of anything. I too was unsure of my feelings for him. And there parts of me that were starting to open up to the idea of being with someone like him. Being ignored is not easy but everyone is going through something or trying to work on themselves. So while I am accepting what happened, there's apart of me that wants to cry . There's apart of me that remembers the good he has done for me. There's apart of me that wants to focus on my own growth. There's apart that wants to laugh at myself. ❤ Everyone is a work in progress. (I needed to get that out).
It hurts when you get ignored or ghosted, but as the person that got dismissed, it's important to hold yourself to a high standard and deal through the pain of being played with. Don't keep reaching out... It will only hurt you more.
True it hurts so much I asked him to meet just to talk he said yes gave me the time and never showed up I was devastated but disappointed at myself because he is not worthy and did not respect myself so I just deleted his number so my heart won’t betray me again .
😢 it has been hurting for 3 months now cause i been beginning to my ex friend to be my friend again and yeah im hutting myself . Thank you.
I know right
Absolutely but still here I am waiting for his chats. Shame on me
@@lailai4263 I feel all of you guys and girls. I'm a guy, and it does happen to us too! I've been talking/with this girl for a little while and she's becoming more and more distant, but she's got guys in her DMs daily. Now it's at the point that she doesn't want to hang out or even message me out of nowhere. No fight, no conflicting feelings about each other. She just disappeared and it's been killing me for the past week.
"Someone disapearing doesn't affect your worth, it reflects their priorities"
Focus on YOURSELF and your goals, don't chase people, eventually they will come! Have a great day everyone!
Thank you..your words actually helps
Great advice, i keep it in my mind. Thank you!!
Amen
Nope they won’t . Sorry . Coz all are dumb and selfish nowadays
I experienced ghosted by someone. I met her through facebook. We chatted on messenger and she told me that she likes me then all of a sudden she's been cold to me after her ex wanted to get back to her. It really hurts but the lesson I've learned with this experience made me stronger and wiser. I wont let this happen to me next time. Hope you too guys.
A person saying "I LOVE YOU" multiple times, calling, texting every moment, ghosts you. That shit hurts. Still recovering. This video is reassuring
Yes me to I got used for sex,and now he want text,me back and I sent him many,text he use to text back,no morer,i feel so depressed.
@@feliciacarrington681 show them their absence make them feel ur absence what they have lost! Move on
@@legend9739 Thank you...
@@feliciacarrington681 This is time to come up with ur best version nd after this u will find urself such a strong person nd he gonna regret it all life!
I feel you 💔😭
You'll never be good enough for the wrong person. Hold your head high. The advice in this video is solid.
Here is his what'sApp number +2348141808891
“when someone ghost 👻 you.. it is not a reflection of your worth..but a only a reflection of their priorities...” love this!!
Eh sometimes it is a reflection of your worth though. Sometimes it’s your fault, sometimes it isn’t. Ghoster won’t give you the truth though
I agree with the statement. My ex-Godbrother had the audacity to ghost me. He wasn't just a friend. He was my Godbrother. He was the only one for me when I had depression and suicide ideation. I had a failed attempt in his home with his knife. He was still in touch with me 2 years after I moved back to my home country but then ghosted me. My mum said he's probably having a hard time himself but I checked his Fb and he did have fun. I was still very mentally ill but surprisingly managed to not get upset about it, told myself he's not worth it and moved on. He could at least tell me he could no longer deal with my depression and then cut off contact. I guess he'd rather ghost me than be upfront, so much for a 40 year-old Ivy League graduate. I deleted him from my Fb friendlist without blocking and he never added me back.
@@greenthunder1000 so why bother to care? It's about knowing your worth.
honestly, it's only because they found someone more attractive than you, this is the type of generation we live in.
What if he says he is stressed because of some serious family issues, can't give me time so lets be frnds again.?
@@maishayartonahi its a lie. 80 percent of people want to hurt you to feel better about themselves. there is no "i dont wanna be mean, so i'll just ignore her" bullshit. people always know what they do. stop believing that people are busy, were asleep, or didnt have time to reply to you. imagine if someone like Rihanna messaged him, would he ignore her and deal with his "family issues"? of course not. every single thing anyone says is a lie. trust only yourself
@@TheDarkDragonDemon guess what? Yesterday he told me he has no love for me..he feels nothing about me. While typing this , my hands are shivering. I am totally shattered. Just can't believe. I am broken into pieces. I madly loved him. Its so so so hard to trust anyone. I have been crying from yesterday. Should I accept the fact that there is no true love now.
