Sadness Vs. Depression
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Depression is like wanting to go home but already being there.
Bernard I cannot tell you the amount of times I have said out loud, “I want to go home”. And I am home. And then I register I am home and then realize what I meant was to feel like somewhere I felt .....something positive.
Yes , a homeless soul
This explains me
This is pretty accurate
Exactly
"Why you have depression..look how good your life is"
Its look like:
"Why you have asthma...look at all this air"
Ikr
Idk why, I feel very selfish and I think i am kind of self pitying....
@@celest2_80 I know. I feel same way.
I know this is a bit off topic, but I hate it when people say things like “omg I wish I could go to school camp with you guys too but I can’t 😭😭 I’m depressed now”
Depression isn’t a mood; it’s an illness 🤦🏻♀️
When you have both: 👀
*When you're so scared to die but too tired to live*
Just true...
@@Riiareader you're a good person
Wait this is accurate..
You're saying facts,i don't think it can be so relatable
This
Telling a depressed person "You can't be depressed, you have everything!" is like telling a deaf person "You can't be deaf, you have ears!"
Yeah, It’s not because there ungrateful
It’s because they’re born that way
Wrong quote, ears are a necessity, not a desire. "You can't be deaf, you have hearing aid" will sound correct.
@@sidharthballavmohanty3340 You don't get it, do you
Actually, disregard this reply. Have a nice day.
@@xpedro2960 yes I do get it.
Depression is like being dead,while your body is alive.
Valerie Angell That's right..
Yep
Are you dead?
*only on the inside*
That sums it up so precisely!!
Agreed I have felt that many times.Also I say and feel that I am not alive I just exist which is the same to what you said or pretty close.
When you’re fine being dead but afraid of dying itself.
Damnnnn deeeeep.
That is so true.. Thats how I feel..
jeriel magsino I relate to this, I've tried to hang my self but I just couldn't do it, it's very scary
@@brandankizi4774 please dont do anything like that again. You are so much loved and cared for more than u know.
true tho-
Depression is like wanting answers to questions that don’t even exist.
Yes it is..
Yes I also have have some bad past thoughts that doesn't even exist.what I do I am so depressed.i am suffering a lot for last 5 months .is there any solution ? Please reply bro
@@frestinjoy57 It can be many different reasons why you are depressed. Like i have some things that happened when i was younger. Try to remember how yoyr life was as kid and maybe you can find some answers
@@frestinjoy57 please push on bro, I am also going through a really rough patch you know.. Please open up to your parents/doctor/ counsellor about it so you can get some help, realise that you really don't need to go through this alone.. I care about you and we as brothers and sisters in Christ care about you. God bless you man.
@@matheuskalin7228 during the time of depression can unreal things can become real.full of negative things in my mind.I cannot live with happiness for a single second.i am sad bro
"Depression is living in a body that fights to survive, with a mind that tries to die. "
This one hits harddd
Exactly!
Yes!!!!!
I m having this
🙏
Difference is, sadness is an emotion, depression is a state of mind.
Elizabeth an emotion is a state of mind, so therefore sadness is also a state of mind...
No. Depression is not just a state of mind, it´s a serious mental disease.
Max Robert But depression isnt a MOOD, right?
Depression is both an emotion and a mental disorder
Yup, caused by a chemical imbalance of the brain.
“The worst type of depression is the kind you can’t explain”
i felt this
Depression is itself something that you can't explain or understand. If you can explain it or even if you can understand it yourself then it's called "sadness".
Indeed :(
@Peachy Pie ok you an expert
Peachy Pie you have no idea how hard that is or if she can go to anyone to talk about her depression
I tried telling my parents I was depressed and they didn’t want to accept it they got mad at me...Depression isn’t as easy as you think
“Depression is like a war-you either win or die trying.”
Or it never ends
Or it never ends that's why you have battle scars
One of the truest thing I’ve ever read I don’t have it, but I’ve never thought of it that way
Nezuko-chan 🥺🥺🥺 I LOVE YOU GIRL/BOY
Nezuko-chan i’ve always denied it too my first suicide attempt was at nine from that time until now i’ve attempted three times i’m now 12 (13 on nov) and i’m getting help professionally
Depression and anxiety is like being scared and tired at the same time. It’s the fear of failure but have no urge to be productive. it’s wanting friends but hate socializing. it’s wanting to be alone but not wanting to be lonely. it’s like a big ass whole that just gets bigger and bigger no matter what you feed it-it’s needy and very unsatisfied. it’s feeling everything at once and then feeling paralyzingly numb.
Holy fuck I actually felt this comment on a whole new level, no one has ever understood me like this comment, this LITTERALY explains me
Panic attacks too
That sounds like being lazy lol
It's strange when a stranger knows how and what u r going through
@@levinoshoujo1474 u arent the only one with struggles, so no big surprise
and lastly: sadness is temporary, depression is a cycle of sadness leaving then coming back again
Nicole some times it lasts months
Nicole i wish i could be a professional and help people that have depression and help my self too...im starting to get depression..but im never social..well i guess its part of depression..i like dont want to talk about it ...
In that case I have depression. First I thought it was sadness, but like the last three years sometimes suddenly I break down and want to die. I have cutted myself and have got help, but I just couldn't speak.
Nicole no, he said it isnt saddness. Its not even a sadness that keeps coming back... you're just blank...you cant feel anymore... there's something missing inside of you and you dont wanna do anything ever again
Sister Mary-Ann is it called depression if sometimes i feel deeply sad but sometimes i just feel so sad that my mind becomes blank and nothing? idk if it's sadness or depression because it seems like depression is kinda too big of a word for me.
people are always like "omg why would you wanna die?" i dont wanna die, i just dont wanna suffer anymore.
Same, btw is that Chuu?!
yeah but nothing matters as much as your life nothing be strong 🤜
im babie life is misery.Accept it and live as happily as you can without making any excuses.Find your way out kid.
@@cri6766 omg I love Chuu she is my bias 🥰
Same
Depression is like listening to a sad song but you can’t hear it. Your own thoughts are louder than it and your chest hurts.
Shining DreamLight
Huh.
Hi army I hope u’re doing well, and if not, I promise it’s gonna be better. I purple u with all my heart💜
Me every night
Couldn't have said it better.
Jesus Loves you, don't give up.
I could remember several years ago, I suffered severe depression and mental disorder. Was actually addicted to alcohol. Not until my wife recommended me to psilocybin mushrooms treatment. Psilocybin treatment saved my life honestly. 8 years totally clean. Never thought I would be saying this about mushrooms.
Can you help me with the reliable source 🙏. I'm 56 and have suffered for years with addiction, anxiety and severe ptsd, I got my panic attacks under control myself years ago and they have come back with a vengeance, I'm constantly trying to take full breaths but can't get the full satisfying breath out, it's absolutely crippling me, i live in Germany. I don't know much about these mushrooms. Really need a reliable source!! Can't wait to get them.
