He said to me he’s ex wanted to commit suicide over him I thought she was stupid I was constantly on his side about the old supply showing off I had him, little did I know he would do the same to me never laugh at old supply he’s done me worse it’s scary I’m devastated😔😔
You’re like a toy to them because they’re overgrown toddlers. They use the toy until the get bored with it, then simply put it down and pick up a new toy. It really shows the stunted development. You’re like the old buzz and woody dolls. Andy doesn’t care about you when he’s got a shiny new toy, but he doesn’t want you to go anywhere either. He wants you sitting right where he left you because you’re his possession.
My ex told me during our first conversation he had good women, but he just didn’t know why they didn’t worked out.😮. Nineteen years later I see why. 🙏🏾
We ALL go through childhood traumas and we don't all become evil. When are these narcissists going to stop blaming the "inner child" for the disgusting and sinful things they do? It's time to grow up and take accountability for allowing yourself to be led by demonic spirits. JESUS is the way.
The Bible says no one is righteous. We all have done sinful and disgusting things, his sins aren’t greater than yours. Jesus is the way, truth and the life. And He says, if a wicked man turns from his ways his wickedness will be remembered no more. He is taking accountability. Make sure that you don’t ever get too puffed up and feel like you’re better than anybody we are saved by grace thru faith in Christ alone. If you ever did any good, it’s only bc of Christ not because of you.
When we as humans don’t accept Christ and be born again, become a new person they can’t be anything but the little broken girl or boy that humans raised and the world and their desires created…. You can’t be different if you can’t learn how too…. It’s sad how people spend their entire life destroying themselves and others…. I commend anyone that at least try to change. Leon is genuinely trying to be a different person…. I know from experience some people never change; never attempt too. Thank you Leon for sharing. ❤️🙏🏽
I absolutely agree.👍There’s no excuse for abusing innocent people because there was trauma in your life, the truth is that the majority of people on earth, have been wounded in their life.😳 Someone stated ‘his sins aren’t greater than yours’, but that’s not the point. Here’s the deal, in spite of your journey, you’ve given the ability to do good and not obliterate someone else’s life; remember, God doesn’t force his will upon us. I’m relieved that he’s using his lessons to help others, but as victims of narcissistic abuse, we have every right to express ourselves.👍
My narc ex revealed to me he was molested as a child, and he has a neglectful, dismissive mother. I also learned he cheated on his ex-wife and every other woman in his past. I should have fuckin RAN away from this man. **heavy sigh** Edit: My narc ex also said everyone would always leave him, and that made me feel sorry for him. I later realized women left him because he was a horrible man. Eerie how he played victim, as if everyone in his life just left him without cause.
I told the narc he needed to go and close the broken relationships before getting with me. Do I believe he did...NOPE. He's gone and I'm in my healing.
I explained to him all his patterns and behaviours to show him why he is a narcissist and that he needs a therapy to what his response was that I am a narcissist 😵💫😵💫I left very fast after that.
lol I’m glad you left. I’m not laughing at you but the “I left very fast after that” is funny bc girl good for you….run so damn fast. These MFs are crazy and delusional
100% true!! He said he was afraid of marriage and commitment because he didn't think he would be good at it. Years wasted, but a lot of lessons learned along the way! 12 years of back and forth, but I finally got it!
It’s so refreshing to see you on your healing journey.. You are REALLY putting in the work!! Keep it up! You are really helping people, including myself! ✊🏾.. hang in there!
LEON. THIS WISDOM IS DEEP 🔥🔥🔥🔥 THANK YOU CHAMP NOW I UNDERSTAND WHY THIS GUY IM DEALING IS THE WAY HE IS WITH ME OKAY U HAVE OPENED UP MY EYES TO SO MUCH WISDOM ❤
I can’t stand my dad and you Leon look just like him, he’s a psychopathic narcissist/covert all of em, but binge watching you from morning and u make make me cry and now better understand my dad hubby and friend, but everyone is going to be held accountable on judgement day, we all have a CHOICE but I do understand from the spiritual and psychological perspective
A narcissistic person needs deliverance after the therapy period. Therapy alone will only modify behavior and not true change!. Only Yahweh and the blood of Christ can bring true change. Satan and Demoms hate to relinquish grounds they have gained, so repentance n deliverance can not be skipped at all!
So True cause this man speaking on modified behavior but he is CLEARLY STILL ONE OF THE MOST NARCISSISTIC MANIPULATIVE PEOPLE I'VE EVER SEEN. Mr Leon Has DEMONS that must be cast out by the POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST (Only God Alone).
Now I understand why he is so casual about our separation. Told him if he cheated one more time the marriage would end. And he did....Ever so casually.
