Having Game 101 When you mention the phrase having game, most people will immediately get negative thoughts in their heads. Most people think of game as manipulating other people and using them to one’s own end. Having game is really much simpler than that, having game is really just the ability to use your current situation as a tool to get what you want. A lot of people don’t feel that they can use their current situation to get what they want because there are a lot of negative aspects of their current position in life that they feel are holding them back. What if I told you that having game means that you can turn those negatives into positive so that they can not only stop hindering you but help you to get what you want? This premium video will show you how to change your situation by using some of the worse things in your life to make your goals happen for you. Having Game 102 A major part of getting what you want is knowing how to ask for it. Most people struggle to get what they want because they never really even take the time to find out what it is that they actually want. In order to ask for what you want, you have to first know what you want, then you have to figure out how what you want helps the other person. A huge part of having game is understanding others and knowing what it is that they want and need. Once you figure out what others want and what you want, then you can begin to go about the process of using that information to ask for what you really want. This premium video will show you how to navigate the pitfalls that come when asking for what you want and help you to make others believe that they are getting what they want by giving you what you actually want. Having Game 103 Most people think that everything is over when they don’t get what they want and decide to walk away. Many people see this as the ultimate loss but it is really just a strategy to win if you do it correctly. If done right, walking away is the best form of game and has an extremely successful track record. This premium video will show you how to use walking away as a means of getting what you want in the long run. Instead of giving up, you will be setting up and figuring out how to secure your emotions while triggering theirs. Save 15% Today on my Having Game Master Class with coupon code: IHAVEGAME sellfy.com/p/9hTo/
Bitter women cannot be players because they are too emotional.In order to be a player,you have to have a clear mind.You must be confident, not catch feelings and not care about how your actions affect others.
@@memoryrinehart What I was trying to say is that in order for you to be a player, you cannot dwell on past hurt that men have done to you. This is something that is difficult because most women hold on to pass pain so that is why it's not easy for women to be players because they are emotional.
@@LaBellaDonna I guess I was a user and didn't even feel it, because those guys were getting SOMETHING back, even if it wasn't exactly what they had in mind like Chaz says. People want SOME kind of value 4 value relationship or they won't stay in it.
It is best to be married and play this game with a man than to try it alone because most men do not take step one. They will not charge it to the game. They will hurt you. But if you have a husband while in the game. They will run after being played and feel like God saved their life when your crazy wild husband bust in the doors to save you right on time.
That's what target practice and posting your dead eye skills in your front room or living room as a conversation starter. Armed society is polite society.
Players have SOME attributes that women in 2019 need when dating.They are calculating and not emotional.They have an agenda and stick to it.Players also guard their heart and feelings.The person who ultimately wins the love of a player worked REALLY HARD to get it.Players also give very little to nothing to the people they deal with so they don't care to cut a person off if they do not do what they want them to do.They avoid emotional attachment which if most of us women did this, would avoid alot of heartache.
@@ThatGmoney False. I hate players. Men who call you when they feel like it and hang out with you on their time. Always having to feel like you're in competition. That's something I never was attracted to. In fact, my exes were always the quiet guy that most women overlook.Those guys would show me off and make me feel awesome. please don't analyze me because you don't know me
@Liquid Bijoux I understand where you are coming from.Using people isnt right.Proverbs 4:23 says "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." And women do not guard their heart.They meet a man, spill all their business about the hurt and pain that they have been through in the past.Because they told this man all their business and spent a little time with him, they feel a connection with him but truth is that they are feeling that connection by themselves because men are smarter than woman in this aspect.They do not open up immediately.Being a player DOES have some sociopathic qualities .However there are some positive aspects to it.Dont open up to people at first.Take it SLOOWWWWW and see what happens
Yep. Some men are really stupid, walked away when you liked them. Then return thinking you still like them. I usually wait for them to come back because they always do a d that is when I hit them up where it hurts. Then they be like how you get like that, inside I be saying you taught me fool. Bye now🤣🤣🤣🤣
He told me he needed a break last week but deep down I'm sure he likes me but still wants to play around cz I really liked him and we made alot of memories together.....I'll show him the coach in me when he comes back! Can't walk in and out as he pleases
@@kellymolly3616 Yes sister! Do not let any man walk in and out of your life. One dating coach stressed that he stays if he wants to stay, let him go if he wants to go. We teach them as to how they will treat us, hence, we should not allow to ve mistreated. The right man will always stay.😙😙😙
I kind of admire ppl that can keep their emotions out of situations. Im too sensitive. Im not into game playing but I would like to aquire better emotional restraint when dealing with guys. I think thats the key to not being played. Mindset is everything
A player is a good option for u if ur a spoiled girl or materialistic girl. And keep on playing till you settle with one of those dudes and choose the easiest and the kindest one to settle with.
