and dying a slow painful death after getting beatin and eaten, by a grizzly, rototiller, pit-bulls, wolves, bowling ball on the feet, beaten like a piniada from the tree then kicked by a horse ahh haa yeeaaaaaa boieeee
FACTS ‼️ And my ex idiot would say, "but do you love me?". I'm like "hell no!" I'm not in love with being abused on every level!" Damn! Yeah, just no good piece of Shyt really.
THEY ARE ALREADY DESTROYED, FROM THE INSIDE, SO THEY WANT HAPPY HEALTHY PEOPLE TO BE LIKE THEM. MISERY LOVES COMPANY. PEOPLE, WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT, IT, THESE PEOPLE ARE EMOTIONAL AND SPIRITUALLY, "DEAD",
ONE MORE THING, MOST OF THEM ARE BORING, ILLITERATE, AND JUST SAD, THAT'S WHY THEY "HIDE" BEHIND, MONEY, LOOKS, SO CALLED POWER, THAT THEY DON'T REALLY HAVE, AND THIER, UGLY MASK. THIER OWN CHILDREN, HATE THEM, THAT'S WHY THEY DIE ALONE.✌️
Thank you, so much for your response, Listen, we are all in this,war, together, it's going to be alright, TRUST ME,the time has come, it's on us now.🤗🤗🤗✌️
Mine stressed me out so much I now have an Interstitial Lung Disease and was on oxygen 24/7 and Unspecified Autoimmune Disease. After he moved out within 2 months I was off oxygen. They are so toxic!
Yes my exnarc used to call asking how I’m doing hoping I died or was sick Yes he wanted a kid with me He been HIV positive Trapped me because I found the meds and I’m not HIV positive His ex wife died of aids because of his infidelity He thought I was going to be dead by not But I’m covered by the Blood of Jesus Lol
Yes it is .. an indescribable pain She wants me dead .. she’s bitterly disappointed I didn’t commit suicide after the most devastating discard. The narc is scratching her head saying why won’t this F”ker die? BECAUSE OF GOD ALMIGHTY THATS WHY
I had chest pains on n off from anxiety n gaslighting n confusion caused me chest pains n Vertigo dizziness. I also lost a lot of weight within the 6 yrs with this nephilim. After I discarded him n went No Contact the Vertigo went away. Chest pain gone n I gained 15 lbs. Got skin color back n hair grew. I'm happy n healthy again. Thank You Jesus. N yes he wanted me to have his baby when he realized I was leaving. No hoovering here. I got away.
@@rosebeard2866 only a person who dealt with a psychopathic narcissist can understand. My cousin who never dealt with one said ..just move on. Smh. She said I'm crazy weak low self esteem. Smh.
When my narcissist was done love bombing and I could see who he really was he got me pregnant on purpose. He removed the condom without my knowledge and we now have a son. He did this all for selfish purposes to keep me because I was grade A Supply. He wanted me on his team forever. I broke free but it was extremely hard to parent with a narcissist because they will use the child. The child as a pawn. They don't really love anyone but themselves. The child will be subject to the same abuse as the parent. The Narcissist will not change. They are harmful. Keep them away from your young impressionable children
Hey..you unfortunately need to go through it....i promise you will recover..A promise. Try get out in nature...get creative...paint..also there are many people online who you must listen too. 5 years to recover from mine. Unf...ing believable what he did. But now...im.out free! Nnn met a Great Guy! The complete opposite..completely!
Same.. it's a torture 24/7 non stop, i'm stalked and isolated i can't get out of the house without that devil persecuting me, it have been 2 years of persecution and obssesion to kill me
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF I WAS NOT IN LOVE I WAS HELD HOSTAGE AND THEN I AWAKENED TO THE REAL TRUTH..IM HAPPY AND NOTHING WILL KILL THE SHINE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT...REMEMBER KEEP MOVING FORWARD..
The narc husband tried to take me to the psychiatric hospital and threatened to call the police after he assaulted me. I was so ill from the abuse, my health failed and I could barely breathe, walk or swallow, and I was unrecognizable. Got out with the help of friends and am detoxing my body and soul. I look and feel great away from the narco path. Hoover boy is trying to return and entrap me. NO CONTACT 10 months! Great Video. Thank you 🙏
God Bless you...They do want to see you dead. It changes you as a person. They make you think your nuts! Sorry for you pain. I hope your rebuilding your Soul! It can be done.
Renee Moncrief God is in charge. We grow in strength to move forward with greater love for others. Realizing he had problems of his own helped me separate from his false self. I pray for his healing. Thank you for your kind words of support.
I can relate. When I left mine I couldn’t eat and I was very weak. All the life was gone out of my body. I still get depressed that the relationship was all an illusion and in the end he became physically abusive. I guess the physical abuse came because he was ready to discard me. They are such sick people it’s unbelievable. I slowly getting better
Same with me he said I gave u babies so no man will ever want you I do see the difference an my life 1 child and 3 big difference i just can't believe admitting that to me after 12 yrs
I pity the fool that they pick to triangulate and do their dirty work for them. Thats the real victim.. but at the time.. they think they're getting a big prize.. theyll use her to treat you badly.. use her as a sounding board rather than go to a therapist .. she thinks she's listening to all this and learning NOT to do him wrong like he claims you did.. No.. Hes letting her know she better not step out of line by portraying you as the one that did. Its an endless hamster wheel of nothing
Mine got me pregnant within 2 months of meeting convinced me to move to another states with him to have this wonderful life and family together. Within 6 months he turned me into a shell of myself And quickly began to abuse me mentally and physically. now I am 37 weeks pregnant and trying to put back the pieces. Thanks for these videos.
Ex Narc never cared when I was sick. I was an inconvenience and he would accuse me of faking or ruining his plans. When he was sick, he was the biggest baby.
My sister told me she stays up all night to find away to DESTROY someone's life . I want nothing to do with her. I don't want to be around her or any of them. She, he, and all of them make me sick.
I started to lose sight in one eye because of stress. As soon as I got rid of the narc the eye got better again. Crazy how a mild mannered and pretty person can be such a devil.
My husband is a covert narcissist and he has never bothered about my health. One Sunday I came from church with a terrible headache but he didn't even cook for me. He blamed me for the headache. I once had high blood pressure, we went to hospital but he felt going to hospital was a waste of his precious time. He refused to cook for the kids when I was sick. When he saw my protruding veins due to high blood pressure, he took off and travelled to the country side. Narcissists are dangerous... Very dangerous. Another narcissist told me he wants to have two kids with me,two months after our first meeting. Back to my hubby narc, true to your words I came home one evening and found the police had just left the house. He spent two weeks in remand prison, bailed himself out.
Your pig analogy literally has me in tears 😂😂😂😂😂. The message is so true, it took a while for me to realise that no matter how much I tried or what I did things would NEVER change. I give thanks and praise that I am no longer in that situation. People who have never gone through this type of spiritual warfare will NEVER understand how it feels. I am grateful to you and others who use their platform to spread the word about these filthy devils. Thank you 🤗
I envy people that are NOT related to these people who can just walk away. Even still, it is hard to do and trauma bonds have been established. Imagine how hard it is to have to make a decision to walk away, maybe forever, when these people are your own child that you brought into this world. It is almost soul destroying. There is a lot of help for romantic relationships but very little for Parents dealing with narcissistic who equally abuse them (when they are old, sick, vulnerable and rely on their child) and fool and tell the world that they will have nothing to do with the parent because the parent abused THEM! This is a side of Narcissism that no-one talks about.
I've had a lady friend whose daughter was abusive. You're not alone. Learn from Hario and other life coaches. Find someone else to assist you. And these romantic situationshits cannot be fixed. Watch this over. I certainly will. And good luck to you.
I want to add to this, you DID love the narc but the narc is unlovable. Remember they try to "proove" you don't love them and they're the virtuous loving one, not you. Everything they do that's bad they blame on you. This is what they look for. Someone to blame their shit on. It's ok to admit to yourself you loved. But know that love is not enough for them.
Maybe we are appealing to the original..self, we are.a.threat to the.false.self...maybe the love.is appealing to that inner child,....and that beast personality is.protecting him.from.being hurt....like hes.split. ..fragmented, hes a multiple...spit balling
maybe there is beautiful soul trapped inside, who.was so.a used and.abused traumatized that this.devil is actually protecting it from more.pain a defense mechanism.to.from more hurt.and pain...Christ in you.is a threat...jes definitely a.multiple.
Me too mine was a female I woke up saw everything about my life I was lonly sad broken she helped me more than anything I've ever felt lying sneaky women
The one positive thing about dealing with a narcissist is that you learn the importance of self love and prioritizing your needs. You learn not to tolerate the pain and implied shame that they put you through, and me personally i have developed a mindset that will no longer allow anyone to play with me or my emotions. Sometimes these experiences are necessary, because once you realize what you need to change and do the work, you will get the life that you're looking for and it will be so worth it in the end. So to my brothers and sisters keep your heads held high and keep healing ❤️
I was in a 12 year relationship with a female covert narcissist it was a absolute nightmare to say the least, I had children with her hence why I stayed so long now she uses my kids as a weapon against me to hold onto control and continues to make me and my children suffer. They are the worst kinds of people you could imagine, stay well clear.
Mine said the very same thing. And I did. I told him thank you because that's how I got the strength to leave your A**. Narc free for three years in September.
Mine said the same thing. He even through my past abuse back in my face. I was molested as a child. I also was physically abused in pass relationships. He said because he didnt hit me he is not abusive and that I brought that trauma into our marriage and used it against him. He filed for divorce on those terms. I am going on year 2 in court fighting this demon.
@@sarahm2054 they do because if we lose our love, then we're like them (Satan and the demons) and we go down with them. Revelations 12-9-12, shows they have a death sentence coming up and their trying to take every one with them and to be hateful like them, then they win. God Jehovah most dominate quality is love. It's a identifying mark of true religion. Jw.org has on line Bible that's free and book. What dose the Bible really teach? Book. It will give you comfort and a solid hope now and a solid future of true happiness.
