10 Years Together 💑In-law Problems, Challenges in International Marriage, Fights? | Relationship Q&A

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  • @2hearts1seoul
    @2hearts1seoul  2 ปีที่แล้ว +26

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    0:51 Who loves each other’s food culture more? Kyuho with Canadian food, or Sarah with Korean food? 누가 더 서로의 음식 문화를 좋아하나요? 규호가 캐나다 음식을? 아니면 세라가 한국 음식을?
    1:44 Cultural surprises when meeting each other’s parents? 서로의 부모님을 뵈었을 때 문화적으로 놀랐던 부분은?
    3:00 Qualities of your relationship you cherish the most that made you decide to settle down? 결혼하기로 결정하게 만든 관계에서 가장 소중히 여기는 부분들은?
    4:24 How to maintain a happy and healthy relationship with your partner or spouse? 남편/아내와 행복하고 좋은 관계를 어떻게 유지하나요?
    5:46 What should I do if my parents hate the person that I love? 제 부모님이 제가 좋아하는 사람을 너무 싫어할 때는 어떻게 해야하나요?
    7:31 Your favorite random quality you love about each other? 아무거나 서로의 부분들 중 가장 좋아하는 것은?
    9:26 My Korean in-laws want to control us and be together all the time. How did you solve in-laws problems? 제 한국 처/시부모님이 저희를 컨트롤하고 싶어하고 항상 같이 있으려고 해요. 처/시부모님 문제는 어떻게 해결하셨나요?
    13:45 What's the biggest obstacle for international marriage? 국제결혼에서 가장 큰 장애물은?
    16:21 Before you got engaged, when and how did you speak about finances? This can often be a sensitive topic. 약혼하기 전에 언제 어떻게 재산에 관해서 이야기 했나요? 민감한 주제일수도 있거든요
    17:50 What is your favorite part about being in an international marriage? 국제결혼해서 가장 좋아하는 부분은 무엇인가요?
    18:43 How do native Koreans view your international marriage? Do you feel much prejudice? 한국분들이 규호와 세라의 국제결혼을 어떤 시선으로 보나요? 편견을 느끼시나요?
    19:45 How you you handle conflicts or fights? When you fight, do you two take time out to talk straight about it? 갈등이나 다툼은 어떻게 다루시나요? 다툰다면 타임 아웃하고 풀기 위해 바로 핵심을 이야기하나요?
    21:42 A quirk about each other that you grew to love? 상대방의 별난 점을 점차 좋아하게 된 것은?

  • @guerrerobevo
    @guerrerobevo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hi. I'm Swedish and I met my husband in Chile when I was on a trip. But then I didn't know that I would stay there for 15 years. I recognize myself when you talk about culture clash. I am very open and always ask about something, while my husband is very shy. Now we have been living in Sweden for 15 years and it was a big culture clash for my husband. But our love wins over everything. Still loving each other after 30 years together.

  • @sandrac1313
    @sandrac1313 2 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    Happy 10 years! Also,just wanted to mention- i have always noticed that whenever one of you cooks,the other thanks them for the meal or special bread,etc.
    Seems quite wonderful,i think.
    We so often take others and what they do for us, for granted.
    The fact that you each work on your relationship everday,is something i truly admire.
    Thanks for sharing!

    • @julieobrien4056
      @julieobrien4056 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I’ve noticed that too, and really admire it. And Sarah, I totally get the smelling your food before eating as a flavor enhancing tactic!

    • @2hearts1seoul
      @2hearts1seoul  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you 🥺♥️ We’re definitely not perfect, but we always try and put the effort into thanking each other, even for the small things~

  • @madeinbusanjkjm
    @madeinbusanjkjm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Beemo's daily routine: staring at Sarah's face lovingly until she starts petting him 🥺
    I really love listening to you guy's perspective about relationships because I feel like you're both very mature people individually so it's interesting to see how you solve relationship hurdles. The thing you mentioned about having deep conversations about each other's perspectives because you're both from different backgrounds/cultures is so amazing because that way, there is always sth new you guys can learn about each other even several years into the relationship. I'm sure it's really great for you guys to share stories from your different childhood experiences and so on. I think that is what I liked the most about having international friendships, all of the diversity of our experiences.

