Wear a conservative, fluffy, minimalist ballgown, get criticized for trying to be a trad wife for not wanting to be sexy. Wear a dress with a corset bodice and show some cleavage, enjoy your appearance and your body-type, and get called a whore. These "dress" influencers drive misogyny almost as much as any male influencer make it impossible for regular women (not necessarily Olivia Culpo) to figure what is appropriate to wear. Paris Hilton wore a VERY modest wedding dress, high neck and all. SEVERAL celebrities have worn very modest dresses in the last few years, while not necessarily being "modest" people. People choose to dress on their wedding day in ways that maybe don't necessarily reflect their everyday lives, whether it's as a Hollywood star or as any other far more regular profession. The wedding dress is meant to exude a fantasy, an internal representation of what a woman feels she is, on what should be the HAPPIEST day of her life. It's impossible to win the game, so the best option is to simply not play. Anyone else who is watching this drama, pick whatever wedding dress you like, whether you want something understated and elegant or something striking and bold. Feel beautiful, and don't let the influencers tell you otherwise.
Ehhhh......I think so many people took her wedding dress so personally, though. Olivia can just have her taste. It's not mine, but it's also not my wedding. For such a big personal day, I can understand if she's hurt so many people are saying it was ugly. If we want to dismantle wedding culture, people have to just stop nitpicking other's weddings so much.
she didnt have to make comments about not wanting to 'exude sex'...as if the traditional wedding gown that only shows the decolletage is doing that?? its just weird
@@theceech Oh, completely agree! She did NOT handle the comments well, at all. But the point I was making was more that it's a really personal and touchy issue, I think a lot of people wouldn't handle the critiques well. I put it on the level of like, the internet deciding they don't like my nose, or my cat, those are way too personal topics for me to probably handle that discourse gracefully. I hope I would do better than her, but if I do have a bit of a meltdown, I hope people could give me some leeway.
It is very pretty in my opinion, but to act as if she's better than others by being more modest or less sexy or trying to highlight that fact as to bring other women with different taste down so as to elevate herself is just dirty.
It is very pretty in my opinion, but to act as if she's better than others by being more modest or less sexy or trying to highlight that fact as to bring other women with different taste down so as to elevate herself is just dirty.
She's going the Puritan not like other girls route I hope it's all worth it for the man she chose to marry because the men will say they like this and find something else to like.
She's not a puritan though, isn't she a model or singer or some kind of socialite? She just wanted to take the wedding seriously and opt out of the "hot wedding gown" game. Everyone is mad because she has a lash lift or is contradicting modesty, but so what? Weddings are contradictory, women who 99% of them aren't virgins wear a white gown signifying virginity to get married. Do we all throw a hissy fit about that too?
I don't know why a woman can't be the woman she wants to be without getting hate. people are completely overanalyzing her words. why can't a woman have a modest look without being called patriarchal. she was talking about her makeup look so she mentioned not wearing mascara and having a lash lift instead. I don't know what makes her seem not like other girls
it’s the hypocrisy of how she got famous and how she presented herself for so long to completely doing a 180 and then acting like she’s above all that now. sofia richie was able to do the quiet luxury/classywife shift bc she never drew attention to herself or said “hey look at me I don’t want to exude sex anymore like some other girls would” but it seems so forced and unnatural with olivia. ultimately it’s a big nothing burger but girl chose to have a spread in vogue and it’s rather ignorant to think we should all keep our comments to ourselves.
She is faking it and is getting called out for it. There is nothing wrong about calling a liar, a liar. If she can't handle the fact that so many think her dress is ugly, she should not have had a huge thing about showing it off. She wanted the attention (negtative or postive) and she got it. She really doesn't care which one it is, so long as people are talking about HER. PS: It's ugly by the way and does her no favors, but to each her own.
@hamilcross She knew it would cause negative comments, and stirred the pot with her comments. She wants make it seem as if she's being attacked without reason. She did all of this on purpose. I wouldn't be surprised at all if some consevative whatever had her front-manning for them in the near future.
She reminds ded me with Sofia can't remember her last name who dated a kirdashian ex partner Scott who was older than her who she dressed up for him in see through bodysuit,, then married an upper family and changed her image to a shy virgin wife....
