love this - everyone could use a good reminder that showing up at an airport in PJs is ridiculous and staying positive and kind to your traveling companion and to staff is key.
Working at the airport inspired me to be stylish more often. Whatever season it was, the airprt was where i would frequently see men dressed up. Whenever I fly somewhere, I always wear a full suit and tie.
Always wear a blazer. If you have problems or issues, are wearing a blazer, and act pleasant, you will be cared for and received the best possible outcome. Sad to say, but it’s reality.
Totally agree with leather shoes. Staff will at least pay attention and give you a hearing. My only disagreement is about helping anyone with luggage in and out of the overhead. I will let women and elderly go first, answer questions, pull big bags off the carousel, etc. I will not be an enabler for more carry on luggage. If you cannot put it in the overhead, check it! Once I retired, I always check my luggage and have a small bag that fits under the seat. I never use overhead space. The process works fine. If you want to carry on a big rolling bag, whether you are Emma Roberts or Chris Hemsworth, Vaya con Dios. You are on your own. FYI, note that flight attendants never assist anyone with a bag. They either point to an empty space in the overhead or point to the front where you can check your bag.
Absolutely, a dark blue blazer, pinpoint oxford button down shirt (white or blue)/ fine gauge polo in a bright color, light/dark grey or sand pants (dress chinos pressed) and loafers / driving mocs are my traveling uniform even for business. I have regularly received enhanced customer service at airports. Recently I was traveling internationally in the above wardrobe with the addition of sunglasses which I had to wear due to a recent eye exam. I am a frequent air traveler (business class). From check-in to boarding I was treated like royalty. My seating was upgraded to first without using my points. I will make one additional suggestion wear a good quality cologne. My nieces bought me a bottle of a very expensive men's cologne for my birthday. I wanted to reserve wearing it for special occasions but since this was a very important business flight I chose to wear it. While checking in at my gate a two attractive women were right beside me and I asked the gate attendant to let them check in first. One commented to the gate attendant; "if gentlemen like that fly your airline "ll become a frequent flier." After boarding one of the flight attendants approached me and said "Pardon me sir may I ask you a personal question?" With a cautious quizzical look I nodded. The flight attendant continued; "May I ask what is the cologne you are wearing". My first thought was my fragrance was causing an allergic reaction so my reply was "Is there a problem?," The flight attendant smiled and said "No, but several other passengers have mentioned how clean and fresh the cabin smells and want to know what we use."
Thank you for your video series. I am 54 now. When I was in my early 20s I aimed to be a Gentleman. Over the years I have let the outer standards slip. (But not the inner attitudes of the Gentleman. I still have those, and in a more mature form.) These videos are a wake up call to smarten up and re-invigorate the externals of being a Gentleman as I slip into my silver fox years.
I'm in my mid-50s and I believe one can never be too old for style tips. I remember flying in the 1970s as a boy on legendary airlines such as PanAm, Eastern, TWA, when there was no such thing as a "flight attendant" (they were "stewardesses" and all were glamorous) and people dressed up to fly. Of course, back then there were not the long waits and security like now, and you had to have a bit of money to travel, so it was a different experience. This summer I will be taking two international business trips with one side pleasure trip. Mindset is so important when traveling, especially long distances. Thank you for the tips.
Travel attire is always a button down shirt , nice slacks , stylish shoes and a blazer. Overseas trips are my time to splurge and I see the travel element as part of the whole vacation experience so always fly business /1st and always get to the airport early enough to spend a decent amount of time in the lounge , having a glass of bubbly and a meal before leisurely boarding . Not having to rush makes such a difference in ones stress levels, you dont become one sweaty mess from having to run/rush .Ones dress, manner, ettiquet and behavior definitely sets one apart as a gentlemen from the rest of the traveling masses . I have frequently been given upgrades because of it (as there has been no other reason for the upgrade) . Off to Italy and London for 10 days in September.
The best guidance here is to be kind. Even to people who are not. It makes a huge difference to your own experience, people usually response very well, and in turn makes your own experience even better.
I'd love if you could do a video on the internal dialogue/mindset of a gentleman? So many people nowadays - including myself sometimes - get carried away with the polarisation online or in an inflamed environment situation, but I see some men who don't seem to get involved or remain calm regardless of the influence that surrounds them which is really impressive. I'm curious to know how they remain grounded. Love your channel ❤ ❤
That’s a great suggestion. Thank you. Often, there is a difference between internal dialogue and what we say to others, and controlling that difference is important for being a gentleman.
While we should always strive to be gentlemen,without any expectation of reward,or even reciprocity,the people in the aviation industry will truly take good care of you,if you present yourself well.
i also find a blazer super convenient. try accessing your trouser pockets while in your plane seat. also: skip the braces/suspenders. I've been asked to take them off a few times
Today you earned my subscription, I saw the video when you were used to be a Gothic dresser and how you turned it around completely. That was actually amazing because it shows that if you really wanna make a changed, it can be a dramatic change and I agreed with every point that you made on how people treat you how they view you and now look at you you dress amazing.
Footwear - slip on driving shoes. Clothes - flat front khakis, polo shirt and a quarter zip merino wool pullover, to deal with onboard temperature variations.
Your travelling recommendations are so helpful! I remember our charming father herding our large family through the airports of Miami and New York City, always making sure that he had our tickets passports ready. Meanwhile, our mother made sure we were all dressed and polished, looking our Sunday best! Those were days when the airline stewardesses were like glamorous fashion models.The pilots and co-pilots were equally glamorous and handsome! Travelling by plane was an exciting experience in the 50’s, 60’s and 70’s!
Ok gotta disagree here, the cream suit goes pretty hard, but best suit of the franchise without a doubt is Craig's navy three piece from the ending of Casino Royale.
Another brilliant video, James. The best way to start or end a vacation trip is to be kind and courteous. After all, TSA agents can simply make your life miserable. Don't be that type of person. Respect goes a long way.