@@maishayartonahi no. he's just an asshole
@@maishayartonahi I experienced similar things! He kept saying he is miserable and stressed because of exams and essays, haven’t met for two months; yet on ins two more people followed him and he followed back; I questioned his infidelity but he blamed me; then he disappeared forever.
The games people play is ridiculous these days...
Happens to me all the time, in reality they are insecure, have problems, like to make themselves feel better
Its painfull...
@@bellarossa3107 very..been through it
@@truthyouwontlike2451 yes pretty much
True... I've lost trust in humans now
Don, t just text or call someone when you are alone... That's the moral of this story... Be alone be independent focus on your goal and I'm sure the right person will walk in your way... We don't need to look after that or search in social media... Everything has a timing...
True!
@@tharuneet yes dear...
So true
@@Kalki_6 agree man...
Thx
"it's better they did it now rather than later on"... Thanks a ton jay
This really hit home with me. I do so much for others and I seem to always get hurt.
@sarah Kimberly Never ever go back to your ex
Rhonda, it happens to me as well. It sure does hurt. God bless.
I don’t let myself get attached to people so easily. Never rush into relationships with people so fast & be careful not to give up your phone number to quickly either.
Oh this is me dealing with it right now
Same he said he love me but he didn't even give me his phone no so
This is the advice I badly needed today.
...hmmm I was ghosted after whole year, so there's no pattern
Yes
The cruelest thing you can do to someone is awaken their feelings and their love, without having any intention of actually pursuing them,or when you are unsure of how you actually feel about them.
~Bob Marley.
No doubt. I've been on both ends and it's terrible.
Sounds like my American college (NOT prep school)experience in a nutshell. International students esp have that problem. It's hard to tell whether an American is really interested in you or just polite. I think the Korean language approach is actually good in this sense. It has a high power-distance style with honorifics and suffixes relating to age, position, and also closeness so you know how close you and the other person are based on your language so you won't misunderstand someone polite and friendly as really wanting to get close to you.
Totally I don't understand why do they do this
It's so hard to deal with, consumes so much time to get back to the normal course of our life!! Actually the thing is very few people care about others.
@@crownoo2857 that's right very few
Someone disappearing doesn't affect your worth, it reflects their priorities.
This hit me hard... ❣️
So true. I know the feeling.
Happened to me. Last week , after talking 3 weeks daily, suddenly unexpected he disappeared without any talk.
@@RashaIbrahim89 same
@@RashaIbrahim89 You're even lucky. to me, we texted and chatted for about 4 months. I even sent gifts to her like flowers and fruits. Damn.
It happened to me 3 weeks ago. The damage to your mental health, self esteem, confidence, your sleep and sanity goes beyond words. We were doing so well and then she just ghosted me after over 4 months of being in a committed relationship. It hurts so.
More people are superficial and are in constant search of wanting happiness. They lack inner sense of value. They are empty so never feel bad because of their insecurities. 🙏
@Sarah Kimverly are you confused? Be happy without having to chase and restore a man. You are a complete unit and you should find happiness and peace within yourself. 🙏 🙏
Yes, true. Im going through it now. Have been ghosted, silent treatment for many times. Yet i still forgive, forgive and forgive him. But now, it's going to be the last time. Im done. Checkmate.
Your a simp.
Thanks. 👌🏽
Eobard Thawne you're a daddy
Hey it's not just you , it's the same with me too dude , big HiFi
Same and i feel relieved now
Genuinely,if you don't expect anything from anyone, you will never be broken💙
Usually this is a line used by people who can’t give or willing to give to anyone, they don’t want people to have any expectations from them. Its like they use it as an excuse to justify their ignorance. Sure if you do something for someone, you care for them, you do right to them but eventually same person starts to ignore your or even insults you because they don’t want you anymore. Then there is a problem, truth is that nobody wants to be disrespected by the person that you cared for. Sure don’t give them anything in return but atleast don’t make their efforts look worthless. When it comes to me, i always tell people they can expect me to be there for them in their good and bad, and when some one give me one, i thank them by giving them 10. This is my definition showing respect and greatfullness. Always remember actions are louder than words.
@@MohitSapra97 Well whenever I do expect their presence. All they give me is absence. So it's better not to in that way I will cry less.
But Don't you think it's tough not to expect love and affection back. It's seems to be next to impossible.
Subhankar - that would require living like a robot with no human emotions. Easier said than done.