It is best to be married and play this game with a man than to try it alone because most men do not take step one. They will not charge it to the game. They will hurt you. But if you have a husband while in the game. They will run after being played and feel like God saved their life when your crazy wild husband bust in the doors to save you right on time.
@Farro Wife Lol....looks like you and your husband have a hellava lot of stories to tell your grandkids ....the best love is when partners are truly partners ❤️💯💪🏽....I read your other comments
@@mrs.patricewhyte5024 We did not have our two children we have now until we were hitting 40, so we have lots of stories to tell them. Something would happen or be said and my king and I would look each others way and bust out laughing. Our kids would say yall and your inside jokes, tell us the story of what yall laughing at. Sometimes we would say you too young to hear that one and they would bother us so much that we tell them everything. I tell them that we tell them everything because if they follow all our steps in life, even our fun mistakes, we would still be proud of them and so would God. We even have different names for each act we have. If he needs me to act a certain way he calls me a different name. When he wants the ghetto girl act, that praise me so I can show off act, the we too much so make them hate on us act, the we not happily married act, the we so in love act, the flirt so you can get something I need act, the act like you quiet cause I run your life act, we got names for all that. His family thinks he so in love with me that they have to ask my permission to see him, speak to him or get anything from him. He would let them see him iron my clothes and shit to make them think Im controlling him. All they guys I dated in school thinks that Im scared of him and he has me locked in the house and abusing me. He was an over the road truck driver so when he left the house all his friends and my exes used to come to my house but I would talk to them all through my gate and would call him to tell him who is there and that they are asking why does he take the keys and lock me in when he leaves the house. He would tell them that he left me with everything I need in the house, so get away from his house. His friends came with their paychecks and a wedding ring to try and take me from him, once they found out what all I do for him. I have a key but would never tell them. Once my exes caught him home and found out who he was, they trembled in fear, tears came from their eyes, they bowed, told him they sorry and and ran off. I have not heard from them since. My ex is a cop and had a gun on his side and still fell to his knees in fear of my husband. I asked my husband what that was about and he told me that they knew each other. They had one fight once in life. I told my husband the only reason I dated them is because they was acting like him until they turned into themselves. So to find a good man, you have to follow the men who has met him and is acting like him until they turn into themselves.
@Farro Wife I am truly in aww of the love yawll have found and built together .....especially the way yawll are playing Everyone ....to keep what yawll have sacred, much love and respect to you both💪🏽💯
@@mrs.patricewhyte5024 Thanks Same to you Can you do me a favor? Go read my comment under this video and tell me if you find my advice to be right or wrong? My Best Friend Is Dating My Crush And I Am So Jealous, is the name of the video My Story Animated , is the name of the youtube channel
Flirt and promise sex and come up with all the things you need to set u up in that mood (money for lingerie, fake illness to see a doc, need an apartment for privacy lol) depending on the guys pockets but NEVER deliver!
I'm too real 2b a player...i can't roll like a player I just let b known what I expect what I want and if u can't give it I won't play u back i just dead u and find sum1 on my level that keep it real ..nobody got time for player games going back n forth that's for kids still learning how shit goes and tryna find themselves in the,process.....nah nah when u reach a certain age u ain't got time 4that...
Unfortunately I been the one who gets played and this was the reason why I was interested in watching your video's and in one video u mentioned that if a man doesn't call u the next day u let him smash to never ever go back and try to get your pride and ego back. I took your advice and I didn't look back I didn't look for those guys and tried to find answers. I took my L's and I moved ON. Players are not meant to be kept.
Dont forget to mention once u pit that player card up KARMA comes knoccn at the door! Its life just gotta be player enough to deal with never do others how u wouldnt want to be done cause wat goes around comes around smetimes playing has a price i been there ooh wee!
Author Janae Marie .... I hear you, but why stoop to their level? Maybe just be true to your nature and be genuine and keep high expectations for the men you date.
Look, I know that this whole player thing gets celebrated but..probably a lot of you ladies have had it done to you and you know how it feels. Don't make other people feel that way. You're better than that. If you want things there are positive healthy ways to get them. Please don't use people like objects. I had a guy I met when I was just 15, I was a baby and didn't understand these mind games. He played me for ten years. I suffered with depression for many years, I would cut deep wounds into my thighs and wrists. And when I'd see him he would kiss them. When my sister committed suicide he disappeared then came back just as always. I was on the edge of killing myself. I didn't need to be used for my body. Just don't use people. You're so much better than that. Be better than them.