I'm amazed at the person you have become based on your narration of who you used to be. You are being vulnerable in ways that are very helpful to broken hearts who are seeking for answers. This is unlike most narcissists, they never get to the point of owning up their wrongs especially without blaming the other party. From the comments I've read I'm guessing that you received Christ and that makes a lot of sense why you have made such a turn around. I once heard you say in one of your videos that the narcissist is not paying for child support, he's paying for his sins...that is a profound statement. May the good Lord crown you with mercy and compassion and bring you into total alignment with Him. Thank you.
There's NOTHING changed about this man.. He is still VERY narcissistic and Manipulative. These videos and comments loaded with attention and praise only FUEL those insecurities. He may be fooling yall be he's DEFINITELY not fooling me💁🏽♀️
Change can be a very long process both for a narcissist who has genuinely repented and an empathetic person who suffered narcissistic abuse. There's need for deliverance that comes only for God. If his spirit is not right I pray that the good Lord will bring him to a perfect alignment.
In many cases, this type of person refuses to be FULLY delivered and chooses to walk in their own ways. I've seen MANY even TURN AWAY from God to follow after other gods, simply for refusal to be delivered & so they won't be held accountable to obeying God, while also displaying selfless love. I have family members who are prime examples of this so I know first hand that one who does not continue in Gods word usually becomes REPROBATE.. We can fast/pray all day til we're blue in the face, but it is strictly up to that individual to submit to God & humble themselves under the mighty hand of God that the be made FREE.. Ive been praying for my narcisstic children's Father for about 15 years now, and although his BEHAVIOR has become modified around me, he is STILL stuck in those same narcissistic ways, umremorseful & unashamed😢
It makes it very hard when they don't talk about there past or childhood. I've asked, and was never given answers. But towards the end he had so much hatred toward me
Thank you for your vulnerability and honesty....of all the narcissist videos I've listened to yours resonates with me the most...precise and in depth...
It’s my opinion: ~I’ve noticed in life that even when asked the Narcissist Will lie about their past present and their future. Please remember that: Most people were neglected, abused or overly loved in their life time in that there is NO excuse NO justification that one can give for a person to have the license to cause harm to another. “Seek and desire God thats what’s missing”~
Sometimes it feels like you be putting your 🦶🏽 in our behinds 🍑 with the delivery 😅 and I'm here for it! Time is our most precious gift & you project that urgency for healing on all sides of narcissistic abuse. This message was A1 as usual, tysmfs. Blessings 🙏🏽
My Dearest Brother thank you for sharing that heartfelt 11 year old wound. May God bring comfort and healing to you as you do the same for so many. The same happened to me at age 9 with the tragic death of my dad. Suddenly an orphaned Spirit entered me yet CPTSD followed until recent healing.
Thank you so much for this video. You really have a way of putting things in the proper perspective. I know the narcissistic men in my life had mother wounds Anna father wounds and much trauma from their childhood. It’s like they became emotionally stunted and somehow I felt like I was a reminder of what they lacked. They were even jealous of the close relationship I have with my sons which I believe was a trigger for what they lacked with their own parents. Its really sad and heartbreaking 💔 that they had these wounds and being a highly sensitive empathic person I tried everything to help them through their pain but I was treated so horribly by them in the end. I say they cause unfortunately I’ve had more than one narcissist in my life. One is my ex-husband and the other is an ex-boyfriend but ironically they both came from neglectful and abusive homes. I think it’s important that you are sharing these truths about the origins of how one becomes a narcissist. I applaud 👏🏼 you for bravely speaking up and bringing awareness to this. Thank you so much Leon 👏🏼 and I pray 🙏🏼 all your wounds and traumas will be healed! 💜
This is deep. And, I think the trauma at that age can be so damaging that it alters the brain permanently. I believe there are multiple personalities that come through during specific scenarios. This isn't limited to narcissism either.
Thank you Leon. This explains it all for me. Every time I was feeling like I was with a child even though he was over 50. When I discarded him he still waned to be friends. He heck no.
Whoa!whoa!whoa!, that's was pretty deep& interesting word play there sir. "They see marriage as HARD work, not as HEART work" I heard & felt alllll of that!! 😮 More importantly i see you in this peach/coral hoodie- Niiiice😊
You’re amazing Leon! You are helping so many people to gain clarity!! You’re so charismatic and passionate as well. I can only imagine the nightmare the women endured liking you! The addiction to you was real I’m sure!! Be well and stay strong! ❤
You know you can not fix a narc. Their hate manifest in their spirit and that's when they become vindictive vicious and wicked That is the soul being tainted by demons you cannot fix that. The spirit and flesh is dead The body gets older but the mindset has been destroyed when that person was young if it was not addressed at an early age it cannot be addressed by an old stubborn person who is set in their ways getting their ways by hurting others to make them feel better.
Leon my ex malignant narcs mother and father never got divorced but the mother kept leaving the father but always came back. My malignant narc wanted marrage so much he would go I'm a single man I can do what I want marrie me . But still did the same shit worse after marrage its like they want to ruin you
Thank you so much Leon for sharing your experience and your thoughts with us!! That explains alot about what my ex was experiencing. I hope he has decided to get help wherever he may be.
