In an exclusive interview, Lauren McCluskey's parents say their daughter asked police for help numerous times regarding her ex-boyfriend before he killed her and then took his own life.
Eric P so people who can’t afford paying hundred of dollars a day for personal security should just die? Not saying the cops have to follow them around all day, they should’ve made an arrest
University campus police are a strange animal. There's so much crime on college campuses, so much sexual misconduct, rape, etc. I hate when they use reasons of 'jurisdiction' to defend inaction when a human being was killed while crying out for help. It's crazy.
so many clean intelligent white guys she could have dated. instead, like a kardashian, low self esteem and she dates a disgusting black guy. sad. thats the real story here.
When my dad would abuse my mom, she took my brother and I at age 2 with her to the police station and they told her there’s nothing that they could’ve done and that she should just leave him. If it were that easy, if only it were that easy. She asked for protection to ensure she wouldn’t be followed. Anything and they basically just put the blame back on her. I don’t even live in the us, cops fail us everywhere
Wow :( that’s so sad What exactly do Christians mean when they talk about the “gospel of Jesus Christ”? Since the word “gospel” means “good news,” when Christians talk about the gospel, they’re simply telling the good news about Jesus! It’s a message from God saying, “Good news! Here is how you can be saved from my judgment!” That’s an announcement you can’t afford to ignore. Why Is the Gospel Good News? So, what is the good news about Jesus Christ? Since the earliest Christians announced the good news about Jesus, it has been organized around these questions: 1. Who made us, and to whom are we accountable? 2. What is our problem? 3. What is God’s solution to our problem? 4. How can I be included in his solution? Christians through the centuries since Christ have answered those questions with the same truth from the Bible. 1. We are accountable to God. 2. Our problem is our sin against him. 3. God’s solution is salvation through Jesus Christ. 4. We come to be included in that salvation by faith and repentance. Let’s summarize those points like this: God, Mankind, Jesus Christ, and Our Response. God The first thing to know about the good news of Jesus is that “in the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth” (Gen. 1:1). Everything starts from that point, so if you get that point wrong then everything else that follows will be wrong. Because God created everything-including us-he has the right to tell us how to live. You have to understand that in order to understand the good news about Jesus. To understand just how glorious and life-giving the gospel of Jesus Christ is, we have to understand that God is also holy and righteous. He is determined never to ignore or tolerate sin. Including ours! Mankind When God created the first human beings, Adam and Eve, he intended for them to live under his righteous rule in perfect joy-obeying him and living in fellowship with him. When Adam disobeyed God, though, and ate the one fruit that God had told him not to eat, that fellowship with God was broken. Moreover, Adam and Eve had declared rebellion against God. They were denying his authority over their lives. It’s not just Adam and Eve who are guilty of sin. The Bible says, “All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23). Sin is the rejection of God himself and his authority over those to whom he gives life. Sin is the rejection of God himself and his authority over those to whom he gives life. * Once you understand sin in that light, you begin to understand why “the wages of sin is death” (Romans 6:23). That’s not just physical death, but spiritual death, a forceful separating of our sinful, rebellious selves from the presence of God forever. The Bible teaches that the final destiny for unbelieving sinners is eternal, active judgment in a place called “hell.” But . . . Jesus Christ The word “Christ” means “anointed one,” referring to anointing a king with oil when he is crowned. So, when we say “Jesus Christ,” we’re saying that Jesus is a King! When Jesus began his public ministry, he told the people, “The kingdom of God is at hand. Repent and believe the good news!” As Jesus died on a cross, the awful weight of all our sins fell on his shoulders. The sentence of death God had pronounced against rebellious sinners struck. And Jesus died. For you and me! But the story doesn’t end there. Jesus the Crucified is no longer dead. The Bible tells us that he rose from the grave. Jesus’s rising from the grave was God’s way of saying, “What Jesus claimed about who he is and what he came to do is true!” Our Response What does God expect us to do with the information that Jesus died in our place so we can be saved from God’s righteous wrath against our sins? He expects us to respond with repentance and faith.
@@monicafox2422 I hope you know some people are damaged more by christianity than if you'd just offered your condolences to their situation. In fact a lot of people in today's time especially in bible belt areas in the u.s face religious trauma everyday. Your message is far more harmful than helpful. Post it on a Christian page or website, or keep it in church. I don't go using my beliefs and prayers on other people because its disrespectful to their beliefs unless they specifically ask you to. I hope you understand, and remove your previous comment. Just be a good human as "good" Christians can still do damage unintentionally. Thank you c:
@@spinningsage7727 Everyone lies, constantly, every day. Wearing make-up is a form of lying. Dressing well is a lie. Thinking your life matters is a lie. Acting intelligent is a lie. You lie every day. To yourself, to others; to get what you want. You embellish and pretend and exaggerate your importance, position, feelings, and even your youtube comment is a lie. You don't really think it's despicable. You're lying to yourself to appear superior, to appear as a moral authority, to convince yourself that you're righteous and above others, when you're nothing but a shallow soul, confused, and marching ever further towards an eternal sleep from which you will never awaken.
@@optimumgaming7404 i don't lie to people. I don't wear makeup. I don't dress well to pander... lol. You cannot say that everyone lies when it comes to getting sex. You really can only share about yourself. If a person is manipulating for sex..there are big issues that need to be addressed.
@@optimumgaming7404 hahaha... You do not know my motives or anything else about me. You can pretend all you want and troll me in your dumbass paragraph, but you don't know jackshit about me.
Man that dispatch should get a major raise. She was making me feel super comfortable and even offering to stay at her place so he could drop the car off there.
So, let me get this straight... Campus police have plenty of time to break up parties, and enforce Dr so-and-so's reserved parking space, but they can't get around to investigating a students complaints about a sex-offender stalking her and extortion... gotcha. Sounds like a great place to send my kids....
bicknick I wouldn’t say that, I think he was just exaggerating to make a point about how useless the campus police are/ were in this case, as well as police in general. It’s a fair point, to an extent.
Biggest prayers to her parents and family. Mums never ever doubt that gut feeling. It’s always right. I hope her parents know they are not at fault in anyway, I can’t imagine… the strength to make it through this
Kevin K They have never had an issue with gunning down a black guy. He was no different. Stop making excuses for their poor policing and lack of investigation. They failed her!!
Kevin K Word salad? You should stop repeating what you hear others say..... Learn when to use it copycat..... It’s not just the cops I’m referring to since you obviously feel the need to be a bootlicker and come to their defense. It’s the entire college campus the security and the others she made aware about her situation.
Kevin K There went your common sense. That’s the racism that’s inside of you coming out. She knew the dangers of dating a black man?? Do you care to share those dangers that’s on your racist mind?? Can you please tell me the difference in dating a black man vs a white man. Other than the color and size of dick?? White men are no better than blacks and Mexicans or Asians. You’re obviously brainwashed if you really believe that statement you made.......
Kevin K Yep you’re a COWARD and a racist. We enjoy the stats? Lol you’re a fool. What about the black women that dated white men and were murdered. There have been too many to count. What about the white mass shooters. They kill innocent children and whomever else. You’re a real nut 🥜🤦♂️ and to think people like feel superior over someone else... A weasel has more brain capacity😅😅
@@jameslacoste603 this isn’t political just delete your comment it doesn’t belong some little girl lost her life fist thing you do is complain about the far left stfu that doesn’t belong here
Bruh, more than 20 calls from the same girl and not one voice or support was made until that last second she died. What kinda human being would ignore someone who needs help
Actually we have to give credit to that campus dispatch lady who offered her to sit in the office and wait for her car. The REAL problem is she acted confused about if she was really scared of him or not and kept going back. She didn’t sound afraid and she wasn’t truly avoiding him which came off as he’s not that bad.
Because, if they would have intervened, they could possibly be put in a situation where they might have to arrest him. Think about the scenario. Police arrest a black man because of a complaint from a white girl. Could you imagine the heavy criticism the police would receive from the community? And don't get me started on what would happened if they were put in a position to where they had to shoot him, should an altercation occur. Unfortunate situation for both the police, and the victim.
Im from Venus Nah nice try but think what you want I guess if that makes you feel better. Why you gotta make everything about skin color? It’s people like you trying to make everything about race that keep racism alive more than anything or anyone else. Edit: not to mention the officers could clearly see he’s black the very first day she called them when he dropped off the car. Like I said, nice try.
Dumb ass men in charge don't take women's complaints, especially about their sketchy lovers, seriously. There's a reason most women are killed by partners/ex partners.
I know first hand how these poor grieving parents feel. I lost 2 children and believe me the grief never ends. S.I.H. young queen 👑💔😢🙏🏽👑 I pray for these parents and the rest of her loved ones ❤️
@Jessica Anderson if you feel like someone is going to try to kill you and is luring you out for that purpose, what would make you think they wouldn’t try to kill you in another scenario if they got the chance
Why didn't her parents do more? As soon as they found out that her ex was a convicted felon , sexual predator, police and campus security not taking it serious, WHY DIDN'T THEY TELL HER TO COME HOME OR ATLEAST DRIVE THEIR ASSES DOWN THERE?
