Usually the very attractive women play a vicious game. It’s more common than people think. She will initiate the toxic cycle with a little bit attention, sweetness towards a man who is usually busy or minding his own business. But, as soon as the guy starts to reciprocate by complimenting her, asking her out and chasing her, she would make a total 180 degree turn to the other direction and it will be a slow and painful rejection for the man who was fine before falling into this trap. A lot of women do this simply for validation and to feel desired knowing full well they don’t like the man they are playing games with. It absolutely can ruin a man’s life who tend to think in a very straightforward and simple way. Beautiful women who are toxic can be dream killers by draining a man emotionally and by wasting all his energy and time. Men need to stay in their frame.
Went through exactly this, she initiated the connection from a “platonic” standpoint, then she initiated the sex, but the whole time she would frame us as just “best friends” despite her occasionally sleeping with me, glad im finally realizing how ive been getting played
100% you're spot on with this. I've been there in my past and never again. We grow up hearing about how all men are bad and women are mistreated but the severe psychological mistreatment often comes from women who are only out for themselves and their validation at the expense of, as you say, the sanity, peace and sometimes careers of the men who they think can go to hell once they're done with them. I had near misses decades ago in my younger years but never 'bought the BS' and thought I was somehow wrong for having such high standards (as a man? lol) but it served me well, 20+ years with my (very good and honest beautiful GF) so they do exist but are few and far between (esp among the better looking ones as you say). I think it all starts with being "Daddy's little princess" and learning early on how smiling and fluttering your eyelids gets you what you want, while boys can't really do that and to have to exist and build alone mostly. But yes, those women you describe DRAIN YOU emotionally, time wise, they can drive a man to deep depression and be laughing in your face/off having the time of their lives with a new guy and all I can say is it's important to learn from that, never let it happen again and as in the video - stay strong focus on SELF and be happy with yourself first and see women as 'secondary' to your needs and life, they can pick up on a desperate guy and will just use them for attention. Be polite sure, be friendly, if they talk then talk to them as you would a man.. .they usually end up bored and leaving you alone ;) if they push further then you've probably caught them... but do you WANT THEM? Often you really don't, you're just caught up on the dream (one they seeded in you at the start). Good luck guys!
@@MichaelJolas Happens to us all sooner or later, thankfully it happened to me in my late teens which set me on course to find/attract the correct kind of woman who isn't a player or a ho (been with her 20+ years so def worked and still love being with her). Since then had many come and try it on but as I don't 'need them' I don't fall into the trap any more (with one exception which I regret and re-learned from). That women do this so often and freely and see men as 'fair game' to be left with depression or feeling worthless (if you don't pre-protect yourself with your own self worth and confidence) is ridiculous, especially given the age-old narrative that 'all men are bad and all women are angels'. One tip I often use is to think of the girl as a guy (removing any attraction or ideas of S*X) and THEN asses the person.. do you really still want to talk that much to them ? are you REALLY that interested in how their day went? LOL... no.. it's just chemicals, and women abuse it, they've evolved to abuse it like puppy dogs have to be fed and cared for. Men have to be twice as strong to resist and avoid the trap, but sadly most of us can never KNOW this until AFTER it's happened to us, it just seems so... contradictory to all we're taught as children about boys vs girls.
This happened to me with a women I was giving attention to she even agreed to meet me in a mutual place on a weekend and after this she started to change , her messages started becoming less and then I asked what was up and it was a total 180 she came out with excuses so I said I'm guessing the date is off the table and so it was , this was after months of daily messages
Thats why self-validation is super important it empowers you to derive a sense of worth from within than seeking it temporarily from external sources, bruh
Men should always follow this rule: No investment from the woman = no attention from you. Investment means IN-PERSON time. This is also why, men have to play the numbers game of high volume and low investment. This means talking to a high volume of women for short periods of time and letting the cream rise to the top. AKA "f*ck boy game". It's said that if a woman doesn't sleep with a f*ck boy within a week of knowing him, she will probably never hear from him again. Only reward women with your attention when they cooperate with you. Cooperation means they want to see you IN-PERSON romantically on a regular basis (more than you want to see them). And this rule is in place forever, no matter what. If your GF stops cooperating, cut off the attention and start spending time with your friends, working more, hitting the gym, and going to strip clubs. Cooperation is the PRICE for your attention. No exceptions to this rule ever.
You started off good, but then sounded like you were on the spectrum when you took the principle to the point of no return. Why would I look to sleep with a woman within a week of meeting her? I don’t even KNOW her. You’re crazy for suggesting to go to strip clubs as well. I’d literally rather pay for dates cuz at least there’s a good chance the girl actually likes me there. You just lost with this comment. How does it feel loser
You started off good, but then sounded like you were on the spectrum when you took the principle to the point of no return. Why would I look to sleep with a woman within a week of meeting her? I don’t even KNOW her. You’re crazy for suggesting to go to strip clubs as well. I’d literally rather pay for dates cuz at least there’s a good chance the girl actually likes me there. You just lost with this comment. How does it feel
@@Arvidje yeah 2nd or 3rd date is fine, but why not flip power on the woman and make HER wait? Oh yeah, cuz you guys can’t stop begging for chances with her. Make it make sense
All good but you made actually a mistake. Collaboration is not spending time together. This is still validation for her. Collaboration is her opening her legs for you to dig her out.
As I look back at all the girlfriends and dating relationships I've had throughout the years I can give you the final verdict: Everything this guy is saying is 100% true.
Yes at a low level of consciousness that attracts women of same. Drop all this an d go get an authentic woman by being authentic and confident. You will attract same.
They can never get attention with me. I only show up to talk to them about 3 things 1. Gossip / tea 2. Talking about how great I am or how I put someone in their place 3. Talking shit about men It works much better than you would expect. Even if it doesn’t, if she walks away from that, how can I possibly care considering i was using her to prop me up?
@@marcusmcgraw3519brother, this is so true, I can confirm this make you funny and hot in their eye, and seem to not care about anything(it mean if I do this, I stay in my frame, and women can feel it)😊
But to advance a relationship there's a need to show intent and validation to some extent isn't it? If we don't flirt how do we even get her out? Yet I do understand women thrive on attention and once she gets it she thinks "game on"
Staying out of your feminine not giving too much attention and not pedestalizing a woman I have learned primarily from you... and it has really turned my dating life around
next conclusion: you don't "need" to do anything and chicks can have fun on their own time and dime. you'll "get" less chicks this way but after being with enough it's totally worth it 🏝😎🍸
And as soon as you catch on to their games and go distant they will breadcrumb you and lead you on again. Legit had one of em offer me the goodies out of the blue...Gotta be stronger than that. These women have absolutely nothing else to do but play mind games.