Essentially, it started showing up in his professional life. He was sent to therapy. It was a requirement. And it was choose this or your career over. The short non-detailed version.
So basically, he modified his behavior to keep his career, but no inward change has taken place because this sounds more like bragging to me. OK oh, I see 🙂
I had more trauma as a child than my narc husband, but I haven’t abused him. Stop with the fucking excuses! I’m so tired of it. I’m glad you have awareness now, but the narc behavior is disgusting!
💯 I been through that to there's no excuse have to agree my mother was malignant partner malignant . Husband malignant narcissist the worst 3 of them . I was a empath
It does a tragedy for each person different…also men are different in a slight nature of them as a chaotic human. However tho the brain is a very complex powerful. It’s called arrested development. They are forever stuck at the last age of molding their minds . Most men don’t like change so there you have it women from birth are mature.
I call it bulshit so they abandon their children if they were so effected why repeat the cycle? They are grown mature man selfish narcissists all they care about us self gratification period.
So true, my ex narc talks about feeling abandoned. Because his four older brothers had a different dad. They all asked to be put in foster care. Why????? He was not and looks just like his mom. She raised him. He never calls her mom but by her name. He says he really loves her and how she struggled to raise him but one day said to me I wasn’t adopted? And that The brothers got cars and money etc . He seems to love the mom but feels abandoned? Also they’re relationship has a sexual component. She would have sex around him and vice versa. I dated another guy like this and they always seem to have a lot of issues. Getting away from this guy has been so hard for me. I really loved him. It’s hard not to care how he is . Yet I keep separating myself. He won’t leave me alone yet he doesn’t treat me right. He has never actually ghosted me. But would ignore me when i was hurt , I helped this man keep from getting evicted. I just did a lot , way more than with any other man.. Everyone asks why I dated him because he is so childish . He did tell me he had someone and to leave him alone. Even though I wasn’t talking to him. He then reaches out and calls me mean? I have made up in my mind I will never allow him back in my life ever again. Despite my feelings.. I am about to start therapy myself just so I can heal from this man.
Thank you so much Leon. I've been through the freaking ringer. Granted, I was at the time undiagnosed and untreated ADHD, and autistic, with CPTSD,...and possible BPD... so we were not a good match. But, I have 3 amazing kids, who are smart and intuitive and hilarious and pensive and vigilant and vivacious and brave and tenacious and they all love Harry Potter... except my eldest daughter, but that's because Snape reminds her of my ex. (I don't know why I felt the need to mention Harry Potter, but I'm guessing it's because I value the core message behind it? ...and because books are my safe harbor?) You have helped me heal in so many ways. Even when I was, (and still am) going through a huge massive heart break that left me almost literally cracked. I was so close to actually losing my mind...it scares me to even think about! I wasn't eating, or sleeping, or showering, or doing anything other than waiting for anything from him. A hint. A whisper. A hope of a thought that would make me THINK I am loved, and that he's just waiting for the right time to surprise me and let me know how much he loves me. I feel like... I can breathe again. And I am so very grateful for you. And you are my hero!
I will be posting this on my account just to show how much of a “NARCISSIST” you are! Running around social media and ATTACKING “happy” people because you make assumptions! Assumptions come from ASSHOLES!! 🖕🏿
@@IAM_666 entschuldigen sie? I'm not triggered, you silly goose. I'm AUTISTIC. I have a pedantic brain. I saw your comment and took it LITERALLY. If that's not how you meant it, then I'm very sorry. But I very much don't appreciate you calling me triggered just because I misinterpret your convoluted sentence about getting vengeance. It hurts my feelings. And part of having autism is heightened emotional response. So yeah, I get "triggered" easily, but not for the reasons you think. It's called rejection sensitivity dysphoria. I wasn't triggered before. But now I am! Why do you feel the need to come at me like this? To try to tear me down? I wasn't trying to be mean to YOU. I was just being communicative, and thought I was giving a friendly reminder to a fellow Christian. You're just being hurtful for no reason at all. ...so.. from a psychological perspective... we're both triggered?
Hi ,and we are ok moving on this too will past when not accomplish nothing this is life experience it was love for me and I was integrity showing love ,my father i sea only 3 times mom was negative never hold me in her arms but I didn't want too hurt anyone else I believe this a mind thing just your choices i believe some people use this stigma
Blame the parents .. the childhood wound… yes some parents are entirely responsible but how long do I suppress the sadness and trauma inflicted on me by a narcissist because he has a childhood wound ? Is it my fault ? Was it my fault ? Boohoo to the wound. Does t mean you go hurt loving people and then blame the wound ..
I'm wondering if most of these men are bonifide narcs or do they simply don't want their mate. Truthfully many of these men are just jerks not narcissist. Maybe they just didn't want you anymore.. They are just too cowardly to say it, so they treat you badly to walk away. Just a thought.
