Rusty Shackleford I can’t speak for your experience because I have not lived your life; but in my honest opinion, you seem to have a few issues which you could benefit from discussing with a councilor.
So happy to see you uploading again Damien! This was a stellar video - you're seriously the best dating coach on TH-cam bar none. Thanks for all the work you put into these man.
· some guys attract a wide variety of girls because of their status · they don't necessarily attract a particular type because of their personality, job, or hobbies
Sorry man, but if one thing, this video finally cured me of listening to dating coaches of any gender, male or female. Everyone of you guys has their own magical recipe that everytime boils down to "No no no, forget what they taught you to think, you gotta be like this and that instead." And none of that shit works, OF COURSE because I'M doing it wrong and they feel that I'm "just putting up an act" an all that stupid crap. Back to gaming now, screw that stuff.
@PlasticBagScene Hello, thanks for your kind wishes, sorry it took a while for me to respond. I meant that I always get told to behave a certain way by those dating trainers, and when I do and it doesn't work, they tell me that it didn't work because I focused to much on trying to be somebody else and not just being myself; which they told me not to be in the first place. And that is simply BS.
Confirmation Bias. If you're only talking about money and how much power you have you can't complain when she becomes interested in those things and thus a gold digger. There are absolutely women who are that, but they're the far minority. Figure out what you really want, what you're really looking for, and then figure out how you attract this kind of women. You'll have to work on yourself. If you want a really fashionable girl you better know something about fashion, and show that. If you want someone who's really nice and all around good person, then be one yourself. And so on.
I think taking responsibility isn't victim blaming - If women want to be victims and not self-improve that's their business. You can be better than that :)
@@SchoolOfAttraction Yep, it is not, but it really frustrates me that if we gender-reverse the situation, it instantly becomes victim blaming in the eyes of a general consensus =-)
Yes... I've spoken to a lot of women about this... I think the term 'victim blaming' primarily comes up on topics like sexual assault and rape - It gets complicated on those topics because female vicims of sexual assault are often told it's their fault from a place of shame "It's your fault because you're too pretty" "it's your fault because you dressed sexily" "it's your fault because you danced provocatively" They're told all these reasons it's their fault that's completely unfair, and designed to create a great sense of shame. This shame can easily lead to depression, self-loathing, self-blaming (the very unhealthy kind). Sex assault victims are also massively slut shamed when it comes to legal proceedings, so there's that legacy too. So women are very sensitive that nobody is pushing victims of sexual assault down that path. BUT there is definitely a level of learning to protect oneself from future events by understanding what you could have done differently.... Like... no woman deserves to be raped, but going back to a man's house when you've just met him, and putting yourself alone in his bedroom is a risky behavior and one that might be best to avoid in future - but the rape is still all the man's fault in that situation. .
@@SchoolOfAttraction Yes, people are too eager to think that responsibility equals blame. If I'm walking with a large sum of money in the dark alley, and I am getting robbed, then it is the robber's fault, not mine. But I am still responsible for my money, and it was in my interest to, for example, call a taxi instead of walking in the shady part of town.
Hi, woman here. I think this video is genius. Anyone who thinks "all [group] are like [adjective]" needs to realize that humans are complicated and no two people are the same. You'll be a lot happier knowing nobody fits into a singular box. PS- not trying to be hateful or rude, just trying to give my opinion on this as a person with two X chromosomes
I want to find a beautiful woman whom I can love for the rest of my life! And hopefully that she'd love me back. Maybe I have to work on myself to attract her in the future, or maybe I will never be good enough for her...I don't know. 😢😞
So what are some ways women you meet off-line or different ones you meet online? Like what kind of woman will you not meet online hardly ever at least?
you'll just find women with more going on in their lives on average - Women with strong self-esteems, living full lives, with healthy emotional background. - But even that isn't really hitting the nail on the head - it's just that OVERALL counting all factors that go into an ideal woman, more of then are likely to be found meeting women offline rather than online
This video is seriously underrated
I'm glad to hear I have a fan, cheers Raven!
This is a very valid point he makes... More guys need to look inside for their answers rather than blaming women
Rusty Shackleford I can’t speak for your experience because I have not lived your life; but in my honest opinion, you seem to have a few issues which you could benefit from discussing with a councilor.
It also applies to everything else in your life... :) Your life IS Who Your Are!
Absolutely agree!
How can I meet racist women?
So happy to see you uploading again Damien!
This was a stellar video - you're seriously the best dating coach on TH-cam bar none. Thanks for all the work you put into these man.
