MY TRAUMATIC BIRTH STORY | MEET MY BABY GIRL
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 ส.ค. 2024
- Sharing my traumatic birth story - this was my first labor and delivery experience - and introducing you to my sweet baby girl! Hope you enjoy and thank you for watching xx
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Sharing my very honest birth story and introducing you to my sweet baby girl! I hope you enjoy the video
It so wonderful from seeing u on niki hair to all the way to becoming a mom. Congrats! Please take rest and eat mango with a spoon😆
I absolutely LOVE hearing birth stories. You are so strong and Ariella is completely beautiful! Near the end of your video, you expressed your fears about future pregnancies. I want you to know my first birthing story is VERY similar to yours, except that my baby boy was born with the umbilical cord strangling him. He was blue and it looked like he had died. The nurses whisked him away and put oxygen to his face and he started crying! Praise God! He was ok! I have had 4 more children since then, all without ANY pain meds. Niki, it gets easier every time. Your body will remember this experience, and it will actually CRAVE the sensation of giving birth after a few years have gone by. I am so so so happy for you! I prayed with you all the way through this, and I am thrilled with the joy bundle that God has placed in your arms!
Niki Sky anything you might have done during pregnancy to make labor faster ? Did you take red raspberry leaf tea ? I’m currently pregnant and I wish I could have a fast labor like you thx 🙏 god bless you and your little girl
Niki Sky what a beautiful and amazing story, thank you for sharing!!
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Niki, I am so sorry you had such a traumatic experience. I’m going through nursing school right now, and your story is inspiring me to be the best nurse that I can be for my future patients by listening to them, and taking them seriously so that they don’t have an experience like yours. Thank goodness your little one is ok and that she is home safe and sound with you two. Congrats on starting your new chapter in life 💕
ahh that makes me SO happy to hear! It's so, so important! I'm sure you're going to be a fantastic nurse and an example to many
When I had my first child the nurses in triage had the same attitude. I was in unbearable pain and when they checked me I was only 1 cm. The nurse told me to "suck it up" because I had a long way to go. I was devastated and crying as I also have a very high pain tolerance. They sent me home I gave birth one hour later as an emergency natural delivery in the ER. I am a nurse now and my experience taught me--- always always treat the patient not the numbers! If the pain is disproportionate to the clinical picture then do not ignore it.
My second and third labors were also very quick, I did get an epidural with the third one and in my opinion it wasn't worth it. My lower back was sore for weeks compared to my naturals deliveries.
I don’t think her nurses weren’t listening to her....i think they were hesitant to check her if her water is broken because there’s more chance of infection with each exam and there’s a protocol to admitting someone for labor. As a labor and delivery nurse I see this every day and in the end she got her natural birth which is what she wanted. She will definitely need to tell them she has fast labors if and when she has her next one then they’ll act more quickly.
@@NurseOnDuty117 Any experienced nurse/midwife should be able to tell how fast the labour is going, if contractions are happening back to back like that, it usually means things are progressing faster than expected.
christine walker true but going that quickly is typically not the norm for a primip. Thankfully they checked her in time for the doctor to make the delivery
I don't think anyone can or should judge the way a woman gives birth. One has to do what is necessary in the moment. Both of my births were quite traumatic, but at the end of the day I was SO blessed that both my boys were healthy. I believe that our brains help us to put the birthing experience behind us and focus on the baby! AND, to be willing to have another baby.
Congratulations on your beautiful little girl! You ARE a SUPERHERO!
i totally agree!! in my case, if my brain starts to forget, i will have this video to remind me lol
@@NikiSky That's the great thing about having had my kids 30 and 27 years ago! Only pictures!
I had acute appendicitis during my first labor. I also have a very high pain tolerance, so my mother stepped in, got in the doctor's face, and told him, "Something is very wrong with my daughter!" They rushed me to have a C-section, opened me up and my appendix was about to burst.