Problem is that too many people dont know. Some narcs are 10 s or beautiful on the outside while broken on the inside and they wear a MASK or mirror you. They are master manipulators Statistics show over half of marriages fail and there is a real possibility that a empath may get involved with a new narcissist or broken person
the positive thing about a narcissist is that they are not a hard act to follow when you are free. Anybody who's normal is worth the interview 😂 😂 Wales UK
yaaas i been ssying that years ago i just never knew people called those typeof people narcs. but that movie clearly describes what they are and what they do.very scary but real
My situationship in the beginning with the Narc started out with 21 positives things I liked. But soon to my chagrin I was mortified to end up with 51 NEGATIVE and awful things I disliked about that individual. One being my blood pressure was always high and all over the place ... which he would ask about. That PIG is gone, my blood pressure is normal (120/80) and my love for ME is in full swing🌷
I have never broke out often and if I did it would be a pimple or two. The last 7 months of the relationship I started noticing I had consistent break outs all over my face from stress. I left and I’ve been 4 1/2 months no contact and my skin is just now starting to clear up and get back to normal. I knew it was because of him and what he was doing to me, my body was reacting.
@@Divine_Healing_Love he would kiss me in my facae knowing i hated it and i would always break out then we would get angry and said i said his mouth wS dirty... it wasnt that at all it was just my face is sensitive
This makes sense! I went from having 5 day normal periods to 9 day periods accompanied by flu-like symptoms every month! I got all the way down to 87 lbs! I was scared to say anything anywhere because it felt like he could hear me no matter where I was. I told my mother that I felt like dying and she became concerned because my motto has always been that I love to breathe and that breathing feels good. He couldn’t be happy for me in ANY endeavor that I undertook. ALWAYS had a put-down handy for me and if he even thought I was happy about something, he didn’t let the day end with me remaining happy. Hell, he could find a way to fight with me 5 minutes after the once a month sex ration (that he was trying to control me with). He just wants to be miserable and he hated the fact that I refused to be distraught no matter what lemons life threw at me or the ones he tried to throw at me too. I’ve watched more than a few of Mr. @Hario Ovadtop ‘s videos and he hasn’t said one lie. He is like a loving big brother. A lot of what he is saying I figured out after the person was deported halfway around the world. I can not imagine being in the same country or city with a narc! I had to finally realized that I did not love a real person but instead I had loved a mirage. He is right, you won’t let another person do you as bad as that narc did you. I have almost 12 years not talking to someone else because the thought alone is frightening sometimes....🥺
The narc I dealt with told me she was recovering from throat cancer as a ploy to gain sympathy and supply but had zero medical problems. Here is a suggestion for video There is a danger that an empath may continue to attract or re-atteact or may get involved with another narcissist or Cluster B disorder person or another person with mental personality dysfunctions unless the empath recognizes that possibility. Socrates said know thyself. Whatever is drawing you to a narcissist or drawing them to you must be corrected. Recognize that you do not have to solve other people's problems. OPP. What was it in the empaths background or childhood that causes the empath to try to solve other people's problems instead of being attracted to a whole complete person who will uplift the empath instead of pulling the empath down or using the empath. Why is the empath codependent? Recognizing an issue is step one to confronting the issue and overcoming it. Some empaths had childhoods where they had to be the adult and take care of their parent and then they get involved with someone they have to take care of. Break the cycle. Heal yourself Stop thinking about the narcissist Put a rubber bank on your wrist and pull the band - snap- ouch everytime you think about that person. Adversive conditioning works. It is entirely possible that you may get involved with a new BROKEN person unless you fix yourself. Affirmations. You control your future. You can change. Tip---> people rushing a sexual relationship may not be operating on a high level but instead a low vibration level. Seek the higher vibration people. Narcs are MANIPULATORS and Jezebels or the male equivalent if male. Seek the ^*^ higher love ^*^ like the song
I have been there and then they come out of nowhere and ask how come you didn't answer them or called them. It's confusing and makes you go crazy. Like if your a joker character or something like that. I know what you are going through
YOU ARE NOT ALONE FELIX. YOUR 'PERSONALLY PERCEIVED' INVISIBILITY IS THE ESSENCE OF THE NARC'S GOAL. EVEN SO, WE SEE YOU...THEREFORE, YOUR ARE REAL AND HAVE VALUE THAT THE ENTIRE WORLD NEEDS AND WANTS! PLEASE STAY STRONG. I WILL TOO. ~Ace 🎲❣️
I agree with everything you said. I'm going through it. At the point I'm watching him suffer. No job, on drugs, no place to stay but God told me I can't let him back in. He chose to be and stay on the wrong side. I obey my heavenly father and love him and my assignments for the kingdom of heaven. Pray for me. My name Sherry. I'm in Oklahoma. Shalom Family
This was years ago, during our get to know eachother with a narcissist. I was sick ended up in a hospital, he calls and he showed up in the ER as if he really cared. Looking back on it what they do is play the caring role pretending to care about you. I felt like I didn't like him that much when he was coming after me, but his constant and showing to prove had paid off, I guess. Smh Never ignore your intuitions at the first meeting, your Spirit will tell you to watch out for that kind of person. You know, when you kiss someone and see stars and butterflies in your stomach? We think we fallen in love but that's also a "Warning sign" because love shouldn't make you feel this, love should come with Peace and a positive feeling not to make you feel sickly. Great video 👑!
My experience with a narc partner was in 2019 I finally started losing weight, stopped eating my feeling choose to be healthier. She was used to me being chubby and insecure about it. One day she asked me if I think I have an eating disorder (because I no longer over eat was the reality), it was something that she was learning about in school and as she learned about it she would think about me Fast forward me taking what she said into account, I started over eating because I didn’t want anyone to think that I’ve been watching your videos and I’m regaining my sanity back furthermore. I was legit going mad and I thought it was all me after being perfectly convinced. The narcs death happens when the supply starts to find the light within and that takes a whole lot of strength. If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck it might be a Fox and that’s how I feel about them
Yes, evil! On the way to the hospital for chest pain, the narcissist asked me if he could stop and get a hamburger because he was hungry!!!! And yes the pain goes away when you don't love them anymore.
He definitely purposely got me pregnant. I remember one time he grabbed me by my collar and accused me of being on birth control. The crazy thing is I really SHOULD have been on birth control. But I wasn't wise enough yet. And eventually his evil plan of trapping me with a baby worked. Too bad his plan ultimately failed after many many years. He's suffering now. I know he's wishing he could've been just a regular person. Too bad he couldn't...
@@toyaolli3779 well I guess you could say I survived. I was only able to cope because of my loving family and friends. Unfortunately I married the guy 19 years ago. I'm still married but finally separated. It's been sooo hard but I survived. All along I knew things weren't right but I didn't put all the pieces together until the last few years when I finally discovered what narcissism actually is. I think my advice for you would be if you're not married to this person definitely don't do it. You can at least have peace in your own home.
In the end of the day you have to cut your losses (if you already haven't) and move forward. Educate your self on NPD and "stay" 100% true No Contact! Let God do what God does and let that be that! 😐
Congrats! Discernment is everything! I stayed way too long but God helped me to ease my head out of the Lion's mouth & I have no ties so I never have to look back!
Good for you. I encountered one of my narc 23 years ago. I didn’t know he was a narc back then. He used me, devalued me and discarded me. For 18 years he hovered. I blocked him and ignored. I changed my phone number, he called my job, he sent message on Facebook. I made the mistake of engaging with him. Next thing I knew he was back in my life. He told me his wife just left him and she was so horrible to him, blah, blah. I felt uneasy with him the entire time. It was the Holy Spirit warning me. He started with love bombing, devaluing, then he discarded me. I was so relieved and happy when that happened. I said okay. Then he came back a month later acting like we were still together, I told him no. A couple months later, he came back asking to come visit me and spend my birthday with me. I told him no. He came back again 2 months later wanted to visit me. I finally blocked him. Now I know about narcissist so I am on to him. I am working on healing myself and building myself up. I hope to become a life coach, so I can help others.
@@bee12355 Wow! I thank God for discernment...I never really felt comfortable with him anyway...Way too controlling for me...an authority on everything with nothing to show for it...i was kind of embarrassed that I dated him. So, leaving him alone was easy....No Lost for Me!
Holy crap!! Mine used to ask me all the time about my blood pressure, and when I brought it down to a more normal level, she seemed shocked and really disappointed. Real talk
May I say yikes and woe to her soul for real such a shame we could be loving and growing out here but they live to ruin and destroy like sigh such a shame im glad your ok though forget that creepette..they really are the real creeps like really really
Yes my ex narc always like chaos. His family too. I used to say you know a relationship can work without drama. He was such a horrible person. Currently no contact and plan on staying that way. They don't change, he just got worse and never took accountability for anything. He definitely tried to destroy me, but he didn't and couldn't, he didn't knownI am way more resilient then he anticipated. Got rid of Facebook and changed my number! Yes the youtube videos are a great help in healing😊
Same here. He cooked for me and some other demons I was around had access to my food too. I started experiencing health and other problems like never before. I know for sure that those on the job really want me dead/destroyed. I hear so many things that resonate with me and my experiences with these demons in what you are saying and what others are sharing. At first when I learned something was off I didn't know anyone who could understand what I was going through. Thanks for all you do to help me. It is like you are reading my mind in this video. God bless you! I am more than a conqueror in Christ Jesus. ❤🙏👣👑😇🌟💎⚘🎁🎯
My ex narc was an addict - cocaine, sex, alcohol. He tried to corrupt me with his addictions. Plus he loved to stay up all night long all the time...I have just started to regain my sleep lost. I think he enjoyed destroying my health...then it was my soul by the way the betrayal and discard happened. So yes they like to destroy.
So is my nex he lives for cocaine, alcohol & sex! That shit was so draining & in the way! Always broke, scheming, plotting, never able to sleep, talking thru clitched teeth, in & out the door all times of the night, arguing, screaming, etc! What a sad existence! O happy day since I put his Ass Out over 2 yrs ago! I can finally BREATH!