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People think if your depressed you want to die. Not always. I'm to scared to die.
And just like that, I live like a mannequin no matter how tired I am of living.
It's not that all depressed people necessarily want to die. They just want the pain to end & most believe that's the final option. Sad how depression is still seen as a correlation/link to wanting to die though
It’s like I’m stuck. Some days I don’t wanna die, other days I wanna die. And no matter how much I talk, pray, take a walk, or workout, nothing makes me truly happy. I can have a good moment once a week. When I’m alone there’s just something that feels like it’s eating my insides. But i never knew it could be depression, because I started feeling it when I was about 7/8. I’m 13 now.
It takes me so long to get out of bed, it physically and mentally drains me. One day I stood up and fell right to the floor and cried for no reason.
I stopped playing the piano, stopped drawing and stopped playing on a basketball team. Those didn’t interest me anymore.
I haven’t been diagnosed, but I took a test at the doctors and she said she was a bit concerned..? I don’t know I do have many symptoms, but I don’t know if I have it.
@@user-kl9hv6xb3n They can do the things that made them happy before but with their situation, those things do not have an effect on them anymore. That's how it is.
I wanna die and end this pain but I'm not scared of dying, I'm scared that I could relive that pain for eternity in hell
You know that feeling, I don't want to die but I'm don't want to do anything in my life.
"I'm tired of living but I'm afraid of dying."
@@nicolebarrett777 exactly like that
@@xuvuin yep.. depression is a bitch
Hobi yea it’s called depression
You don't wish to be dead, you wish you have never existed.
Sadness is running out of answers, depression is running out of questions.
I couldn’t have said it better.
ive ran out of options... i take drugs to make me smile
Accurate
I feel like i can't talk to people anymore like say anything i feel lost not right empty and i feel kinda dead like not really here
bailey pleydell sameeee
I dont know, after school i’m always like “i’m excited to go home” and then i think about it and know i have nothing to be excited about
same bro
same
Felt this.
I always say, "School is almost over. I can finally go home." yet whenever I'm home I just lay there, numb. I end up just sleeping, unmotivated to do anything.. I love art but lately I just ignore it.
I’m pretty sure everyone feel that
Depression is like giving up before even trying. It holds you back and keeps you from completing any tasks.
So true
Unmotivated 24/7
Literally and it's so hard to deal with that I just wanna give up :)
My final exams are coming but i can't study
I want to
But I can't
I like in bed all day doing nothing
Feeling empty all the time
@@kratis2384 exactly what I am going through right now
I hate how the word "depression" is used so lightly.
agree. I see everyone saying it while many don't get what it really means.
Mostly people just have unhealthy lifestyle which can mimic the symptoms depression.
@@ainbrisk545 That's the thing, so many people say they have depression to the point of where I don't even care about it, unless I know someone personally.
@@IgorNetoAnimation a meaningful word used too much becomes meaningless.
I agree it is over used and people say it too much without knowing the true meaning
when you've been depressed for over 5 years now and professionally diagnosed with severe depression but your parents still think you're just "sad"
WunderFly 😔
I can relate
WunderFly I've had depression for about 2and a half years but only my best friend knows he also has depression
Melanin Q I see what you're trying to say here but if you think what you eat is the cause of having depression you're wrong
WunderFly yes thank you. And it gives me more anger cuz they dont get me
I just want to know what being mentally stable is like for one minute again..
oh my god. the comments are soo sad. this one blew me up. im crying. im sure you will. i hope
i feel the same way....... i cant remember what it feels like to be happy, i wish i could...
I'm so sad. That's all I can say. But it's deeper and darker than what I can put to words. I often say I'm sad to people to not put weights and pressure on anyone. They'll think she'll be happy again, this sadness won't stay long. But I didn't feel happy in a long time already!
Guys really felling very sad for all of you😢
I wish i could help you all but I can't
But i suggest you , You should try spirituality
same.
When you are sad, you cry, cry and cry till your heart desires. When you are in depression, you wanna cry but tears don't appear and the pain gets accumulated in your heart.
This should be a famous quote
right! i agree with this one. i wonder about fake tears though; where you force yourself to cry hmm...
That’s true to me.. I don’t understand what’s happening, i feel broken inside and feel like crying my heart out but the tears won’t come out. It frustrates us and affects our relationships with friends and family.
Wow me too it's hard
Sometimes I cry cuz I can't hold it anymore on me
People who are depressed don’t want to die. They just want to end their pain.
Jackson Marchant or end the nothing, because nothing is very lonely and empty.
These are kinda similar words but somehow very different and necessary to explain the void
Yes 😔😔
perfectly explained
Ding Ding Ding
thats not depression thats sadness you depression means you dont feel anything
Depression;
Having a heart that tries to live with a soul that tries to die
It’s actually more like: Having a heart that tries to live with a dead soul.
Depressed people don't all want to die
@@skkaws We want to end the pain
The most depressing thing is your depression doesnt really even matter bacause of how vast this universe is
Now I feel even more useless and a waste
exactly, theres 7 billion people in this world, we aren't that important lol
Same thoughts ever since
Remember; depression doesn't mean that the person cannot feel happiness. People with depression can laugh, they can smile, but often it won't last. Unless the person with depression is trying to hide their actual feelings.
Da Dragon Durp exactly. Depression is like you have long dips in mood but small spikes to “baseline” where you aren’t depressed but not truly happy either. Maybe a small bit of happiness will come every once in a while, but the depression tends to last longer/override the good times
There you are, in all the videos I watch
Da Dragon Durp it’s so me and I really don’t know how to get over it
True
Thank God someone understands I tried to explain it to my friend once but she didn't get it I guess not all people can comprehend it but that's okay I'm glad someone can understand and that multiple people can relate I go to school and there was this dude that makes me laugh all the time he's my friend he's funny and I like hanging out with him I laugh with him I laugh with my other funny friends but that doesn't mean that feeling lasts forever and it doesn't last forever
for people who read this, thank you for staying alive
Thank you. Ill stay another day because of the hope you, a stranger has givin me. Your few words has givin me hope. Thank you. I'll stay another day.
