Absolutely! Otherwise, it can be too much/borderline creepy and drive her away. This stuff needs to all be drip fed once she is already well attracted to you..
Compliment her beauty, is too obvious and is something every single guy will do? It’s better to playfully tease her, for example she says she hates her hair, you say yeah it’s petty bad... but then without hesitation smile tell her you’re just messing with her and then look in her eyes tell her she is beautiful and has beautiful hair! Obviously, only say it if you mean it or it will come off fake as hell and she will pick up on your insincerity. Your choice, be like every other guy that wants to get in her pants, or be playful and stand out.
Buy her a book but get yourself the same book. Setup your next date where you both agree to read the same chapters and then talk about it together. It's something to do together while physically apart and helps build those valuable talking skills.
Here's one for you. Im 54 and a woman I am seriously interested in these days, who is someone I have known my entire life because we grew up and went to school together. I remembered a little paper mache sphinx she made in... ready for this!! 4th grade over 40 years ago. So I bought her a beautiful mini Spinx statue to go on her work desk with a plaque saying, "Some things are definitely worth remembering." 😁😁😁😁😁 She wouldn't stop crying. She could not believe I could remember that. OOOOHHHH... I remember a lot more than that sweetie... but hey it did work.. 😉❤
Alpha males hate these tips. It's more suiting for the beta males. Their the nice guys women actually hate. The guy who follows these tips will stay in the friend zone. 1. Your beautiful is validation for her and shes more uninterested. 2. Giving gifts without knowing if she's gonna flake is a sign of insecurity. 3. Remembering things about her ain't bad but Alpha males make her seek the males approval with compliments too. It's both ways or nothing. 4. By the end of the date your friend zoned and shes turned off searching for a man with some balls who cares less of how she feels, who more invested in himself. This guy gets the farthest. Women hate Nice guys everyone knows it.
If a man truly loves a woman, these little gestures come naturally. If you are deliberating and it is taking you time to come up with things to say or do...then you are not in love. When you love someone, you are attentive, aware and you respect her, admire her and want to be with her....everything about her feels natural and effortless!!
Agree, completely...... I was watching and found myself thinking, "already doing that" to her suggestions. Real love is a subtle, tender thing, that comes naturally, unlike, movie love and it's grand gestures, "perfect dates", or scream it to the world mentality.
Absolutely correct! She's always telling me how romantic i am. I tell her it just comes so naturally with her. Don't ever have to think what to say. It just flows. I love her so goddam much
I have a crush on her, but waited until I was more secure financial, and someone else bet me to it,however she kinda knows how I feel, what can I do to win her over, or should I just move on,
If you really want to make her heart melt do everything from the heart, pay attention and show her that she is special to you, do things without being asked and without asking for anything in return, learn her likes and dislikes, always give her your attention
Dear lady u are so good with this i really appreciate u and i want 2 say that u are loved rite back i am truly your biggest fan. Absolutely love love love your voice and realness thank u from the depths of my soul queen ponti !!!! 👍
I have a girl that she likes me, when I tell her can I call you, she only responds that she's not alone, so I tell her okay let it to another day when you are alone then call me but she never do it, so I stop asking her even if I know that she's alone I don't ask her or call her
My girl was broke these days, she ask me to buy a medicine for her. I know she's devastated and no one she could turn to. So bought her med and groceries as well. I bought her all her favorite food and even finger foods she like. And then when I am about on my way home she texted me with the sweetest thank you from her. I hope that would make her feel she's not alone in the midst of her difficulties and struggles.
Hi Apollonia ponti this is my first time watching videos I like the wait you explain detail by detail everything it's very helpful thank you girl keep it up God bless
Thanks Apollonia, for these tips. If I feel the future she and I are getting close, over the course of three days, I would send the following texts. Day 1 morning "Meet me in the middle of the day, Let me hear you say everything's okay, Bring me southern kisses from your room" Day 1 night "Meet me in the middle of the night, Let me hear you say everything's alright, Let me smell the Moon in your perfume" Day 2 morning "Meet me in the middle of the day, Let me hear you say everything's okay, Come on out beneath the shining sun" Day 2 night Meet me in the middle of the night, Let me hear you say everything's alright, Sneak on out beneath the stars and run" Day 3 morning "Meet me in the middle of the day, Let me hear you say everything's okay, let me see you smiling back at me" Then I would see how she reacts. Would this have a positive effect on a woman? Ok, so I'm not that original. These are lyrics from "Romeo's Tune", by Steve Forbert 1979, but I guess it's the thought that counts.
