EP 6 JustKetso on being scammed by the Gentle Giant | not all that glitters is gold 😱😱💔💔
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Ep 5 | Gentle Giant on Giving love a chance & believing in love after Divorce. “Be a marshmallow”
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Here’s Gentle Giant’s episode that Just Ketso came to respond to: th-cam.com/video/mP3Yk-UK_6U/w-d-xo.htmlsi=HfH4HBYwDxxSVrtF
Clearly there was a relationship here, the more she covers it up there more she exposes it
I knew that something was off with the gentle giant.He ticked all the boxes that women liked!!!
And you didn’t warn us 😑😑🫠🫠
Same Yaz I couldn't even finish the podcast
It was too good to be true, really.
I didn't bother finishing the episode as well. He is a man who has a script for gullible women. His extremely dangerous because broken women will defend him. I picked it up the moment he said his ex-wife didn't know love. Guys, come on, Romantic love and gestures don't mean you don't know love. And if you listen to him, he uses things like flowers and good morning texts as if they're the pinnacles of love. Come on...siphi?
I thought i was the only one who couldn't finish the episode.@@Andtherewaslight427
As a sangoma you should have seen further that he wasn’t faithful 🤣😳
That gender will swindle even the wifi gang
😂don't you find it funny how they don't sense the critical stuff but expect us to believe their uncestors opinions on how we should live our lives
Then, we are expected to believe what they say to us.
lmfao 😂😂😂
@@lesegomaodiio sele🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😝🤣🤣🤣🤣I am not laughing
Can she please come through with the truth that she and him were an item and he swindled her. I would understand this whole episode. I need the 2 stories to marry eachother in order for it to make sense.
Ey Ntombi🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 me, you, together.
Men know men better, so when he said most men don't like him 🚩 any human being with a smooth toungue🚩 he reminds me of Derrick Jaxon
The time he said his ex wife didn't know love, I cringed.
I also cringed....He gave narcissist tendencies. That's offensive
Thank you, i thought there was something wrong with me since everyone else in the comments didn't say anything about this. And also mentioning the fact that they ex wife wasnt raised by both parents thats why she cant receive love , it gave me an impression that he thinks he's better than his ex wife.
I listen very carefully, he would like us to think he took accountability but turn swiftly around gaslight the other party cz wow he is this perfect God...
He even said its because she grew up without a father, as if every father present in the home loves the children.
There are plenty of people who have childhood traumas caused by their father's who were present but useless.
@@siszama2294nna I was so shocked like hello what is he saying vele? 😮
The Gentleman is a higher grade psycho emotional scammer with a snake tongue, but I could sense it in his speech, as black men we are trying very hard and learn everyday to be affectionate but yena he projected himself as a Professor of love.
The truth in this 😢😢😢😢😢
I dont mean to body shame. A true man who is intentional on change changes all aspects about what he sees in the mirror.for example
You can not call yourself madam speaker when you havnt gone through the healing,facing the hurt most importantly you gotta learn to speak and to pronounce, also there is vocal training for irritating voices like this other ninja.
You can not call yourself " bongi thaBooty" when you got a flat ass, you get me neh
So manje lo bhuti ,saying his a gentleman gaint I was expecting to see a giant by length by presence bo buff nyana soh, then I saw those tiny hands resting on the pot belly white tshirt tucked in a skinny jean....I was like noh noh this January is entering too confidently. I did not even like that episode
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@@Ameerah07 Bongi thebooty😂😂😂
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I walkway from men... Aowa let's work and travel and re tsweng mo banneng, uit uit 😏
True, I left that pandemic 5 yrs, ago, I'm now eating my money and I have so much peace in my life
@@sizakeletwala8033 yass girl... Tlabe ra swara ke BP
Me too,left mojolo for years and I'm happy
Ledula kae bathong, ke mo springs looking for friendship 😂😂😂 cos that scam ain't working
@@bontlemadihlaba693 ke Winchester nna💃😂
I knew he was too good to be true. All that sweet talk 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣be a marshmallow tu 😩😩😩
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😂that's how he got the 10k
Hey wena...I stopped listening to that episode cos it was too kumbaya for me😅😅😂😂😂😅
Leyogenge angiyithathi serious😂
Love how you gave the lady the platform despite having interviewed the gentle giant.
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That's how it should be......natural justice. Hear both sides of the story
People like to borrow 💰 and when they are supposed to pay they 🚫 .
Imagine helping a person at the end they make a fool out of you.
