The Rebuilding Process after a Breakup! | Stephanie Lyn Coaching
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Great video. I went through a divorce a few years ago and it was the most painful thing that’s ever happened to me. I honestly didn’t think I was going to survive it but it does get easier. If you’re reading this don’t give up.
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I went through a lot of financial crisis after my divorce, I had to raise my two kids alone, Currently I'm living smart and frugal with my money. Bought my second house already. Saving and investing lifestyle made it possible for me; even till now I earn monthly through passive income. I'm planning on retiring when my kids finish college,just hope it encourages someone that it doesn’t matter if you don’t have any of them right now, you can start TODAY regardless your age INVEST and change your future! Investing is a grand choice I made. Great video!
Nice one,any investment tip? I would love to know how you made it this far
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I hope everyone reading this is having a blessed and productive day! 🙏
Thanks, you have a good day too.
You are revealing too much.on this video.
@@anneroarty6473 don't be a hater Stephanie is dressed very nice.
You as well!
I'm praying everyone to heal positively ❤️🙏
My abusive husband left about a week ago and I was walking through a store at the mall looking for Christmas gifts for my daughter and trying not to have a full breakdown right in the middle of the store when a notification popped up on my phone for this new video you shared. Talk about timing. I listed to it on the way home and it really helped me refocus my mind in the right direction. Thank you so so much for your time and energy you put into your work! ❤
God Bless You 🙏 Stay Strong Girl ❤️❤️ This too shall pass......
God bless you in Jesus' name!
❤ been were you are now, take Care of you. Youre worth so much more
Not divorced but hoping to learn how to have abundance. Bless all those going through divorce, breakup, or etc.
I cant imagine a guy that wouldnt bust his butt to stay with you. You come off as being the most whole and wholesome woman. But ya... people grow apart I guess.
Or they cheat lol
Thank you, I need to hear this more often. As a full custody dad of 2 it gets tough but your vids help me a lot!!!
You got this Michael! Sending you all the love ❤️
Ana Cristina Morales thank you for your kind words. Gosh if my story made it on here people would think I made it up. I never stop getting back up for myself and the kids. 👊🏽
Again thanks 😊
You can do it!!
You sound like an awesome dad! So happy my videos help!!
@@mikehinson5935 I know, is hard to find
I really needed to listen to this,I just got left 3 days ago. 12 year marriage. The rug definitely got pulled. I'm trying to have a positive mindset yet I'm hurting big time
Hugs. Ended after 12 years too. Now two years free in so much peace 🕊️🕊️. Hugs darling you'll hack this ❤❤
@@merxg.creative thanks so much! I'm gaining strength, I just want HIS divorce DONE with
@@ladyvirgo9514 you will, my dear. You will. Hang in, hold your head high. It's gonna pass too.
You not alone
After being cheated on.. leaving and him flipping into a whole new life like our marriage was nothing... was beyond soul crushing. We have a 2 yo together and I never thought it would be this way. I appreciate your words. The hard days I guess realizing to be patient with yourself is what I need to remember. I guess having the hope that you'll see better one day is what I have to also remember.
I feel really guilty after my breakup , my ex was a really good person, and for two years I pushed him away with my neediness and codependency that stemmed from my abandonment wound, it’s hard to work on myself after having this realisation, I know what I need to do but I feel so much guilt and regret every day with this new self awareness
Hun.... why are you putting all the blame on yourself? It takes two people to tango. Yes you might have wounds, but you need a partner who wants to work with you & wants to build with you. Sweetie, by the sounds of it he just wasn’t being what you needed/want. Someone could be a great person, but a bad partner.
Definitely take accountability for your mistakes but don’t only blame yourself.
You shouldn’t have to hide anything about you, you should be able to be completely transparent with a partner about your needs, wants, and feelings - if that pushes them away, it’s probably a karmic relationship for you... Learn your lesson babe! Codependency is really rewarding to work through, be excited!!! You finally get the chance to FULLY heal in depth. Stay positive! Don’t focus on what he thinks of you, focus on how you feel about yourself!
@@gracebrayne5728this comment helped me more than the video. thank you🥺
How are you now ?
I definitely needed this. Just a week later from being divorced and it wasnt what I wanted but needed to do to be safe. Now its time to rebuild and I am mentally reminding myself that this is like a roller coaster: scary but exciting at the same time.
"Every though you have is either gonna help you or hurt you. You get to choose". Yasss! Love this!
