Your Best Self is His Worst Nightmare

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  • @SheRaSeven1
    @SheRaSeven1  3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

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  • @classy937
    @classy937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1104

    As soon as I leveled up my ex showed all his insecurities and he became extremely jealous and controlling. I had to let it go!!

    • @missybella9046
      @missybella9046 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      Good for you Brianna 👏👏👏
      Exactly ...it was his insecurity. He couldn't keep up with you

    • @classy937
      @classy937 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@missybella9046 Thank you!

    • @healthyandanextraincome4746
      @healthyandanextraincome4746 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Do you get the money ?

    • @sabri1913
      @sabri1913 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @Ritu omgggg that’s crazy that he said it your face 😮

    • @sagitterroristreigns8899
      @sagitterroristreigns8899 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@Nonabacha43my current one is telling me that 😢

  • @vpea1493
    @vpea1493 ปีที่แล้ว +531

    I am leveling up completely. I left my child’s father after the constant mental abuse & lying. I literally took my clothes & my babies clothes & never looked back. 2 years later I’m comfortably living, I have a brand new car, got a promotion, & my child is THRIVING!!

    • @ceecee9906
      @ceecee9906 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Happy for you sis

    • @jannelove420
      @jannelove420 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Queen Level 👸🏼 ✨✨ congrats

    • @CelesteGarciaTX
      @CelesteGarciaTX ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I want to leave too. Did you have somewhere to live to leave?

    • @user-vj3jl1wu6u
      @user-vj3jl1wu6u ปีที่แล้ว +10

      so happy for you!!!! it’s not easy but it’s possible, wishing you the best 💞💞💞

    • @Pinkypicky2
      @Pinkypicky2 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What made you open your eyes?

  • @Sunshinestarryrose
    @Sunshinestarryrose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +706

    My ex was so scared that I’d leave him for a baller because I’m pretty. So he started abusing me and playing mind games trying to bring down my self esteem. Needless to say I left after a month.

    • @user-cp5yi8cr5w
      @user-cp5yi8cr5w 2 ปีที่แล้ว +95

      Same here. Tried telling me what to wear and to not wear body glitter and makeup. Like you seriously don’t want me to shine ✨

    • @erobinson5942
      @erobinson5942 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      That’s what they do

    • @Notme811_you
      @Notme811_you ปีที่แล้ว +31

      At least it was just a month.

    • @Sunshinestarryrose
      @Sunshinestarryrose ปีที่แล้ว +30

      @@Glitter504 I’m glad that you got out. High earning doesn’t mean high value.

    • @ceecee9906
      @ceecee9906 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      ​@@user-cp5yi8cr5w Sis, he sure didn't want you shining 😂

  • @kxlot79
    @kxlot79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +517

    Your best self is an INSECURE person’s worst nightmare! I’ve experienced this with women who are unhappy settling with their dead end relationships.

    • @boosiechic1
      @boosiechic1 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Preach!

    • @redefinedliving5974
      @redefinedliving5974 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      No wonder partnered same age peers push me to marry and have kids

  • @Hebrewesss
    @Hebrewesss 3 ปีที่แล้ว +527

    I been rejecting multiple marriage offers but collecting the jewelry lmao

    • @laundrybasket2689
      @laundrybasket2689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      Live it up! 💯👌🏻🎉

    • @GottEddy
      @GottEddy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Like that parasite mindset

    • @pryese7
      @pryese7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Classy

    • @Nikyv786
      @Nikyv786 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Sprinkle sprinkle!

    • @Simibabyy
      @Simibabyy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      me too

  • @GoddessLaurel
    @GoddessLaurel ปีที่แล้ว +500

    My mom used to try to be what each man felt was perfect and it only led to being taken for granted and controlled. I think that people loose respect for you when you try to mold yourself to their exact preferences. I think that by being our own best version is a way to filter out who is not meant for us.