I’m talking to someone now he’s really cool. I recently realized that love is not real and most men are so stupid and hive minded I don’t even know what’s the point. When men become leaders again I’ll reconsider
Well said. I had a FWB and we are back to a beautiful friendship. I want a man who is my friend and who does stuff with me and laughs with me. No interested in sex and not interested in a relationship.
Playing games is something I don't do when it comes to affairs of the heart.games are for children.but I wouldn't mind hearing about how not to get played tho.....
good luck on april 16 Chazz!!! so proud of you!! YOU ARE da man!!! Hey, I really appreciate you, cause you keep me on point! You remind me of my standards (AND what happened when I didn't stick to them in the past! My ex who beat me and cheated on me for 10 years) but now I have one of the greatest men to ever walk the planet in my life! he's an angel! Thanks Chazz!
lol I told a guy that hes a player and he called me the coach-my motto treat me like a queen I will treat you like a king-treat me like a game I will show you how its played-
Easy. Lead them on then ghost them. Make promises "Set up dates then cancel/ set up times to meet up to smash but dont show up and make up an excuse." Don't become too available. When they send texts etc open the text but never reply back for weeks or months then reply back with a response. He says what have u been up to? (You) dont reply back for one month then one day u say "I've been busy" then he'll reply back n u keep that cycle going etc 🙂
Don't want no players don't want to be a player.. I think we should just get back to being in trustful relationships that feels like a warm blanket oh cozy and fuzzy. I don't want to change nobody and I don't want nobody to change me but I'm definitely not jumping through hoops for a relationship it either works or it don't plain and simple 😉
Most women particularly think like that, but unfortunately most men play n hurt us n u might be with some1 for over 20 years then be surprised n traumatized when u find out theyre havin an affair or went to a club n cheated with some random chick.. those men aint loyal n dont desreve women wasting their youth n love on them. Many men start to become players at older age these are old crusty nasty btchs that ull feel so sick of they go after young girls n dont give a dim about u, the one that stayed loyal n carin for ages.
It’s never a good idea to play anyone! It’s a great idea to know the game tho (to avoid being played). Would you really feel good about using someone?!?! Wrong recipe 👎
I want a guy that can actually provide relationship benefits instead of just saying it but yet give half effort trying to actually build a relationship
I don’t know. I ask help i would not necessarily call it playing someone. Would not either almost cry to let someone help me....Just do my own thing. Playing games is really so cool these days. But i just stick to my own routine and way of life. Bcause i just don’t like those games. Why would u put energy in that. While u can focus on yourself....
You actually make sense! I'm thinking of getting back with my children's father (with no emotions attached this time) and just let him live with us for my own benefits, what do you think about this Chaz? Sometimes we put our emotions first and go into a relationship with am unrealistic expectations and play ourselves as you said, cause sometimes I need help with daily tasks or if I have to go somewhere without the kids I have to ask favours from family and friends because he doesn't get involved at all since I kicked him out. Now I'm thinking fuck love I just live as room mates for my own benefits.
Hab A, i feel you. Im a single mom too and thats exactly how they do if they dont reside in the same house as you. I'd say hell yeah, do it. And make his ass ever regret playing with you. 😂😂😂 we got shit to do too and just like you said aint nobody got time, all the time to ask somebody to watch the kids, while they go and take care of business.
@@cookingwiththekiddos2334 girl!! 😫😫 I gotta do that for real but I first need to get over things and let the anger die down 😂 cause I can't afford to let him think I still care about hiss ass
Hab A lmao!!! But I feel you. Cause when they feel like they got the upper hand, they show their ass. And when i say upper hand, im talking about you caring.
@@cookingwiththekiddos2334 honestly 😭 there was a time when we were together n lived together where I've made him believe I've stopped caring, he even started complaining to his family saying I've given up on him ffs 🤣 NGL I've enjoyed watching him lose his marbles, I'd definitely enjoy that again. The question is what are the ways to ensure consistency in the way you make them believe u don't give two shits
Im kida a player but this one boy who i let take my v-card he been playing me and he doesn't care about my feelings or if i was to die but i care about him and everything about him... I want him to feel the pain i go threw
I wouldnt say I am a player more like just cannot give emotional attachement to a guy. I got issues and rather be real than give a guy a fake fantasy. Better to be upfront and real with the dude.