Exactly. Anyone that's trying to extract as much as they can from you (attention, compliments, favors) while giving/doing as little as possible should be avoided at all costs.
how? When u get the concept of -> your phone is for seting up dates only.. u never run in these mind games.. stick at what u want a meetup.. let the ball at her side.. if she is reaching out twice to u, and still not seting up date with u, and u communicated what u want.. ignore her for the rest of your life.. its easy to rule out those chicks quick
lmao the timing on this video. Havent been played for attention for a long time, but just recently met a younger one who flirted the hell with me in RL but was super conservative in texting so i was suspecting this to be going on. I guess the younger ones are more likely to do this kind of stuff. I simple went straight forward to asking her out (in a calibrated way). Forcing a decision ends the uncertainty in either way imho. And if she keeps breadcrumbing instead of answering its also a no decision imho. In my case she did exactly that. Essentially avoiding answering. So i will be the conservative now, i guess for fun purpose. so basicly i agree on the previous post. Same idea basicly!
This is very true. Women play multiple guys due to the need for safety. This in turns shows why women with no or low income, and maybe large expenses (like a single mother in an expensive city) are the biggest players. They literally see male attention as financial security.
My gf did this after 5 years of serious dating, after a couple of months of her making her life busier, I did just that. 2 months and I havent contacted her
She played me in the last month of a four month relationship charging my credit card without my permission now she’s looking at three felony charges that could cost her 10 years in prison. Good job, Shannon .
@@honestpainter laws the same anywhere for theft over a certain amount, except liberal states. Women don’t get punished, my son’s mom tried to sell a stolen gun at a pawnshop and got caught by a detective in Tennessee and they dismissed the charge at pretrial by the commissioner in the jail. I’ve seen countless women do crazy stuff and either let go completely or get probation at the most for things that me and you would get 20 years for. Women are protected by the state and the federal government because men will always hesitate to punish women and feel bad for them. Hopefully your ex deals with the consequences though. Press charges and don’t let it go
@@CSAcrazy yes they are, but you’ve got a look at this fact why are women’s prisons overcrowded they do go to jail trust me I know plenty of women in jail right now
@@honestpainter they’re over crowded because they barely build women’s prisons.. in my city alone theres 3-4 men’s prisons and 1 women’s prison. There’s like 3 women’s prisons in my state to about 15 men’s prisons. And the ugly ones go to prison or the ones that keep committing crimes. If they’re decent looking or don’t have a long criminal record they might get a slap on the wrist worse case scenario
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There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
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This is why I never ever, in any circumstances, at any time of day, waste my time on "texting" , facetime, hell-knows-what messengers or other bulls..t "digital" games. The only message exchange happens between me and any woman are logistic details: when, where. Any attempt of "gaming" or "flickering" from her side automatically leads to ignoring her. It does not affect the level of attraction, but saves me tons of time to date multiple girls at once.
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The only time a woman genuinely authentically really wants to see you, is when she believes and feels that you are better than her.... And because of this she feels that she needs your validation and approval..... She will typically try to obtain this by presenting to you.
6:27 that's it, that is all you need. but more so, IF SHE IS NOT INITIATING, and if most of her initiations is just to see you with no big spending involved, you're pretty much good to go once you dont get weak for her. She accepting invites is good, can mean you ahead of whoever else but she may still just be using you for experiences. SO THE KEY IS, SHE INITIATING FACE TO FACE AND MOST OF THEM DO NOT INVOLVE BIG SPENDING.
So what does the girl have to do right in all of this? Yeah that’s what I thought. Stop demanding the works from men while giving women every pass in the world
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Best analogy my guy gave is how would a king or a tribal leader act with women, when he is preoccupied with maintaining his throne and has access to all the women.
I appreciate your input. I have a former co- worker who played these games. My co-workers even said she likes you. But she would only commit to going out with me in a group setting. Unfortunately I liked her and she left me confused . She finally said she was too busy trying to figure out her career after my employer let her go. We had a connection but I have to accept she just liked the attention
Stellar video. This kiind of video is very important, since for every Casey Zander, there is a similar female making videos for women who want to "play" guys.
What is your focus? Is your band booked 14 nights per month? Does your painting company have work booked solid for the next three months contracts signed with deposits? Is your charter boat completely booked out until the first week of December? Oh really? Now after reading these questions how important are women? Yup I don’t think that they are very important either. Enjoy!!
I like the content. I agree with a lot of it. In some cases, though, it's also men who operate this way. He will leave the woman that he heavily pursued. She gave in to him for being the one who proved that he will be there for her. She gives him all of herself and even makes herself more attractive to keep him. Then, he gets bored and can't even explain why he is ending the relationship. Highly insecure HUMANS have a hard time loving those who love them because they don't even love themselves. Also, if all women always operated the way Casey says, love-bombers would crash and burn, but they are often quite successful... until they get bored. I was with a man who treated me like a queen for an entire year and I even stopped communicating with my other male friends to "respect" the relationship where a man made me the center of his world. Again, great content IMO, because this has been me in some cases, but sometimes what he talks about reminds me more of how men have treated me when I show too much interest.
❤❤ it is interesting to find out that she has other dates that she’s going to be going on here soon and then I am just an option in her rotation. Thank you for this information Casey.❤️❤️
Excellent video. Have had a lifetime of this. At this point I could care less about any of it. But I’m glad someone like you is here to explain this to those who are unaware.
3:53 and it is that EXACT NEED why how I have always been to IGNORE THEM is what makes them ALWAYS APPROACH ME because they NEED MY VALIDATION especially because I dont give it. I confirmed this about 5-6 years ago with a former female co-worker. EVERY MAN WANTED HER, but I didnt. So I did my thing, I started to go around her space AND IGNORE HER. So. it happened we had to talk because our departments must interact. SHE STARTED DOING BREAKFAST SO SHE COULD SIT WITH ME. Started showing "photos" of herself to me on her phone, I hardly react. This went on for MONTHS. One night she RANDOMLY SENT ME A PHOTO, so I decided to TEST her to see if I am right, so I said "yea I would smash that azz". Guess what after that? SHE COMPLETELY PULLED BACK!!!! Why? SHE GOT THE VALIDATION!! At least twice or more she has said IN FRONT OF OTHERS I AM HER FUTURE HUSBAND, lol... we were NEVER in a relationship nor actually dated nor slept together and I avoided it because my strict rule is NO WORK PLACE INTERACTIONS.