@@zokay1121 Why do young men go to bars to meet women. Why do they get drunk and go home with strange women they just met? Human behavior that does not excuse violence?
@@Niicole4177 Just because initiating violence has no excuse, it doesn't mean that people do not have to use their brains as intended anymore. It wasn't her fault that someone murdered her, but it was her decision to make dangerous choices.. Do not go to bars as many troubled people go there to get drunk and hook up, do not start relationships until you are sure the person is safe.. And care about your children and look out for them instead of being afraid to make judgements.
@Mai Ling Did you not watch the video or you are incapable of piecing things together? He was evidently controlling and domineering. She saw the screaming red flags, she was warned by her friends, and she continued the relationship. Yes, she has agency for not being careful and smart as to whom she chose to date. Doesn't mean it is her fault for being murdered, she should have been protected, but she is responsible for making her own partner choices and it is definitely something to learn from - lack of conservative values is dangerous.
Oswald Mosley and by the way, “we” educated people did NOT vote for trump. That’s what you bottom feeders did, but it’s okay, because he only has one more year left. #goodriddance
I'm so sorry these parents have lost their beautiful daughter to that horrible monster. As a parent with one daughter daughter it's so terrifying the thought that she may end up meeting the wrong person one day.
You can't 'extra'-punish everyone on the base of other people's behaviour, that's against the law. There was a communication-problem here. Had they taken the 'he's on parole and doing this again" seriously, then things would've gone different.
I thought that too.. I'm not understanding how or why the parents didn't go right away. My husband found my daughter at a hidden cabin party that the Oregon state police couldn't find. They called my husband for help because three girls ended up missing from the party and finally found cold and wet..
Your kids will do what they want. But I still would’ve gotten my daughter as well. I have one daughter and 2 sons. I couldn’t imagine! But I’m very overprotective and territorial about my kids.
So sorry about your unimaginable loss...My heart breaks for Lauren and for you! May God grant you comfort and peace as you move forward and try to get justice for your beautiful daughter.
Many such men are just cynical enough to dismiss a complaint. The age of the man should have made them intervene. Sadly, it may be his color that made them hesitate to act.
Blue Girl Well, I hate to break it to you. But it looks like you have some learning to do. Police are humans... they are the same person at work and at home, so how come one outfit change can define if they are racist or not? You can’t define that just from an outfit, only their actions. Wow, probably not enough for you but guess what, only the bad cops are the one’s getting attention on news but think of ALL of the cops that saved schools and thousands of people from the shooters. I can bet you never thought of those cops, only the ones that get the headlines for having to shoot at a person that was also threatening them. And if they didn’t have a reason to shoot the person then screw that ONE officer, not all the other officers. The other officers don’t deserve all the hate they get and I can tell you this, it is affecting my mood too. My dad comes home in a bad mood that he has been holding in all day at work because of all of the hate towards them, the officers. My dad’s dream is to retire and be a nurse... so does that mean when he is a nurse everyone will love him even though he is the same person but with a different outfit? Does that mean just because he was an officer in the past he is a killer, absolutely not! He has never had to pull his gun out at anyone and will probably never even in the future. Hypothetically if you were to become a cop, would you want to be looked at as a racist pig or the same person you were before you put on your uniform to go patrol the streets and save lives? If I were to assume your answer it would be looked to as the same person... so why can’t you do the same for the other officers? All of the officers at my father’s PD are loving and caring mothers and fathers that have a heart of gold. One day there was an officer that got arrested for letting people smoke weed and have sex in the back of his patrol car on their way to jail (not in our state, I believe it was Florida.) and my dad said “That is messed up, he was in the wrong.” So, just because he is an officer doesn’t mean he will always take the officers side, he is just as human as you. All of the hatred and the things officers have to see to save people because the majority of citizens, that could have become officers mind me, are too scared to make them suicidal... my town’s PD has three officers, my dad is one, that any officer can talk to for help. To save their lives after saving other people’s lives, so yes all of the things officers see effect them because people that also talk shit about officer’s call them because they feel threatened by someone. Well if officers are terrible and they only kill people, solve the issue your self and see how well you solve it without killing the person. Because that is what cops do on a daily basis, solve issues without killing the person.
@@ceoatcrystalsoft4942 that's LITERALLY what the police is supposed to do, they signed up for that job and did the training, knowing that they are gonna be in those types of situations in life or death, they PROTECT, SERVE AND SACRIFICE for the safety of others 😐
When I went to get a protection order against my ex, the cop told me "If he wants to kill you, the protection order won't stop him"... Well hell, good to know...
It is just a piece of paper and the offenders violate all the time. Once you make a choice and get into a relationship it's tough. She was in over her head with her boyfriend. Very tragic. So young and very beautiful young lady.
I met a lady that said her relative got a restraining order and she was still always scared because he would pass by where she was at (parks, grocery store, stores and church). One day coming out of church with her kids he ranned towards her and stabbed her multiple times. She died and bled to death there waiting on the ambulance in front of her children and everyone else coming out of church. That is when I realise a protective order does nothing to the ones who really want to kill the person. Best thing to do is move far away and don't tell anyone where your going.
It’s crazy how she was, basically yelling for help and the police and campus police didn’t do anything to avoid her death. Cops REALLY need to do their jobs right. RIP 🪦
Some girls like mysterious guys despite knowing what is good for them. I was one of those. I wish to God I had picked a guy that was like my family and not opposite. It has created a TON of arguments and deep seated issues in our marriage.
It's called criminal justice reform. Get used to it cause it ain't going anywhere. My advice: get a piece, get a license to carry it, and never leave home without it.
Our system sucks - sex offenders, murderers etc should be sentenced to prison for life --- do you think these kinds of people are able to be rehabilitated? No !!!!
jasin biggs Nonwhites??? Wowwww that says a lot about you as well. Not all “Nonwhites” are like this. So would it have been better if that man was White?! I’m confused on this comment here🙄
@@dannysilva3210 she called them a bunch of times, different days. She was still on contact with her killer. What's so hard about cutting all contact. Instead she kept calling him, texting him and the police.
I think we should all boycott this channel and thumbs down. This is unacceptable when they can easily post it all in one video or at least complete the series.
Ladies of all ages don't be afraid or ashamed to do background checks on men that take an interest in your life... It may save you heartache and your life...
Most definitely! Especially with online dating. Even just a basic check on court records websites which is public information and free. Better to be safe than sorry!
Some are pure Evil and don't even have a record. Yes, do that but simply stop letting just anyone into your life. People be moving on Way too fast. This is why I'm single bruh.
I love videos like this. Please do more to tell me everything that happened up until the actual murder and then none of the aftermath. Searching online is awesome!
Why do young girls want to be with these type of thugs??? I have seen several videos..similar to this one!! They are trying to get away but still talk to the guy?? One of the girls that got killed..she even gave the guy a ride and he tried to strangle her!! He eventually stabbed her to death!!
If there’s one person who didn’t fail Lauren, I think it was the police dispatcher (from Oct 10) that helped her retrieve her car. She was not only understanding, but even went a bit above and beyond, trying to give Lauren many different options to see which one made her most comfortable, including a police escort to get her car. And then also called back her mom to comfort her and let her know that it went ok and Lauren had safely gotten her car back. Definitely who I would want taking my call if I ever had to.
leave it to a female to offer compassionate assistance. male officer: oh you’re fine...😢 but she wasn’t! nobody listened-they Say they can’t do anything anyway until the person has physically harmed you. something has to change!! 😡
I just don’t understand how they failed this poor girl she literally was calling multiple times crying out for help and the police failed her this is the world we live in smh rest in peace lauren 😔😩
Her parents weren’t TOO concerned either. They didn’t make her come home and they didn’t go there. The police went with her to get her car back. Returned the mom’s phone call. Seems they were trying to help to me.
I have been listening to these crime stories all day while working. This one made me cry. Her mom was concerned and called campus security, she did the right thing. Her daughter asked for a ride to the stadium because she didn't feel safe. They did the right things in taking precautions. But she ended up dead anyway....I am done. This one really got to me. I am so very sorry for your loss. I am so so sorry.
@@maryshaffer8474 BS!!! She called in numerous times. She was just young and didn't know proper channels. As her dad said all it would of taken was to see he was on parole & police would have been on this creep!!!!
I think they should do a mandatory screening before hiring dispatchers. They should test a person's style of responding to problems. The hard worker way....(1st dispatcher) Or the lazy way (2nd dispatcher) If they did a that test before hiring I'm sure the 2nd dispatcher would fail.
People also have to take responsibility for themselves. Don't rely on the police to fix everything. She should have known better and her parents share in the blame. They failed their daughter. She made the mistake of dating a loser. Signs were everywhere. Her parents should have gotten off their armchairs and brought her home.