Im a nervous guy usually. There's a lady Im trying to court at the moment and it appears to be going well other than a slip up for a week or so where real life was kicking my butt and I was leaning on her too much as a distraction. Managed to pick myself up on it and steer things back on course. My nerves have made it difficult to meet people, and my current group of friends are mostly people I've known for 20+ years. Decided to buy her some roses recently both because she's always doing things for people and deserves someone to buy her flowers sometimes, and as a subtle way of showing my interest. Seemed to go over well. During our subsequent conversation the topic of friends came up as did why Im a bit nervous about letting new people in my life (flowed organically in that direction, I didn't just blurt it). It was at this point my confidence in myself following the well received flowers grew enough to tell her I'm glad I met her and she's the 1st new person I've wanted in my life for a long time (she's my neighbor and we'd met by her knocking on my door at 1 a.m. one morning 'cos she'd locked herself out of her house, and then asking if I wanted some drinks (and yes, I do suspect Im an idiot for not realizing that was probably something other than what was stated)). Is the "you're the 1st new person I've met in a long time that I want in my life" comment a good, bad, or other idea? Im pretty sure it was welcomed, but she's also polite and quick witted. It was completely honest on my part, and also an attempt to let her know I was at least internally receptive to a bunch of what I suspect were signals over the few months prior. Pretty sure she got it. Things appear to be going extra well since that day; she's been more touchy/hands on since,.... stroking of my arm, hands touching when passing items, even got a big, close hug that she started, I returned tentatively at 1st (my nerves) then leaned into harder so as to not make her think I was disinterested, and then her leaning into harder again. I like to have hope she may be interested, but Im a little clueless and always 2nd guess what I see as potential signals/signs/cues.
Thanks for the help. Im new to this dating scene and its one hella ride! One question:- Do you tell a woman how you feel about her on dating apps or on the phonecall?
I enjoyed listening to this, and felt comforted to hear these things and know that they are all things that I already do and say to and for a very special God loving woman that is in my life, she LOVES flowers, and I show up with flowers when she least expects it. Surpriseing her every time. I love holding her hand and i make my hand available anywhere we go. Weather its a long drive, or a walk around the lake, or standing and sitting next to each other at church or at a movie, I am mindful of everything she likes and doesn't like, through tons and tons of communication, I took me a few months to say I Love you to her, but when I did say it, i could see in her eyes that it ment alot to her, she says i treat her like a queen, I leave her hand written notes every time I go, ive put them on the counter by her morning coffee cup, ive put a simple and sweet, Good morning Darling, thinkin about you, have a wonderful day xoxoxo with heart around, it on a post it note and placed on her laptop screen,, to put an extra smile on her face at work. I wrote I LOVE YOU using "x's" & "O's" on a post it and placed it eye level in her bathroom mirror so she can see it while she's getting ready each morning... i did that weeks ago and its still there, she has saved every hand written note I've given her, We went to the Arberadum last month to look at all the CHRISTmas lights and roast marshmallows by an open fire i help her make her smore while my marshmallow had ignited completely and made a bright flame, we both laughed about it while i ate my charcoaled marshmallow. Then we walked up on this overlook that hadn't been shoveled yet, but the was a speaker playing some beautiful music... gave her a soft kiss on the cheek and asked her if she'd like to dance she smiled big and nodded, so we danced and danced and smiled and laughed and danced some more,,, then these ladies walked near us and told us we looked like a couple right out of a Hallmark movie, we both smiled and then danced some more, it has been over six months that we've been seeing each other and three weeks ago while standing outside my car in a target parking lot she gave me a hug like we always do, but she gently squeezed me extra tight and put her hands softly behind my neck, as she looked me straight in the eyes and said "Jeffrey Michael I LOVE YOU, VERY MUCH" My heart melted and felt light as a feather when i heard her say those words to me, She is truely a blessing, and I thank God everyday that her and I met, I am so grateful!!!!
