Storytime: The Stalker Who Came to My House...& GOT ARRESTED.
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- Storytime: The Stalker Who Came to My House...& was ARRESTED. If you've been watching my snaps, you know a little about this. I'm sharing the full story now. The reason why I am telling this story is to share how I handled the situation and myself and to speak up about important issues like this that need to be discussed. It's ok to have boundaries. It's ok to forgive. It's ok to keep living your life in love and not fear. I hope this video inspires and empowers all individuals and women to speak up with it's important and to express themselves. It's not about guilt or shame; there is strength and courage found in vulnerability. I pray for your support in this video.
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Why are there so many people bashing her? It does matter whether the man is mental illness, you don't come to someone's house, and physically place your hands on someone. As far as a mental illness alot of murderers are mentally ill. So why bash a distressed woman and sympathize a man who is constantly bothering a woman?
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Yes! Thank you!
I think there's a lot of concern as to what she said after 15:15. It's coming across as criticism when it's really just ppl concerned. To hear her say she's happy she "inspired" someone she called the cops on is incredibly disconcerting and very unsafe for her to say.
because most of the people commenting on this topic are insane
ALL murderers are mentally ill.
Thank you all for your love and support. It means the world to me.
www.change.org/p/blacktown-city-council-public-bike-share-around-sydney-for-cleaner-air I would like people in Australia to Support this because it's clean the transport and not worrying where you leave your bike accepted the next bike
+Theresa Moser TM Yes! Boundaries are internal, not external.
That was a huge helpful revelation to me when I learned that!
This man does not belong in a prison, he belongs in a mental hospital. Kristina, I don't think he wanted to hurt you, he probably honestly believes you two are in a relationship. In your video you seem to blame this man for an illness which is obviously not his fault. Of course your safety should always come first, but please have some compassion.
that man got a sick fantasy. kristina dont feel guilty you didn't have a choice. i would done the same if I was in your position. it very scared when when somebody forces themselves on to us
The woman from ABBA married her stalker in the end.
Kristina, No one wants to live in FEAR, but please be scared enough to know that these sick individuals can murder. I hate to scare you but just look what just happened to "Christine Grimme" and so many others. With these sick people you never know which ones are gonna do what? Just don't take safety for granted. Please protect yourself.
I was thinking the same!
please take this advice my dear kristina ): We all love you and worry for you
Yes fear can be a gift
recently I've been doing a lot of spiritual work. I have been abused in the past and recently decided that I will start telling my story. I went through the shame as you did and I understand completely. its difficult for people that havent been through it to grasp, but your attitude about the situation is inspiring.
please be safe. please know mental illness is among us and the thoughts they sometimes have are not there own and obsession takes them over. dont be afraid, never be afraid, but never let your guard down. thanks for your bravery you have just helped so many people by sharing this. thank goodness for law enforcement and your loving community. Michigan supports you soul sista
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I love that she's so open, such an amazing change in a world of guarded people. And her clothes are not revealing, these are just summer clothes! We should stop being embarrassed by our bodies and shame those who accept theirs.
Of course we all have different standards and that's okay. Differences is what makes this world beautiful and exciting. I don't believe we should be ashamed of our bodies in any way, sppecially in 35 degrees heat! :) Considering anybody else's appearances is judgemental and I refuse to participate in such criticism. But I also understand that our society teaches us that criticism towards others and ourselves is a basic norm, so I'm not holding it against you. Loads of blessings to you!
I feel immensely grateful you have come through this experience safely. You are such a busy human, but you still made time to say hello and were very friendly when I came to Houston and volunteered a day of my vacation at your co-op last month. Thank you for living your words, being the love we need to see in this world around us. Your vulnerability and strength are inspiring, Kristina. Namaste! 💚
Thank you. Love you!
wait volunteer? isn't coop a company. so should have employees not volunteers? someone pls explain ahaha
@sana a co-op is most definitely volunteer based.
+Sana obviously you don't know what cooperative means...some time with a dictionary will help you, what weird comment.