@@WORLD8NSH5KNIGHT1 Exactly. I can't fall in love at all if I'm not hoping for it to happen. And that means.... expectations.
I'd rather die right now than not be able to love.
Pets never ghost you, never.
Actually my cat died and I saw it's ghost 😌
Amen to that
Yess🙏🦋
My cat left the house 2 months ago and never came back,he was with us throughout the time he was a kitten to becoming a cat.He ghosted me when he knew his spoon feeding (food on time) needs are over!
@T A My cat did the same but I found it charming , he would just walk past me. Different to a woman ha ha.
It’s worse when someone ghosts you who you know in real life and got really close to. Don’t need him to want a relationship with me. I just want to know he cares.
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I've realized, those who ghosted you truly did you a favor! Do you really want to continue a relationship or friendship with someone who behaves and treats you in this way? You deserve better! If someone wants to walk out your life, let them walk. Bless them, wish them well, and then move on. At least they teach others how to NOT treat people, and that our value is not based on whether someone accepts or rejects us. Our value is innate because of our Creator, Almighty God. You will overcome, and become stronger as a result, it's hard to see that while you are hurting, but the pain will subside. The people who were meant to be in your life will remain.
I learn so much to you dear friend
Very well said
Needed this! Thank you!
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Amen! Beautifully stated!
Thanks bro !! Really needed these words
Thanks bro. Just need some time to let it all sink in and gradually get over this now. Ghosting is the most cruel, immature, childish and evil thing she ever did to me. There was no reason, no communication, no dialogue, no closure just no more texts, calls, mail, no more care and love from her. I don't know if I will ever trust another woman ever again.
If they stop messaging and just ghosted you for a week, have the decency to stop chasing them and start chasing your dreams.
Watching this literally broke my heart . Get well soon to all those people out there who are ghosted in sm way or other . You deserve the world don't loose hope . Amen ❤️
Dahiya Teena :')
😕😕
Thank you
💗
❤
I’ve bee ghosted recently and it’s killing me, tbh.
The longer it goes on, the more confused I feel. I had several really good dates with somebody. Then one day of no contact turns into almost a month and I have no idea why. I didn’t do anything wrong, there was no hint, clue or suggestion this would happen...and it absolutely sucks. You want to keep asking questions and to try and get a response but at the same time you know you should probably leave it and let this bird fly away. It’s difficult as I only had really good times with this person....I know they had a good time too. It hurts your pride, self esteem and confidence. I don’t even hate this person or have negative feelings towards them...I just wish I knew why they felt like I could be dropped like I didn’t matter and with no consideration for how it might feel. If I was an arsehole or rude to them, or we argued or didn’t get on then maybe I could begin to accept and understand being ghosted...but it was the complete opposite.
Yes.. Being blocked on WhatsApp out of the blue, for no apparent reason when you had an hour of lovely chat 5 min earlier really hurts your feelings. I've been depressed for 3 days. Today I'm feeling better. I don't know the guy that well so it's not love. But it shatters your self esteem being ghosted like that. I wish he had messaged me and told me what brothered him but he chose the easy way out. Social media is full of cowards.
It's not a reflection of you, it's a reflection of them. A reflection of their lack of emotional intelligence, empathy and decency
@@Trisof88 thank you for your wise words. I appreciate it. I'm slowly but surely getting over it but it still hurts so your comment was more than welcome. Have a lovely day .
Yeah man this exact same thing happened to me. It was more of a summer fling thing not a relationship but still we had hung out a lot and I thought we were both having a good time then I just get left on read randomly. And I’m not pissed at her, it’s completely her right to make the decision to end it but it’s just so frustrating not even knowing what I did wrong and thinking I fucked up. I guess I’m just trying to look on the bright side and I’m saying to myself at least she made it obvious she wasn’t into me anymore and I can now move on.
@@gabemedina2275 We gotta stop hurting ourselves in these "temporary situations"
Ghosting- new form of emotional torture
Agree!
Yeah this is extremely childish. Finding love is hard. Chill out or you wont find it.
Except it's not 'new'.
You meet someone. You two get close. It's all great for a while. Then someone stops trying. Talk less. Awkward conversations. No communication whatsoever. Memories start to fade, then that person becomes that person you KNEW. That's how it usually goes, right? Sad isn't it.💔😭...
#Ghosted
Yeah
Aww😭
Don't waste an amazing person's time and energy if your not serious. That person can be useful and treasured by someone else.