  • @Sunshinestarryrose
    @Sunshinestarryrose 2 ปีที่แล้ว +248

    Your best self is an insecure woman’s nightmare as well. The fat girl who bullies me at work turned around and told her friend on the phone that she wanted braids after I walked in with mine. Yet she acted like she didn’t notice my new hairstyle 💇‍♀️ lol

    • @niratomas579
      @niratomas579 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      They are insufferable🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @laugheveryday5870
      @laugheveryday5870 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Wtffff hahah how embarrassing

    • @southernsavvybelle
      @southernsavvybelle 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Ughh!! I’ve had many of these. When I was younger, I used to think it was me.

  • @SkyeeBlue3
    @SkyeeBlue3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +307

    "Men compete with who they can win against." And they still fail lol. This answered sooo many questions. Wow.

  • @blkbeauty5940
    @blkbeauty5940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    I love this look very feminine and classy

  • @Cute_Stuffs
    @Cute_Stuffs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    Shera is the mother I never had...

    • @ssmith8758
      @ssmith8758 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yup!

    • @Valiiid_
      @Valiiid_ 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That’s exactly how I see her🥹🥹🤍

  • @Sweetpea77799
    @Sweetpea77799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Just left a narcissistic and this is true

    • @laundrybasket2689
      @laundrybasket2689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Ohh yes! I had an ex fiancée whom I learned later on was a malignant and abusive narcissist. After he became comfortable and confident in our relationship he would make all kinds of comments which gradually eroded my self esteem and it even created a trauma bond. He was emotionally abusive and had a serious anger problem. I was too young and inexperienced with anything like this to know better. He used to hate ANY idea of me leveling up (physically or professionally), unless I was working a dead-end job that made me miserable. He wanted me unhappy so that HE was always looking good/better than anything else I had going on for myself or what I truly desired. I recall one day he literally yelled at me with “I feel like breaking up with you right now!” as he accused me of flirting with his cousin after I left a simple comment of “Happy Birthday” over Facebook. SMDH. There are SO many things I could write about him that were so messed up. My ex really is a basket case and should be locked up after all the BS he put me through. It’s been years since he left and I’m still not 100% right after all the emotional roller coasters. He’s married to a (and I am not exaggerating when I say this) VERY ugly woman, who I can only assume must have never put up with all the garbage 🗑 I did. Or maybe she does and is happy being his doormat.🤮 Bottom line: I have had to rebuild my self esteem and self worth, which has taken years of my precious time (after that breakup) for me to realize what an abusive, misogynistic monster that ex of mine truly is.

    • @Sweetpea77799
      @Sweetpea77799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@laundrybasket2689 I'm sorry you experienced that. O understand completely. I blocked him out of my life once he got mad for me going to the gym lol

    • @uoenoho5788
      @uoenoho5788 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Narcs everywhere.

    • @laundrybasket2689
      @laundrybasket2689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@Sweetpea77799 Omg you went to the gym?! How dare you! Smh, lol. I swear, most men need to come with huge, red warning labels. It’s baffling how many of us go through wasting time and practically being tortured from jealous, insecure, evil men.

    • @hercules4171
      @hercules4171 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You attract what you are...let him tell it he would probably say the same about you.

  • @SmplySoulfull
    @SmplySoulfull 3 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    Touching on that person who said her man found her level up book. All your level up notes should be kept in your phone with a passcode. If you must write it down then do so but then take scans of the pages and then destroy them. That’s just my POV.

    • @hercules4171
      @hercules4171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      First of all if you feel like you still have to level up on the guy that your are currently with why are you wasting his time let him go be great with someone else while you figure your life out and second, If your in a relationship why are you hiding shit or have a pass code on your phone yall say you want a trustworthy guy but yet your on some sneaky shit...as they say you for the streets.

    • @ShinySilverBunny
      @ShinySilverBunny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      @@hercules4171 #1 being in a relationship doesn't mean you have to share every damn thing... #2 men always have something to hide and sneak around as well with women so 🤷🙄

    • @hercules4171
      @hercules4171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ShinySilverBunny if you speak on wanting a trustworthy partner you have to show you can be trusted. And men don't hide shit thing if you know better you'll do better and stop dealing with boys who pretend to be men because his age says he is point blank. Me myself I don't go through people's phone's but if I feel like you on some bullshit imma call you out then distance myself away from you I'm not with the childish ass mind games.