  • @mindysmom6132
    @mindysmom6132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Hello you two!! First and foremost, Happy 10 Year (dating) Anniversary!! When one thinks of soulmates, one can definitely think of you both!! You are the definition of "true soulmates!!" You have both embraced each others' cultures and I love the respect that you both put forward towards everything that you do, whether it's spending time with each others' parents, extended family members, even cooking your favorite dishes. I have followed you both for a long time, and I still, to this day, love love how you share your lives with us. You both have HUGE HEARTS! Thank you for sharing this video and answering each question honestly. The subject matter is awesome! Take care!!

    • @2hearts1seoul
      @2hearts1seoul  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you so much for watching all this time 🥺♥️

  • @lynnburke2266
    @lynnburke2266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really admire Kyuho's answers regarding the in-laws.. standing up for his marriage n for Sarah!! It's not hard to see why their marriage has lasted these last 10 years. After seeing this video ..it just totally Elevated my opinion of him. What a good husband he is to Sarah. Thanks for being a good role model husband for all countries.

  • @nurwahyuniaziz1167
    @nurwahyuniaziz1167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    in the previous video when sarah saves the worm my eyes were teary. it looks small action but it is really shows how beautiful, genuine and amazing she is. i stan this woman !

  • @Jenncysworld
    @Jenncysworld 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I pray that I find a love like you have one day. You guys are right, never take the other person for granted. It is SO rare nowadays, even just to find someone who is compatible with you and wants the same things as you. You found something special. Cherish it 🙂

  • @robertabrams8562
    @robertabrams8562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Ahh, the big 1.0. - congrats to both of you
    🎉🎊🪅
    My wife and I met in Munsan when I was in the Army. We celebrated our 31st anniversary in July of this year! The only somewhat big disagreement we had was, I wanted to stay in Korea, learn the language and live in Seoul. My wife desperately wanted to live In Nyc (my hometown) and become Americanized…31yrs later, we’re still in Nyc, and still happily married 😀

    • @MC-ko2mx
      @MC-ko2mx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That is such a sweet story.
      31 years is an amazing milestone!

    • @robertabrams8562
      @robertabrams8562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MC-ko2mx Thank you! We have two now adult children, but no grandkids yet (we’re only 51 & 52 years of age lol)!

    • @MC-ko2mx
      @MC-ko2mx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@robertabrams8562 Oh wow, you met and married the love of your life so young, and get to spend the rest of your lives together.
      That is amazing.

    • @robertabrams8562
      @robertabrams8562 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@MC-ko2mx that’s sweet of you to say! My mom & dad divorced when my sister and I were very young, and it was rough on my mom (and us kids too), so I made a promise to myself to never let that happen to my family, if I were ever to have one! Me and my wife aren’t perfect at all, but we still love each other very much, and that’s what has made our marriage last for so long

    • @MC-ko2mx
      @MC-ko2mx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@robertabrams8562 As someone raised by a single mom, I empathize.
      It's good you made a conscious decision to break the cycle.

  • @martiisor
    @martiisor 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    16:15 hahaha that was so cute 😂 you guys have always modeled what I want out of a relationship, which is just chill vibes, respect, and most importantly: friendship ❤ the older I get the more I realize its actually VERY difficult to find someone that matches you in that way, a lot of people might make good friends but romanically/living together is a whole other story. I love that you guys are my constant reminder that its possible 💕

  • @alyserendipity
    @alyserendipity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Kyuho heard the saying “Everyone puts their pants on one leg at a time” and said NOPE

  • @LineMo09
    @LineMo09 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    You two are my relationship goals.
    You both seem so genuine.