I always wear a sports jacket or suit when travelling. Like you, I find the pockets invaluable. And if you are on business and thus need a suit, it will wear better on you than jammed into a suitcase. While waiting in line at security, I fill the jacket pockets with my watch, coins and any other metallic accessories, then lay my jacket in the bin while going through the metal detector. And yes, I believe it helps to be dressed decently when dealing with any airport problems and when checking into your hotel. The only downside is all the porters and taxi vultures who flock around, thinking you are a plump mark. But I just brush by them and go my own way, so it's not a big deal. For examples of how to travel light and with style, watch George Clooney in "Up in the Air" and William Hurt in "The Accidental Tourist".
Good advice. My wife and I are going to Princeton New Jersey in July for a wedding. While we're there, we're also going to travel over to New York for a day to enjoy some shopping, food, and drinks. We're really looking forward to it.
Great advice...I learned these lessons at home, and I have enjoyed watching you and listening to your suggestions....Thank you!
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Safe travels! Getting there early is sage advice, the last thing you want to be is rushed. Give yourself time to have a drink or a coffee before boarding and just relax. I recommend wearing socks and reminding everyone you're with to do the same; the shoes are probably coming off when you go through security and the floors are filthy. Also, I seem to get sick every time I fly so, not sure if it helps or not but take extra Vitamin C on the days leading up to your journey and while on the trip.
I always wear golf pants and a complimentary jacket when traveling. Put an emergency kit in your carry on. Toothbrush, mints, stain pen, a small tube of moisturizer, pen and some recipe cards (for note taking or jotting down an idea that pops up) Also good to write down names of people who give you good service for later comment online. A gentleman will always assist those that need it. I even carry a couple of simple pocket magic tricks and a book of short stories in case I get seated next to a separated child or one traveling alone or if they are watching cartoons I will watch the same one with them. Things might go wrong, so just roll with it. There isn't anything that you can do about it and most times neither can the other person.
I’m travelling to the South of France for two weeks this summer - I will certainly take your advice on travelling in style. No more trackies and t-shirts on the plane.
I travel very infrequently. However, when I do travel, I will bring a weekender, in either leather or canvas, that carries all my essentials and a change of clothes with me on the aircraft. I have had my luggage lost too many times. Amazing video like always! Keep up the great work!
Way Craig got off jet in Bahamas on his 007 is a perfect casual yet elegant outfit for a travel I always like to make a habit thank pilot & flight crew for a good experience and their service
Great video. I am passionate about traveling, and could not agree with you more about being a gentleman especially with staff, crew, etc. I've been bumped to first class a handful of times in part because I dressed well, and in part because I turned on the charm.
A list of clothing that can be put in a carry on bag, and made of materials that do not crease badly, would be a interesting video. Maybe three videos,for following locations. Tropical. Winter. Mediterranean.
I actually like arriving three hours before a domestic flight. The airport restaurants and lounges beyond security are a highlight, but I don't like feeling rushed.
I recently traveled by air wearing a suit, shined cap toe shoes, fedora and overcoat. Although I was in a wheel chair I was treated extremely well. Staff were kind and very accommodating. I may do this again next time.
This is good stuff! I’m flying to Canada from the US in a couple of weeks to meet a girl, and I’m very excited for it. I’ll be wearing a blazer, I’m thinking linen or at least a white one, and possibly navy pants. Unclear on shoes though, as I’ll be doing some hiking while I’m abroad. Maybe Chelseas?
CANADA is not abroad from the U.S. White is a bad idea for a blazer. Get some decent ankle height light weight hiking boots or she'll think you're a wimp.
I'm pretty much a non-stop traveller. I left home (Australia) in March this year and intend to return in April 2025. I spent a month in the USA/Canada first and have been in Mexico for the last 5 months, with a couple of weeks in Cuba during that time. I'm currently in Mexico City and heading off in a couple of days for a 4 month trip through every country in Central America, followed by Colombia and Ecuador, with a little side journey to Aruba. I've previously visited every continent, and by the time I return to Australia, I will have visited 65 countries (not all on this trip!). I have friends who've visited close to double that, so I have some catching up to do!
When a friend and I went to Las Vegas for the Formula 1 race we realized that a round trip ticket upgraded to JSX charter jet was less than $200 more than a commercial flight from SFO. The experience was vastly more enjoyable. Small airport, a nice lounge to relax and get coffee. We were allowed to bring anything on the plane essentially as we brought a couple bottles of Champagne for our host for the weekend. Look into it if it’s an option. Could not recommend it higher!
Oh, I forgot to mention where I'm going. Six weeks in Rome (broken up by four days in Paris), followed by ten days in Milan, then ten more in the Netherlands.
I was born in the era where travelling with a plane was a happening. An event. Class, respect and manners were trendy, unlike today. Sure, you can have these times by taking 1 class. But thats too much. Good advice and trolling with the commercial. Kudos to that. What about my cognac backpack made of Italian lesther? Is that a no go as a gent? I guess you look like a school boy, but I love it. I have a messenger bag thiugh made of brown leather.
He is folding his pants while putting them in his luggage like a brute. I can’t believe my eyes, you fold pants with the crease not like a pair of sweatpants. 4:19 I’m speechless.
I'll be traveling from the US to London and Lisbon next month. I always bring a physical book with me while traveling. Don't just scroll on your phone like you would if you were at home.
Yeah. My BA seat power outlet had no power and I couldn't power my phone. I always bring a Reader's Digest. Do try to use the BA airport lounges after First Wing at Heathrow. It's worth it.
was in london last year, customs is a joke at heathrow. also if you are departing from there to US, you must take out ALL toiletries from carry on, no matter the size.
