22-year-old Cari Drops a Bomb about Secret Son | First Dates New Zealand

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  • @ScousersWife
    @ScousersWife ปีที่แล้ว +120

    Why call her son a "secret son"? She didn't keep him a secret and instead put him first, as well she should.

    • @jackie8357
      @jackie8357 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Quick hide - he's a secret lol!! She sounds like a good mom

  • @darkerbinding6933
    @darkerbinding6933 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    He's a big child and there is no way that she should get involved with him. Her son deserves a lot more.

    • @NancyFoshee-cl1rl
      @NancyFoshee-cl1rl 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      he needs to untie the apron strings asap...for ANY future GF...!

  • @karissakline6765
    @karissakline6765 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Am I missing something? Women really think this guy is attractive? After the first pressure to get a drink I would have walked right out.

    • @Smallmanbigworld1
      @Smallmanbigworld1 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      He's very immature for 25 years old and looks older.

    • @cbeautifulworld11
      @cbeautifulworld11 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I agree, he's not attractive.
      Too many men underestimate women with their assumptions that they will be attracted to a guy based only upon looks.
      His attitude, demeanor, conversation and general vibe make him completely unattractive to a woman with depth and intelligence.
      Some men's intrinsically beautiful, soulful qualities other than just looks make them irresistible.
      He is not one of those guys.

    • @hazar2354
      @hazar2354 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He's very average

    • @curlsbyalexa
      @curlsbyalexa ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👏🏽

  • @spiritedaway99
    @spiritedaway99 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    he got on my nerves since the beginning of the vd,glad she said no,wish her the best

  • @hilberryable
    @hilberryable ปีที่แล้ว +137

    He wanted a 2nd date just so that he possibly could get lucky. She is lovely and was right not to be pressured into a drink when she arrived. Single moms can find it difficult to find a mature minded dater.

    • @ENFPerspectives
      @ENFPerspectives ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Agree. Very mature for her age & she needs a mature man. More clothing also, perhaps.

    • @sigma8995
      @sigma8995 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I agree with the part of him wanting a second date to get lucky. This guy is a F boy, and he wants all the action he can get.
      As for the single mom having a hard time finding a "mature minded guy" to date, that part is debatable. Mature guys are smart enough to not date single mom. Most just want to have some fun if they are dating a single mom. She should have picked the father of her child much more carefully.

    • @tenzinrapgay9746
      @tenzinrapgay9746 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ​@@sigma8995she could get a mature guy , but probably a much older man not a young guy who just want to have fun.

    • @jojobee42
      @jojobee42 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      There's nothing wrong with not wanting to date someone with a child. Young men who have kids find it hard to date too ~ not every young girl wants to date someone with a child... It just changes everything. And that's ok.

    • @Skeezer66
      @Skeezer66 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She could try finding a single young dad! Someone who completely understands where she is in life, and has serious responsibilities.

  • @curious1366
    @curious1366 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I don't think they are a good match.
    She doesn't need a second son. He's looking for someone to baby him. He needs to grow up!

    • @beautifulplaces2703
      @beautifulplaces2703 ปีที่แล้ว

      Or find a sugar mummy .

    • @Billyb0b557
      @Billyb0b557 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And this clip shows him in a much better light, watch the other video of their date and see what he says!

    • @cb4017
      @cb4017 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He can provide though ✅

  • @tvted6160
    @tvted6160 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    He just wants 🐈 - glad she wasn’t fooled by him.

  • @mst-pierrem5729
    @mst-pierrem5729 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Red flag, a dude who pressure a woman to drink.... Bye !!!

  • @cbeautifulworld11
    @cbeautifulworld11 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This is a re-post and they cut out the part where as soon as they sat down at the table, he asked her, hopefully, if she has one night stands. 🙄

  • @mamaraah2578
    @mamaraah2578 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    This is they type of man I wouldn’t want my own daughters dating. This lady dodged a bullet .

    • @kiuk_kiks
      @kiuk_kiks 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Should’ve dodged the having a child so young without his father around 😂

  • @AndyUK-Corrival
    @AndyUK-Corrival ปีที่แล้ว +82

    She didn’t need two kids in her life. Jeez. She is lovely and deserves better.

    • @annstewart8506
      @annstewart8506 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agree!

    • @evolvedvenom6610
      @evolvedvenom6610 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She deserves way less… single mother at 22??