  • @hannahk.3607
    @hannahk.3607 2 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I love your videos and following your journey!

    • @2hearts1seoul
      @2hearts1seoul  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Aww, thank you so much for the kind words ☺️♥️

  • @zanpsimer7685
    @zanpsimer7685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Congrats and many more happy years!Kyuho got it just right regarding any friction between a person’s parent and his or her partner. Never leave it up to the partner to try and resolve these issues. It must be the person who’s parents are making life difficult who needs to speak up.

  • @nothingavailableleft
    @nothingavailableleft 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The smell of food is so important to my eating experience too! Sarah is actually really onto something with that one and the longer you do it the more it becomes part of the experience and the better you get at sort of sniffing out the taste. I recently got my nose done and my inability to smell the food right after surgery drastically declined the taste of food as well! Then I thought, a lot of people only ever taste food through their mouth and got so sad! Food can be so much better :))) and Kyuho‘s pant wearing technique really cracked me up ^^ what a cute couple, the god of destiny did a good job bringing you guys together. Thank you for always making my days better, you‘ve been a source of joy for me for years now. Thinking about it I would even say you guys have inspired me to experience a singular kind of anchored joy that I only feel when watching your videos. It‘s similar to the joy I feel when watching the forest or thinking about the eternal order of the universe or when my closet fills with the flowery smell of fresh washed bedsheets or when I discover a new cozy coffee shop with coffee that, in a miraculous turn of events, actually suits my taste. Snugglypuffins

    • @xxxpandaxxxae
      @xxxpandaxxxae 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I sniff food to make sure it’s still good after my brother accidentally drank some bad milk 😂

  • @krisspop
    @krisspop 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They mentioned a lot of challenges that interracial couples encounter. So happy they overcame all of those and see how they’re so happyyyy! 🥰

  • @victrola2007
    @victrola2007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Congrats you two! Your situation is unique in so many ways, but advice is universal. You are equals walking side by side with the same goals. It's beautiful to see. I wish you another 80 years more!!
    (K's background is Korean, but not of someone who hasn't lived abroad and even parents' attitude is unique. There can only be one Dancing Lee!)

  • @indiramichaelahealey5156
    @indiramichaelahealey5156 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    You two are so funny and so right about things. It's wonderful to be best friends as well as lovers. I think an international relationship of any kind widens your horizon. You learn a lot about other countries, cultures and food.

    • @MC-ko2mx
      @MC-ko2mx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes, and you learn so much about yourself too.
      There's this constant influx of fresh perspectives in an international relationship.

  • @ohjessika
    @ohjessika 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Happy 10th anniversary!!
    I laughed out loud at you guys talking about the quirks you've grown to love, thank you for sharing!

  • @lucillesalvador
    @lucillesalvador 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I love how mature (both of) your mindsets are! I think people are curious because they don't understand why there's no drama, no emotional manipulation, no negativity of any kind in your relationship. I initially tuned in week in/out because I missed Seoul, but stayed on because I love watching the genuineness, your honesty, your supportiveness, how you communicate with each other, transparency (not only with your audience, but most importantly with each other).
    Congratulations on the 10 years!

  • @kathykay975
    @kathykay975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The whole part of Kyuho's style of putting on his pants, Sarah's demonstration of it & Kyuho's laughing at it brought tears to my eyes I was laughing so hard! 😂
    But seriously, you have such a great relationship. There's Love AND Respect there & those are the one's that last!

    • @2hearts1seoul
      @2hearts1seoul  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We were cracking up so hard editing that bit too, lol 😂

  • @jennynilsson6350
    @jennynilsson6350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Happy 10 year anniversary!! You are so sweet together. You can tell you have so much respect, appreciation and love for eachother and you are both so genuine in your videos. I also hope my future partner would be like a best friend as well 😁
    I really appreciate the Korean subtitles, it helps me practise my Korean and learn new words. Btw, your hair looks really pretty Sarah!