I got a bit teary eyed I must admit, you are a superwoman and your baby girl is beautiful congratulations!!!!
thank you for the kind words xx
A TH-camr claiming they are “a very very very private person” is always quite humorous to me. No… no you aren’t. 🤣
Thank you for sharing your story with us. I had "rapid birth" as well. With my first son, I went from 3cm to 10 cm in 2 h, and birthed in less then 5 pushes (and yeah, I tore as well). With my second, they didnt want me to go to term for fear of me birthing at home or in a car, so I had induction scheduled for Monday
Went into labor on Sunday, 2 weeks early. Woke up in labor and fast drove to hospital- was 9 cm dilated on arrival. Birthed him in less then 1 hour after. My OBGYN told me to "stop pushing- just cough" So, I coughed him out.
This was 9 and 7 years ago. In Toronto as well
Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl!!!
Wow what a powerful story. I can’t begin to imagine how that felt. I’m sure many women actually have PTSD after giving birth. How could you not?! I’m so happy for you, and your family, and also so grateful that you and baby are doing great. This is a difficult journey as a woman, so challenging, but girl you got this! There’s no doubt you are going to be an amazing mom to Ari. The days and nights are long right now, but the years flash by in a moment.
I literally cried when I listened to your labour story...brings back memories with my 4 kids...massive congratulations! Happy bonding with your little baby girl. Xx
thank you so much!
The same here..crying and laughing at the same time because you told everything EXACTLY like it is.Felt every word that you said. Sending much love to your family.
Congratulations! I love how women take every imaginable class and everything else they don't need for their first pregnancy... the pain you endure makes all that stuff null and void.. again CONGRATS. You made me laugh, cry and smile.
very true
I had my baby girl - Sophia on the 14th of this month too! Congratulations on your little princess! 💐
aww congrats mama!
Congratulations!
Awwww, congratulations Niki and Vlad!!! She’s adorable. In certain situations, there is no one like our Mom and now you will get to pay it forward and be that rock to Ari. Sending lots of love ❤️
you're right. thanks for the love xx
When you had just announced that you were pregnant, you said you wouldn't share any baby stuff in youtube or social media I was so so sad, and I am glad that now you feel relaxed enough to share your stories with us! I'm sure we all want to hear about your motherhood experiences and support you in a way
thank you so much. i'm just trying to figure out a balance that i feel comfortable with sharing publicly
Congratulations mama! You are now part of a very special club...you are a “Mother” for the rest of your life. Sometimes it’s so hard but it is also the most rewarding thing you will ever do. Enjoy every moment because when you blink she will be 5...blink again and she will be walking down the aisle. 💕
Yea so I’ll be getting an epidural. Lol
If they have to manually break your water. Get the epidural first. Please learn from my mistakes.
😂😂😂😇 Courage sis you can push it
Yeah get it if you can’t take pain 😂😂cause girl I was in that bed done I’m pissed at everyone 🙄😂😂 💕 congrats
MrsPokits TheRiot they automatically do that right? That’s what they did for me
soon as i step foot in that hospital when my baby is due i’m demanding an epidural lol
What an absolute blessing❤️she looks like the cutest little doll😭❤️
Sincere congrats on becoming a Mom after such a struggle! You are so deserving and I am so happy for you.☺
I feel you! I was at 7cm and told my husband to open the window so I could jump out 🤣🤣
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lmaoooooo omg
Congrats on baby girl! I had my daughter on the 17th which ended up in a c section. Unfortunately her heart rate dropped and for her safety she came into the world screaming. She was 13 days early but is gaining weight and nursing well. Congrats again! Love the brutal honesty! Not many women share there story. Everyone sugar coats it. No two births are the same.
It’s crazy that even though your water broke they didn’t put you in a delivery room. Here in the US if your waters broken you go straight to the delivery room you don’t sit in triage 😣
Kendra Cox it’s extremely extremely over crowded here :( like we just don’t have enough rooms or resources it sucks
Not true at all. Many wont anymore. Just like the idea that if your water broke you have to deliver within 24hrs isnt true. At least not anymore.