Thank You For Sharing The Narcissists Throughout The Years I Was In A Relationship With Him He Has Destroyed My Self -Worth My Self Esteem I Second Guess Myself This Person Did A Job On Me. I Have Short Memory Loss I Have Tinnitus Anxiety And Severe Depression. These Are Very Sick.And InCredibly EVIL.Ppl
Speak life into yourself QUEEN YOU ARE STILL HERE TURN THE NEGATIVE INTO A POSITIVE. I been through that for years lost years of my life to a stagnant relationship. But I have the POWER TO DO POSITIVE THINGS WITH MY TIME. Went back to school got two degrees and about to start Law School. I’m 41 years old and your Ladder shall be Greater than the former. YOU WIN I PROMISE IM A LIVING TESTIMONY. ❤️💯💫💪🏽
Everything you say when describing a Narcissist is just so true, you given me confirmation, belief in myself and most importantly my sanity. Thank you 🙂
Yes what you're saying is true. I married my Narc late in life. I was 52 and he was 54.. all of the chaos. My blood pressure three times in one month.. 204/107- they kept me in the hospital I was threatening a stroke.. I've been married to him for 11 years.. I've been separated from him for 9 and 1/2 years or otherwise he would have killed me.. now my life is much richer.. I go on cruises. I go out of state to visit friends.. I'm living my life and enjoying it ♥️😍
They truly want to destroy you. My Narc ex husband contacted me two years after separation to ask me how I was doing emotionally. I thought that it was strange of him to ask that question. I told him that I was doing great. Never let them see or hear you sweat. He called to apologize, get me back and to move with him out of state(Texas). I told him No. I knew that he was just going to try to mess my life up again. Walking away was the best thing that I did. He is very manipulative and destructive. Everytime that things were going good, he would single handedly destroy it. I am so much better and enjoying my new successful life and the alimony. 😂🤗
Now that I have an true understanding of what a narcissist is, when I look back, I realize that I am a magnet for them. Every single person I've ever been with showed all of the traits. It is truly sad because the reality of it is that I've never truly been in love. I've only been in love with the masks. Not only have I been able to identify them in past relationships but also within my own family. My mother being one of them. I never understood why she acts the way she does but these videos along with other research that I've done, I have a crystal clear understanding now.
No he never cared about my health whatsoever. He was quick to say I needed a psychiatrist. But now I be knowing he was projecting cuZ the was only crazy one.
You are freeing me. I've been drowning, thinking my narc would be the one to pull me up, but now realizing that she is the reason that I'm even under water.
Yeah, it's strange... my ex narc ask me about going to the hospital a couple of times. She got mad at me when I told her that she shouldn't be worry about my health. That I am sure that I am healthier than her. Cuz she was always going to the hospital over some a little health scared moment. I just realized that the whole time that someone was afraid of karma.
I recently had a stroke due to the stress of marriage to him - a narcissist. I am a relatively young woman who woke up one day without the use of my right side and my speech was gone. I am a physician. Everyone that knows about the situation says that it is because of dealing with him in the house led to the stroke. Additionally, stress of this divorce living in the house with him is unbearable, so many mind games.It is like living with pure evil. My children between 14 and 17 years of age do not like him. Their own biological father and ask me frequently when he is going to leave. I felt at least five years ago my health was in jeopardy from staying with him. I told my attorneys several times this man wants me dead and hates me for no good reason. He tries to make everything in my life difficult.About a year and a half ago I filed for divorce and for exclusive use of the marital property. I told my attorney at the time that I felt I was having health problems from the stress of being with him. I even tried to get a restraining order because of his mean and strange behaviors and because I thought it was affecting my health but I didn’t have concrete proof.He And his attorney would not respond so that we could get a divorce and he would not leave the house. About sometime about early March I had the stroke was partially unable to use my right side and I couldn’t speak. But I made it very clear that he was not to take care of me. In fact even though we hadn’t spoken at all at home in weeks ( Because he twists and contort everything that I say to him) when I was in the hospital he was around me like he really cared and was touching me inappropriately with his hands down my hospital gown. He even leaned over to me whispering in my ear and putting his hand down my shirt saying, “I’m gonna get you out of here and take you home and take care of you and it’s just gonna be the two of us and the kids now we’re going to get everyone out of the house and not allow visitors and it’s just gonna be the two of us“ and he even has a girlfriend.Two nurses noticed that my blood pressure would become uncontrollable when he was around that he was more vigilant than most people are, wanting to follow me to the CT’s and other testing. Two nurses documented that I felt unsafe and it was medically necessary and would improve my recovery that he not be allowed in the hospital so I said that was OK. The two nurses observed that they thought his behavior was strange.They moved me to another bed in the ICU and he was not allowed to visit the hospital. This is a very large hospital in the area. I was in the hospital two times for greater than nine days. He wouldShow up and act so loving and devoted and watch everyone that came in my hospital room. In fact others had observed that he was inappropriately touching me but I was so tired and weak I couldn’t say anything about it. I have a GAL for the kids who made a strong statement and said that he should leave the house immediately for the psychological warfare of me and the kids however we did not get his summary statement until the day before COVID-19. shelter in place. So I had to live with all of this and recover from the stroke still with him in the house. Now the courts are opening up and hopefully we are able to get him out of here soon. He says he is never leaving. He won’t cooperate with the divorce. I will eventually have to get a court order to get him out. And oh yes he had kids with me and with his two other wives for the sole purpose of keeping us tied to him. I actually saw I My Space posting many years ago but after my children that he Didn’t want children. In short I am in misery I feel stocked in my own home and I wonder when this will end. I have recovered almost all my function and speech and I am very grateful for that. It is like living with the devil, pure hateful evil. Now I am on about nine medications I have doctors appointments once or twice every week along with Physical Therapy. And because he will not contribute to the caretaking of the home I have to continue to work full-time. Pray for me.
They are secondary psychopaths, meaning with emotions, but they are limited. They view feelings in their own way and guess who's feelings are more important? Theirs.
I think my mom is sleeping with the narc. The narc was literally banning together w/his family trying to set up me to have something done to me. My mom knows this. I have been no contact with the narc for a while now. I believe my mom was coming to my house to gather information to go back and report it to the narc. I confronted my mom about talking to the narc. I told her I asked her not to do it. She screamed and told me I could not tell her who to talk to. I will never have nothing to do with my mom again in life.
Oh God! I cant imagine how much that hurts. They work on people around you to destroy you. Know that your Mum has been greatly deceived with the manipulation, it seems pointless trying to explain it because their manipulation is so deep they wont see it. She has been worked as much as you have. I am so sorry this has happened to you. When you dont know these people exist its hard for family to see the truth. All will come to light. I had friends that were taken in...I walked away and knew I couldnt explain this evil to them. If you walk away and dont try to explain, their plan fails and the confusion and exhaustion and emotional turmoil they are attempting to create falls...and the Narc will move on...as his only intention was to cause you pain. He chose your mother as the greatest pain he could cause to you and to destroy your mother also. I did not see my closest friend since childhood for 4 years....I knew if I told her not to have no contact with him she would not see it and it would destroy me to hear her refuse that. He knew it would cause me great pain not to see her...but I did it. He could no longer work for the information he wanted. I survived and so did she...and our friendship resumed 4 years later when he was long gone and she told me how he had worked her. The lies your Mum is being told must be so great for her to do this. Know that in your heart, the deception is so deep she cannot comprehend. Your mother is your greatest bond and deepest connection...he has purposely chosen her to take you down...to destroy your belief in those you love...who else could you trust? Its a plan. Dont let it destroy you. See it for what it is and walk away from both. The sooner you do the sooner you and your Mum will be free. God Bless you sweetheart. x
Mom is the flying monkey..... shes involved right along with them to destroy you. Practice NO CONTACT and sage your house, get their negativity out of your home.
GMarie Behind The Mask Yes, I do think that she is a narc. It’s self explanatory at this point. It’s very sad and painful but I do have a life and will not let this hold me down.
The hurtful thing about all this is how my mom tries to lie about it. I could hear the lies in my mom voice. I exposed my mom and she still continues to lie about it. She probably will never tell the truth. I am not stupid I know what’s going on. I have spent alot of time putting 2 and 2 together concerning this. Everything makes sense now.
He never asked me anything about my health. I was a 'transitional' victim for 22 years... Hario, thanks for all your videos; help a lot ❤ I'm still suffering and now I'm afraid because he just separate from the "new supply" .... 😨😨
Omg...you're right about a narc always want a baby to tie you to them. I was dating a narc and after two months of knowing this man he was talking about us having a baby. I said I think not...no way. Then he started talking about moving into my house after 6 months of dating..i said no way...now I cut off the idea of relationship with this person. He was trying to set me up for grief.
I had anxiety off the charts, panic attacks, nightmares, night sweats, and memory loss. I remember he would ask me how I slept in the morning and I'd tell him I didn't sleep well - he'd ask why and I would tell him about my dreams. His response was chilling " well you know its just a dream - you need to let go of the past" The past stayed in the present because he kept doing the same thing over and over and over again. This video is spot on - pure evil - so many examples I could give - its horrifying.
After so many years of dealing with my mother and father taking advantage of my kindness and really caring about my happiness I just discovered that I have been trying to please my narcissists parents. The neglect and the emotional and physical abuse from both made me think I was the only person on this earth going through sadness and feelings of being unloved. So happy I finally woke up at age 50.
He was never my choice. He was my moms choice. She a narc too. She used me as bait and then his mom insisted we must get married. I was 18 so young. I didnt have my own mind yet. All they had to do was put pressure on me and put emotional guilt trips on me. His mom also one. Im tired of narcs.
I knew he didn’t care 3 days after we lost our daughter having to have a c section and his mom kept saying i didn’t look well while making funeral arrangements for our daughter. Went to the hospital blood pressure was high to the point of i didn’t relax and keep it down I would be hospitalized. I don’t know what the hell his mom said to him. Mind you o had her blocked bc i couldn’t rest next thing I know he was looking in his phone and 5 mins later he started yelling at me about texting his mom which i never did. Showed the text when the last time i spoke to her on text. I swear i thought i was going to die bc he was so cruel. As I’m writing this response it’s crazy you are talking about a narc wanting to have a child. It’s unfortunate but i still don’t know what’s wrong our daughter passed at 37 weeks and all i know is it’s my fault and 18 months later it’s still my fault. Idk it’s a long story with my story but i wouldn’t wish this on anyone
That's so sad, I'm so sorry to hear about that for you. My wife had a miscarriage 3 times and always blamed it on me and never cried not even once about it. While it killed me inside knowing was never going to be a father. Something I always wanted to be. Plus told me I would be the worst dad ever and called me the devil over and over again. Yet I still love her. Most be something wrong with me
My condolences so very sorry for your loss. It's not your fault. It's probably because of the stress they had you under. Sounds like you were dealing with 2 Narcs. Tag team narcs is much to much. Your not to blame its them.