I feel like it’s not that deep it’s a boring wedding and a plain boring dress. I feel like she tried wayyy to hard be a more catholic sofia Ritchie and it ended up looking try hard. Hopefully she isnt pivoting to being a tradwifetm but I think she was looking for a Sofia Richie rebrand.
100%. If she does become Tradwife then she can't model. She can do what she wants I guess, but I won't be paying attention to her. I didn't before, I won't still.
it’s the holier than thou puritanical vibes of it all. she could have avoided all of this if not for her stupid comments but now she’s fighting with people on ig during her honeymoon bc she just needed that vogue article and she just needed to tell everyone how classy she is now. the dress is awful to boot and not just bc it’s “modest” lol it’s just sooooooo plain.
Her comments were valid and the somments of a sane person who understand what marriage is and the importance of it. Never did she shame women for not being like her she is just said these are my values and I wanted a dress like that.
@@carolinpurayidom4570you're just like her. That's why you were under my comment defending her as well as under this comment. Her comments are valid for her. They're not valid for everyone else because she doesn't get to set the standard for everyone. Also, she's not more sane than anyone else. And it doesn't mean that her marriage will last because she's got the purest mind about marriage. She's not the first girl to be married and also doesn't hold the monopoly on the right mindset towards marriage. Many different people do marriages different ways and it works for them.
Royal wedding of the year!? I knew who Megan Markle was hell I even knew who Kate Middleton was when I was in 6th grade watching her wedding to prince William who the hell is Olivia culpo???? Who are these people
The dress is pretty enough depending on her taste. I just wish she wore some kind of jewelry other than the ring? The no necklace trend makes an outfit look incomplete.
I get that since she's a model she's always in sexy dresses etc, so I understand that for this day she wants to be covered. However the way she expresses it gives that she's shaming others who want to look sexy for their wedding day. it's not what you say it's how you say it.
I have no idea who this girl is and I've never heard of her husband. Wanting to dress conservatively on it's own is fine, but this girl had 4 other wedding dresses, which were all more revealing, and one of them was VERY risqué. I'm talking see thru skirt with the panty out and proud. So wtf is her claim to conservative dressing? Most of the criticism i saw was for her hypocrisy. If you wanna dress like Mother Mary then do it, but don't claim to be obeying Christian modesty and then change into a lady gaga dress an hour later?? Like huh??
If you have an issue with wedding culture then avoid it all together, we don’t need to hear your opinion. The gown is elegant and she looked beautiful. People have nothing better to do than to talk negatively about another person, all about the clicks and followers.
Her hair and dress was so ugly. she has such a strong jawline.Her dress reminded me of my confirmation dress lol. But I wouldn't go as far to say it wasn't a wedding or that she was seeking attention. Just think she could have chosen a better looking dress. I don't know why people have to lie to her and say it looked gorgeous lol.
Girl let her wear what she want she wants to be modest good for her she literally isn't coming for others who don't so leave her alone she said that its her values for her marriage we need more people who takde the covenant of marriage seriously. Also her not wearinf as much makeup was about her preference for minimalistic and simplistic looks because she likes those things she never called those who do a whore or anything of the sort so leave her alone.
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Wear a conservative, fluffy, minimalist ballgown, get criticized for trying to be a trad wife for not wanting to be sexy. Wear a dress with a corset bodice and show some cleavage, enjoy your appearance and your body-type, and get called a whore. These "dress" influencers drive misogyny almost as much as any male influencer make it impossible for regular women (not necessarily Olivia Culpo) to figure what is appropriate to wear.
Paris Hilton wore a VERY modest wedding dress, high neck and all. SEVERAL celebrities have worn very modest dresses in the last few years, while not necessarily being "modest" people. People choose to dress on their wedding day in ways that maybe don't necessarily reflect their everyday lives, whether it's as a Hollywood star or as any other far more regular profession. The wedding dress is meant to exude a fantasy, an internal representation of what a woman feels she is, on what should be the HAPPIEST day of her life.
It's impossible to win the game, so the best option is to simply not play. Anyone else who is watching this drama, pick whatever wedding dress you like, whether you want something understated and elegant or something striking and bold. Feel beautiful, and don't let the influencers tell you otherwise.
