Adam Thinks He's a Vampire and Scares Date Off | First Dates New Zealand

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  • London born property manager Adam describes himself as a man of the moon. Spending his time avoiding sunlight and expanding his mind, Adam hopes to find a similarly nocturnal woman to live out his nights with. Life long singleton Liz, has always been attracted to intelligence and hopes that her date this evening will have a knack for conversation. Adam is equipped for romance this evening, with his black turtle neck and his pineapple juice, but Liz is a little put off that he doesn't drink.
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ความคิดเห็น • 173

  • @lifeiswonderful2023
    @lifeiswonderful2023 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    If you don't want a second date then you should be the first to say so. Don't let the other person say they would like to see you again before you say you don't.

    • @kenith287
      @kenith287 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Maybe she was hoping he felt the same way and said no on a 2nd date!? Maybe? Idk.... when she heard he said yes , her heart sank....but i do know what you mean

    • @MrJeeves007
      @MrJeeves007 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      If a guy did this to a girl, it would be fround on more.

  • @genebigs1749
    @genebigs1749 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    My favorite part was when she said she hated turtlenecks on the first date.

  • @etrebelle9812
    @etrebelle9812 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    " I'm so healthy! " dude would do anything to avoid a run

    • @powerup9035
      @powerup9035 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ikr, it’s always the chubby people that are obsessed with putting healthy stuff in their mouth

  • @TMPreRaff
    @TMPreRaff ปีที่แล้ว +46

    He seems to be confident... maybe a bit too confident. And he's convinced that he's 'young-looking'. Another one that should date himself. His date was lovely.

  • @Sunbeam645
    @Sunbeam645 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    OK, I admit it, I'm old fashioned; but when Adam didn't stand up, when his date arrived to meet him at the bar, I was done.

    • @genebigs1749
      @genebigs1749 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Wow! You took the words right out of my mouth!

    • @cartoonking1063
      @cartoonking1063 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah, very odd

    • @leigh7507
      @leigh7507 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think thats an old fashioned manner - I was never taught to do that and asked to do it growing up. I actually think I do it though as i tend give people a hug but I didnt think it was essential

    • @genebigs1749
      @genebigs1749 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@leigh7507 It's very simple and gracious. When a lady comes to meet you, you stand. I think it's common courtesy, not old fashioned. I'm American, so maybe it's cultural, I don't know.

    • @leigh7507
      @leigh7507 ปีที่แล้ว

      it could be cultural and it could be generational. In the UK, teens and people in their 20s also dont shake hands much any more compared to previous generation@@genebigs1749

  • @cameronpurves961
    @cameronpurves961 ปีที่แล้ว +95

    he was pretty full on for a first date. Felt like he was just giving her a bunch of requirements and didn't even learn anything about her

  • @OriginalBigThing
    @OriginalBigThing ปีที่แล้ว +39

    This date was so stressful…
    I needed another drink!

  • @RapidBlindfolds
    @RapidBlindfolds ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Seems like the kind of guy who would unironically call himself a sapiosexual

  • @pepper1188
    @pepper1188 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    He would do well to drop the word "I" from chatter. Ask questions.

  • @michelleroselilley4637
    @michelleroselilley4637 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He care's about health but it out of shape... hmm.

  • @kjprice1443
    @kjprice1443 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    He's definitely an unusual guy, and she's quite sweet and shy. Amazing that he wanted to split the bill, and then seemed surprised when she wasn't interested in seeing him again!

    • @celticbro1
      @celticbro1 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I still don't understand why women think a guy should pay for a meal. We're in 2023 and I thought women wanted to be treated equally.

    • @wrestlingterrier8366
      @wrestlingterrier8366 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well Said !!!!@@celticbro1

    • @ENFPerspectives
      @ENFPerspectives ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@celticbro1 most men insist when they really like a woman.

    • @aisling_2139
      @aisling_2139 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      ​@@celticbro1 yes absolutely women should offer to split the bill however men don't understand that it's just incredibly attractive to alot of women when men take care of the bill. It's just a caring gesture and means alot!