Lady Ree Patton I agree i asked for peace I told them i needed to prepare for her mentally emotionally and physically to prepare for her delivery and for some reason it was always something did to him they brother or son. I literally had to block them. I know they were concerned about the baby but concern isn’t asking me questions about their son or brother relationship and then the worse happened. I’m doing the best I can to still deal with this on top of how everyone was handled. After we lost her before i knew what a narc was. I had never heard the word narcissist until i kept telling my good friend whom was guy about all the cruel emails he sent me how he would call and text it was a nightmare. My friend would say he is a narc and this is how i ended up on channels like this today. Everyone says oh you gotta get the narc out your system but it’s so hard bc after losing our daughter i saw all the mask off in the hospital. I swear i wouldn’t wish this on anyone i just want peace with myself this hurt is completely different. I never was cruel to him but i had to put my foot down and set boundaries and now after losing a baby him not his family did not like me correcting his behavior. I don’t want to say but i saw their true hearts and i can’t see to understand why they never gave me a chance especially with almost extending their family. We never talked we never talked about how when they asked for baby show stuff back we never talked about how o felt everything was a concern of him. His mom changed her number bc i called during the verbal abuse by him i let her know as mom she should be encouraging her son to not mentally hurt me and do you think she tried to fix it no she and i believe he made her change her number bc he didn’t want to be expose of all the emails etc. i have a lot of work to do and the sad part is and can’t even focus on the fact my baby isn’t here. I have a lot going on and I’m trying to fight but i know god will get me thru it. But on all honesty I’m hurt
Love you work!! Your messages are so inspiring. The narcopath is like a slow drip poison that kills you over a long period of time. The narcissist doesnt give a shit about anyone or anything but themselves. They focus all the attention and energy back on themselves..I noticed when I once called a narc guy he said 'I dont like calls' he made it all about himself didnt even try to meet me half way or call me back.. Needless to say I ghosted him after that..they never conpromise, that's one of the first signs to look for..also he sent me some creepy gifs that said 'in watching you' and I told him dont do that bc I've been stalked before..and he said oh obviously I did not mean it that way..no it's not obvious you freaking idiot!! Ugh. I called him out on those sick memes and after he started getting distant..
I was in a really bad relationship last year that messed me up mentally, spiritually, and somewhat physically, I was 21 at the time now 22... This man right here has spoke about everything that was happening with me and this girl I was dealing with, I really never knew how to handle situations like this because I was never raised on how to handle emotional pain, so I responded out of anger and frustration...My father was never a good role model and leeched off of women for. Living and use to beat my mother, and those are none off the characteristics I have. But thank God for my Mom, she’s been through hell and is still standing after all the hurt she’s been through...She’s the only women I would take advice from, not because she’s been through a lot but because she’s overcame those Trials and tribulations through healthy habits...As I began to distance myself from the girl I was dating because she “Cheated on me,” I began to become very anger and didn’t want anyone bothering me... I felt betrayed and incomplete, My mother saw that and starting sending me videos and I Stumble across this one!!! Wow my eyes are truly open sir, and I will never let anyone take advantage of me ever again nor will I Treat people with the same hurt I experience because hurt people hurt people and I realize that... 2020 BABY let’s defeat the domino effect 💪🏾🙏🏾✊🏾
I have so many to deal with it is unbelievable. I thought I was the only one with all these demons assigned to me. You are really the first person to admit that there can be more than one demonic entity surrounding you. God help us to defeat those who are trying to destroy us. In the name of Jesus. Amen. 😇🙏👣
@@vtymes1982 it was my ex narc he had beached my Instagram so people were literally gang stalking me. That was last year. They gave up when they realized that I was unmoved.
The narc in my life drove me to suicidal attempts, I used to cut myself and burn myself do a lot of self destructive things to hurt myself to find relief from the pain that he caused and he tried to even kill me when I was pregnant I almost lost my baby. 4 kids and 15 years later he is in prison but gets out in 2 years. He wants revenge because he knows that I’m on my healing journey. The lord has spared me and my children and has spared my life several times for a reason and when I’m completely healed I know I will find out that reason! This and the love for my children gives me hope because from now on I put my children and myself first and I will keep the lords gravy and mercy in my heart!
He could care less about my health..and I got sick a lot over the last few years of our marriage.. gallbladder, chronic pain, fatigue, herniated disc's and high blood pressure..until I left. Now I'm 30lbs lighter, off pain meds and only taking vitamins. I have no more anxiety, depression or panic attacks, and feel amazing. The psychological effects from the emotional abuse was making me so sick, and I didn't realize it until I left. I now feel amazing, work out, eat healthy, and my coworkers, friends and family say I've transformed. Even my skin looks better. The toxic environment when dealing with a narc is just poison. He was slowly killing me, mentally, physically and spiritually.
my now ex really terrified me. I wanted to believe in their good heart so bad. She betrayed me, lied about the smallest of things, manipulated me and even made fun of a death in my friend circle. She didn't care about anything but herself. I used to wonder why her replies were always so dry and short even during emotional moments. Once I discarded her , she developed an extensive vocabulary and was ready to communicate, was ready for therapy, now I am the only one. This is some crazy shit to deal with
Fortunately I am spiritually grounded, so he couldn't take me down. The road was rough but I kept my spiritual knee on his neck! Karma is taking it's toll now! I am in good health and strength, feeling good about myself, peaceful and happy. Thanks be to JESUS! I agree with you in another video that when they get sick you don't have to feel sorry for them. A Big Archbishop once said "when you see some people suffering, don't feel sorry for them!'' I will add that those who took their side should look after them! You take care of yourself!
The only thing positive about a Narc is them leaving. 🤬
SHO YA RIGHT 👊💯
Don't wait for them to leave . Find a way to get rid of them
Lol
and dying a slow painful death after getting beatin and eaten, by a grizzly, rototiller, pit-bulls, wolves, bowling ball on the feet, beaten like a piniada from the tree then kicked by a horse ahh haa yeeaaaaaa boieeee
Correct!
“The pain is not because you love them but from the betrayal.” You hit the nail right on the head!
I completely agree. He was trash and truly unlovable for all the shit he did. But the betrayal felt like my entire being was shattered.
FACTS ‼️ And my ex idiot would say, "but do you love me?". I'm like "hell no!" I'm not in love with being abused on every level!" Damn! Yeah, just no good piece of Shyt really.
Hell yeah.
I love it when you said, the pain goes away when you realize your not in love with them.
Omg SWEAR!!!!
right.
That is amazing and true!!
“Narcissists have an evil intent towards you”. - Truth 💯
So scary. He's a bum!!!!
@@lashawnward340what you mean?
I keep my legs closed because I am concerned about who I become attached to for life!
God is your husband
THEY ARE ALREADY DESTROYED, FROM THE INSIDE, SO THEY WANT HAPPY HEALTHY PEOPLE TO BE LIKE THEM. MISERY LOVES COMPANY. PEOPLE, WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT, IT, THESE PEOPLE ARE EMOTIONAL AND SPIRITUALLY, "DEAD",
Amen Yee's! Speak the truth. That's why they want our pain to give them life how dick and twisted is that?
ONE MORE THING, MOST OF THEM ARE BORING, ILLITERATE, AND JUST SAD, THAT'S WHY THEY "HIDE" BEHIND, MONEY, LOOKS, SO CALLED POWER, THAT THEY DON'T REALLY HAVE, AND THIER, UGLY MASK. THIER OWN CHILDREN, HATE THEM, THAT'S WHY THEY DIE ALONE.✌️
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I appreciate you. Everything you said is true. Time to move on and be happy again. Narc are crazy human being to the core.
Thank you, so much for your response, Listen, we are all in this,war, together, it's going to be alright, TRUST ME,the time has come, it's on us now.🤗🤗🤗✌️
They are some foul, manipulative, evil-beings.
To the point that it's scary knowing people like that really exist!!!
Mine stressed me out so much I now have an Interstitial Lung Disease and was on oxygen 24/7 and Unspecified Autoimmune Disease. After he moved out within 2 months I was off oxygen. They are so toxic!
YES THEY ARE AND RECKLESS TOO
@Rose Jenny When they fall they fall hard especially when life situations catch up with them.
Yes my exnarc used to call asking how I’m doing hoping I died or was sick
Yes he wanted a kid with me
He been HIV positive
Trapped me because I found the meds
and I’m not HIV positive
His ex wife died of aids because of his infidelity
He thought I was going to be dead by not
But I’m covered by the Blood of Jesus Lol
Omg... so scary... these people really don’t care about nobody except destroying people lives... glad you are okay,. Keep praying for God’s coverage!
They are so evil
He should be in jail for attempted murder! Thank G-D you dont have it.🙏
He tried to get you sick but got had you convered
Covered *
That pain of betrayal is so debilitating, it is soul crushing, it is life changing.
Yes it is .. an indescribable pain
She wants me dead .. she’s bitterly disappointed I didn’t commit suicide after the most devastating discard.
The narc is scratching her head saying why won’t this F”ker die?
BECAUSE OF GOD ALMIGHTY THATS WHY
I’m dying to meet other empaths it will be like food for the soul
I marry one 3 months ago and I need help bad
@@jamescarroway676 what's wrong
I'm an empath.
I had chest pains on n off from anxiety n gaslighting n confusion caused me chest pains n Vertigo dizziness. I also lost a lot of weight within the 6 yrs with this nephilim. After I discarded him n went No Contact the Vertigo went away. Chest pain gone n I gained 15 lbs. Got skin color back n hair grew. I'm happy n healthy again. Thank You Jesus. N yes he wanted me to have his baby when he realized I was leaving. No hoovering here. I got away.
Lunar Star good for u! 👍🏻💪🏻🙌🏻
Lunar star....OMG, I can relate with everything you say😊
@@rosebeard2866 only a person who dealt with a psychopathic narcissist can understand. My cousin who never dealt with one said ..just move on. Smh. She said I'm crazy weak low self esteem. Smh.
Yh the baby is their final chest move.
PRAISE GOD
Don't cast your pearls before swine. Narcs truly are swine.
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Positive Vibes!!! YOU ARE NOT LYING. Dealing with a narc is like being stuck in the twilight zone. RUN!!!!
Its like a spiritual slumber like that "twilight zone"
You nailed it on the head!! Yes! It’s exhausting!
😂😂😂
Yes!