@@natashan-jael8054 i just got back from therapy and im trying 💜💙💜
I have paranoia and schizophrenie
@@hihowyadoin509 Hey, if you wanna talk I am here 😁 Try to see each day as a small step. You still have a long way, but only think about one day at a time. No need to plan the future yet. Take small moments to appreciate the little things in your life. Sleeping, eating a good meal or watching tv. Anything, the smallest thing that gives your heart something to feel. Try and do that for a few weeks. I promise I will do the same with you, I am struggling too. If you believe in God, I wish that he brings you peace. If you don't, I still wish that my God will give you the peace. Take care stranger. I care about you
@@KwniStewart thank you. Im so incredibly deep in the hole that this sounds hard. Im trying and im trying not to let my mental health get the better of me, especially because im going through school to. Which means im having panic attacks during class and having to interact with people. I've missed so much school, at therapy, the school councilors office, or in my bed. I have a lot of make up work to do but im still trying to cope via the internet and also keep up my hygiene and not smell. The im walking up the steps slowly and im going to keep this comment in mind for hope. Thank you stranger and ill be accompanying you on these 1000 step steps. 💜
2015: *i have depression..*
*dont worry I’ll help you get through it!*
2020: *I have depression..*
*Wow same*
And the people who really are depressed don't get recognized some people just brush it off thinking they're doing it for attention
@@TolleeLive yeah that's the sad part
people doesn’t understand what depression is nowadays. everyone is trying to look gothic and say stuff about life, but they doesn’t feel what depressed people feel I had depression a year ago or even more. I didn’t know what that was until my school sent me to the therapist with my friend. non stop crying don’t wanna get out of bed, can’t eat, can’t have fun...
my depression was is about couple of things:
1. I’m scared for my future
2. I’m not good enough
3. I have no friends
4. school
5. and main reason: death
6. I don’t move with my life.
6 reasons. even if you’re young and have everything you need doesn’t mean you can’t get depressed.
*I GUESS I’M HAVING A BAD DAY FOR 1 YEAR WHOEVER TOLD ME ITS IN MY HEAD.*
Jesus Loves you, don't give up.
2015: *mom i have depression...*
mom: don't worry we can talk to a therapist to help you!
2020: *mom i think i have depression...*
mom: IT'S BECAUSE OF THAT DAMN PHONE
My depression giving me nightmares every night, almost everyday. I just want to sleep but even dreams are hellish like my reality
You may have sleep paralysis
As your dreaming everyday you can try lucid dreaming search it up its being aware in your dream and do whatever you want like flying or doing fun things hope this helps check out the channel “Explore Lucid Dreaming” to lucid dream :))
I've been depressed for months now untreated, and I know I'm not just sad cause it a comes back everyday, torturing me. Like last week I had a break down in the school bathroom during English class. I wish I could get rid of it but some reason my parents still don't believe me even after a counselor called them
lucielthetrashcan your definitely not the only one just try to talk to some friends or someone close
lucielthetrashcan same here and my friends are worried about me and other adults but my parents don't see it
I had depression for about 5 years I only told my mom she's trying her best to help but it's hard to open up to someone when it's hard to trust them but I think I have depression is because I basically live in my room I used to live in the country on a farm I felt so free there because I could walk for hours but then I moved and I'm so lonely
lucielthetrashcan
I've been sad too--- oh wait shite I'm not supposed to say that?
Oh uhh bye...
Lukas Bondevik left u crying 😑 nobody never there for me I wipe my on tears i depressed all the time sometimes for no reason. Sometimes I wish tomorrow my last day living but I still want to live I just wish to be happy but suicide not the answer just think about other people may have it worst than u and still fighting to have a better life
Depression is when you no longer support yourself, in anything. You aren't bothered to fix it, and you know that even fixing your life will do nothing to change your emotional and well-being state.
Basically giving up on life
@@gg01342 ya me too
@@KwniStewart "Basically giving up on life" You can't give up something you never had.
Do you guys know the feeling when you have to sit down in the bathroom and try convincing yourself to get in the shower for and hour or so? A lot of thinhs feel hard. I have plans for emproving my life and existense but school and things always get in the way of my efforts and i loose the nanogram of motivation i tried protecting in a little treasure box of my soul.
@@juliakercsmar6587 Yeah! In depression I think I don't deserve to have the right to be happy!
Depression is like being trapped in a glass room, just laying there. Everyone around you is being productive and talking and whatever, but you're in your own glass space, detatched from everything.
And when you reach out to people on the outside, you never fully fit in because you are always separated from them by your mind.
David Smith yes. I feel it.
That sounds like the person is a specimen at a zoo being stared at all day long.
Like the song Mr Glass Man
Like beck in you
Sad person: OMG IM SO SAD PLZ HELP
Depressed person: I'm fine
my friend be like: i cried yesterdayyy omg im so depreeeseeeedddd 😔 aesaaaa helpp im depresseddddd i wish i had a perfect life like u didddd im so depreeseeddd omggggg i painted my nails black because of this 😢
me: im ok
@@kawaiaesa relatable
@@kawaiaesa lmao
@@kawaiaesa I've met a lot of people like that
Just shut the f up
Anyone who is sad tries to talk with their freinds and family
Sad people deserve help and nothing wrong with them asking
I am homesick for a place I am not sure even exists.
This is what depression feels like.
GreenApples yes
But I always feel like that
🤔
Ive been sad too
I have been searching this into my google , I feel like this exactly
So true!
i need help. but i don't know how to tell someone.
Yeah I know exactly how you feel.
Aleena Seyal
Tell you mom or dad, whichever you are closer to. Pick a time when they are not too busy, maybe at night or in a car ride or during the weekend. If they are always really busy, then just tell them that you need to talk to them about something important the next chance they get, and plan a time where you will have their full attention. Or you could write them a note explaining how how you have been feeling, what you have been thinking and how this is effecting you. You may have to talk to them about it more than once, because it may not be easy for them to see how real this is after just talking to you about it once. Another alternative would be to tell a adult you are close to or your school counselor and have them tell your parents. Your parents are the only ones who can get you help, so they will need to know. I am a parent of 2 older kids, and I can tell you that it is hard to know what they are feeling, especially with work and everything else. I'm here if you want some other ideas or to talk about it. TH-cam has a private message system, if that is better for you. How ever you handle this, just keep doing what you are doing and help them help you so you can get past this and enjoy life without these things bringing you down.
I've only told my mom about my depression she is trying so hard to help me and I'm glad I have someone but I would suggest telling a family member or a friend
earth digger ive thought about that but my parents went through alt with my brother who was also depressed. I just don't want them to go through that much, because of me you know?
Aleena Seyal
Yes I understand, and you a great daughter for being so considerate of your parents. I think it will be easier for them, since they already have experience with your brother. Plus you seem very nice, so that will make it easier for them too. And it will be a lot less for them to go through now, compared to later when it gets worse. Besides, you are not adding anything to them, because it's already there, they just don't know yet. So you will actually be helping them by letting them know about it now. Most importantly, you need to do this for you. Parents are tough, when my daughter was 7 she had to have open heart surgery to fix a hole in her heart, and we got through that. I saw your video about your house fire. I am sure that has had an effect on you too. They can also help you to deal with that, then you can put it behind you, so it don't effect you that way any more.