Thanks Shakydrummer, I appreeciate it :)
this is vitally important for men to hear
· some guys attract a wide variety of girls because of their status
· they don't necessarily attract a particular type because of their personality, job, or hobbies
Sorry man, but if one thing, this video finally cured me of listening to dating coaches of any gender, male or female. Everyone of you guys has their own magical recipe that everytime boils down to "No no no, forget what they taught you to think, you gotta be like this and that instead." And none of that shit works, OF COURSE because I'M doing it wrong and they feel that I'm "just putting up an act" an all that stupid crap.
Back to gaming now, screw that stuff.
@PlasticBagScene Hello, thanks for your kind wishes, sorry it took a while for me to respond.
I meant that I always get told to behave a certain way by those dating trainers, and when I do and it doesn't work, they tell me that it didn't work because I focused to much on trying to be somebody else and not just being myself; which they told me not to be in the first place. And that is simply BS.
Confirmation Bias. If you're only talking about money and how much power you have you can't complain when she becomes interested in those things and thus a gold digger. There are absolutely women who are that, but they're the far minority. Figure out what you really want, what you're really looking for, and then figure out how you attract this kind of women. You'll have to work on yourself. If you want a really fashionable girl you better know something about fashion, and show that. If you want someone who's really nice and all around good person, then be one yourself. And so on.
What we become or are we attract, makes perfect sense...
I attract no one, that makes me one of the Faceless men from Game of thrones :D
I want to buy your book in Audible but cannot find it.
Want that book thanks 😀
How do I get the free audio book?
Hey Ricky, the free audiobook offer isn't available anymore I'm sorry. It was only free for a limited time.
Me, a woman, clicking on this video: *hmmmmmmmm*
Nice
Man please give me the link
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Cool. But if you told this thing to women, you will be called a victim-blamer. But I guess blaming men for their unfortunate interactions is okay ;-)
I think taking responsibility isn't victim blaming - If women want to be victims and not self-improve that's their business. You can be better than that :)
@@SchoolOfAttraction Yep, it is not, but it really frustrates me that if we gender-reverse the situation, it instantly becomes victim blaming in the eyes of a general consensus =-)
Yes... I've spoken to a lot of women about this... I think the term 'victim blaming' primarily comes up on topics like sexual assault and rape - It gets complicated on those topics because female vicims of sexual assault are often told it's their fault from a place of shame "It's your fault because you're too pretty" "it's your fault because you dressed sexily" "it's your fault because you danced provocatively" They're told all these reasons it's their fault that's completely unfair, and designed to create a great sense of shame.
This shame can easily lead to depression, self-loathing, self-blaming (the very unhealthy kind).
Sex assault victims are also massively slut shamed when it comes to legal proceedings, so there's that legacy too.
So women are very sensitive that nobody is pushing victims of sexual assault down that path.
BUT there is definitely a level of learning to protect oneself from future events by understanding what you could have done differently.... Like... no woman deserves to be raped, but going back to a man's house when you've just met him, and putting yourself alone in his bedroom is a risky behavior and one that might be best to avoid in future - but the rape is still all the man's fault in that situation. .
@@SchoolOfAttraction Yes, people are too eager to think that responsibility equals blame. If I'm walking with a large sum of money in the dark alley, and I am getting robbed, then it is the robber's fault, not mine. But I am still responsible for my money, and it was in my interest to, for example, call a taxi instead of walking in the shady part of town.
Hi, woman here. I think this video is genius. Anyone who thinks "all [group] are like [adjective]" needs to realize that humans are complicated and no two people are the same. You'll be a lot happier knowing nobody fits into a singular box.
PS- not trying to be hateful or rude, just trying to give my opinion on this as a person with two X chromosomes
You could possibly be the best dating coach. I'm trying to find someone better but there isn't. PS: I'll let you know if I ever find a better one.
Everyone should hear this I m indian I love you
Are you sleepy or on drugs
When are you guna have the book on Amazon's audible?
My audio book I never put onto Amazon, Just wasn't worth all the effort, it's much easier to sell through my website.
why did you pick your nose when you said "sincere seduction"? I guess you're not sure of your product?
I want to find a beautiful woman whom I can love for the rest of my life! And hopefully that she'd love me back. Maybe I have to work on myself to attract her in the future, or maybe I will never be good enough for her...I don't know. 😢😞
Bold of you to assume that my view of women is wrong 🤣
So what are some ways women you meet off-line or different ones you meet online? Like what kind of woman will you not meet online hardly ever at least?
you'll just find women with more going on in their lives on average - Women with strong self-esteems, living full lives, with healthy emotional background. - But even that isn't really hitting the nail on the head - it's just that OVERALL counting all factors that go into an ideal woman, more of then are likely to be found meeting women offline rather than online
Where's the audio book link? 😅
You can't get the audio book for free anymore so the links were taken down.
How can what you believe about women be wrong when it speaks to all of your experiences with them?I'm just saying.