Hi Apollonia. Thank you sooooo much for all your videos. It really helps me. Here's one of my tips. When I wrote a texto to my girlfriend or my "almost" girlfriend, I often started by saying something like: "Hello my beautiful angel", "Good afternoon my sunshine", "Hi my beautiful rose", "Good night my full shining moon", etc. And if the girl had Moroccan origins, for instance, I would say something like: "Bon matin my beautiful moroccan sun". So I tried to vary the way to call her, rather than all the time using: "Hello my love" or "Allô mon amour", for instance.
Growing up with a mother who suffered with Bi-polar disorder all of her life, I became very sensitive towards her needs and vulnerabilities. To this day, I am very protective of the few women that I hold dearly in my life.
Here's a tip, after setting up a second date via text (yes, we call more than we text). my closing remark was "anticipating your kiss" and I left it at that. She responded with a giant kissing emoji. Can you imagine what's going to happen when I pick her up for our next date.
Thanks apollonia. You are very kind and a master of your Work. Well I think the best skill is to give compliments of her personal values. I live in austria, the country near germany. So my mother language is german. What a pity that you are so far away, so I cannot talk to you personally. God bless you. Juergen
Dear, Appolonia, I like all Ur videos. How did I even get to Ur channel? I'm a 41yr old married man but, I am just knowing women. I am an introvert, hardly into ladies, shy too. But, from Ur videos, I have come to really understand how to go about the ladies. Thank U. U are beautiful all round.
these are lowsy tips. don't ask her if you can call her just do it. telling her she is beautiful is a mistake she already knows that. her values are important only if she actually acts like a woman and appreciate your values as a man. just be a man and treat her like a lady only if she is a lady.
I like to say:"You look perfect today!" She says:"Thank you!" But I add :"NO,no,no I thank YOU!" She does that "AAwww".....I love to say that to a woman I like...and interested in...
#1 she hated it #2 remembered everything including what her kid liked.. didn't matter #3 she hates talking on the phone even if I asked. #4 ok, this one she was happy with.. kinda..
My girlfriend works as a dispatcher. There is one radio that whenever she is on it they always call her. I told her that the reason why they do it is because she sounds so good on the radio. She sent me a lot of ♥️. 😊😊
I met my lady friend and her mom at church and we all sat together we exchanged phone numbers and let each other know when our birthdays are I asked her what time I can call her tomorrow which is Monday she said she calls her cousin at 7pm so I asked her if i can call her at 5pm and she said yes I am going to tell her how beautiful she looked at church we are going to get together this week or next for 2-3 hours so we can get to know each other better and i am going to introduce her to my mom.She is a cancer survivor and is going thru chemo so I sat with her mom today so if she had to go to the restroom because she was coughing from her chemo treatment she could get out to go to the restroom easier she said I could sit with her when she got over the coughing from chemo treatment which will be very soon she was very considerate and is a very devout christian as is her mom and myself
Oh my Gosh !!! This brings up a couple things that I am dealing with !!! Number #1 !!! We have each other's phone numbers !!! And did texting chatting on a regular sharing deep subjects and after a little while I asked her permission to call her and she said that she prefers mostly or more texting than phone calls!!! So she even prefers that over person to person or dating !!! We first met by coincidence in a restaurant sitting and eating next to each other and towards and at the end of the meal having a great time we did exchange phone numbers!!! And 3 weeks chatting without seeing each other again !!!
I think you are a very attractive woman and the way you clearly want to help people in their relationships is very appealling to me, I would like to help you in some small way if I possibly could, maybe you could give me your number because I'd like call you so I could look into your beautiful eyes and talk about these issues that are important to both of us....btw, do you like family gatherings and home cooking?
Compliment her beauty, is too obvious and is something every single guy will do? It’s better to playfully tease her, for example she says she hates her hair, you say yeah it’s petty bad... but then without hesitation smile tell her you’re just messing with her and then look in her eyes tell her she is beautiful and has beautiful hair! Obviously, only say it if you mean it or it will come off fake as hell and she will pick up on your insincerity. Your choice, be like every other guy that wants to get in her pants, or be playful and stand out.
Women are way too difficult. They're so confusing. They want you to just know what to do with them. They don't care. If you don't act the way they want, you get rejected. Even when they talk to you, you still gotta play stupid games. You can never be real with them and go straight to the point.
I think something that might be important is understanding Myers Briggs differences in types. Even calling a woman beautiful can come across as a throw away line to someone that is focused on competence. One girl needs to be chatted up with small talk while another wants to talk about something deep and meaningful. While its high risk to guess wrong, when you guess right on what approach unlocks their passion, that seems to be what women take as chemistry.