Excellent tips. Guess I was already a gentleman because I was doing all these things. My tip to add is, and expecially if you are going to travel internationally, sign up for Global Entry. It comes with automatic Pre-Check so you no longer have to worry about belts and shoes at US security check points where available. Initially it does take some effort to get to your documents togehter. (But as a gentlemen you should have them safely stored but readily available.) And costs $100 for 5 years. Honestly we had to get creative to find an appointment to that worked with our schedules. But coming back from Europe I made it out of security quicker than my friend that piloted our flight back! Definitely worth the effort.
Pertaining to airport security, Don't travel with a DE razor kit if you're carry on only, you will get stopped and all your toiletries taken apart and tested for illicit substances + you cannot carry the blades themselves anyway. Also, Jeans with buttons, No. You will get a pat down search where the buttons are (aka your front toolkit) and they will drug swab your clothes for good measure.
Thanks for your useful video ! About travels, what do you think about sling bag ? I struggle to find some that look elegant and stylish, but I must admit they seem incredibly useful to carry stuff without having pockets full of stuff..
I recently purchased new luggage and was considering the Carl Friedrik sets but found for a similar if not lower price, Monos offers some high quality options that are very comparable. The only big difference is Monos doesn't have a leather accent on the front but they come in many more colors.
I used to fly in my worst worn out clothes and then I'd donate all that so I didn't have to carry it back home until I met executive people in a small city who became great clients of mine. Dress for success!
I often pack my extra charity clothes to donate to worthy known recipients. I don't trust the "donated" used clothing mafia which actually sells and profits from "charity donated clothing."
The carry on looks good. If you are in contact with Carl friedrik please tell him to make the handle longer. I am a fairly tall man and I like a longer handle.
I fly long haul a few times a year. I make all my purchases on a credit card that earns me Avios points, which I can then use to get free upgrades to premium economy or business class. I usually do premium economy when flying West on a day flight and if I can afford to, I'll do business on the Eastbound red eye (I can usually only afford to do this about once per year with the amount of points I get). When going premium economy, I usually pay for lounge access or find a comfortable restaurant that gives you almost lounge like experience. This makes the whole experience that little bit more bearable!
I did a Carnival (yes, low-brow Walmart of the Seas Carnival) with a dozen neckties 👔. Probably the only Carnival passenger ever to do so. Tux 3 nights. Double breasted suit 8 nights. No jacket 1 night. Tie every evening, and for one matinee stage performance. Double breasted embarking and debarking. One large bag for suits. One medium bag for hygiene, liquids, etc. One personal bag for laptop, prescriptions, and extra change of clothes. Hard-sided checked bags. Bag handlers prefer high-quality wheels. I always get respect from every and all client-facing staff. I also did MSC cruise. That fashionable Italian office crew adored my fine suit.. When I visit my jeans and tee-shirt family, I always tell them that I have to change into "Airport clothes" on finishing my visit. Suit coat pockets are perfectly functional for passports/tickets.
The no backpack thing is tough esp in tech with lots of devices. Messenger bags just don’t hold enough (when you’re either single backpack trip or checked suitcase). I’d rather have a nice backpack and a suitcase than a checked suitcase and a cabin suitcase but maybe I’m not classy enough
The worst way of starting a journey, as you said, is being late to the airport. I once had a business trip to Oslo and were (I thought) on time at the airport. However, after spending two hours in the security queue had to run for the gate. Arrived to Oslo sweaty and already tired. Took all day to wind down.
Because of prior experiences, having to help restrain people in a plane, as well as having to evacuate a plane. I always travel in a good pair of lace up boots. Last thing i want to worry about is my footwear falling off. Also i have always used a duffel bag of sorts with a shoulder strap(s). When you have to move quickly a hard case you will most likely be leaving behind, but a soft leather duffle bag no problem. I definitely agree dress to impress. Everyone ends up treating you / listening to you better. Yet as much as possible, balance your outfit to the environment you are going too. You dont want to stick out like a sore thumb. That just makes you a target, for the local thieves. As always enjoyed your video!! Cheers, beers and whiskey 🤠 🥃
I always take a travel iron with me when I travel. Lots of hotels I've stayed in have not provided one in the room, and crumpled suitcase clothes (especially lightly coloured holiday clothes) look dreadful. Invest in and take a small travel iron and look your best.
For an enjoyable flight, step one….nothing below Business Class! Cattle class is acceptable only for short hops into Europe but anything like trans Atlantic, Middle East or Far East/Australia if you can’t afford to go Business Class, don’t fucking bother!
In the last few years, as I've become a bit more classy, I've actually traded in air travel for car or train travel at distances that would surprise you. There is no comparison for comfort between rail and modern airlines, and my car itself is comfortable for long distance.
Your background makes me wonder what you think about architecture and the influence of Bauhaus to it. I personally have to say that I consider the architectural designs implemented in the western cultures before the Bauhaus are theto be the beautiful ones which cared about beauty, style and representation. Those are the buildings that often stand to this day and make our cities gorgeous. Especially as a german I have to say that I can not be proud of the Bauhaus part of my countrys history. But I am always open to other opinions and interested in hearing other side, if there are some.
Yes, always look good when aboard an aeroplane, when travelling to the States on one occasion my wife, who always dressed elegantly, ma belle femme and I were once mistaken for being French by the cabin crew. I accepted that as a generous compliment.
Sadly, the golden age of flying is long gone. I always wear a blazer or tweed jacket when I travel. I find chukka boots - leather in winter and suede in summer, strikes the perfect balance of style and convenience.
I'll be traveling to Southampton as a production photographer on a cruise ship next month. I've carried 3 lenses and 2 camera bodies, plus accessories in a modified backpack for years, but now that I'm in my 60s it's time to not look like a broke student while not telegraphing that I have commercial equipment and a laptop to others. Any recommendations for a larger leather messenger bag?
Travel is much more enjoyable when you have the means for something other than economy. Treated myself to Air France business class recently and if I had taken any nice clothes or bag, that would have been the only time wearing it.. in economy it’s not worth dressing up imo, just be comfortable as you can.