True
"They always want to have a child with you...they want something to tie you to them." "You go all for the narcissist...they double cross you." 🤦🏾♀️
When my narcissist was done love bombing and I could see who he really was he got me pregnant on purpose. He removed the condom without my knowledge and we now have a son. He did this all for selfish purposes to keep me because I was grade A Supply. He wanted me on his team forever. I broke free but it was extremely hard to parent with a narcissist because they will use the child. The child as a pawn. They don't really love anyone but themselves. The child will be subject to the same abuse as the parent. The Narcissist will not change. They are harmful. Keep them away from your young impressionable children
THEY ALL END UP ALONE AND GODS WRATH WELL DESTROY THEM//JOHN 3;16
They will all be in hell for eternity...
bartakin, You understand, It's true. Thank you!
Say It
Is this really true? (I'm not Christian, but I respect all religions, I'm SIKH)
Yes he's already hear me saying I don't want to live n like wow nothing said I want to hurt him back but he's not worth it
I can’t live with this pain anymore. I’m tired.
Its ok to be tired! All of us survivors have been there! But never give up! 🙏🙏❤
Don't give up! You got this 💪
Hey..you unfortunately need to go through it....i promise you will recover..A promise. Try get out in nature...get creative...paint..also there are many people online who you must listen too. 5 years to recover from mine. Unf...ing believable what he did. But now...im.out free! Nnn met a Great Guy! The complete opposite..completely!
Same.. it's a torture 24/7 non stop, i'm stalked and isolated i can't get out of the house without that devil persecuting me, it have been 2 years of persecution and obssesion to kill me
Start planning your escape. You can't win with these people. They are damaged goods.
TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF I WAS NOT IN LOVE I WAS HELD HOSTAGE AND THEN I AWAKENED TO THE REAL TRUTH..IM HAPPY AND NOTHING WILL KILL THE SHINE OF THE HOLY SPIRIT...REMEMBER KEEP MOVING FORWARD..
Amen!
Hostage is Right! Stockhom.
Sick
Amen
Amen
He got in my mind 24/7 and I kept wondering why I didn’t love him yet thought about him. I didn’t trust him. He wanted a child ASAP.
All these people who are living with a narc can't be lying I know for myself that they are not lying
These demons are real
yep
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The narc husband tried to take me to the psychiatric hospital and threatened to call the police after he assaulted me. I was so ill from the abuse, my health failed and I could barely breathe, walk or swallow, and I was unrecognizable. Got out with the help of friends and am detoxing my body and soul. I look and feel great away from the narco path. Hoover boy is trying to return and entrap me. NO CONTACT 10 months! Great Video. Thank you 🙏
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God Bless you...They do want to see you dead. It changes you as a person. They make you think your nuts! Sorry for you pain. I hope your rebuilding your Soul! It can be done.
Renee Moncrief God is in charge. We grow in strength to move forward with greater love for others. Realizing he had problems of his own helped me separate from his false self. I pray for his healing. Thank you for your kind words of support.
Omw so sorry you went through that.
I can relate. When I left mine I couldn’t eat and I was very weak. All the life was gone out of my body. I still get depressed that the relationship was all an illusion and in the end he became physically abusive. I guess the physical abuse came because he was ready to discard me. They are such sick people it’s unbelievable. I slowly getting better
this person forced hisself into my life just to get me pregnant and leave me. he said I was just a bet, I said “you lost”
Praying for you! The same thing happened to me. Life is much better without them!
Same with me he said I gave u babies so no man will ever want you I do see the difference an my life 1 child and 3 big difference i just can't believe admitting that to me after 12 yrs
He is so tormented and unhappy he destroys everything around him including himself
I pity the fool that they pick to triangulate and do their dirty work for them. Thats the real victim.. but at the time.. they think they're getting a big prize.. theyll use her to treat you badly.. use her as a sounding board rather than go to a therapist .. she thinks she's listening to all this and learning NOT to do him wrong like he claims you did.. No.. Hes letting her know she better not step out of line by portraying you as the one that did. Its an endless hamster wheel of nothing
Something kept telling me that is the devil, turned out to be true.
Mine got me pregnant within 2 months of meeting convinced me to move to another states with him to have this wonderful life and family together. Within 6 months he turned me into a shell of myself And quickly began to abuse me mentally and physically. now I am 37 weeks pregnant and trying to put back the pieces. Thanks for these videos.
Ex Narc never cared when I was sick. I was an inconvenience and he would accuse me of faking or ruining his plans. When he was sick, he was the biggest baby.
Did you ever notice I'd you were sick they found a way to get sicker, just wanting or needing attention.
Indeed !!!
So true😳😳
Omg yes
Omg me too. He hated it when I got sick
My sister told me she stays up all night to find away to DESTROY someone's life . I want nothing to do with her. I don't want to be around her or any of them. She, he, and all of them make me sick.
Amen
That is a very sad life...must be torturing to have such a hate!!
@@christinabeita5671 if i didnt meet a narc .....i would never believe such people exist...but i am wiser now. I know now
Damn!!!
@@judahlove2975 , Please pray for me. I want to get out of here.
I started to lose sight in one eye because of stress. As soon as I got rid of the narc the eye got better again. Crazy how a mild mannered and pretty person can be such a devil.
Tanel Tarkmees I was rushed from the emergency room to have surgery during the most stressful time my Narc put me through That’s no coincidence !
I was hospitalized with bad eye infections for months ..i literally felt like I was dying ..ran to my daughters house . I'm getting better now.
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The only
The only way I can control the narcs in my life is to..call the police or threaten to.
My husband is a covert narcissist and he has never bothered about my health. One Sunday I came from church with a terrible headache but he didn't even cook for me. He blamed me for the headache.
I once had high blood pressure, we went to hospital but he felt going to hospital was a waste of his precious time.
He refused to cook for the kids when I was sick.
When he saw my protruding veins due to high blood pressure, he took off and travelled to the country side.
Narcissists are dangerous... Very dangerous.
Another narcissist told me he wants to have two kids with me,two months after our first meeting. Back to my hubby narc, true to your words I came home one evening and found the police had just left the house.
He spent two weeks in remand prison, bailed himself out.
Your pig analogy literally has me in tears 😂😂😂😂😂.
The message is so true, it took a while for me to realise that no matter how much I tried or what I did things would NEVER change. I give thanks and praise that I am no longer in that situation. People who have never gone through this type of spiritual warfare will NEVER understand how it feels. I am grateful to you and others who use their platform to spread the word about these filthy devils. Thank you 🤗
I envy people that are NOT related to these people who can just walk away. Even still, it is hard to do and trauma bonds have been established. Imagine how hard it is to have to make a decision to walk away, maybe forever, when these people are your own child that you brought into this world. It is almost soul destroying.
There is a lot of help for romantic relationships but very little for Parents dealing with narcissistic who equally abuse them (when they are old, sick, vulnerable and rely on their child) and fool and tell the world that they will have nothing to do with the parent because the parent abused THEM! This is a side of Narcissism that no-one talks about.
I've had a lady friend whose daughter was abusive. You're not alone. Learn from Hario and other life coaches. Find someone else to assist you.
And these romantic situationshits cannot be fixed. Watch this over. I certainly will. And good luck to you.
I'll never think of a narc the same way again 😂🐷
I want to add to this, you DID love the narc but the narc is unlovable. Remember they try to "proove" you don't love them and they're the virtuous loving one, not you. Everything they do that's bad they blame on you. This is what they look for. Someone to blame their shit on. It's ok to admit to yourself you loved. But know that love is not enough for them.
FACTS!!!!
Maybe we are appealing to the original..self, we are.a.threat to the.false.self...maybe the love.is appealing to that inner child,....and that beast personality is.protecting him.from.being hurt....like hes.split.
..fragmented, hes a multiple...spit balling
maybe there is beautiful soul trapped inside, who.was so.a used and.abused traumatized that this.devil is actually protecting it from more.pain a defense mechanism.to.from more hurt.and pain...Christ in you.is a threat...jes definitely a.multiple.
@@melissamac2491 this. You giving me chills Melissa lol
Narc threw me into self reflection and spiritual awareness.
I'm beginning to be at peace.
I love myself and my life way more now than I ever have.
This***** 👏🏽♥️💯🙏
Me too mine was a female I woke up saw everything about my life I was lonly sad broken she helped me more than anything I've ever felt lying sneaky women
NONE at all what so ever
He always say i have problems and needs help I'm crazy .
The narc I’m with does too
I'm familiar with this tactic. They know they are crazy but they like to blame other people for the very things that are wrong with them.
So true, that’s the language
Every single one of them says that.
yep
The one positive thing about dealing with a narcissist is that you learn the importance of self love and prioritizing your needs. You learn not to tolerate the pain and implied shame that they put you through, and me personally i have developed a mindset that will no longer allow anyone to play with me or my emotions. Sometimes these experiences are necessary, because once you realize what you need to change and do the work, you will get the life that you're looking for and it will be so worth it in the end. So to my brothers and sisters keep your heads held high and keep healing ❤️
I was in a 12 year relationship with a female covert narcissist it was a absolute nightmare to say the least, I had children with her hence why I stayed so long now she uses my kids as a weapon against me to hold onto control and continues to make me and my children suffer. They are the worst kinds of people you could imagine, stay well clear.
I agree the worst type of people to be around and fake and evil
My ex narc would tell me that I need mental health therapy.
Mine said the very same thing. And I did. I told him thank you because that's how I got the strength to leave your A**. Narc free for three years in September.
Yep. My narc once told me that I was mental.
Mine said the same thing. He even through my past abuse back in my face. I was molested as a child. I also was physically abused in pass relationships. He said because he didnt hit me he is not abusive and that I brought that trauma into our marriage and used it against him. He filed for divorce on those terms. I am going on year 2 in court fighting this demon.
That's exactly what my ex use to tell me I needed help😂😂😂😂😂
My ex narc tells me to go and apply for SSI for my mental illness lol 😂 😂😂
Hario after dealing with these kind of people you find yourself not being so nice yourself. You start wondering if you are the devil.
I feel they want you to turn into them.😩
@@sarahm2054 they do because if we lose our love, then we're like them (Satan and the demons) and we go down with them. Revelations 12-9-12, shows they have a death sentence coming up and their trying to take every one with them and to be hateful like them, then they win. God Jehovah most dominate quality is love. It's a identifying mark of true religion. Jw.org has on line Bible that's free and book. What dose the Bible really teach? Book. It will give you comfort and a solid hope now and a solid future of true happiness.