This video was so on time and full of jewels! Thank you for sharing yoir gift of knowledge and experience with us.
Thank you... Good things are gonna come... I definitely deserved someone better than my emotionally abusive ex... May God give everyone the strength to just keep on moving... One step at a time...
So true! I started my channel to talk more about this important topics, sharing experiences is the best way to grow 💞
Love this talk on developing a healthy mindset, choosing wisely how you want to see your life situation and best of all, living with hope. Thanks Stephanie for all the hard work you put into producing these videos for us. They keep me motivated🙏Happy Holidays! 🎄
This was definitely an eye opener for me and giving me hope. Thank you 😊
I love that you are really practical and you actually went through it and felt all those things so it makes it "doable" for me too.
I believe the best is yet to come!!! Thank you Stephanie❤
Your ability to find gratitude even in tough times is inspiring!
Great job, Stephany. Thanks for being so vulnerable and honest. Who would have thought such pain that you had to endure would have led to you impacting lives all over the world. Keep up the good work. I'm very proud of you.
So true! I started my channel to talk more about this important topics, sharing experiences is the best way to grow 💞
Thank you I needed to hear this today. Been 6 months and it's gotten betger but it does still hurt. Patience,self love/parenting, setting new goals,exercise and a close knit circle to help lift you up when you need. My recipe for healing:)
rebuilding in the lockdown is leveling up
It isn't easy, but it is so worth it!
@@StephanieLynCoaching not easy at all, if you need to rebuild while in lockdown... the lack of socialization is heavy to tackle with, but still it helps to re-find oneself after a breakup. Thank you for your words. They helped me not to feel alone. Being able to share is a great thing.
I literally watched this at 10:00 on a Tuesday, lol. You have been such a blessing to me during this time of reimagining my life.
It's like I hit a low and youtube puts the perfect video suggestion up. Thank you
your story is inspiring. you’ve helped me through the end of a relationship i never should have tolerated. i’m finally getting excited about future plans and never accepting abuse again. thank you 🙏
Great video Stephanie, thank you for sharing. Currently going through something similar, it has been painful, but I know God has a plan, and I’m excited to see it unfold! 💕
I had a Narcissist father and recently a couple Narcissist bosses. You = 🎯! I’ve experienced a lot re this … your info is EXTREMELY well done. While I have succeeded significantly in healing, I realize now I have further to go. I see the right time to heal is when I am ready to to truly listen to understand this info and accept these facts, be honest with myself, and commit to do the difficult work and go through the healing process. I’m going to take your online course as my next step. Thanks!
Great content. Just lost my partner with a lot of complicated grief, Stephanie's approach is compassionate yet focused on moving forward. Thank you
seriously your advice is completely on point, I have had two abusive relationships in 4 years. I am now building myself and saving money and about to go to university. Your right we really have to build a real sense of self before we can attract a wonderful person. Your channel has helped me through more than you could ever know.
What a great video Stephanie, thank you so so so much for having shared that!! Your video are so precious, bless you
Your videos are absolutely the best. I am going through a divorce from a narcissist now and it’s been very difficult. Your coaching is absolutely a lifesaver right now. Thank you!
You are helping me a lot. The rug was pulled underneath my feet and even after 8 months the betrayal trauma really hasn’t subsided… I’m brought down to my knees and I want to become strong again
Again, thanks a lot for sharing. I'm very inspired and felt motivated. And I'm very proud of you that you became an amazing person from that experience. Totally wonderful.🥂
Thank you Stephanie! Your videos are so helpful and they are helping me and this season in my life after a breakup three days before Thanksgiving, I found a purpose for my life now and working on it has helped me tremendously. Thank you God! Anyone going through a breakup or divorce
🙏 keep praying for God's guidance he will see you through.
Thank you for a video. We are one week after break up marriage. I dont feel nothing. Excited for the future. Will watch all ur videos.
I am going through a divorce now and it really sucks but your words and replies are really encouraging. Thank you so much
Stephanie, thank you for presenting your story, and how you dealt with divorce and your life being turned upside down. You hit on some key points, and i believe being patient with yourself, believing in yourself and your goals, being able to parent yourself through the low times,the hurt and all the challenges you will face are so important. Be well, and i look forward to your next video.
I love all of your posts and you have helped me so much getting through the bad marriage that
Is ending
I needed this so badly. Thank you so much.
Thank you for this Stephanie. This is the first holiday season after going no contact. Even before watching this, I had consciously resolved to embrace the emotions that I will feel - whether happy/sad. This is part of the process.