Everything is a man doing things for her.. How about what women can do to keep a man happy and what can she do for hum...You should do a video for both sex
Hi help me out I'm interested in this girl who lives in NM. I live In AZ. She is interested as well give me advice how we can work our relationship. I told her I'm willing to travel. As well. Just to see her thank you :)
I always make a point of telling my partner that she looks lovely. ..but she always replies with "well I don't feel it' My reply to that is.".in my eyes you always look lovely to me'.
hmm... male dating coaches seem to be giving the exact opposite of this advice. These tips need more contextualisation otherwise they could come across as approval seeking.
can u help me Apolonia.i love one girl,she s name is Deborah de luca and she is from Italy.i like to meet her and tell how much i love her.i watch you every day and listen your advices,you are great person,you are so blessed.
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I love this woman. She has no idea how much she has helped me.
She seems sincere with her advice.
Same here.... she's the best
She’s the most genuine I’ve heard. You can tell she’s different. Can’t really pin point what it is. Maybe she’s just real. What a concept lol
Ikr
She must have heard a lot of pain or had pain in her life cause she cares.
I'll say this, the scenery behind you is beautiful but it would be nothing without you in the frame. Love your dress too, it compliments you
This only works if she's already attracted to you.
Absolutely! Otherwise, it can be too much/borderline creepy and drive her away. This stuff needs to all be drip fed once she is already well attracted to you..
if she isnt already attracted to you then wtf are you doing? find a different girl
Even if she likes you, you still gotta play games. Just buy a sex doll bro. Thank me later.
Exactly... That was what Apollonti said... She gave that clause "If only she is attracted to you"
1. Compliment her beauty
2. Talk about or do something she likes
3. Can I call you
4. Compliment her values
YW
Oh Thanks...
Compliment her beauty, is too obvious and is something every single guy will do?
It’s better to playfully tease her, for example she says she hates her hair, you say yeah it’s petty bad... but then without hesitation smile tell her you’re just messing with her and then look in her eyes tell her she is beautiful and has beautiful hair! Obviously, only say it if you mean it or it will come off fake as hell and she will pick up on your insincerity.
Your choice, be like every other guy that wants to get in her pants, or be playful and stand out.
Do this if you wanna get ghosted
Keeper Of The Reaper 100% the easiest way to get ghosted 😂😂😂
Never do this guys cuz your just putting her on a pedestal!
My net worth is $3.5 million. That melts all their hearts.
I doubt it
There called hookers..lol
Yep
Kyle Durham well that’s what all girls are
yryriza lmao mines 23.1 million
Buy her a book but get yourself the same book. Setup your next date where you both agree to read the same chapters and then talk about it together. It's something to do together while physically apart and helps build those valuable talking skills.
Love this!
The first sensible comment I have seen from these pages.
@@adj5767 Thanks for your comments and acknowledging a lot of my other videos. :)
Im definitely buying her book
I bought her a PS4 and now she’s my wife lol that melt her heart
Shes a keeper
Foooool😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Supercalifragililistcexpialidicious!
She is a gamer 😄
You are sure she is not a man lol? haha
Here's one for you. Im 54 and a woman I am seriously interested in these days, who is someone I have known my entire life because we grew up and went to school together. I remembered a little paper mache sphinx she made in... ready for this!! 4th grade over 40 years ago. So I bought her a beautiful mini Spinx statue to go on her work desk with a plaque saying, "Some things are definitely worth remembering." 😁😁😁😁😁
She wouldn't stop crying. She could not believe I could remember that. OOOOHHHH...
I remember a lot more than that sweetie... but hey it did work..
😉❤
"When he gave me those peanut butter m&M's I know I was going to spend the rest of my life with him."
Pieces2thePuzzle 😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣
Alpha males hate these tips. It's more suiting for the beta males. Their the nice guys women actually hate. The guy who follows these tips will stay in the friend zone.
1. Your beautiful is validation for her and shes more uninterested.
2. Giving gifts without knowing if she's gonna flake is a sign of insecurity.
3. Remembering things about her ain't bad but Alpha males make her seek the males approval with compliments too. It's both ways or nothing.