I would make the ticketing arrangements for our entire family, and subtract at least hour from the Time of Departure that I would tell them, as they are always at least an hour late for everything. -C
I’m conflicted about the suggestion not to travel with a backpack. I realize they are usually not as stylish as a good quality roller bag. But in my experience having traveled many times over many years, mostly on international flights, I find a backpack to be more convenient than a roller bag. For example, on crowded flights, some airlines will force you to check your roller bag but allow to keep your backpack; a backpack leaves your hands free and is easier to move quickly with; and if space is limited on the plane, a backpack will compress into spaces that a rigid roller bag will not. I prefer Goruck backpacks, which open flat, have a minimalist aesthetic, and are solidly built. The more stylish models are made with waxed canvas and leather. They also cost more than many roller bags. Anyway, I know I’m not at my most stylish traveling with a backpack, but it’s far more convenient in my opinion.
From a guy that has flown pretty much all over the world in business and first class. Here are my tips. Wear lululemon or similar comfortable workout clothes. They breathe properly and keeps you warm when it’s cool in the plane and if it’s warm and you sweat. Well, it’s designed for that. Wear ankle socks. Bring at least two pairs. I change them when going to sleep. Again, my choice is lululemon Wear sneakers with the laces just tight enough to keep the shoe on. Your feet will swell. And loose fitting shoes help be more comfortable. Merino wool top shirt. Very thin merino long sleeve shirt will keep you warm or cool depending on the external plane environment. Cashmere scarf. Large. Thin as possible. It is easy to pack as it folds into almost nothing. It acts as a thin blanket or a wrap around. It regulates temp perfectly. Headphones over ear buds. Drop one of those earbuds out of your ear and into the seat. Just consider it lost. Plus, headphones seal out noticed=se better. I am a germaphobe so I only use my own headphones. Antibacterial wipes. I was wiping my airplane cozy area ten years before Covid. At first people thought I was nuts. Now, they realize I was from the future. Spend the extra pennys and get an extra water and a light snack in the airport to keep with you. Sometimes flight attendants are very busy. Even in first class. Tooth brush, paste and floss. You need it. Especially for the other people. iPad with charger. I don’t like the screens on planes regardless how big it is. Plus, all the movies I want to watch are on my iPad. I bring a charger because I don’t trust a possible power surge on the plane. Face wipes. Best thing ever to freshen up before a take off, when you wake up and when you just landed. Your welcome. 😁
According to the information I have seen, and my experience the Carl Friedrich Carry On X is too large for a carry on for many air lines. Most American and Virgin Atlantic carry on dimensions are 22X14X9. According to the Carl Friedrich website the Carry On X is too large. The Carry On X is nice luggage for sure, but too large.
Next week I'm going on a vacation to the US, so this video really comes in hand. By the way, gentlemen, which places near Utah I can't miss during my trip?
I need to figure out how to travel in style next summer when I take my wife to Europe for our 25th wedding anniversary. I don’t dress like I crawled out of bed to the airport. I dress in nice shorts or jeans with a nice shirt.
Flying withing South America and even to Europe always makes me sweat. Huge cue lines, heavy carry-ons. Too much stress. I need really light clothes that can go to the launder immediately after arrival.
protip - if theres a big storm the day before, get to the airport earlier..those cancelled flights could be backed up. learned this the hardway and was that guy carrying his belt and shoes untied sprinting through the terminal, still made it tho.
When traveling to and from the airport, don’t rely on public transit. Spring for a cab or drive. It will cost more but be infinitely more glamorous and stress-free, as opposed to juggling all your bags on the bus or subway.
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love this - everyone could use a good reminder that showing up at an airport in PJs is ridiculous and staying positive and kind to your traveling companion and to staff is key.
Working at the airport inspired me to be stylish more often. Whatever season it was, the airprt was where i would frequently see men dressed up. Whenever I fly somewhere, I always wear a full suit and tie.
Always wear a blazer. If you have problems or issues, are wearing a blazer, and act pleasant, you will be cared for and received the best possible outcome. Sad to say, but it’s reality.
Totally agree with leather shoes. Staff will at least pay attention and give you a hearing.
My only disagreement is about helping anyone with luggage in and out of the overhead. I will let women and elderly go first, answer questions, pull big bags off the carousel, etc. I will not be an enabler for more carry on luggage. If you cannot put it in the overhead, check it! Once I retired, I always check my luggage and have a small bag that fits under the seat. I never use overhead space. The process works fine.
If you want to carry on a big rolling bag, whether you are Emma Roberts or Chris Hemsworth, Vaya con Dios. You are on your own. FYI, note that flight attendants never assist anyone with a bag. They either point to an empty space in the overhead or point to the front where you can check your bag.
@@michaelblazin4093 totally agree. pack as if no one will help you.
Absolutely, a dark blue blazer, pinpoint oxford button down shirt (white or blue)/ fine gauge polo in a bright color, light/dark grey or sand pants (dress chinos pressed) and loafers / driving mocs are my traveling uniform even for business.
I have regularly received enhanced customer service at airports. Recently I was traveling internationally in the above wardrobe with the addition of sunglasses which I had to wear due to a recent eye exam. I am a frequent air traveler (business class). From check-in to boarding I was treated like royalty. My seating was upgraded to first without using my points.
I will make one additional suggestion wear a good quality cologne.
My nieces bought me a bottle of a very expensive men's cologne for my birthday. I wanted to reserve wearing it for special occasions but since this was a very important business flight I chose to wear it. While checking in at my gate a two attractive women were right beside me and I asked the gate attendant to let them check in first. One commented to the gate attendant; "if gentlemen like that fly your airline "ll become a frequent flier."
After boarding one of the flight attendants approached me and said "Pardon me sir may I ask you a personal question?" With a cautious quizzical look I nodded. The flight attendant continued; "May I ask what is the cologne you are wearing". My first thought was my fragrance was causing an allergic reaction so my reply was "Is there a problem?," The flight attendant smiled and said "No, but several other passengers have mentioned how clean and fresh the cabin smells and want to know what we use."