    • @marte1376
      @marte1376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think that applies to diaries as well. Be careful on what you write, if it's delicate destroy that evidence. You never know who is going to read your secrets. Yes, we all have secrets

    • @niratomas579
      @niratomas579 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@ShinySilverBunny He doesn’t understand that the art of seduction is all about mystery!

  • @bluesky2648
    @bluesky2648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    They seek perfection in women they don’t possess themselves 🤣🤣🤣

  • @prettyluxury5014
    @prettyluxury5014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +329

    Keep the jewelry. Keep your legs closed. Keep the price going up

    • @hercules4171
      @hercules4171 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You keeping the jewelry only makes you look like need it more then the reason it was given to you, but when leave it mean nothing to us guys how can afford to go buy more the meaning is why most guys bug the phuc out when they don't get it back on top of how long it took him to save up for it and you keeping shows that since you are still wearing it you are still keeping a piece of me with you and when you look down at it the guy is gonna cross your mind. Me I look at it like this money comes and goes and some where down the line your gonna probably lose it or someone is gonna rob you and take it from you either way it's just a material not an asset. And sorry to tell you but your cucci holds no value and the day you gotta use lubricant to get you moist its a wrapped you can try an give it away and you will have no takers and then what card will you play then.

    • @Sweetpea77799
      @Sweetpea77799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Glad I did kept the ring and never had sex with him

    • @kxlot79
      @kxlot79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@hercules4171 you must be incredibly sad irl. Who even thinks about taking back a gift given in good faith, given in a spirit of appreciation and warm feelings??
      Only a miser with no real generosity.👀 In which case, you may want to look up the difference between “gift” and “payment,” and go after sex workers in your temporary employ?👀🤭

    • @hercules4171
      @hercules4171 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kxlot79 I wasn't going to respond to this but women like attention so imma give you what you looking foe, the way you think shows your age and I respect my elders, though I could get very disrespectful and your a woman so no need to get into no gangsta shit. Now gifts are given when they are deserved. But when you keep things from a pass relationship and your trying to move forward keeps you at a stagnant position in your next relationship. Because we see you're holding on to something an ex gave you why in the phuc would I wanna continue on with you. And F.Y.I though I haven't paid for no cucci with a gift 😆 on that note I don't recall having to ever pay for sex, if im giving you this pipe and you hitting me off with your cucci thats fair exchange like I said what value does your cucci hold that this pipe doesn't. Tell me I'll wait 🙃

    • @laundrybasket2689
      @laundrybasket2689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@kxlot79 That loser @cool breez is an angry misogynistic beta male replying to EVERY comment on here that challenges his comfort zone in treating women like s*** and encouraging abusive behavior. He’s replied to ALL of my comments in a very feminine and combative tone. He doesn’t want to learn or grow, he wants to insult women period. An immature time waster who thinks he’s the prize. 🙄🥱

  • @goddessuntamed2098
    @goddessuntamed2098 3 ปีที่แล้ว +397

    My ex loved to tell me that I will never be able to make it as a TH-camr and writer and now I have 2 books on Amazon that sell daily and my main channel has 30k subscribers and he tried to gaslight me and said that "it was his own insecurity talking" well, you are a 37 year old grown man, you should have thought better before emotionally abusing me until I join the pickme horde! I told him clearly we are NEVER getting back together, I only have time for SUCCESSFUL men that will be proud of my entrepreneurial mindset!

    • @jessicat2304
      @jessicat2304 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Congrats beautiful

    • @Butterflyhearts23
      @Butterflyhearts23 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Congratulations!! What's your channel??

    • @no-one00
      @no-one00 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@Butterflyhearts23 same I want to know and subscribe!!