RUN OPPOSITE DIRECTIONS, DON'T LOOK BACK.
Problem is that too many people dont know. Some narcs are 10 s or beautiful on the outside while broken on the inside and they wear a MASK or mirror you. They are master manipulators
Statistics show over half of marriages fail and there is a real possibility that a empath may get involved with a new narcissist or broken person
Kkkk indeed
Ha ha ha a a yeah
When you can laugh about the evil they do that's how you no your overcoming them,he is very right!
Exactly 100% true. The pain IS from the betrayal.
the positive thing about a narcissist is that they are not a hard act to follow when you are free. Anybody who's normal is worth the interview 😂 😂 Wales UK
YESSSSSS 🤗💋
😁😉💯 But we still have to keep our standard high... i hear u girlfriend✌🙏
SHO ya Right 💯💋
It's like the movie devil's advocate how they treat us.
Trifling trash
yaaas i been ssying that years ago i just never knew people called those typeof people narcs. but that movie clearly describes what they are and what they do.very scary but real
Witchcraft work along with ancestor-worship,run to Jehovah!
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My situationship in the beginning with the Narc started out with 21 positives things I liked. But soon to my chagrin I was mortified to end up with 51 NEGATIVE and awful things I disliked about that individual. One being my blood pressure was always high and all over the place ... which he would ask about. That PIG is gone, my blood pressure is normal (120/80) and my love for ME is in full swing🌷
I have never broke out often and if I did it would be a pimple or two. The last 7 months of the relationship I started noticing I had consistent break outs all over my face from stress. I left and I’ve been 4 1/2 months no contact and my skin is just now starting to clear up and get back to normal. I knew it was because of him and what he was doing to me, my body was reacting.
@@Divine_Healing_Love my hair fell out!
@@Divine_Healing_Love he would kiss me in my facae knowing i hated it and i would always break out then we would get angry and said i said his mouth wS dirty... it wasnt that at all it was just my face is sensitive
You are not in love. The pain is from the betrayal. This is such an eye opener! Love the way you are teaching!!!
This makes sense! I went from having 5 day normal periods to 9 day periods accompanied by flu-like symptoms every month! I got all the way down to 87 lbs! I was scared to say anything anywhere because it felt like he could hear me no matter where I was. I told my mother that I felt like dying and she became concerned because my motto has always been that I love to breathe and that breathing feels good. He couldn’t be happy for me in ANY endeavor that I undertook. ALWAYS had a put-down handy for me and if he even thought I was happy about something, he didn’t let the day end with me remaining happy. Hell, he could find a way to fight with me 5 minutes after the once a month sex ration (that he was trying to control me with). He just wants to be miserable and he hated the fact that I refused to be distraught no matter what lemons life threw at me or the ones he tried to throw at me too. I’ve watched more than a few of Mr. @Hario Ovadtop ‘s videos and he hasn’t said one lie. He is like a loving big brother. A lot of what he is saying I figured out after the person was deported halfway around the world. I can not imagine being in the same country or city with a narc! I had to finally realized that I did not love a real person but instead I had loved a mirage. He is right, you won’t let another person do you as bad as that narc did you. I have almost 12 years not talking to someone else because the thought alone is frightening sometimes....🥺
The narc I dealt with told me she was recovering from throat cancer as a ploy to gain sympathy and supply but had zero medical problems.
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There is a danger that an empath may continue to attract or re-atteact or may get involved with another narcissist or Cluster B disorder person or another person with mental personality dysfunctions unless the empath recognizes that possibility.
Socrates said know thyself. Whatever is drawing you to a narcissist or drawing them to you must be corrected.
Recognize that you do not have to solve other people's problems. OPP. What was it in the empaths background or childhood that causes the empath to try to solve other people's problems instead of being attracted to a whole complete person who will uplift the empath instead of pulling the empath down or using the empath.
Why is the empath codependent?
Recognizing an issue is step one to confronting the issue and overcoming it. Some empaths had childhoods where they had to be the adult and take care of their parent and then they get involved with someone they have to take care of.
Break the cycle.
Heal yourself
Stop thinking about the narcissist
Put a rubber bank on your wrist and pull the band - snap- ouch everytime you think about that person. Adversive conditioning works.
It is entirely possible that you may get involved with a new BROKEN person unless you fix yourself.
Affirmations. You control your future. You can change. Tip---> people rushing a sexual relationship may not be operating on a high level but instead a low vibration level. Seek the higher vibration people.
Narcs are MANIPULATORS and Jezebels or the male equivalent if male.
Seek the ^*^ higher love ^*^ like the song
Very well said👏👏
they did and now im a ghost ,not seen or heard
I have been there and then they come out of nowhere and ask how come you didn't answer them or called them. It's confusing and makes you go crazy. Like if your a joker character or something like that. I know what you are going through
YOU ARE NOT ALONE FELIX. YOUR 'PERSONALLY PERCEIVED' INVISIBILITY IS THE ESSENCE OF THE NARC'S GOAL. EVEN SO, WE SEE YOU...THEREFORE, YOUR ARE REAL AND HAVE VALUE THAT THE ENTIRE WORLD NEEDS AND WANTS! PLEASE STAY STRONG. I WILL TOO.
~Ace
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@@bayryderradio1166 thanks for your kind words,i will try to read these words every day thanks brother from australia
Wow the Holy Spirit is working u are right on key.. I’m from Los Angeles !
There is a difference between loving someone but not IN Love with them. A friend pointed that out. Helped me Spiritually.
Big difference!!!
I agree with everything you said. I'm going through it. At the point I'm watching him suffer. No job, on drugs, no place to stay but God told me I can't let him back in. He chose to be and stay on the wrong side. I obey my heavenly father and love him and my assignments for the kingdom of heaven. Pray for me. My name Sherry. I'm in Oklahoma. Shalom Family
Your talking about narc ology unscripted. He’s dope my 1st channel i found and the you come up. I’m thankful for you all... it helped me a lot
Love his videos
Yeah, Dave is wonderful! The first channel I found too!
Yes!!! I must have my coffee ☕️ every morning with Dave!!
I'll just pray. These Narcs are everywhere
Yes indeed!!!
This was years ago, during our get to know eachother with a narcissist. I was sick ended up in a hospital, he calls and he showed up in the ER as if he really cared. Looking back on it what they do is play the caring role pretending to care about you. I felt like I didn't like him that much when he was coming after me, but his constant and showing to prove had paid off, I guess. Smh Never ignore your intuitions at the first meeting, your Spirit will tell you to watch out for that kind of person. You know, when you kiss someone and see stars and butterflies in your stomach? We think we fallen in love but that's also a "Warning sign" because love shouldn't make you feel this, love should come with Peace and a positive feeling not to make you feel sickly. Great video 👑!
My experience with a narc partner was in 2019
I finally started losing weight, stopped eating my feeling choose to be healthier. She was used to me being chubby and insecure about it.
One day she asked me if I think I have an eating disorder (because I no longer over eat was the reality), it was something that she was learning about in school and as she learned about it she would think about me
Fast forward me taking what she said into account, I started over eating because I didn’t want anyone to think that
I’ve been watching your videos and I’m regaining my sanity back furthermore. I was legit going mad and I thought it was all me after being perfectly convinced. The narcs death happens when the supply starts to find the light within and that takes a whole lot of strength.
If it walks like a duck, quacks like a duck it might be a Fox and that’s how I feel about them
Yes, evil! On the way to the hospital for chest pain, the narcissist asked me if he could stop and get a hamburger because he was hungry!!!! And yes the pain goes away when you don't love them anymore.
He definitely purposely got me pregnant. I remember one time he grabbed me by my collar and accused me of being on birth control. The crazy thing is I really SHOULD have been on birth control. But I wasn't wise enough yet. And eventually his evil plan of trapping me with a baby worked. Too bad his plan ultimately failed after many many years. He's suffering now. I know he's wishing he could've been just a regular person. Too bad he couldn't...
Can i ask how r u coping having a kid with him.. Communication wise etc?
@@toyaolli3779 well I guess you could say I survived. I was only able to cope because of my loving family and friends. Unfortunately I married the guy 19 years ago. I'm still married but finally separated. It's been sooo hard but I survived. All along I knew things weren't right but I didn't put all the pieces together until the last few years when I finally discovered what narcissism actually is. I think my advice for you would be if you're not married to this person definitely don't do it. You can at least have peace in your own home.
@@jtag9807 thanks luv..stay strong.
In the end of the day you have to cut your losses (if you already haven't) and move forward. Educate your self on NPD and "stay" 100% true No Contact! Let God do what God does and let that be that! 😐
Hi are you single?
@@cherrydiva1 yes! Are you?🥰
@@Erik7prc yes lol let's be friends
@@cherrydiva1 no! You're my internet girlfriend now. Tell everybody you're spoken for now! Lol
ErikisOfficial‼ haha! As long as you’re not a narc. 👍🏾
Last year I was in the hospital for three days and he never showed up. I found out later on that he was cheating on me with his new supply.
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You right when you say they give you health problems. They will get a life Insurance policy quick.
Its so hard to believe, we dont want to call the person what it is, evil.
You summarized 23 years of my marriage in 33 minutes and 7 Seconds!😞
Five months in, I peeped the game and was out! He didn't get a chance to do any damage..#praying woman
Congrats! Discernment is everything! I stayed way too long but God helped me to ease my head out of the Lion's mouth & I have no ties so I never have to look back!
@@kikib7310 Well Celebrating you! Usually Lions Devour Their Pray....
Good for you. I encountered one of my narc 23 years ago. I didn’t know he was a narc back then. He used me, devalued me and discarded me. For 18 years he hovered. I blocked him and ignored. I changed my phone number, he called my job, he sent message on Facebook. I made the mistake of engaging with him. Next thing I knew he was back in my life. He told me his wife just left him and she was so horrible to him, blah, blah. I felt uneasy with him the entire time. It was the Holy Spirit warning me. He started with love bombing, devaluing, then he discarded me. I was so relieved and happy when that happened. I said okay. Then he came back a month later acting like we were still together, I told him no. A couple months later, he came back asking to come visit me and spend my birthday with me. I told him no. He came back again 2 months later wanted to visit me. I finally blocked him. Now I know about narcissist so I am on to him. I am working on healing myself and building myself up. I hope to become a life coach, so I can help others.