4. By the end of the date your friend zoned and shes turned off searching for a man with some balls who cares less of how she feels, who more invested in himself. This guy gets the farthest. Women hate Nice guys everyone knows it.
I like to believe you but i am confused i dont know if that is true
@@darknaster88 true 100%
If a man truly loves a woman, these little gestures come naturally. If you are deliberating and it is taking you time to come up with things to say or do...then you are not in love. When you love someone, you are attentive, aware and you respect her, admire her and want to be with her....everything about her feels natural and effortless!!
U sum up greatly it's about feelings r they real or not.
Agree, completely...... I was watching and found myself thinking, "already doing that" to her suggestions. Real love is a subtle, tender thing, that comes naturally, unlike, movie love and it's grand gestures, "perfect dates", or scream it to the world mentality.
Very true!!!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏
I'm sorry he hasn't done that for you. Divorce?
Absolutely correct! She's always telling me how romantic i am. I tell her it just comes so naturally with her. Don't ever have to think what to say. It just flows. I love her so goddam much
how to overcome mistakes done with the same person ?
Married for 28 years, but still love to give affirmations to my hubby as well.
I like your advice, in a way, a good father does these thing's for the daughter he loves.
Yes, let’s melt woman
I bought a jar . Cut up pieces of paper and wrote things I love about my girlfriend. She still reads them everyday
Im going to use this tip
My favorite tip was the talking instead of texting. Men forget to realize how important it is to talk and have meaningful conversations.
I never had a woman texted me
I have a crush on her, but waited until I was more secure financial, and someone else bet me to it,however she kinda knows how I feel, what can I do to win her over, or should I just move on,
Jeez, I'll never remember all of this. Guess I'm going to be single and a virgin for the rest of my life!
I know I am young for this but thank u very much this worked for me
Apollonia, can I call you? I want to connect without emojis
Heck it helped me get 3 this week
This actually makes normal sense .
Thank you so much Apollonia!!!
If you really want to make her heart melt do everything from the heart, pay attention and show her that she is special to you, do things without being asked and without asking for anything in return, learn her likes and dislikes, always give her your attention
Kenneth Herrarte Kenneth you’re a loser and you soft that’s why you you can’t keep a woman she will leave you for bad person like me
Kenneth Herrarte always give her your attention ?? Huge mistake amk
Facts
Great video once again!!!
Thanks so much! I appreciate it. :)
I did all of this multiple times and no luck
Dear lady u are so good with this i really appreciate u and i want 2 say that u are loved rite back i am truly your biggest fan. Absolutely love love love your voice and realness thank u from the depths of my soul queen ponti !!!! 👍
Good God man.
I have a girl that she likes me, when I tell her can I call you, she only responds that she's not alone, so I tell her okay let it to another day when you are alone then call me but she never do it, so I stop asking her even if I know that she's alone I don't ask her or call her
Love the content of the video! Love your work, Apollonia. Thank you!
Same her
My favorite tip was about remembering something she likes and surprising her by putting it into action by surprise
Fact
Good advice, but they aren’t really “phrases.”
Everybody seemed to have missed that. Been waiting on those phrases who are actually tips as seen. Thanks
Just speak through your heart 💯❤️
Okay i will my friend
Thx Apolonie, u appear serious and mature
My girl was broke these days, she ask me to buy a medicine for her. I know she's devastated and no one she could turn to. So bought her med and groceries as well. I bought her all her favorite food and even finger foods she like. And then when I am about on my way home she texted me with the sweetest thank you from her. I hope that would make her feel she's not alone in the midst of her difficulties and struggles.
I'm winded. I tried this it does work!!!
Find 100 ways, James Ingram...
Words to love by Gents.....
Love that song
Apollonia,
Favorite is: Compliment her values.
So simple. But men do forget this one.
Love your great advice.❤️
This is a good point
How to make her heart melt 4 phrase to steal her heart ( only if she's Attracted you ?
Validation, Thoughtfulness, Escalation...cool
Iovey happy 3 Alice's thanks Jessica till
Hi Apollonia ponti this is my first time watching videos I like the wait you explain detail by detail everything it's very helpful thank you girl keep it up God bless
Thanks Apollonia, for these tips.
If I feel the future she and I are getting close, over the course of three days, I would send the following texts.