@@p9a9r21 No situation gets worse by dressing one level up. Make it your standard.
@@p9a9r21I’m interested in what Cologne you were wearing
Thank you for your video series. I am 54 now. When I was in my early 20s I aimed to be a Gentleman. Over the years I have let the outer standards slip. (But not the inner attitudes of the Gentleman. I still have those, and in a more mature form.) These videos are a wake up call to smarten up and re-invigorate the externals of being a Gentleman as I slip into my silver fox years.
I think our middle years is peak gentleman age. That gained wisdom, lived experience and maturity epitomize gentlemanly elegance
I'm in my mid-50s and I believe one can never be too old for style tips. I remember flying in the 1970s as a boy on legendary airlines such as PanAm, Eastern, TWA, when there was no such thing as a "flight attendant" (they were "stewardesses" and all were glamorous) and people dressed up to fly. Of course, back then there were not the long waits and security like now, and you had to have a bit of money to travel, so it was a different experience. This summer I will be taking two international business trips with one side pleasure trip. Mindset is so important when traveling, especially long distances. Thank you for the tips.
Travel attire is always a button down shirt , nice slacks , stylish shoes and a blazer. Overseas trips are my time to splurge and I see the travel element as part of the whole vacation experience so always fly business /1st and always get to the airport early enough to spend a decent amount of time in the lounge , having a glass of bubbly and a meal before leisurely boarding . Not having to rush makes such a difference in ones stress levels, you dont become one sweaty mess from having to run/rush .Ones dress, manner, ettiquet and behavior definitely sets one apart as a gentlemen from the rest of the traveling masses . I have frequently been given upgrades because of it (as there has been no other reason for the upgrade) . Off to Italy and London for 10 days in September.
The best guidance here is to be kind. Even to people who are not. It makes a huge difference to your own experience, people usually response very well, and in turn makes your own experience even better.
I'd love if you could do a video on the internal dialogue/mindset of a gentleman?
So many people nowadays - including myself sometimes - get carried away with the polarisation online or in an inflamed environment situation, but I see some men who don't seem to get involved or remain calm regardless of the influence that surrounds them which is really impressive. I'm curious to know how they remain grounded.
Love your channel ❤ ❤
That’s a great suggestion. Thank you. Often, there is a difference between internal dialogue and what we say to others, and controlling that difference is important for being a gentleman.
@@Gent.ZPlease! This would be very helpful to anyone dealing with anxiety and trying to put their best foot forward.
While we should always strive to be gentlemen,without any expectation of reward,or even reciprocity,the people in the aviation industry will truly take good care of you,if you present yourself well.
i also find a blazer super convenient. try accessing your trouser pockets while in your plane seat.
also: skip the braces/suspenders. I've been asked to take them off a few times
I agree with both points
Today you earned my subscription, I saw the video when you were used to be a Gothic dresser and how you turned it around completely. That was actually amazing because it shows that if you really wanna make a changed, it can be a dramatic change and I agreed with every point that you made on how people treat you how they view you and now look at you you dress amazing.
Thank you, sir. Welcome to the channel
@@Gent.Z as a gentleman would say. My pleasure!
Footwear - slip on driving shoes. Clothes - flat front khakis, polo shirt and a quarter zip merino wool pullover, to deal with onboard temperature variations.
Your travelling recommendations are so helpful! I remember our charming father herding our large family through the airports of Miami and New York City, always making sure that he had our tickets passports ready. Meanwhile, our mother made sure we were all dressed and polished, looking our Sunday best! Those were days when the airline stewardesses were like glamorous fashion models.The pilots and co-pilots were equally glamorous and handsome! Travelling by plane was an exciting experience in the 50’s, 60’s and 70’s!
Gent, thank you for including a clip of Roger Moore's cream coloured suit from Moonraker. Best suit of the franchise.
Wonderful scene and suit
Ok gotta disagree here, the cream suit goes pretty hard, but best suit of the franchise without a doubt is Craig's navy three piece from the ending of Casino Royale.
Another brilliant video, James. The best way to start or end a vacation trip is to be kind and courteous. After all, TSA agents can simply make your life miserable. Don't be that type of person. Respect goes a long way.
Great advice, Richard. Thanks for your comment
I always wear a sports jacket or suit when travelling. Like you, I find the pockets invaluable. And if you are on business and thus need a suit, it will wear better on you than jammed into a suitcase. While waiting in line at security, I fill the jacket pockets with my watch, coins and any other metallic accessories, then lay my jacket in the bin while going through the metal detector. And yes, I believe it helps to be dressed decently when dealing with any airport problems and when checking into your hotel. The only downside is all the porters and taxi vultures who flock around, thinking you are a plump mark. But I just brush by them and go my own way, so it's not a big deal.
For examples of how to travel light and with style, watch George Clooney in "Up in the Air" and William Hurt in "The Accidental Tourist".
Good advice. My wife and I are going to Princeton New Jersey in July for a wedding. While we're there, we're also going to travel over to New York for a day to enjoy some shopping, food, and drinks. We're really looking forward to it.
Hope you guys have a great time
When I fly, I always wear a suit and tie.
Atleast twice, gate agents had upgraded me to First Class because they appreciated how I dressed.
Great video, we need more TH-camrs like this who teach men how to be men
Great advice...I learned these lessons at home, and I have enjoyed watching you and listening to your suggestions....Thank you!
Safe travels! Getting there early is sage advice, the last thing you want to be is rushed. Give yourself time to have a drink or a coffee before boarding and just relax. I recommend wearing socks and reminding everyone you're with to do the same; the shoes are probably coming off when you go through security and the floors are filthy. Also, I seem to get sick every time I fly so, not sure if it helps or not but take extra Vitamin C on the days leading up to your journey and while on the trip.