You have 16 hours from the time your water breaks to have your baby. If you go past 16 hours there is a high risk of infection. That's what my doctor told me.
In the states I think it depends on whether you go to a "normal/standard" hospital with a birthing wing, or if you go somewhere like Winnie Palmer which is for women and babies specifically. When I had my son, we went straight back, as soon as my water broke. I got to eat and everything a few hrs before I had him. I was high risk as well, so that couldve been a factor, I also pre-reigstered so they knew to expect me around a 3 week period of time. Im not sure those things make that big of change aside from being high risk. Which from her story sounds like she was.
I was in birthing room before my water broke actually. It’s crazy they treated her like that... they don’t seem supportive.
Here in mn, they break your water a lot of times when your in the birthing rooms to get things moving if your labor is taking awhile. Things always moved quickly for me once they did that. So im suprised the nurse had told you the opposite
Ahh congrats!! Every body's birth story is beautiful. My own is now 15 years old..Being a Mom to a little sweet girl is literally the most epic thing to ever happen in your life!
Thank you for being so honest about your experience; as someone who is also very set on a natural birth, this is something that I needed to hear because no matter how much pain you go through, it eventually ends and there is probably no greater feeling. So proud of you and all you went through for your gorgeous baby girl! 🥰♥️♥️♥️
You made me teary! I tend to forget what all mothers go through.. I wish you the very best, God bless your family! ❤️
My mom literally had the same experience when she was pregnant with my brother, but she had 26 hours of contractions before giving birth. But with me she gave birth in 45 minutes (with prep). But at the end she said there is no bigger pain that is faster forgotten than childbirth.
oh wow, good for your mama! you're right, but if i start to forget, i can always watch this video lol
This had me crying. She's precious!..
aww thank you so much! so glad you enjoyed xx
Cant believe yo had to convince the nurses to check you! I mean that is their job I'm in shock
Congratulations and thank you for your honesty, usually moms in social media only talk about the good parts. I'm glad you are brave enough and honest to share it and make it more realistic.
Omg i got SO emotional😢 it is so amazing how one day you’re still pregnant with your belly about to pop and the other day with your baby in your arms❤️ thanks for sharing your story, it’s so magical and inspiring, you are truly a superwoman ❤️❤️
im so glad you enjoyed, thank you for your kind words xx
the way you look at and talk to your baby makes my heart melt!
Dear Niki, thank you for sharing your story- you are such a strong woman! Congratulations to you and Vlad on your beautiful baby girl!
thank you so much!
Strong mamma gave birth to a strong girl with a strong papa ❤️❤️
Thank you for being real and sharing your story. Social media was just beginning when I was having my children and hearing these stories would have helped me so much. It is so beautiful that you opened up about your experience. 💖
This was beautiful & made me cry. I have a pretty high pain tolerance & i am not vocal with any pain, too, & now, i am not so sure about a natural birth for myself. Thank you so much for sharing this. Ari is so beautiful 🤗. Congratulations once again 😊
thank you for your kind words. every labor is different, so I hope yours will be much easier! xx
I am 39 weeks pregnant with my daughter and so nervous ! But excited too.. congrats on your long awaited baby girl
OMG, YOU'RE SO STRONG, CONGRATS ON BEING A NEW MOMMA
aww thank you so much!
I just happen to see your birth story, honestly by accident. But wanted to say......you are the first birth story I have seen, to share the fathers side of the experience! Which is so, so important. The man's perspective in my opinion is not often talked about. I think it tells a lot about your relationship to be able to remember his reaction as well as your own during such an amazing experience. Thank you for an exceptional birth story from both the mom and dads perspective.
Now I must binge watch your other videos!!!! Congratulations 💝
I cried when you said "Omg she's beautiful"...I know THAT feeling, I'm a mom and expecting baby #2 :')
Ok...and all this is waiting for me in...i dont know how long...babe, women are brave going through all this...this is how a new human is coming to this world!!!
I was crying just imagining this experience...thank you for sharing and so happy you have a healthy beautiful baby girl! XOXO
aww thank you so much!