Sorry to break it to you… but it actually is a Male trait. It’s from the Grecian boy Narcissus himself. Greek philosophers and sociologist have been literally studying this due to the odd wild evil behaviors of him for over 1000 ago. Fast forward today it is now profound but due to man running and subbing everything they changed it up with their power of narcissistic behaviors of their own to put that favorite line “ it goes both ways” or “it’s women too” type of mess when in fact woman skips that due to fact that we women experience life they men literally just exist in it. I presented this to my male professor and he said correct but men are who wrote the psychology books and they won’t ever possibly change the DSM due to the welp, narcissism.
Sorry to break it to you… but it actually is a Male trait. It’s from the Grecian boy Narcissus himself. Greek philosophers and sociologist have been literally studying this due to the odd wild evil behaviors of him for over 1000 ago. Fast forward today it is now profound but due to man running and subbing everything they changed it up with their power of narcissistic behaviors of their own to put that favorite line “ it goes both ways” or “it’s women too” type of mess when in fact woman skips that due to fact that we women experience life they men literally just exist in it. I presented this to my male professor and he said correct but men are who wrote the psychology books and they won’t ever possibly change the DSM due to the welp, narcissism.
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Sometimes when kids face various trauma types and not enough nurturing to help counteract the demonic things they experienced, they can grow up to display callous harsh ways. You experienced a lot as a kid that was unnecessary and not dealt with properly. For that I feel sorry.
But this doesn't explain all the narcs raised by two parents who never divorced. My ex husbands parents did not divorce. If anything, they were very stable. His mother was more submissive.
They don't want to elevate their character, and prefer to be with their own kind.
"Beware those who constantly seek crowds;
they are nothing alone."
Charles Bukowski
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I love this❤️🩹
@@shaunierockett4964 It's a good idea. Thank you for your comment. 🙂 I like the quote on your avatar thumbnail. God Bless
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@@cynicalafflictional1725 very true!!!!
He said to me he’s ex wanted to commit suicide over him I thought she was stupid I was constantly on his side about the old supply showing off I had him, little did I know he would do the same to me never laugh at old supply he’s done me worse it’s scary I’m devastated😔😔
You’re like a toy to them because they’re overgrown toddlers. They use the toy until the get bored with it, then simply put it down and pick up a new toy. It really shows the stunted development. You’re like the old buzz and woody dolls. Andy doesn’t care about you when he’s got a shiny new toy, but he doesn’t want you to go anywhere either. He wants you sitting right where he left you because you’re his possession.
💯 exactly
My ex told me during our first conversation he had good women, but he just didn’t know why they didn’t worked out.😮. Nineteen years later I see why. 🙏🏾
We ALL go through childhood traumas and we don't all become evil. When are these narcissists going to stop blaming the "inner child" for the disgusting and sinful things they do? It's time to grow up and take accountability for allowing yourself to be led by demonic spirits. JESUS is the way.
The Bible says no one is righteous. We all have done sinful and disgusting things, his sins aren’t greater than yours. Jesus is the way, truth and the life. And He says, if a wicked man turns from his ways his wickedness will be remembered no more. He is taking accountability. Make sure that you don’t ever get too puffed up and feel like you’re better than anybody we are saved by grace thru faith in Christ alone. If you ever did any good, it’s only bc of Christ not because of you.
@@brazilgabrielleamen 🙏🏾
When we as humans don’t accept Christ and be born again, become a new person they can’t be anything but the little broken girl or boy that humans raised and the world and their desires created…. You can’t be different if you can’t learn how too…. It’s sad how people spend their entire life destroying themselves and others…. I commend anyone that at least try to change. Leon is genuinely trying to be a different person…. I know from experience some people never change; never attempt too. Thank you Leon for sharing. ❤️🙏🏽
Right. Therapy is as accessible to them as anybody else. Most don't want it. They enjoy being cruel, abusive, and parasitic.
I absolutely agree.👍There’s no excuse for abusing innocent people because there was trauma in your life, the truth is that the majority of people on earth, have been wounded in their life.😳 Someone stated ‘his sins aren’t greater than yours’, but that’s not the point. Here’s the deal, in spite of your journey, you’ve given the ability to do good and not obliterate someone else’s life; remember, God doesn’t force his will upon us. I’m relieved that he’s using his lessons to help others, but as victims of narcissistic abuse, we have every right to express ourselves.👍
Find it so ironic that they fear being alone; yet they push everyone away with their lack of accountability and introspection.
I finally understood why someone would be okay with losing a good person and never cared about it anyway, thank you
They don’t care about the individual person. They get with us for whatever they think they can get out of us.
My narc ex revealed to me he was molested as a child, and he has a neglectful, dismissive mother. I also learned he cheated on his ex-wife and every other woman in his past. I should have fuckin RAN away from this man. **heavy sigh**
Edit: My narc ex also said everyone would always leave him, and that made me feel sorry for him. I later realized women left him because he was a horrible man. Eerie how he played victim, as if everyone in his life just left him without cause.