    • @nikki9966
      @nikki9966 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      this made me so happy! congrats 👏🏽

    • @LilithTheAquarian369
      @LilithTheAquarian369 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💜👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @rickimcfarland2269
    @rickimcfarland2269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    Great title and it applies to all relationships with insecure people. They hate to see you at your best..

    • @hercules4171
      @hercules4171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      If the guy your with isn't trying to push you to get to your best and you reciprocate the same why would you waste your time, seeds don't grow if you don't water them.

  • @n0426
    @n0426 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Lol. I sell out every jewellery that’s gifted from toxic people. I hate wearing them so i buy what i like with the money instead. I don’t want the soul ties.

  • @nannaed7833
    @nannaed7833 3 ปีที่แล้ว +403

    Men don’t care about your money. Be submissive but be very very choosy about the man who is best worth submitting to.

    • @kissit012
      @kissit012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Men submit to worthy women. Why would you submit to someone that you birth/create? Do you submit to your children as well? Submit to a sandwich, at least it will nourish you. Nonsense.

    • @tanaahcity6756
      @tanaahcity6756 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Lisa Ray yes.

    • @hercules4171
      @hercules4171 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sarcasm. Thing is I wasn't amused one bit because that statement is true, I could give you the logic behind it but why waste the time you're only going to get combative by the time it's all said and done.

    • @lopersonaleslopolitico3089
      @lopersonaleslopolitico3089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Don’t be submissive ever

    • @Glam_Broker
      @Glam_Broker 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely

  • @hernidia
    @hernidia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    Keep doing you, Shera! You're schooling so many woman! Haters gonna hate and Shera will remain unbothered. Sprinkle sprinkle!

    • @hercules4171
      @hercules4171 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And what exactly did you learn. 😒I'll wait!... I didn't hear nothing worth listening to of value.

    • @clesetdVignt
      @clesetdVignt ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@hercules4171 another dusty spotted

    • @gabyyaby.9928
      @gabyyaby.9928 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hercules4171 to dump you dusty head

  • @lopersonaleslopolitico3089
    @lopersonaleslopolitico3089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    We should classify them on generosity and money giving, he is a ten means he gives me all his money

    • @amberhhh6056
      @amberhhh6056 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Love this!

    • @ak-47intelligence75
      @ak-47intelligence75 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😆😆

    • @queensun6059
      @queensun6059 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      yes. love this! why i stopped spending time w/men who want to be w/u but don't give u no money & go to cheap places. & try to insult u to lower yo confidence. boy bye🏃‍♀️

  • @Karmathevisualizer1908
    @Karmathevisualizer1908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Yes keep the jewelry I still wear the diamond earrings my ex sd gave me it's a reminder of my power over men

  • @liviareyna6704
    @liviareyna6704 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    your best self is EVERYONE"S worst nightmare.

  • @bellakim9404
    @bellakim9404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    A Challenge

    • @laundrybasket2689
      @laundrybasket2689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The majority of men will still disrespect you regardless though.

    • @bellakim9404
      @bellakim9404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@laundrybasket2689 maybe they will try once or twice, yet when a woman stands firm he'll conform or move on. If it's the latter than good riddance.

  • @SonyaOutThere
    @SonyaOutThere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    I've just noticed KS and his minions going after women who wear makeup or get some plastic surgery done. It isn't because of their love for natural beauty. It is because of the doors and options they open to women that marginalizes them.

    • @laundrybasket2689
      @laundrybasket2689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      Yes! My ex fiancée used to get strangely insecure on the few occasions when I’d mentioned I may consider a breast enhancement for MYSELF to feel better. He’d make the most obvious remarks like, “If you do that then you’re gonna change,” or “You’re going to get more confident and then you might be weighing out more options.” That told me everything about how insecure certain men are.

    • @SonyaOutThere
      @SonyaOutThere 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      @@laundrybasket2689 At least your ex-fiance was honest about his insecurities. The KS followers are trying to make it look like a woman is condemned or bound to what nature has already decided for her and will never succeed with makeup and plastic surgery.