I always wear golf pants and a complimentary jacket when traveling. Put an emergency kit in your carry on. Toothbrush, mints, stain pen, a small tube of moisturizer, pen and some recipe cards (for note taking or jotting down an idea that pops up)
Also good to write down names of people who give you good service for later comment online.
A gentleman will always assist those that need it. I even carry a couple of simple pocket magic tricks and a book of short stories in case I get seated next to a separated child or one traveling alone or if they are watching cartoons I will watch the same one with them.
Things might go wrong, so just roll with it. There isn't anything that you can do about it and most times neither can the other person.
I started to scoff but you sound rather sweet.( I not male)
Im gonna travel to London and Madrid , pretty excited because I’m meeting a person I looked forward to seeing long time ago
Have a great trip :)
I’m travelling to the South of France for two weeks this summer - I will certainly take your advice on travelling in style. No more trackies and t-shirts on the plane.
Going to Hawaii next week, first time flying, this was what I needed and at no better time
Glad to be of help, have a great flight
I travel very infrequently. However, when I do travel, I will bring a weekender, in either leather or canvas, that carries all my essentials and a change of clothes with me on the aircraft. I have had my luggage lost too many times. Amazing video like always! Keep up the great work!
Way Craig got off jet in Bahamas on his 007 is a perfect casual yet elegant outfit for a travel
I always like to make a habit thank pilot & flight crew for a good experience and their service
Great video. I am passionate about traveling, and could not agree with you more about being a gentleman especially with staff, crew, etc. I've been bumped to first class a handful of times in part because I dressed well, and in part because I turned on the charm.
A list of clothing that can be put in a carry on bag, and made of materials that do not crease badly, would be a interesting video.
Maybe three videos,for following locations.
Tropical.
Winter.
Mediterranean.
Good suggestion, thank you. Packing a carry on case is an art indeed
I actually like arriving three hours before a domestic flight. The airport restaurants and lounges beyond security are a highlight, but I don't like feeling rushed.
II usually put all my metallic items in my carry-on bag and my belt buckle is easily removable and put back on (an Ansen belt).
I recently traveled by air wearing a suit, shined cap toe shoes, fedora and overcoat. Although I was in a wheel chair I was treated extremely well. Staff were kind and very accommodating. I may do this again next time.
Dapper as hell
I love my Tumi wheeled luggage. I chose a colorful design. The wheels are absolutely SILENT. It fits into overhead luggage.
Excellent video and tips. May I suggest that perhaps you do a similar one for cruising? Thanks.
This is good stuff! I’m flying to Canada from the US in a couple of weeks to meet a girl, and I’m very excited for it. I’ll be wearing a blazer, I’m thinking linen or at least a white one, and possibly navy pants. Unclear on shoes though, as I’ll be doing some hiking while I’m abroad. Maybe Chelseas?
CANADA is not abroad from the U.S. White is a bad idea for a blazer. Get some decent ankle height light weight hiking boots or she'll think you're a wimp.
I'm pretty much a non-stop traveller.
I left home (Australia) in March this year and intend to return in April 2025.
I spent a month in the USA/Canada first and have been in Mexico for the last 5 months, with a couple of weeks in Cuba during that time.
I'm currently in Mexico City and heading off in a couple of days for a 4 month trip through every country in Central America, followed by Colombia and Ecuador, with a little side journey to Aruba.
I've previously visited every continent, and by the time I return to Australia, I will have visited 65 countries (not all on this trip!).
I have friends who've visited close to double that, so I have some catching up to do!
When a friend and I went to Las Vegas for the Formula 1 race we realized that a round trip ticket upgraded to JSX charter jet was less than $200 more than a commercial flight from SFO. The experience was vastly more enjoyable. Small airport, a nice lounge to relax and get coffee. We were allowed to bring anything on the plane essentially as we brought a couple bottles of Champagne for our host for the weekend. Look into it if it’s an option. Could not recommend it higher!
You have amazing grasp of sense, as to how people should behave at all times. I've learned a great deal sinse I joined your podcast.
Excellent video. And even better timing. I'm traveling soon and am in need of a new carry-on. Buying right now!
Oh, I forgot to mention where I'm going. Six weeks in Rome (broken up by four days in Paris), followed by ten days in Milan, then ten more in the Netherlands.
As always, great advice! Greatly appreciated
I was born in the era where travelling with a plane was a happening. An event. Class, respect and manners were trendy, unlike today.
Sure, you can have these times by taking 1 class. But thats too much.
Good advice and trolling with the commercial. Kudos to that.
What about my cognac backpack made of Italian lesther? Is that a no go as a gent? I guess you look like a school boy, but I love it. I have a messenger bag thiugh made of brown leather.
He is folding his pants while putting them in his luggage like a brute. I can’t believe my eyes, you fold pants with the crease not like a pair of sweatpants. 4:19 I’m speechless.
I'll be traveling from the US to London and Lisbon next month. I always bring a physical book with me while traveling. Don't just scroll on your phone like you would if you were at home.
Yeah. My BA seat power outlet had no power and I couldn't power my phone. I always bring a Reader's Digest.
Do try to use the BA airport lounges after First Wing at Heathrow. It's worth it.
was in london last year, customs is a joke at heathrow. also if you are departing from there to US, you must take out ALL toiletries from carry on, no matter the size.
Excellent tips. Guess I was already a gentleman because I was doing all these things. My tip to add is, and expecially if you are going to travel internationally, sign up for Global Entry. It comes with automatic Pre-Check so you no longer have to worry about belts and shoes at US security check points where available. Initially it does take some effort to get to your documents togehter. (But as a gentlemen you should have them safely stored but readily available.) And costs $100 for 5 years. Honestly we had to get creative to find an appointment to that worked with our schedules. But coming back from Europe I made it out of security quicker than my friend that piloted our flight back! Definitely worth the effort.
