Bonidee Lee it’s really sad that you’re right to an extent. There are so many people who claim their trans or even claim that they’re some random gender or change genders every month or so and that’s messed up because it’s those types of “trans” people who influence cisgendered peoples decisions on the trans community. All those people do is discredit people who are actually transgender, people who legitimately have gender dysphoria. People who legitimately lock themselves in their bathrooms and stare at their body that doesn’t match who they are and genuinely try killing themselves multiple times because of it. Especially people like Yin, he said he knew he needed male genitals since he was 5. He knew something was wrong. He’s 21 years old now and still feels this way. It’s not something that goes away. And you saying that it’s a mental illness that society should ignore is ignorant on your part. Should society ignore depression and just let everyone kill themselves? No. We get professional help for those people just like we give profession help to transgendered people. You will never understand what gender dysphoria feels like but just imagine you looking at yourself in the mirror and seeing a vagina and big tits and everyone in your life is just telling you to get over it and to ignore it. How would that make you feel? Probably not good. So just think about people who genuinely face this issue before you talk about something that you have no personally experience on and therefore have no right to explain anything about being transgender.
Bonidee Lee people think that fully transitioning is a “cure” will be sadly mistaken and very disappointed. The point of transitioning isn’t to cure dysphoria but the just help make you more comfortable
Bonidee Lee I don’t think trans youth should go on hormones. I think it can be detrimental and sometimes kids do change their mind. Yes sometimes a gay girl might struggle with her gender identity and might think she’s a trans male. That can happen you’re allowed to think about stuff like that. But that’s not to say that everyone who is trans is illegitimate and not actually trans. I don’t know why you’re having such a hard time separating gender identity and sexual identity because they’re not the same at all and can’t even be related
akmal zuraimi you don’t become trans, who the fuck would want the burden of being trans? people are trans, it’s not something you choose. fix your backwards country instead of booting people that only want to live their lives while not fearing for their lives.
a_larkin_ waz_here it’s just supposed to be a title that grabs someone’s attention because of how it’s written with opposing ideas. I agree it’s a bit foot in mouth but I doubt it’s intentionally meant to be offensive
Gosh I'm from the same town. I completely empathise with your situation. I understand how its like over here, having being brought up here and continuously faced discrimination since I was young. The world is really wide. Get out, see the world, and find yourself. Gods blessings for you.
if you're not in a safe place to come out, don't. your safety comes first. do anything and everything you can to get to a place where you can be who you are.
His stuff with feeling like he'd just "grow into a boy" is relatable. I remember thinking that I would have a flat chest forever and that I'd get a deeper voice and I was so excited to have a prominent Adams apple and then I went through female puberty and that really screwed me up
Ah Yin’s identity is valid. I can relate to him as I am non-binary & use they/them pronouns. Biologically female but I don’t identify with male or female. Misgendering can make you feel invisible. People asked me to just say I am a tomboy (which I am not, but it’s more socially acceptable). I am also persuaded to pick between both genders (Either revert to female or start transitioning to male, neither make sense to me). So now I identify as TIRED. Anyway, thanks R.AGE for this video. Malaysia needs to be aware and more accepting of LGBT not as a lifestyle, but as a respect of the existence of this community! ❤️
No offence but I notice chinese people in Malaysia ( and some in Singapore) very easy to adapt western ideology . This non-binary gender thing is ridiculous , how can you claim that 'I am neither male or female' where your DNA , chromosomes , gene , body parts all indicate that you are belong to that ( male or female ) gender ... Like in your case , even from that small photo of your already indicate that you are a girl ... Similar to race , everyone born into specific race , can you claim that you are binary in that matter too ( " I m not chinese " eventhough you DNA proofs that you are ) .... Stop buying all those absurd things from the west , life is already very simple ( one male and one female ) why you want to make it complicated ...You are such a nice looking chinese female just embrace that ... Dont embrace your delusion , but embrace the fact only then you can live in peace , living in delusion only make you feel happy for certain period of time but at one point , the reality will get back to you . I have a relative who is a transvestite ( already passed away 4 yrs ago) , he took lots of female hormones and yes he manage to look acceptable as woman and even had surgery to change his penis to fake vagina , but you know what ?? Man-made will never compare o god'd creation and at one point of his life , he no longer able to sustain his delusional lifestyle ( a man to pretend/ want to lead woman's life , what do u expect) ... General hospital wont accept him in female ward , he was put in male ward and ridiculed by other mates and visitors ... he died in the most tragic way... You are still very young and dont wait until the end to save urself from delusional and abnormal lifestyle ..
@@MoonlightNikita non-binary and third gender arent actually western concepts you brazen fool. The idea of a third gender or a gender between male and female has been dated back hundreds and thousands of years in Native American cultures, Maori cultures, and many east-Asian cultures as well.
Ubat utk pulihkan Pondan= kopi tongkat ali Tomboy= kopi kacip fatimah Cuba minum utk seminggu Dijamin berkesan Insya Allah Sila forwardkn mesej ini kpd anak/abg/adik/rakan yg ada masalah transgender. Moga2 mereka pulih setelah minum ubat ini. TQ
I pray you guys for the best I'm a asexual muslim cis man, i know it's hard but things will get better n you should do you n don't let people judge you cuz that's Allah work ain't them if people talk shit just dap on the bitches n live like a boss
Thank you, R.AGE. I’m a transgender girl myself, and I act real boyish and get made fun for that. I saw this video and tapped on it and finally understand that being transgender is ok.
A transgender girl is a woman who was assigned male at birth. Are you a trans girl or a trans guy like Ah Yin and me? The sentence didn't really add up.
Ubat utk pulihkan Pondan= kopi tongkat ali Tomboy= kopi kacip fatimah Cuba minum utk seminggu Dijamin berkesan Insya Allah Sila forwardkn mesej ini kpd anak/abg/adik/rakan yg ada masalah transgender. Moga2 mereka pulih setelah minum ubat ini. TQ
im malaysian.I feel this..im in the same situation..growing up not knowing that im a girl..from small I really thought im a boy..now im trangender man..