@@ThePecanTan true pure nasty married me malignant narc we went home he sent me shop went upstairs to fuck are neighbour he had been with for 6 months
I told the narc he needed to go and close the broken relationships before getting with me. Do I believe he did...NOPE. He's gone and I'm in my healing.
I explained to him all his patterns and behaviours to show him why he is a narcissist and that he needs a therapy to what his response was that I am a narcissist 😵💫😵💫I left very fast after that.
Yep. Was expected. Never tell them. They gonna use everything against u - u & every future victim, once they know. Dangerous.
My ex told me the same thing.
lol I’m glad you left. I’m not laughing at you but the “I left very fast after that” is funny bc girl good for you….run so damn fast. These MFs are crazy and delusional
You should always ask about a persons past.
I agree with this. The thing of I don't care about your past is bull crap, you better ask.
The more I listen, the more empowered I become.
100% true!! He said he was afraid of marriage and commitment because he didn't think he would be good at it. Years wasted, but a lot of lessons learned along the way! 12 years of back and forth, but I finally got it!
😀 Your work is so important. Thank you for your help
Well said Leon - 200 yrs. Unresolved trauma transcends generations
It’s so refreshing to see you on your healing journey.. You are REALLY putting in the work!! Keep it up! You are really helping people, including myself! ✊🏾.. hang in there!
This helped me find out exactly why he wanted to marry me
Fear of being left alone but yall push ppl away, that’s a 2 yr old mindset…..BOYS IN ADULT BODIES
LEON. THIS WISDOM IS DEEP 🔥🔥🔥🔥 THANK YOU CHAMP NOW I UNDERSTAND WHY THIS GUY IM DEALING IS THE WAY HE IS WITH ME OKAY U HAVE OPENED UP MY EYES TO SO MUCH WISDOM ❤
He does simplify it to the point and quick. Not all drawn out. It is understandable & refreshing really.
😢This break my heart because I went through this but didn't understand. Now I'm going through my healing but getting better one day at time with God.
I can’t stand my dad and you Leon look just like him, he’s a psychopathic narcissist/covert all of em, but binge watching you from morning and u make make me cry and now better understand my dad hubby and friend, but everyone is going to be held accountable on judgement day, we all have a CHOICE but I do understand from the spiritual and psychological perspective
A narcissistic person needs deliverance after the therapy period. Therapy alone will only modify behavior and not true change!. Only Yahweh and the blood of Christ can bring true change. Satan and Demoms hate to relinquish grounds they have gained, so repentance n deliverance can not be skipped at all!
So True cause this man speaking on modified behavior but he is CLEARLY STILL ONE OF THE MOST NARCISSISTIC MANIPULATIVE PEOPLE I'VE EVER SEEN. Mr Leon Has DEMONS that must be cast out by the POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST (Only God Alone).
@demandcave8390 Yes indeed! I agree with you on this.
Demons don’t exist. They have a personality disorder from abuse.🙄
Now I understand why he is so casual about our separation. Told him if he cheated one more time the marriage would end. And he did....Ever so casually.
This is so sad.... I'm glad you were able to put in the work and give yourself a chance at happiness Leon!
I'm amazed at the person you have become based on your narration of who you used to be. You are being vulnerable in ways that are very helpful to broken hearts who are seeking for answers.
This is unlike most narcissists, they never get to the point of owning up their wrongs especially without blaming the other party.
From the comments I've read I'm guessing that you received Christ and that makes a lot of sense why you have made such a turn around.
I once heard you say in one of your videos that the narcissist is not paying for child support, he's paying for his sins...that is a profound statement.
May the good Lord crown you with mercy and compassion and bring you into total alignment with Him.
Thank you.
There's NOTHING changed about this man.. He is still VERY narcissistic and Manipulative. These videos and comments loaded with attention and praise only FUEL those insecurities. He may be fooling yall be he's DEFINITELY not fooling me💁🏽♀️
Change can be a very long process both for a narcissist who has genuinely repented and an empathetic person who suffered narcissistic abuse. There's need for deliverance that comes only for God. If his spirit is not right I pray that the good Lord will bring him to a perfect alignment.
In many cases, this type of person refuses to be FULLY delivered and chooses to walk in their own ways. I've seen MANY even TURN AWAY from God to follow after other gods, simply for refusal to be delivered & so they won't be held accountable to obeying God, while also displaying selfless love. I have family members who are prime examples of this so I know first hand that one who does not continue in Gods word usually becomes REPROBATE.. We can fast/pray all day til we're blue in the face, but it is strictly up to that individual to submit to God & humble themselves under the mighty hand of God that the be made FREE.. Ive been praying for my narcisstic children's Father for about 15 years now, and although his BEHAVIOR has become modified around me, he is STILL stuck in those same narcissistic ways, umremorseful & unashamed😢
It makes it very hard when they don't talk about there past or childhood. I've asked, and was never given answers. But towards the end he had so much hatred toward me
I'm experiencing the same thing he acts like he hates me.