I borrowed a friend who was in dire straits, an amount of R7K, before the lock down, up to today I am still waiting for it! Maybe someone may say it is small money, but it's my small money and she abused my kindness! All her promises have not been fulfilled 😢
Ketso thank you for sharing your story and warning us. Madam Speaker thank you for allowing her to vent. I could see her pain.
You are so welcome❤️❤️
So let us be clear. This lady borrowed a man she had never met in real life R 10 000. And then was surprised that the stranger did not want to repay her. People like this derseve everything they get because there is no excuses for this level of stupidity. Its funny how she thinks the man needs help when he was able to convince her to give up her money.
She’s not the only one. He has convinced many. He’s obviously good at what he does. 😢😢
Is she a mashonisa or like she said she was lending him money because she felt for him? It was a business transaction, it wasn't a business transaction? What's what here?
Mara le ena GG, what a wow.
@@sulezinyembezigqebayour comment reminds me of something this bishop who was brought on this podcast said, he said when there's issues between a man and a woman madam speaker will always take the side of the lady.
@@madams___speaker The stupid and the weak will always be taken advantage of. My issue is that we do not call them out. If you go around borrowing strangers you met online money then that says more about you than the person trying to "scam" you. Why do we treat woman like children like they are just the victims of life.
@madams___speaker wait what... other women reached out with the same issue about him?😮
I am scared to comment because of the underground gang. But…. Sesi Ketso, your story does not add up. This guy was just a stranger you met online and trusted him with your money. Along your storyline, you knew his family and his wife🫣 it does not make sense. I cannot finish this story. Thank you Madam Speaker to having your guest🙌🏾
Ai.. I could not even finish the gentle giant episode! Stru! He sounded too good to be true...
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😂😂😂😂 exactly. Love bomber that one im sho. Scammer of note
me too, 10 minutes was too long
@@nelzg5819 serious! Hai!
Me too
When someone said men put themselves first,i had to listen. Ankere he said he's off market (he's taken) hope he's doing the right thing, that charmy...cheeseboy behaviour 🤔, i had to re-read about the narcissist behaviour
I feel like there was an affair here... Mjolo ne ole teng mo
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Yes, because how else it this relevant to what that guy was saying in his interview?
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Even if there was a mjolo, the fact is he should pay back and not make noise, period.
"trauma le financial abuse "😂😂 Madam Speaker you are breaking my heart also , I had my reservations too but to each their own.. We cannot be marshmallows all the time, these men will finish us 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣even my own heart is broken my sister
He refused to come answer for himself, It was gonna be a relief, so now we don't know who is right, only them know. Thanks for the show Madam speaker
It's how composed madam Speaker is, I love this lady.... The interview is all over the place but she's just there so calm 😂😂😂.
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I had a blast recording this
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You know people who borrow money, are so huble when they need. When they now have to pay, you would swear you forced them to give you money.
My first time seeing Ketso but I love her..... looking beautiful ladies much love
but the lady seem to be inlove with the guy but now she want to make it as if it was a borrowing thing issue,,,,,aaaaaai ketso
The issue is him blocking her without paying her back. We all love the Gentle Giant but debts must be paid and an awareness must be raised 😢
@@madams___speakeryabona ke Ntombi, you have just gained a subscriber. We cannot just ignore the most important part, sticking to his word and paying back the money. Women are so vulnerable and gullible most of the time, they need to be protected from themselves. Because this comment wants to downplay his scammy way and just concentrate on those fake romantic gestures. Be a smart marshmallow.
SHE WAS SUPPOSED TO O TO X-REPO LOL
Even if they were involved, no matter what the nature of their relationship was, he was supposed to payback the money borrowed to him. Klaar!!!
I feel there was a relationship here
“Softness ya hae ska ba soft mo di bank account tsa rona”
Tjooh how l quickly share his video with my partner 😮, when I watch this one l started laughing 😂😂😂 none stop, yhoooo hayi,ngiyesaba man.his dangerous.
Sana the relationship/friendship is not make sure but Sana amatyala mawabhatalwe (debts must be paid). Multiple things apply in one this episode has proven that.I'll still take GG's love advice from the previous episode but we now know things about him he should have prevented by paying his debts on time.
An Empty vessel make a lot of noise, that's Gentle giant . Ngazi from ekuqaleni asalandisa ngaye ngivele ngabona ukuthi MXm labakhuluma so mmm
The marshmellow and jub jub part made my day😂😂😂😂😂...women ur level of humour 😂😂😂😂😂❤
Madam speaker wethu! Doing the lords work, kunini ngithi yhoo! Ay G e n t l e G i a n t mara!