Ubat utk pulihkan Tomboy= kopi kacip fatimah Cuba minum utk seminggu Dijamin berkesan Insya Allah Sila forwardkn mesej ini kpd anak/abg/adik/rakan yg ada masalah transgender. Moga2 mereka pulih setelah minum ubat ini. TQ
Ubat utk pulihkan Tomboy= kopi kacip fatimah Cuba minum utk seminggu Dijamin berkesan Insya Allah Sila forwardkn mesej ini kpd anak/abg/adik/rakan yg ada masalah transgender. Moga2 mereka pulih setelah minum ubat ini. TQ
No offense. But their English is really good. They don't even have the Malaysian accent. How I wish I could speak such a fluet English. You only had one life, live to the fullest!
Beautifully done! I hope this becomes viral as well. Malaysia still has a long way to go in accommodating and accepting the LGBTQ+ community in terms of the law and how the society views and treats them. They are humans as well. Something many people fail to grasp.
Yes you are right that we need to accepting the LGBTQ, even if they are minority. But in Malaysia, the religion and unspoken rules of society come up at top above everything else. And it not gonna change in 50 years in the future. Religion especially Islam are not tolerated LGBTQ and they think them as abomination as well as an insult to their "pathetic fictional omnipotent creator of their own universe"
@@Greychumon cause it is...i don't want bad things to happens here where i live..LGBTQ will stay be banned and that's final.. there's nothing to fight about..u can migration to other countries that allow LGBTQ.
@@yummymellon4058 What would happen to your country if you validate the LGBTQ friend huh? Earthquake? Please lah. You sure remember Ring of fire in middle school right?
The way the video is shot and edited is really esthetic! Also the music underlines the mood perfectly, the atmosphere is breath taking, really beautiful!
I have never been a girly "girl" Let me rephrase that I've never been a girl I was just a boy trapped in a girls body 5 years old: I was forced to wear dresses and I was in beauty pageants 6: wondered why I had to be a girl 7: was told by my grandma all Gays belong in hell 8: started dressing like a boy and wanted to be a brother instead of sister 10: learned there was a word for how I was feeling that word is transgender 11: realized I was pansexual but still didn't know what my gender was | my depression took controll and I cut 12(now): I am out to my parents as trans and pan | my depression still controls my life and I still cut
I know things are tough and it really doesn't get much better (great prep talk, huh) BUT the people you surround yourself with can make everything easier to deal with. I don't know if any of your friends are supportive but you will meet people who love you for the guy you are. Stay strong, buddy
Hey. I can't stop you from cutting, or just make you feel better magically, but I really hope you things get better for you. It can get better, you just have to surround yourself with the right people. Good luck with your transition and everything else ❤
I’m so sorry that this stuff affected you at such a young age. I hope when you grow older you will have overcome your depression and self harm and live happily as your true gender and with a partner you love.
I always thought that one day I could take T and cut off my boobs and be a transgender but I know, my family and society won’t ever accept it. Never will. And now, I’m still living like a tomboy. That’s the only way that I could make myself happy a lil. When I was 7, I’d always wish I was a boy, I wished this is was a dream and hoping tomorrow I’m gonna wake up as a boy. I don’t know if I should laugh or being sad about it :’)) I really wish I wasa boy
I'm a gender fluid male, FTM. My mom, was very reluctant to accept me. Ive been depressed and suicidle for 6 years. I finally came in terms with my gender identity when I was 14 I'm 15 now. I finally told my parents only last year. And they still don't understand. My friends, my sister's they accept me. They don't understand but they accept me. My parents say they accept me but I know it's really hard for them. I told them, when I see myself in the future I see myself as a male. And they were definitely not okay with that. They told me that it was a faze but I know it's not.
@Animal Liberation I'm physically a girl but I am mentally both girl and boy like I switch from being either gender but I'm more male so I want to get the surgeries
@@bbsushiboy if you WANT to be the opposite gender, you're not transgender. Gender fluidity isn't real. You can change whether you express as feminine or masculine, but not whether you're male or female. People like you are the reason that so many people think that transgender people are jokes.
Thank you for blurring the video and keeping their identity secret May god bless you guys with lots of love and happiness Be safe my friend Yes I will be yr friend through ups and downs You know Malaysia is not the best country Be safe and take care ❤
Malaysia is 50/50 on this. Its an Islamic country but you can just say if you're not Muslim, you're allowed to be transgender. But still its a confusing decision to make.
Calm down. . Actually Islam never looked down upon those who were born transgender. The wrong one are those who mimicking opposite gender just to run away from bad memories etc . Like Ah Yin, he already born with a male brain, never felt himself a girl. Those truly understand fiqh in Islam, would never blame him. What makes Islam looks bad and cruel are those people that spread wrong understanding of Islamic law. There are big differences between those who were born trans vs those who were born female but try to be a boy just for the sake of enjoyment.
Love myself as who am I as a person. No matter what your choice, committing suicide is still not the right solution to end your problem. Love yourself please.
Well, it's true that our society doesn't accept it. But then, there's some younger generation accept it. Dear, it's okay to be you. You, yourself are awesome in your way. I, as a late 90s Malaysian, I'm totally support LGBT and respect everyone that they have their own right to be themself. Just hold on, like Ellen De Generous, you will be okay some day. Just keep swimming. Keep going.
Wow...Really I really get the feelings & vibes of being one, a gender identity that's does not align with the sex you born with. The way they shoot, the way they narate the whole settings... was really AWESOME... Thanks shooting team Really awesome family. Really supportive sister, mother and father. Gosh Really you should be blessed as you have such an understanding family 😃
I was deeply moved by how much Sister was there being supportive and understanding. Even offered her Apartment so, Ah Yin might have Safe space to plan and put live into order. Just parents acknowledge Yin's decision not pressure she/her acting male.