Your post isn't exactly congruent. You said "NO WORKPLACE INTERACTIONS" but also texted her a sleazy comment to try to test for her interest. You should have either stuck by your principle about the workplace or you should have asked her out. You would get your answer quickly and move on from there. Peace.
Women 18 - 3x chose a guy who isnt emotional about em. Women 35+ suddenly chose a guy who treats them good. Scarcity and fear lead em. Almost like women cannot be helped to use same logic as men
broke up with my girlfriend because she moved in with a “friend” which she admitted later that they met on a dating app. i could start seeing the manipulation and deception in the relationship. next day i broke up with her and i feel a little bad because she explained that that is her only friend in the country apparently and she was just trying to find a place to live. i think i made the right decision though. even after all her bullshit crying and apologetic messages, i kept my foot down and told her i don’t want to do anything with her. don’t be afraid to say what you want to say, because your opinion could help you avoid a hot mess.
Understanding psychology matters. Some women are narcs, serial daters or dismissive avoidants. Understanding their traits is a game changer, you sort of get the upper hand and can make decisions.Does this video assume that women are all the same?
Yo, same thing here. Just recently a woman at work keep trying to get my attention and get me to initiate contact. Super beautiful btw. I was like naaah, you start it. She's obsessed now and won't leave me alone. Even dolls up for the day and gets pissed when I don't give her attention. So bros right, this stuff works.
100 percent correct . But also women will use a man as free counciling whilst they are still mourning their ex partner especially if you are a decent understanding sympathetic man and then once they feel like they poured their heart out to you they will cut you off or start to slow down the messages
lol....I avoided dating apps like the plague but decided to recently give it a shot and encountered the very thing Casey mentioned...digital pen pals. One apologized for taking 48 hours to respond and when I suggested we meet for coffee she took another 24 at which point I discarded her and then just deleted my account as it is full of time wasters.
Been going through exactly this for two years now, especially the part when Casey mentions women who “occasionally meet up with you and sometimes sleep with you”
After I’ve gained the status, I see no reason to pursue the women that didn’t want to pursue me, and will probably end up rotating them since it’s too late to capture a human’s heart that has so many options to play
At 42, this is a game I no longer have any desire to play. Fellas, save your money, travel, buy the things that bring you happiness, go where you're celebrated and enjoy your own peace...
Did it too yesterday it's the 4th time now,just know she'll come back to you and it's all going to be the same shit all over again.. so don't feel bad at all and don't take her back again,you made the best decision ever 💪🏻
Step #2 definitely has happened to me in the past. Another good way to stop any of this from happening is to also just tell them nice to hear from you let’s catch a FaceTime what time works for you? A FaceTime isn’t the same as meeting in person but still requires way more investment than a text. Just my opinion
Idk man. I've had women leave me before because I was being too distant and they always leave for a man who is less fit, has less money, and is more feminine.
My take is that content providers like Casey are directing their lectures to guys concerning the so-called 'modern woman' - those who just live for the hypergamy game and nothing else. I've met many women over the years that just wouldn't tolerate the distant, no contact tactics that some suggest. Your woman sounded like one of those. Sounds like you might hare lost yourself a good one there, unfortunately. This comment does not detract from the information that Casey provides.
we been talking for 2 months. about 4 weeks ago she told me “ i deleted tinder” that’s how we met… but like the past 3 weeks especially has just been cold between us. a lot of tension. not much conversation and we haven’t hungout because i haven’t asked her. in the 2 months we’ve talked she’s asked to hangout only once so i think she’s the type that doesn’t want to chase. huh sorry girl but if you’re a woman that doesn’t chase, dating is never gonna work out for you. and if you do find a man that chases you more, you’ll never respect him
Have a women I have known for a year doing this to me now, in January we were "together" said she saw a future with me, planned to get a place together. Out of the blue she went cold, now she has totally changed she moved into London, slept with several other guys and tried to friendzone me. She then agreed to an actual date and when I tried to plan it she went mad when I told her to wear something nice for it, saying "you arent my boyfriend you cant say that" and all this bs. She has always thrown these weird tantrums with me. Gone no contact, she totally broke me as man because I thought this was the one. She made me evil.
@@Xthecrowx1122 Yeah, its awful, I am 31, dated several girls and slept with many. I thought this one I met last year was the one because our chemistry and the overal feelings. All turned out to be fake, don't even know how to go on from here. Shes the only one I ever truly loved, whtever.
@@TheSnoozeFox Your problem, and don't worry, it's a puzzle that puzzled me for a long time, is that you didn't understand female nature well. Women, when they are in reproductive age and even up to 40, are a filter that works for Nature. Just as the winning lions kill all the weak offspring, to maintain the strength of the species, women at this stage filter out the characters that were strong for the survival of the human past. That is, they have their eggs prepared for men who were selfish, liars, dangerous, womanizers, not very attached to a single woman, conceited, and distant. They waited for them in generally stagnant and remote places, in caves, harems, palaces, and the physical and emotional distance is what allows them to grow in their feelings and imaginations, that is what they call mysterious. It is not a man's job to fall in love or love them, as soon as they notice it, they become discouraged. They don't want to see a man who is more in love than they are, because it makes them feel needy and weak. They will tell you a thousand sentimental things to see if you reciprocate, and as soon as you do, they will start to pull away. The problem for them is that they knew that the types of men who turn them on don't stick around, and they don't protect, so they added a two-pronged matchmaking strategy: Distant bad boy gets pregnant, good boy provides and nurtures. They sometimes negotiate with the provider to reluctantly give him a child, to keep him by their side. Their level of desire for the long-term provider is much lower than their level for the bad boys. Studies show that they seek out the sentimental long-term guy when they are not ovulating, and in the four-day period before ovulation, they avoid having sex with their long-term partner, hoping that egg will be fertilized by some alpha, perhaps by chance. Some women resort to sperm competition, having extra-couple relations four days before ovulation, and on the last day after ovulation, they have relations with their stable partner, boyfriend or husband, and may the best man win. So men who think they win a prize by being a stable partner for women, do not. Rather, they have been demoted to providers. This is the secret of women. It does not matter if you are a worker, famous, rich, whoever becomes a stable partner is relegated to second position. You must avoid at all costs, showing yourself to be in love, they despise it with all their heart. In order for a man to be seen as the right man for her, he must be indifferent and never declare that he wants a future with her. When he reaches 50, a woman will stop working for Nature, and then, he will work for her. She will begin to yearn for a man who loves her, listens to her, takes care of her, and is a good man.