U cant harass and I'd somebody without reasonable suspicion a crime has been committed. Even if they did find out he's on parole that don't mean shit unless he's committing a crime
Maybe I’m missed something, but did he break the terms of his parole? If there’s no proof of him committing a crime or reasonable cause, there’s nothing they can do. And honestly, she was tying up a lot of police resources. The parents should have pulled her home and hired private security if they were really concerned.
Can we please sign a petition for whenever a cop gets a case that involves a man or a women documenting/filing for multiple harassing charges against people, get in trouble. (If I formed that incorrectly I’m sure you get the point.) I’m tired of men and women being killed by their stalkers or attackers, because the police fail to take each case serious. Y’all give more tickets on traffic stops then y’all solve cases and then when time comes (after the victim is dead or badly injured) y’all wanna act confuse or point the finger at someone else for you’re incompetence.
Yet, they can beat the ever lovin' snot out of someone who got a little lippy or, that they just don't like, and probably get away with it. Not to mention, all the murdering cops have gotten away with.
@@Psychof1st Not all cops are evil, it's unfortunate those types of people exist but don't bunch up all those other police that genuinely want to help people with those tyrants.
@@OrionDawn15 all the other police who stand by and do nothing are difficult to tell apart from the tyrants. blue wall of silence exists bc even the cops aren't committing the crimes are protecting the ones who are. the police union's aggressive protection of the tyrants actively supports said tyranny. genuinely good cops exist I'm sure, but they're rare and the exception. conditions just don't allow many to be good. a lot of times, those good cops are rooted out early. so yeah, we don't need to be specify "some cops" we can just say cops at this point.
What is it you think they could have done ? Banned him from campus would have done no good. Restraining order takes time and is no good. What is the answer.
@@victoriah.3413 arrest him. He was on parole and blackmailing someone and also carrying a gun. Her friends heard him talk about using guns and giving one to her, and they found out he was a sex offender on parole and ten years older than he said he was. I would’ve immediately told the police all of that. The campus police failed her, they claimed jurisdiction when this case should’ve been being dealt with by the city police and the parole board. Pisses me off, such a senseless death. I hope this piece of crap ex bf never gets out of jail, he doesn’t deserve it.
Yep! Background checks are mandatory if you're dating in 2019. Would have saved me a lot of heartache and trouble at 21-22 if I'd done background checks on men I was seeing, I wouldn't have had to develop feelings then get shocked later by finding out one was a convicted felon, and one was secretly married. I was young and VERY naïve... ladies especially, do your homework! Too many predators out there
"…she was very kind, all parents say that but she really was…" Of course she was! That's the sort of person these pieces of s&*t prey on, kind and nice people!
The problem with policing is that it’s reactive and not proactive. They won’t act unless something happens or there’s concrete evidence for the claims being made.
And even when there is beyond-a-reasonable-doubt worth of evidence (say, a protection of abuse order already filed and ordered) the victim still has to basically get murdered. That paper is hardly worth the ink it was written with.
The problem with Colleges is they try to teach everybody is equal no matter the skin color..and these little naive blue eyes white girls fall for it. And while I also believe that the fact is not all races are as civilized as others. There are times you see interracial couples and they match but you can't look at that girl and that dude and tell yourself what the hell was she thinking? If she was with some preppy black dude then thats understandable..but wtf was she doing with this savage? What the hell would these two have in common? She should have known better so unfortunately she brought it upon herself. It's this millennial ideology that backfires on these young kids. Fact of the matter, if she stuck with her people she would have been alive today. That's why Im a believer in everybody should stick to their own kind..but you can't help who you fall in love with sometimes, but at least stick to those you have something in common with!
This is how the system always fails people!!!! They never want to help someone and prevent a tragedy from happening. Instead, once it happens everybody starts caring and wondering what they could have done. It's beyond frustrating!!!
In our society by and large we do not care about the sacred value of a life. We can’t fake it. We just don’t care about one another...and it shows. It’s so sad. Every year it gets worse. This planet is not my home.
So true! I watched a guy punch his wife/GF in a parking lot once and threaten to shoot her. Asked her if she was ready to die. I got his license plate, tried reporting it thinking they would at least look into it. Three officers said "there hasn't been a crime committed yet". I'm like YET? You're going to wait till she's dead or something...
She failed herself. Once she made the mistake of banging this pig and then realizing he was dangerous she should have carried protection. She bears the responsibility.
@@yankee2666 You're a pig. So WHAT if she banged him??? She deserves to die b/c she did? you racist P. O. S. Duh, u don't get gun permits overnight... 🙄. PLUS, he'd have overpowered her easily enough... God, THINK before you talk out ur ass next time.
My sister had a boyfriend like that. My parents invited him to our house and my dad and my cousin beat the hell out of him. After that when he saw my sister on the street he would run the other way.
Been about 25 years ago now, but this guy took my younger sis out on a date. They had a disagreement. On the way home he makes her get out of the car and he leaves her on the side of the street. My younger brother and I caught him outside his apt and had a little "chat" with him. I can say with the utmost confidence, that we most likely fixed his *issues* he was exhibiting towards women!!!
I cannot imagine the painful horror of talking with your child on the phone then hearing her beg for her life before being murdered. Having that as the last time you spoke with your child adds so much salt to an incredibly gaping wound. Her poor parents....
Her parents could have taught her how to select nice guys instead of bad boys and she would be alive. I bet he had a ton of red flags that she ignored.
@@user-uy1rg8td1v never victim blame. The abuse and murder is the perpetrators fault. No one else’s. Yes women should be proactive in who they select but they aren’t at fault for someone’s poor choices. Not everyone knows what the red flags are. Some people aren’t taught to do background checks. By the time she probably realized what type of guy he is there wasn’t much she could do within our current laws. I do think laws need changed in this area. Our laws wait until tragedy strikes before doing something instead of being proactive.
@@sons_of_god1306 Not every college girl brings a strange dude to her dorm stop using “victim blaming” card. She didn’t know the guy at all, her friends didn’t like him she was desperate to date just anybody. Besides, why would parents sit there and wait if they knew full gravity of the situation. If the police has to escort her to her dorm then it isn’t safe place to be, they should’ve pulled her out of that place immediately. He used her car she has given him and money. If the bear attacks because you were too close taking a picture even though you were told stay the hell away, the bear gets put down. A violent Psychopath or Sociopath will always attack you can blame them or not but as of right now there is no cure for ASPD. Assume that any guy is a Psychopath that’s how you teach your daughters. Not just bring anyone from the bar and sleep with him on the first day you met him.
God bless her soul, and I pray for her parents to be healed from their sorrow, at least enough so they can smile and laugh and think about the good times they had with their daughter. I know it's very hard not to cry. I'm sorry for their loss.
FYI, the photo she was being blackmailed for... one of the cops KEPT it on his PERSONAL phones and started showing it around..... Never charge or technically fired, he just resigned and moved to another police dept 85 miles away.... really???!!!??
Rip to Lauren, she didn't deserve to die. In my early 20s I met this man and I found out later on he lied about so many things, name included. I left and never looked back. Everyone please be careful when dating, don't be afraid to ask questions and do background checks and get protection.
Having 20 something daughters this really hots home about not trusting people and makes you realize that you should always educatie your child at an early age to be dangers of this world etc such a beautiful person my heart goes out to her family
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My ex was an MMA fighter and although I had no doubt that he would never be physically abusive, he absolutely did not give a shit that he often hurt me unintentionally as he "played around" and I felt totally powerless around him physically. It was an unhealthy attraction for sure. Glad I am out of that situation.
So true. Absolutely and mothers should do the same for their sons. There are many many nice, kind, men that get trampled by some women. Used and abused. The walking wallet. Lest we forget.
If my daughter or SON told me they were going through this I'd be on the first flight out there. My husband will have to take care of back home or move with me. No way I would trust the police alone to do what is right. I have a hard time trusting people and dont expect the best from them. Especially the police. Sucks to not be very trusting but I'd rather be safe than sorry. Especially with my children.
I have seen so many murders that happened with criminals who got out on parole, especially sex offenders. They shouldn't have that chance. What makes this even worse is she asked for help with enough opportunities to prevent her death from happening.
Cops do not shoot unarmed, innocent black guys; But the hordes of easily led fools like you, believing that they do, and the subsequent leftist pressure, could easily have been the reason why they backed off pursuing this punk.
@@yankee2666 Trayvon Martin, Stephon Clark, Walter Scott, Alton Sterling, Philando Castile, Keith Lamont Scott, Betty Jones, Keith Childress, Michael Noel, Miguel Espinal, Eric Garner, Jonathan Sanders, Spencer McCain, Cornelius Brown, Jamar Clark, Christopher Kimble, Junior Prosper, Wayne Wheeler, Christian Taylor, George Floyd, etc. 1 in 3 blacks killed by police are unarmed.
hellasow did you miss the part where she told the police that she was being blackmailed by a sexual offender and warned the campus police about him multiple times?