+Gloriously Raw so its like a non profit fruit and veg market?
One of my teachers said "No is a full sentence. No." that boundary has served me well.
This isn't about him, guys. This is about spreading *awareness* so other people think before making the mistakes SHE made by not setting personal boundaries for *SAFTEY*. This is NOT about him.
Also, get a grip people, no human is perfect. To say that she was "wrong" to put him in jail is ridiculous. She is HUMAN. HOW can you expect her to make the PERFECT decision/ choice with EVERY circumstance/ situation in life? How?
Not all answers are clear. How about YOU be put in that situation and we'll see how easily you'll be inclined to make the "perfect" decision by putting him through psychiatric help, etc.
Ugh, some people are just hypocrites. Again, how are you going to expect a human being to be perfect 100% of the time in the choices they make?
Bless you, Kristina, for being brave and sharing this with us to promote healthy boundaries and safety. And thank you for doing the best that you could when resolving the situation and made the choice you did while ALSO dealing with FEAR for the situation you were in.
You only did what you could in the moment. We are ALL works in progress! People are so blind to even understand THEY are too!
You are awesome. Keep blessing people. Don't be afraid. Love your channel.
FullyRawKristina your my inspiration to be plant based
please do not feel guilty, you have the right to live your life without feeling afraid and all.......you did the absolute right thing!! YES, boundaries are good!!
You're such a compassionate and beautiful soul :) You handled this in a very mature way. You did the right thing!
Stay strong Kristina..Keep on doing what makes you happy!
You are BRAVE and COURAGEOUS! Things like this cause us to feel guilt because of all the reasons you stated and for not seeing the evil that men can do to us. I know you want to see the good in people and that is a beautiful gift you have been blessed with, Kristina. I am so sorry you went through this and I will pray for you and your family and the man who obviously needs some help. Continue to see the good in people and keep spreading your light. You are truly a light in this broken world. Stay strong, love, laugh, and live.
Luxor Phoenix
that is called mental illness. Please get some help and let a psychiatrist explain to you the societal boundaries that the rest of us expect from you.
A woman made of pure courage :)
Thank you for sharing. Your beautiful example of leaning into and FEELING the vulnerability of this situation instead of letting it fester and turn to fear and/or anger is inspiring.
Dear Kris, I am so proud of your strenght. Next time you wake up at 6am just remember we are all here for you!
Even if a guy is small and a girl can take him, it doesn't mean he's harmless. He can have a weapon! People are crazy.
Kristina be really careful; idk if you are religious or not, but when things like this happen to people, I as a Christian I just pray that God protects me from any evil of any form and I'm also praying for you !!
Agree, thank you!
A few months back I was in a mall and felt like one of my kids and I were being followed. I looked behind me and someone in a dark hood with a pale face was walking quickly up behind me. I walked faster and so did he. I realized I was about to go near a few exits (which I did NOT want). Quickly I crossed over to "oncoming walkers" and he followed me. I went to a bench with my child because they'd been riding piggyback style and I was afraid of them being torn off my back and taken. As he watched me from the corner of his eye, I hastily slid my child to the bench, whirled around and grabbed them to my chest, and took off running toward the center of the mall where it was highly populated. Within 15 seconds my husband met me and I quickly told him what was happening. When this man saw I wasn't alone he was startled for a moment, recovered, and then walked right past us as if nothing had happened. Instantly we contacted Mall security and we chose to stay and help point this man out. He was hiding in one of the stores and saw the guards but pretended to stay busy on his phone. So we all appeared "distracted" and looked the other way. That's when he tried to get past us. Luckily the guards stopped him. He apologized and claimed he wasn't following me on purpose and that he'd been on his phone the whole time. That was a lie. Then he began speaking gibberish (could be faked insanity or not - doesn't matter). The mall guards confirmed he'd been stalking me - but I had caught it within seconds. I am so glad I followed up on my instincts as soon as I felt something was not right. It wasn't just my safety at risk (which is bad enough) but that of my innocent child. Mentally ill people who chose to stalk or abduct do HORRIBLE things to their victims. It is okay to forgive but never forget and NEVER condone or enable their behaviors.