    • @keletsom8000
      @keletsom8000 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      ​@@celticbro1 men often contradict themselves, you want a feminine, sweet woman and you want to be the "alpha" but refuse to take charge .
      And let's be honest if you REALLY like someone you would not mind paying the bill, it's sort of a turn off and comes off like the guy doesn't really like you if he doesn't find you worthy of him paying for the meal

  • @craigreeves5465
    @craigreeves5465 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Yeah you don't usually want to spend the entire date talking about yourself. The dig on him about his turtleneck was rude on her part, though.

  • @darryljones8369
    @darryljones8369 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Pity she barely got a word in about herself. She seems like a good date

    • @mvnorsel6354
      @mvnorsel6354 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Let the lady do most of the talking that way you make less mistakes😅.

  • @sengasenga6856
    @sengasenga6856 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    He looks like He drank too much fruit

    • @bari2883
      @bari2883 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂

  • @junelee5975
    @junelee5975 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    this NZ first dates seem so contrived - mermaid, vampire, bird lady, cat lady what else

    • @supremennn3829
      @supremennn3829 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I didn't know my country was really this weird or is it just "First Dates" trying to make us look bad....

    • @gillowens24
      @gillowens24 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Dog lady to

    • @leigh7507
      @leigh7507 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      it wouldnt be as fun if everyone loved each other straight away

    • @Skeezer66
      @Skeezer66 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@leigh7507 When has that happened on this show? LOL!!

    • @leigh7507
      @leigh7507 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Skeezer66 the original show in the UK had a few love at first sight type dates

  • @Dumpsterfireninja
    @Dumpsterfireninja ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This NZ version isn't as cringe as the Canadian one but it keeps getting closer

    • @darryljones8369
      @darryljones8369 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great comment looool

    • @Skeezer66
      @Skeezer66 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's neck and neck, hahaha!

    • @Prafik614
      @Prafik614 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’ve only warched UK version, which is quite nice, most of the time you see that the production has done their homework and people really are looking for a relationship. Today for the first time I’ve watched USA, NZ and Canadian versions and I don’t get the same vibe. Nice people are matched with weirdos and people are rude with no manners. I wonder is that the kind of entertainment people like more around there?

    • @Skeezer66
      @Skeezer66 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Prafik614 The US version never took off here. I'd say the UK version is the most watched, most liked.

  • @linthoi6456
    @linthoi6456 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    He’s to be the diva in a relationship !! 😂😂

  • @MichelleSullivan
    @MichelleSullivan ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow. Ok.
    He may not be for everyone, but he wasn't rude to her. She, on the other hand...
    Offended by a turtleneck.

  • @AKiki-ct1ro
    @AKiki-ct1ro ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The only time my boyfriend wears a turtle neck is when I manage to sneakily punish him and give him a hicky, which is approx once a year. He looks highly suspicious when he goes to work.

  • @supremennn3829
    @supremennn3829 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Who puts these dates together lmao they know it'll create good entertainment but not nice for the 2 involved. Always complete opposites

  • @haplo_
    @haplo_ ปีที่แล้ว +35

    He should marry himself. I hear that's a thing now.

  • @jennifergirling6850
    @jennifergirling6850 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He's a night owl not an early bird.

    • @TemplePriestess
      @TemplePriestess ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, like why didn’t he just say that! 😂
      Lehman’s terms

    • @raymondmuller6072
      @raymondmuller6072 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Plump chicken

    • @jennifergirling6850
      @jennifergirling6850 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@raymondmuller6072😂What!?

  • @slevinlindsay3624
    @slevinlindsay3624 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Getting some sun is healthy for you.

  • @robertgelblum5154
    @robertgelblum5154 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I found the guy rather weird, verging on bizarre. I suppose he's very intellectual and introspective, but he has some strange ideas on eg hating the sun, loving the moon, being a kind of vampire etc! He needs a woman who's equally quirky and "different" - and I'm sure there's someone out there for him. I liked the woman, thought she was pleasant, nice looking. But of course she is much more normal and conventional than the guy. It was obvious to me that she was going to reject him. (I wonder if some matchmaker really thought these two might be compatible, or were they paired together simply to make for interesting reality tv?)