    • @laundrybasket2689
      @laundrybasket2689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@SonyaOutThere Oh, I agree with you. I also wouldn’t doubt my ex fiancée is a firm subscriber of content such as KS. His misogynistic rhetoric should be banned as well as anything related to MGTOW. Women have had it hard since the beginning of time, and channels like that just further encourage and continue all kinds of abuse toward girls and women.

    • @auroramothergoddess
      @auroramothergoddess 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      THANK YOU

    • @hercules4171
      @hercules4171 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      This is straight bullshit we don't mind the make up on your face we don't mind as long as it's lightly applied, we don't won't are women walking around looking like they're about to go audition for a circus act...and far as the surgery if you go get it done at least do it to where it's damn near unnoticeable we don't wanna wake up next to the burger king mascot and as far as the breast and butt it's you females that have to worry about the long term effects us guys just don't wanna hear you about cry about it later because someone like me is going to tune out your voice and turn up the radio.

  • @beauty8018
    @beauty8018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Watching Shera while cleaning my bedroom ❤I love these type of Sundays 💯

  • @nj2791
    @nj2791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +143

    Aunty shera let me tell you this you are stepping on their necks purrrr you look amazing 🥰😍😍 also shera you are the best at first I wasn’t listening very well I thought I was cute lol I changed my see through clothes got a beautician new hair purses levelled UP 🔝 and stopped feelin sorry for these men they are not trust worthy just use them while you can tuh 💅🏾💕

    • @michelleapple1214
      @michelleapple1214 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Facts sweetie. Put your foot down. I met a much older older guy and I do not play games with him. He opens the doors for me from the car to what ever door I walk thru. People just stare at me and him. Always dress nice, look nice and smell good, you will get whatever you want. I never ask him for anything he just gives me what he thinks I like. From trips to handbags to placing money in my bank account. Again, I never ask he just provides. Men like pretty women who look good. Listen to Shera, trust me....xo and I have my own career and my own place. He told me he likes to provide for me because I work and have my own life. Always stay busy

    • @nj2791
      @nj2791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@michelleapple1214 I love this! I’ve been doing this too now talk iS cheap actions only and it’s been working out so well omggg life is good when you treat yourself as the prize put yourself your feelings and career first I’m so happy for you 🥲 level up gang 💰

    • @femininebritaneyburnett8904
      @femininebritaneyburnett8904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@michelleapple1214 I Love That 😍😍

  • @stargazerlily8451
    @stargazerlily8451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    I have to wear prescription glasses similar to yours and the men go crazy. I still do my makeup really nice though. Guys have a thing for the nerdy girl look 😜

    • @debbyluxe
      @debbyluxe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      So true my provider bf loves it when I wear my glasses

    • @LolaJay_
      @LolaJay_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🤓

  • @SonjaWebb-tq4he
    @SonjaWebb-tq4he ปีที่แล้ว +57

    The man I pined over for years fell in love with me after I leveled up and lost weight but then he cheated on me a lot due to his insecurities. Once I became the woman he wanted he couldn’t handle it.

    • @vturner
      @vturner ปีที่แล้ว +12

      never go back unless he levelled up as well

  • @user-cp5yi8cr5w
    @user-cp5yi8cr5w 2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I’m never changing for anyone else ever again. Trying to stop my shine! ✨

  • @SpiceCDivorcePartyPlannerShow
    @SpiceCDivorcePartyPlannerShow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    Wear all the mens jewelry together youre a cold piece thats why i love u lol

    • @laundrybasket2689
      @laundrybasket2689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      That’s hilarious 😂 and a great idea! I love your screen name, btw.

    • @SpiceCDivorcePartyPlannerShow
      @SpiceCDivorcePartyPlannerShow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@laundrybasket2689 😁🍻

    • @hercules4171
      @hercules4171 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's definitely not a good idea especially nowadays a lot of you females are not celebrities and don't walk around with security or you may have a gun but what goos would that be if it's in your purse and the person already has theirs out pointing at your head. More then likely they are gonna take your purse along with all the jewelry you have on so now you have just came a target all because you wanted to be cute. Like i said definitely not a good idea.