Exactly never want to open up. Same... but wanted to know all about my experiences.
Thank you. Perfect timing. ❤
Thank you for your vulnerability and honesty....of all the narcissist videos I've listened to yours resonates with me the most...precise and in depth...
Hello Leon I ❤your life experience that you share with the whole world. I really appreciate you.❤❤❤❤
So, so true. 💯💯 You are giving me such an understanding about what I went through. Thank you Leon!!
It’s my opinion:
~I’ve noticed in life that even when asked the Narcissist Will lie about their past present and their future.
Please remember that: Most people were neglected, abused or overly loved in their life time in that there is NO excuse NO justification that one can give for a person to have the license to cause harm to another. “Seek and desire God thats what’s missing”~
This!!! It angers me to even hear!
This video is absolute gold! I wish more people could see this!
Sometimes it feels like you be putting your 🦶🏽 in our behinds 🍑 with the delivery 😅 and I'm here for it! Time is our most precious gift & you project that urgency for healing on all sides of narcissistic abuse. This message was A1 as usual, tysmfs. Blessings 🙏🏽
My Dearest Brother thank you for sharing that heartfelt 11 year old wound. May God bring comfort and healing to you as you do the same for so many. The same happened to me at age 9 with the tragic death of my dad. Suddenly an orphaned Spirit entered me yet CPTSD followed until recent healing.
Thank you so much for this video. You really have a way of putting things in the proper perspective. I know the narcissistic men in my life had mother wounds Anna father wounds and much trauma from their childhood. It’s like they became emotionally stunted and somehow I felt like I was a reminder of what they lacked. They were even jealous of the close relationship I have with my sons which I believe was a trigger for what they lacked with their own parents. Its really sad and heartbreaking 💔 that they had these wounds and being a highly sensitive empathic person I tried everything to help them through their pain but I was treated so horribly by them in the end. I say they cause unfortunately I’ve had more than one narcissist in my life. One is my ex-husband and the other is an ex-boyfriend but ironically they both came from neglectful and abusive homes. I think it’s important that you are sharing these truths about the origins of how one becomes a narcissist. I applaud 👏🏼 you for bravely speaking up and bringing awareness to this. Thank you so much Leon 👏🏼 and I pray 🙏🏼 all your wounds and traumas will be healed! 💜
Wow.. Iam very sorry that happened to you😢😢😢but glad you did get help to see the truth, much respect and congrats😊😊😊
This is deep. And, I think the trauma at that age can be so damaging that it alters the brain permanently. I believe there are multiple personalities that come through during specific scenarios. This isn't limited to narcissism either.
Bro u break it dwn so good I watched 20-40 min videos and still got nothing out of it thank u man
You mean nothing out of “Them” ❤
Thank you Leon. This explains it all for me. Every time I was feeling like I was with a child even though he was over 50. When I discarded him he still waned to be friends. He heck no.
So honest and factual.
Whoa!whoa!whoa!, that's was pretty deep& interesting word play there sir. "They see marriage as HARD work, not as HEART work" I heard & felt alllll of that!! 😮
More importantly i see you in this peach/coral hoodie- Niiiice😊
Such wisdom and honesty. Thanks so much, Leon. God bless you 🙏
thank you for your transparency. this helps me to see my ex and myself thru a different lense. i have forgiven him and myself...time to move on.
You’re welcome
You’re amazing Leon! You are helping so many people to gain clarity!! You’re so charismatic and passionate as well. I can only imagine the nightmare the women endured liking you! The addiction to you was real I’m sure!! Be well and stay strong! ❤
Leon, yóu’re great,teaching us this!
I really want to thank you. You’re so precious.
A lot of people had childhood trauma and didn't turn into total jerks
Have you even bothered to listen to his story in its entirety? This is only one aspect.
Exactly what I was going to say!🙄🤷🏼♀️
And why must you call people who are working on themselves “jerks”. Truth: we’re all here to work on ourselves! Get a clue!🙏🏽
Are you saying that childhood trauma has no impact on the future adult?
@@racs9606 no I said : "A lot of people had childhood trauma and didn't turn into total jerks".
You know you can not fix a narc. Their hate manifest in their spirit and that's when they become vindictive vicious and wicked That is the soul being tainted by demons you cannot fix that. The spirit and flesh is dead The body gets older but the mindset has been destroyed when that person was young if it was not addressed at an early age it cannot be addressed by an old stubborn person who is set in their ways getting their ways by hurting others to make them feel better.
Great insight
Thank you
Thank you for this eye opening perspective Leon. Keep doing the good work.
Leon my ex malignant narcs mother and father never got divorced but the mother kept leaving the father but always came back.