@@TheSnoozeFox u dont want to hear this but this is fact.. u over chased her.. that mean reaching out to much she will be distant.. what is exactly to much? 2 times in a week reaching out to her is too much. the goal is set up dates with her, that your only purpose.. facilitate a date, time and place.. and be busy the rest of the week.. dont text or call her in between your coming date.. very very important.. on your date u give her the full attention, have fun and hook up.. next day you are doing nothing, until a full week passed u reach out to try to setup a new date.. when she is not able to do whatever reason, let the ball on her side, figure it out, and let me know, love to see yah, bye. thats it...if dont hear from her, u can try to reach out 1 time after 2 weeks go by.... that your last try... What is the goal at the end, she has to chase You, if her attraction goes up, she will reaching out to u, she cant wait a whole week.. I hope u get this concept how to proper court her..
@@Arvidje Thank you, stupidly drunk messaged her last night but for some reason she was really receptive and is down to hang out again, I might set something up in a couple days with her just gonna leave it for now
This sums them up 💯. Dating a woman who told me she was seperated. Had kids so wasn't prepared tp take me to her house. Fair enough I thought. In fact I found out she wasn't seperated and was still living with her husband. It all got very nasty with an angry husband. I don't blame him for being pissed. When it was all done I asked her why she did it. Her response was... " I was road testing you to see if you were worth leaving my husband for"
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Have a life and not be “waiting” to see her for a month. If a woman can go 4 days without seeing you she’s not that into you. We all have schedules but women always miraculously find a way for the right guy
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Usually the very attractive women play a vicious game. It’s more common than people think. She will initiate the toxic cycle with a little bit attention, sweetness towards a man who is usually busy or minding his own business. But, as soon as the guy starts to reciprocate by complimenting her, asking her out and chasing her, she would make a total 180 degree turn to the other direction and it will be a slow and painful rejection for the man who was fine before falling into this trap. A lot of women do this simply for validation and to feel desired knowing full well they don’t like the man they are playing games with. It absolutely can ruin a man’s life who tend to think in a very straightforward and simple way. Beautiful women who are toxic can be dream killers by draining a man emotionally and by wasting all his energy and time. Men need to stay in their frame.
Went through exactly this, she initiated the connection from a “platonic” standpoint, then she initiated the sex, but the whole time she would frame us as just “best friends” despite her occasionally sleeping with me, glad im finally realizing how ive been getting played
@@MichaelJolas so basically FWB - not bad
100% you're spot on with this. I've been there in my past and never again. We grow up hearing about how all men are bad and women are mistreated but the severe psychological mistreatment often comes from women who are only out for themselves and their validation at the expense of, as you say, the sanity, peace and sometimes careers of the men who they think can go to hell once they're done with them. I had near misses decades ago in my younger years but never 'bought the BS' and thought I was somehow wrong for having such high standards (as a man? lol) but it served me well, 20+ years with my (very good and honest beautiful GF) so they do exist but are few and far between (esp among the better looking ones as you say).
I think it all starts with being "Daddy's little princess" and learning early on how smiling and fluttering your eyelids gets you what you want, while boys can't really do that and to have to exist and build alone mostly. But yes, those women you describe DRAIN YOU emotionally, time wise, they can drive a man to deep depression and be laughing in your face/off having the time of their lives with a new guy and all I can say is it's important to learn from that, never let it happen again and as in the video - stay strong focus on SELF and be happy with yourself first and see women as 'secondary' to your needs and life, they can pick up on a desperate guy and will just use them for attention. Be polite sure, be friendly, if they talk then talk to them as you would a man.. .they usually end up bored and leaving you alone ;) if they push further then you've probably caught them... but do you WANT THEM? Often you really don't, you're just caught up on the dream (one they seeded in you at the start). Good luck guys!
@@MichaelJolas Happens to us all sooner or later, thankfully it happened to me in my late teens which set me on course to find/attract the correct kind of woman who isn't a player or a ho (been with her 20+ years so def worked and still love being with her). Since then had many come and try it on but as I don't 'need them' I don't fall into the trap any more (with one exception which I regret and re-learned from).
That women do this so often and freely and see men as 'fair game' to be left with depression or feeling worthless (if you don't pre-protect yourself with your own self worth and confidence) is ridiculous, especially given the age-old narrative that 'all men are bad and all women are angels'. One tip I often use is to think of the girl as a guy (removing any attraction or ideas of S*X) and THEN asses the person.. do you really still want to talk that much to them ? are you REALLY that interested in how their day went? LOL... no.. it's just chemicals, and women abuse it, they've evolved to abuse it like puppy dogs have to be fed and cared for. Men have to be twice as strong to resist and avoid the trap, but sadly most of us can never KNOW this until AFTER it's happened to us, it just seems so... contradictory to all we're taught as children about boys vs girls.
This happened to me with a women I was giving attention to she even agreed to meet me in a mutual place on a weekend and after this she started to change , her messages started becoming less and then I asked what was up and it was a total 180 she came out with excuses so I said I'm guessing the date is off the table and so it was , this was after months of daily messages
Needing validation from someone you have no intentions of doing anything with is the highest level of insecurity 😂😂
Thats why self-validation is super important it empowers you to derive a sense of worth from within than seeking it temporarily from external sources, bruh
Yeah... like, women are insecure, you don't say
They are meant to be
The same way we feel pain to avoid it, we feel insecurity to fix it
Ikr, and then us men get told that we're insecure when she wears an overly short dress or has her tits out 😂
We need to change "insecurity" to "hoeness"
Makes me really start looking at each woman as a walking mental case. hahaha
Men should always follow this rule: No investment from the woman = no attention from you. Investment means IN-PERSON time. This is also why, men have to play the numbers game of high volume and low investment. This means talking to a high volume of women for short periods of time and letting the cream rise to the top. AKA "f*ck boy game". It's said that if a woman doesn't sleep with a f*ck boy within a week of knowing him, she will probably never hear from him again. Only reward women with your attention when they cooperate with you. Cooperation means they want to see you IN-PERSON romantically on a regular basis (more than you want to see them). And this rule is in place forever, no matter what. If your GF stops cooperating, cut off the attention and start spending time with your friends, working more, hitting the gym, and going to strip clubs. Cooperation is the PRICE for your attention. No exceptions to this rule ever.