Hope he can study hard and get himself an overseas degree and eventually a job overseas where trans is legal and supported. Hope he can get testosterone jab soon to get over his dysphoria. By the way I am a normal person writing this.
Yin, my advice is to study smart, get the best results/grades to immigrate overseas to further study/live. Only then you can be yourself absolutely without any hassles in daily living. I am gay and have dual citizenships- British and Australia having gave up my Malaysian nationality way back in the 80s. It is no big deal here if you are transgender. Pursue your dreams living overseas and get out of purgatory. Best of luck.
@Nn ms saye cakap je la awak…tapi…tula…makbapak awak mesti kahwin disebabkan oleh kes rogol dan dapatlah lahirkan awak di dunia ni…tapi takpe…as long as makbapak bertaubat…in syaallah pintu taubat masih terbuke walaupun makbapak dilahirkan dalam keluarge sampah masyarakat…saye support awak tau
Love you...God loves you... This entire universal forces which embroidered by love with you... Keep moving ahead...God love for you will open doors for you soon... Hugs
i dunno why i feel like want to cry. Yin loolike me so much. My sister is homophobic and I dunno how to keep secret myself. Since I muslim, its make me feel more hard to being trans. I wish I can being male easyly
The LGBT+ community in Malaysia is still not very accepting and still had a long way to go... i guess alot is about the religion and cultures mostly.. I’m gay and I don’t feel comfortable expressing myself in my hometown...is quite sad to say that I need to use as an excuse to study overseas just to get out the madness...i just hope one day it’ll open up
patut lah malaysia skrg makin banyak bala Allah turunkan, ada lagi manusia yg tahu terang2 benda tu salah masih lagi nak buat smh. tak cukup lagi ke azab yg Allah turunkan kepada manusia2 yang lepas jadikan lah pengajarannnnnnn oii
Kannnnn. Kalau bukan Islam takpe laa. Lantak la nk buat apa. Tapi kalau Islam ni tak tahu la nk kata apa dahh. Dunia nk kiamat masih lagi nk tegakkan benda yg salah. Tak takut ke diorang ni 😭
OMG HI IM SEBASTIAN IM FTM TRANSGENDER I GREW UP WITH A MUSLIM FAMILY AND I LIVE IN SUNGAI PETANI TOO I HAVEN'T GET MY SURGERY BUT I WISH I CAN ITS TOO HARD TO GET THE MONEY YOU KNOW..
Ubat utk pulihkan Tomboy= kopi kacip fatimah Cuba minum utk seminggu Dijamin berkesan Insya Allah Sila forwardkn mesej ini kpd anak/abg/adik/rakan yg ada masalah transgender. Moga2 mereka pulih setelah minum ubat ini. TQ
I'm saying this as a straight person, not as a muslim because while I see the wrong in it, as I've been taught, I also am open minded and to some extent, liberal about this particular topic. Many times I come across the LGBT community say things like, "Do you think we have a choice?" or "I was born a (whatever orientation it is), not a(wtv you are)!" The problem with this is that, you DO have a choice, and you DO choose to be what you want. Really, it's that simple. Your argument would mean that I had no choice but to be straight, because that's what I feel I was meant to be , when I was actually born bi, which I cannot stress enough is not the case. Just as I CHOOSE to be straight, you CHOOSE not to be. Don't make things so complicated, seriously. Being straight is just another sexual orientation, and to the world it's just 'right' because it's natural, the true nature of human beings, for a male to be with a female. Speaking as a muslim, it is wrong for me to condone such sins, and I accept that it is such. However religion also states that we shall not shun nor discriminate these very people who 'need our guidance and patience and love' to bring them back onto the right path, whatever that means. On that note, I take full responsibility for being supportive of this LGBT community because at the end of the day we are all humans, regardless of orientation. After all, I may be straight, but I could have committed a thousand over sins as compared to a single non-straight individual who sins only once. That being said, if you want freedom in being openly (wtv it is), forget about staying in Msia, let alone an islamic country. Go elsewhere and be happy and live life being who you want to be.
Ah Yin is a beautiful girl. Im gay myself in malaysia but for me, i believe in the afterlife. Malaysia is an islamic country, dont force the lgbtq mindset to others as it will backfire to this normal one like me. Thanx
They aren't forcing it on anyone wtf you talking about? NO ONE IS FORCING IT. This video is just a documentary on the existence of a trans man in Malaysia, about how hard it is for them to live in such a homo/transphobic country, how the family reacts to this. And hey, Yin already wants to be identified as male, you calling him a "girl", especially now that he's transgendered is disrespectful. Learn a bit more about how to address people of the lgbt community please. If you identify as a man, you wouldn't want anyone calling you a girl would you?
I'm just want to ask not to be rude.. If she's transgender?? Do she's still like man or something?? I'm just curious sometimes, because my friend like "tomboy" but she's sometimes confuse do she's like man.
If by "like" you mean is sexually attracted to men, then that's not tied to gender. Women can like women, men can like men, etc. Transgender people (and people with different gender expressions, like your tomboy friend) can have any sexuality
I kept refreshing the video since it keeps on crashing, however i can play other videos on YT just well, guess shows that this video is not suitable for viewing. LGBT is not a norm in Malaysia thats why its taboo to practice it here, i dont support the LGBT movements and never will however i dont think they deserve rude comments or hate attack on them. They are human too same as the rest of us, whatever is your belief in life, we should treat people how we want to be treated as. Unless your way of life harm/threat other people in society. Jawab la sendiri.
I sexually Identify as an Attack Helicopter. Ever since I was a boy I dreamed of soaring over the oilfields dropping hot sticky loads on disgusting foreigners. People say to me that a person being a helicopter is Impossible and I'm fucking retarded but I don't care, I'm beautiful. I'm having a plastic surgeon install rotary blades, 30 mm cannons and AMG-114 Hellfire missiles on my body. From now on I want you guys to call me "Apache" and respect my right to kill from above and kill needlessly. If you can't accept me you're a heliphobe and need to check your vehicle privilege. Thank you for being so understanding.