My malignant narc wanted marrage so much he would go I'm a single man I can do what I want marrie me . But still did the same shit worse after marrage its like they want to ruin you
Thank you for this explaination
I understand know 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
Thank you so much Leon for sharing your experience and your thoughts with us!! That explains alot about what my ex was experiencing. I hope he has decided to get help wherever he may be.
You are keeping it real. I really respect that.
Mr.Transparency man.......your healing journey is magnificent and I'm with you all the way ❤
Thank you. I can’t do this alone, so I appreciate the company and support 🙌🏾🙌🏾
Tell us about your breakthrough, when you realized your narcissism and that you need therapy! I would call that waking up! How did that happen?
Essentially, it started showing up in his professional life. He was sent to therapy. It was a requirement. And it was choose this or your career over. The short non-detailed version.
So basically, he modified his behavior to keep his career, but no inward change has taken place because this sounds more like bragging to me. OK oh, I see 🙂
EXCELLENT CONTENT.. VERY COMPELLING..DO YOU FEEL AT THIS STAGE IN LIFE YOU ARE BETTER?
Thank you so much for this message ❤
Heart work!!! That hits❤
Cool I’m good real good with loosing him. I’m ready for him to leave. My heart is almost healed and I’m ready for him to GO!
I had more trauma as a child than my narc husband, but I haven’t abused him. Stop with the fucking excuses! I’m so tired of it. I’m glad you have awareness now, but the narc behavior is disgusting!
💯 I been through that to there's no excuse have to agree my mother was malignant partner malignant . Husband malignant narcissist the worst 3 of them .
I was a empath
It does a tragedy for each person different…also men are different in a slight nature of them as a chaotic human. However tho the brain is a very complex powerful. It’s called arrested development. They are forever stuck at the last age of molding their minds . Most men don’t like change so there you have it women from birth are mature.
I agree 💯! All these excuses for bad/evil behavior.
Your first mistake is comparing yourself to a damn man. Women need to learn men!
I hear you but not everyone is resilient as you. I respect this man for finally changing his ways and helping others . Stay blessed
Thank you! So much genuine knowledge that helps to understand wth I married.
Hey Leon, I’m sorry that young Leon went through so much. No child should have to experience. Sending love
I am proud of you
Great! This was eye opening.
You keep IT REAL .... & Fact!!! Ty for helping ME !
Amazing video Leon! Very good delivery. ❤️🙏🏽
I call it bulshit so they abandon their children if they were so effected why repeat the cycle? They are grown mature man selfish narcissists all they care about us self gratification period.
Exactly
Once again thank you for your insight .
That explains it! Thanks Leon
So true, my ex narc talks about feeling abandoned. Because his four older brothers had a different dad. They all asked to be put in foster care. Why????? He was not and looks just like his mom. She raised him. He never calls her mom but by her name. He says he really loves her and how she struggled to raise him but one day said to me I wasn’t adopted? And that The brothers got cars and money etc . He seems to love the mom but feels abandoned? Also they’re relationship has a sexual component. She would have sex around him and vice versa. I dated another guy like this and they always seem to have a lot of issues. Getting away from this guy has been so hard for me. I really loved him. It’s hard not to care how he is . Yet I keep separating myself. He won’t leave me alone yet he doesn’t treat me right. He has never actually ghosted me. But would ignore me when i was hurt , I helped this man keep from getting evicted. I just did a lot , way more than with any other man.. Everyone asks why I dated him because he is so childish . He did tell me he had someone and to leave him alone. Even though I wasn’t talking to him. He then reaches out and calls me mean? I have made up in my mind I will never allow him back in my life ever again. Despite my feelings.. I am about to start therapy myself just so I can heal from this man.
Another good video, Leon! Thank you for being a MAN and telling the truth. ❤️🙏🏽
I love this topic!
I appreciate your honesty keep making these please. Maybe connect with raw motivations you both are the best
Thank you so much Leon. I've been through the freaking ringer.
Granted, I was at the time undiagnosed and untreated ADHD, and autistic, with CPTSD,...and possible BPD... so we were not a good match.
But, I have 3 amazing kids, who are smart and intuitive and hilarious and pensive and vigilant and vivacious and brave and tenacious and they all love Harry Potter... except my eldest daughter, but that's because Snape reminds her of my ex.
(I don't know why I felt the need to mention Harry Potter, but I'm guessing it's because I value the core message behind it? ...and because books are my safe harbor?) You have helped me heal in so many ways. Even when I was, (and still am) going through a huge massive heart break that left me almost literally cracked. I was so close to actually losing my mind...it scares me to even think about! I wasn't eating, or sleeping, or showering, or doing anything other than waiting for anything from him. A hint. A whisper. A hope of a thought that would make me THINK I am loved, and that he's just waiting for the right time to surprise me and let me know how much he loves me.
I feel like... I can breathe again.