You started off good, but then sounded like you were on the spectrum when you took the principle to the point of no return. Why would I look to sleep with a woman within a week of meeting her? I don’t even KNOW her. You’re crazy for suggesting to go to strip clubs as well. I’d literally rather pay for dates cuz at least there’s a good chance the girl actually likes me there. You just lost with this comment. How does it feel loser
You started off good, but then sounded like you were on the spectrum when you took the principle to the point of no return. Why would I look to sleep with a woman within a week of meeting her? I don’t even KNOW her. You’re crazy for suggesting to go to strip clubs as well. I’d literally rather pay for dates cuz at least there’s a good chance the girl actually likes me there. You just lost with this comment. How does it feel
@@marcusmcgraw3519 second or third date is common.. waiting longer is not good also..
@@Arvidje yeah 2nd or 3rd date is fine, but why not flip power on the woman and make HER wait? Oh yeah, cuz you guys can’t stop begging for chances with her. Make it make sense
All good but you made actually a mistake. Collaboration is not spending time together. This is still validation for her. Collaboration is her opening her legs for you to dig her out.
As I look back at all the girlfriends and dating relationships I've had throughout the years I can give you the final verdict: Everything this guy is saying is 100% true.
Yes at a low level of consciousness that attracts women of same. Drop all this an d go get an authentic woman by being authentic and confident. You will attract same.
Same. Super spot on
And whatever a woman says do not believe. She is playing you, and seeing what you will do at a distance.
@@VX.347authentic woman! Maybe 2% in the whole universe
Don't get played. Your attention is the currency. Be very selective on who you give.
They can never get attention with me. I only show up to talk to them about 3 things
1. Gossip / tea
2. Talking about how great I am or how I put someone in their place
3. Talking shit about men
It works much better than you would expect. Even if it doesn’t, if she walks away from that, how can I possibly care considering i was using her to prop me up?
Would it be smart to make a woman aware of this channel and try to get her to see that you know her games?
@@hermestrismegistus4283 of course not. You need to play her with her own games. That way she gets the drift in a manner that really hammers it home
@@marcusmcgraw3519brother, this is so true, I can confirm this make you funny and hot in their eye, and seem to not care about anything(it mean if I do this, I stay in my frame, and women can feel it)😊
But to advance a relationship there's a need to show intent and validation to some extent isn't it? If we don't flirt how do we even get her out? Yet I do understand women thrive on attention and once she gets it she thinks "game on"
god save us all
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Never forget you were the Sperm cell that finished 1st from all the other billions
😂😂 Yes please
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You think female nature is scary? Just wait until you find out about racial differences
Nietzsche enters the chat
Staying out of your feminine not giving too much attention and not pedestalizing a woman I have learned primarily from you... and it has really turned my dating life around
conclusion: men today need to work 3x as hard for a woman 10x as worse than in the past
next conclusion: you don't "need" to do anything and chicks can have fun on their own time and dime. you'll "get" less chicks this way but after being with enough it's totally worth it 🏝😎🍸
only their software got worse except for vegans and fast food whales
And as soon as you catch on to their games and go distant they will breadcrumb you and lead you on again. Legit had one of em offer me the goodies out of the blue...Gotta be stronger than that. These women have absolutely nothing else to do but play mind games.
Exactly. Anyone that's trying to extract as much as they can from you (attention, compliments, favors) while giving/doing as little as possible should be avoided at all costs.
And have nothing to offer other than pussy
how? When u get the concept of -> your phone is for seting up dates only.. u never run in these mind games.. stick at what u want a meetup.. let the ball at her side.. if she is reaching out twice to u, and still not seting up date with u, and u communicated what u want.. ignore her for the rest of your life.. its easy to rule out those chicks quick
They're shallow sex objects..like a blow up doll .I guess.... cant cook ..or clean....just .mostly lie and manipulate..yay..thanks for dropping by😂🎉
lmao the timing on this video. Havent been played for attention for a long time, but just recently met a younger one who flirted the hell with me in RL but was super conservative in texting so i was suspecting this to be going on. I guess the younger ones are more likely to do this kind of stuff.
I simple went straight forward to asking her out (in a calibrated way). Forcing a decision ends the uncertainty in either way imho. And if she keeps breadcrumbing instead of answering its also a no decision imho.
In my case she did exactly that. Essentially avoiding answering. So i will be the conservative now, i guess for fun purpose.
so basicly i agree on the previous post. Same idea basicly!
This is very true. Women play multiple guys due to the need for safety. This in turns shows why women with no or low income, and maybe large expenses (like a single mother in an expensive city) are the biggest players. They literally see male attention as financial security.
Only reward behavior that rewards you. With women, attention is currency. If her attention is not reciprocated, be indifferent and move on.
My gf did this after 5 years of serious dating, after a couple of months of her making her life busier, I did just that. 2 months and I havent contacted her
@@dcr6389very good bro
@@dcr6389. Have you heard anything from her or have you both communicated recently?
She played me in the last month of a four month relationship charging my credit card without my permission now she’s looking at three felony charges that could cost her 10 years in prison. Good job, Shannon .
She ain’t going to prison..
@@CSAcrazy I hear ya but check Michigan law
@@honestpainter laws the same anywhere for theft over a certain amount, except liberal states. Women don’t get punished, my son’s mom tried to sell a stolen gun at a pawnshop and got caught by a detective in Tennessee and they dismissed the charge at pretrial by the commissioner in the jail. I’ve seen countless women do crazy stuff and either let go completely or get probation at the most for things that me and you would get 20 years for. Women are protected by the state and the federal government because men will always hesitate to punish women and feel bad for them. Hopefully your ex deals with the consequences though. Press charges and don’t let it go
@@CSAcrazy yes they are, but you’ve got a look at this fact why are women’s prisons overcrowded they do go to jail trust me I know plenty of women in jail right now
@@honestpainter they’re over crowded because they barely build women’s prisons.. in my city alone theres 3-4 men’s prisons and 1 women’s prison. There’s like 3 women’s prisons in my state to about 15 men’s prisons. And the ugly ones go to prison or the ones that keep committing crimes. If they’re decent looking or don’t have a long criminal record they might get a slap on the wrist worse case scenario
A perfect marriage or relationship is an illusion; there's no universal playbook for making them work. What's effective for one couple may not apply to another. Nevertheless, I've come to understand that there's always a solution to be found. Half a decade ago, my wife and I faced such trials in our marriage that divorce seemed inevitable. Yet, through perseverance and determination, we navigated through the rough waters and emerged stronger, reunited, and more resilient
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white..