I am glad you finally did something about your situation Kristina. You loved and respected yourself to say "enough is enough" and let your NO mean NO. I know this video is like a year old now - but figured I'd share my recent terrifying experience and show you support too.
THANK YOU for sharing this experience, even though its difficult to talk about. But that's exactly why many victims don't speak out and get help. Our society still tries to blame victims of stalking, abuse, violence, etc. You have set a great example that its healing to tell others about whats going on and to seek the right help. Keep being your wonderful, awesome, inspiring self!!!!!
You're SO brave for posting this. Your work ethic and passion for the positive message you represent will give you strength to move passed this. You're doing great things! Continue doing what you do! This was such a scary event, but so many women in this world are oppressed and battered beyond what you or I will ever experience. Be a light for them to continue you, continue fighting, forgiving and being at peace.❤️
EDIT- *continue on*
do you think if he were attractive then she would date him? Im sorry but im just curious
@mike, how about you ask your mother, your sister or your partner that question.
Wow your so amazing!!! Your throat chakra was blocked by not talking about it, I'm sure u realized that. Your so inspiring!!!! I hope this doesn't happen to u again but I'm glad you took the good out of it. Most wouldn't be able to do that so my hats off to you for continuing to love despite what he put you through. Your such a beautiful soul! Keep being you!!!! ❤️❤️
Such an amazing message you're spreading from a scary situation! Positive vibes and thoughts I'm spreading your way!
Glad you are safe. Ugh people. This world isn't a safe place anymore, glad you were not shy to give him what he deserves. It's not ok to be harassed, ever. Don't ever be shy to take action.
Ugh!! Why does he have to be from Canada?!? ( I'm Canadian)
I'm so glad that you are okay, you handled this perfectly ☺❤
This is in no way a reflection of you as a Canadian. I am also Canadian and the vast majority of us are not like this guy. He could have come from anywhere but just happened to be from here.
+Quoya There are bad people everywhere, sadly.
LifeonPlants Oh yeah I know...I guess you just gotta be safe ☺
I'm Canadian to and I'm wondering in his state how on earth did he make that trip. Baffling! Very scary situation.
+sweetpea ya like how did those boarder officers let him through?
Courage replaces fear. Go girl! Glad you have your voice back. Clap clap clap
Regardless of this horrible situation you've been through. Thank you for putting yourself out there and share this intimate part of your life.
Love.
It really amazes me the number of people in this day and age who are siding with this stalker. YOU don't know the situation. YOU weren't there. I don't care if they are sick, injured, mentally unstable, "crazy", or anything if you climb my fence and go to my house uninvited and act like you're in a relationship with me with COMPLETE AND UTTER DISREGARD for my family, my space, my privacy...I'm calling the cops. his mental issues are NOT her problem. They are his problems and will be dealt with accordingly. She made the right decision here for her own protection. He completely crossed multiple boundaries finding where she lived...sending those letters...unacceptable. I'll go to the ends of the earth to protect my family. Safety must be a PRIORITY when you have an online following. Kristina, you made EVERY RIGHT DECISION. Disregard anyone that says otherwise.
I'm so happy everything is okay! That is absolutely terrifying.
& thank you for the amazing, inspiring words in this video.
i liked what you said "when something doesn't feel right to you, act on it." wise words..
I'm so happy you are safe. You have a beautiful soul and in my opinion, the right idea. Continue with the way you live and continue sharing love! ❤️
You are so strong for opening up like this. I'm so proud of you for healing and sharing with us :)
You are SO brave and strong and so full of light in so happy you are okay how you share any story no matter how bad you just do it in a magical way. Such a strong inspiration woman to so many it is amazing. In glad you posted this, and I really hope he cannot come back into the states now. You shine with a light so bright and your love flows through you. I hope you can sleep better now ❤️ so much love your way
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Thank you!