    • @scottw7990
      @scottw7990 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao 😂

    • @speedythings7396
      @speedythings7396 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ain't no way. Single Mother. Absolute Red Flag

    • @hilberryable
      @hilberryable ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Totally agree. A Mummy's boy will always be expecting to be pampered by someone else. I would also give him miss for a 2nd date,

  • @donaldauguston9740
    @donaldauguston9740 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    OK - he was beautiful (physically), but who the hell would want to date a man who thinks of himself as a 25 year old "bearded baby with a bank account"???? MOVE ON GIRLS.

    • @reynaldosilva1115
      @reynaldosilva1115 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sounds like the plot to boss baby

    • @slevinlindsay3624
      @slevinlindsay3624 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Beautiful!? Far from it. he's just an attractive guy in the vein of a brutish rugby league player if you like that sort of look. Also, way too many - dare I say, trashy - tattoos is off-putting. He has them up his arms. For a guy to be beautiful, and I've seen it (usually a model) , he would have to have a touch of softness about his face whilst also looking masculine with very nice and symmetrical features. This dude is just stock standard in the good-looking department and even then, on the lower end of the scale.

    • @misterleaf7936
      @misterleaf7936 ปีที่แล้ว

      Atleast he is honest about himself....

    • @patrickwilson183
      @patrickwilson183 ปีที่แล้ว

      Naw shaaaaart up@@slevinlindsay3624

  • @jeretso
    @jeretso 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I can see him ordering the kid around to get him a beer. Run Girl Run

  • @Yasminlily89
    @Yasminlily89 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Atleast he was honest

  • @annstewart8506
    @annstewart8506 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Was this guy wanting a nanny or a date and relationship?? Immature I thought!

  • @krisjackson5967
    @krisjackson5967 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I had 2 children at 22 as was married at 18. Parents need to put their precious children first

  • @l.c.3150
    @l.c.3150 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    How is this show matching people??Would have been nice to see her matched up with somebody open to dating a person with a child. Why are they purposefully matching opposites and pairing red flags together? Canada’s first date does the same😢

  • @MamawithAtude-ib4em
    @MamawithAtude-ib4em ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Am I sounding judgemental to point out that her son, at 2 1/2, is too young for her, as a mother, to be out dating, at all?

    • @natscat4752
      @natscat4752 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yes

  • @oc5939
    @oc5939 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Dude needs to grow up a bit.

  • @curlsbyalexa
    @curlsbyalexa ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Run girl

  • @StreetSmartMillionaire
    @StreetSmartMillionaire ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Horrible if any girl would be stuck with a child like him. I also have the feeling his parents are going to be looking for an apartment after they lose their house.

  • @NSWSES1990
    @NSWSES1990 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Mismatch

  • @LeMerch
    @LeMerch 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    He’s incredibly immature.

  • @juliecortes8459
    @juliecortes8459 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He's a BIG no from the start.

  • @JamesCraigWhoop
    @JamesCraigWhoop ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I cannot think of a better way to say I'm not a serious contender, then by getting pickled on a date 🍺🥴🤢🤮

  • @michelleroselilley4637
    @michelleroselilley4637 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He has a distorted sense of self.

  • @thegreat7861
    @thegreat7861 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Pressuring her to have a drink smh This man child needs to grow up but I’m guessing he never will

    • @ppumpkin3282
      @ppumpkin3282 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why should he? He made it clear is goal is 1) financial security, 2) enjoy life. And whats wrong with that?

    • @thegreat7861
      @thegreat7861 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ppumpkin3282do you understand what the word no means? He can do what he likes and considers fun and she is also allowed to do the same.

  • @Lochness-Bess
    @Lochness-Bess ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Hes not it and shes gorgeous and down to earth

    • @nutworms
      @nutworms ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He is “it”, but imagine you discover the person you’re into has a secret son and you’re in a moment of your life where you’re trying to improve yourself as a person. Goals don’t meet if the other person has a child, he was kind, chill, and had clear goals in his mind

  • @danielg9408
    @danielg9408 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Bro wore a workout shirt ....

    • @bossbitchh
      @bossbitchh 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yeah from a company he started lol

  • @svlagonda7417
    @svlagonda7417 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I like them both. Credit to both of them for being honest, open and respectful about their needs.

  • @zdiddy-dw9vg
    @zdiddy-dw9vg ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She's got another man's child. Not many dudes wanna sign for that package deal. Just the facts no feelings.