Love the perspective that I now have a clean slate.
May God bless your work - you are impacting lives positively.
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Very helpful ! Your amazing and love watching your videos❤️
Good video. Needed to hear this today. Thank you!
Good video. Mindset is key. And yeah we definitely have to learn to roll with the punches in a positive way and patient way.
An invaluable resource, always, just brilliant
Wow, this video did not help, it SAVED me!!! My gf broke up with me over a month ago, and just the thought of the holidays made my anxiety worse… However, your advice, especially about it being a clean slate, had gotten to me! My perspective has now changed for the better! Thank you Stephanie! You truly are an angel in disguise!!!
Thank you, for your sharing and motivation, thats realistic and helpfull
Wow this video is so good. Thank you.
This really helped me get through my day today.
Thanks Stephanie I'm just starting to listen to the videos and they are great
Trying rebuild myself though I have not left, still in my situation as we have two sons 13 and seventeen. I am 51 and lost my dad who was never sick a day in his life over a week ago, to a short illness and then he got COVID during his stay and he is gone. He was my main support as being the husband in this situation I don’t have a lot of friends anymore and she turned most her family against me including my adult step kids. But losing him has made me realize I don’t want to continue in this situation . Love my boys but that is all I have.
Chris, when I turned 50 last year I finally decided I was worth it and left a 30+ year relationship. Sorry to hear about your dad. I'm in healthcare and I know the devastation first hand. Reach out if you need support. I live my life in 4 hour increments of the days I feel a lot of anxiety or have a lot of thoughts/feelings that always kept me stuck in the past. You are worth it!
I am so sorry for your lost Chris 🙏 I lost my mom March 2020 she was my life. P.s. You are amazing!
I’m learning so much from you Stephanie you couldn’t have come at a better time my life is going to change and I need to be strong and possibly have to take care of myself all on my own and I don’t know how I’m going to do it I’m just hoping for the best these are really crazy times and you have to be able to hold your own and man up we’ll see I’ll keep you posted
I hope you know how helpful your videos are. Thank you so much 🥰
Great video! I needed this 🙌
Looking at this at 6am and I that’s exactly how I felt. I filed for divorce, but I felt it was the right thing cause the relationship was so, bad there was no other way. Two months later she’s in a relationship already. So, it makes me wonder..... maybe that’s why. But your vid hit main key points. Massive Thanks!
Thank you very much for the encouragement 😀
All I have to say is thank you. Thank you so much!!!!
Thanks for the insight Stephanie, have a great day, looking forward to seeing more of your videos.
I find value in your videos and am growing from them...so thank you!
I wish you included men more. Thanks four your work.
You are a very beautiful woman, inside and out, thank you for all the great advice.....
You're make up looks great girl!
I'm really glad i watched this
I’m so Happy for you! I hope one day I’m in your place. I’m in the middle of a divorce and it’s a lonely place to be. Good vibes to everyone in a shitty situation. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🤞. Pray
Great Job Stephanie
Thank you so much for everything. I started your videos 2 years ago when I realized I married a narcissist, he cheated and the relationship came to a point it got physical one day but the next day I failed for divorce and a restraining order with my 3 month old twins. I was scared to death of the unknown; but your videos have saved me and kept me grounded as much as possible. I was still scared of everything with custody and child support and the backlash of the narcissist; but your videos helped me stay strong and focused and helped me heal within and they still do. THANK YOU for everything I'm much happier now I love myself more then ever I look back now and I'm so glad I took that leap. Of course I'm still adjusting with sharing my kids with my ex husband but I'm learning to accept this new way of life for now and I'm working on myself.
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Fantastic advice! Your smart & beautiful
Thank you Stephanie 🙌🏻❤️
Thanks for this. I broke it off with her and learned I’m codependent. I was miserable and trying to do everything for her just for acceptance etc. absolute distaster
Also was thinking with the wrong head. Sex was used after arguments etc. my own fault.
I attract emotionally unavailable women. They say sick attract sick. I get it now.
I’ve got some work to do. I really don’t need to be in a relationship right now. Need to progress with my career and life at 26.
I will miss the memories and moments. But I walked away and thanked my ex. I just wasn’t happy. I wasn’t in love. I had burnt all my energy.
Loneliness hits sometimes but it passes. I’m really motivated to work on myself and TAKE CARE OF MYSELF.