I did get play Big Time, He called me on my phone, asking for me to help him with his electric bill, told me he will put the money in my car in the morning just leave it un lock,I went out to the car later on and looked for the money and it wasn't there, I called him and he say that he was running late for work and he didn't have time to do it, he asked if I could cover it and he will pay me back whenever he sees the receipt he took the receipt and not give me nothing, and also he hustled me out of a lot of other things too, including my car for three whole months. he doesn't just hustle me he hustles other people too as well,like his boss at work, his boss loaned him some money instead of paying his boss back he knew he was going to leave for another job.He even hustle his own brother,and everyone else. and he will pretend that he's going to pay you back and then when you go to the bank with him he would say something's wrong with his check. His name is Amado and he is a bad man.
The guy I’m talking to he’s cool I like him a lot my expectations are low. For me personally if a guy isn’t smart there is no reason for me to want to play you I used to sleep with whores but it’s so boring. I want a mate but no one is eligible. These young guys just want to be with women that the media promotes I say off with their heads, people make me sick I don’t want to date anyone in this society these stupid pieces of shit aren’t even worthy of the bodies they posses the nerve of people to think they’re worthy of being courted
Is easy to being women player is not respect a game is kill your emotion lady Just act and lie as much as u want and don't give a damp about they feeling . Don't control them in game , let them play too
So what if the woman just want sex too ?? Women dont enjoy sex ?? ...u cant have sex and get what u want ...men get possessive and emotional too .. i had sex on the first date and got married twice
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Having Game 101
When you mention the phrase having game, most people will immediately get negative thoughts in their heads. Most people think of game as manipulating other people and using them to one’s own end. Having game is really much simpler than that, having game is really just the ability to use your current situation as a tool to get what you want. A lot of people don’t feel that they can use their current situation to get what they want because there are a lot of negative aspects of their current position in life that they feel are holding them back. What if I told you that having game means that you can turn those negatives into positive so that they can not only stop hindering you but help you to get what you want? This premium video will show you how to change your situation by using some of the worse things in your life to make your goals happen for you.
Having Game 102
A major part of getting what you want is knowing how to ask for it. Most people struggle to get what they want because they never really even take the time to find out what it is that they actually want. In order to ask for what you want, you have to first know what you want, then you have to figure out how what you want helps the other person. A huge part of having game is understanding others and knowing what it is that they want and need. Once you figure out what others want and what you want, then you can begin to go about the process of using that information to ask for what you really want. This premium video will show you how to navigate the pitfalls that come when asking for what you want and help you to make others believe that they are getting what they want by giving you what you actually want.
Having Game 103
Most people think that everything is over when they don’t get what they want and decide to walk away. Many people see this as the ultimate loss but it is really just a strategy to win if you do it correctly. If done right, walking away is the best form of game and has an extremely successful track record. This premium video will show you how to use walking away as a means of getting what you want in the long run. Instead of giving up, you will be setting up and figuring out how to secure your emotions while triggering theirs.
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Bitter women cannot be players because they are too emotional.In order to be a player,you have to have a clear mind.You must be confident, not catch feelings and not care about how your actions affect others.
Yup and be hella detached and strategic.
I don't think you understood him. And bitterness is selective. You won't be too bitter to the guy who helped you move the furniture or plane the door.
@@memoryrinehart I understood him completely.But I don't understand what you are trying to say. What does it mean to plane a door?
@@memoryrinehart What I was trying to say is that in order for you to be a player, you cannot dwell on past hurt that men have done to you. This is something that is difficult because most women hold on to pass pain so that is why it's not easy for women to be players because they are emotional.
@@LaBellaDonna I guess I was a user and didn't even feel it, because those guys were getting SOMETHING back, even if it wasn't exactly what they had in mind like Chaz says. People want SOME kind of value 4 value relationship or they won't stay in it.
You can’t be a victim and a player 👏🏼
Be careful cause some men get abusive and violent when they feel like they’re being played with. Sensitive and fragile egos....
Facts!!!! I've seen women dead or badly injured behind "playin"
Pussies they do jt to us but die when we do it to them.
It is best to be married and play this game with a man than to try it alone because most men do not take step one. They will not charge it to the game. They will hurt you. But if you have a husband while in the game. They will run after being played and feel like God saved their life when your crazy wild husband bust in the doors to save you right on time.
That's what target practice and posting your dead eye skills in your front room or living room as a conversation starter. Armed society is polite society.
Abusive men have obvious tendencies though. Most abusive men show major red flags early on so just pay attention and pick the right targets.
Players have SOME attributes that women in 2019 need when dating.They are calculating and not emotional.They have an agenda and stick to it.Players also guard their heart and feelings.The person who ultimately wins the love of a player worked REALLY HARD to get it.Players also give very little to nothing to the people they deal with so they don't care to cut a person off if they do not do what they want them to do.They avoid emotional attachment which if most of us women did this, would avoid alot of heartache.