    • @sigma8995
      @sigma8995 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He's an INTP, such personality are difficult to understand. They need another NT at the very least. She's a mismatch for him.

  • @oanamunteanu4744
    @oanamunteanu4744 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Clowns must show up soon 😂🤭☺️

    • @sandrudaniel19
      @sandrudaniel19 ปีที่แล้ว

      Si guru 😊
      Vreun sef de secta 😂

    • @pleun315
      @pleun315 ปีที่แล้ว

      Clowns (narcs) wear a mask.....you never know the real person......

  • @goldenpalm3967
    @goldenpalm3967 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He has to go and make a smoothie and get older with some vegetables.... goodbye!!

  • @cassandrabuitron427
    @cassandrabuitron427 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She seems very kind and interesting.

    • @vintagesupermarkets5210
      @vintagesupermarkets5210 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah it would be nice if she were invited back for a second date. Beyond not liking fruit and being an introvert, we hardly got to know anything about her. She’s cute.

  • @tivvy9708
    @tivvy9708 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I think Adam needs to take a drink.

  • @bendybody
    @bendybody ปีที่แล้ว +16

    she's really nice and patient

    • @sigma8995
      @sigma8995 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She is nasty with that jab about his turtle neck. There are red flags about her.

  • @bari2883
    @bari2883 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Her seeing an old school friend. Better the devil you know, hey Liz?

  • @dtbristol
    @dtbristol ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Twenty seven and never had a boyfriend? Nobody is good enough, so this quirky guy doesn't have a chance. Turtle necks are offensive!

  • @WilldoAldone
    @WilldoAldone ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She favors Sandra Bullock imo

  • @MrUnboxerVideos
    @MrUnboxerVideos 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very David Brent 😅

  • @DJAndrewMoore
    @DJAndrewMoore 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Why would she slag off his turtle neck? and why would she make him answer first when she had already made up her mind!

  • @eijonasson
    @eijonasson 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Some people take every opportunity to be offended.
    Worked at a PHD in being offended.

  • @suewilson3553
    @suewilson3553 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The maitre d guy looks like an FBI agent!! 🥰😘🥰

  • @MamawithAtude-ib4em
    @MamawithAtude-ib4em 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Alot of dates on this show are pretty "put off" when the other says they don't drink. But she wasn't going to date him ever again for a number of reasons!!

  • @Skeezer66
    @Skeezer66 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It's exhausting how First Dates NZ too rarely matches people who Match!! If they did, both people would come off better, instead of people picking sides over who did what wrong. (In this case, he did, lol!!)

  • @frankmat
    @frankmat ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She is gorgeous

  • @JamesCraigWhoop
    @JamesCraigWhoop ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think she needed more of the Ian Malcolm type

  • @ENFPerspectives
    @ENFPerspectives ปีที่แล้ว +1

    2:20 me too / type 5
    9:15 He just liked her looks.

  • @Dumpsterfireninja
    @Dumpsterfireninja ปีที่แล้ว +11

    He creeps me out even through the screen. I would have not stayed for the dinner portion

    • @pleun315
      @pleun315 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She deserves a good dude ! Not this wanna be John Travolta

  • @hekkeh5427
    @hekkeh5427 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    like what? this guy 😂

  • @lisapounder1950
    @lisapounder1950 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He talks to much about himself,and she should be careful what she wishes for

  • @pamelakersten1032
    @pamelakersten1032 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hes a lunaphile alright. Well played to her on the turtleneck comment. 😂

  • @craiglewis4357
    @craiglewis4357 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Two different books on different pages.😞😞😞😞😞

  • @pleun315
    @pleun315 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Its all about me myself and i..... not interested in his date at all. She is cute and deserves a cool dude ❤😃😋😋

  • @TomNook.
    @TomNook. ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love his swagger

    • @msmee0079
      @msmee0079 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You must nit have high expectations 😂

  • @TurquoiseTerrorizer
    @TurquoiseTerrorizer 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Getting serious Darius Danesh from Pop Idol vibes with this fella

  • @carolmurphy7572
    @carolmurphy7572 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Painfully awkward, start to finish! Cringe!😖

  • @NewYorkerPEACE
    @NewYorkerPEACE ปีที่แล้ว +6

    there's someone for adam but she'll have to be as nerdy and particular.