I can't tell if I'm sad or genuinely depressed. I stay awake at night because I can't sleep, I'm very rarely invited out places with my friends anymore but when I am I can't stop overthinking and feeling so down, I end up wanting to go home early or I end up going home early. Idk it's things like that and it never stops. It feels like it never stops or will never end. Sigh:( I wanna open up but I know my parents will probably tell me "you're just hormonal" "we all get sad" "you think your life is so tough?" "Stop feeling sorry for yourself" etc.
i'm figuring out that it could be a single trigger event or specific situation that caused the onset of depression. might be a long and complex event but there's usually something. hanging out with people helps to distract us, but doesn't help us work through the cause or find a solution.
I feel the same way about my parents which is why I gave up on trying to tell them and instead focused on telling people who I know will understand - psychologists or people who have a basic understanding of psychology. By telling a psychologist I don't have to deal with my parents and all the drama that ensues and I can focus on getting proper help.
I suggest you do the same but having a support system of friends and family is important too.
Girl A hello I've been losing weight even though I eat I've lost 5 close friends because " you've changed you don't talk to us or hang out any more" and things that I usually like to do don't make me feel good any more positive thinking and meditation isn't working. is this depression?
Why are people telling others to fucking kill themselves!! you should not joke about that!!! it's immature and you need to fucking grow up.
Same.. it just sucks..
me sending this to my friends who fake depression, glorify depression, self diagnosed themselves, and make it a competition.
@Not even wrong ?
@Not even wrongno.. people do fake depression they’re people who use depression as an excuse to problems and say that their more “depressed” than others as if its a competition, and they glorify depression as if its a personality trait. I agree that mental health is a hard topic to talk about but there are people out there who fake mental illnesses to feel invalidated and to feel more “special.”
@Not even wrong are you clinically diagnosed with depression? If not you can’t really diagnose yourself with depression, depression is a mental illness is something that shouldn’t be taken lightly, if you suspect you have depression you should seek help. Please don’t think your the only person suffering because your never alone, I relate to you. Ever since I was little I had suicidal thoughts because of my toxic family.
@Not even wrong I think you just don’t believe in yourself, I don’t know if your making efforts like making yourself busy starting a new activity or hobby doing something that makes you feel the happiest and feel like you have some kind of hope in life instead of feeling hopeless. You can try trauma art, I heard it can help.
@Not even wrong yea give it a try! And tell me if it works. I gotta start working through my ptsd after my exams this month. Ptsd hit me real hard this year, so now the straight A student is trying to somehow pass this exam :D
Depression is being around so much happiness but cannot feel it
Same
I can relly relate specially on school or outside
That's me in school. My classmates and friends are very positive and outgoing people. And they always find a way to make each other laugh. But I can't feel the same way.
I feel that....😢😢😔😔
*exactly how i'm feeling right now, thank you for letting me know i'm nit the only one
Lots of power and love towards you
May God bless you ameen*
Yes, when I am around someone happy it make me cry because I want to be happy😭
When I laugh, I don't stop because I know that if I do, it will be a long time until I feel the happiness of laughter.
Same 💖
@gordon ram ram true..
(😂)
siss same
This.
Jimin Army :( sadly same
I remember an incident from a while ago, here’s how it went:
Me: Hey, Uhm, I- I have been diagnosed with depression.
My friend: I’m even more depressed.
My head: Damn, I didn’t know it was a competition.
Depression isn’t a competition, it’s a matter of understanding someone. It’s the war inside your head that you HAVE to win.
my ex friend said to me once that i don't have it that bad because i wasn't as depressed as he was in the past; i remember i wanted to hurt myself that day and his words just left me heartbroken :(
i wish people would understand it's not a competition, but just helping each other out and being there for each other....
True bro the war which never end & hurts more in brain
Preach
YES! SOMEONE SAID IT! DEPRESSION ISN'T A COMPETITION.
@@coolsomeash YESSS
« Don’t say I’ve been sad too. Listen. »
That hit different.
Depression is more like when you are in a crowded room full of people still u feel alone and more like empty, thinking how ur existence matters, it's like everyday you are alive but you have lost the meaning of living. It makes you question why did your parents bring you into this world, and you don't want to do anything nothing excites you and you see no valid point in living but still you have to live silently coping with all the feelings that only make you feel more worst than you did the previous day....
The thing is parents don't understand depression
They think it could just be cured but that's not the case
@@crazyfournier2978 if parents could really understand depression don't you think half of the people who have depression would have been cured I mean they say they understand but the fact is unless u r in a person's shoe u don't really know how they feel, they can only pretend to understand
ღ Rose Cathedral ღ happiness is a high fever that will break.
ღ Rose Cathedral ღ yep
_why do i feel like 50% sad and depressed?_
same.
Me too
Samee
Same
ツchanieel same.
I'm giving up
yes.. I mostly let it all out when I had an argument with my parents. I go in my room and think/cry about all the time where i felt alive, where I was happy, a happy girl. with alot of friends, everyday was an happy day but now it feels like I am lost, I've lost something. I feel like it wasnt me who lived that fun time, it feels like thats another person. or You can make me a beautiful gift, it doesn't makes me happy....(anymore). Then I often think ''why I am still alive? Life is so much pain"
that happens to me too. i sit and think to myself... what’s the point of living. the same cycle keeps repeating over and over again. nothing exciting, no friends, there’s really nothing. then i begin to think about useless things and it leads to suicidal thoughts
I had so many little reasons, that I didn't know....what happened
@@ibakaddicted You cry. Nothing makes me happy or sad anymore
@@ibakaddicted same thing happens to me
Depression is like a constant pain in your heart that you can always feel. It feels like something has been physically ripped out of you. Like you just feel empty, like there is no point in anything at all. Being depressed but not suicidal is truly a pain because you don’t have the courage to die but life exhausts you. A depressed person doesn’t have to seem depressed, they can look well put together and content but they could be tearing apart on the inside. The worst part is not having anyone to talk to about it because no one would believe you and no one is ready to listen to you. Especially when you’re an introvert and you have trust issues because of past experiences.
Oh yes, trust issues, can literally end all the happiness you once had.
Damn 🥺 Trust issues and "No courage to die but life exhausts you"
Me: open up with one of my friends about what I feel.
Her: here we go again.
Me: never open up again to someone.
It's so sad to hear those things from friends.
@@koriroti Yes. It was sad but as a person you need to understand them too because you know there's no person who haven't a problem. Maybe they are tired too. :) thats why I understand them and I try not to open up them again because I feel that it will be burden to them.
They're not real friends if they say shit like that to u
I have a friend that might have depression and every time she talks about it with me I try to comfort her and cheer her up but it is not effective at all ! I am trying my best but I feel useless and it saddens me that I am not able
to help :(
@@abeliever6022 Tomorrow comes so that we have a chance to be kinder than yesterday, fill more love around you. That's ultimate goal in life. So, do what you are doing. It's not sad. I'm happy you are trying to help her. It will be alright. Believe that in you.