Nadir The sad thing is uneducated people like this person “hellasow” doesn’t understand the basics of police protection and common sense. The girl did all the leg work and law enforcement failed to follow threw, even the way dispatch converted they sound very nonchalant about it all. This situation is very very common and the sad thing is it goes under reported. Also, I know this because my mom has been working with domestic violence and sex offenders for over 25 years and I also work with the state and am currently in college learning about these problems.
Cops motto: “we won’t do anything until something happens to you”
Bo Goss that’s...what police do. This isn’t Minority Report.
Duzzie. Ashigana it’s a shitty law we need to change. That could be your family or mines one day
Imani Martin then hire private security. Cops are not personal bodyguards.
Eric P so people who can’t afford paying hundred of dollars a day for personal security should just die? Not saying the cops have to follow them around all day, they should’ve made an arrest
exactly!
The police should be held accountable. She didn’t have to die.
University campus police are a strange animal. There's so much crime on college campuses, so much sexual misconduct, rape, etc. I hate when they use reasons of 'jurisdiction' to defend inaction when a human being was killed while crying out for help. It's crazy.
@@NancyMcCurry : absolutely. Very sad, and happens way to often. We don’t even know how big the issues on campuses really are.
Especially in Utah. Police force cares more for speeding than for anything else, even child abuse.
@@willwill9136 good luck to any daughter you might have. Poor girl.
man we need people to know what to do when things like this happen
She was such a beautiful young lady,may her soul Rest In Peace.
Y'all would rather perish than deal with good men
so many clean intelligent white guys she could have dated. instead, like a kardashian, low self esteem and she dates a disgusting black guy. sad. thats the real story here.
@Last What good men 🙄🙄🙄🙄
Such a sad story 😔😔
@last7509
Yep. That would mean avoiding all ◼️ ones.
When my dad would abuse my mom, she took my brother and I at age 2 with her to the police station and they told her there’s nothing that they could’ve done and that she should just leave him. If it were that easy, if only it were that easy. She asked for protection to ensure she wouldn’t be followed. Anything and they basically just put the blame back on her. I don’t even live in the us, cops fail us everywhere
Wow :( that’s so sad
What exactly do Christians mean when they talk about the “gospel of Jesus Christ”? Since the word “gospel” means “good news,” when Christians talk about the gospel, they’re simply telling the good news about Jesus! It’s a message from God saying, “Good news! Here is how you can be saved from my judgment!” That’s an announcement you can’t afford to ignore.
Why Is the Gospel Good News?
So, what is the good news about Jesus Christ?
Since the earliest Christians announced the good news about Jesus, it has been organized around these questions:
1. Who made us, and to whom are we accountable?
2. What is our problem?
3. What is God’s solution to our problem?
4. How can I be included in his solution?
Christians through the centuries since Christ have answered those questions with the same truth from the Bible.
1. We are accountable to God.
2. Our problem is our sin against him.
3. God’s solution is salvation through Jesus Christ.
4. We come to be included in that salvation by faith and repentance.
Let’s summarize those points like this: God, Mankind, Jesus Christ, and Our Response.
God
The first thing to know about the good news of Jesus is that “in the beginning, God created the heavens and the earth” (Gen. 1:1). Everything starts from that point, so if you get that point wrong then everything else that follows will be wrong. Because God created everything-including us-he has the right to tell us how to live. You have to understand that in order to understand the good news about Jesus. To understand just how glorious and life-giving the gospel of Jesus Christ is, we have to understand that God is also holy and righteous. He is determined never to ignore or tolerate sin. Including ours!
Mankind
When God created the first human beings, Adam and Eve, he intended for them to live under his righteous rule in perfect joy-obeying him and living in fellowship with him. When Adam disobeyed God, though, and ate the one fruit that God had told him not to eat, that fellowship with God was broken. Moreover, Adam and Eve had declared rebellion against God. They were denying his authority over their lives.
It’s not just Adam and Eve who are guilty of sin. The Bible says, “All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23). Sin is the rejection of God himself and his authority over those to whom he gives life.
Sin is the rejection of God himself and his authority over those to whom he gives life.
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Once you understand sin in that light, you begin to understand why “the wages of sin is death” (Romans 6:23). That’s not just physical death, but spiritual death, a forceful separating of our sinful, rebellious selves from the presence of God forever. The Bible teaches that the final destiny for unbelieving sinners is eternal, active judgment in a place called “hell.”
But . . .
Jesus Christ
The word “Christ” means “anointed one,” referring to anointing a king with oil when he is crowned. So, when we say “Jesus Christ,” we’re saying that Jesus is a King!
When Jesus began his public ministry, he told the people, “The kingdom of God is at hand. Repent and believe the good news!” As Jesus died on a cross, the awful weight of all our sins fell on his shoulders. The sentence of death God had pronounced against rebellious sinners struck. And Jesus died. For you and me!
But the story doesn’t end there. Jesus the Crucified is no longer dead. The Bible tells us that he rose from the grave. Jesus’s rising from the grave was God’s way of saying, “What Jesus claimed about who he is and what he came to do is true!”
Our Response
What does God expect us to do with the information that Jesus died in our place so we can be saved from God’s righteous wrath against our sins? He expects us to respond with repentance and faith.
@@monicafox2422 I hope you know some people are damaged more by christianity than if you'd just offered your condolences to their situation. In fact a lot of people in today's time especially in bible belt areas in the u.s face religious trauma everyday. Your message is far more harmful than helpful. Post it on a Christian page or website, or keep it in church. I don't go using my beliefs and prayers on other people because its disrespectful to their beliefs unless they specifically ask you to. I hope you understand, and remove your previous comment. Just be a good human as "good" Christians can still do damage unintentionally. Thank you c:
@@onethatdoesart5650 oh shut UP! Stay mad! Nobody cares!
@@mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072 Christian mentality that's harmful people! Right here! The Christian's that "care" but actually dont.
@@onethatdoesart5650 ?
When a man lies about his age, his intentions are unimaginable
Sometimes they just want a little nook nook
@@optimumgaming7404 lying is dispicable. And to get sex...far worse.
@@spinningsage7727 Everyone lies, constantly, every day. Wearing make-up is a form of lying. Dressing well is a lie. Thinking your life matters is a lie. Acting intelligent is a lie. You lie every day. To yourself, to others; to get what you want. You embellish and pretend and exaggerate your importance, position, feelings, and even your youtube comment is a lie. You don't really think it's despicable. You're lying to yourself to appear superior, to appear as a moral authority, to convince yourself that you're righteous and above others, when you're nothing but a shallow soul, confused, and marching ever further towards an eternal sleep from which you will never awaken.
@@optimumgaming7404 i don't lie to people. I don't wear makeup. I don't dress well to pander... lol. You cannot say that everyone lies when it comes to getting sex. You really can only share about yourself.
If a person is manipulating for sex..there are big issues that need to be addressed.
@@optimumgaming7404 hahaha...
You do not know my motives or anything else about me. You can pretend all you want and troll me in your dumbass paragraph, but you don't know jackshit about me.
Repeat sex offenders should be in prison for life with no parole. And they can’t do it again
Use them for medical experiments. That way something useful might come of their otherwise worthless existence.
Dump them in the ocean. If they make it to land, they won’t be back anywhere near civilization
It’s to bad that the government doesn’t care cause they’re all a bunch of pedos themselves
Society doesn’t get that unless it’s there kids
Not in the US
Man that dispatch should get a major raise. She was making me feel super comfortable and even offering to stay at her place so he could drop the car off there.
i wish she would’ve answered all her calls 😔
That's why you don't mess with them
The police officers who were talking to her need to be fired for failing their job, they cost this woman her life
His fuckn parole officers as well!!! Check on him wtf
@@thetruth72667 yes !! Wtf
Idk but i feel like her parents should have come to her too when they realised that police was not responding properly
@DaSilverDragon :3 you know who else caused her death? the guy that killed her, who should never have been let out of prison.
They deserve to go to prison. Not just get fired lol as if being fired is punishment enough for basically killing someone
So, let me get this straight... Campus police have plenty of time to break up parties, and enforce Dr so-and-so's reserved parking space, but they can't get around to investigating a students complaints about a sex-offender stalking her and extortion... gotcha. Sounds like a great place to send my kids....
The thing is, they don't want to put their safety in jeopardy. We would be better off with robot cops, maybe if the technology gets that advanced.
gremlins 347 you are an idiot.
bicknick I wouldn’t say that, I think he was just exaggerating to make a point about how useless the campus police are/ were in this case, as well as police in general. It’s a fair point, to an extent.
The law is made of people, and people can always fail you. Sad truth.
acab!!
This is why we’re judged so harshly. I hate these kind of people just as much as you do. So sorry for her lost.