  • @fatcatontario
    @fatcatontario ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am surprised at how nice the comments are towards this lady. She was absolutely tactless and cruel. There is no reason to put anyone down. Maybe she felt intimidated by his intellect and had to lift her ego up by bashing him...terrible date.

    • @fatcatontario
      @fatcatontario ปีที่แล้ว

      @@itsbrown_ well, you have your opinion and I have mine. Poking fun at someone in a non-constructive and mean way is cruel in my book.

    • @vintagesupermarkets5210
      @vintagesupermarkets5210 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I agree that the turtleneck comment was rude. While the guy was “unique” (I wonder if he’s on the spectrum?), it’s not like he showed up in a stained t-shirt.

    • @fatcatontario
      @fatcatontario ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@vintagesupermarkets5210 agreed and it was meant to put him down and feel uncomfortable... I wonder how she would have reacted if he started making comments like these about her appearance.

    • @colaboytje
      @colaboytje 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Well, if he only talked about himself and doesn't show interest in his date, that is also very rude.
      He was also bragging about his health and how young he looks (he doesn't look healthy in terms of weight and condition). Maybe that triggered her to ask how much time he spent on making himself look good for his date.

    • @fatcatontario
      @fatcatontario 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@colaboytje I personally don't think stooping to someone's level is the way to approach this. If this is the case, she has a very immature communication style.

  • @sanaaakhtar
    @sanaaakhtar 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    50/50 on the first date bill?!

  • @sahra8935
    @sahra8935 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The last lady with the turtleneck guy. I am her she is me.

  • @caioronnau5226
    @caioronnau5226 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    cruel of her, if you know you don't want to go on another date, just say it first instead of making the other person look like a chump. That being sad this guy is mega cringe

  • @kylewilliams5761
    @kylewilliams5761 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's some Swagger.!!!

  • @cathybelk-cb3ei
    @cathybelk-cb3ei 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Some of the have such high expectations and thier not anything to write home about
    Loosen up a bit and fly a bit yourself before you get a pilots license
    They have admitted their dating calendar is 0. Yes the number 0 !! The vampire is way out there. He thinks he s arrived
    And she will definitely put him in his place 💥🔥⚡💥🔥⚡💥🔥⚡💥🔥⚡💥🔥⚡

  • @masimmomasimmo
    @masimmomasimmo 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She’s drinking to compensate

  • @karenstieglitz3443
    @karenstieglitz3443 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think turtlenecks are hot. And even if I didn't, I wouldn't be so hurtful as to criticize a date's choice in clothing. Once he's your boyfriend, maybe ;) . But in the dating phase? On a first date?! So insensitive.

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    7:46:Okay this one is not a match even though they got what each other wanted. He was trying to make it work but she wasn't

  • @zedka5462
    @zedka5462 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    il est vraiment stressant

  • @psychonaut2173
    @psychonaut2173 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    NGL the turtleneck what was up with that?, bro she had like 3 glasses of wine cuz dude was being so weird

  • @sigma8995
    @sigma8995 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I’m pretty sure he’s an INTP. It’s incredibly difficult for guys like him to find a romantic partner. He needs another NT.
    As for the girl, there are red flags.
    Being, 27 and never had a bf, considering herself too independent, and the end says she’s seeing “old high school” friend? Red flags.
    And the way she stabs at his turtle neck is just nasty.

    • @supremennn3829
      @supremennn3829 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Love seeing your comments 🤣

    • @avo6198
      @avo6198 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bro be spitting non pc facts all day 😂

    • @junelee5975
      @junelee5975 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      stop assuming.