Holy smokes this is scary... But wow you're still so polite. I don"t know if I would be so calm and respectful towards this person ^^
I am not about hate.
Well, I'll take your example to work on myself ;) Thanks for your reply. All the best to you
Thank you for spreading & sharing your knowledge with the World. I found your channel a few years back when my husband hit a health crisis. You have helped so many, thank you. I look forward to more of your messages. So glad you are not letting this stalker or any other stalker stop you. What you do is very important. Sending good vibes your way!
Hi Kristina.. this was frightening just to listen to! As a mom, grandmother too, i can't help but worry about you, putting yourself out there, being vulnerable. BUT!! I am proud of you for not allowing this situation to change your heart, who you are in your soul, who God made you to BE! 💗Thank you for sharing your story, for continuing to help others, not just in health matters but in serious life situations such as this. And you do it with grace and LOVE always! I have no doubt you make your family beyond proud of you! Praying for you today! Ps... Get a few Doberman Pincer, please girl!! Hugs.. Christine
Sending my love and positivity! You're such an inspiration! I'm sorry this incident happened and I'm glad that everything ended up with you and your family/friends being SAFE! ❤️
Thank you Kelly! Much love to you!
This is terrifying... I am so sorry you had to experience something like that.
Thank you
This was so brave of you to post on here. I'm so glad you did. Thank you for all of your love and generosity!
You've handled this so well. Youre ability to forgive IS really inspiring and I wish u the best in your healing process.
This person was a "friend" on FB. He was sharing his perspective. I really believe his is extremely psychologically dilussional. When I commented that he was being viewed as a stalker and that he frightened you. He didn't get it and was justifying. I then proceeded to "unfriend" him. I pray that he gets some help.
Omg that's so scary !!! How did it take this many years to get him arrested. You have not done anything wrong. It's better for you a nd the community to have him away.
I think it's great that you are sharing this with others. So many people are afraid to step up for themselves, especially domestic abuse victims, because they often love and "protect" the abuser. But it still comes to keeping yourself safe. I hope you can inspire others with this story to step up against their abusers. It's sad and disturbing that so many different mental illnesses exist and we can do nothing to help a certain person recover. Stay strong and I hope that you or anyone else who's reading this will never encounter anything like this ever again.
You are truly an inspiration. The fact that you express this story with such honesty is amazing. You are so strong. I don't think every human being could deal this with such honesty and calmness the way you are. I hope this negatively leaves your life forever. Stay amazing!!!
Being a very popular TH-camr, you MUST protect yourself from the crazies. Look what happened to Christina Grimmie.....you can't always play nice to everyone who are in your face and show no boundaries. Your doing the right thing!
Many of "the crazies" are people who are suffering from mental illnesses. Out of respect, it's not really appropriate to refer to them by that term.
So your saying I should be politically correct even though it's the same thing. Pleaaaaze
+Cynthia Stephan hopefully you don't ever have to deal with a mental illness yourself... or anyone you love. you'll know the difference then
+Andi Potvin Lol I have a lot of experience in this thanks. That's why one word doesn't matter. It's the action you take to assist or prevent. Now the PC police can rest easy.
Oh Kristina, I'm so sorry to here what happened to you, I perfectly know how it feels to be stalked for years. I have been stalked by an ex boyfriend for 4 years (I loved this person and then lost respect for him) and the emotions I had to go through made me fisically sick. But how you said we have to learn to love from a distance and have hope for these people and their future. I really hope that in the future people will understand that to love is to let someone be. If you respect and love someone you will let them live within their boundries. Lots of hugs! Keep on beeing the strong woman you allready are.
You're such a good person. You have so much love that you can forgive someone that harmed you and wish them well instead of calling them a psycho and saying you're glad they are in jail. You are truely a good person
You're a strong woman, thank you for sharing this terrible situation with all of us. Be safe, be happy, be you!!
Your voice came back as you let it out!
Keep your eyes open and your guard high. These type of stalkers find the way to follow you and attack when you are unaware. Do not feel sorry for him, you need to protect your self! Take some self defense classes. And NEVER underestimate these type of predators. PLEASE be aware at all times. God bless you and gives you peace.