    • @natscat4752
      @natscat4752 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      And he is a man child so….

    • @lillierose5304
      @lillierose5304 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      That's absolutely fine to not want that. I'm a solo mum and I don't want to date or bring a man into my home. I'm happy just being with my kids and friends, it's way too perfect and peaceful. It would be far too complicated to have to navigate those dynamics. So some of us single mums don't want you either haha.

  • @2615ParkAvenueAssociates
    @2615ParkAvenueAssociates ปีที่แล้ว +28

    She's lovely. She is also mature enough to say--regardless of his tremendous good looks--that her child comes first. He's all up for a bit of fun but she knows it's best to leave it as friends. He seems to be a good guy. Good luck to them both.

    • @karissakline6765
      @karissakline6765 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Tremendous good looks? Hardly. 😂😂

    • @ENFPerspectives
      @ENFPerspectives ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She was very beautiful & intelligent; no sense in wasting her time on a man who isn't Dad material yet.

    • @spiritedaway99
      @spiritedaway99 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      the only good act he did was paying the bill,even tho i would have personally paid my meal if i wasn t planning on seeing the person again

    • @2615ParkAvenueAssociates
      @2615ParkAvenueAssociates ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@spiritedaway99 He also brought her a present; maybe I missed it but did they ever say what it was?

    • @Crystalbomb321
      @Crystalbomb321 ปีที่แล้ว

      He’s ok looking. A 6.5 at best lol tremendous 😂 uh no.

  • @patrickwilson183
    @patrickwilson183 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He was giving 'one night stand' vibes. But he is fully right about not wanting a woman with children as a 25 year old man. I am of the belief that a girl having a kid at 19 to a father that is not around shows terrible decision making and is a legit enough reason to run the other way.

  • @mattneillninasmom
    @mattneillninasmom ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Not on the same page. She doesn't need a second child, and he says he "wants to be taken care of....have someone make his bed and cook him breakfast..."

  • @PROVOCATEURSK
    @PROVOCATEURSK ปีที่แล้ว +23

    You don´t want to be number 4 priority for a single mother after her, her child and money.

    • @lillierose5304
      @lillierose5304 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What is it with all these needy people wanting to be someone's number 1 priority. A lot to ask! Why do you think you're so special?

  • @davidgowing6544
    @davidgowing6544 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Well done for showing the whole date 👍

  • @jennifergirling6850
    @jennifergirling6850 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    New Zealand keeps mismatching!

  • @shalimar29
    @shalimar29 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Women or men at any age shouldn't settle for someone with children. Only because your're 47 or 49 years old, it doesn't mean that you have to put up with this. It will only ruin your self confidence & make you an option & never a priority in his/her life. The same thing applies to their grown up children 😅

    • @mizhomesiq
      @mizhomesiq 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I dated and married my husband, who had a child from a previous relationship. Yes it's really difficult to adjust during the first few years as his son always comes first. However I stuck thru it and now am a proud stepmom and mom to our 2 babies. I get along really well with my stepson, and he in turn adores his younger half siblings aka my kids. There's always an exception of how things will turn out. Perhaps I'm one of the few lucky ones.

    • @natscat4752
      @natscat4752 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Some folk love a relationship with a child or children involved so I think that’s quite a statement to make. Depends on the individuals involved surely!

    • @ppumpkin3282
      @ppumpkin3282 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The other question is where does the boys father fit in?

  • @erics670
    @erics670 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Her personality is just amazing. Beautiful and feminine.

  • @catrescuer
    @catrescuer ปีที่แล้ว +7

    What a knob…run girl run😅

  • @supremennn3829
    @supremennn3829 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    What has this been reuploaded???

  • @MrDavfit
    @MrDavfit ปีที่แล้ว +9

    why did she bother he's too young.

    • @80for80
      @80for80 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      LOL... she has a kid. She wishes she could have him

    • @hilberryable
      @hilberryable ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Loved her comment about changing his diaper in 6 years time. Mommy's boys are the pits.

  • @keire2
    @keire2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ye man is a small minded man-child, she is lucky not to be near him

  • @mariem3429
    @mariem3429 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Guess any one can call themselves a "model" 😆🤣

  • @AdamFrancisco
    @AdamFrancisco ปีที่แล้ว +23

    She is absolutely gorgeous and 💯 my type but I wouldn’t enter a relationship with someone with a kid at this point in my life. If later in life I’m single with kids, then we’d be on an even playing field

    • @ferraroannie4058
      @ferraroannie4058 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He is absolutely gorgeous. He could do a lot better than her.