"Depression is living with a body that fights to survive with a mind that tries to die"
My mind: "you're lost"
My heart:"you're broken"
True
True...😢😢😢😢
My body stopped fighting a long time ago. It’s so heavy. Everything is such a huge chore. The weight on my chest drains me. Everything aches. Yet, I don’t wish to be happy. I don’t see why anyone should be happy among the people in our society and their creations.
To me depression is like a snowy day.
Some days its light and acceptable.
Some days its a storm and the snow piles up.
You cant open the front door, its too cold to get out of bed.
Some days the snow clears and you're normal.
Others don't see the snow, they'd wonder " you were fine the other day"
You can get better at shoveling snow,
but you'll tire yourself out.
Even the days the snow melts, you'll have to walk through the muck.
That is a really excellent way of putting it. It just really struck me as accurate..
Well said
Where I live there is no snow
This was really good, you should post it somewhere else so someone can relate
Thank you.
Me: Mum I have depression..
"IT'S BECAUSE OF THAT STUPID PHONE"
I will say one thing, social media may worsen depression in some ways either escapism, comparing, MH accounts etc but of course spending less time of it obvs isn’t a cure. I think it’s a mum thing and my mum used to worry about the type of ppl I spoke to who could be encouraging stuff or oversharing. I see both sides
@@AmberWoodMusicx *my mother is literally fucking abusive wtf do u expect from my mother love*
It could be true 🤷🏽♂️🤷🏻♀️
My mom also the same 😒
Not sure if I have depression but I barely feel happy because of quarantine and device but for some reason I can’t stop
Whenever I get depression it feels much like being bedridden with a really bad flu. I get tired, have no motivation to do anything and feel like I just don't want to live anymore. The only difference is that the illness of depression involves negative emotions, rather than coughing and stuffiness.
ALifeJournal for me, it's unexplainable. The only thing I can think of is: in depression, you feel, in your head, like a two-dimensional thing rather than a breathing human being. It's like seeing a picture of yourself and thinking, who the hell is that?
Sadness is just being sad.
ALifeJournal same
ALifeJournal My friend has depression Im the only one apart from her who knows. She explained it just like you. *Im the 100th like ;)*
ALifeJournal also its repetitive and takes a while to recover and you could get sick again, like get a flu and then it'll start over again until you recover basically
ALifeJournal you cant keep getting depression. its not like a mood swing. its there and it stays there
This comment section feels so depressing than itself
Anyone had the feeling where you feel like "home" isnt home anymore?
And you just cant interpret how you feel through words?
Home just doesn't feel like it's name should be home..
This! And I feel like my memories are not really my own... I just can’t imagine that who I am now is the same human as the one in all those memories. I feel like I’m living someone else’s life, find myself asking ‘is this really my brother, grandma, etc’ Feels kinda weird.
@@Helenavanthof It's ok I also feel like that way, I often question myself that are this human-being my parent? or even I'm the same species as them? I'm I just some parasite live in this body? Lol
@@Helenavanthof same here
I always feel like that!
Being depressed as a guy makes other guys target you because your vulnerable at the moment. I hate people, genuinely despise them.
I am so sorry for this dude
Hey I'm here if you wanna talk okay? ♡
Felt that
How are u now?
Hey!! don't know if you'll see this but, are you okay? no like I'm asking genuinely
Depression is like drowning while people tell you to breath
I used to describe it as drowning in honey, slow and heavy like that, and it puts pressure in your lungs where it just aches, that tension and just, gah. I definitely agree.
Kira Lonely yeah totally agree
I'm fine with drowning
@@kiralonely1307 ...True..its the most horrible torture u face everysecond,lm suffering much,waiting 4 death only,im all alone,,,finding no way,so much helpless😭😭😭😭😭..plzzz beg all to help me
@@av9557 thank u!
I wish I wasn't born, I'm scared to die but the thing is I'm here already, just gotta put up with life
Relatable
Exactly I wish odorless tasteless poison was still readily available
I'm not scared of death.. Unless is a painful death
@@brightoranga same I’ve thought of numerous ways to die and each one wasn’t guaranteed, I would hate to attempt and end up living and have just done nothing but disabled myself. I don’t want pain and too suffer for a long time something quick and easy is ideal.
@@brightoranga same
"It isolates you from what you love" the most true thing I've ever heard. Everyone just thinks I'm boring because I just want to stay in bed but the don't understand. The worst part is when 'everyone' is your mom. That hurts the most.
Same :| have the same issue with my mom. And when I smile she says "you were lying you're not depressed" like wtf
As a kid I used to love dancing and doing sports but now I just sit at home. My only interest now is art but sometimes I’ll just stare at my paper for half an hour and cry? Depression has its weird ways.
봄빛이 What causes people depression. It's okay if it's personal you do not have to tell me
Ali
I’m not sure what causes depression.. maybe something that happened in life that formed a depression? Mine happened when I started to get anxiety in the 3rd grade and depression slowly developed after my anxiety.
봄빛이 oh sorry to hear thatd
I was depressed for 5 years and could finally begin to heal last year. Since my childhood I had outbursts of emotions but as I entered my late teens, I no longer had emotions, it was just numbness that never left. Self harm was a resort and it made me feel better after the deed, so I was addicted to the Euphoria that came with it.
It's been over a year now that I've successfully overcome depression. However, I know it's still there. Some days I get to that darkness again and feel my world cracking away. However, I've become better at managing those feelings with time. I no longer do self harm and give myself words of encouragement and love daily, so as to remind myself that I'll always be my own healer.
Stay strong ♡
how did you overcome form depression.
Please tell me i'm still suffering.
@@Name-hp6eh i'm still suffering but, i have channel which may help you
Dr.julie smith
lmao who else just fell into that dark hole and are watching this trying to remind yourself that you’re not faking it even though u think u are
welcome to the team
Omg I feel the same way cos sometimes it feels like it's all in my head but then I used to look at my cuts and it reminded me also looking in the mirror helped to see it too cos I looked too dead to be acting and whenever I tries to attempt a smile I would end up hystericllay crying so I can totally relate.
I feel like Im just telling myself I have depression I’m just faking it, then this shows up in my recommendation
i was diagnosed but still thinks i might be faking it..simply because i don't know what or how to explain when my therapist ask 'how are you feeling?'
i know i'm feeling something but i don't know if i'm actually feeling it or it's just i feel nothing at all..my body reacts but not 'me'
I need advice? Something along those lines. I feeling sad a lot lately, probably because I just started middle school, but still sometimes I feel this way on Saturdays, when I used to feel the happiest. Anyway, I’ve been feeling sad and thinking 2 things at the same time: “You’re not sad, your faking it for attention”, and calling myself hurtful names. On the other half, I’m saying, “You’re feeling sad lately, talk to someone,” I don’t know what to do, I feel like I’m spiraling out of control. Does this have a name, so I can find a way to fix it? Please don’t think this is fake, I’m really going through a lot, because of an uprise in fake people saying they have this, people don’t believe people actually going through this. So if you can help, please tell me.