    • @sigma8995
      @sigma8995 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@junelee5975 Learn to contribute in a meaningful conversation.

    • @MrJeeves007
      @MrJeeves007 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      What personality would you say she was? She states she's introverted, an investigator, likes people who can talk about weird things, and she's never had a boyfriend. She doesn't demo high levels of EQ with the turtle neck comment, letting the world know "she's seeeing an old school friend" when she's never had a bf before.
      I would say she's not a million miles away from a INT..just a female version. Unfortunately they clashed as neither of them displayed amazing people/conversation/emotional skills.

  • @lizgirlliz
    @lizgirlliz ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He's annoying and doesn't look healthy. I felt so gross for the lady.

  • @Kellz82-p7p
    @Kellz82-p7p 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My goodness he is painful

  • @cathybelk-cb3ei
    @cathybelk-cb3ei 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Liz s greeter 💥🔥⚡

  • @deso224
    @deso224 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a man I said:He should be alone with attitude like this

  • @kateanderson8551
    @kateanderson8551 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why are all of the nz ones so so weird??

  • @gillowens24
    @gillowens24 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Who does not like fruit on a date

    • @cityhawk
      @cityhawk ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm not high on it, but it isn't a dealbreaker.

  • @liznicolas272
    @liznicolas272 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    6:55 pretty sure he needs to remain single..

  • @reneshay889
    @reneshay889 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No need for the woman to make some of the comments she did.

  • @ZMl1lMZ
    @ZMl1lMZ หลายเดือนก่อน

    That little girl is valid and not worth a dinner.

  • @lydiatressler2248
    @lydiatressler2248 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You been watching too many movies dude

  • @NoFreeHand
    @NoFreeHand 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Mr Bean 2.0

  • @darlenewinch6006
    @darlenewinch6006 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He was quirky and interesting. She was a bit judgemental and a bore.

  • @NSWSES1990
    @NSWSES1990 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I thought she was nice and cute.

  • @MrAgmoore
    @MrAgmoore วันที่ผ่านมา

    she has vampire teeth

  • @damo2157
    @damo2157 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Poor fella needs to chill out

  • @ubs16
    @ubs16 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a tool. He sure loves the sound of his own voice

  • @frankgrimes2679
    @frankgrimes2679 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where do they find these losers?

  • @Robin-op8op
    @Robin-op8op 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This guy is super creepy 😮

  • @shainadahya1175
    @shainadahya1175 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    can you go on first dates but not be on TV

  • @LilKay9
    @LilKay9 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This guy is a meme

  • @HannahWade199
    @HannahWade199 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    lmao

  • @calvinyuen01
    @calvinyuen01 ปีที่แล้ว

    It’s as bad as the Ireland one! 🙄🙄🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @vintagesupermarkets5210
      @vintagesupermarkets5210 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The Irish version is wayyyyy better. There have been some really good connections and lovely people on the Irish show.

  • @MamawithAtude-ib4em
    @MamawithAtude-ib4em ปีที่แล้ว

    Why, men, are you continuing to wear turtlenecks?

  • @awestruck9075
    @awestruck9075 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Definitely not a vampire, but something sucked

  • @user-nu2vg5lw3o
    @user-nu2vg5lw3o 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'd rather watch paint dry

  • @HS-hi6wc
    @HS-hi6wc ปีที่แล้ว

    Is this guy desi?

  • @MrJeeves007
    @MrJeeves007 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "What offends you? Wearing turtle necks on a first date!". He then takes it off for the final interview.
    "I'm Type 5, the investigator, I really like guys who can talk about weird stuff" But only up to a point it seems.

  • @John_in_Oakland
    @John_in_Oakland ปีที่แล้ว

    Too bad....I think they would be a great fit but they're both too shy.

  • @avo6198
    @avo6198 ปีที่แล้ว

    This girl is not cerebral like him

  • @colaboytje
    @colaboytje 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She was so lovely.
    He seems so egocentric. Dunning Kruger effect?

  • @davidbridgman9884
    @davidbridgman9884 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Weird dude