Haiboooo guys were just ARRIVEEEDDDDDDD heyey😮 dj Tira witchcraft, merilyn and kids , and nou our national husband
It’s getting kuningier 😂😂😂😂
Yoh bathong we just woke up, we just entered 2024 😂
Yoh I’m lost who is merilyn and the kids
Made the dress, haibo😂😂😂 this dress is sold in soo many shops. But it’s lovely 🥰
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Yoooooh what a turn. I wonder
Did she not mention that she never met him physically, but she knows the family, or did I miss some parts of the interview
😂😂😂😂she only met the family ..
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Wena weh. I don't understand either
My point exactly😏
This story is not make sure😅
My love for you Madam speaker 👏🇧🇼
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I love your voice madam speaker .
Thank you so much 😊
Okay, so why didn't I receive this notification hee 😭😭 and why are you not occupying your seat? It took several minutes for my eyes to adjust 😩 😫 🙃
26:00 she listed all those abuse and their relations were only about money.. Bambi Bambi
I saw the red flags I even commented on his video
You two look good together.
I feel sometimes we hide behind the word "accountability" to show
responsibility while blaming the other person.
That was my comment and I was right about the second line
I knew something was wrong with him when he said he is not afraid to fall in love over and over.
Haaahh 😮😮😮 why didn’t you tell us
Mina I stopped watching that interview there an then 😂😂😂. We can't comment because we will be crucified by people who "believe in love". Let the people believe what they want to believe.😂😂
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Haaaaa
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I thought they interviewing you 😂😂😂 switch please
Askies I’ll never switch positions again. I usually ask the guest to pick a seat first
Gentle Giant should be given the right to respond
He turned down the offer to come Join Ketso. I extended the invite.
The he knows his ways …case closed …he wanted to read comments first and ask for a right to reply …
@@madams___speakerits giving BS madam speaker. But trust u to expose them without doing it deliberately in fact😂 The truth contacted u😂
@@madams___speaker ABAFANA SHAME, HOPE KETSO LEARNED A WAY
STOP SOCIAL MEDIA GUYS AND FOCUS TO REALLIFE
Madam speaker, I need a hug 🫂 from you. I would love to spend a day with you when I come back to South Africa.
problem start when you decide you want to be a provider as a woman, m sure somewhere the Gentle giant is/was the provider that he is supposed to be
Lies detected here. The nature of relationship was more. It can’t be that wena you borrow a man money you met online money. You guys were flirting and there was more. 🤔🤔🤔
True maybe they even dated too or more
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Exactly they scammed each other.there is more to this story.kkkkkkk what gentle giant was saying exist in movie or true love magazine
Too many gaps
Too many gaps indeed.She is not being true
The nature of their relationship to me it was not clear honestly @ the beginning it sounds like she borrowed a man she never met money. But of course debts must be paid.
Do you remember when he spoke about not protecting his wife. How can he then protect or care for anybody. Gentle what?. Run girls, run from that gentle 👅
We heard him but we didn’t listen 😩😩😩
Madam, please bring those woman forward. We want to hear more from these woman.
I've gotten myself into a tiktok influencer rabbit hole! 😂😂😂
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Ng ng this lady’s story is not make sure there is just too many gaps neh 😂😂😂😂 anyway to each their own
O love the dress awusukume🎉🎉
Ohooooo spiritual eye my foot,
Madam Speaker the correct grammar is you lend someone money not borrow them money. To lend/loan is to give, to borrow is to ask. May u lend me some money? May I borrow some money. The whole SA gets it wrong to the exent that everyone thinks it is correct. I come in peace
I’m also one of those ignorant South Africans who are not going to correct this anytime soon. But thanks for the education 😊❤
@@madams___speaker😂😂😂
THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thanks for the correction , I personally appreciate it 🙏🏽
Thank you so much for highlighting this!! Yoh!
The word narcissist, also does my head in, coz it's overused and in the wrong context! This is a personality disorder and we can't just go around attaching it to people just because we disagree with their behaviour! People who are not qualified to make this diagnosis use this word loosely!
I like this topic. I borrow someone R27000 in 2022. She doesn't want to pay me. I even went to her work place they hide her. Now she blocked me. She is working at Nelson Mandela University in Port Elizabeth as a professor. Im not working im a widow with 2kids. Please help guys.