I thought I was alone on this one
I hate when people says: “stop acting like that! You’re so emotional.”
Stop judging me. Stop saying that to me, it’s hurting me! It’s easy for you to tell that ‘cause you never knew what’s like to have depression.
Elyxema Plays same! I try to hide it though, no one believes me because I laugh and smile a lot, but sometimes I want my friends to notice it and try to help me, can’t they notice me making more and more jokes about being sad, can’t they notice the fact I always have scrunchies on my arms and never take them off?
Sorry for ranting
@@strawberry-zq5nq ill subscribe
Coz not everyone can afford to be depressed, some of us have to work too!
dont tell us. tell them
Exacrlt
omg i really hope that anyone who’s going trough this get over it, i’ll be praying for you, i love you, someone loves you :(❤️
Appreciate it..... But advice if u know someone who suffers from depression, don't day things like "get over it".
This made me smile 😭🤧
@@fatematharoo7537 yh things take time 😶
Jesus Loves you, don't give up.
thanks! thank you so much your words mean the world to me.
One of my teachers described deppression as 'long lasting sadness'
That was the first class I ever did with her and I dislike her already.
Everyone says "Open up to family and friends" ALL THE TIMEDJXUUDDH HOWWWW THEY THEMSELVES ARE LITERALLY THE DEFINITION OF DEPRESSION OR WHATEVER
I feel you... 💪
So true
🤝
Yiu are right 👍now l have no friends everybody think that iam lonely but l chose that cause my friends are always jealous of me they pretend that they love me ,at home l stay away from my parents and siblings i never cry infront of them i am sure that iam depressed but here we don't have this culture
Same i have toxic parents and siblings i can relate
*"If someone opens up to you about their depression, don't say ,,I've been sad too" listen"*
Wow... I didn't expect THAT...
same
@Clarissa Ramirez yeah...I told this to my bestie...after trying soo hard...but what she said made me feel hopeless she said" you are just imagining things...you just want to be like a depressed person...you are not...if you try to be happy you can be happy like normal people"
it's a horrible feeling when you're just going through the everyday routines of life completely numb to everything and nothing interests you anymore
Yo
My life
If you're feeling depressed -
Talk with me. I'LL BE A FRIEND. 😄
"How can strangers be friends?"
-See my name. Best if luck. I'll be a good listener.
"What's your purpose?"
-My purpose is I wanna feel a depressed person is smiling. What can be greater than this?😄😊
That's so sweet of you
This made me smile. I havnt smiled properly in ages so thank you.
@@davinky17.i93 yeah it's really great ... I can understand the feeling when u just haven't realised that u just smiled and u smiled after ages ... It's like u made an imposing task possible to u .... Atleast this one is what i actually feel when i smile once or twice after months
Hello sister. I found you. Kaboom 💣.
I am right now wasting my time for absolutely no reason. Bye bye bye bye bye.
You know what I hate? People who make depression seem like its this one dimensional "can't get out of bed" stereotype when literally depression is experienced in various ways for different people. That's why there are so many different types of depression. Can we get away from the idea that its 24/7 laying in bed and staring into space with a gloomy expression.
Masyn Luck Yessssss, "you aren't depressed, you can go out of your house" that's so ????mmmok?
Yea.. mine affects me the most with wanting to kill myself tbh
I agree with that and I respect your opinion since I get where you are coming from, but I think in a video they wanted to indicate as a metaphor of depression is a state of a heavy weighted mind. you know, to make others understand it better.
completely agree. i think that intelligence leads to a sort of quiet depression because you realize how bad most things are and how much shit there is in this world
Exactly! High functioning depression goes under the radar.
Sadness is okay, it's almost necessary. Depression is a constant process of worrying, then pushing people away, then blaming yourself, then feeling okay for maybe a bit, then it starts all over. It has done nothing but ruin my relationships, break promises, and made me selfish. I feel like I'm drowning every day and no one can see it. I don't like to tell people, the last thing I want is for anyone to pity me.
Alana Kahiapo did you find a way to get out of it?
this is EXACTLY how i feel, and people don't even notice (friends family etc.) they think 'oh, she's smiling! she must be okay!' when it's not even real it's just i've pulled the same smile so many times in front of them. it physically hurts that the people who care most about me don't know what it's like and i'm not gonna tell anyone because i'll just make THEM feel sad and even guilty. i feel so selfish when i talk about it and that's why i never do.
Doesn't sound like depression tbh,more like a hard phase that everyone goes through.
ThatRottenOtaku but by 'okay' that means not feeling anything. so you are constantly feeling low or just nothing at all, and i've had this for 2 years for absolutely no reasons. it's only going further downhill.
same..
Depression is :
You are drowning and everyone is breathing
You don't want to die, you want all the pain to go away
The feeling of helplessness
The feeling of you can not complete anything
The overwhelming feeling of frustration, anxiety, anger
The feeling of : you want everything to just stop
The desperation of peaceful feeling
The feeling of want to live, but don't want to live...
Some, indeed, _do_ want to die.
Weavor Jjohanna happiness is a high fever that will break!...I’m not afraid of dying though, I’m afraid of living...
How about all of the sudden you just stopped and gave up in accomplishing something because you just lose the “feeling”(there is another term but I can’t figure it out tho hehe)? Is that just tiredness?
@@lemonata-dearts then you have to pick yourself up, complete it, after that you will be very strong, i promise, i know that, sometime you suddenly think all of the effort you put into that thing is worthless or useless, but it's not about the thing itself, it's about you overcome the sadness, be strong lad
Weavor Jjohanna Thank you for the motivation but yea it already passed and I already moved on from that shenanigans( passed what I can tho) Rn I’m waiting for the grade (expecting the worst so I wouldn’t be shock hehe) but yea Thanks again.
I wouldn’t wish on someone to lose his/her passion in something he/she loves doing. Good thing I’m trying to bounce back from that. *I’m trying*
Thank you, this explains a lot as to why I can’t move out of my bed every morning and can’t explain to my parents why I look sad all the time and never hang out with my friends!
Difference:
Sadness- feeling
Depression- MENTAL ILNESS!!