@@bee12355 Wow! I thank God for discernment...I never really felt comfortable with him anyway...Way too controlling for me...an authority on everything with nothing to show for it...i was kind of embarrassed that I dated him. So, leaving him alone was easy....No Lost for Me!
@@bee12355 I pray you move forward in a powerful and an impactful...make your journey worth the travel! #blessings
Holy crap!! Mine used to ask me all the time about my blood pressure, and when I brought it down to a more normal level, she seemed shocked and really disappointed. Real talk
May I say yikes and woe to her soul for real such a shame we could be loving and growing out here but they live to ruin and destroy like sigh such a shame im glad your ok though forget that creepette..they really are the real creeps like really really
Your right.. They come cannons loaded, lol.. He would yell so much.. I had so much anxiety!!!
Not only does a narcissist have no concern for their former spouse's health, they flee when there is any sign of illness in any person.
Yes my ex narc always like chaos. His family too. I used to say you know a relationship can work without drama. He was such a horrible person. Currently no contact and plan on staying that way. They don't change, he just got worse and never took accountability for anything. He definitely tried to destroy me, but he didn't and couldn't, he didn't knownI am way more resilient then he anticipated. Got rid of Facebook and changed my number! Yes the youtube videos are a great help in healing😊
Yes Indeed!!
Wow! My narcissist always cooked for me. Did he put something in my food? They are destroyers, trash, evil, the devil's brother at 70 years of age.
Wouldn't doubt it there every were opportunist strategy
Same here. He cooked for me and some other demons I was around had access to my food too. I started experiencing health and other problems like never before. I know for sure that those on the job really want me dead/destroyed. I hear so many things that resonate with me and my experiences with these demons in what you are saying and what others are sharing. At first when I learned something was off I didn't know anyone who could understand what I was going through. Thanks for all you do to help me. It is like you are reading my mind in this video. God bless you! I am more than a conqueror in Christ Jesus. ❤🙏👣👑😇🌟💎⚘🎁🎯
My ex narc was an addict - cocaine, sex, alcohol. He tried to corrupt me with his addictions. Plus he loved to stay up all night long all the time...I have just started to regain my sleep lost. I think he enjoyed destroying my health...then it was my soul by the way the betrayal and discard happened. So yes they like to destroy.
So is my nex he lives for cocaine, alcohol & sex! That shit was so draining & in the way! Always broke, scheming, plotting, never able to sleep, talking thru clitched teeth, in & out the door all times of the night, arguing, screaming, etc! What a sad existence! O happy day since I put his Ass Out over 2 yrs ago! I can finally BREATH!
My ex~narc... Drugs of choice are cocaine, pills, alcohol and weed...also stayed up all night
Forgot to mention sex
NarcEX has NEVER shown any concern about my health or well being.
They believe their own lies,yes I thought I was in love only to find out I was in it alone..
We were in love they were in business!!!!
Thank You For Sharing
The Narcissists Throughout The Years
I Was In A Relationship With Him He Has Destroyed
My Self -Worth My Self Esteem I Second Guess Myself This Person Did A Job On Me.
I Have Short Memory Loss I Have Tinnitus
Anxiety And Severe Depression.
These Are Very Sick.And InCredibly EVIL.Ppl
Speak life into yourself QUEEN YOU ARE STILL HERE TURN THE NEGATIVE INTO A POSITIVE. I been through that for years lost years of my life to a stagnant relationship. But I have the POWER TO DO POSITIVE THINGS WITH MY TIME. Went back to school got two degrees and about to start Law School. I’m 41 years old and your Ladder shall be Greater than the former. YOU WIN I PROMISE IM A LIVING TESTIMONY. ❤️💯💫💪🏽
Tina Robinson Thank You
So InCredibly Much🙏😢
Go no contact!!! Stay no contact...FOCUS ON GOD HE BRINGS WITH HIM HEALING!!! I PROMISE!!!
Everything you say when describing a Narcissist is just so true, you given me confirmation, belief in myself and most importantly my sanity. Thank you 🙂
Yes what you're saying is true. I married my Narc late in life. I was 52 and he was 54.. all of the chaos. My blood pressure three times in one month.. 204/107- they kept me in the hospital I was threatening a stroke.. I've been married to him for 11 years.. I've been separated from him for 9 and 1/2 years or otherwise he would have killed me.. now my life is much richer.. I go on cruises. I go out of state to visit friends.. I'm living my life and enjoying it ♥️😍
They truly want to destroy you. My Narc ex husband contacted me two years after separation to ask me how I was doing emotionally. I thought that it was strange of him to ask that question. I told him that I was doing great. Never let them see or hear you sweat. He called to apologize, get me back and to move with him out of state(Texas). I told him No. I knew that he was just going to try to mess my life up again.
Walking away was the best thing that I did. He is very manipulative and destructive. Everytime that things were going good, he would single handedly destroy it. I am so much better and enjoying my new successful life and the alimony. 😂🤗
Now that I have an true understanding of what a narcissist is, when I look back, I realize that I am a magnet for them. Every single person I've ever been with showed all of the traits. It is truly sad because the reality of it is that I've never truly been in love. I've only been in love with the masks. Not only have I been able to identify them in past relationships but also within my own family. My mother being one of them. I never understood why she acts the way she does but these videos along with other research that I've done, I have a crystal clear understanding now.
No he never cared about my health whatsoever. He was quick to say I needed a psychiatrist. But now I be knowing he was projecting cuZ the was only crazy one.
You are freeing me. I've been drowning, thinking my narc would be the one to pull me up, but now realizing that she is the reason that I'm even under water.
Yeah, it's strange... my ex narc ask me about going to the hospital a couple of times. She got mad at me when I told her that she shouldn't be worry about my health. That I am sure that I am healthier than her. Cuz she was always going to the hospital over some a little health scared moment. I just realized that the whole time that someone was afraid of karma.
What was the health scare?
I recently had a stroke due to the stress of marriage to
him - a narcissist. I am a relatively young woman who woke up one day without the use of my right side and my speech was gone. I am a physician. Everyone that knows about the situation says that it is because of dealing with him in the house led to the stroke. Additionally, stress of this divorce living in the house with him is unbearable, so many mind games.It is like living with pure evil. My children between 14 and 17 years of age do not like him. Their own biological father and ask me frequently when he is going to leave. I felt at least five years ago my health was in jeopardy from staying with him. I told my attorneys several times this man wants me dead and hates me for no good reason. He tries to make everything in my life difficult.About a year and a half ago I filed for divorce and for exclusive use of the marital property. I told my attorney at the time that I felt I was having health problems from the stress of being with him. I even tried to get a restraining order because of his mean and strange behaviors and because I thought it was affecting my health but I didn’t have concrete proof.He And his attorney would not respond so that we could get a divorce and he would not leave the house. About sometime about early March I had the stroke was partially unable to use my right side and I couldn’t speak. But I made it very clear that he was not to take care of me. In fact even though we hadn’t spoken at all at home in weeks ( Because he twists and contort everything that I say to him) when I was in the hospital he was around me like he really cared and was touching me inappropriately with his hands down my hospital gown. He even leaned over to me whispering in my ear and putting his hand down my shirt saying, “I’m gonna get you out of here and take you home and take care of you and it’s just gonna be the two of us and the kids now we’re going to get everyone out of the house and not allow visitors and it’s just gonna be the two of us“ and he even has a girlfriend.Two nurses noticed that my blood pressure would become uncontrollable when he was around that he was more vigilant than most people are, wanting to follow me to the CT’s and other testing. Two nurses documented that I felt unsafe and it was medically necessary and would improve my recovery that he not be allowed in the hospital so I said that was OK. The two nurses observed that they thought his behavior was strange.They moved me to another bed in the ICU and he was not allowed to visit the hospital. This is a very large hospital in the area. I was in the hospital two times for greater than nine days. He wouldShow up and act so loving and devoted and watch everyone that came in my hospital room. In fact others had observed that he was inappropriately touching me but I was so tired and weak I couldn’t say anything about it. I have a GAL for the kids who made a strong statement and said that he should leave the house immediately for the psychological warfare of me and the kids however we did not get his summary statement until the day before COVID-19. shelter in place. So I had to live with all of this and recover from the stroke still with him in the house. Now the courts are opening up and hopefully we are able to get him out of here soon. He says he is never leaving. He won’t cooperate with the divorce. I will eventually have to get a court order to get him out. And oh yes he had kids with me and with his two other wives for the sole purpose of keeping us tied to him. I actually saw I My Space posting many years ago but after my children that he Didn’t want children. In short I am in misery I feel stocked in my own home and I wonder when this will end. I have recovered almost all my function and speech and I am very grateful for that. It is like living with the devil, pure hateful evil. Now I am on about nine medications I have doctors appointments once or twice every week along with Physical Therapy. And because he will not contribute to the caretaking of the home I have to continue to work full-time. Pray for me.
I hope you have left him, I’m praying for you .
They are secondary psychopaths, meaning with emotions, but they are limited. They view feelings in their own way and guess who's feelings are more important? Theirs.
I think my mom is sleeping with the narc. The narc was literally banning together w/his family trying to set up me to have something done to me. My mom knows this. I have been no contact with the narc for a while now. I believe my mom was coming to my house to gather information to go back and report it to the narc. I confronted my mom about talking to the narc. I told her I asked her not to do it. She screamed and told me I could not tell her who to talk to. I will never have nothing to do with my mom again in life.
Oh God! I cant imagine how much that hurts. They work on people around you to destroy you. Know that your Mum has been greatly deceived with the manipulation, it seems pointless trying to explain it because their manipulation is so deep they wont see it. She has been worked as much as you have. I am so sorry this has happened to you. When you dont know these people exist its hard for family to see the truth. All will come to light. I had friends that were taken in...I walked away and knew I couldnt explain this evil to them. If you walk away and dont try to explain, their plan fails and the confusion and exhaustion and emotional turmoil they are attempting to create falls...and the Narc will move on...as his only intention was to cause you pain. He chose your mother as the greatest pain he could cause to you and to destroy your mother also. I did not see my closest friend since childhood for 4 years....I knew if I told her not to have no contact with him she would not see it and it would destroy me to hear her refuse that. He knew it would cause me great pain not to see her...but I did it. He could no longer work for the information he wanted. I survived and so did she...and our friendship resumed 4 years later when he was long gone and she told me how he had worked her. The lies your Mum is being told must be so great for her to do this. Know that in your heart, the deception is so deep she cannot comprehend. Your mother is your greatest bond and deepest connection...he has purposely chosen her to take you down...to destroy your belief in those you love...who else could you trust? Its a plan. Dont let it destroy you. See it for what it is and walk away from both. The sooner you do the sooner you and your Mum will be free. God Bless you sweetheart. x
Mom is the flying monkey..... shes involved right along with them to destroy you. Practice NO CONTACT and sage your house, get their negativity out of your home.