  • @kellyyoo6096
    @kellyyoo6096 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow, Sarah is so mature to say "never assume your partner to read your mind"
    That's what I need... communication!
    Not easy...
    Respect Sarah & Kuho about their opinions of relationship

    • @NsTheName
      @NsTheName 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      That was actually Kyuho, but your right! It feels hard to find open communication with people :(

  • @j-n-y
    @j-n-y 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yay! Congrats to you two! 🥰 It is such a nice feeling having been in a relationship for so long. You never stop learning things about each other, and of course love each other more and in a totally different way than what you did in the beginning.
    Me and my bf bf celebrate 16,5 years together next month 😊

  • @christinesmith6165
    @christinesmith6165 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m not even sure how I stumbled upon your vlog but I LOVE it!!! I am a first generation Pacific Islander who married a German American and I wish I was as savvy and aware as you two were when you were dating and got married. I think lots of first generation immigrant kids don’t take into consideration the unspoken influences of their parent’s’ culture. Seoul is beautiful and my first experiences with your vlog was Seoul during Cherry Blossom season - gorgeous ❤!!! Thanks for putting out such lovely content 😊

  • @kojayeoja
    @kojayeoja 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The first thing I noticed about Kyuho was his laugh too! It's such a great laugh, so genuine and hearty.

  • @kaisachu
    @kaisachu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Now why did this video make me cry 😭 Congrats on your first decade together!! ❤️
    I’ve been watching you guys for years and never get tired of seeing your videos. I have never wanted children of my own and people around me have a hard time understanding that, but seeing how you are able to still have such a mature and loving relationship, happy with just each other and Beemo, is so encouraging.
    Thank you for continuously sharing bits of your lives with us! 😊

  • @seapig26
    @seapig26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Happy 10th anniversary, Sarah and Kyuho! Thank you for sharing your insights. Your videos are always lovely to watch and provide food for thought. Wishing the both of you many more years of happiness together! :)

  • @marylee2809
    @marylee2809 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love how sincere, grounded, down to earth you both are! Great personalities! Love how you both work together as a team! Good looking couple 💖

  • @jenv6846
    @jenv6846 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just "happened" across this video this morning. As a 21-year married woman, I applaud you two! Your advice is solid and I wish you many, many more years of growing in happiness with and toward one another. Blessings!

  • @vichellerenae8639
    @vichellerenae8639 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Your on the same page, which is so important. I am also in an international marriage. I also agree, my husband is Indonesian and I am from the USA. VERY TRUE.....keeps your options open! I think you get along well with communication. That is the definite most difficult issue for me and my husband. BRAVO! Your an amazing couple.

  • @BeeBee-ku1ym
    @BeeBee-ku1ym 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What great advice… I can see why you chose each other. So supportive.

  • @yhc1583
    @yhc1583 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    한국인 부부인데도 흥미롭게 봤어요ㅎ 영상 볼 때마다 분위기가 너무 행복해보였는데 이번 영상을 보니 두분께서 얼마나 상대방을 배려하고 이해하시는지 느껴졌어용 :) 많이 배웠습니당 감사해요😺

  • @AguaAbigail
    @AguaAbigail 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You have a strong solid and loving relationship and I loved the answers to all the questions!💗
    Happy 10th Anniversery!

  • @bellesenoron955
    @bellesenoron955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Im so amazed with both your maturity for a young couple...i tossed my hats 9ff to both your parent, forvraising you b9th welll...you deserve to be vloggers because you are rolevmodels!Kudos to your channel...and may our Lord God always bless you both and your parents and the rest of the family...keep sharing positive vibes and new learnings...

  • @pauzen5365
    @pauzen5365 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing your love and respect for each other. It is a love story better than most movies.

  • @jessicas.8776
    @jessicas.8776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You two are pretty wise for such young people. I love it. Congratulations on your anniversary and finding one another. Thank you for sharing our advice.