Except...DYSPHORIA. Honestly I'd rather die a horrendous and painful death than be called a tomboy. Or BE a tomboy. The idea of transitioning is the literally the ONLY thing keeping me alive. Or at least that along with sleep, food and water.
it’s two completely different things, being a tomboy is just a masculine not so girly girl and being trans is being male in the brain but being born in a female body etc
Actually what i've learn before female that want to change into boy is because of their mental.I feel like theres no point to become a transgender male cause it will make think become worst.Parents need to understand their kids when going through like this.There must be something possible to be help in this situation.Sad thing is Ah Yin already changes into transgender male.I know its his decision to do it but there is something POSSIBLE that can make him not becoming transgender.This things happen when parents cant see the weakness of their kids.Its a must for them to know and understanding it in the first place.Deppresion can be fight.I know it may lead to suicide if this thing can be fight.Btw sorry for my grammar.Im not really good in english but ill try my best.
It's simple: you do NOT "become" transgender. See, you are born this way. Transitioning, whether it be from male to female or from female to male, is the most efficient way to alleviate the gender dysphoria that makes you transgender. Trust me, as a transman myself i can tell you that if another and better option existed, i would take it. The dysphoria is what motivates us to transition. It's like taking morphine when you're in pain; it won't make it go away but it'll be better. And depression and anxiety can be caused by gender dysphoria, not the opposite. I hope i was able to explain that clearly :P
it gets worse if you don't transition. you can develop anxiety disorders and other mental disorders that will only cause more burdens to you. not transitioning will cause depression and will cause suicide rates to go up.
You seriously have no idea or clue of his going through. Because you are not in his shoes nor will you ever understand people whom share the similar experience as him. Why you ask? Because your brain is just as narrow as your hair lol
This broke my heart. R.AGE did a great job on this. Thank you.
Thanks. But honestly, Ah Yin has such a powerful story, our job was just to tell it as it is.
I hope he can move to a country where it’s legal to transition eventually
Bonidee Lee I hope you can understand better what being transgender is and realise he’s not insane.
Bonidee Lee get out of here with that negative bullshit and kindly fuck off
Bonidee Lee it’s really sad that you’re right to an extent. There are so many people who claim their trans or even claim that they’re some random gender or change genders every month or so and that’s messed up because it’s those types of “trans” people who influence cisgendered peoples decisions on the trans community. All those people do is discredit people who are actually transgender, people who legitimately have gender dysphoria. People who legitimately lock themselves in their bathrooms and stare at their body that doesn’t match who they are and genuinely try killing themselves multiple times because of it. Especially people like Yin, he said he knew he needed male genitals since he was 5. He knew something was wrong. He’s 21 years old now and still feels this way. It’s not something that goes away. And you saying that it’s a mental illness that society should ignore is ignorant on your part. Should society ignore depression and just let everyone kill themselves? No. We get professional help for those people just like we give profession help to transgendered people. You will never understand what gender dysphoria feels like but just imagine you looking at yourself in the mirror and seeing a vagina and big tits and everyone in your life is just telling you to get over it and to ignore it. How would that make you feel? Probably not good. So just think about people who genuinely face this issue before you talk about something that you have no personally experience on and therefore have no right to explain anything about being transgender.
Bonidee Lee people think that fully transitioning is a “cure” will be sadly mistaken and very disappointed. The point of transitioning isn’t to cure dysphoria but the just help make you more comfortable
Bonidee Lee I don’t think trans youth should go on hormones. I think it can be detrimental and sometimes kids do change their mind. Yes sometimes a gay girl might struggle with her gender identity and might think she’s a trans male. That can happen you’re allowed to think about stuff like that. But that’s not to say that everyone who is trans is illegitimate and not actually trans. I don’t know why you’re having such a hard time separating gender identity and sexual identity because they’re not the same at all and can’t even be related
Thanks R.AGE for highlighting the issue we rarely see in Malaysia's media.
We rarely see it because any attempt to do so is immediately shut down. This country is hell.
honestly, but im so happy that his sister and parents are so supportive of him
this is malaysia...if you want to become trans...get the fuck outta here
akmal zuraimi you don’t become trans, who the fuck would want the burden of being trans? people are trans, it’s not something you choose. fix your backwards country instead of booting people that only want to live their lives while not fearing for their lives.
@@トガヒミコ-w8e yeah, you're right
“She ain’t heavy, she’s my brother.” That pisses me off. Why use she when he’s a he? I hope watching the full thing explains it.
a_larkin_ waz_here it’s just supposed to be a title that grabs someone’s attention because of how it’s written with opposing ideas. I agree it’s a bit foot in mouth but I doubt it’s intentionally meant to be offensive
a_larkin_ waz_here because she’s a girl lol
@@ikaika6397 No he isn't lmao
@@ikaika6397 he isnt a girl
Isn't it a song, Austin powers says it in a movie too?
Gosh I'm from the same town. I completely empathise with your situation. I understand how its like over here, having being brought up here and continuously faced discrimination since I was young. The world is really wide. Get out, see the world, and find yourself. Gods blessings for you.
I love how supportive your sister is
Sadly, not everyone has such a good support system within the family.
if you're not in a safe place to come out, don't. your safety comes first. do anything and everything you can to get to a place where you can be who you are.