Yup. It’s your life. Love it how you wanna.
who is olivia? lol bc ive never heard nor seen of this settler lady
Settler Lady! This! FLOVE
🎉😂😂😂
I had to look her up bc I forgot who she was, lol. Beauty pageant queen... Miss Rhode Island, Miss USA, and Miss Universe 2012.
Dude same. I have absolutely no idea who this is.
Pretty much very white influencer and celebrity in a “pop culture” moment
So basically no matter what a woman wear she's criticized for it
It’s not really about the dress. It’s what she said.
Ehhhh......I think so many people took her wedding dress so personally, though. Olivia can just have her taste. It's not mine, but it's also not my wedding. For such a big personal day, I can understand if she's hurt so many people are saying it was ugly. If we want to dismantle wedding culture, people have to just stop nitpicking other's weddings so much.
she didnt have to make comments about not wanting to 'exude sex'...as if the traditional wedding gown that only shows the decolletage is doing that?? its just weird
@@theceech Oh, completely agree! She did NOT handle the comments well, at all. But the point I was making was more that it's a really personal and touchy issue, I think a lot of people wouldn't handle the critiques well. I put it on the level of like, the internet deciding they don't like my nose, or my cat, those are way too personal topics for me to probably handle that discourse gracefully. I hope I would do better than her, but if I do have a bit of a meltdown, I hope people could give me some leeway.
If she didn't want criticism she could just like, not have her wedding featured in a magazine tho 🤷
It is very pretty in my opinion, but to act as if she's better than others by being more modest or less sexy or trying to highlight that fact as to bring other women with different taste down so as to elevate herself is just dirty.
It is very pretty in my opinion, but to act as if she's better than others by being more modest or less sexy or trying to highlight that fact as to bring other women with different taste down so as to elevate herself is just dirty.
She's going the Puritan not like other girls route I hope it's all worth it for the man she chose to marry because the men will say they like this and find something else to like.
He'll be with someone else sooner or later, unless he is okay with who she really is and not this persona she's trying to sell to sell the public.
No she is not and this isn't even that puritan. She just wanted a dress th/at felt in tune with her values and the wedding she wanted
She's not a puritan though, isn't she a model or singer or some kind of socialite? She just wanted to take the wedding seriously and opt out of the "hot wedding gown" game. Everyone is mad because she has a lash lift or is contradicting modesty, but so what? Weddings are contradictory, women who 99% of them aren't virgins wear a white gown signifying virginity to get married. Do we all throw a hissy fit about that too?
I don't know why a woman can't be the woman she wants to be without getting hate. people are completely overanalyzing her words. why can't a woman have a modest look without being called patriarchal. she was talking about her makeup look so she mentioned not wearing mascara and having a lash lift instead. I don't know what makes her seem not like other girls
Meat riding
it’s the hypocrisy of how she got famous and how she presented herself for so long to completely doing a 180 and then acting like she’s above all that now. sofia richie was able to do the quiet luxury/classywife shift bc she never drew attention to herself or said “hey look at me I don’t want to exude sex anymore like some other girls would” but it seems so forced and unnatural with olivia. ultimately it’s a big nothing burger but girl chose to have a spread in vogue and it’s rather ignorant to think we should all keep our comments to ourselves.
@@hamilcross ok, now it makes sense. I
can see the situation from the other side
She is faking it and is getting called out for it. There is nothing wrong about calling a liar, a liar. If she can't handle the fact that so many think her dress is ugly, she should not have had a huge thing about showing it off. She wanted the attention (negtative or postive) and she got it. She really doesn't care which one it is, so long as people are talking about HER.
PS: It's ugly by the way and does her no favors, but to each her own.
@hamilcross She knew it would cause negative comments, and stirred the pot with her comments. She wants make it seem as if she's being attacked without reason. She did all of this on purpose. I wouldn't be surprised at all if some consevative whatever had her front-manning for them in the near future.
Yep
So much cognitive (cough- patriarchal bs) dissonance.
The internalize misogyny is strong with that one
She reminds ded me with Sofia can't remember her last name who dated a kirdashian ex partner Scott who was older than her who she dressed up for him in see through bodysuit,, then married an upper family and changed her image to a shy virgin wife....