@@ThatGmoney False. I hate players. Men who call you when they feel like it and hang out with you on their time. Always having to feel like you're in competition. That's something I never was attracted to. In fact, my exes were always the quiet guy that most women overlook.Those guys would show me off and make me feel awesome. please don't analyze me because you don't know me
@Liquid Bijoux Sociopaths?Makes sense....
@Liquid Bijoux I understand where you are coming from.Using people isnt right.Proverbs 4:23 says "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." And women do not guard their heart.They meet a man, spill all their business about the hurt and pain that they have been through in the past.Because they told this man all their business and spent a little time with him, they feel a connection with him but truth is that they are feeling that connection by themselves because men are smarter than woman in this aspect.They do not open up immediately.Being a player DOES have some sociopathic qualities .However there are some positive aspects to it.Dont open up to people at first.Take it SLOOWWWWW and see what happens
Exactly. They stick to heir agenda.
Elisabeth Krystele if this happened once it won’t happen twice. Just plan our own time. No bending till someone bends too ❤️💫
Ladies the beat way to be a female player is to get ur guy into an emotional state. From there u can manipulate as you wish.
Period
How do you get them into an emotional state?
@@xmswayzemx don’t give away too much physically. That way they’ll focus on the emotional. Say just what they want to hear. Etc
Yep. Some men are really stupid, walked away when you liked them. Then return thinking you still like them. I usually wait for them to come back because they always do a d that is when I hit them up where it hurts. Then they be like how you get like that, inside I be saying you taught me fool. Bye now🤣🤣🤣🤣
Way to go sis!😙 patience is virtue, find the right timing and hit where it hurts.😁
@@marisolbarbacena7963 👍👍👍
He told me he needed a break last week but deep down I'm sure he likes me but still wants to play around cz I really liked him and we made alot of memories together.....I'll show him the coach in me when he comes back! Can't walk in and out as he pleases
@@kellymolly3616 Yes sister! Do not let any man walk in and out of your life. One dating coach stressed that he stays if he wants to stay, let him go if he wants to go. We teach them as to how they will treat us, hence, we should not allow to ve mistreated. The right man will always stay.😙😙😙
Sharon Harding hahaha i feel you. I’ve learned a great deal from being played too
I want someone to move my couch 15 flights of stairs, no elevator 😂😂😂👍🏻
I need to add that one my list.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😭😭
I kind of admire ppl that can keep their emotions out of situations. Im too sensitive. Im not into game playing but I would like to aquire better emotional restraint when dealing with guys. I think thats the key to not being played. Mindset is everything
A player is a good option for u if ur a spoiled girl or materialistic girl. And keep on playing till you settle with one of those dudes and choose the easiest and the kindest one to settle with.
Energy, he’s describing how to be a user. A player has all their needs met not just their materialistic or removalist ones! Lol
That's how people get hurt physically ....cause everyone can not take someone playing with their emotions
It is best to be married and play this game with a man than to try it alone because most men do not take step one. They will not charge it to the game. They will hurt you. But if you have a husband while in the game. They will run after being played and feel like God saved their life when your crazy wild husband bust in the doors to save you right on time.
@Farro Wife Lol....looks like you and your husband have a hellava lot of stories to tell your grandkids ....the best love is when partners are truly partners ❤️💯💪🏽....I read your other comments
@@mrs.patricewhyte5024 We did not have our two children we have now until we were hitting 40, so we have lots of stories to tell them.
Something would happen or be said and my king and I would look each others way and bust out laughing. Our kids would say yall and your inside jokes, tell us the story of what yall laughing at. Sometimes we would say you too young to hear that one and they would bother us so much that we tell them everything. I tell them that we tell them everything because if they follow all our steps in life, even our fun mistakes, we would still be proud of them and so would God.
We even have different names for each act we have. If he needs me to act a certain way he calls me a different name. When he wants the ghetto girl act, that praise me so I can show off act, the we too much so make them hate on us act, the we not happily married act, the we so in love act, the flirt so you can get something I need act, the act like you quiet cause I run your life act, we got names for all that. His family thinks he so in love with me that they have to ask my permission to see him, speak to him or get anything from him. He would let them see him iron my clothes and shit to make them think Im controlling him.
All they guys I dated in school thinks that Im scared of him and he has me locked in the house and abusing me. He was an over the road truck driver so when he left the house all his friends and my exes used to come to my house but I would talk to them all through my gate and would call him to tell him who is there and that they are asking why does he take the keys and lock me in when he leaves the house. He would tell them that he left me with everything I need in the house, so get away from his house. His friends came with their paychecks and a wedding ring to try and take me from him, once they found out what all I do for him. I have a key but would never tell them. Once my exes caught him home and found out who he was, they trembled in fear, tears came from their eyes, they bowed, told him they sorry and and ran off. I have not heard from them since. My ex is a cop and had a gun on his side and still fell to his knees in fear of my husband.