Biggest prayers to her parents and family. Mums never ever doubt that gut feeling. It’s always right. I hope her parents know they are not at fault in anyway, I can’t imagine… the strength to make it through this
Lauren said “It feels like I’m bothering them..” (the police) it was their job to protect her and they failed her.
Kevin K
They have never had an issue with gunning down a black guy. He was no different. Stop making excuses for their poor policing and lack of investigation. They failed her!!
Kevin K
Word salad? You should stop repeating what you hear others say..... Learn when to use it copycat.....
It’s not just the cops I’m referring to since you obviously feel the need to be a bootlicker and come to their defense. It’s the entire college campus the security and the others she made aware about her situation.
Kevin K
You should learn how to form a complete sentence. Police officers aren’t afraid of being called racist.
Kevin K
There went your common sense. That’s the racism that’s inside of you coming out. She knew the dangers of dating a black man?? Do you care to share those dangers that’s on your racist mind??
Can you please tell me the difference in dating a black man vs a white man. Other than the color and size of dick?? White men are no better than blacks and Mexicans or Asians. You’re obviously brainwashed if you really believe that statement you made.......
Kevin K
Yep you’re a COWARD and a racist. We enjoy the stats? Lol you’re a fool. What about the black women that dated white men and were murdered. There have been too many to count. What about the white mass shooters. They kill innocent children and whomever else. You’re a real nut 🥜🤦♂️ and to think people like feel superior over someone else... A weasel has more brain capacity😅😅
In his own words " I will re-offend again" the court decides to let him out on parol just to test that statement.... what in the hell is this?
That’s what I’m confused about too!! This is crazy
Liberal policies. You can ask Kim Foxx about that
They all failed this young girl
@@jameslacoste603 this isn’t political just delete your comment it doesn’t belong some little girl lost her life fist thing you do is complain about the far left stfu that doesn’t belong here
@@mallcop9979
Well actually it kinda does because that might explain why he got out on partol
This happens way too often. The police and the judges that handle these cases need to be held accountable.
The victims in these cases are always "kind" souls. No wonder I've never met good people, they are all dead.
Birds of a feather flock together? 🤷🏻♂️
Someone took it personal
Bruh, more than 20 calls from the same girl and not one voice or support was made until that last second she died. What kinda human being would ignore someone who needs help
police needs to change
The Campus Police apparently.
Actually we have to give credit to that campus dispatch lady who offered her to sit in the office and wait for her car. The REAL problem is she acted confused about if she was really scared of him or not and kept going back. She didn’t sound afraid and she wasn’t truly avoiding him which came off as he’s not that bad.
An idiot
Because, if they would have intervened, they could possibly be put in a situation where they might have to arrest him. Think about the scenario. Police arrest a black man because of a complaint from a white girl. Could you imagine the heavy criticism the police would receive from the community? And don't get me started on what would happened if they were put in a position to where they had to shoot him, should an altercation occur. Unfortunate situation for both the police, and the victim.
They overact in certain cases and dismiss other I don't understand it
Me either but there’s clearly a reason. They have their shitty selfish reasons we’ll prob never understand.
Maybe she would have been helped if she had mentioned the guy was black. They would have tore up the town looking for him.
Im from Venus Nah nice try but think what you want I guess if that makes you feel better. Why you gotta make everything about skin color? It’s people like you trying to make everything about race that keep racism alive more than anything or anyone else. Edit: not to mention the officers could clearly see he’s black the very first day she called them when he dropped off the car. Like I said, nice try.
Dumb ass men in charge don't take women's complaints, especially about their sketchy lovers, seriously. There's a reason most women are killed by partners/ex partners.
@@letstalk-misc3575 why you gotta tie everything to sex there are plenty of male who were killed by their female partners
Him: "I know I have the capability to reoffend.."
Parole Board: "Really? PROVE IT!"
I know first hand how these poor grieving parents feel. I lost 2 children and believe me the grief never ends. S.I.H. young queen 👑💔😢🙏🏽👑 I pray for these parents and the rest of her loved ones ❤️
Lauren: “Police help they’re blackmailing me and tying to lure me somewhere I think they want to kill me.”
Police: 🗿
But you call them about someone selling weed and theyll send the swat teams down on you
@@rishyfishy8799 did i just smell someone jaywalking??? SEND EVERYONE THIS IS AN EMERGENCY
@Jessica Anderson if you feel like someone is going to try to kill you and is luring you out for that purpose, what would make you think they wouldn’t try to kill you in another scenario if they got the chance
@Jessica Anderson what
@Jessica Anderson oh wait i understand. you act like that is easy. stop being so insensitive
I hate this story. I hate that no one listened to her. She did everything she could have. I hope her parents find some peace.
Oh, shut up. If you think blacks and whites are treated equally well, you’re either blind, in denial, or just plain stupid.
I see we’ve got trolls here.
Why didn't her parents do more? As soon as they found out that her ex was a convicted felon , sexual predator, police and campus security not taking it serious, WHY DIDN'T THEY TELL HER TO COME HOME OR ATLEAST DRIVE THEIR ASSES DOWN THERE?
@@Kilmaurs09 agree. but i'm sure they'll live with these thoughts for the rest of their lives. they're the ones suffering now, not her.
parents find peace and Sue the heck out of Police Department.
Toll paid in full!
My heart goes out to the family.
"Was this preventable?" Yes yes absolutely yes!
I agree!
Why do young women go to bars to meet men. Why do they get drunk and go home with strange men they just met? Daddy issues, poor values?
@@zokay1121 Why do young men go to bars to meet women. Why do they get drunk and go home with strange women they just met? Human behavior that does not excuse violence?
@@Niicole4177 Just because initiating violence has no excuse, it doesn't mean that people do not have to use their brains as intended anymore. It wasn't her fault that someone murdered her, but it was her decision to make dangerous choices.. Do not go to bars as many troubled people go there to get drunk and hook up, do not start relationships until you are sure the person is safe.. And care about your children and look out for them instead of being afraid to make judgements.
@Mai Ling Did you not watch the video or you are incapable of piecing things together? He was evidently controlling and domineering. She saw the screaming red flags, she was warned by her friends, and she continued the relationship. Yes, she has agency for not being careful and smart as to whom she chose to date. Doesn't mean it is her fault for being murdered, she should have been protected, but she is responsible for making her own partner choices and it is definitely something to learn from - lack of conservative values is dangerous.
She sounded so tired..... this poor woman was screaming for help
Oswald Mosley get the fuck out here
Oswald Mosley Racists LOVE hiding behind fuck ass pictures... you’re lamez
Gem_Gem7 Exactly! So sad!
Oswald Mosley and by the way, “we” educated people did NOT vote for trump. That’s what you bottom feeders did, but it’s okay, because he only has one more year left. #goodriddance
@@slugandant actually taxpayers voted for trump. also who killed mollie tibbets? or are you heartless
I'm so sorry these parents have lost their beautiful daughter to that horrible monster. As a parent with one daughter daughter it's so terrifying the thought that she may end up meeting the wrong person one day.
They need to stop giving sexual predators parole. I hear too many cases like this
Makes you think....whose being protected...?
A lot of these predetors get away due to who they are
You can't 'extra'-punish everyone on the base of other people's behaviour, that's against the law.
There was a communication-problem here. Had they taken the 'he's on parole and doing this again" seriously, then things would've gone different.
When will this murderer be back on the street?
As a parent I would personally have gone to Utah and bring her back home.
I thought that too.. I'm not understanding how or why the parents didn't go right away. My husband found my daughter at a hidden cabin party that the Oregon state police couldn't find. They called my husband for help because three girls ended up missing from the party and finally found cold and wet..
Same
Was thinking the same! I totally agree!
Your kids will do what they want. But I still would’ve gotten my daughter as well. I have one daughter and 2 sons. I couldn’t imagine! But I’m very overprotective and territorial about my kids.
@allin1mom, I totally agree with you.......he has the appearance of someone slick and dangerous anyway.....wow
My heart ❤💙 go's out to these beautiful parents who raised a daugther to have dreams and goals.
So sorry about your unimaginable loss...My heart breaks for Lauren and for you! May God grant you comfort and peace as you move forward and try to get justice for your beautiful daughter.
Who are you talking to, Gladys?
Honestly though, the dispatcher sounded like an actually decent person but the campus police were definitely not doing their jobs.
Many such men are just cynical enough to dismiss a complaint. The age of the man should have made them intervene. Sadly, it may be his color that made them hesitate to act.
Campus cops are at the same level as mall security.
Just great. There’s like 2 black people in the entire state of Utah and he paints this kind of image
@@michelleallard936 would you drive in Compton? Thought so..... never relax.
