3 Big Mistakes Guys Make When Talking To Girls
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ก.ย. 2024
- When approaching women, guys there are 3 big mistakes most guys make that get them rejected, and they're really easy to fix.
Whether you are running out of things to say, or you are simply have no idea why she doesn't like you back, the reasons for getting rejected are really quite simple to fix.
I've been coaching men for almost a decade now, and getting rejected every time they approach a girl they like is one of the most common causes for frustration. The good news is that once you understand what you're doing wrongly it's easy to fix permanently.
So here are the 3 dating traps you need to avoid so you can stop getting rejected. NOW
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*rapid questions
*Girls have no clue who you are talking to.
*Premature EJECTulations
dude I needed to hear this too. for so long I always recognized my rapid fire approach but didn't really divisive the self convo solution. :)
You're welcome mate!
you forget the biggest mistake, making the effort to open their mouth in the first place
What should I talk about as an opening topic, with a view to getting a same-day lay with her?
What you first talk about to open the conversation has no baring on whether you sleep with her that day honestly... But I'd focus on being able to get consistent quality dates before worrying about same day lays - Sort of a walk before you can run kind of thing...
What do you mean by quality dates? What makes a date quality?
To me, any sexless date is inherently bad - as sex is only the reason that I'd go on a date.
You need to take a few steps back - Go on dates WIHTOUT trying to get sex, do women want to see you again? If not, then there is a whole lot to work on before trying to make things sexual quickly. Also... there isn't anything wrong with wanting sex quickly - I'm all for casual sex and one night stands... BUT you'll find a lot more power from actually trying to get to know the girls, taking an interest in them personally...
They usually don't want to see me again because I don't spend as much money on them as they think I should - or because I'm not fun and entertaining. They either expect me to give them expensive presents and wine and dine them - or they expect me to be an amateur comedian reeling off a string of jokes, anecdotes etc.
@@andrewsmith74 You're just dating the wrong girls.
Not every girl is like that. If anything, you should be avoiding those kinds of girls for the most part.
I'm very good in that. Females always answers back even when they are bored but i always know when to stop. I don't even need to see them i just feel it. Women are not difficult to figure out.
Sniper 11 N.D. ... Hey, man! Game knows no bounds. Great lessons HERE & from Rom. (Though Rom is one of the best !!)
Yeah i saw your comments a couple times at Professor Rom is channel. Rom is the best period. Idd game knows no bounds.
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Great video, the last point was great! I had not actually considered that one before, but now I notice that I've been doing it!
Really good point about bailing too soon.
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Well... When I try to use your methodics of conversation against one-word-answers, I always feel like I am a spambot or a boasting guy. I really hate this feeling.
I appreciate that - but I'd argue that is your way of seeing the world... It's like guys who won't approach a woman they like in a bar because they're scared of 'bothering' her and feeling like a pest... Or guys who don't stand up for what they want in a relationship because they don't want to make a argument.
@@SchoolOfAttraction Maybe you are right. But personally, I'm not a big fan of people who spam me with their blaberring, and, according to the golden rule of ethics, I too should not bother people when they are not contributing to the conversation...
how direct should I be to show interest. I just hear so much about being needy...so I get confused.
To me, neediness is when you 'need' them to like you back... Have you ever felt like you met someone (guy or girl) and you just wanted them to like you and found yourself working a bit too hard for it? that's neediness - If I meet a woman, really enjoy our conversation and tell her I like her, that's not needy, unless I need her to like me back - I'd do that by maybe agreeing with everything she says even though I don't, or laughing too much, or asking her if she likes me too.. That kind of thing. But simply expressing what you think/feel isn't necessarily needy as far as I believe.
thanks for your response. I understand. When you need them to like you and they don't it's shows especially when they let you down. So I can come on strong but unless I don't have any reaction either way I'm still good. So it's ok to say "Hey I like you...We should hang out sometime!" With a big F'n Smile