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You wont regret it
We found our solution. DO NOT APPROACH WOMEN - IT'S A TRAP TO GET YOU POTENTIALLY SENT TO JAIL - LET THEM COME TO YOU!
1. Stay Single, Marriage and Divorce will cost you the rest.
2. Earn your bag focus on your career.
3. Focus on your well being and keep fit.
4. Plenty of women that are available to pump and dump. Very Important plenty around no 2nd's dates.
5. Avoid Single mothers at all cost. Do not engage in women that are from your circle of friends, family and co-workers.
6. When going on a date - $50 cap. No Dinners, No sprinkle sprinkle - If they turn up with a friend or family - LEAVE.
7. Use social media to get a heads up on the 304.
8. If she has many friends and that gay BFF, pump and dump and leave don't entangle.
9. Enjoy Life. End Days are here. Don't lose your retirement plan in Asia.
This is why I never ever, in any circumstances, at any time of day, waste my time on "texting" , facetime, hell-knows-what messengers or other bulls..t "digital" games.
The only message exchange happens between me and any woman are logistic details: when, where.
Any attempt of "gaming" or "flickering" from her side automatically leads to ignoring her.
It does not affect the level of attraction, but saves me tons of time to date multiple girls at once.
This is what I am taking about
“Say this with me one more time” 😂
I find myself cracking up whenever he does that. This guy has become much more assertive in his tone when he talks to us. I have to respect it
like we in kinder garden or something 😂
Lmfao he loves saying that
He understands basic psychology....
I love this line
This video could not have come at a better time. Thanks Casey! You are an elder brother to so many of us!
This is actually one of your best videos yet. The way it was explained, very easy to digest, right to the points, well done.
Today is my 49th birthday. Im feeling better about my sexual market value, dating life, finances and career. I know my worth and where I'm going. Headman Nation was the best thing I've ever done for myself. Thanks Casey Zander
HBD! :)
Happy birthday buddy
The only time a woman genuinely authentically really wants to see you, is when she believes and feels that you are better than her.... And because of this she feels that she needs your validation and approval..... She will typically try to obtain this by presenting to you.
6:27 that's it, that is all you need. but more so, IF SHE IS NOT INITIATING, and if most of her initiations is just to see you with no big spending involved, you're pretty much good to go once you dont get weak for her. She accepting invites is good, can mean you ahead of whoever else but she may still just be using you for experiences. SO THE KEY IS, SHE INITIATING FACE TO FACE AND MOST OF THEM DO NOT INVOLVE BIG SPENDING.
So what does the girl have to do right in all of this? Yeah that’s what I thought. Stop demanding the works from men while giving women every pass in the world
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
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The sign that you are being played by a woman. She Exists. No other sign needed.
Best analogy my guy gave is how would a king or a tribal leader act with women, when he is preoccupied with maintaining his throne and has access to all the women.
I appreciate your input. I have a former co- worker who played these games. My co-workers even said she likes you. But she would only commit to going out with me in a group setting. Unfortunately I liked her and she left me confused . She finally said she was too busy trying to figure out her career after my employer let her go. We had a connection but I have to accept she just liked the attention
this guy is a G , to much value compared to these other guyz on the tube , def gone be richhhh
My God. This is the most incredibly perfect explanation of women that I have ever seen or read. Subscribed.
8 years later the communication eventually got sparse. Casey spitting the uncomfortable TRUTH
"bro she is playing you--run now" lol at the thumbnail
Stellar video. This kiind of video is very important, since for every Casey Zander, there is a similar female making videos for women who want to "play" guys.
don't invest in any woman if she doesn't invest in you. Don't waste your time and money on her if she doesn't give any feedback to you!
Most useful and relatable vid I’ve seen in a while. In the exact situation with a 10/10 I’ve been sleeping with occasionally here and there
you're the only ten i see.
What is your focus? Is your band booked 14 nights per month? Does your painting company have work booked solid for the next three months contracts signed with deposits?
Is your charter boat completely booked out until the first week of December? Oh really? Now after reading these questions how important are women? Yup I don’t think that they are very important either. Enjoy!!
Slave mentality 😂
That's the mentality
This.
you can have a boat for 500 euro Why buying anything bigger lol
another few years. every guy will catch on to these things. great work.
And then females will have to evolve into non-twots to survive. 🎉
I'm 59, some of this is NEWS to me! Thanks for this content...
This is by far your best video. So true 💯.
This is a brilliant analysis of female nature and why they play games. Tough
You helped lots of men. And these hidden female natures are so true. Sometime people may feel it but just not admitting
8:30 Im mind blown, i think Im in this scenario and finnaly got a answer!! 4 months of this drive me crazy, i have to detach as you said!
I like the content. I agree with a lot of it. In some cases, though, it's also men who operate this way. He will leave the woman that he heavily pursued. She gave in to him for being the one who proved that he will be there for her. She gives him all of herself and even makes herself more attractive to keep him. Then, he gets bored and can't even explain why he is ending the relationship. Highly insecure HUMANS have a hard time loving those who love them because they don't even love themselves. Also, if all women always operated the way Casey says, love-bombers would crash and burn, but they are often quite successful... until they get bored. I was with a man who treated me like a queen for an entire year and I even stopped communicating with my other male friends to "respect" the relationship where a man made me the center of his world. Again, great content IMO, because this has been me in some cases, but sometimes what he talks about reminds me more of how men have treated me when I show too much interest.
Yeah, if a woman has no time for me or has excuses, she gets dropped ASAP and I gave her absolutely no attention from that point on
I think this is the best video on getting played i ever seen!
Casey I hope you read this but you definitely turned my life around you You've saved my life definitely changed it for the better
❤❤ it is interesting to find out that she has other dates that she’s going to be going on here soon and then I am just an option in her rotation. Thank you for this information Casey.❤️❤️
Excellent video. Have had a lifetime of this. At this point I could care less about any of it. But I’m glad someone like you is here to explain this to those who are unaware.