    • @SpiceCDivorcePartyPlannerShow
      @SpiceCDivorcePartyPlannerShow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@hercules4171 hmmmm

  • @jazzhamster4168
    @jazzhamster4168 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Every sentence that comes from your mouth is so smart, intelligent, wise. Great role model

  • @princessviolet470
    @princessviolet470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +794

    My ex loved when I was broke and at the bottom. As soon as i took back in MY power he couldn’t handle it.
    Level up so much that your unattainable to your ex.
    My ex thinks I date billionaires, he won’t ever be able compete

    • @cleopatramyers6134
      @cleopatramyers6134 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      YASSSSS!

    • @portlabel8811
      @portlabel8811 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      You too????!!! I didn't think this was real! Thank you for confirming 🌟

    • @laundrybasket2689
      @laundrybasket2689 3 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      My ex fiancée was the exact same way. I’m disgusted I ever dated him. He tried once to arrange a phone conversation awhile after he broke up with me because he found me on a Catholic dating site; I had written a few things in my bio that were dealbreakers which he KNEW were referring to himself so it crushed him (those were his own words), and he wanted to discuss it with me. I put him off and never replied. That jerk would need to PAY me just to speak to me now for my time because he robbed 5 years of my life I can’t get back.

    • @ThatGirlMoi
      @ThatGirlMoi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @Lisa Ray I agree. Just leave and do t try to level him up on the way out. He'll just use his chicken change on the next chick

    • @ThatGirlMoi
      @ThatGirlMoi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@laundrybasket2689 that is a great moment! You handled that well. I am leveling up and looking forward to blowing off my toxic ex when he tries to reach out again in the future.
      Can you give examples of dealbreakers you listed on the site? That sounds like a really good idea.

  • @dawngregorie7423
    @dawngregorie7423 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    "If you are looking for perfection, go look in the mirror" SPRINKLE SPRINKLE

  • @BeaHapi
    @BeaHapi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    "I'm just bein me, and I'm gonna stick to what I'm gonna stick to."~SheraSeven ❤

  • @jasminexxx3911
    @jasminexxx3911 3 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    1:27 😭 Shera you got me dying 😂😂 it’s true though . I used to be a nursing assistant and watched people in their dying days and it’s not pretty . Out of that whole nursing home in the city there was only one married couple in a room together everyone else was alone but it was kind of cute them getting their diapers changed together. That’s really how it is 😩

  • @FRANNYLS
    @FRANNYLS 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I love you, you stay leveled up. No matter what!

  • @epithanyreighn
    @epithanyreighn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    I only become perfection for myself, This is powerful 🙌💯🦋Beautfuly Flawed💓🕊️🙏

  • @beautifulone6533
    @beautifulone6533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I have your long playing videos on 2 different devices at once, and it keeps me motivated when I need a level-up "booster-shot".I know Im not the only one! I appreciate your long videos.Its like having you visit.

  • @giselleverde
    @giselleverde 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    your makeup looks so good like this 😍

  • @DDominoGeronimo
    @DDominoGeronimo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    It’s all their worse night mare. Call me Freddie and Jason. Okur

  • @oa8463
    @oa8463 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    51:12
    The lady who wrote that is either ugly or young and insecure.
    What hes doing to her, he will do to you. Thats nothing to look forward to.
    When you're pretty, attention is boring not flattering. Another womans man creepily staring at you isnt a compliment...him providing for u is.