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Madam speaker you look amazing that outfit wow beautiful ...you guys want to tell us gore marshmallow is a scarmmallow ?😂
Bhod ke sana but ya we move 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You guys should stop saying she is lying .. I watched that gentle giant interview and what he said felt fake.. He said things but you can tell his heart was not in it.. He is the type of guy who knows what to say , it's crazy how naive a lot of women are.. He was right when he said women love men , le rata banna and ba sa tlo le nyisa 😂😂
Mmawe why you calling us out like that 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
.He is a gentle tsotsi that one 😅Smooth talker , he made this one give him ten tao using nice words.. He probably told her to be a jelly baby ..
@@A-_B956maybe yogurt😂😂😂😂
Yhoooooo I’m here
Welcome 🤗
Shoooo abantu kodwa hayi man where is the truth mara emhlabeni gentle giant Nkosi yami why Mara but it was clear on the interview yakhe ukuthi this is the movie it is not real but we sleep peacefully on that day atleast 😂
No body is perfect indeed 😅, he is a gentle lover and affectionate but an arrogant swindler 😮
Banna ke ma devil shame😂😂😂
Eeeh .Madam diyabowa .I love u Boss lady .thnx for tracking out the truth for us .Love u to bits.
You’re most welcome 🤗 ❤️
Did u guys say he lied about his profession??how?? Is he another Dr Matthew??😂😂
He is a Doctor Shem yena but eish something is off kayena 😂
Lets forgive Gentle Giant he is weak in money but in love is strong so let us not cancel him totally.but thanks cc Ketso to hear his weakness
Madam Speaker wawususa umsindo 😂😂😂❤
😂😂😂 Yoh wena ai
I don't know how many times I have warned ladies about the gents in Tik tok. They are just running game. They know all they have to do is post content that favors women, love and host positive lives and BOOM! The sisterhood starts flocking towards them😂😂😂
Ay this lady she makes me laugh,very funny😂
There is a difference between what he came here for on Madam Speaker and what is being discussed here. That does not make him a scammer. He may have made certain mistakes with you and doesn't make him a scammer.
I felt the same way he came here to speak about love and she came here to talk about someone she was not even romantically involved with
Welele😂
The host says there's many other women who he did the same to. It's not a mistake. He's intentional. He's a scammer
Webhatata 😂
@@Lungelo911 I saw that in her post.
And I still say, he is not a scammer.
Whats the meaning of a lot.
Again, he came here to talk about love. I'm 100% that few that said got scammed had nothing to do with Love.
Looking at the lady, I have seen pictures of her on his phone after we broke up. We stayed friends since we were friends before dating, and he showed me her gf at the time, it was this lady.
Yohh
I love this topic, I borrowed Agreement Ndebele 10k since 2021 and till to date she still refuses to pay me. She is the reason why I have trust issues and why I refuse to have friends moving forward. Agreement Ndebele I still want my money, a whole metro police. How do you sleep knowing that you have taken money from someone that's unemployed and a single parent. I hate you shem.
Who is Ndebele?
Madam speaker swap chairs hle, I was a little confused when the video started playing and you weren’t on your side of the studio😭😂
I’m sorry I’ll swap 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't understand, they met online, she knows his family and his personally knows his wife? 🙄
She is not telling us everything. Mjolo 😂😂😂
But he paid you my sister... Why are you here... Why do you care so muchhhhh? He didn't force you to give him your money... Guys can we talk about pressing matters... Hai ama10k that were paid off
There are more people who came forward saying they have a similar story on how he made money out of them. He targets live sessions and gets women who seem to have money from those lives. This is a serious awareness that I feel
It was necessary for those who are still going to have an encounter with the man.
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Lol madam speaker don't be a marshmallow 😂 I refuse on your behalf .😂😂😂
You seeee 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😩😩😩
Yho I love this dress... Where can I get it?
Brothers was flowing like he was narrating something he read from a book 🤔 I was like eerrrrr before I even watched this lady, I felt something was off,
Bring both of them back please 😮
Thank lady people must come out share their stories to save others or allow scammer to continue scamming others.
Amen 🙏🏿
This guy presented himself as a perfectionist. I didn't like it when he bashed his wife, claiming she failed to receive his love because she grew up without a father figure. Just because he is from a good family he is supposed to know all about love. Yet he says we all have different love languages. So much contradiction. He is a smooth operator.