Day 1 morning
"Meet me in the middle of the day, Let me hear you say everything's okay, Bring me southern kisses from your room"
Day 1 night
"Meet me in the middle of the night, Let me hear you say everything's alright, Let me smell the Moon in your perfume"
Day 2 morning
"Meet me in the middle of the day, Let me hear you say everything's okay, Come on out beneath the shining sun"
Day 2 night
Meet me in the middle of the night, Let me hear you say everything's alright, Sneak on out beneath the stars and run"
Day 3 morning
"Meet me in the middle of the day, Let me hear you say everything's okay, let me see you smiling back at me"
Then I would see how she reacts.
Would this have a positive effect on a woman?
Ok, so I'm not that original. These are lyrics from "Romeo's Tune", by Steve Forbert 1979, but I guess it's the thought that counts.
"I just won the lottery baby. Do you like the color of my new Lambo?" Heart melting now.
Now I understand why she loves me so much ...
My wife finds that me cleaning the house is attractive. weird but it gets the place clean and I get brownie points.
Just flash your money and wallet, that's what a woman likes
Thanks
Im a nervous guy usually. There's a lady Im trying to court at the moment and it appears to be going well other than a slip up for a week or so where real life was kicking my butt and I was leaning on her too much as a distraction. Managed to pick myself up on it and steer things back on course.
My nerves have made it difficult to meet people, and my current group of friends are mostly people I've known for 20+ years.
Decided to buy her some roses recently both because she's always doing things for people and deserves someone to buy her flowers sometimes, and as a subtle way of showing my interest.
Seemed to go over well.
During our subsequent conversation the topic of friends came up as did why Im a bit nervous about letting new people in my life (flowed organically in that direction, I didn't just blurt it).
It was at this point my confidence in myself following the well received flowers grew enough to tell her I'm glad I met her and she's the 1st new person I've wanted in my life for a long time (she's my neighbor and we'd met by her knocking on my door at 1 a.m. one morning 'cos she'd locked herself out of her house, and then asking if I wanted some drinks (and yes, I do suspect Im an idiot for not realizing that was probably something other than what was stated)).
Is the "you're the 1st new person I've met in a long time that I want in my life" comment a good, bad, or other idea?
Im pretty sure it was welcomed, but she's also polite and quick witted.
It was completely honest on my part, and also an attempt to let her know I was at least internally receptive to a bunch of what I suspect were signals over the few months prior.
Pretty sure she got it. Things appear to be going extra well since that day; she's been more touchy/hands on since,.... stroking of my arm, hands touching when passing items, even got a big, close hug that she started, I returned tentatively at 1st (my nerves) then leaned into harder so as to not make her think I was disinterested, and then her leaning into harder again.
I like to have hope she may be interested, but Im a little clueless and always 2nd guess what I see as potential signals/signs/cues.
My favorite tip is that of complimenting her values
Good job 👏 I like that remember something about her , love you work . Thank you 🙏
Did all this , she still went back her ex husband 🤣🤣
Thanks for the help. Im new to this dating scene and its one hella ride! One question:- Do you tell a woman how you feel about her on dating apps or on the phonecall?
After time, then I would suggest to do it on the phone or face to face.
@@ApolloniaPonti thanks :) fingers crossed!
Can't thank you enough for your advices ... you're amazing
Im going to try to use her advice
I enjoyed listening to this, and felt comforted to hear these things and know that they are all things that I already do and say to and for a very special God loving woman that is in my life, she LOVES flowers, and I show up with flowers when she least expects it. Surpriseing her every time. I love holding her hand and i make my hand available anywhere we go. Weather its a long drive, or a walk around the lake, or standing and sitting next to each other at church or at a movie, I am mindful of everything she likes and doesn't like, through tons and tons of communication, I took me a few months to say I Love you to her, but when I did say it, i could see in her eyes that it ment alot to her, she says i treat her like a queen,
I leave her hand written notes every time I go, ive put them on the counter by her morning coffee cup, ive put a simple and sweet, Good morning Darling, thinkin about you, have a wonderful day xoxoxo with heart around, it on a post it note and placed on her laptop screen,, to put an extra smile on her face at work.