And I am so very grateful for you. And you are my hero!
👑🆙👑OMG! Snap Snap Snap “U” r TRIGGERED AND TAKKNG HOUR PAIN OUT ON ME!!!! DISGUSTING 🤢
I will be posting this on my account just to show how much of a “NARCISSIST” you are! Running around social media and ATTACKING “happy” people because you make assumptions! Assumptions come from ASSHOLES!! 🖕🏿
@@IAM_666 entschuldigen sie? I'm not triggered, you silly goose. I'm AUTISTIC. I have a pedantic brain.
I saw your comment and took it LITERALLY. If that's not how you meant it, then I'm very sorry.
But I very much don't appreciate you calling me triggered just because I misinterpret your convoluted sentence about getting vengeance.
It hurts my feelings. And part of having autism is heightened emotional response. So yeah, I get "triggered" easily, but not for the reasons you think.
It's called rejection sensitivity dysphoria. I wasn't triggered before. But now I am! Why do you feel the need to come at me like this? To try to tear me down? I wasn't trying to be mean to YOU. I was just being communicative, and thought I was giving a friendly reminder to a fellow Christian. You're just being hurtful for no reason at all.
...so.. from a psychological perspective... we're both triggered?
I just saw on the TH-cam video with you and Lee that you’re from Cleveland!!! Me too!!! ☺️
Can you tell me where you found that video? I’ve been looking for it.
@@MZSTAR4YA Type in Mental Healness you will find the video there with another self aware narcassist Lee Hammock.
@@MZSTAR4YA it’s on Mental Healness’ page… AKA Lee Hammock ☺️
Incredibly insightful!
Wow this really helped me put things into perspective. I always knew this but never understood why until now... This is very powerful frfr
Thank-you for this video Leon . Have you seen the movie Mr.Nobody?
YOUR PAINFUL PAST, WILL EQUIP YOU FOR MINISTRY!
Hi ,and we are ok moving on this too will past when not accomplish nothing this is life experience it was love for me and I was integrity showing love ,my father i sea only 3 times mom was negative never hold me in her arms but I didn't want too hurt anyone else I believe this a mind thing just your choices i believe some people use this stigma
Blame the parents .. the childhood wound… yes some parents are entirely responsible but how long do I suppress the sadness and trauma inflicted on me by a narcissist because he has a childhood wound ? Is it my fault ? Was it my fault ? Boohoo to the wound. Does t mean you go hurt loving people and then blame the wound ..
I'm wondering if most of these men are bonifide narcs or do they simply don't want their mate. Truthfully many of these men are just jerks not narcissist. Maybe they just didn't want you anymore.. They are just too cowardly to say it, so they treat you badly to walk away. Just a thought.
Sorry to break it to you… but it actually is a Male trait. It’s from the Grecian boy Narcissus himself. Greek philosophers and sociologist have been literally studying this due to the odd wild evil behaviors of him for over 1000 ago. Fast forward today it is now profound but due to man running and subbing everything they changed it up with their power of narcissistic behaviors of their own to put that favorite line “ it goes both ways” or “it’s women too” type of mess when in fact woman skips that due to fact that we women experience life they men literally just exist in it. I presented this to my male professor and he said correct but men are who wrote the psychology books and they won’t ever possibly change the DSM due to the welp, narcissism.
Sorry to break it to you… but it actually is a Male trait. It’s from the Grecian boy Narcissus himself. Greek philosophers and sociologist have been literally studying this due to the odd wild evil behaviors of him for over 1000 ago. Fast forward today it is now profound but due to man running and subbing everything they changed it up with their power of narcissistic behaviors of their own to put that favorite line “ it goes both ways” or “it’s women too” type of mess when in fact woman skips that due to fact that we women experience life they men literally just exist in it. I presented this to my male professor and he said correct but men are who wrote the psychology books and they won’t ever possibly change the DSM due to the welp, narcissism.
@@sexygabby30this so interesting
Thank you thank you thank you 💯
I hear you🙏🏽
Hmmm....wow.❤
Wow that's why she had awful ways for years till thee end of us breaking apart.🤔
So, #PROUDofYou!!! 😝.
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I noticed that u kinda said untreated PTSD and narcissism interchangeably?
Sometimes when kids face various trauma types and not enough nurturing to help counteract the demonic things they experienced, they can grow up to display callous harsh ways. You experienced a lot as a kid that was unnecessary and not dealt with properly. For that I feel sorry.
But this doesn't explain all the narcs raised by two parents who never divorced. My ex husbands parents did not divorce. If anything, they were very stable. His mother was more submissive.
Just bc they were still married doesn’t mean the environment he grew up in wasn’t toxic and dysfunctional
So true ❤
You are smart about the past. It’s recommended by prof. Sam Vaknin- know everything about your partner’s past.
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Why do they get married then
He said Greed
Convenience
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My goodness🤔
WOW soooooo sad. 😢