Feeling sadness is a normal thing, that every healthy human should feel
Depressed is a feeling
Skye Loves guinea pigs! it's a mental illness. not a feeling
S C Y T H E to me it's a feeling. because if they had never felt that way(the key factors to being brought down all the way) they wouldn't have end up like so. sadness could evolve into being depressed if you don't keep sane. for me... it's like a switch. i can be sad an hour and the other back to being myself
Miyie〴 i'm okay with you having an opinion but it just makes me a little frustrated when people say they are "depressed" when they mean they are sad. They aren't actually depressed, so it's kind of offensive to people with depression
This reminds me of a picture I saw it said:
:( this is what sadness looks like
:) this is what depression looks like
It's true
Rose Gold when your sad you have a frown or a blank face depression you do have those faces but you hide them when your depressed you act like your ok
Lucinda Luci did you see this picture on tumblr or Ifunny perhaps?
unfortunately this is true..I always feeling so down by myself..in front of my friends I was like always cheerful and funny..but in the end.. the emptiness just came back..I was too embarrassed to talk this issue with my friends, I always thought what they may say like "meh..not my problem" so until now, I just keep it to myself
Not really. Whether you show it or hide it depends on who you are as a person, not on whether you're sad or depressed. imo.
Yoshiki X I told my best friend and she said exactly that, that it's not her problem...she also said that she can't stand me anymore this way and she has to think about herself and her happiness with the boyfriend she's always wanted. She said I had to solve my problems first, and only after we could be friends again. She also deleted from instagram every single photo with me, as if it was enough to erase someone from your life. But my other friends stayed close to me instead, they didn't leave. They're there to listen to me and try to help as they can. So it all depends on who's standing in front of you. Try to overcome this fear and talk, it really helps. But in doing so be careful who you decide to trust. You can do it💪🏼
I wish people would stop saying “just be happy”. It’s not that EASY
Just be ha- oh ok
I KNOW RITEE. I mean what if we cant be happy again no matter how hard we try. whats the point of being happy anyway if ur just gonna be sad again. People can be so dismissive about the issue.
Thank you, usually when I say "I'm sad" people tell me "Stop faking depression". Like, what? I never said I was depressed I said I was sad... and then I even got cancelled in a discord server for "faking depression"
When people who are depressed commit/attempt suicide they don't want to die they just want to stop feeling that emptiness
true .....
but no one understand
they still call you selfish
and it hurts
True
@@mehakgill5134 i think thats because many people fake depression these days.. so everyone thinks now that depression is not serious
@@mehakgill5134 true I have had thoughts about it. im trying to not do it.but the world would be better without me in it....
Edit:I feel like people won't care...yes I have 3 bffs,yes I have siblings,parents,pets but I feel that nobody would care
@@rx5830 im sure ure wrong, i love u
when you’re classmates say they’re depressed when they’re really just sad
Way TOO relatable even teachers and when I tried covincing them they were like ignoring it or basically persuading me to commit suicide instead of helping
Sad isn't good either cuz it can also lead to depression
Wølfy-Gacha definitely true
I dont think Im depressed. Im just get sad often to the point where I get suicidal thoughts but I still manage to go along my days and do things. I still find interest in things I like.
Thats right.
👏
You do not have it.
@19 aw sorry we're not perfect like u, saying "we seek attention" is you belittling many ppls problems and their way of coping with it, so.. excuse us ToUgH bOy
@19 oh and I hope you won't actually say that to those who actually really have depression. Although you wouldn't know since obviously you wouldn't know strangers which brings me to the point of.. it's unnecessary to say. But if u want no mind
@19 I won't refute that cus it's true.. I did notice the "I'm depressed" trend..
Im kinda like you, I dont think im depressed but I get sad and start to think about suicide, to the point I'm trying to kill myself, then noticing what Im doing and immediately stopping it. Lol, it's funny how I don't talk about stuff like these just because of the stupid trend going on.
''Instead, it isolates you from what you love.''
Broke me.
I absolutely hate it when people say that they are depressed for no reason. Some think that saying "I'm so depressed" is cool, but depression is something that isn't to joke about. Those people who have fake depression should be cut off from the Internet, depression is a disorder, not a trend
Ikr. Mostly kids being just edgy but the next day they still can go outside with friends or play games watch TH-cam and more.
@@MonikaCult yep
Unfortunately, depression has become the trend of the whole world
it’s such an annoyingly hard thing to explain as well, because the best thing to do is to talk about it, but people talk about it in the wrong way. people i know irl have tried to show off self harm scars, and i’d love to be able to help them, but you just can’t when all they want is a reaction.
makes me physically shake from anger dude. mine is getting very very serious and I tell my friends I want to die and they laugh like I'm joking. its disgusting how trenders have turned the mental illness into a common, teenager thing.
depression is wanting to go hangout with your friends but declines when they invite you..
Yep
Romans 10:13 "For whosoever shall call upon the name of The Lord (Jesus Christ) shall be saved!" God bless, much love to you all. Just wanted to share some love that God leads us to instead of the hate that is so often portrayed in the world :) I mean no disrespect or harm to anyone or their beliefs, even if they are different from mine. God bless and may you give Jesus a chance sometime! xoxo
nahh that's your problem.
That's not what it really is..
Literally me :
I want to die because of depression but I'm too scared to die because of anxiety
This is so relateable...
that was me when i had depression lol
Yeah true
Gacha_ gwihan i have a friend like this and she’s desperate. She really want to die and trust me. She lives in a horror movie. I want to meet her so bad and to take her out of that think but i’m still a seventeen y old child that can’t even feel a sentiment at all. But all i know is that i want to get her out of there. Really quick.
Gacha_ gwihan the only reason I’m alive is because I’m afraid the only reason I’m afraid is because I’m alive 🙃
Can't believe I went through times when i literally had to touch myself that I actually physically exist.
So sad that you had to go through this. R u fine now?
I have depression.
I could barely eat today without getting sick.
I can barely be alone of things to think about without thinking of my emptiness.
Ketchup & Gummy Bears might be depression and eating disorder
Ketchup & Gummy Bears I know that it's tough. I know. But just know that it will get better one day. Stay strong xx
Ketchup & Gummy Bears its called give me attention disease
Ketchup & Gummy Bears I feel the same way I can’t over eat or what I just ate would be in the toilet ugh 😑
I hope things are better for you now.
Last year I had this friend and basically she got grounded and was like "Omg I'm so depressed!1!" but then a few days later she was like "Hey guys I'm not depressed anymore :D" ugh I just hate how some people can throw around that word so loosely.
The chair that Jimin threw in Boy in Luv MV thats happened to me many times before. its like they havent heard of illness
I used to be like your firend too, I took the word " depression" lightly, until I'm in a real depression state, I'm regreting really really hard :/
The chair that Jimin threw in Boy in Luv MV why are we everywhere
Damn
The chair that Jimin threw in Boy in Luv MV Darn. Depressed is an adjective but shouldn't be thrown around like that!
the title should be named “send this to every girl in ur school who think they’re depressed”
Why girls?