  • @kineko7823
    @kineko7823 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how you sincerely listen to each other!

  • @nicolegordon129
    @nicolegordon129 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hubby and I have been married for 21 years and you guys are giving some good advice. Communication. Yes. Don’t name call or go to bed angry. Yes. A lot of this is great advice in any relationship. I love the throwback photo by the way. Happy 10 years relationship having. Lol. As always, good job guys!

  • @Lrbrz
    @Lrbrz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope to have a relationship like yours. It’s so mature and built on mutual respect and appreciation and communication. There’s very little, or even no, drama or negativity or toxicity. It seems so genuine and so healthy. Room for each other to growth, individually and together. Mutual love. Best friends. Thank you for always being genuine and sharing with us.

  • @jlogsdon1540
    @jlogsdon1540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Favorite part was the quirks. 😂🤣😂🤣 Too funny!

  • @christinesmith6165
    @christinesmith6165 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys are so well adjusted!! You have such good communication skills and are so fortunate to have met each other - compatible in your emotional intelligence! That is uncommon and remarkable 😮 ! Bravo 👏

    • @2hearts1seoul
      @2hearts1seoul  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you 🥹❤️ And thanks so much for watching!

  • @littleoneofmany
    @littleoneofmany 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Happy 10th anniversary!!

  • @soosteph
    @soosteph 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy anniversary!💚 국제커플로서 정말 공감되는 얘기들이었어요 특히 부모님이 내 외국인 파트너를 마음에 들어하지 않을 때, 규호님 말씀하신 것처럼 먼저 오해가 있는지 알아보고, 그런 게 아니라면 만남 자리를 많이 주선해보는 것도 좋은 것 같아요! 내 파트너가 좋은 사람이라는 건 그냥 말로 설득하는 것보다, 직접 만나보고 대화도 해봐야 부모님께도 그 사람의 매력과 진심이 더 잘 보이더라고요!🙂

  • @niteotter
    @niteotter 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love these videos. And, as I’ve said several times - I LOVE Kyuho’s laugh! Every time. Just makes me feel better. I LOVE that Sarah sniffs her food - I do that, too! I think it enhances the food or warns you to keep your composure in public when it’s a smell you don’t like. And, for heaven’s sake, pay more attention to Beemo!! I cannot say this enough. I just want to pet him so much! (A note to fans out there, who haven’t yet subscribe to Patreon.)

    • @2hearts1seoul
      @2hearts1seoul  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahah, Beemo gets SO much constant attention it’s ridiculous, don’t worry 😂

  • @florencianunez4740
    @florencianunez4740 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You two are the sweetest ❤ Happy anniversary! Im so glad I found your channel, it has been a huge comfort in my life over the past year ❤

  • @jeyd3572
    @jeyd3572 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love watching you both, real people. Thank you.

  • @kevinyeohck
    @kevinyeohck 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Aww this is such a sweet video and makes me wanna go find a partner asap 🤣 And good job to Kyuho on all the subtitles! 👏

  • @nukem384
    @nukem384 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    COMMUNICATION is a big one. That along with finances, trust and the whole kids/no kids thing are definitely the most important things to hash out before taking that stroll down the isle. Love these types of videos from you guys! Maybe an every year anniversary thing? Eh eh??

  • @mckenziehart6228
    @mckenziehart6228 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I watched with the subs on (even though I don't know the Korean language) just because Sarah shared how much time Kyuho spends subbing the videos. Congratulations on a decade together!

    • @2hearts1seoul
      @2hearts1seoul  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahah, thank you so much for the support 😂

  • @ktsls82
    @ktsls82 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m from British Columbia. My Mom called my Dad’s parents Mom and Dad. This is quite common.

    • @madi-maui
      @madi-maui 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Do you think it's because they are traditional? I feel like no one does that anymore

    • @2hearts1seoul
      @2hearts1seoul  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh wow, this is my first time hearing about people doing this in Canada, so interesting!