So true
Going from an 8 year relationship to then using dating apps (or just dating in general) has single-handedly been the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do. I’ve been ghosted more times than I can count, just because I wear my heart on my sleeve and tell them how I feel. Dating nowadays is a game of “whoever can give a shit less-wins.” It’s so disheartening and I’m slowly giving up.
I wear my heart on my sleeve too and have experienced the same thing.
Same for us men, shame the amount of people on here who've been ghosted, some of the people may match. Atleast nobody is ghosting anyone. It only takes a simple sorry, but this isn't what I'm looking for etc. Then everyone can move on.
You are right about modern dating
It hurts so much especially when they show too much love and then suddenly they cut us off like nothing was there!!
Man sometimes can get confused or realise that he is not ready to.commit.It is an act of cowardice. Good or bad. -- hard to tell. Always show him that he has much to lose in the end.
No one is really busy it's all about priority 💓if someone ghosted you just leave them , control yourself and let karma hit up them back 😇
@K. Vijaya Durga delete everything related to him /her and stay busy so you won't have time to think about them. Move on 😇keeping memories and being depressed don't make your life happy 🤗
It's so hard to let em go😭😭😭 being addicted to someone and being ghosted is so painful I've been depressed for 3weeks now couldn't even chat with anyone else
@@authoritygee4816 don't be depressed .. And stop thinking about them. What you get by being depressed ? Will they come back to you .....by depressing yourself?? Just focus on your goals and move on 😊. Feel free to talk with me. And give me chance to motivate you 🙂
@@bishnutamang389 thanks so much 😍
@@authoritygee4816 heartily welcome 💓
Love is the biggest joke of 21st century
Literally the worst joke ever
It doesn’t exist these days
Man that's so true
Worldly people Only live for themselves and their "Own happiness" and not your happiness. We are literally begging for love from Beggars who are Also looking for happiness. Yet they never find real happiness with all the hookups, sex etc. Because when they're not getting that hit/high ..they're sad again.
Greed decreases ..and love decreases... greed increases and love increases = wordly/ temporary love.
Only selfless people bestow love upon others. There is a difference between showing love and thinking about the welfare of others + love.
Wordly people can Only show u love. But only saints and God think about your welfare .they will give divine love.
You're right... 😢😢 They dare to play with someone's heart....
"Don't let people get attached and then drop them like they don't even matter" :( Pls.
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I’ve been through this lately and damn how much it hurts to be lead on. Don’t waste someone’s time pretending that you have feelings for them. Be sincere or LEAVE THEM ALONE.
Same here😞😞
I'm.smarter now. I don't even believe if they proclaim that I am the love of their life. Nothing is for real until they show their commitment. Don't let them justify and embellish their unreasonable action with nice sounding words. Worse still, love can be blind esp to some women.who try to justify their man's action so that they can forgive him and pretend nothing has happened. Wise up or get trampled upon.
True
If no one text you they are :
1.Busy
2.Don t care about you./You make they angry
3.They care on you only when you are important for them
*Them
If someone doesn't text you, you are not their priority. If they won't make time for you, you are not their priority. ✌️
@@social76 totally agree.. even tho... sometimes i want to message that girl... but i know that i mean almost nothing to her... so if i will msg her... i will just damage myself by wearing pink glasses once again(
Cyber Duck Maybe they just don’t give a fuck about anything. I don’t , I never message anyone , never call anyone. Unless until I have something important to discuss. Some people just don’t like chit chat.
No one is ever too busy, you are not a priority to them. Only acceptable reason for me would be health , can't do nothing when you are sick, otherwise you are not their priority.
I just got ghosted after 3 months of 24×7 chatting and lots of emotions...thnx for uploading this video...really needed this one 😞
"When someone disappears, don't let them reappear just because they feel like it"
This line gave me strength...thank uh❤
Yeah but after 3 months you should be be dating in the real life by that time. Nothing can replace real contact.
Same here tanvi ..
We chatted for 3-4 months .she lives in another city .
Now she doesn't text at all . I don't know how can she even have the courage to ghost someone whom she chatted for 3 months daily ??
@@Rock-mn5kq She probably meeted someone who lives close to her.
There will always be someone, they just dont in come in our lifes excatly when we want them too
@shazmitanvi I am going through this situation.
Ghosting someone means they havent been raised right.
Exactly 👍💯
Definitely
No
No, it means the one who you ghosted made your life miserable enough that you had no option left
Some people deserve to be ignored
Be careful about your actions. Cause once you ghost that person, they might ghost the rest of their friends. And you just murdered someone mentally.