People I know joke about depression and I confronted one of my friends telling them it's not something to joke about and they told me calm down it's not a big deal i lost it and never really talked to her after that
I know-- Like depression isn't cool, it's not even trendy, it's an illness. And you shouldn't fake to have it just cuz you think it'll make you ' Edgy ' or ' Cool'
@@iliketogrowplants you know, "basic girls" like those girls who change easily by what they hear in the internet and think that are the new fashion, I don't know how you call them in English but in Spanish we call them "Morras Básicas" the kind of girl which read their horoscope (by example) and say "DATS TOTALLY ME!"
I hate when people fake depression to only get attention. I have kinda clinical depression, soon I'll be visiting psychiatrist and those fakers doesn't even know what a huge pain having depression is.
I do have depression,anxiety, sadness , broken, insomia it kills me even though im already dead...
To people who fakes depression, look at this!
If someone opens up to you saying they have depression, don't say "you're just sad." cuz it fvcking took too much energy for us to open up with y'all. Openning up doesn't mean it's less painful now, it is the other way around, it drains us
Unbeliebubble Bangtan that’s happened to me a couple times and I’ve just given up lol I don’t tell anyone about this anymore, it’s pointless
I haven't heard "you're just sad" but I did hear stuff like "You have no reason to feel like that at your age"
So yeah, I just keep it to myself since nobody says anything helpful.
@@nifl9903 exactly.
>when people think that age matters when it comes to mental health
You're living in a bubble.
@@nifl9903 dude yeah and it sucks to hear that.
I hate it when people are like "oH mY gOd iM sO dEpReSsEd!" When they are feeling sad. I also hate it when you are actually depressed and you laugh once and people are like "uR nOt dEpReSsEd!" When you are but you just found something funny. It drives me crazy!
Also if you are depressed I know it may be hard to speak to someone. I completely understand. Don't think you're are worthless. Someone does love you and wants you to be happy. I want you to be happy. Please take care.
BTW I'm not looking for any likes I just want people to be happy with themselves. ☺
You made me cry
So true...
@the henchman you are the reason why depressed people cant open up. Grow up lmao
So true the other day I said something sad as a joke (I didnt mean to make it sad btw) just because I try to act happy so I don't worry people but then my sister was like "stop acting so depressed" like what? Im not mad at her but she just probably doesn't see how I feel
My friends and family sometimes consider me as a useless person.
Depression is like a shadow- it always follows you wherever you go
I keep blaiming myself for being depressed
ASMR Anika me too😥
ASMR Anika That's the Depression talking. You're no more "at fault" than if you got hit by a truck or bullet... Guilt and shame are horrible, insidious, and even dangerous thoughts of you don't challenge them.... Depressive thoughts *masquerade as super clarity*.... It doesn't make anything "true" :)... Ditch the self-reproach at every turn, and anyone who tries to lay that horse shit on you...
Doesn't matters whos fault, but you should try to overcome it. Many have you can too.
and people tell me that as well...
same. i feel like i don't have the right to feel this way because others are going through something much worse and i feel really shitty and ungrateful that i feel this way that i'll wish i could just give my life to someone who can do better in life. i keep saying "sorry i feel this way." i just try to hide everything. i keep telling myself *_"this is not depression, your life is not tragic enough to be depressed."_*
“Fun cannot fix it. Instead, it isolates you from what you love.” I totally understand this. When i was sad i used to play video games, and all of the sudden I stopped playing and all i wanted to do is sleep. I miss it :/
Yeah... hope you find a way to enjoy those things soon. 👌
And what about sex
Lyfis gr8 And people nowadays couldnt understand what depression means, ugh, people nowadays
Mia Nicolle I’ve always played video games and I used to over eat and now I’m overweight. Weird because when I was younger kids clothes were too big on me and i would look like bones. Now im too big for my clothes and I look like fat. I don’t find interest in video games like I used too, I just think my eating disorder is an escape from stress, anxiety, school, and friends.
I used to LOVE painting but one day I just stopped loving it..
Painting felt like a chore.
I didn't care for it at all.
All I wanted was to sleep, and run away from the real world by watching tv shows and completely isolating myself.. ignoring everyone's calls/texts.
Lying/ making excuses to avoid going out/ talking to friends/ family.
Locked away in my room..
Slowly all the things I once loved were no longer interesting to me..
I had 0 motivation..
It sucks because you don't understand why you feel this way, it just happens..
You don't want to feel this way but it's inevitable.. you're trapped in this cycle..
It's awful..
I will explain about me
I used to be a very happy girl
I used to be very friendly
No anxiety
I loved singing and playing instruments
I loved eating food
I loved to play
I used to cry alot if I got hurt
I used to be scared of darkness
I was not depressed
But
Now I'm a very a quiet person
I'm not friendly i became boring
I have anxiety like it's with me evry second
Now I don't sing neither play anything but I listen sad music
I still eat food but sometimes I don't wanna eat for days
Now I don't wanna go out form my bed
Tears doesn't comes from my eyes but my heart brusts with pain
Now I'm not scared of darkness that I used to be scared before
I am depressed
And it's so hard when you know why but you can't explain why your depressed
Sounds to me like you’ve got some demons.
I think you not alone...
Cuz i have same emotions...
I relate to this so much...
This happened to me too, but because of the bad times gone by, why should we spoil ourselves today our coming tomorrow can be beautiful.. life has given us many opportunities..
This time it's our turn to give life a chance😇😊
@@sharonrv8087 actually for me this whole year plus the situation makes everything worse for me 🙃
To everyone seeing this ,you are strong and I'm so proud of you for fighting all your battles❤️
*Depression feels like an non-ending cycle, I’ve had depression ever since the beginning of 6th grade*
wait what is this not going to end-
@@denisabunea789 its not ending. Tbh im 13 now and i still have depression.
it gets worse when people say that i fake it and not even my own parents understand
@@joshithaa5596 yep. My parents don’t understand either.
And me 4th grade and I’m now 7th grade (´•ω•̥`)
I remember my friend saying to me, “your not depressed, because depressed people don’t laugh. And you just laughed a little while ago”
Though I may not have depression, I didn’t like how she stereotyped it. Never think because someone is happy they aren’t depressed.
Then i'm just getting worse
Sometimes little things can mean a lot
Im depressed and I hide it, I can smile to my best friend and my family and I’m crying inside
Marilyn was laughing and smiling.
But depression was there.
I was diagnosed with dysthymic depression. Been having suicidal ideations since I was 12 (27 now). It's strange illness, because things that normally make a person happy (e.g. finding out that the girl you like likes you too) puts you into such a deep and dark depressive state. It's like anything that brings intense happiness to someone just brings intense sadness to people like me. It's like my brain just isn't wired to see and react to the world they way everyone else does.
Ur very stong and brave goin through something like that.
Tsar Nicholas II I was depressed since I was like 10 and I'm like 12 so two years I just wanted to die cut my wrist hips stomach I just cant explain right now..
Anime I need more anime Want to talk?
*Depression is when you're too afraid to die but too exhausted to live*