  • @rooreadsbooks5745
    @rooreadsbooks5745 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i know we only see what you guys show us on screen but really you both seem to have a really strong relationship - not only because you are compatible as people but because you both seemed to have really worked to get to that point by developing a great sense of communication. it is very true that people aren't mind readers. congrats on 10 years!

  • @helenyoung7789
    @helenyoung7789 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks guys, such great advise! I love learning from you both and seeing an example pf such a harmonious relationship xoxo Happy anniversary!

  • @nurwahyuniaziz1167
    @nurwahyuniaziz1167 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yesss to extra video. happy anniversary you too ! may your loves continue to soar higher and higher. please know people who's watching your video loves you for who you are. no one else should question that for you.

  • @TayTay96845
    @TayTay96845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Im really curious, have you guys talked about when you and your parents get older. If you will stay in Korea or move to Canada? Or just continue to visit often? Me and my husband live near my family in America but we worry about the future when his parents in Korea get older,how we can be there to help them when they need us?

  • @franziska5904
    @franziska5904 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Happy anniversary! 😊
    We (German / Korean couple) had similar experiences with the in-laws. It is very different between our countries. ^^ (But not bad 😊)

  • @nessela
    @nessela 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    relationship goals ... you guys are such a extraordinary couple, lovely

  • @MelissaLearns
    @MelissaLearns 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OMGGG YOUR KITTY MELTS MY HEART! (newer subscriber here)
    Love this Q&A

  • @daxo7833
    @daxo7833 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy 10 years anniversary 💖 i hope we can watch you grow older together for many years to come ❤️ your love and friendship is very genuine and I love that. Rare to find it among other youtubers ❤️

  • @janetvelazquez579
    @janetvelazquez579 ปีที่แล้ว

    the quirks were my favorite....and those Beemo"? moments... thanks for sharing

  • @mashaellis9349
    @mashaellis9349 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for a great video, I’m an American married to Indian. Living in his country. You guys had great questions revolving around a lot of things that we go through as intercultural marriage. I say do another video!

  • @alissedanielle
    @alissedanielle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I usually don’t comment but I wanted to mention that I always enjoy your videos, especially sit down ones like these, they always feel so chill and cozy, like you’re talking with friends 😌 I especially enjoyed hearing your relationship advice, and your experiences. I also couldn’t help but notice that a lot of your advice sounds like it’s based from the Bible. I think that’s very interesting, and cool! Thanks again for another awesome video, can’t wait to see the next ones! ☺️👍

    • @2hearts1seoul
      @2hearts1seoul  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much! We’re so glad you enjoy this style of video ☺️ We aren’t religious at all, but in our experience, these are just some of the things that we find important when it comes to relationships ☺️

  • @dtlee808
    @dtlee808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Sarah and Kyuho! Thank you for this Q&A video. It was so insightful and delightful! Very wise advice. Daryl and I agree with and actively practice all of it. We have been married for 19 years and it's been an amazing journey. Aloha, Darlene ❤️

    • @2hearts1seoul
      @2hearts1seoul  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congrats to the two of you on your 19 years together ☺️♥️

  • @hhspore
    @hhspore 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love kyuho's laugher too ! Ha ha ha. Happy 10th anniversary ! Ajumma from Singapore

  • @andreamendezsalazar5052
    @andreamendezsalazar5052 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have been watching your videos and it is so relaxing. Congratulations for your 10th anniversary. I'm also married with a korean guy and I still have culture shocks with his family. Thanks for your advice 👍🏿

  • @jessicas.8776
    @jessicas.8776 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Re: the question about when your parents hate the person you love. If you are the hated person, consider how hard it might be if your lover never/rarely has your back i.e., they stay close to their family and you try to make it work but it's always awkward...that can wear a person down over time. Perhaps discuss with your lover how holidays and so on will work for both of you, etc., It is not easy to be married (23 years) to someone and have an in-law who hates you (in my case, I'm the wrong color).