3:53 and it is that EXACT NEED why how I have always been to IGNORE THEM is what makes them ALWAYS APPROACH ME because they NEED MY VALIDATION especially because I dont give it. I confirmed this about 5-6 years ago with a former female co-worker. EVERY MAN WANTED HER, but I didnt. So I did my thing, I started to go around her space AND IGNORE HER. So. it happened we had to talk because our departments must interact. SHE STARTED DOING BREAKFAST SO SHE COULD SIT WITH ME. Started showing "photos" of herself to me on her phone, I hardly react. This went on for MONTHS. One night she RANDOMLY SENT ME A PHOTO, so I decided to TEST her to see if I am right, so I said "yea I would smash that azz". Guess what after that? SHE COMPLETELY PULLED BACK!!!! Why? SHE GOT THE VALIDATION!! At least twice or more she has said IN FRONT OF OTHERS I AM HER FUTURE HUSBAND, lol... we were NEVER in a relationship nor actually dated nor slept together and I avoided it because my strict rule is NO WORK PLACE INTERACTIONS.
Your post isn't exactly congruent. You said "NO WORKPLACE INTERACTIONS" but also texted her a sleazy comment to try to test for her interest.
You should have either stuck by your principle about the workplace or you should have asked her out. You would get your answer quickly and move on from there. Peace.
Great insight man, subscribed. I find your psychological approach a lot more practical for a peaceful life.
Uncle C, my favorite video of yours is this one.
Women 18 - 3x chose a guy who isnt emotional about em. Women 35+ suddenly chose a guy who treats them good. Scarcity and fear lead em. Almost like women cannot be helped to use same logic as men
Dude. I love this content!! Honestly..
True matched with so many on dating apps less than 10% went through
Going through this only. Multiple woman talk to me but i dont get dates.
Then don’t talk to them - get it out of the way quickly so you can move on
Withdraw your attention from them, focus more on what truely matter most,, your career, hobbies, move forward, bruh
if the talk to you, reaching out, plan a date at that moment.. dont talk to much, have some action and play time..
Bro... you were speaking to me on those last 2 topics💪🏻needed that.
broke up with my girlfriend because she moved in with a “friend” which she admitted later that they met on a dating app. i could start seeing the manipulation and deception in the relationship. next day i broke up with her and i feel a little bad because she explained that that is her only friend in the country apparently and she was just trying to find a place to live. i think i made the right decision though. even after all her bullshit crying and apologetic messages, i kept my foot down and told her i don’t want to do anything with her. don’t be afraid to say what you want to say, because your opinion could help you avoid a hot mess.
Understanding psychology matters. Some women are narcs, serial daters or dismissive avoidants. Understanding their traits is a game changer, you sort of get the upper hand and can make decisions.Does this video assume that women are all the same?
Makes me really start looking at each woman as a walking mental case. hahaha
Thats because they are.
"Play the game, don't let the game play you". -Prince
Ever think of all this at the choosing signals phase and just think "Naaaaaah".
Yo, same thing here. Just recently a woman at work keep trying to get my attention and get me to initiate contact. Super beautiful btw. I was like naaah, you start it. She's obsessed now and won't leave me alone. Even dolls up for the day and gets pissed when I don't give her attention. So bros right, this stuff works.
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Thanks Casey, great insight into female nature.
You gotta under stand the phone is not real life. That alone will save so many people so much trouble.
I feel like I just been in this situation right now? The game is really deep?
100 percent correct . But also women will use a man as free counciling whilst they are still mourning their ex partner especially if you are a decent understanding sympathetic man and then once they feel like they poured their heart out to you they will cut you off or start to slow down the messages
Great insights man🔥🔥
lol....I avoided dating apps like the plague but decided to recently give it a shot and encountered the very thing Casey mentioned...digital pen pals. One apologized for taking 48 hours to respond and when I suggested we meet for coffee she took another 24 at which point I discarded her and then just deleted my account as it is full of time wasters.
Been going through exactly this for two years now, especially the part when Casey mentions women who “occasionally meet up with you and sometimes sleep with you”
I was in situation 2 for 6 months with a particular girl. Lessoned learned
After I’ve gained the status, I see no reason to pursue the women that didn’t want to pursue me, and will probably end up rotating them since it’s too late to capture a human’s heart that has so many options to play
The first thing-to keep a sound mind;
The second-to know things & see them for what they truly are;
-Marcus Aurelius
This is facts!!!
At 42, this is a game I no longer have any desire to play. Fellas, save your money, travel, buy the things that bring you happiness, go where you're celebrated and enjoy your own peace...
I feel guilty for breaking up with my girlfriend and now I don't know what to do 💔 I just feel like trash
Did it too yesterday it's the 4th time now,just know she'll come back to you and it's all going to be the same shit all over again.. so don't feel bad at all and don't take her back again,you made the best decision ever 💪🏻
Currently being played by a woman button
Step #2 definitely has happened to me in the past. Another good way to stop any of this from happening is to also just tell them nice to hear from you let’s catch a FaceTime what time works for you? A FaceTime isn’t the same as meeting in person but still requires way more investment than a text. Just my opinion
Men! Put yourself first… that will sum up every podcast episode about women.. keep it simple!!!
10 out of 10 game. Well done.
I’m currently in a relationship in the blue marker area on the far right
Idk man. I've had women leave me before because I was being too distant and they always leave for a man who is less fit, has less money, and is more feminine.
They just want a guy they can control they couldn't do it to you, bruh
One of them was with me for 6 years and gave me everything I needed. Never tried to tell me what I could or couldn't do. Was very flexible.
@@oscargonza2748 There are good women out there. It's rare. Sometimes we fuck it up too. Not all women are the same. Just about 80% of them are.