Me everyday .. I’ve been murdered
Probably really killed themselves physically. Cornered someone who feels already defeated even more. Sealed a final blow of "you don't matter" so they threw you away just like that, even lower than trash or shits.
This is soooooooo true!!!!!
i hate it
Avoid meeting people online - honestly it really isn't worth it and it isn't even natural feeling attracted over a image of someone than seeing them in person. You're likely to have better success meeting people in person and seeing how you really get along with them than chatting to them on text
Online guys have too many options
@@ceyciemateo9411 THIS. 😭😭😭 SO DO U THINK HE FOUND A FAR BETTER N PRETTIER GIRL THAN ME? 😭😭😭
@@michellekahlez2105
I’m like very pretty, everyone tells me I should model and this happens to me all of the time. I get ghosted. I am successful, I own a 270k home, have my own business, educated have a college degree, and outgoing. I literally do everything right and my experience with online dating ends up the same... I’m not dating anymore. I’m done
@@ceyciemateo9411 well THOSE BASTARDS BELONG IN THE TRASH CAN 🗑️🚮
@@ceyciemateo9411 and in my case...
So this guy was RLY CUTE NO CAP. We met on a dating app. He's the one who liked my profile first then I asked him for his number then he gave it out. He used to complimented me a lot, even KEPT BEGGING TO ME FOR SENDING HIM MY PICTURES and initiating a convo for solid 3 times. We texted almost like everyday but then he suddenly blocked me just yesterday for no reason after I was asking him about ''how was ur school day'' in voice note.
wtaf I RLY WISHED WE COULD BE FRIENDS IN A LONG TERM BUT GOSH LIKE CAN U TELL ME WHERE'S MY FAULT PLS? 😭😭😭 it's painful
"Don't let people get attached and drop them like they don't even matter".-Jay
It's better they did it now , rather than later on.....well said ✨🥺💯
I don't know if youtube really understand me or they spying on my miserable love life 😂
Melda Yoo right?! Lol
Same sis hhhh
Baby never cry again
Melda Yoo honestly! :(
Same
Someone that stops talking 2 U , thank them 4 showing thier true colors and thank them 4 letting U know 2 find someone better !
I was always the one texting her & messaging her first .
I was the only one asking about her etc but she never used do anything first .
So I stopped talking .
This is called Self Respect ❤️
Same here but when I disappeared she started chasing me and I thought she was interested but I realized that she only wanted my attention and validation so in some cases I feel like you have permission to ghost someone without any explanation.
TWO CAN PLAY THE SAME GAME😊
Yes very tru
Same here🙂
Thnx, i needed this!
I recently got ghosted by someone I thought was a great guy....so I changed my number and blocked him on social media.
This is my first time to be ghosted and it really hurts😭💔. I wished that I never met him. I don't want to cry anymore because of him
Don’t cry
Happy Virus haha i get ghosted 95% 🙄😂
I felt u mannnnn :(
Prepare for more
Dont waste your tears on someone like him.
If they stop messaging, u stop bothering...🙅
Yep....u r ryt
True, nice
Is it always possible @Achyut Sai
A little bit tbh... but more often we feel like whats wrong with us or with them that they have stopped texting us??
Like out of nowhere we just try to guess the reasons!!
But till when have to stay in imaginary world depending on assumptions@Shubham Gidwani
This is why texting is dumb. When you talk to someone in person (or even on the phone) they have to respond to you. Texting is an inferior form of communication anyway.
Even if you talk to someone in person, if they don't want to, I can assure you that they won't respond either :\
@@slabua The beauty to that , is you see the signs that someone doesn't wish to talk to you through body language.
@@slabua At least when they dont respond in person, you'll know for sure that they don't like you. With texting you'll always be wondering if she just hasn't checked her phone yet, or if her phone died, or she left it in her car and hasn't noticed yet, or if she took some time to think of how to respond and then fell asleep, OR if she doesn't want to talk to you. You always think there's a chance that there's an explanation why they haven't texted you back other than they just don't like you, and it sucks being strung along like that and sitting around waiting for a text that's never gonna come. (Don't do that btw)
@@luminous6969 true story, been there, trying to learn from the past experience 😔
@@slabua This is why I don't text people I have a crush on anymore. I just call them and if they don't answer, leave a message telling them what you wanted to say and to call you back. If they don't call you back, MOVE ON. If she's not interested in you, you'll never convince her to be interested in you. Trying to get someone that doesn't like you is a waste of time, and it makes you miss opportunities with other girls that maybe WILL like you cos you're so focused on a girl that doesn't even like you.