Such a beautiful story! Your little one will treasure that you shared this for her to hear someday!
i hope so!! and this will be a good reminder for me too one day haha
How can ANYBODY possibly give this a thumbs down. You should be ashamed. Congratulations to you and Vlad on your beautiful angel!!!
My first pregnancy with my daughter, I had an epidural and everything went perfectly as planned. My second pregnancy with my son, he came out a month early and was born within an hour of arriving at the hospital with no epidural. As fast as it was, it was the worst pain EVER. Congratulations and enjoy every moment because it goes by SO quickly! My son is 18 now!
From my first contraction, until delivery, was 1 hour, with my first child. So many people said, “You’re so lucky!” What people don’t realize is how traumatic it can be to have such a rapid labor. One would have to experience it to have a clue what it’s like.
You are so brave niki. Congratulations on your beautiful daughter.. I had a similar experience. My labour also escalated quickly and the nurses refused to check my dilation as it was "my first birth".. and I birthed my son on the labour bed. By the time the nurses checked my son was already out...
omg!! i don't understand why some hospital staff don't listen to their patients and take them more seriously! i'm so sorry to hear about your experience, that makes me so frustrated!
Wow. Thanks for sharing your story. It was really intimate and personal, and also very touching. Sorry you had to go through so much pain. Ari is such a beautiful girl and she has a very strong mother. I wish you all the best! 💞
thank you so much, I'm glad you enjoyed xx
Congratulations! She’s beautiful! Love your story, I can relate. I went through a similar birthing experience 15 years ago when my daughter was born. Let me tell you it was much easier the second time around when my son was born! All the best to you and your family. Thx for sharing 😘
thank you for sharing that...that makes me feel a little better!
Mazel Tov, Nikki. She is adorable ! Thank you for sharing your eventful and touching birth story. You chose a beautiful name for her
thank you so much xx
That sounds insanely intense. Bless you. So happy you have a beautiful, healthy baby from all this.
Please do a video about first 2 weeks of recovery. I am so worried about everything.
aww don't worry! the worst are the first few days from hospital (if you have a vaginal birth) - things heal pretty quickly down there :)
Thank you for sharing your experience. As crazy as it was and as many hardships as you faced it was beautiful. i cried because the amount of work it takes to bring a little human into this world is incredible. You’re a warrior. Sending much love to you and your family!
Thank you for sharing your story with such honesty! 🙏🏻 You are a brave & very strong woman & we need more women telling their stories. I've worked as a doula in the past & have a deep respect for all women! The process of birthing is as unique each time , as each baby is one of a kind. Much love to your beautiful family 💗
Why do I watch this, when I know I will cry?!? Congratulations on your beautiful baby ❤️
She's beautiful! Well done to you and your husband. I love that her bow is as big as she is :-)
haha yes we like big bows :)
I can relate to your story. I also had my baby withiut epidural. Congratulations. She is so cute.🙂🙂
good for you girl!! you're a tough cookie. thank you so much!
Thank you for sharing this beautiful story . Both of you ( mom & daughter) are strong .....God Bless her💕😇
You look gorgeous with your baby in your arms. Cliche ? But honestly , the moment you held her in your arms you instantly were radiating. Bless your new family. ❤️
Omg Niki, you are a true superwoman! I teared up because it brought me back to my very painful delivery. Congratulations to you and your family and may God bless your beautiful baby girl.
From one new mother to another- we are superheroes! My labour was also traumatic with a long post recovery. Congratulations on your baby girl! X
I tried not to cry, but I literally cried from the very first moment to the last. :DDDD
Congrats to You and Vlad to your sweet little Angel! :)
aww im so glad you enjoyed!! thank you for watching and for the kind words xx
Bless you. You are an amazing lady and I can't imagine what you went through since I have never given birth. Congratulations on your new little precious girl.