  • @butterflymuse2707
    @butterflymuse2707 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys are so cute. It's very evident in your videos how much you love and respect each other! Happy 10 years! My husband and I's 10 year anniversary is next week! 2011 was a good year 😂🤣😂🤣

  • @itshoneybii
    @itshoneybii 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the pants part got me XD XD to funny! You guys are so wholesome. I also use my teeth to "grab" food. I think it stems from not wanting to ruin lip gloss/stick

  • @annanyagopakumar7335
    @annanyagopakumar7335 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy happy 10 years guys!! Your child (beemo) is so so lucky to have such loving and hilarious parents 😂 he kept stealing the spot like in the video that is particularly for his parents (absolutely loved it)

  • @nikkijones4804
    @nikkijones4804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "your name is too long, I can't even call" That was endearing ahaha

  • @DPheart
    @DPheart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really like your relationship advice, communications is soo important!

  • @cherylschaeffer7832
    @cherylschaeffer7832 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy 10th anniversary together! Great video. You two are so amazing!

  • @marchunt1154
    @marchunt1154 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy 10 years anniversary! Thanks for sharing your experiences

  • @kittylumps
    @kittylumps 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Our 20 years of dating was a few days ago. Congratulations!

  • @Elainesiunorlee
    @Elainesiunorlee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Of all the cats I watched on youtube, yours is the cutest; so adorable.

  • @DianeC1975
    @DianeC1975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video. Lovely to watch a loving relationship. 💕

  • @TS-ju8uu
    @TS-ju8uu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's great to hear you guys talk to each other regarding your finances. I believe here in the U.S., financial stresses are the number one reason for a divorce.

  • @nonidagoo1
    @nonidagoo1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Happy 10 year Anniversary to you two !!!! Always love your Q & A and discussions between your relationship and culture . Beemo loves to be included in your Q & A ! Its like he is the interviewer for this channel ! (^~^)

    • @2hearts1seoul
      @2hearts1seoul  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you! So happy to hear you enjoy these types of videos ☺️

    • @nonidagoo1
      @nonidagoo1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@2hearts1seoul Always do ! And Thank you both for sharing them ! (^~^)

  • @tinamarkham8230
    @tinamarkham8230 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    great Q & A...... Happy 10 Years and many more!!
    i can relate on the international level.... but also lucky for me my family fell in love with my hubby from the start as well as his family with me ( even though there is a language barrier )
    we have been together for 16 yrs married for 12 and friends always ask how we have lasted this long and i think the fact that we trust each other and there is no jealousy in our relationship has been key.

  • @alyserendipity
    @alyserendipity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very random but Sarah your hair is so pretty. This was a lovely and insightful video. Happy 10th anniversary!!!

  • @kjt9650
    @kjt9650 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You guys are always so calm and it just feels like you have a very stable and genuine relationship. So sweet to see how you are just genuine best friends. Love you guys and your videos! I'm going on 10 years with my husband and we are from different countries as well, I think if we ever met in real life we could be good couple friends hehe :D

    • @2hearts1seoul
      @2hearts1seoul  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Congratulations to yours and your husband’s 10 years together! ☺️♥️

  • @darthbee18
    @darthbee18 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I still can't get over Kyuho's 2011 haircut 😂🤣🤣 (it's just so iconic 🤣🤣)
    Also when Sarah said "Western Breakfast" and Beemo came over 🐱 (and being his usual needy and coy self 😏😜).

  • @jenniferkim6176
    @jenniferkim6176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It’s been exactly 10 yrs since I met my husband on a blind date. One thing that I don’t allow my husband to call me is ‘야’. He’s 3 yrs older but I shut that down quick. I told him it’s disrespectful to call your spouse by that. But then whenever I’m angry or joking around, I call him ‘야’ lol

  • @lynn7167
    @lynn7167 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy 10th year anniversary, Sarah and Kyuho! Wish you both more love and joy in the years to come!