I wrote I LOVE YOU using "x's" & "O's" on a post it and placed it eye level in her bathroom mirror so she can see it while she's getting ready each morning... i did that weeks ago and its still there, she has saved every hand written note I've given her, We went to the Arberadum last month to look at all the CHRISTmas lights and roast marshmallows by an open fire i help her make her smore while my marshmallow had ignited completely and made a bright flame, we both laughed about it while i ate my charcoaled marshmallow. Then we walked up on this overlook that hadn't been shoveled yet, but the was a speaker playing some beautiful music... gave her a soft kiss on the cheek and asked her if she'd like to dance she smiled big and nodded, so we danced and danced and smiled and laughed and danced some more,,, then these ladies walked near us and told us we looked like a couple right out of a Hallmark movie, we both smiled and then danced some more, it has been over six months that we've been seeing each other and three weeks ago while standing outside my car in a target parking lot she gave me a hug like we always do, but she gently squeezed me extra tight and put her hands softly behind my neck, as she looked me straight in the eyes and said "Jeffrey Michael I LOVE YOU, VERY MUCH"
My heart melted and felt light as a feather when i heard her say those words to me,
She is truely a blessing, and I thank God everyday that her and I met, I am so grateful!!!!
That is a good point
If a woman offers me M & M's - any kind of M & M's...we're getting married.
I really like your channel. Great contents.
Hi Apollonia. Thank you sooooo much for all your videos. It really helps me. Here's one of my tips.
When I wrote a texto to my girlfriend or my "almost" girlfriend, I often started by saying something like: "Hello my beautiful angel", "Good afternoon my sunshine", "Hi my beautiful rose", "Good night my full shining moon", etc. And if the girl had Moroccan origins, for instance, I would say something like: "Bon matin my beautiful moroccan sun". So I tried to vary the way to call her, rather than all the time using: "Hello my love" or "Allô mon amour", for instance.
Im definitely do those tips
Great advice...just tried it...worked like a charm...thank you
I will my friend
Great ideas. Thank you. I love the M&M thing.
Thanks so much!
Growing up with a mother who suffered with Bi-polar disorder all of her life, I became very sensitive towards her needs and vulnerabilities. To this day, I am very protective of the few women that I hold dearly in my life.
The emotional connection is essential. I've subscribed.
Thanks, George!
Fact
Tell her shes beutiful. Then shes gonna think your needy
Agreed.
Here's a tip, after setting up a second date via text (yes, we call more than we text). my closing remark was "anticipating your kiss" and I left it at that. She responded with a giant kissing emoji. Can you imagine what's going to happen when I pick her up for our next date.
Some of your observations are contradictory I hate to say.
"I got your back" - Works every time
Thanks apollonia. You are very kind and a master of your Work. Well I think the best skill is to give compliments of her personal values. I live in austria, the country near germany. So my mother language is german. What a pity that you are so far away, so I cannot talk to you personally. God bless you. Juergen
I reassure her when she needs advice, feels down or uncertain.
Your advice is awesome! Thank you for your sage advice 👏💐
Thank you!
You are welcome! Appollonia, you are like the beacon of truth🙏👍
Same her
That's a lot of work for a maybe I'll stick around
You look soooooo beautiful'
You look beautiful
Remember important events and ask her about them.
Dear, Appolonia, I like all Ur videos. How did I even get to Ur channel?
I'm a 41yr old married man but, I am just knowing women.
I am an introvert, hardly into ladies, shy too.
But, from Ur videos, I have come to really understand how to go about the ladies.
Thank U.
U are beautiful all round.
these are lowsy tips. don't ask her if you can call her just do it. telling her she is beautiful is a mistake she already knows that. her values are important only if she actually acts like a woman and appreciate your values as a man. just be a man and treat her like a lady only if she is a lady.
How about compliment her by my action not words
You are lovely...
I like to say:"You look perfect today!" She says:"Thank you!" But I add :"NO,no,no I thank YOU!" She does that "AAwww".....I love to say that to a woman I like...and interested in...
Thanks bro!! I take notes.
#1 she hated it
#2 remembered everything including what her kid liked.. didn't matter
#3 she hates talking on the phone even if I asked.
#4 ok, this one she was happy with.. kinda..