Madam speaker sit on your seat you are confusing us, for a moment I didn't know who is who
Bathong ndithe sorry 😩😩🙏🏿❤️
Ke ghubha Umswarelo 😢
@@madams___speaker 🤣🤣🤣back to your chair ma'am
How many languages do u speak ? ndithe Sorry, ghubha umswarero …sounds like isizulu
@@thebigdeal6671 she is like me multilingual queen
😂😂😂🙈o kare Ke theeleditse mgozi
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😂😂😂2024 Angazi Mr Marshmallow himself slaan my dood my Yoh is finished
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Gentle giant is prove that an empty tin makes the loudest noise.
Ketso's story is not make sure, there was something romantic going on here, still dont understand why she gave him this money?
I saw gore that gentle gient onale tempa when he spoke about his wife.... Gogo oright
I will listen to the gentle giant episode just now, but the way Ketso is so worked up, sounds like they did more than just borrow each other cash... ngathi he is a scorned woman
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That's why I NEVER lend anything I'm not willing to lose. You can come to me saying "I will pay you back". In my mind, I am giving it to you. If you pay it back, then good! If not, I'm still okay. You will pay it forward.
I wish this comments shared screenshots
I watched the Gentle Giant's episode and I am trying to understand how borrowing money from the lady and not paying it back correlates with what he said about Love.
I think I would understand if the person who came out to the podcast was someone he mistreated in a relationship or something then it would mean he is not practicing what he is preaching and that would be unacceptable.
But this one I am struggling to understand the point of it.
1. Ketso was blocked for 2 years by someone who can’t hurt a fly.
2. Many independent women came forth and said they were manipulated for financial gain using the language of love.
3. Many more women who watched that episode were sold meaning I put him on a pedestal so that more women can be his potential victims.
Therefore this episode alerts anyone who will fall for the smooth talks of the gentle giant in future so they know that the ultimate goal is for him to get money from you. As authentic and transparent as I am, I don’t need anyone using the episode I had gentle giant as the reference of how they fell for the same trap that many other women fell into 🙏🏿
Consistency is everything. You cant be a love doctor and do this painful thing to someone. So where was the persona you sold us while scamming and gaslighting this lady for 2 years
SHEZ BITTER
@@ntombikayisemthembu7711Aaai Ntombikayise,what a beautiful name. Kodwa shem nisezo tyelwa imali ngabafana. If you do not understand that actions go hand in hand with what you preach. Then nisezo dlelwa imali
@@ntombikayisemthembu7711Can you be sweet when someone blocks you without paying back your money??
yooooo i give up😂
Can I give up here with you? 🤣🤣🤣😩😩😩
Surely, make this show global huri😃, I am following your show ..there was lots of local language in this one..Is okay though. I had watched the gentle giant show so somehow I connected..watching from Nairobi..feedback for the future. What is huri guys
Huri means that
Unpopular opinion: gentle giant scammed Ketso. What he did was wrong. But he also understands women shem. Mina I took what he said to heart, be a marshmallow 😌 I don't condone his actions but I take his advice on being a soft woman.
I don't appreciate what you ladies are doing. You are mixing relationship and financial life of gentle giant. He said he did so much working love life. If he lacks on financial why are we mixing the two? Am I lost?
😂 you’re right this ketso lady is not make sure.. she was swingled by an ex
Ppl let’s break the habit of using these platforms to destroy each other. I’m failing to see the connection btwn the topic from the man episode and this. Particularly if he ended up paying back; its like we don’t allow grace for redemption
The same man is in many women’s DM’s who fell for him because of the way he speaks and asked them for money and never paid back . Many women came forward after that episode. Also me giving him a platform to speak without being aware that he goes around manipulating women means I’m putting my vulnerable followers at risk. That will not happen on my watch.
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Haai taba tsa Sesi hadi kopane...iyooo 57 minutes ekana for ZeRo🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄. Flirting went wrong
Atleast an awareness was raised for some people who thought the Gentle Giant is sent from heaven
Sibadala maan, , Nina benijola
Jolling or no jolling Bottom line , give Caesar what belongs to Caesar .
The way we love defend man it's on another level. To get support from some women forget. That's why other women deny when their daughter saying Papa it yr partner is raping me, you'll chose not to believe your own daughter🎉😢🎉😢🎉😢🎉🎉😢🎉😢🎉😢
But how one borrow a stranger from tik tok so much money😅😅
I also know him personally....we dated briefly, and he borrowed money from me as well till today he has not paid it.
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