@@catcoffee7958hope it's worth it
@@catcoffee7958 so, she's allowed to change her aesthetic especially if it benefits her.
Misogyny is being offended that a woman doesn’t want her body visible…”show is your skin woman! Now!!!” Crazy people 😂
How all she said is that marriage is a sacred covenant which she want to respect is thats patriachal and mysogny the wtf.
I feel like it’s not that deep it’s a boring wedding and a plain boring dress. I feel like she tried wayyy to hard be a more catholic sofia Ritchie and it ended up looking try hard. Hopefully she isnt pivoting to being a tradwifetm but I think she was looking for a Sofia Richie rebrand.
100%. If she does become Tradwife then she can't model. She can do what she wants I guess, but I won't be paying attention to her. I didn't before, I won't still.
Her man is gorgeous that’s all I care about lol
it’s the holier than thou puritanical vibes of it all. she could have avoided all of this if not for her stupid comments but now she’s fighting with people on ig during her honeymoon bc she just needed that vogue article and she just needed to tell everyone how classy she is now. the dress is awful to boot and not just bc it’s “modest” lol it’s just sooooooo plain.
Her comments were valid and the somments of a sane person who understand what marriage is and the importance of it. Never did she shame women for not being like her she is just said these are my values and I wanted a dress like that.
@@carolinpurayidom4570you're just like her. That's why you were under my comment defending her as well as under this comment. Her comments are valid for her. They're not valid for everyone else because she doesn't get to set the standard for everyone. Also, she's not more sane than anyone else. And it doesn't mean that her marriage will last because she's got the purest mind about marriage. She's not the first girl to be married and also doesn't hold the monopoly on the right mindset towards marriage. Many different people do marriages different ways and it works for them.
As you said we can see the cosmetic enhancements from a mile away, the jaw line is so sharp it’s unatural
This is one crazy take
Do you reckon Nick Jonas' song Jealous played at the reception?? 🤭
Royal wedding of the year!? I knew who Megan Markle was hell I even knew who Kate Middleton was when I was in 6th grade watching her wedding to prince William who the hell is Olivia culpo???? Who are these people
lol at “everything ive learned about this wedding was against my will..” cus SAME... it’s like the Hailey & Selena drama.
The dress is pretty enough depending on her taste. I just wish she wore some kind of jewelry other than the ring? The no necklace trend makes an outfit look incomplete.
I get that since she's a model she's always in sexy dresses etc, so I understand that for this day she wants to be covered. However the way she expresses it gives that she's shaming others who want to look sexy for their wedding day. it's not what you say it's how you say it.
Idc what these Christian bigots think!
Her dress was beautiful and simple! 👰🏻😊
You're so pressed. it's funny
I have no idea who this girl is and I've never heard of her husband. Wanting to dress conservatively on it's own is fine, but this girl had 4 other wedding dresses, which were all more revealing, and one of them was VERY risqué. I'm talking see thru skirt with the panty out and proud. So wtf is her claim to conservative dressing? Most of the criticism i saw was for her hypocrisy. If you wanna dress like Mother Mary then do it, but don't claim to be obeying Christian modesty and then change into a lady gaga dress an hour later?? Like huh??
You are reaching
If you have an issue with wedding culture then avoid it all together, we don’t need to hear your opinion. The gown is elegant and she looked beautiful. People have nothing better to do than to talk negatively about another person, all about the clicks and followers.
Weddings in so many cases are a contradiction. Everyone wears white for “purity” lol
Touch some grass lady. Its a fukin wedding😂
Her hair and dress was so ugly. she has such a strong jawline.Her dress reminded me of my confirmation dress lol. But I wouldn't go as far to say it wasn't a wedding or that she was seeking attention. Just think she could have chosen a better looking dress. I don't know why people have to lie to her and say it looked gorgeous lol.
Because you your self is a liar. Leave her to herself
You slayed with this one Kiera
Yep insulted a woman’s big day and her dress- how empowering to women… 😂
Girl let her wear what she want she wants to be modest good for her she literally isn't coming for others who don't so leave her alone she said that its her values for her marriage we need more people who takde the covenant of marriage seriously. Also her not wearinf as much makeup was about her preference for minimalistic and simplistic looks because she likes those things she never called those who do a whore or anything of the sort so leave her alone.