    • @TheVgasm
      @TheVgasm 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Too many men think attention is enough to count as goddess worship but material offerings are obligatory to have any attention returned to them

  • @glomas8666
    @glomas8666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Those glasses look fantastic on u

  • @JessicaJJohnson
    @JessicaJJohnson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    @9min exactly. everything she say is micdrop. so proud of myself after 3 yeaars of on and off listening. I knew all along innately what she was saying was true, I just had to fully grow my backbone. As an independent, almost fully leveled up, near middle aged woman, got a backbone of steel. Shera speaks on it 95% of the time in my opinion. Of course our views are unique but all and all.... SHE GOT IT LIKE THAT AND SO DO WE! *1st comment ever*

  • @falsehoodbasher7240
    @falsehoodbasher7240 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    Where’s Velvet?
    I miss her! 🐈‍⬛✨

  • @meri_wata
    @meri_wata 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    : Talk like a librarian...
    Shera: shhhhhhh
    😂

  • @GoddessLaurel
    @GoddessLaurel ปีที่แล้ว +22

    What an intriguing look Shera, love your style, and how you are always true to whatever look you’re in the mood for.

  • @AnumIAM
    @AnumIAM ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You had me cracking up here with your librarian impression. lol "Your book is overdue".

  • @skeyesk2717
    @skeyesk2717 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    The look is KILLER. 🌹

  • @heartbreaker3990
    @heartbreaker3990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    You fine tho.

  • @lisettec6316
    @lisettec6316 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    people put up their own limitations

  • @bluesky2648
    @bluesky2648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Someone i know an older male asked me what man im doing this (diet and workout) for… omg i started laughing on the inside 😂😂😂 i told him for myself 🤣🤣🤣🤣 (we don’t think alike 😂😂😂)

  • @designsbysaskiaadalicia3295
    @designsbysaskiaadalicia3295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Shera looks damn good here ‼️😍💖

  • @Honeyglam
    @Honeyglam ปีที่แล้ว +11

    When I watch your videos I always have my notebook and pen at the ready 😚 so many frame worthy quotes in just the first 3 minutes of this 📝

  • @mzjnoelle
    @mzjnoelle 3 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I’m loving this entire look 😍

  • @deziurz
    @deziurz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    It's the wear all the jewelry together for me 🤣😂🤣😂

  • @n.m.2075
    @n.m.2075 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You drop your gems and you make me laugh! You are doing a great job Shera!

  • @kristenglamour4023
    @kristenglamour4023 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Looking nice ✔️ try some cat eye shape glasses also 😻
    Talk like a librarian. “ Sssshhhh be quiet” 😂😂
    I appreciate these laughs I needed a laugh today 👍🏾

  • @va9347
    @va9347 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    @sheraSeven thank you so much for this! You are a phenomenal advocate for us women! I love love your channel! I always feel confident and healed everytime i’m on your channel. Thank you for all you do!

  • @buetifulkay12
    @buetifulkay12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Jamaica isn’t impressive? Whether or not you can take yourself there it’s very impressive! From the beautiful people, to the food, to the natural beautiful resources. JA is very beautiful and just as impressive as anywhere else in the world.

    • @designsbysaskiaadalicia3295
      @designsbysaskiaadalicia3295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      My country 🇯🇲 Thank You ☺️

    • @buetifulkay12
      @buetifulkay12 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      🇯🇲 🇯🇲 🇯🇲

    • @vcodyy6693
      @vcodyy6693 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ok...

    • @Armelleee
      @Armelleee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Jamaica is over hyped and cheap asf to go there...the people violent etc..

    • @MeenieAlf24
      @MeenieAlf24 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@Armelleee Bingo. Take me to Tahiti instead.

  • @jennah5390
    @jennah5390 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The caption of this video alone is 💯

  • @nourhanebn69
    @nourhanebn69 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This is my biggest sign

  • @mariapass4962
    @mariapass4962 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    One thing for sure is you always on point

  • @thebeautifulwarrior8743
    @thebeautifulwarrior8743 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I was just watching one of your videos with terraine hicks the the Royal bloodline oudh video yesterday and omg your transformation is absolutely amazing to watch you over the years has been truly inspirational and I love this look thank you !!! 😊💛🧡❤

  • @Idkrememberwhatiateyesterday
    @Idkrememberwhatiateyesterday 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love you, Shera! ♥️

  • @Valentino2vaild
    @Valentino2vaild 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Shera! You look so amazing! I love this makeup look you did! Sprinkle sprinkle!