I'm so sorry you had to go through this. Thank you for sharing such a difficult situation so openly. I'm sure it has blessed many people who are or have been in similar situations. Sending you much love, support and hugs!!!!
Wow - that is S C A R Y! Glad you're moving forward and letting the authorities take care of the situation!
That's such a horrible experience to go trough.I hope all is well now and your mind is now at peace .
You should probably get your concealed carry handgun license. It's not living in fear, it's being prepared and able to defend yourself if and when you need to. Too many freaks out there!
I went through a very similar thing that lasted over 4 years and it was terrible. When it was over I felt infinitely better, but it took a toll on my physical and mental well being. I am really glad that you've taken the appropriate steps and that you're not letting it get to you. Sending you love, thanks for sharing your experience
Kristina you know ... the way you live your life is a true inspiration! Keep sharing and keep inspiring other people in spite of negativity and fear. I truly respect you for what you did. The world needs more people like you and ... move on girl. let love guide you even more! Big hugs. You have my total unconditional support!
Kristina, your address is available for anyone to see through your website registration and has been available to the public for years and years. You must make your registration private to save yourself from future incidents. Love you girl and stay safe.
Hun, you are in a lot of danger. You need to make copies and take that to the police. Do not take this person lightly.
Supporting you in your kind way of dealing with this situation. Sending you hugs and healing energy! Also, yes, live the feelings through your body - cry, work out, jump, stumping your feet - is the best! Thank you for sharing - boundaries is a great subject here!
I am so sorry that you have been going through this. Thank you for sharing and continuing to inspire others despite the fear and choosing to forgive and not live in fear.
That is scary I had a stalker once, and luckily nothing that far.. It got settled. For them man I hope he gets mental help. For you I pray you find solace after these series of events.
You speaking up hopefully got this man the help he needs also.
We don't know though. sometimes it spurs recognition of this issue to caring people around him who will get him help. It isn't always a court issue..
I am not ignorant to the facts, but I am saying we can have some hope. Please don't judge me as being naive because you don't know what I have been though myself. I have seen one person actually get the help they needed. Their family had no clue they were unstable like they were, and when they were notified they were proactive. I hope for proactive and positivity. We don't know the rest of his story. I am not saying to let your guard down I am saying for her mental state sake that she needs to look at it as if she did good. So back off of my case.
So sorry you had to go through that Kristina 😕
I am so happy you feel safer. It is truly a shame when you cannot feel safe in your own home. I think that you did he right thing. You and your safety are the most important thing. I applaud you for sharing your story and hope this was therapeutic for you.
You are navigating this with grace and love. Take care and always speak your truth!
thats right, you didnt put him in jail. he did. honestly, if it wasnt u, he would have found someone else to obsess over. all the best xxx
Hang in there. Be safe, continue to be aware and live your life.😉
Kristina, thanks a ton for being vulnerable by sharing this story! Be empowered to know, it is ok to have boundaries!!! You're an inspiration to many!! Keep being so!!! Peace, love and hugs!!
So glad to see many love and support you are receiving, bless of love to you. Thank you for sharing
Christina, I know you mean well, but by showing this guy's artwork & talking about how he has affected your life you are giving him the notoriety that he craves. This video is his dream come true. I'm sorry that this happened to you, but you'd have been better off NEVER having let him know in this way how he caused you to lose your voice, etc. He's loving this. He's becoming immortal in his own mind.
So true.
Kristina needed to talk about her experience as a method to heal. This is her way. You do NOT NEED TO AGREE WITH HER. Kristina does not need your approval.
I understand what she needed, I am simply coming from a place of concern for her safety and question this public venue that dangerous people will certainly be looking at.
But perhaps she needed to share the artwork for her own closure. It's not up to us to decide how she should go about dealing with this.
+Dr Ash - Vegan Neuropsychologist Amen.