His stuff with feeling like he'd just "grow into a boy" is relatable. I remember thinking that I would have a flat chest forever and that I'd get a deeper voice and I was so excited to have a prominent Adams apple and then I went through female puberty and that really screwed me up
Ah Yin’s identity is valid. I can relate to him as I am non-binary & use they/them pronouns. Biologically female but I don’t identify with male or female. Misgendering can make you feel invisible. People asked me to just say I am a tomboy (which I am not, but it’s more socially acceptable). I am also persuaded to pick between both genders (Either revert to female or start transitioning to male, neither make sense to me). So now I identify as TIRED. Anyway, thanks R.AGE for this video. Malaysia needs to be aware and more accepting of LGBT not as a lifestyle, but as a respect of the existence of this community! ❤️
No offence but I notice chinese people in Malaysia ( and some in Singapore) very easy to adapt western ideology . This non-binary gender thing is ridiculous , how can you claim that 'I am neither male or female' where your DNA , chromosomes , gene , body parts all indicate that you are belong to that ( male or female ) gender ... Like in your case , even from that small photo of your already indicate that you are a girl ... Similar to race , everyone born into specific race , can you claim that you are binary in that matter too ( " I m not chinese " eventhough you DNA proofs that you are ) .... Stop buying all those absurd things from the west , life is already very simple ( one male and one female ) why you want to make it complicated ...You are such a nice looking chinese female just embrace that ... Dont embrace your delusion , but embrace the fact only then you can live in peace , living in delusion only make you feel happy for certain period of time but at one point , the reality will get back to you . I have a relative who is a transvestite ( already passed away 4 yrs ago) , he took lots of female hormones and yes he manage to look acceptable as woman and even had surgery to change his penis to fake vagina , but you know what ?? Man-made will never compare o god'd creation and at one point of his life , he no longer able to sustain his delusional lifestyle ( a man to pretend/ want to lead woman's life , what do u expect) ... General hospital wont accept him in female ward , he was put in male ward and ridiculed by other mates and visitors ... he died in the most tragic way... You are still very young and dont wait until the end to save urself from delusional and abnormal lifestyle ..
@@MoonlightNikita non-binary and third gender arent actually western concepts you brazen fool. The idea of a third gender or a gender between male and female has been dated back hundreds and thousands of years in Native American cultures, Maori cultures, and many east-Asian cultures as well.
Ubat utk pulihkan
Pondan= kopi tongkat ali
Tomboy= kopi kacip fatimah
Cuba minum utk seminggu
Dijamin berkesan
Insya Allah
Sila forwardkn mesej ini kpd anak/abg/adik/rakan yg ada masalah transgender.
Moga2 mereka pulih setelah minum ubat ini. TQ
Actually you dont really need to have a gender to be happy,you dont need to pick any, just be yourself 😊
@@MoonlightNikita you're right!
im transgender like him too.. but i cant be myself since im muslim.. its so difficult for me as transmen..
Adrian Ian I'm a Muslim trans guy as well and I can totally relate to this... hope things go easy for you though!
I pray you guys for the best I'm a asexual muslim cis man, i know it's hard but things will get better n you should do you n don't let people judge you cuz that's Allah work ain't them if people talk shit just dap on the bitches n live like a boss
Babi la korang
plz repent b4 the end of the world..dont b the dajjal fake messiah followers
It’s perfectly okay to be transgender and a Muslim.
Thank you, R.AGE. I’m a transgender girl myself, and I act real boyish and get made fun for that. I saw this video and tapped on it and finally understand that being transgender is ok.
A transgender girl is a woman who was assigned male at birth. Are you a trans girl or a trans guy like Ah Yin and me? The sentence didn't really add up.
Are you an FTM trans or MTF trans?
I think they meant that they’re FTM
Ubat utk pulihkan
Pondan= kopi tongkat ali
Tomboy= kopi kacip fatimah
Cuba minum utk seminggu
Dijamin berkesan
Insya Allah
Sila forwardkn mesej ini kpd anak/abg/adik/rakan yg ada masalah transgender.
Moga2 mereka pulih setelah minum ubat ini. TQ
Girl I don't know about other
But I love you
Cheer up
There's one part in the video that he face show up. Please edit this part, it's not safe for him!
im malaysian.I feel this..im in the same situation..growing up not knowing that im a girl..from small I really thought im a boy..now im trangender man..
Ubat utk pulihkan
Tomboy= kopi kacip fatimah
Cuba minum utk seminggu
Dijamin berkesan
Insya Allah
Sila forwardkn mesej ini kpd anak/abg/adik/rakan yg ada masalah transgender.
Moga2 mereka pulih setelah minum ubat ini. TQ
Ubat utk pulihkan
Tomboy= kopi kacip fatimah
Cuba minum utk seminggu
Dijamin berkesan
Insya Allah
Sila forwardkn mesej ini kpd anak/abg/adik/rakan yg ada masalah transgender.
Moga2 mereka pulih setelah minum ubat ini. TQ
@@bizpartner and zero proven. Thanks
How the hell you dont know what gender you are...form 3 science is not clear enough?
No offense. But their English is really good. They don't even have the Malaysian accent. How I wish I could speak such a fluet English.
You only had one life, live to the fullest!
But they do lol
Dans a prick they don't have a strong accent
@@sayuri_vibes
Yeah
Dude..that is our english accent .-.
Beautifully done! I hope this becomes viral as well.
Malaysia still has a long way to go in accommodating and accepting the LGBTQ+ community in terms of the law and how the society views and treats them.
They are humans as well. Something many people fail to grasp.
Yes you are right that we need to accepting the LGBTQ, even if they are minority. But in Malaysia, the religion and unspoken rules of society come up at top above everything else. And it not gonna change in 50 years in the future. Religion especially Islam are not tolerated LGBTQ and they think them as abomination as well as an insult to their "pathetic fictional omnipotent creator of their own universe"
Disgusting
@@Greychumon cause it is...i don't want bad things to happens here where i live..LGBTQ will stay be banned and that's final.. there's nothing to fight about..u can migration to other countries that allow LGBTQ.
Wan Beast why and can you speak in sentence to voice your opinion?
@@yummymellon4058 What would happen to your country if you validate the LGBTQ friend huh? Earthquake? Please lah. You sure remember Ring of fire in middle school right?