My take is that content providers like Casey are directing their lectures to guys concerning the so-called 'modern woman' - those who just live for the hypergamy game and nothing else. I've met many women over the years that just wouldn't tolerate the distant, no contact tactics that some suggest. Your woman sounded like one of those. Sounds like you might hare lost yourself a good one there, unfortunately. This comment does not detract from the information that Casey provides.
we been talking for 2 months. about 4 weeks ago she told me “ i deleted tinder” that’s how we met… but like the past 3 weeks especially has just been cold between us. a lot of tension. not much conversation and we haven’t hungout because i haven’t asked her. in the 2 months we’ve talked she’s asked to hangout only once so i think she’s the type that doesn’t want to chase. huh sorry girl but if you’re a woman that doesn’t chase, dating is never gonna work out for you. and if you do find a man that chases you more, you’ll never respect him
Wassup Casey,huge fan brother 🙌🏽
Have a women I have known for a year doing this to me now, in January we were "together" said she saw a future with me, planned to get a place together. Out of the blue she went cold, now she has totally changed she moved into London, slept with several other guys and tried to friendzone me. She then agreed to an actual date and when I tried to plan it she went mad when I told her to wear something nice for it, saying "you arent my boyfriend you cant say that" and all this bs. She has always thrown these weird tantrums with me. Gone no contact, she totally broke me as man because I thought this was the one. She made me evil.
Trust me, thinking any girl is “the one” is a big problem. I’ve done this many times, never ends well.
@@Xthecrowx1122 Yeah, its awful, I am 31, dated several girls and slept with many. I thought this one I met last year was the one because our chemistry and the overal feelings. All turned out to be fake, don't even know how to go on from here. Shes the only one I ever truly loved, whtever.
@@TheSnoozeFox Your problem, and don't worry, it's a puzzle that puzzled me for a long time, is that you didn't understand female nature well. Women, when they are in reproductive age and even up to 40, are a filter that works for Nature. Just as the winning lions kill all the weak offspring, to maintain the strength of the species, women at this stage filter out the characters that were strong for the survival of the human past. That is, they have their eggs prepared for men who were selfish, liars, dangerous, womanizers, not very attached to a single woman, conceited, and distant. They waited for them in generally stagnant and remote places, in caves, harems, palaces, and the physical and emotional distance is what allows them to grow in their feelings and imaginations, that is what they call mysterious. It is not a man's job to fall in love or love them, as soon as they notice it, they become discouraged. They don't want to see a man who is more in love than they are, because it makes them feel needy and weak. They will tell you a thousand sentimental things to see if you reciprocate, and as soon as you do, they will start to pull away. The problem for them is that they knew that the types of men who turn them on don't stick around, and they don't protect, so they added a two-pronged matchmaking strategy: Distant bad boy gets pregnant, good boy provides and nurtures. They sometimes negotiate with the provider to reluctantly give him a child, to keep him by their side. Their level of desire for the long-term provider is much lower than their level for the bad boys. Studies show that they seek out the sentimental long-term guy when they are not ovulating, and in the four-day period before ovulation, they avoid having sex with their long-term partner, hoping that egg will be fertilized by some alpha, perhaps by chance. Some women resort to sperm competition, having extra-couple relations four days before ovulation, and on the last day after ovulation, they have relations with their stable partner, boyfriend or husband, and may the best man win. So men who think they win a prize by being a stable partner for women, do not. Rather, they have been demoted to providers. This is the secret of women. It does not matter if you are a worker, famous, rich, whoever becomes a stable partner is relegated to second position. You must avoid at all costs, showing yourself to be in love, they despise it with all their heart. In order for a man to be seen as the right man for her, he must be indifferent and never declare that he wants a future with her. When he reaches 50, a woman will stop working for Nature, and then, he will work for her. She will begin to yearn for a man who loves her, listens to her, takes care of her, and is a good man.
@@TheSnoozeFox u dont want to hear this but this is fact.. u over chased her.. that mean reaching out to much she will be distant.. what is exactly to much? 2 times in a week reaching out to her is too much. the goal is set up dates with her, that your only purpose.. facilitate a date, time and place.. and be busy the rest of the week.. dont text or call her in between your coming date.. very very important.. on your date u give her the full attention, have fun and hook up.. next day you are doing nothing, until a full week passed u reach out to try to setup a new date.. when she is not able to do whatever reason, let the ball on her side, figure it out, and let me know, love to see yah, bye. thats it...if dont hear from her, u can try to reach out 1 time after 2 weeks go by.... that your last try... What is the goal at the end, she has to chase You, if her attraction goes up, she will reaching out to u, she cant wait a whole week.. I hope u get this concept how to proper court her..
@@Arvidje Thank you, stupidly drunk messaged her last night but for some reason she was really receptive and is down to hang out again, I might set something up in a couple days with her just gonna leave it for now
Uncle Casey back in the office!
Actually who has time for playing with someone nowdays? It is sad to know that this happens
True true
Bros board seems like a workplace for Quantum Physics 😂
This sums them up 💯.
Dating a woman who told me she was seperated. Had kids so wasn't prepared tp take me to her house. Fair enough I thought. In fact I found out she wasn't seperated and was still living with her husband. It all got very nasty with an angry husband. I don't blame him for being pissed. When it was all done I asked her why she did it. Her response was... " I was road testing you to see if you were worth leaving my husband for"
Do we really need a video for this? Its so many mind games, I give up.
*I'm overjoyed and grateful to see God's blessings and abundance manifest in my family's life. We're thriving and happy once again, and I can now provide for my loved ones even in retirement, thanks to a remarkable weekly income of $67,000. It's a game-changer after* *facing many challenges*.
Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!
Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?
I'm 35 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
Thanks to my co-worker (Scott) who suggested Mrs Maria Angelina🙏.
She's a licensed broker in the states 🇺🇸
This is phd level stuff, you dont need these if u dont got everything down and have extremely high MV
So If you know you are in her rotation and she doesn't seen you in month. How should i play that?
Have a life and not be “waiting” to see her for a month. If a woman can go 4 days without seeing you she’s not that into you. We all have schedules but women always miraculously find a way for the right guy
Move on forever,, In a year you'll be smiling
Women are subtle and manipulative..So if you even slightly feel played you have definitely been played.
A wise man once said: men test ideas , women test men .
I don't mind being tested by women, I've learned so much from being tested . If you listen well enough to the test they will even reveal what you need to improve on
Uncle C has been played many times
Guys avoid over indulgence of alcohol, always stay in control. That is the name of the game, control.
Not a huge fan of complicating things. Short answer is "if shes not following you, shes playing you"
7:00 the girl i was interestad was more like the oposite. In the rare ocasionar i managed to meet her she seemed more interested in person
this guy is a genus
The one who woke me up activly lied. And demanded more and more while already dating someone else.
I’m currently on stage 2 (sign 2) she is not chatting or … and I don’t know what to do. Can anyone help? 8:10
leave her, now
That is soooooooooo true. Like we are different species 😂
Thank King
Smh. Everything looks like weakness in a woman's eyes.