    • @sigma8995
      @sigma8995 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said.

    • @jojobee42
      @jojobee42 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      And I think that's a fair thing to say! I'd say the same thing, and I'm a woman.

  • @BreakTheStereoRadio
    @BreakTheStereoRadio 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Do I have anything in my teeth?"..."Nawwrrr".

  • @robertgelblum5154
    @robertgelblum5154 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Physically, I would say they are a good match (both very attractive). He has many things going for him: very serious about being financially secure, a very outgoing, fun-loving personality. On the negative side, he admits to needing someone to take care of him (a kind of mother substitute?) - not exactly a sign of a completely mature man. But the crux of the matter is that she has a young child already (apparently with serious health issues, ie being born with external intestines!), and he is simply not ready to take on that kind of responsibility at his young age (if ever?). She rightly rejects him on that basis.

    • @spiritedaway99
      @spiritedaway99 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      woman pov : that man wasn't attractive,average with his persona he's below zero

    • @cbeautifulworld11
      @cbeautifulworld11 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @spiritedaway99 I agree, average on the outside, no substance on the inside.

    • @spiritedaway99
      @spiritedaway99 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@cbeautifulworld11 yeah,he is arrogant and full of himself,confidence is nice but not in such lengths! didn't even show appreciation to what his parents done to him,like yeah they sold their house to support my business but whatever lol!!

    • @thedudebro168
      @thedudebro168 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Anyone that's serious about being financially secure didn't need their parent help to get there

  • @Burlykim13
    @Burlykim13 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He’s too arrogant and self absorbed. I mean at least he’s honest. She was coming on pretty strong too…not a match imo, and I’m happy to see that despite her obvious attraction she didn’t fall for the charms to get her into bed.

    • @hooglieable
      @hooglieable ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Experience, this isn't her first round.

  • @oooooo3231
    @oooooo3231 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    be real people. men do not want to be with a woman that has a child with another man. many reasons men don't want to bear the raising of another mans kid. for starters, the mother will always choose that child over the husband she is married to. its just how most women are. if the man needed to discipline the child, the woman will jump in and say don't do that. it really would not be fair to the man who is paying for that child and not have real father control. so, anyone here says that she is lovely or what ever, this type of thinking will cause more single mothers. i would love to see anyone of you to contact a single mother and start raising their children right now. so please don't encourage this behavior.

    • @rageatm4life
      @rageatm4life 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Man this is not true at all it can swing the other way and the man or women can neglect that child to be with their partner. Life isn’t that binary mate , log off from the internet for awhile

    • @lillierose5304
      @lillierose5304 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      People adopt too, so that's raising someone else's kid. And why do you have to be someone's number 1 priority? Why so needy? And Even if you have your own kids with someone you will not be number 1 then either.

  • @ppumpkin3282
    @ppumpkin3282 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "my son is everything to me". She's looking for a father figure, not a mate.

  • @shaunallingham1863
    @shaunallingham1863 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Having a kid is one of the biggest things a woman can say to me that can change my mind about dating them.

    • @slothanie420
      @slothanie420 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Same with men

    • @annstewart8506
      @annstewart8506 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Love your honesty. It changes the dynamics when a child is involved.

    • @jojobee42
      @jojobee42 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      And that's okay! There's nothing wrong with not wanting to date someone with kids, or to think-twice about dating them..

    • @patrickwilson183
      @patrickwilson183 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not the same at all silly. Since when does a man having a child completely change his entire hormonal system and physical appearance? Sorry love@@slothanie420

    • @lillierose5304
      @lillierose5304 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Some women won't date men who have kids either.

  • @SandorFekete
    @SandorFekete ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He definitely acted quite childish but let’s be honest guys who wants to date a single mom with a two year old?? Depends where you’re at I suppose. But to each their own.

  • @TinMan445
    @TinMan445 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so glad she said no. This guy was looking for a good night, and she needs a father for her son. Who wears a t shirt and sweatpants to a date, then orders a Long Island ice tea😂

  • @avo6198
    @avo6198 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    man child vs. single momma? no buenooo. run for your lives!!

  • @CorporateQueen
    @CorporateQueen ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm a mummy's boy. No. Grow up.