Im Ftm Transgender as well, i have been out to my parents since i was 14 (im 17 now) they still have not accepted me. I hope they will one day.
You're doing great sweetie
Same :/
@@ikigatemori6125 Thankyou ♡
It's their loss
Same here, it’ll be okay dude
I am glad the parents are supportive, because not many are that open 😊 we all have equal rights. Love is equal ❤
The way the video is shot and edited is really esthetic!
Also the music underlines the mood perfectly, the atmosphere is breath taking, really beautiful!
I feel you bro. I live in kl but still. The country itself is so fucked up. Just try to do well and get out of this hell asap.
This made me cry, when the brother and sister are sitting outside the door of their house. So emotional. So sweet
Looks like im not the only trans male here. Hi, im from sarawak. Thx so much for this.
💜💚💙❤️😍😘
Hii mentoo
Me too
Hey.. im from srwk also..
@@adrianian8034 kuching transman here
I have never been a girly "girl" Let me rephrase that I've never been a girl I was just a boy trapped in a girls body
5 years old: I was forced to wear dresses and I was in beauty pageants
6: wondered why I had to be a girl
7: was told by my grandma all Gays belong in hell
8: started dressing like a boy and wanted to be a brother instead of sister
10: learned there was a word for how I was feeling that word is transgender
11: realized I was pansexual but still didn't know what my gender was | my depression took controll and I cut
12(now): I am out to my parents as trans and pan | my depression still controls my life and I still cut
I know things are tough and it really doesn't get much better (great prep talk, huh) BUT the people you surround yourself with can make everything easier to deal with. I don't know if any of your friends are supportive but you will meet people who love you for the guy you are. Stay strong, buddy
Hey. I can't stop you from cutting, or just make you feel better magically, but I really hope you things get better for you. It can get better, you just have to surround yourself with the right people. Good luck with your transition and everything else ❤
I’m so sorry that this stuff affected you at such a young age. I hope when you grow older you will have overcome your depression and self harm and live happily as your true gender and with a partner you love.
Holy shit...YOU'RE ONLY TWELVE!?
Wow...I hope things get better...
I always thought that one day I could take T and cut off my boobs and be a transgender but I know, my family and society won’t ever accept it. Never will. And now, I’m still living like a tomboy. That’s the only way that I could make myself happy a lil. When I was 7, I’d always wish I was a boy, I wished this is was a dream and hoping tomorrow I’m gonna wake up as a boy. I don’t know if I should laugh or being sad about it :’)) I really wish I wasa boy
Preach this boys sister. A family is so important. So glad he has an amazing sister :)
The thing he told about when he was five years old happened exactly the same with me when I was four.
The sister is a great ally and so well spoken just wow
I'm a gender fluid male, FTM. My mom, was very reluctant to accept me. Ive been depressed and suicidle for 6 years. I finally came in terms with my gender identity when I was 14 I'm 15 now. I finally told my parents only last year. And they still don't understand. My friends, my sister's they accept me. They don't understand but they accept me. My parents say they accept me but I know it's really hard for them. I told them, when I see myself in the future I see myself as a male. And they were definitely not okay with that. They told me that it was a faze but I know it's not.
@Animal Liberation I'm physically a girl but I am mentally both girl and boy like I switch from being either gender but I'm more male so I want to get the surgeries
Baby Sushi Boy there's not a male or female brain though
@@sayuri_vibes um I don't know where your going with this but I'm my own person and I can be whatever gender I want. And I want to be both ✌️
@@bbsushiboy if you WANT to be the opposite gender, you're not transgender. Gender fluidity isn't real. You can change whether you express as feminine or masculine, but not whether you're male or female. People like you are the reason that so many people think that transgender people are jokes.
@@biktikz hm thanks for your opinion again just your opinion that means nothing to me sorry.
Thank you for blurring the video and keeping their identity secret
May god bless you guys with lots of love and happiness
Be safe my friend
Yes I will be yr friend through ups and downs
You know Malaysia is not the best country
Be safe and take care ❤
This is such a good interview, thanks for making this.
this is such a perfect & aesthetic documentary, i hope he can continue to transition safely
It would be nice to have an update if where he is now.
Jaxxon Zych same.
Malaysia is 50/50 on this. Its an Islamic country but you can just say if you're not Muslim, you're allowed to be transgender. But still its a confusing decision to make.
malaysia is NOT an islamic country..its just that the official religion is islam
Islamic country? Wtf. Yes we're using syariah law but that doesn't make us islamic country fool
Are you dumb? Know ur facts before you say shit bro
Lol. I'm muslim, can I really just say I'm not muslim to get transition here. I don't think so.
Calm down. . Actually Islam never looked down upon those who were born transgender. The wrong one are those who mimicking opposite gender just to run away from bad memories etc . Like Ah Yin, he already born with a male brain, never felt himself a girl. Those truly understand fiqh in Islam, would never blame him. What makes Islam looks bad and cruel are those people that spread wrong understanding of Islamic law. There are big differences between those who were born trans vs those who were born female but try to be a boy just for the sake of enjoyment.
Love myself as who am I as a person. No matter what your choice, committing suicide is still not the right solution to end your problem. Love yourself please.
As a closeted trans kid, I’m craving to get out of Malaysia
Selagi duduk kat malaysia memang cam tu. Tabah je la. Abaikannn semua.
Well, it's true that our society doesn't accept it. But then, there's some younger generation accept it. Dear, it's okay to be you. You, yourself are awesome in your way. I, as a late 90s Malaysian, I'm totally support LGBT and respect everyone that they have their own right to be themself. Just hold on, like Ellen De Generous, you will be okay some day. Just keep swimming. Keep going.
Wow...Really I really get the feelings & vibes of being one, a gender identity that's does not align with the sex you born with.