@@JRobbySh That's interesting. Usually it would be the color that makes them act immediately.
heres a tip,
if the police and family cant help, go to the news station
Really, that won't do anything, the news only care about a story and telling them someone is trying to kill me isn't a story
That doesn't work, I am alive because I stay in my home too afraid to leave my house because of the stalker and His enablers
Blue Girl Well, I hate to break it to you. But it looks like you have some learning to do. Police are humans... they are the same person at work and at home, so how come one outfit change can define if they are racist or not? You can’t define that just from an outfit, only their actions. Wow, probably not enough for you but guess what, only the bad cops are the one’s getting attention on news but think of ALL of the cops that saved schools and thousands of people from the shooters. I can bet you never thought of those cops, only the ones that get the headlines for having to shoot at a person that was also threatening them. And if they didn’t have a reason to shoot the person then screw that ONE officer, not all the other officers. The other officers don’t deserve all the hate they get and I can tell you this, it is affecting my mood too. My dad comes home in a bad mood that he has been holding in all day at work because of all of the hate towards them, the officers. My dad’s dream is to retire and be a nurse... so does that mean when he is a nurse everyone will love him even though he is the same person but with a different outfit? Does that mean just because he was an officer in the past he is a killer, absolutely not! He has never had to pull his gun out at anyone and will probably never even in the future. Hypothetically if you were to become a cop, would you want to be looked at as a racist pig or the same person you were before you put on your uniform to go patrol the streets and save lives? If I were to assume your answer it would be looked to as the same person... so why can’t you do the same for the other officers? All of the officers at my father’s PD are loving and caring mothers and fathers that have a heart of gold. One day there was an officer that got arrested for letting people smoke weed and have sex in the back of his patrol car on their way to jail (not in our state, I believe it was Florida.) and my dad said “That is messed up, he was in the wrong.” So, just because he is an officer doesn’t mean he will always take the officers side, he is just as human as you. All of the hatred and the things officers have to see to save people because the majority of citizens, that could have become officers mind me, are too scared to make them suicidal... my town’s PD has three officers, my dad is one, that any officer can talk to for help. To save their lives after saving other people’s lives, so yes all of the things officers see effect them because people that also talk shit about officer’s call them because they feel threatened by someone. Well if officers are terrible and they only kill people, solve the issue your self and see how well you solve it without killing the person. Because that is what cops do on a daily basis, solve issues without killing the person.
@Blue Girl wow! Girl, newsflash: you AND Kev are both racists. 🙄
@@R.O.T.C._SEEM CARRY A LOADED WEAPON FILLED WITH HOLLOW POINT BULLETS!! BE READY TO UNLOAD IN HIS HEAD!!!!!!!
This is so sad and tragic, it's really hard to understand how someone could be so cold and heartless. My heart and prayers are with her family.❤️🙏🕊️
Nobody takes victims seriously, until they’re dead. Disappointing. Rip, she seemed like a lovey soul 💕 💔
She didn't take herself seriously either. Why should others?
May this young lady rest in peace.
@@kelvinfernandez4058 nani
Only you can protect yourself. Never expect or demand someone to sacrifice themselves for you
@@ceoatcrystalsoft4942 that's LITERALLY what the police is supposed to do, they signed up for that job and did the training, knowing that they are gonna be in those types of situations in life or death, they PROTECT, SERVE AND SACRIFICE for the safety of others 😐
When I went to get a protection order against my ex, the cop told me "If he wants to kill you, the protection order won't stop him"... Well hell, good to know...
Are you serious????
Wait really???
It is just a piece of paper and the offenders violate all the time. Once you make a choice and get into a relationship it's tough. She was in over her head with her boyfriend. Very tragic. So young and very beautiful young lady.
I met a lady that said her relative got a restraining order and she was still always scared because he would pass by where she was at (parks, grocery store, stores and church). One day coming out of church with her kids he ranned towards her and stabbed her multiple times. She died and bled to death there waiting on the ambulance in front of her children and everyone else coming out of church.
That is when I realise a protective order does nothing to the ones who really want to kill the person. Best thing to do is move far away and don't tell anyone where your going.
@Elizabeth Hewitt in a way is good he told you that, so you would not leave your guard down.
It’s crazy how she was, basically yelling for help and the police and campus police didn’t do anything to avoid her death. Cops REALLY need to do their jobs right. RIP 🪦
Toll paid.
How did she even look twice at that guy? She was WAY out of his league.
Idk what u mean by that but ye she’s fire
Some girls like mysterious guys despite knowing what is good for them. I was one of those. I wish to God I had picked a guy that was like my family and not opposite. It has created a TON of arguments and deep seated issues in our marriage.
She was blackmailed by a black male
f- puppet shut up stupid
I know, right?.. He's like me: Only looks good at certain angles. But he said himself that he uses manipulation tactics habitually.
The cops were too busy handing out tickets for illegal left turns and not stopping long enough at a stop sign.
Rolling stop :)
more like, the cops were afraid of arresting a black man because they would be labeled racist if they did.
The law does more to protect the offender than the victim ... until it is too late.
@@texasgun2731 ... I dont want to say that played a part but I worry
Exactly..
All for BBC.
She made a super poor choice on who to date.
The guy was on parole!!! Sex offenders should be in prison for a long long time and watched very carefully. If break parole then back to prison
It's called criminal justice reform. Get used to it cause it ain't going anywhere. My advice: get a piece, get a license to carry it, and never leave home without it.
I kinda disagree. A sex offender shouldn't be in jail for more than I would say 10 years. After that point it kind of becomes overkill.
@@foxt.5043 They could be all their life for all I care. The least fucked up people we have in society the better.
Our system sucks - sex offenders, murderers etc should be sentenced to prison for life --- do you think these kinds of people are able to be rehabilitated? No !!!!
jasin biggs Nonwhites??? Wowwww that says a lot about you as well. Not all “Nonwhites” are like this. So would it have been better if that man was White?! I’m confused on this comment here🙄
One of the most preventable cases ever. If only they had taken her seriously she would have been here today.
she didn't take it seriously herself so why should others?
@@kelvinfernandez4058 right telling the police and others that she feared for her life means she didn't care
@@dannysilva3210 she called them a bunch of times, different days. She was still on contact with her killer. What's so hard about cutting all contact. Instead she kept calling him, texting him and the police.
@@kelvinfernandez4058 It's a very common thing with abusive relationships. I've seen it happen personally and it's incredibly frustrating to watch.
And she isn’t.
RIP Angel. Beautiful young lady. Im so sorry you left this earth so early. But youre in a better place now.
If you burn coal dont be alarmed when you get hurt. Stay with your own people
Where the hell is part 2? In 2019, STOP breaking videos into parts when you know your viewers HATE it!!!!
Did you find part 2?
Seriously. So frustrating.
For FLIPPING REAL I HAVE BEEN SEARCHING FOR AN HOUR! If you cannot do it right DO NOT DO IT AT ALL FUCK!
I think we should all boycott this channel and thumbs down. This is unacceptable when they can easily post it all in one video or at least complete the series.
They do it so they get more money for each video, because they are peices of shit
Ladies of all ages don't be afraid or ashamed to do background checks on men that take an interest in your life... It may save you heartache and your life...
Truth! ^
Most definitely! Especially with online dating. Even just a basic check on court records websites which is public information and free. Better to be safe than sorry!
Some are pure Evil and don't even have a record. Yes, do that but simply stop letting just anyone into your life. People be moving on Way too fast. This is why I'm single bruh.
Colorado Andy it doesn't say who she voted for
@@iknoweverythingcoloradoand2980 That's not right. She didn't deserve to die especially because of her skin color.
I love videos like this. Please do more to tell me everything that happened up until the actual murder and then none of the aftermath. Searching online is awesome!
Why do young girls want to be with these type of thugs??? I have seen several videos..similar to this one!! They are trying to get away but still talk to the guy?? One of the girls that got killed..she even gave the guy a ride and he tried to strangle her!! He eventually stabbed her to death!!
If there’s one person who didn’t fail Lauren, I think it was the police dispatcher (from Oct 10) that helped her retrieve her car. She was not only understanding, but even went a bit above and beyond, trying to give Lauren many different options to see which one made her most comfortable, including a police escort to get her car. And then also called back her mom to comfort her and let her know that it went ok and Lauren had safely gotten her car back. Definitely who I would want taking my call if I ever had to.
yeah and she probably wold of died earlier
@@brawlstargaming6098 yea, I think his sole intent when he changed the drop off location was to get her alone and kill her.
@@zachf748 Better to be safe than sorry
I agree. She had a warm and caring spirit.
leave it to a female to offer compassionate assistance.
male officer: oh you’re fine...😢 but she wasn’t! nobody listened-they Say they can’t do anything anyway until the person has physically harmed you. something has to change!! 😡
I just don’t understand how they failed this poor girl she literally was calling multiple times crying out for help and the police failed her this is the world we live in smh rest in peace lauren 😔😩
because it was romantic drama. She didn't stop contact with the guy. She kept going.