I see you growing. You will never be the same, now that you are a mom. It's wonderful.😊
I saw the entire video and was so terrified I was like nooo I don't think I can have a baby but as soon as you held her in the end and baby talked with her I was like yes I want this❤️no matter what, I want this. Congratulations and all the love in the world for you all. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
i know, it's crazy! it's totally worth it, 100% even though it's the hardest thing in the world
Hey Niki, I just gave birth to my baby girl 2 months and thank you for sharing your journey while I was pregnant as well!!! Just when I thought my birthing/recovery were traumatic even with epidural, it was far away from what you went through! You’re admirable and a superwoman! Congratulations and enjoy your motherhood!🍼
I'm so happy you and ari are both okay now! I didnt realize you lived in toronto. I do too and I'm 30 weeks. I feel like what I learned from all the birth stories I've heard is that you never know what's gonna go down. And just have to be ready for anything! Thank you for sharing your story!
Congratulations on your beautiful baby girl! You are the epitome of elegance and charm.
thank you so much xx
So happy for you and your husband 💕 I am sure holding your baby for the first time must have been a beautiful moment.
it was the best! thank you xx
Awesome Nikki. I was not able to have children, but I so connected to your story that I could feel your emotions and imagined what it would have been like to birth a child. Thank you for your transparency.
im so sorry girl. thank you for sharing that with me and for watching xx
I love your sweater in this video, it’s beautiful!
Omg this video is so real!!!! I’m about to be a first time mum and it’s good to hear story’s like this. Thanks for sharing. Glad that your both well
Awh Nikki you are such an inspiration and you are helping a lot of will be mummy’s by sharing your experiences. I’m so pleased for you and your little family. I cried watching the beginning of your video it was super! Thank You 🙏🙏🙏👶
Congratulations! I have also had 2 natural births with no epidural and although it was very painful, it was the best experience of my life. I too labored for 14 hrs to go from 0 to 4 cm, and then within an hr, my 1st baby was born! For my 2nd baby, the whole process was less than 5 hours. With no epidural, your baby is more alert since the drug does go into the baby's body as well and so baby can latch better.
What a precious bundle of joy!! She is so tiny and love those little baby squeaks!!! God bless and take care...............TFS
💖💖 Congratulations, you’re truly blessed! Thanks for sharing your story...she’s absolutely beautiful enjoy her 💖💖
thank you for the kind words xx
First one’s the hardest. The next one will be easy in comparison (mom of 3 and l&d nurse). Congrats!
i sure hope so! thanks for the positive encouragement xx
Your story brings back my memories from 43 years ago! I remember it vividly and relived the birth with you! My first baby took 4 hours and the 2nd baby was born almost instantly as we arrived! Your next baby will come quickly--get to the hospital as soon as labor starts.
Your whole story is worse than mine. Women should watch this video before they get PG!
Congratulations Niki, sorry u had to go thru the storm before the calm. Enjoy yr beautiful Ari. Tq for being candid. Makes u more believable and luvable. Keep up the great work on u tube. 😍😍😍😍
I just so in Love with this beautiful little girl!! 💕💕You are a súper woman!! Congratulations from Spain!!! 👶🏼❤️
God bless you and your baby girl Nikki!!!!! Congratulations!!!!
Congratulations with your sweet baby girl! She is so adorable! I’m so happy for you! I wish you a quick recovery.
Congratulations on your healthy baby girl! You had me crying! I have 3 including a set of twins. Much happiness to you. There's nothing like that feeling when you have your first baby. She's gorgeous!
wow mama, good for you!! thank you for sharing and for your congratulations xx
Congratulations on your new baby. I was a childbirth educator and spent many hours in labor and delivery. I also have very fast labors and I would say, if you ever have another baby go to the doctor or hospital right away when you start feeling contractions. If not you might be delivering in your car. That is what happened with my daughter and her second baby. From her first contraction til the baby was born, in the car, was an hour and 45 minutes. When they’re ready they are ready. So many blessings to you and your family .
Aww thanks for sharing!! Hypnobirthing did not work for me either. So happy baby girl is healthy. Women are just so amazing. I feel like after my daughter was born my mom and I had an even bigger connection because I understood how much pain we go through to bring a child into the world.
you're totally right. so much respect and appreciation!