Damn! I needed this right now, I think I was about to hurt someone as someone else ghosted me a few months ago. Don't ever do things to someone innocent which were hard for you to face. We hardly realise this at that point of time, but we should be conscious enough to step back if we don't have feelings for someone. This video guided me today. Thank you ✨🙏
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When someone disappears, don't let them appear just because they feel like it.
Maybe the best reply out of good replies! Because I used to pretend like it didn't happen only to have it BLOW UP MY.FACE a little while later from them inevitably.V( guess who beat up who? It wasn't them beating up me, but me beating up myself for putting up with them afterwards
1 year of being best friends and 2 years of being lovers with the same person. End up being ghosted like we never met. Never expect it would end like this.
Ditto, it stings even more when you have history.
Oh my. I'm so sorry to hear that. Have you heard anything from them since?
Hi. What is the latest?
Wow
@@amit77 blocked and never got a single news bout her ever since.
What a suggestion of TH-cam, I mean TH-cam know my situation 😂
😂
Yeah, Same here.
HAHAHAHAHAHAHA what a coincidence
same😂
RJ Tanweer I guess they track my messages, bc I didn’t even mention it out loud 😂🧐
This video was an eye opener🥺🥺being ghosted is the worst thing that could happen ......it is like being left in the dark😔
The reason god separated you from her/him because god listened to those backbitchings and shit you never noticed.😊
Don't worry,you will end up with your perfect soulmate,the one who is made for you,the one who is made like you and most importantly ,the one who is made for forever.But for now ,value and care for those who are and always be with you.😊😇
God*
❤
Why would God even let you meet him/her just so they can hurt you? 🙄🤔
I love this comment. Thx
@@marijaalilovic6453 i feel like it's for experience because anything bad that happens is a learning curve. Im a true believer that everything happens for a reason and sometimes people are taken out of your life to be replaced with something or someone better
People are horrible
.. I lost faith in humanity long time ago.
No you shouldn't... you're our last hope...😊
Unfortunately I was starting to think like you. It's so sad sometimes.
It's true, humanity on a whole just hates each other. Humans, has nothing better to these days then dump people (good people with wiser intentions). Shame
I wish I couldn't gree, but... there must be a hope.... it so sad that for now you are right. Most people love to play with the emotion with others and that is very dangerous and sad ;(
@@Exigoo Just take it easy and focus on what makes you happy. Spend more time on things you can control in your life, rather then focusing on things you can't . Only, time will tell.
When people try to destroy you, it reflects who they are and not who you are. And honestly, it's easier said than done but it's a blessing if such double faced people disappear from your lives on their own.
Thanks for saying it. You are right!
Thanks Aranya.are u bengali??
Well said it's true
@@pkmkbindianarmy1480 Yes 😊
Yes you are Right, I also have been ghosted 😭😭
Being ghosted sucks. But, he is so right. Someone ghosting you does not define your worth or value. It's a reflection of theirs. If people want to walk away, let them. Right? It's not rejection, it's redirection to something better for you. Sending all positive love and energy to everyone. ❤ thanks for the reminder. Great video. We are all amazing in our own way.
If they stopped messaging you then they did you a favor. Why would you want someone that doesn’t want or need you? This way you have room to grow and make space for the ones that do want and need you.😊👍
Sounds logical but true
If she stopped msging then find the reason and stop making mistakes....and make her impress impress impress.....one day will come when she said yes..to u.... that's the madness of love and she will understand...
True.But at same time this sentence does nt stopped.It will continue.None will be with us permanently.They will kept love n go.Cz this world ppl mind is alws changing according to selfishness n lust.This ppls dono meaning of True love rdy!. Such a shame!
This is a common practice now...with friends and lovers, both. People don't care and they don't want to deal with anything...they just walk away.
Yeah even with friends... when is a prospect (for a couple relationship) it's easier to get over it, but when is about supposed friends it hurts more.
Had it happened to me, tried to call/text but it wasn’t the same. Respect yourself and move on. I’d rather be alone then around someone fake.
Had this girl I was really good friends with at work. The day I left the organization, she did not even call or text me. Didn't even reply to my messages. I have to say the ghosting was amazing here. It felt like there was never a bond between us.
Stay emotional bulletproof: Never get attached to the outcome!
that's against human being lol
@@NguyenHoa-el4ys But yet the only solution to save your own peace 🤌🏼🗿
False
no, because we need love
I can feel what u said...