She may also be a Narc sad to say
GMarie Behind The Mask Yes, I do think that she is a narc. It’s self explanatory at this point. It’s very sad and painful but I do have a life and will not let this hold me down.
The hurtful thing about all this is how my mom tries to lie about it. I could hear the lies in my mom voice. I exposed my mom and she still continues to lie about it. She probably will never tell the truth. I am not stupid I know what’s going on. I have spent alot of time putting 2 and 2 together concerning this. Everything makes sense now.
Too much damaged done to many innocent children because I didn't know better!
He never asked me anything about my health. I was a 'transitional' victim for 22 years... Hario, thanks for all your videos; help a lot ❤ I'm still suffering and now I'm afraid because he just separate from the "new supply" .... 😨😨
Praise God for this immense Network... we didn’t have this back in the 90”s people heed to these warnings!
Omg...you're right about a narc always want a baby to tie you to them. I was dating a narc and after two months of knowing this man he was talking about us having a baby. I said I think not...no way. Then he started talking about moving into my house after 6 months of dating..i said no way...now I cut off the idea of relationship with this person. He was trying to set me up for grief.
MY SUCCESS IS REALLY AND HONESTLY MY PEACE.
I had anxiety off the charts, panic attacks, nightmares, night sweats, and memory loss. I remember he would ask me how I slept in the morning and I'd tell him I didn't sleep well - he'd ask why and I would tell him about my dreams. His response was chilling " well you know its just a dream - you need to let go of the past" The past stayed in the present because he kept doing the same thing over and over and over again. This video is spot on - pure evil - so many examples I could give - its horrifying.
🎯That pig made me seriously physically and mentally sick.
After so many years of dealing with my mother and father taking advantage of my kindness and really caring about my happiness I just discovered that I have been trying to please my narcissists parents. The neglect and the emotional and physical abuse from both made me think I was the only person on this earth going through sadness and feelings of being unloved. So happy I finally woke up at age 50.
I loved the point in which if you do not have trust, you do not have true love. I have high blood pressure because of the NARCISSIST.
He was never my choice. He was my moms choice. She a narc too. She used me as bait and then his mom insisted we must get married. I was 18 so young. I didnt have my own mind yet. All they had to do was put pressure on me and put emotional guilt trips on me. His mom also one. Im tired of narcs.
I knew he didn’t care 3 days after we lost our daughter having to have a c section and his mom kept saying i didn’t look well while making funeral arrangements for our daughter. Went to the hospital blood pressure was high to the point of i didn’t relax and keep it down I would be hospitalized. I don’t know what the hell his mom said to him. Mind you o had her blocked bc i couldn’t rest next thing I know he was looking in his phone and 5 mins later he started yelling at me about texting his mom which i never did. Showed the text when the last time i spoke to her on text. I swear i thought i was going to die bc he was so cruel. As I’m writing this response it’s crazy you are talking about a narc wanting to have a child. It’s unfortunate but i still don’t know what’s wrong our daughter passed at 37 weeks and all i know is it’s my fault and 18 months later it’s still my fault. Idk it’s a long story with my story but i wouldn’t wish this on anyone
My condolences to you.. It sucks how ppl like this even exist😒 Stay strong u got this 💪
That's so sad, I'm so sorry to hear about that for you. My wife had a miscarriage 3 times and always blamed it on me and never cried not even once about it. While it killed me inside knowing was never going to be a father. Something I always wanted to be. Plus told me I would be the worst dad ever and called me the devil over and over again. Yet I still love her. Most be something wrong with me
It's not your fault. My condolences.
My condolences so very sorry for your loss. It's not your fault. It's probably because of the stress they had you under. Sounds like you were dealing with 2 Narcs. Tag team narcs is much to much. Your not to blame its them.
Lady Ree Patton I agree i asked for peace I told them i needed to prepare for her mentally emotionally and physically to prepare for her delivery and for some reason it was always something did to him they brother or son. I literally had to block them. I know they were concerned about the baby but concern isn’t asking me questions about their son or brother relationship and then the worse happened. I’m doing the best I can to still deal with this on top of how everyone was handled. After we lost her before i knew what a narc was. I had never heard the word narcissist until i kept telling my good friend whom was guy about all the cruel emails he sent me how he would call and text it was a nightmare. My friend would say he is a narc and this is how i ended up on channels like this today. Everyone says oh you gotta get the narc out your system but it’s so hard bc after losing our daughter i saw all the mask off in the hospital. I swear i wouldn’t wish this on anyone i just want peace with myself this hurt is completely different. I never was cruel to him but i had to put my foot down and set boundaries and now after losing a baby him not his family did not like me correcting his behavior. I don’t want to say but i saw their true hearts and i can’t see to understand why they never gave me a chance especially with almost extending their family. We never talked we never talked about how when they asked for baby show stuff back we never talked about how o felt everything was a concern of him. His mom changed her number bc i called during the verbal abuse by him i let her know as mom she should be encouraging her son to not mentally hurt me and do you think she tried to fix it no she and i believe he made her change her number bc he didn’t want to be expose of all the emails etc. i have a lot of work to do and the sad part is and can’t even focus on the fact my baby isn’t here. I have a lot going on and I’m trying to fight but i know god will get me thru it. But on all honesty I’m hurt
Love you work!! Your messages are so inspiring. The narcopath is like a slow drip poison that kills you over a long period of time. The narcissist doesnt give a shit about anyone or anything but themselves. They focus all the attention and energy back on themselves..I noticed when I once called a narc guy he said 'I dont like calls' he made it all about himself didnt even try to meet me half way or call me back..
Needless to say I ghosted him after that..they never conpromise, that's one of the first signs to look for..also he sent me some creepy gifs that said 'in watching you' and I told him dont do that bc I've been stalked before..and he said oh obviously I did not mean it that way..no it's not obvious you freaking idiot!! Ugh. I called him out on those sick memes and after he started getting distant..
Creepy mines would send me pictures of myself that I never knew he took...creepy
I was in a really bad relationship last year that messed me up mentally, spiritually, and somewhat physically, I was 21 at the time now 22... This man right here has spoke about everything that was happening with me and this girl I was dealing with, I really never knew how to handle situations like this because I was never raised on how to handle emotional pain, so I responded out of anger and frustration...My father was never a good role model and leeched off of women for. Living and use to beat my mother, and those are none off the characteristics I have. But thank God for my Mom, she’s been through hell and is still standing after all the hurt she’s been through...She’s the only women I would take advice from, not because she’s been through a lot but because she’s overcame those Trials and tribulations through healthy habits...As I began to distance myself from the girl I was dating because she “Cheated on me,” I began to become very anger and didn’t want anyone bothering me... I felt betrayed and incomplete, My mother saw that and starting sending me videos and I Stumble across this one!!! Wow my eyes are truly open sir, and I will never let anyone take advantage of me ever again nor will I Treat people with the same hurt I experience because hurt people hurt people and I realize that... 2020 BABY let’s defeat the domino effect 💪🏾🙏🏾✊🏾
After 2 years..I have no Proof...Pure Evil in the Flesh....true Story. ..I have no Remorse...thank you for the Affirmations. ....
I had a whole team of narcs on my back. And they are a joke to me. They don’t change how I feel about me.
Same here
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I have so many to deal with it is unbelievable. I thought I was the only one with all these demons assigned to me. You are really the first person to admit that there can be more than one demonic entity surrounding you. God help us to defeat those who are trying to destroy us. In the name of Jesus. Amen. 😇🙏👣
@@vtymes1982 it was my ex narc he had beached my Instagram so people were literally gang stalking me. That was last year. They gave up when they realized that I was unmoved.
The narc in my life drove me to suicidal attempts, I used to cut myself and burn myself do a lot of self destructive things to hurt myself to find relief from the pain that he caused and he tried to even kill me when I was pregnant I almost lost my baby. 4 kids and 15 years later he is in prison but gets out in 2 years. He wants revenge because he knows that I’m on my healing journey. The lord has spared me and my children and has spared my life several times for a reason and when I’m completely healed I know I will find out that reason! This and the love for my children gives me hope because from now on I put my children and myself first and I will keep the lords gravy and mercy in my heart!
He could care less about my health..and I got sick a lot over the last few years of our marriage.. gallbladder, chronic pain, fatigue, herniated disc's and high blood pressure..until I left. Now I'm 30lbs lighter, off pain meds and only taking vitamins. I have no more anxiety, depression or panic attacks, and feel amazing. The psychological effects from the emotional abuse was making me so sick, and I didn't realize it until I left. I now feel amazing, work out, eat healthy, and my coworkers, friends and family say I've transformed. Even my skin looks better. The toxic environment when dealing with a narc is just poison. He was slowly killing me, mentally, physically and spiritually.
my now ex really terrified me. I wanted to believe in their good heart so bad. She betrayed me, lied about the smallest of things, manipulated me and even made fun of a death in my friend circle. She didn't care about anything but herself. I used to wonder why her replies were always so dry and short even during emotional moments.
Once I discarded her , she developed an extensive vocabulary and was ready to communicate, was ready for therapy, now I am the only one. This is some crazy shit to deal with
Fortunately I am spiritually grounded, so he couldn't take me down. The road was rough but I kept my spiritual knee on his neck! Karma is taking it's toll now! I am in good health and strength, feeling good about myself, peaceful and happy. Thanks be to JESUS! I agree with you in another video that when they get sick you don't have to feel sorry for them. A Big Archbishop once said "when you see some people suffering, don't feel sorry for them!'' I will add that those who took their side should look after them! You take care of yourself!
Omg yesssss he kept trying to have a baby with me he’s still contacting me to have a baby your girl is strong NO CONTACT