  • @raymondmuller6072
    @raymondmuller6072 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    where do they find these tools?

  • @manilkasheran2934
    @manilkasheran2934 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He literally started checking his phone when she told him about her son's health problems!

  • @eijonasson
    @eijonasson 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hardly a fine dining experience
    when you can hardly hear anything except chitter chatter, banging, crashing of dishes, without soft music as a privacy barrier .

  • @mixrm0n
    @mixrm0n 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    TBH, once someone has a kid, they should only date other people with kids. People can't empathize unless they have gone through it themselves.

  • @suewilson3553
    @suewilson3553 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    She dresses like that presents herself like that and she doesn't know why she gets treated like THAT? Give me a break!!

    • @ppumpkin3282
      @ppumpkin3282 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No accountability.

  • @jennymc7630
    @jennymc7630 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hes alright....not every fella wants to take care of another fellas baby i sure wouldn't

  • @behappysmille342
    @behappysmille342 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    to be honest in looking for a partner I will look for one who doesn't have children I say that doesn't mean he's bad

  • @sosomelodies659
    @sosomelodies659 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What kinda choices do you think she has while dating as a single mother? Do you think she's going to get first draft picks? Do you really think a successful guy is winning if he ends up with her and has to contend with the fathers baby? Get real.

  • @pancakesandtea
    @pancakesandtea ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He is drunk.

  • @tsambikatsa926
    @tsambikatsa926 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Beautiful Beautiful Girl

  • @DanielDanielsen
    @DanielDanielsen ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Not a real man

    • @RedPillSpill101
      @RedPillSpill101 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Way more than you though.

    • @cb4017
      @cb4017 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He paid the bill that’s what real men do

  • @colaboytje
    @colaboytje ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Women: having kids when you are dating, is not a selling point.
    First, men have to break your extremely high protective wall, then they need to meet your children. When the children don't like the new man, there is no future.
    And as every mother says: my kids will always be first place. That is not fun to hear, believe it or not. But mothers do expect the man to put them at first place.
    To clarify: there is nothing wrong with being a mother and dating. I wouldn't mind, unless you expect me to always be in second place and you don't trust me to meet your children, who will decide if there is a future when all things are said or done.

    • @lillierose5304
      @lillierose5304 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A good mother will never put a man before her kids.

    • @ppumpkin3282
      @ppumpkin3282 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lillierose5304 A good man will never play second fiddle. A weak man will.

    • @lillierose5304
      @lillierose5304 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ppumpkin3282 that's ok. Women don't really need men the way that men need women.

  • @pcharm3711
    @pcharm3711 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mommy's boy. Red flag. Esp at his age.

  • @erichchan3
    @erichchan3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    22 and with a 2.5 year old son as a single mum...not a good start. Makes you wonder what happened to the biological father. Shes good looking but not enough to compensate for taking on the child.
    Then she had the audacity for not giving him a 2nd chance when she shoulr be lucky for a man to give her a chance.

    • @sigma8995
      @sigma8995 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It's a common female mating strategy. These women would find chad and or someone who fits the profile of what they envision to be the father of their child, DNA donor, get pregnant. Then find a nice, caring beta male provider. The crazy thing is, many of these women do it on a subconscious level without realizing it at all. Evolutionary forces are strong.

    • @tenzinrapgay9746
      @tenzinrapgay9746 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She didnt give him a second chance because she knew he wasnt going to settle down and was only looking for fun.

    • @sigma8995
      @sigma8995 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@tenzinrapgay9746 We have to ask the question, why would a single guy with no kids, heading toward his prime settle down with a single mom?

    • @tenzinrapgay9746
      @tenzinrapgay9746 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@sigma8995 she realized that by the look on his face when she mentioned her son.which is why she didnt want another date.

    • @tenzinrapgay9746
      @tenzinrapgay9746 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She will eventually settle for a dude like big Ed.

  • @NYC1E1
    @NYC1E1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s amazing when men dodge bullets like the matrix…

    • @navalfa7291
      @navalfa7291 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Usually, i would be on the man's side. But this pretty boy is an immature c-word.