Thanks for the videos. You are an amazing person
You are so lucky! I am at your atage at 44 with gray hair balding and a criminal record, but at least I am also working positively towards myself.
Thanks a lot again for your inspiring video, Stephanie! I wish you really pleasant and relaxed holiday season!
Hello, do you need help
I can recommend you to someone who can help you
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Great info here! I trying to rebuild into the best dad I can be for my 3 kiddos..some days are easier than others. Thanks and God bless ✌🏿😎
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Love you Stephanie, thank you🌹
Thank you,I am single but your advice help me a lot
Wioletta Filipowicz,you deserve a better man!🙏🙏🙏
Thanks for sharing
Thank you so much!!!❤
Bless you, Coach!! 🙏 ... a True voice of Experience!
(Would you mind if I ask whether counsellors also get help from other counsellors?)
My ex was in a relationship 2.5 weeks after the bu and they're still together. I was completely blindsided and 6 months later I'm still struggling. I am still so devastated. I am still so completely in love. I think the hardest part to get over is that if think (no proof) He may have left me for the other woman and it kills me that I gave him all of him and loved him with every shred of my being and I wasn't enough and evidently couldn't make him happy 😔💔
Im using this in my grief process of the death of my son. Its helped me to remember to keep moving.
🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
Im so sorry
You cover some fabulous topics...Really good advice here lovely... thank you for sharing ✨💎
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Sooooooooooo helpful thank you ❤❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for this. I really needed to hear this. I am going through my 10 year break up and having no support is hard.
Hello, do you need help?
I can recommend you to someone who can help you
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@@celiawood6220 no I'm good. I have a counselor.
I think(possible not ) is my biggest challenge of my life
Thank you! So encouraging!!
DeeAnna Root,your lovely smile can make the news!
@@lioydwilliams1850 thank you!🌺
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Yes we have to stay positive
Do not keep contact after break up. I tried it and I am going through a second breakup now that I found out she started dating 5 months after dumping me all the while she kept contact with me for a year.
I think I know how I want to rebuild my life. 😍!!!!
PS I would like to book for 25 hrs a day 😁
Yes I’m angry. But as you say better to chose not to be. And knowing that the universe has your back.
Thanks!
Exactly where I'm at.
ALOHA STEPHANIE
Thank you
I never thought I’d be in this place. After 20 years I’m left feeling so empty inside. I can’t even seem to know what my life’s purpose is. We always hear that we gotta have a reason to motivate to accomplish our goals and I just can’t find mine. I relied on him to much and even when he didn’t care to hear me I did vent to him as he was my best friend and now he’s gone.
I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm in alot of pain and I wasn't married as long as you but it hurts so badly.
@@elenamaldonado7304 I’m sorry it’s such an awful feeling. I wish I had something helpful to say but probably the best thing I can say is try not to isolate yourself that’s been my downfall. Hang in there we gotta remind ourselves how strong and beautiful person we are even though at this moment of our life something may have knocked us down we’re much greater than it.
Thank you Stephanie... again...
Hello do you need help why don’t you try do oba he was the one that help me get my ex back
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"Wow! I shouldn`t have watched"!!!
Thank you.
She decided to end our 14 years of our relationship because of no communication but after someyears she close all type of conversation we had. I have 2 kids and the youngest is taking most of our energy and before the start of covid we got someone stealing inside the house, then the covid and both parents we continue working and i had to deal with my midnight shift and 2 kids at home doing school during the day. When she told me the news, she didn't even spoke to me she decided by her own. Alone then she complain to me about communication. I saw your video about controlling person and at the start of your explanation you describe her perfeclty right on the spot. I try to tell her, i spoke to her that there are no communication between us because we have no more subject to talk since almost all subject you are not interested but to add to this, i think i did this with really thinking about it but i couldn't speak with her because the conversation was one way, her way, she was always judging my opinion and if it was not on her level she would bash my opinion and me.
So just to say that your video are a great help. thank you.
I just found your channel. I am in this season of my life. Would you advise me to move out from our old home to make it easier emotionally? The one thing that holds me back from moving out is the proximity of my children's school to our old home.
She’s perfect
Great!
Do you think its possible to pick up narcissistic traits from the abuser? If yes, can you change it?
Im so scared to leave because i have nothing and gave him everything but being with him gives me anxiety and panic
I’m sending link to my friend
So good would love to podcast w u. I Published a book on finding true WHOLENESS after divorce for women called “THE SUN ALWAYS PIERCES THROUGH”