❤️💕❤️💕 I'm so happy your ok
Thank you!
you are an amazing person, to go thru what u did & then forgive the guy. you of course have our support, there is no excuse to do what has to be done to keep yourself & your family safe!! you are super strong! we love you!
Thanks for standing strong. Your character and living your life fearlessly makes us better people
Dear Kristina, I think it's time to get a beautiful, big, trained German Shepard!! Keep him with you at all times! (if you like dogs, that is ;)
He probably won't be the last stalker you are going to have to bear. Some people are really mentally sick, so be careful. All the best for you!!!
Dogs are great, but they are not raw vegans...just sayin'
Elvira Elfje do you think she is that crazy?? Well, then she needs a trained ostrich, lol!!!
toxic tongue Hahaha, I don't know! But an ostrich or a perhaps a llama would be a great option! :P
Elvira Elfje no, but they can still be raw!
and glocks can b your best friend as well. lol.
This is the #1 reason I would never be famous or put my life online. I don't even have social media, the world is way too crazy today and its too risky to put yourself out there like that.
Me too.. I want my art out there but I'm scared to get the negativity..
It's definitely a crazy place out there sometimes. But like I said...I choose to live in love not fear.
I don't have social media either! It's rare to find someone who relates to me.
+alexismarinaaXO I don't have social medias either, and I feel so good about it
+Fluffyurim with art you'll definitely have way more positive responses than negative. The art scene on Instagram is basically the only reason I have one, I love seeing other peoples art and being inspired and inspiring other people with mine. And you'll make so many friends who do and go through the same things as you!
It takes a lot of courage to be so open, Kristina-----
Many blessings to you!
Wow. Thank you for sharing. So glad you are safe and sharing your example of experience, strength, and hope.
Speaking from experience, this person is most likely schizophrenic. While rarely violent, it is a mental illness that is just that - an illness. Schizophrenics would not willing choose their life had they the full capacity to do so. However - I’d recommend moving to a safer home and know that the law only has so much control over someone who’s mind isn’t like yours or mine. Take care and thanks for sharing your story.
She lives in a gated and walled community. Why would she move?
No no no!!! This video must stay up!! You have the right to express how you felt and explain the whole scenario. Also you did not say his name so I really DO NOT understand why so many people are asking you to take the video off. NO!!! NEVER!!!
MEGUSTA MEGUSTA INDEED yes
im so sorry u went thru this kristina. pls pls pls dont underestimate this person. dont live in fear but be cautious. hes very unstable. your msg about boundaries really touched me ty! hugs
yes!! so relatable..I totally agree STAND UP...gut feelings shouldn't be ignored
Im not sure how merciful it is to parade a mentally disabled man's letters and stuff, let alone it being dangerous.
By discussing this online you could be encouraging these stalkers even more. Don't give him airtime.
Dear Kristina, thank you for sharing your experience. Your story will certainly help yourself and others heal! I'm Canadian and I hope you can feel some peace that this person will likely receive mental health care as this is an important piece of our system. Take good care.
So glad that you're safe and that you're sorting this out the way you are. Please don't feel bad about the boundaries - he needs help and hopefully, the Court will make him get it.
Schizophrenia. That's what makes sense about the nonsense of those letters he sent
You are in my prayers, Kristina, that the Lord protect you and keep you safe in this evil world. I know first hand about mental illness, and yes, they can be dangerous. Give your life to Jesus, he will never leave you, nor forsake you -- "Be strong and of good courage, fear not, nor be afraid of them, for the Lord thy God, he it is that goes with you, he will not fail you, nor forsake you. Deuteronomy 31:6
amen
I admire your kindness, you gave him plenty of chance to leave you alone. I hope he gets the help he needs and doesn't bother you anymore.
I'm so glad you're okay Kristina. That is the most important part. I would have felt bad just like you did. It comes with having a huge heart. You were able to forgive him, and place boundaries. You did the right thing! Thank you for your videos
That dude is so messed up! Glad you are okay now! he will be outta here! Enjoy your peace. and Woodstock fruit festival acted quickly on that situation. He was totally kicked out and banned when they got word of it!!!! :)
Yes, the festival did an AMAZING job of helping me and protecting me. I love you and miss you. Thank you for your love and support.