@@kelvinfernandez4058 victim blaming at it’s finest 😐
@@himimimikun don't care. If you think your life or safety is in danger you cease all means of communication. She decided to continue to engage.
@@himimimikun Play stupid games, win stupid prizes
Her parents weren’t TOO concerned either. They didn’t make her come home and they didn’t go there. The police went with her to get her car back. Returned the mom’s phone call. Seems they were trying to help to me.
Yes her death was preventable. For one teach her the truth is about Tyrone and for two get her a gun.
I have been listening to these crime stories all day while working. This one made me cry. Her mom was concerned and called campus security, she did the right thing. Her daughter asked for a ride to the stadium because she didn't feel safe. They did the right things in taking precautions. But she ended up dead anyway....I am done. This one really got to me. I am so very sorry for your loss. I am so so sorry.
Your life span greatly decreases once you start burning coal...🙄
The difference between the two different dispatchers... the first one took her very seriously, and the second one clearly did not.
She didn't take her safety seriously so she transmitted that energy over the phone.
@@maryshaffer8474 BS!!! She called in numerous times. She was just young and didn't know proper channels. As her dad said all it would of taken was to see he was on parole & police would have been on this creep!!!!
I think they should do a mandatory screening before hiring dispatchers. They should test a person's style of responding to problems.
The hard worker way....(1st dispatcher)
Or the lazy way (2nd dispatcher)
If they did a that test before hiring I'm sure the 2nd dispatcher would fail.
@@ricardomorales4036 You may not know this, but different races can have big or average size dicks!! Just thought I'd enlighten your mind! 🙄
@@ricardomorales4036 i think you have lost your soul.To say those things after a young girl wss murdered is so out there .
The cops did a terrible job here. They could have easily ID'd this guy to know he was a criminal out on parole. Red flags everywhere.
People also have to take responsibility for themselves. Don't rely on the police to fix everything. She should have known better and her parents share in the blame. They failed their daughter. She made the mistake of dating a loser. Signs were everywhere. Her parents should have gotten off their armchairs and brought her home.
@Munish B Well sorry law enforcement are supposed to deal with shit like this not parents.
U cant harass and I'd somebody without reasonable suspicion a crime has been committed.
Even if they did find out he's on parole that don't mean shit unless he's committing a crime
Maybe I’m missed something, but did he break the terms of his parole? If there’s no proof of him committing a crime or reasonable cause, there’s nothing they can do. And honestly, she was tying up a lot of police resources. The parents should have pulled her home and hired private security if they were really concerned.
They are lazy
Can we please sign a petition for whenever a cop gets a case that involves a man or a women documenting/filing for multiple harassing charges against people, get in trouble. (If I formed that incorrectly I’m sure you get the point.) I’m tired of men and women being killed by their stalkers or attackers, because the police fail to take each case serious. Y’all give more tickets on traffic stops then y’all solve cases and then when time comes (after the victim is dead or badly injured) y’all wanna act confuse or point the finger at someone else for you’re incompetence.
That’s absolutely aweful!! My prayers go out to her family and friends!!!
Just great. There’s like 2 black people in the entire state of Utah and he paints this kind of image
😂
Right smh 🤦🏾♀️
So sorry you have to move now Jericho
Omg here we go wit race
Omg 😂 is utah really not diverse ?? Im from cali so i cant relate
In the words of Joe Swanson
“Police policy, we can’t step in until it’s too late”
Yet, they can beat the ever lovin' snot out of someone who got a little lippy or, that they just don't like, and probably get away with it.
Not to mention, all the murdering cops have gotten away with.
@@Psychof1st Not all cops are evil, it's unfortunate those types of people exist but don't bunch up all those other police that genuinely want to help people with those tyrants.
@@OrionDawn15 all the other police who stand by and do nothing are difficult to tell apart from the tyrants. blue wall of silence exists bc even the cops aren't committing the crimes are protecting the ones who are. the police union's aggressive protection of the tyrants actively supports said tyranny.
genuinely good cops exist I'm sure, but they're rare and the exception. conditions just don't allow many to be good. a lot of times, those good cops are rooted out early. so yeah, we don't need to be specify "some cops" we can just say cops at this point.
@@grasshopperye3593 the ones who end up telling on the tyrants end up getting fired instead of the tyrants which is stupid
lol
I am from Europe and I was in slc Utah when this happened i was extremely speechless. RIP beautiful soul
The parents are at fault they didn’t teach her about the boogs
For heaven's sake she asked for help so many times , still they couldn't do their blady job. Piss me off!
What is it you think they could have done ? Banned him from campus would have done no good. Restraining order takes time and is no good. What is the answer.
Shhhhhh, disband police, remember? Stop asking for help from something you don't want.
@@victoriah.3413 arrest him. He was on parole and blackmailing someone and also carrying a gun. Her friends heard him talk about using guns and giving one to her, and they found out he was a sex offender on parole and ten years older than he said he was. I would’ve immediately told the police all of that. The campus police failed her, they claimed jurisdiction when this case should’ve been being dealt with by the city police and the parole board. Pisses me off, such a senseless death. I hope this piece of crap ex bf never gets out of jail, he doesn’t deserve it.
Are you British?
@@abdulazizhawsah9884 same thing I was gonna ask
Ladies, no matter how much some chump sweeps you off your feet you gotta make sure you look him up now that we are in 2019.
@@taylorreber dont be a smart ass here it makes you look bad
Truth
@@taylorreber try to have a positive outlook you will feel alot better.
Yep! Background checks are mandatory if you're dating in 2019. Would have saved me a lot of heartache and trouble at 21-22 if I'd done background checks on men I was seeing, I wouldn't have had to develop feelings then get shocked later by finding out one was a convicted felon, and one was secretly married. I was young and VERY naïve... ladies especially, do your homework! Too many predators out there
@@taylorreber Idk how men being lying dickbags makes me a ho but okay buddy
Of all the guys she could have chosen, why that one Lauren!? :(
Seriously!
he was a Bouncer and she liked dancing and he looked strong.USE your brain
@@Rasira2023 Still tainted herself anyways
She should have stayed with her kind
toll paid
I met her once. While walking around campus was huge so I was lost. She Helped me find my science class 😭
@Hello Mate your a sad person
@Hello Mate a euro? what do u mean?
@Hello Mate please get help. she didn't deserve to die :(
@Hello Mate I.. this is why I have no faith in humanity this world is disgusting I swear..
@Hello Mate Somebody has no life.. *hint hint: it’s “Hello Mate”*
"…she was very kind, all parents say that but she really was…" Of course she was! That's the sort of person these pieces of s&*t prey on, kind and nice people!
Mark Harris Yes, exactly! That’s why don’t play games with them.
you got that right!!
@@lavonnealexander6936 who was playing games with him
A. Smith give some respect to the fallen girl!!!
strike6tutorials so true 😭
This is the reason I believe in protecting yourself at all cost! Kill first, ask questions later! This is so sad!!!!💔💔💔💔
Sleep with dogs you get flees.
Burn coal, pay the toll
"Sorry Police policy we can't step in until its too late."
The problem with policing is that it’s reactive and not proactive. They won’t act unless something happens or there’s concrete evidence for the claims being made.
So true
Christina Reynolds look into the claims that are made and have a way to intercept before someone gets murdered.
And even when there is beyond-a-reasonable-doubt worth of evidence (say, a protection of abuse order already filed and ordered) the victim still has to basically get murdered. That paper is hardly worth the ink it was written with.
Lana Kahl that's because police discourage them by saying that their word is not enough to convict the man.
The problem with Colleges is they try to teach everybody is equal no matter the skin color..and these little naive blue eyes white girls fall for it. And while I also believe that the fact is not all races are as civilized as others. There are times you see interracial couples and they match but you can't look at that girl and that dude and tell yourself what the hell was she thinking? If she was with some preppy black dude then thats understandable..but wtf was she doing with this savage? What the hell would these two have in common? She should have known better so unfortunately she brought it upon herself. It's this millennial ideology that backfires on these young kids. Fact of the matter, if she stuck with her people she would have been alive today. That's why Im a believer in everybody should stick to their own kind..but you can't help who you fall in love with sometimes, but at least stick to those you have something in common with!
Why on earth was she involved with that guy? Somethings not right
When you swim with sharks, your gonna get bit
This is how the system always fails people!!!! They never want to help someone and prevent a tragedy from happening. Instead, once it happens everybody starts caring and wondering what they could have done. It's beyond frustrating!!!
In our society by and large we do not care about the sacred value of a life. We can’t fake it. We just don’t care about one another...and it shows. It’s so sad. Every year it gets worse. This planet is not my home.
Most people don't care period.
Always has been and unfortunately its gonna stay that way for almost an eternity(in my mind)
@Aida Amorre
Yeah, blame white people that will do the trick.