I asked my husband what that was about and he told me that they knew each other.
They had one fight once in life.
I told my husband the only reason I dated them is because they was acting like him until they turned into themselves.
So to find a good man, you have to follow the men who has met him and is acting like him until they turn into themselves.
@Farro Wife I am truly in aww of the love yawll have found and built together .....especially the way yawll are playing Everyone ....to keep what yawll have sacred, much love and respect to you both💪🏽💯
@@mrs.patricewhyte5024 Thanks
Same to you
Can you do me a favor?
Go read my comment under this video and tell me if you find my advice to be right or wrong?
My Best Friend Is Dating My Crush And I Am So Jealous, is the name of the video
My Story Animated
, is the name of the youtube channel
I'm here for revenge.
BAHA SAME
Me to
Did you complete your mission? ;)
I hope you've found your peace
I want guys to spend money on me
Who don't???
Read “Ho Tactics” by GL lambert
Yupppp
Redfather chode alert
Flirt and promise sex and come up with all the things you need to set u up in that mood (money for lingerie, fake illness to see a doc, need an apartment for privacy lol) depending on the guys pockets but NEVER deliver!
It's official. I'll never be a player. My moral code that I live by is far more important then getting any guy to conform.
I'm with you on that. My morality just won't allow it.
im finna be a player. too tired of bein hurt
exactly why i’m here shiiiit
Facts my come back going to bigger than my set back
only doing this because i’ve been hurt too much now i’m showing them how it feels..
"you get a high five and i get this money" dam lol
Chazzellis 🥰 our brother 🥰
Thumbs up even before I watch
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Exactly respect the game.I flick my cigarette and keep it moving.
I'm too real 2b a player...i can't roll like a player I just let b known what I expect what I want and if u can't give it I won't play u back i just dead u and find sum1 on my level that keep it real ..nobody got time for player games going back n forth that's for kids still learning how shit goes and tryna find themselves in the,process.....nah nah when u reach a certain age u ain't got time 4that...
Amen to that..
This is also accurate
Yep
True
Unfortunately I been the one who gets played and this was the reason why I was interested in watching your video's and in one video u mentioned that if a man doesn't call u the next day u let him smash to never ever go back and try to get your pride and ego back. I took your advice and I didn't look back I didn't look for those guys and tried to find answers. I took my L's and I moved ON. Players are not meant to be kept.
Dont forget to mention once u pit that player card up KARMA comes knoccn at the door! Its life just gotta be player enough to deal with never do others how u wouldnt want to be done cause wat goes around comes around smetimes playing has a price i been there ooh wee!
Exactly Why I’m Honest ! 💯🤙🏾
🤔 I could never be a player I’m too sensitive
Same here. I'm too damn emotional. But I'm tired of being played. It's time to change things up.
Author Janae Marie .... I hear you, but why stoop to their level? Maybe just be true to your nature and be genuine and keep high expectations for the men you date.
@@bcvc3365 marry me first! No free rides🔥
Use logic and not emotions, do not let emotions control your life.
Can They Comfort Your Emotions Tho ?Don’t Emotionally Invest Until They Show They Can SUPPORT YOUR EMOTIONS ! 💯
Look, I know that this whole player thing gets celebrated but..probably a lot of you ladies have had it done to you and you know how it feels. Don't make other people feel that way. You're better than that. If you want things there are positive healthy ways to get them. Please don't use people like objects.
I had a guy I met when I was just 15, I was a baby and didn't understand these mind games. He played me for ten years.
I suffered with depression for many years, I would cut deep wounds into my thighs and wrists.
And when I'd see him he would kiss them.
When my sister committed suicide he disappeared then came back just as always.
I was on the edge of killing myself.
I didn't need to be used for my body.
Just don't use people. You're so much better than that. Be better than them.
Thanks for sharing your experience. Healing is the best way to get over the drama of life. Get into a healing group.
Thanks sis we won't use ppl , just "THAT specific narcissist in our blacklist
The most important rule is to not have feelings for anyone and not care about them. Be cold.
Can you do a video on how to get back in the game after being single for a long time?
Yes!! That a good one s Schoenleber..👏👏 like single, single.. not oh I just broke up with my boyfriend last week single.. 😂 hook us up Chazz..🤗🤗
Agreed it’s much needed
Go to the gym
Dang I am using it as a cop out. I don't really want to be a player. Thanks so much saved me from embarrassment.