+FullyRawKristina love you too!!
What the fuck?! This guy is not a messe. Everyone is good and can hve problems. Don't put shame on people.
+Nicolas Goulet uhhh yes, stalkers are messed up. If they weren't, they wouldn't be stalkers 😒
+Lorra Fae anyone can encounter mental health issues , this person was clearly not in their right mind to act that way , I hope he finds the help he needs to get better , have some compassion and thank God you are mentally strong .
thanks God you are safe now
I'm glad you are okay & you got the situation handled. You have a right to have your boundaries respected. Don't feel guilty for that.
Sending you positive, supportive vibes. Thanks for being so open.
I am very sorry to hear this, but no matter how big or small a person is, they can do harm. Just because the person is "small" doesnt mean you shouldnt have said anything because it could be a very serious case.
I hesitated posting a comment because I didn't want to seem like I'm shaming you for speaking your truth. You're right, it was not your fault and you shouldn't feel guilty. But I also wish that we could address these situations in a different way. I obviously don't know the stalker and this has never happened to me, but by what you were saying, it sounds like the man had some mental/spiritual issues going on. It sadness me that our only option and reaction to these situations is jail. I wish we had a different alternative because I work for a law firm and I've seen what a criminal record can do to a person that is not mentally healthy. It completely destroys their life. Society shames them for being "crazy", but we don't actually acknowledge that these people aren't criminals, they genuinely need help and support, not to be jailed. I don't know what I would've done in your situation, but all of this makes me sad that we live in a world where our options are limited to jail.
THANK YOU . for this comment. thank you. i agree so much.
I get your point completely. He wasn't trying to kill her and clearly had a fantasy life built up in his mind. Part of him seemed to believe they really were in love. He needs help and a diagnosis not jail time. He'll only do this to someone else if he doesn't get help. Based on the things he did at the co-op with the flower petals and washing himself, he seems to be genuinely ill and not someone who's aware of their actions. It is messed up that mental health isn't taken seriously in this country.
His arrest will require an assessment that will allow him to get psychological intervention through the criminal justice system. The real shame is that in this country many, many people don't get mental health intervention _before_ they commit a criminal act, because it isn't available. Thanks, Reagan!
tamcon72 Yup and the biggest reason why is lack of resources. I have PTSD and wasn't able to find a therapist who had time to meet with me for years. I e-mailed and called everybody and they were always booked. I finally found someone but she's expensive and my insurance doesn't cover much for it. My insurance will let me get a free pair of eye glasses but won't pay for me to receive treatment for a serious mental disorder. It's such a huge problem. Everyone is quick to say "Get help" but no one realizes that it's really not that easy to find a therapist who has time for you or that you can afford. It's not like finding a dentist.
xosecox12 So, so sorry about this. And angry . . . I hope you get the help you need, and soon. Peace to you.
Thank U for sharing!! I can only imagine how hard it was to share. i appreciate all of ur true words and took them to heart!! Stay strong, Be You, Be Safe.
Hi Kristina! I've had a similar experience that has been going on for over 14 years. It is truly frightening! So glad you took a strong stand and made strong boundaries & I think you should file for the restraining order! Hugs!
Good thing he is from Canada, he will be taken back and not allowed to come to the USA for years if ever, which helps you stay safer.
if he's from Canada then now that he's been arrested he'll have a very difficult time getting across the border. my guess is he'll automatically be denied entry.
but if he's from Mexico he'll have no problem
Thank you for sharing!
I think a lot of people can relate to this. I know I did.
Forgiving yourself & keeping well defined boundaries can be difficult work, but so fulfilling!
You are a sweetheart & an inspiration.
Hooray for living your life with an open heart!!! 💗
Kristina, you are such a light in this world where so many dark things happen. Thank you for sharing your story and for being strong. Keep up your activism and keep spreading your good vibes!!!!