My girlfriend works as a dispatcher. There is one radio that whenever she is on it they always call her. I told her that the reason why they do it is because she sounds so good on the radio. She sent me a lot of ♥️. 😊😊
I met my lady friend and her mom at church and we all sat together we exchanged phone numbers and let each other know when our birthdays are I asked her what time I can call her tomorrow which is Monday she said she calls her cousin at 7pm so I asked her if i can call her at 5pm and she said yes I am going to tell her how beautiful she looked at church we are going to get together this week or next for 2-3 hours so we can get to know each other better and i am going to introduce her to my mom.She is a cancer survivor and is going thru chemo so I sat with her mom today so if she had to go to the restroom because she was coughing from her chemo treatment she could get out to go to the restroom easier she said I could sit with her when she got over the coughing from chemo treatment which will be very soon she was very considerate and is a very devout christian as is her mom and myself
When she recovers 100% she will dump you like used toy, believe me...
Wait...where can I get peanut butter MMs ? Just kidding..thank you ma’am for another great advice
You're heaven sent.. I appreciate all your insight!
Thays good advice however, compliments are notorious ly counter productive there is much conflicting info regarding compliments
Hey, YOU are beautiful !
Good advice..but sadly it will only get you in the friend zone..
Thanks I was not aware that these were so powerful. I typically do 3 of the 4...
POV: Your 12-14 years old
Yes, i got her 😏
Well, I've done all that (except the call thing), but I wasn't aware of the prerequisite of her liking me. So, everything went to waste, I guess.
Oh my Gosh !!! This brings up a couple things that I am dealing with !!! Number #1 !!! We have each other's phone numbers !!! And did texting chatting on a regular sharing deep subjects and after a little while I asked her permission to call her and she said that she prefers mostly or more texting than phone calls!!! So she even prefers that over person to person or dating !!! We first met by coincidence in a restaurant sitting and eating next to each other and towards and at the end of the meal having a great time we did exchange phone numbers!!! And 3 weeks chatting without seeing each other again !!!
I think you are a very attractive woman and the way you clearly want to help people in their relationships is very appealling to me, I would like to help you in some small way if I possibly could, maybe you could give me your number because I'd like call you so I could look into your beautiful eyes and talk about these issues that are important to both of us....btw, do you like family gatherings and home cooking?
Compliment her beauty, is too obvious and is something every single guy will do?
It’s better to playfully tease her, for example she says she hates her hair, you say yeah it’s petty bad... but then without hesitation smile tell her you’re just messing with her and then look in her eyes tell her she is beautiful and has beautiful hair! Obviously, only say it if you mean it or it will come off fake as hell and she will pick up on your insincerity.
Your choice, be like every other guy that wants to get in her pants, or be playful and stand out.
All these tips are gold!
Thank you!
how do you know girl loves you yet she forgets what you told her earlier
A. J. Ur a sweet woman thanks u 4 excellent comment !! We love u 2.
She is encouraging men to display weak behavior and that is guaranteed to get them FriendZone
lmao true
Women are way too difficult. They're so confusing. They want you to just know what to do with them. They don't care.
If you don't act the way they want, you get rejected.
Even when they talk to you, you still gotta play stupid games. You can never be real with them and go straight to the point.
I think something that might be important is understanding Myers Briggs differences in types. Even calling a woman beautiful can come across as a throw away line to someone that is focused on competence. One girl needs to be chatted up with small talk while another wants to talk about something deep and meaningful. While its high risk to guess wrong, when you guess right on what approach unlocks their passion, that seems to be what women take as chemistry.
Hey Apoloonia i was wondering if I can call you?
Everything is a man doing things for her.. How about what women can do to keep a man happy and what can she do for hum...You should do a video for both sex
Hi help me out I'm interested in this girl who lives in NM. I live In AZ. She is interested as well give me advice how we can work our relationship. I told her I'm willing to travel. As well. Just to see her thank you :)
Tell her she's beautiful, fuck the originality is overwhelming, tip 2 only tell her she is beautiful if you think she is beautiful
That's right doc.. But Girls loves Bad boys 😂!
"Reeses pieces,really,i said m&m's,why dont u ever listen"....
I always make a point of telling my partner that she looks lovely. ..but she always replies with "well I don't feel it'
My reply to that is.".in my eyes you always look lovely to me'.
Hi Steve,
Thanks for sharing and she will remember these words. :)
Best,
Apollonia
hmm... male dating coaches seem to be giving the exact opposite of this advice. These tips need more contextualisation otherwise they could come across as approval seeking.
can u help me Apolonia.i love one girl,she s name is Deborah de luca and she is from Italy.i like to meet her and tell how much i love her.i watch you every day and listen your advices,you are great person,you are so blessed.