I’m talking to someone now he’s really cool. I recently realized that love is not real and most men are so stupid and hive minded I don’t even know what’s the point. When men become leaders again I’ll reconsider
This gave no tips. It just gave definitions. Lol!!!
Well said. I had a FWB and we are back to a beautiful friendship. I want a man who is my friend and who does stuff with me and laughs with me. No interested in sex and not interested in a relationship.
Playing games is something I don't do when it comes to affairs of the heart.games are for children.but I wouldn't mind hearing about how not to get played tho.....
Right! That's why I'm here.
25 year old virgin here taking notes. 🤓📝
26yr old virgin here yo tf😭
If you remove the emotional aspect out of dealing with men you’ll win every time
good luck on april 16 Chazz!!! so proud of you!! YOU ARE da man!!! Hey, I really appreciate you, cause you keep me on point! You remind me of my standards (AND what happened when I didn't stick to them in the past! My ex who beat me and cheated on me for 10 years) but now I have one of the greatest men to ever walk the planet in my life! he's an angel! Thanks Chazz!
If it’s a even fair exchange, it’s no robbery...you’re a prositute! 😆 #takewithoutgiving #putonyourbiggirldraws #chargeittothegame
why do men think that women can't want sex alone and nothing else? smh
lol I told a guy that hes a player and he called me the coach-my motto treat me like a queen I will treat you like a king-treat me like a game I will show you how its played-
That moment you realize you’ve always played men
thanks im tired of people playing so i decided im setting feelings away for now until i feel like i can trust people
you are so funny.. lmao . starting today i am a playa
Chzz you're GIVING us the Definition OF PLAYER, PLEASE CAN YOU GIVE US TIPS ON HOW TO DO IT
Easy. Lead them on then ghost them.
Make promises "Set up dates then cancel/ set up times to meet up to smash but dont show up and make up an excuse." Don't become too available. When they send texts etc open the text but never reply back for weeks or months then reply back with a response. He says what have u been up to? (You) dont reply back for one month then one day u say "I've been busy" then he'll reply back n u keep that cycle going etc 🙂
Don't want no players don't want to be a player.. I think we should just get back to being in trustful relationships that feels like a warm blanket oh cozy and fuzzy. I don't want to change nobody and I don't want nobody to change me but I'm definitely not jumping through hoops for a relationship it either works or it don't plain and simple 😉
Most women particularly think like that, but unfortunately most men play n hurt us n u might be with some1 for over 20 years then be surprised n traumatized when u find out theyre havin an affair or went to a club n cheated with some random chick.. those men aint loyal n dont desreve women wasting their youth n love on them. Many men start to become players at older age these are old crusty nasty btchs that ull feel so sick of they go after young girls n dont give a dim about u, the one that stayed loyal n carin for ages.
Oh shoot now I love your beard chazz very handsome
I been a player for years 😂
Terri Brown 😂😂 😉😉😉👊👍👍
😂😂😂
It’s never a good idea to play anyone!
It’s a great idea to know the game tho (to avoid being played).
Would you really feel good about using someone?!?!
Wrong recipe 👎
This is true. Exactly how it is.
Lie vaguely and ask for stuff after he seems so into you. It comes naturally to strippers.
Mariah W 👍👍😅😅👑💄💅👍
Man..these are big facts👌
I want a guy that can actually provide relationship benefits instead of just saying it but yet give half effort trying to actually build a relationship
I want men to b emotional and financially drain after being with me
This is literally is me 2 years ago now I’m happy and watching as a joke
Good thinking! 👍
I want guys to spend money on me.
Is this what the world has come too... what happened to morals and respect?
Not something for me, but interesting to see where the player is coming from.
😜🤣😂😅Respect the game - I love that ..play good . I can't stop laughing
Very helpful thank you
Crying in the rain lol😄
Damn this is some enlightenment stuff
I don’t know. I ask help i would not necessarily call it playing someone. Would not either almost cry to let someone help me....Just do my own thing. Playing games is really so cool these days. But i just stick to my own routine and way of life. Bcause i just don’t like those games. Why would u put energy in that. While u can focus on yourself....
“WHAT KINDA CON ARTIST?!?!?!” 😢🤬 Had me crackin up! That’s the kinda player ive been in the past lmfaoooo
You actually make sense!
I'm thinking of getting back with my children's father (with no emotions attached this time) and just let him live with us for my own benefits, what do you think about this Chaz? Sometimes we put our emotions first and go into a relationship with am unrealistic expectations and play ourselves as you said, cause sometimes I need help with daily tasks or if I have to go somewhere without the kids I have to ask favours from family and friends because he doesn't get involved at all since I kicked him out. Now I'm thinking fuck love I just live as room mates for my own benefits.