The way they shoot, the way they narate the whole settings... was really AWESOME... Thanks shooting team
Really awesome family. Really supportive sister, mother and father. Gosh Really you should be blessed as you have such an understanding family 😃
Move here to Subang, this place is quite safe and nice for LGBTQ people, There’s so much facilitates here too
Thank you. I’m crying goddamn it
Hope Yin is doing well now.....much love to you and Yin 💕💕💕💕💕
I was deeply moved by how much Sister was there being supportive and understanding. Even offered her Apartment so, Ah Yin might have Safe space to plan and put live into order. Just parents acknowledge Yin's decision not pressure she/her acting male.
Hope he can study hard and get himself an overseas degree and eventually a job overseas where trans is legal and supported. Hope he can get testosterone jab soon to get over his dysphoria. By the way I am a normal person writing this.
My heart goes out to him
Why the video can't play anymore? There is nothing wrong with the content if youtube blocked it.. smh
Im gay, i have a girls feeling for a boy. but society condemn me and ridicule me.
YOU ARE NOT ALONE AH YIN! YOU HAVE US!
Yin, my advice is to study smart, get the best results/grades to immigrate overseas to further study/live. Only then you can be yourself absolutely without any hassles in daily living. I am gay and have dual citizenships- British and Australia having gave up my Malaysian nationality way back in the 80s. It is no big deal here if you are transgender. Pursue your dreams living overseas and get out of purgatory. Best of luck.
His sister seems so supportive and understanding 😢😢 I wish I had a sibling that I can be so open about these stuff to
I only have 1 family member my mom and she hates me since im trans T^T
It'll all be fine, one day you won't need her anymore.
It's going to be okay...
I love transgender guys.. Who cares??? I don't mind... Aishiteru
@Nn ms bertaubat atas?
@Nn ms actually makbapak awak kene bnyak bertaubat sebab dah tertulis yg ur parent akan masuk nerake jahanam…ermmm
@Nn ms saye cakap je la awak…tapi…tula…makbapak awak mesti kahwin disebabkan oleh kes rogol dan dapatlah lahirkan awak di dunia ni…tapi takpe…as long as makbapak bertaubat…in syaallah pintu taubat masih terbuke walaupun makbapak dilahirkan dalam keluarge sampah masyarakat…saye support awak tau
Love you...God loves you... This entire universal forces which embroidered by love with you... Keep moving ahead...God love for you will open doors for you soon... Hugs
yo idk if Yin will ever see this but pLEASE GET A BETTER BINDER. THAT ONE CAN CAUSE RIB PROBLEMS AND CAN EVEN PREVENT TOP SURGERY.
parents are embracing their child. its good ㅠ ㅠ
This is a lucky guy as he has a supportive family
Be brave and have courage..
i dunno why i feel like want to cry. Yin loolike me so much. My sister is homophobic and I dunno how to keep secret myself. Since I muslim, its make me feel more hard to being trans. I wish I can being male easyly
u should thanks motif viral cause thats why i got here
Always grateful whenever other media feature us =)
The LGBT+ community in Malaysia is still not very accepting and still had a long way to go... i guess alot is about the religion and cultures mostly.. I’m gay and I don’t feel comfortable expressing myself in my hometown...is quite sad to say that I need to use as an excuse to study overseas just to get out the madness...i just hope one day it’ll open up
patut lah malaysia skrg makin banyak bala Allah turunkan, ada lagi manusia yg tahu terang2 benda tu salah masih lagi nak buat smh. tak cukup lagi ke azab yg Allah turunkan kepada manusia2 yang lepas jadikan lah pengajarannnnnnn oii
Kannnnn. Kalau bukan Islam takpe laa. Lantak la nk buat apa. Tapi kalau Islam ni tak tahu la nk kata apa dahh. Dunia nk kiamat masih lagi nk tegakkan benda yg salah. Tak takut ke diorang ni 😭
Yin kinda looklike me. I'm realize that i'm love girl and being like boys since i'm 3 years
Good luck to you. I hope you have a good life.
I feel so sad for you. I imagine what pressure society must have placed on you, though it is completely no fault of you....
Someone please forward this to our holy doly 6th century DPM Wan Azizah. She is fast becoming distasteful.
When a fry want to swim without stay in his group, a small current is enough to send him to the unknown, alone and no protection.
Why i can’t open this video? Block?
Lnddw 396 yeah same with me
watching this in 2021. how's Yin doing now?
OMG HI IM SEBASTIAN IM FTM TRANSGENDER I GREW UP WITH A MUSLIM FAMILY AND I LIVE IN SUNGAI PETANI TOO I HAVEN'T GET MY SURGERY BUT I WISH I CAN ITS TOO HARD TO GET THE MONEY YOU KNOW..
I was non binary gender... MtF... Let dating...
😢😢😢
I am also FTM.
Same
Want to DM? Email? Snapchat?
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Ubat utk pulihkan
Tomboy= kopi kacip fatimah
Cuba minum utk seminggu
Dijamin berkesan
Insya Allah
Sila forwardkn mesej ini kpd anak/abg/adik/rakan yg ada masalah transgender.
Moga2 mereka pulih setelah minum ubat ini. TQ
😢
It start when I was in middle kindergarten
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I'm saying this as a straight person, not as a muslim because while I see the wrong in it, as I've been taught, I also am open minded and to some extent, liberal about this particular topic. Many times I come across the LGBT community say things like, "Do you think we have a choice?" or "I was born a (whatever orientation it is), not a(wtv you are)!" The problem with this is that, you DO have a choice, and you DO choose to be what you want. Really, it's that simple. Your argument would mean that I had no choice but to be straight, because that's what I feel I was meant to be , when I was actually born bi, which I cannot stress enough is not the case. Just as I CHOOSE to be straight, you CHOOSE not to be. Don't make things so complicated, seriously. Being straight is just another sexual orientation, and to the world it's just 'right' because it's natural, the true nature of human beings, for a male to be with a female.
Speaking as a muslim, it is wrong for me to condone such sins, and I accept that it is such. However religion also states that we shall not shun nor discriminate these very people who 'need our guidance and patience and love' to bring them back onto the right path, whatever that means.