Congratulations on your sweet baby girl! You’re a wonderful mother. I had a very quick first labour under a full harvest moon this past September too. I started having contractions at 9pm and went to the hospital at 6am. Baby girl was born at 7:30am. 💕 no time for epidural!
wow, you were pretty quick too!! hope your labour was much easier than mine! xx
I got super emotional and teary listening to your story ! Wow you did a great job and your baby is soooooo cute omg
Girl this video was very emotional for me, i was crying and i was laughing. You did very well through it all and i am very happy amd proud of you. You would definately needed your mom in this situation because i can understand that your husband would need the help. Everyone has a different experience also every pregnancy. Congrats to you and your hubby. She is so precious and beautiful.❤❤❤
It just gave me shivers. So beautiful. Thank you for sharing it with us.
Thank you for sharing and being so candid! You are amazing! Women are magical beings.
thank you so much
You have described just about any woman's birthing experience in Croatia.
Here in the states too, except i was in there room i would deliver from the start.
And even Bosnia hahaha pozdravvv raja
Bukvalno haha pozdrav
Ajme nakon ovog potresa u zagrebu i vidjela kako žene rađaju djece napolje kad snijeg pada odlučila sam da ne bi nikad u Hrvatsku postala trudna
Yo in easter Europe its all like that my cousins get severe anxiety when they find out they’re pregnant (they are religious so they won’t terminate)
Thank you so much for this story. You are such a strong warrior yourself. Congrats! She's a beautiful baby. I hope you are getting rest when she's sleeping. Thank you for sharing your family with us. Hope you have a wonderful day!
What a true blessing! Congratulations, she's absolutely adorable! Ariel is strong & fierce...just like Mama! May Yahweh richly bless you! Thank you for sharing your birthing story. 🎉👶🎁💖😍🕊🎉
Listening to your labor story was like listening to mine!!!! I broke my water at 8 in the morning and gave birth at 11, three hours later, and pretty much every thing you said happend to me in the same way it's unbelievable!!!! I also don't remember many things because I wasn't able to think or listen or speak, I honestly didn't ask for an epidural because I wasn't able to think of asking!!! I was just like in trans screeming my head of too! But now my baby girl is 3 and another baby is on it's way, it is true we forget the labor pain easily even if it can be traumatic. Breast feeding was also another great Struggle but it was worth it. If You think of having another baby You have to do perineum massage, so your won't tear. Thank You so much for sharing it was so nice to listen to your story and remember mine! Congratulations!!! Take care of Your little angel ❤❤❤
congrats to you both on your beautiful baby girl I listen to so many birth stories during my pregnancy and now that I have my three month old boy I still got teary-eyed listening to your story, mine was not traumatic like yours but I totally understand the emotion in birthing a baby you are so strong!
Thank you for sharing, in the US you can get an epidural as soon as you get to the hospital even if you are 1cm.
I am on my third baby now and i ask as soon as my contractions start!
Don’t let the experience stop you from having another. She is beautiful!
Did you find having a doula helpful? I feel like they were pretty useless in this situation
Congrats on baby Ari! She is beautiful ❤️♥️♥️
thank you so much xx
Wow that’s an incredibly fast birth. The only other person I know that has happened to delivered even faster with her second baby, but I wouldn’t let that keep you from having more if you want them. She’s beautiful!!!
Thank u for convincing me to do an epidural XD
OMG!!! 🌈❤️🦋💗💋💥👼 Why on earth would they MAKE you walk to the birthing room?? Poor baby. I’m so glad you’re ok and that you have such a beautiful baby girl. Thank you for your courage to share with us. I’m sure I can speak for almost all of your subscribers, that you are loved and we a delighted to have you in our lives. 💗💗💗
Cried while listening to u..love the rawness🤗
thank you, im so glad you enjoyed xx
Yes during birth we all need an advocate! I'm in nursing we definitely try and do our best however women know their bodies best