Hab A, i feel you. Im a single mom too and thats exactly how they do if they dont reside in the same house as you. I'd say hell yeah, do it. And make his ass ever regret playing with you. 😂😂😂 we got shit to do too and just like you said aint nobody got time, all the time to ask somebody to watch the kids, while they go and take care of business.
@@cookingwiththekiddos2334 girl!! 😫😫 I gotta do that for real but I first need to get over things and let the anger die down 😂 cause I can't afford to let him think I still care about hiss ass
Hab A lmao!!! But I feel you. Cause when they feel like they got the upper hand, they show their ass. And when i say upper hand, im talking about you caring.
@@cookingwiththekiddos2334 honestly 😭 there was a time when we were together n lived together where I've made him believe I've stopped caring, he even started complaining to his family saying I've given up on him ffs 🤣 NGL I've enjoyed watching him lose his marbles, I'd definitely enjoy that again. The question is what are the ways to ensure consistency in the way you make them believe u don't give two shits
@@HabA-qn1nv lmao. When you get the blueprint, let me know. 😂😂😂
Im kida a player but this one boy who i let take my v-card he been playing me and he doesn't care about my feelings or if i was to die but i care about him and everything about him... I want him to feel the pain i go threw
i dont mind being a player as long as i m dealing with assholes. i won’t dare to hurt an honest soul.
I wanna be a player but my wheels arnt fly
I feel like throwing up. That's nasty. I'm here only to learn that ppl do that and protect myself but this is evil.
I wouldnt say I am a player more like just cannot give emotional attachement to a guy. I got issues and rather be real than give a guy a fake fantasy. Better to be upfront and real with the dude.
All i can say is ladies act like one, and think like them. They just don't give a Fk🙂
I did get play Big Time, He called me on my phone, asking for me to help him with his electric bill, told me he will put the money in my car in the morning just leave it un lock,I went out to the car later on and looked for the money and it wasn't there, I called him and he say that he was running late for work and he didn't have time to do it, he asked if I could cover it and he will pay me back whenever he sees the receipt he took the receipt and not give me nothing, and also he hustled me out of a lot of other things too, including my car for three whole months. he doesn't just hustle me he hustles other people too as well,like his boss at work, his boss loaned him some money instead of paying his boss back he knew he was going to leave for another job.He even hustle his own brother,and everyone else. and he will pretend that he's going to pay you back and then when you go to the bank with him he would say something's wrong with his check. His name is Amado and he is a bad man.
There it is 🎯👌
I didn’t know I was a player before
🙈 Had guys doing things and called them “friends” Lmaoo
Emotional intelligence needed
Im celibate but still interested on this topic.
Your Beard looks good on you
I needed this video Lol!
Loved it.
Someone ask a dumb question 😒
You are the truth I love ur channel
wait till the popular peeps get caught trying to lose your cool points and the group notice they hostile from analyzing insults
I don't understand why people would want to play somebody. Is it really just for the game, or is it still a cop-out to avoid vulnerability?
I love your videos 😉💗
Lmao if you get played just say “fair game” and move on 😂
Used to be a player but it kept attracting insecure men. So now I’m just my honest self
I have alway know that!! Thats easy!!!
On point 👌
Damn you sellin us out dude
Hey Chazz !
I am female player i am not wonna be like this anymore
Why
I have enduring relationships with all my ...
As a man I love watching these videos. It's keeps me one step ahead of females
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Not me! Ever!! KARMA too damn real!!!!
What if I want sex favors and money
The guy I’m talking to he’s cool I like him a lot my expectations are low. For me personally if a guy isn’t smart there is no reason for me to want to play you I used to sleep with whores but it’s so boring. I want a mate but no one is eligible. These young guys just want to be with women that the media promotes I say off with their heads, people make me sick I don’t want to date anyone in this society these stupid pieces of shit aren’t even worthy of the bodies they posses the nerve of people to think they’re worthy of being courted
Is easy to being women player is not respect a game is kill your emotion lady
Just act and lie as much as u want and don't give a damp about they feeling .
Don't control them in game , let them play too
I just want sex and a friendship. But most if not all guys want sex... how do I get sex and still be a player??
So what if the woman just want sex too ?? Women dont enjoy sex ?? ...u cant have sex and get what u want ...men get possessive and emotional too .. i had sex on the first date and got married twice
How did SOCIOPATHY become something one must "Respect" or "A Game"? Taking advantage of others is not a skill to teach or admire.
No more victim mentality
Female player like whatt?
Play men without emotions it's always a party
Ohhh okay I get it nowww 🤷🏾♀️
nah, i’d rather ocus on my goals than play people. its a waste of time
focus*