  • @hamdaesam5364
    @hamdaesam5364 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She looks so good…Sprinkle ✨ Sprinkle✨

  • @AgodisFemi-9
    @AgodisFemi-9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The title spoke to me fast! This is so true!

  • @realbigheart5994
    @realbigheart5994 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yessss Shera come all the way thru!
    Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨

  • @user-xx7oe3rp6t
    @user-xx7oe3rp6t 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Your videos lately have been on POINT

  • @nickyjja
    @nickyjja 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    this one best look , I Love it

    • @nickyjja
      @nickyjja 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      hair, make up and those glasses

  • @laulau3641
    @laulau3641 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This one was so deep, I am grateful

  • @creolehoney2253
    @creolehoney2253 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You had me laughing the entire video. A lot of things you talk about I think it but, just afraid to say it out loud ❤

  • @taylorfoxboutiquellc9963
    @taylorfoxboutiquellc9963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I like the journal ideas.

  • @amadamun269
    @amadamun269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Outstanding like always ✨✨🦋

  • @33ling_truth2
    @33ling_truth2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    So happy you still go live here.

  • @feliznavidad6958
    @feliznavidad6958 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Men, my family, etc always put me on a pedestal. It's so irritating. Meanwhile, they're complete losers or not doing as well as I am doing in life.

  • @stvycortez
    @stvycortez 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Gurl you look GOODDD 😍😍

  • @pinkblossomrose8072
    @pinkblossomrose8072 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I love the look ♥. You look prettier and prettier each time I see you.

  • @dollfacedolo
    @dollfacedolo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It’s the look for me *two snaps* SPRINKLE SPRINKLE

  • @Honeyglam
    @Honeyglam ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are looking incredible, queen 😚😚😚🩷

  • @melvincarltonscooterjohnsoniii
    @melvincarltonscooterjohnsoniii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    in response too tha title...
    if you trying too get back at someone...
    be your best for you...
    III

  • @PortiaMonique
    @PortiaMonique 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    There’s so much knowledge in this video 💎💎💎

  • @kiiiwiththreeiiis
    @kiiiwiththreeiiis 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The librarian has me weak. lmao !!!

  • @mselliot8453
    @mselliot8453 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Oo Shera love u were requested of to talk like a Liberian... She included loans and money 😆😆 and I thought l love money. I just love woman thank you 🙏❤️🤣

  • @To-self
    @To-self ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You look so beautiful those glasses fit good on you Shera

  • @lashondawatson6428
    @lashondawatson6428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Your so pretty!!!good advice as well!!👀💞🙏🌠

  • @serenityserenity9829
    @serenityserenity9829 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Looking beautiful great topic!!!

  • @patientlywaiting77
    @patientlywaiting77 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    You are too cute.
    Nothing is perfect. Everything has flaws.

  • @madeleine9925
    @madeleine9925 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Shera slaying as usual 🔥🔥🔥

  • @merfeyy
    @merfeyy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WOAAAH, YOU LOOK INSANELY GORGEOUS IN THIS VIDEO

  • @hadeel6067
    @hadeel6067 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You looks so pretty hereee💓💓

  • @jazminetorres2628
    @jazminetorres2628 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That thumbnail pic is it!!

  • @catsika3887
    @catsika3887 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Keep the jewlerry, or sell it, make some money !

  • @scarletlady3727
    @scarletlady3727 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes!!! This is a video that every woman needs to watch!

  • @shadowbook3452
    @shadowbook3452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Love the old fashion quaker look 👍

  • @Brilliantskye
    @Brilliantskye 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Looking amazing Darling 😍 yasss!

  • @loveli9878
    @loveli9878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Know that I 💚💚💚 you!!!Great Topic!

  • @Charlies2ndAngel
    @Charlies2ndAngel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hi SheRa🥰💜 I just love this title 😂😂😂 Get them SheRa....lol

  • @Amazing-GracePodcast
    @Amazing-GracePodcast ปีที่แล้ว +5

    YOUR BOOK IS OVERDUE 😭😭😭