    • @NYC1E1
      @NYC1E1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@navalfa7291He’s 25 years old, he’s to young to be looking for a wife and to have children. Or get into a serious relationship especially with 22 year old girl with a child… So he’s allowed to be immature and find his way in life… As for the rest, chill up, dudes not a drug addict murderer…

    • @natscat4752
      @natscat4752 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She definitely dodged a bullet there 😂

  • @WillBkk1977
    @WillBkk1977 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    That boy is embarrassing fact

  • @lisapounder1950
    @lisapounder1950 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He needs his nappy changed

    • @cb4017
      @cb4017 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No. He paid the bill

  • @craiglewis4357
    @craiglewis4357 ปีที่แล้ว

    As a date they were great. But not for each other,no.😞😞😞😞😞

  • @monsieurmike2072
    @monsieurmike2072 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Single mothers are a big RED FLAG. Run for the fricking hills...Fast. she been run through...

    • @ferraroannie4058
      @ferraroannie4058 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That's patently ridiculous. 😆

    • @hilberryable
      @hilberryable ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Absent fathers are even bigger RED FLAGS.

    • @80for80
      @80for80 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@hilberryable women initiate 80% of breakups/divorces. Take this L

    • @hilberryable
      @hilberryable ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@80for80 I wonder why???🤔

    • @B.F.40
      @B.F.40 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So what should a single mother do? Stay single until her young child is an adult? Not all single moms are bad. Maybe she recognized that the relationship with the father wasn't a healthy opinion for her and her child.
      Regardless, it's unfair to say that being in a relationship with her would be bad. It'll be right for the right man, someone who loves children & will happily have them both in his life.
      For someone who doesn't like kids... then a childless single woman will be better.

  • @TomNook.
    @TomNook. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fboys gotta need to F.

    • @ppumpkin3282
      @ppumpkin3282 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No apology for being who you are.

  • @shoryu87
    @shoryu87 ปีที่แล้ว

    money wasted

  • @sigma8995
    @sigma8995 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    There is actually quite a bit to be said about this date.
    First the guy, he's the type of guy I do not want my daughters and sisters to date. He's a F boy with a bit of a bad boy attitude that will break their hearts. I can see girls falling for him due to his looks and mistaken his behavior for something exciting.
    Now the girl, she is attracted to him and is putting up with his shenanigans. Everything was going well, except when he said he doesn't want to date someone with a son. She said it herself, "her son is her number one priority." Keep those words burned in your head gents, especially those of you who choose to date single moms.
    See, this girl is a good example of a common female mating strategy. Now do understand that not all women will opt for this strategy, but there is a significant amount so it's worth understanding. What they do is find an alpha guy, a guy with good genetics, or the type of guy they envision to be the dad of their future children, get him to donate his DNA. They get pregnant and have his baby. Most of the time, these guys aren't going to stick around and or not good fathers. So they part ways. The woman then switches on her long term pair bonding mode, and she will seek a good, nice, attentive, nurturing beta male who has a good job and will commit to her.
    I DO NOT advise men to fulfil this role. What you are essentially doing is being a beta cuck. You are raising someone else's DNA/problem instead of your own. Let the women find that guy whom got her pregnant, and let him raise the child together. It was her choice and she needs to own it. As a man, you need to have firm boundary and expectation. Do not be this beta cuck cause it's an insult to your manhood. Find a woman without kids and have your own kids with her. If you can't have kids due to biological reasons, then adopt a child, especially the kids who's parent passed away. Plenty of children out there that needs you.
    Anyhow, if you are interested in learning more on this topic, or if you deny the statement I am making, look up how a woman's monthly cycle determine her selection of mate's facial feature. And that's just a tidbit. Imagine her having a child already. Her gear will really shift then.

    • @nattie911
      @nattie911 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Life is nuanced

    • @beautifulplaces2703
      @beautifulplaces2703 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Child is not a problem, child is a human being .

    • @sigma8995
      @sigma8995 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@beautifulplaces2703 Playing with words is cute. But I hope you understand the idea behind rearing someone else's child is a problem. Not that difficult.

    • @speedythings7396
      @speedythings7396 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@beautifulplaces2703 You don't decide what others feel.

    • @lillierose5304
      @lillierose5304 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You just said don't raise someone else's DNA, but adopt if you can't biologically have your own. Isn't that the same thing?

  • @nisnga147
    @nisnga147 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this dude is sketchy af. Cant string words together, mumbles, weird jokes, pushing girl to drink alcohol.

  • @thereallazygirl
    @thereallazygirl 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    he's a hot and honest enough dude but she has a kid she needs to think about

  • @PM-mm3pz
    @PM-mm3pz ปีที่แล้ว

    He looks short