Good content. Very useful. Thank you James.
Thanks Sam
Pertaining to airport security, Don't travel with a DE razor kit if you're carry on only, you will get stopped and all your toiletries taken apart and tested for illicit substances + you cannot carry the blades themselves anyway. Also, Jeans with buttons, No. You will get a pat down search where the buttons are (aka your front toolkit) and they will drug swab your clothes for good measure.
Thanks for your useful video ! About travels, what do you think about sling bag ? I struggle to find some that look elegant and stylish, but I must admit they seem incredibly useful to carry stuff without having pockets full of stuff..
TSA Pre amigos - Enables one to keep shoes and belt on through security.
I recently purchased new luggage and was considering the Carl Friedrik sets but found for a similar if not lower price, Monos offers some high quality options that are very comparable. The only big difference is Monos doesn't have a leather accent on the front but they come in many more colors.
I used to fly in my worst worn out clothes and then I'd donate all that so I didn't have to carry it back home until I met executive people in a small city who became great clients of mine. Dress for success!
What did you fly back in?
@@danelisslow3269New clothes! That was a good one!
I often pack my extra charity clothes to donate to worthy known recipients. I don't trust the "donated" used clothing mafia which actually sells and profits from "charity donated clothing."
@@danelisslow3269boxers
Heading to NY for thanks giving.. great tips thank you
The carry on looks good.
If you are in contact with Carl friedrik please tell him to make the handle longer. I am a fairly tall man and I like a longer handle.
I really like the new Halfday bag in navy that I purchased. It is good looking and functional.
good advice, good attitude!
Thank you
I fly long haul a few times a year. I make all my purchases on a credit card that earns me Avios points, which I can then use to get free upgrades to premium economy or business class. I usually do premium economy when flying West on a day flight and if I can afford to, I'll do business on the Eastbound red eye (I can usually only afford to do this about once per year with the amount of points I get). When going premium economy, I usually pay for lounge access or find a comfortable restaurant that gives you almost lounge like experience. This makes the whole experience that little bit more bearable!
I did a Carnival (yes, low-brow Walmart of the Seas Carnival) with a dozen neckties 👔. Probably the only Carnival passenger ever to do so. Tux 3 nights. Double breasted suit 8 nights. No jacket 1 night. Tie every evening, and for one matinee stage performance. Double breasted embarking and debarking.
One large bag for suits. One medium bag for hygiene, liquids, etc. One personal bag for laptop, prescriptions, and extra change of clothes.
Hard-sided checked bags. Bag handlers prefer high-quality wheels.
I always get respect from every and all client-facing staff.
I also did MSC cruise. That fashionable Italian office crew adored my fine suit..
When I visit my jeans and tee-shirt family, I always tell them that I have to change into "Airport clothes" on finishing my visit.
Suit coat pockets are perfectly functional for passports/tickets.
Please recommend good travel blazer or suit (with a bit of stretch perhaps)
Great videos, very informative
The no backpack thing is tough esp in tech with lots of devices. Messenger bags just don’t hold enough (when you’re either single backpack trip or checked suitcase). I’d rather have a nice backpack and a suitcase than a checked suitcase and a cabin suitcase but maybe I’m not classy enough
The worst way of starting a journey, as you said, is being late to the airport. I once had a business trip to Oslo and were (I thought) on time at the airport. However, after spending two hours in the security queue had to run for the gate. Arrived to Oslo sweaty and already tired. Took all day to wind down.
Because of prior experiences, having to help restrain people in a plane, as well as having to evacuate a plane. I always travel in a good pair of lace up boots. Last thing i want to worry about is my footwear falling off.
Also i have always used a duffel bag of sorts with a shoulder strap(s).
When you have to move quickly a hard case you will most likely be leaving behind, but a soft leather duffle bag no problem.
I definitely agree dress to impress. Everyone ends up treating you / listening to you better.
Yet as much as possible, balance your outfit to the environment you are going too. You dont want to stick out like a sore thumb. That just makes you a target, for the local thieves.
As always enjoyed your video!!
Cheers, beers and whiskey 🤠 🥃
I always take a travel iron with me when I travel. Lots of hotels I've stayed in have not provided one in the room, and crumpled suitcase clothes (especially lightly coloured holiday clothes) look dreadful. Invest in and take a small travel iron and look your best.
This sunday HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!!!!!
For an enjoyable flight, step one….nothing below Business Class! Cattle class is acceptable only for short hops into Europe but anything like trans Atlantic, Middle East or Far East/Australia if you can’t afford to go Business Class, don’t fucking bother!
In the last few years, as I've become a bit more classy, I've actually traded in air travel for car or train travel at distances that would surprise you. There is no comparison for comfort between rail and modern airlines, and my car itself is comfortable for long distance.
great video! I will definitely take your advice!
When flying first class it not only more enjoyable but much more civilized and gentlemenly.
On the subject of travel, have you considered a video on how to stay at hotel like a gentleman?
As opposed to a lady?
Your background makes me wonder what you think about architecture and the influence of Bauhaus to it. I personally have to say that I consider the architectural designs implemented in the western cultures before the Bauhaus are theto be the beautiful ones which cared about beauty, style and representation. Those are the buildings that often stand to this day and make our cities gorgeous.
Especially as a german I have to say that I can not be proud of the Bauhaus part of my countrys history. But I am always open to other opinions and interested in hearing other side, if there are some.
4:23 I saw that.....
P-boy? 😁
I always pack a playboy too 😂. Classiest of all the skin mags 👍. Great video.
invest in a Rimowa suitcase, stylish, compact, and fits in the overhead!
Yes, always look good when aboard an aeroplane, when travelling to the States on one occasion my wife, who always dressed elegantly, ma belle femme and I were once mistaken for being French by the cabin crew. I accepted that as a generous compliment.
If I may add one. Always fly first class if you can afford it. You never know who your going to sit next too.