So true! I watched a guy punch his wife/GF in a parking lot once and threaten to shoot her. Asked her if she was ready to die. I got his license plate, tried reporting it thinking they would at least look into it. Three officers said "there hasn't been a crime committed yet". I'm like YET? You're going to wait till she's dead or something...
Sad sad sad !!!!! The system failed this poor girl !!!! Her family needs to sue the hell out of that city so sad !!!
She failed herself. Once she made the mistake of banging this pig and then realizing he was dangerous she should have carried protection. She bears the responsibility.
The city police didn't have jurisdiction. The college campus police did.
@@yankee2666 You're a pig. So WHAT if she banged him??? She deserves to die b/c she did? you racist P. O. S. Duh, u don't get gun permits overnight... 🙄. PLUS, he'd have overpowered her easily enough... God, THINK before you talk out ur ass next time.
It's very sad.
Such a beautiful young lady. Rest well
My sister had a boyfriend like that. My parents invited him to our house and my dad and my cousin beat the hell out of him. After that when he saw my sister on the street he would run the other way.
serves him right 😂😂😂😂😂
Solid .... people that gives out good hospitality and make you feel so good
Been about 25 years ago now, but this guy took my younger sis out on a date. They had a disagreement. On the way home he makes her get out of the car and he leaves her on the side of the street. My younger brother and I caught him outside his apt and had a little "chat" with him. I can say with the utmost confidence, that we most likely fixed his *issues* he was exhibiting towards women!!!
@@tima.478 just doing what a brother should do , I would do the same 💯👌🏽
@@vzoconquer1762 100!!!
I cannot imagine the painful horror of talking with your child on the phone then hearing her beg for her life before being murdered. Having that as the last time you spoke with your child adds so much salt to an incredibly gaping wound. Her poor parents....
Her parents could have taught her how to select nice guys instead of bad boys and she would be alive. I bet he had a ton of red flags that she ignored.
@@user-uy1rg8td1v never victim blame. The abuse and murder is the perpetrators fault. No one else’s. Yes women should be proactive in who they select but they aren’t at fault for someone’s poor choices. Not everyone knows what the red flags are. Some people aren’t taught to do background checks. By the time she probably realized what type of guy he is there wasn’t much she could do within our current laws. I do think laws need changed in this area. Our laws wait until tragedy strikes before doing something instead of being proactive.
@@user-uy1rg8td1v Are you fucking kidding me?! 😯
@@sons_of_god1306 Not every college girl brings a strange dude to her dorm stop using “victim blaming” card. She didn’t know the guy at all, her friends didn’t like him she was desperate to date just anybody. Besides, why would parents sit there and wait if they knew full gravity of the situation. If the police has to escort her to her dorm then it isn’t safe place to be, they should’ve pulled her out of that place immediately. He used her car she has given him and money.
If the bear attacks because you were too close taking a picture even though you were told stay the hell away, the bear gets put down.
A violent Psychopath or Sociopath will always attack you can blame them or not but as of right now there is no cure for ASPD.
Assume that any guy is a Psychopath that’s how you teach your daughters.
Not just bring anyone from the bar and sleep with him on the first day you met him.
@@vkrgfan to assume all men are psychopaths is ridiculous and I stand behind my original post
Just sad, may you Rest In Peace , all those cries for help.
God bless her soul, and I pray for her parents to be healed from their sorrow, at least enough so they can smile and laugh and think about the good times they had with their daughter. I know it's very hard not to cry. I'm sorry for their loss.
FYI, the photo she was being blackmailed for... one of the cops KEPT it on his PERSONAL phones and started showing it around..... Never charge or technically fired, he just resigned and moved to another police dept 85 miles away.... really???!!!??
Oh boy, what a fucking scumbag.
How did he get it in the first place? 🤔
Never mind I just read she gave it to him as evidence 🤦🏽♂️
Sicko
The pigs stick together. They're useless swine.
Rip to Lauren, she didn't deserve to die. In my early 20s I met this man and I found out later on he lied about so many things, name included. I left and never looked back. Everyone please be careful when dating, don't be afraid to ask questions and do background checks and get protection.
@Jordy Lunkhead Verrill I read your comment and laughed, I'm drinking wine excuse me. I wish more could've been done to be honest.
Just get a dog, If the dog is sketchy around someone there's your answer.
@@boulderthefat154 dogs definitely know
Bella Noir Rose what's funny??? It could easily be YOU
@@Jenni-Martikainen clearly you didn't read my response 🙄 and no it will not be
she’s so pretty, this is so sad :( may she Rest In Peace
Having 20 something daughters this really hots home about not trusting people and makes you realize that you should always educatie your child at an early age to be dangers of this world etc such a beautiful person my heart goes out to her family
How did you end up with 20 daughters??!!? Your wife must have spent her entire adult life in labor ___________________
This is infuriating especially as someone who has reached out for police help and did not get it. These policies need to change.
Yes they do reform for authority and womans lives are pricless
All woman
Natural healing
Pow wows heal all people
Natives and many others have the keys to healing
Fhe world
Magic mushrooms
Weed
Dmt
Its fine to rev up
A revolution
Yeah it's weird how difficult it can be to get help from the people who are supposed to help us...
@@sarahgeorge7786 Go smoke weed somewhere else. This is serious.
Hope you're doing okay
Never dating a muscular guy ever. Nope only skinny twigs for me, I’ll at least have a chance to fight back🙃
NeeYoDeeO 💀 I know this ain’t supposed to be funny but-
Dance Monster - I thought the same... not supposed to be funny. But I laughed with this comment lol
My ex was an MMA fighter and although I had no doubt that he would never be physically abusive, he absolutely did not give a shit that he often hurt me unintentionally as he "played around" and I felt totally powerless around him physically. It was an unhealthy attraction for sure. Glad I am out of that situation.
Dm me
Jk I’m fat
The Joker okay incel calm down
HANDSOME BOUNCER?! YOU MUST BE KIDDING ME LMAOOOO
As a parent I would've flew down and watched my daughter.
Fathers treat your daughters with so much respect she will never be able to accept anything less from any other man.
Alexis Carleton As a guy who loves his girlfriend, sisters, and mother, I definitely will.
Your naive, aren't you ? I'm sure her dad not giving her enough respect was the issue here
So true. Absolutely and mothers should do the same for their sons. There are many many nice, kind, men that get trampled by some women. Used and abused. The walking wallet. Lest we forget.
Such a sweet comment, Alexis.
I guess I’ll accept anything
If my daughter or SON told me they were going through this I'd be on the first flight out there. My husband will have to take care of back home or move with me. No way I would trust the police alone to do what is right. I have a hard time trusting people and dont expect the best from them. Especially the police. Sucks to not be very trusting but I'd rather be safe than sorry. Especially with my children.
Amen to that! Why is it that so few understand this?
The parents were way too lax they should have took their asses to UTAH.
It occured to be. I would come and live with my daughter stalk that as hole to oblivion using the law.
Yes I would have my girl or son home or up there
Daze I agree 💯
I have seen so many murders that happened with criminals who got out on parole, especially sex offenders. They shouldn't have that chance. What makes this even worse is she asked for help with enough opportunities to prevent her death from happening.
There's a lesson here somewhere.
Cops don’t hesitate to shoot an unarmed, innocent black guy but fail to deal with this monster when it matters.
Cops do not shoot unarmed, innocent black guys; But the hordes of easily led fools like you, believing that they do, and the subsequent leftist pressure, could easily have been the reason why they backed off pursuing this punk.
@@yankee2666 Trayvon Martin, Stephon Clark, Walter Scott, Alton Sterling, Philando Castile, Keith Lamont Scott, Betty Jones, Keith Childress, Michael Noel, Miguel Espinal, Eric Garner, Jonathan Sanders, Spencer McCain, Cornelius Brown, Jamar Clark, Christopher Kimble, Junior Prosper, Wayne Wheeler, Christian Taylor, George Floyd, etc. 1 in 3 blacks killed by police are unarmed.
Aged like milk
You’re ignorant. Cops are always killing unarmed black man, sometimes even innocent.
Racism is real!
Whether it's a black man threatening you with words or with a gun, a police officer should never take action. BLM!
The campus police were completely negligent
hellasow did you watch the video before replying back to my comment?
hellasow did you miss the part where she told the police that she was being blackmailed by a sexual offender and warned the campus police about him multiple times?
hellasow you really are stupid dude 😂😂😂
Nadir The sad thing is uneducated people like this person “hellasow” doesn’t understand the basics of police protection and common sense. The girl did all the leg work and law enforcement failed to follow threw, even the way dispatch converted they sound very nonchalant about it all. This situation is very very common and the sad thing is it goes under reported. Also, I know this because my mom has been working with domestic violence and sex offenders for over 25 years and I also work with the state and am currently in college learning about these problems.
Alyssa Torres ya it is very sad. I wish you best of luck because we need more help :)
Stories like this are the reason so many people stay trapped in abusive relationships
how did he get parole if he said he would probably offend again ?? smh