On that note, I take full responsibility for being supportive of this LGBT community because at the end of the day we are all humans, regardless of orientation.
After all, I may be straight, but I could have committed a thousand over sins as compared to a single non-straight individual who sins only once.
That being said, if you want freedom in being openly (wtv it is), forget about staying in Msia, let alone an islamic country. Go elsewhere and be happy and live life being who you want to be.
lgbt+ people exist in muslim countries too, whether you like it or not. so they deserve love and support like everyone else
Setuju gila lah weh dengan comment kau ni
Ah Yin is a beautiful girl. Im gay myself in malaysia but for me, i believe in the afterlife. Malaysia is an islamic country, dont force the lgbtq mindset to others as it will backfire to this normal one like me. Thanx
They aren't forcing it on anyone wtf you talking about? NO ONE IS FORCING IT. This video is just a documentary on the existence of a trans man in Malaysia, about how hard it is for them to live in such a homo/transphobic country, how the family reacts to this. And hey, Yin already wants to be identified as male, you calling him a "girl", especially now that he's transgendered is disrespectful. Learn a bit more about how to address people of the lgbt community please. If you identify as a man, you wouldn't want anyone calling you a girl would you?
Seeing lots of comments lately on users unable to watch the video. Use proxy website to watch this video without a problem
Malaysia thanks to Pas and BN
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So she’s your younger sister then
I'm just want to ask not to be rude..
If she's transgender?? Do she's still like man or something?? I'm just curious sometimes, because my friend like "tomboy" but she's sometimes confuse do she's like man.
If by "like" you mean is sexually attracted to men, then that's not tied to gender. Women can like women, men can like men, etc. Transgender people (and people with different gender expressions, like your tomboy friend) can have any sexuality
I kept refreshing the video since it keeps on crashing, however i can play other videos on YT just well, guess shows that this video is not suitable for viewing.
LGBT is not a norm in Malaysia thats why its taboo to practice it here, i dont support the LGBT movements and never will however i dont think they deserve rude comments or hate attack on them. They are human too same as the rest of us, whatever is your belief in life, we should treat people how we want to be treated as. Unless your way of life harm/threat other people in society.
Jawab la sendiri.
price of living in a community. pathetic. condolence humanity.
In a word of true malaysian
'sila meninggal'
Why i cant play this video
Berbeza rupanya transgender guy dgn pengkid...
My heart goes out to your sister. Wish her the best in life
What FUCKING future is there being a PONDAN
My brother a woman and always ASSking for trouble!!
i want to follow his ig
May *not her real name
Jun *not her real name
why July to me?!!
I have that binder lol
Gasoline clasp binders are unsafe, try not to use it too often
Get gc2b kinda expensive but worth it
I'm glad representation was here, but this was staged. No family talks oNLy about the trans kid in the room
It's a documentary of the trans kid of course they're only talking about him.
I'm optimus prime the leader of the transformers
I sexually Identify as an Attack Helicopter. Ever since I was a boy I dreamed of soaring over the oilfields dropping hot sticky loads on disgusting foreigners. People say to me that a person being a helicopter is Impossible and I'm fucking retarded but I don't care, I'm beautiful. I'm having a plastic surgeon install rotary blades, 30 mm cannons and AMG-114 Hellfire missiles on my body. From now on I want you guys to call me "Apache" and respect my right to kill from above and kill needlessly. If you can't accept me you're a heliphobe and need to check your vehicle privilege. Thank you for being so understanding.
Fuck off
Kesajatan apakah ini.
semoga orang Islam yang mempunyai kekeliruan jantina ini bisa berubah menjadi apa yang Allah SWT telah cipta .. aamiin aamiin aamiin ya Allah ..
just tell everyone youre tomboy and youre all good
Thats not how it works unfortunately
Thats not how it fucking works, idiot
Except...DYSPHORIA.
Honestly I'd rather die a horrendous and painful death than be called a tomboy.
Or BE a tomboy.
The idea of transitioning is the literally the ONLY thing keeping me alive.
Or at least that along with sleep, food and water.
*TRANSGENDER > OKU PERSON*
I feel my gender is fermented durian. Noone can and should say that I am not.
I think its better to be tomboy than being transgender tbh
But it's not something people can choose, though.
it’s two completely different things, being a tomboy is just a masculine not so girly girl and being trans is being male in the brain but being born in a female body etc
Yes.
Not that you can help it tho.
I'm gay Malay Muslim, I can accept LGB but not T, it just clearly wrong..I'm sorry.
Actually what i've learn before female that want to change into boy is because of their mental.I feel like theres no point to become a transgender male cause it will make think become worst.Parents need to understand their kids when going through like this.There must be something possible to be help in this situation.Sad thing is Ah Yin already changes into transgender male.I know its his decision to do it but there is something POSSIBLE that can make him not becoming transgender.This things happen when parents cant see the weakness of their kids.Its a must for them to know and understanding it in the first place.Deppresion can be fight.I know it may lead to suicide if this thing can be fight.Btw sorry for my grammar.Im not really good in english but ill try my best.
It's simple: you do NOT "become" transgender. See, you are born this way. Transitioning, whether it be from male to female or from female to male, is the most efficient way to alleviate the gender dysphoria that makes you transgender. Trust me, as a transman myself i can tell you that if another and better option existed, i would take it. The dysphoria is what motivates us to transition. It's like taking morphine when you're in pain; it won't make it go away but it'll be better. And depression and anxiety can be caused by gender dysphoria, not the opposite. I hope i was able to explain that clearly :P
it gets worse if you don't transition. you can develop anxiety disorders and other mental disorders that will only cause more burdens to you. not transitioning will cause depression and will cause suicide rates to go up.
You seriously have no idea or clue of his going through. Because you are not in his shoes nor will you ever understand people whom share the similar experience as him. Why you ask? Because your brain is just as narrow as your hair lol