Sadly, the golden age of flying is long gone. I always wear a blazer or tweed jacket when I travel. I find chukka boots - leather in winter and suede in summer, strikes the perfect balance of style and convenience.
It may be gone, but we can do our best to recreate it. Chukka boots are a nice choice
You can find it in 1. Class.
I am a gen Z mom, but I love that you are doing this to show how cool it is to be a stylish gentleman. The gen Z women appreciate it too, I am sure.
Carl Fridiek...yeah.😊
I like traveling in a suit. First: it‘s Handy to have pockets, second security and customs will not bother you if look like a business traveler.
I'll be traveling to Southampton as a production photographer on a cruise ship next month. I've carried 3 lenses and 2 camera bodies, plus accessories in a modified backpack for years, but now that I'm in my 60s it's time to not look like a broke student while not telegraphing that I have commercial equipment and a laptop to others. Any recommendations for a larger leather messenger bag?
Always remember to pack those essential magazines🤣🤣😂😂🤣🤣
Travel is much more enjoyable when you have the means for something other than economy. Treated myself to Air France business class recently and if I had taken any nice clothes or bag, that would have been the only time wearing it.. in economy it’s not worth dressing up imo, just be comfortable as you can.
I would make the ticketing arrangements for our entire family, and subtract at least hour from the Time of Departure that I would tell them, as they are always at least an hour late for everything. -C
That's a good tip. Telling people to be ready earlier than they need to be is one of the few acceptable forms of lying, in my opinion ;)
I’m conflicted about the suggestion not to travel with a backpack. I realize they are usually not as stylish as a good quality roller bag. But in my experience having traveled many times over many years, mostly on international flights, I find a backpack to be more convenient than a roller bag. For example, on crowded flights, some airlines will force you to check your roller bag but allow to keep your backpack; a backpack leaves your hands free and is easier to move quickly with; and if space is limited on the plane, a backpack will compress into spaces that a rigid roller bag will not. I prefer Goruck backpacks, which open flat, have a minimalist aesthetic, and are solidly built. The more stylish models are made with waxed canvas and leather. They also cost more than many roller bags. Anyway, I know I’m not at my most stylish traveling with a backpack, but it’s far more convenient in my opinion.
I recommend one with a clean design or something that can switch between a handbag to a backpack, like a hybrid messenger bag and backpack combo.
I agree with this wholeheartedly.
Agree, especially as carrying a load on both shoulders makes it easier on the back.
From a guy that has flown pretty much all over the world in business and first class. Here are my tips.
Wear lululemon or similar comfortable workout clothes. They breathe properly and keeps you warm when it’s cool in the plane and if it’s warm and you sweat. Well, it’s designed for that.
Wear ankle socks. Bring at least two pairs. I change them when going to sleep. Again, my choice is lululemon
Wear sneakers with the laces just tight enough to keep the shoe on. Your feet will swell. And loose fitting shoes help be more comfortable.
Merino wool top shirt. Very thin merino long sleeve shirt will keep you warm or cool depending on the external plane environment.
Cashmere scarf. Large. Thin as possible. It is easy to pack as it folds into almost nothing. It acts as a thin blanket or a wrap around. It regulates temp perfectly.
Headphones over ear buds. Drop one of those earbuds out of your ear and into the seat. Just consider it lost. Plus, headphones seal out noticed=se better. I am a germaphobe so I only use my own headphones.
Antibacterial wipes. I was wiping my airplane cozy area ten years before Covid. At first people thought I was nuts. Now, they realize I was from the future.
Spend the extra pennys and get an extra water and a light snack in the airport to keep with you. Sometimes flight attendants are very busy. Even in first class.
Tooth brush, paste and floss. You need it. Especially for the other people.
iPad with charger. I don’t like the screens on planes regardless how big it is. Plus, all the movies I want to watch are on my iPad. I bring a charger because I don’t trust a possible power surge on the plane.
Face wipes. Best thing ever to freshen up before a take off, when you wake up and when you just landed.
Your welcome. 😁
Why do you fold your trousers not on the crease?
Friedrik stuff is excellent.
Good products.
traveling today to meet my girlfriends parents for the first time, so gonna have to be on my game
Good luck!
Gentleman move. Get TSA precheck or Global Entry so that you don’t have to take off your shoes and belt. Move through security much easier
Why can't I find the link to the suitcase ?
According to the information I have seen, and my experience the Carl Friedrich Carry On X is too large for a carry on for many air lines. Most American and Virgin Atlantic carry on dimensions are 22X14X9. According to the Carl Friedrich website the Carry On X is too large. The Carry On X is nice luggage for sure, but too large.
Thanks for that information
Please keep an eye ( or a handcuff!) on your luggage after security.
Even when buying a snack or essential duty free.
I speak from experience.
This is definitely helpful as I’ll be travelling with my gf for a wedding/vacation
Next week I'm going on a vacation to the US, so this video really comes in hand.
By the way, gentlemen, which places near Utah I can't miss during my trip?
I’ve never been to Utah myself but I hope some other gents in the comments can help you
I'm heading to a big tech conference next week. Thanks for the tips !
I need to figure out how to travel in style next summer when I take my wife to Europe for our 25th wedding anniversary. I don’t dress like I crawled out of bed to the airport. I dress in nice shorts or jeans with a nice shirt.
Flying withing South America and even to Europe always makes me sweat. Huge cue lines, heavy carry-ons. Too much stress. I need really light clothes that can go to the launder immediately after arrival.
I literally booked a ticket to madrid last night and this man made a video on travelling. What a timing
protip - if theres a big storm the day before, get to the airport earlier..those cancelled flights could be backed up. learned this the hardway and was that guy carrying his belt and shoes untied sprinting through the terminal, still made it tho.
When traveling to and from the airport, don’t rely on public transit. Spring for a cab or drive. It will cost more but be infinitely more glamorous and stress-free, as opposed to juggling all your bags on the bus or subway.