  • @samiamasia
    @samiamasia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy 10th year anniversary!

  • @moon_sie7794
    @moon_sie7794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy 10 year Anniversary 🥳☺️🤍
    That's amazing and such a blessing, may God continue blessing you more and more in each day of your beautiful journey ✨🙏🏾

  • @긍짜
    @긍짜 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    10주년 기념 축하드립니다!!
    사랑해요 두 분~.~♡♡♡
    초창기부터 너무 잘 보고 있습니다
    항상 좋은 영상 보여주시려는 노력 너무 감사해요! 언젠가 마주치게되면 꼭 인사 드리고 싶어요!!

    • @2hearts1seoul
      @2hearts1seoul  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      감사합니다 ☺️ 근화님과 마주치게 된다면 꼭 인사나눌수 있길 바랄게요! 😃 좋은 주말 보내세요!

  • @epiphadipity
    @epiphadipity 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yayyyyyyyy my favourite TH-cam couple!!! And also I don't need the subtitles but I turned them on just for Kyuho to appreciate his hard work XD (ps. we need a video about each other's quirks HAHAH)

    • @2hearts1seoul
      @2hearts1seoul  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahah, thank youuuu for the subtitle support! 🙌

  • @marinaadlan8274
    @marinaadlan8274 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy 10th Anniversary! Thank you for sharing, and may both of you be blessed with endless joy and happiness!🎉

  • @brookepayne4805
    @brookepayne4805 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beemo-ssi looks so adorable sitting on your lap😭💖

    • @2hearts1seoul
      @2hearts1seoul  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahah, he can’t not sit on one of our laps if he sees us sitting down 😅

  • @J.H_Bang
    @J.H_Bang 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    10주년 축하드려요.
    두분 때문에 천생연분이란 말이 존재하는 하는거 같아요.
    항상 서로 고마워하고 아끼는 모습이 정말 천생연분 입니다.
    긴 영상 재미있게 잘봤습니다.

    • @2hearts1seoul
      @2hearts1seoul  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      와 지호님 그렇게 좋은 말씀을 해주셔서 정말 감사해요 😍😍

  • @soraya4890
    @soraya4890 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I also love Kuoho contagious laugh It also makes me wanna laugh..and it's true Sarah sometimes makes funny comments..she is so funny.

  • @yahiaouikheiraasma3430
    @yahiaouikheiraasma3430 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy 10th anniversary, wish you all the happiness and the peace of the world 💕

  • @karenv525
    @karenv525 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy 10th anniversary. I love watching your videos and how respectful and caring you are for each other. May the Lord continue to richly bless your life together for many more happy years to come. 🎉🎈

  • @NsTheName
    @NsTheName 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I do that too, Sarah! Saving the little guy. They're alive and have souls too and I don't want to be responsible for ending their life. My mom calls me a bleeding heart. Haha

  • @Marina-vr2zz
    @Marina-vr2zz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy 10th anniversary! 🎉😁💖
    Wishing you many more years ahead filled with love, support, understanding and lots of laughter 😊💖

  • @buffalo1230
    @buffalo1230 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome video! I'm 4yrs married and i agree to everything you guy's said.

  • @msdanaheart
    @msdanaheart 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was such a lovely Q&A, the vibe specially was different ❤️ you guys are so so lovely! Stay happy always ❤️

  • @kimh5794
    @kimh5794 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations on your anniversary! I’ve really enjoyed all of your content and love your cat Beemo! So glad you guys are willing to be so open about what your relationship is like and what you are comfortable sharing. Keep up the great work and really love how you care for those stray cats too!

  • @sylviat9825
    @sylviat9825 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Relationship goals! T_T Ohh, and totally agree with Sarah - KyuHo's laugh is really contagious xD