to the "good girl" with a broken heart...

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ม.ค. 2025
  • 0:00 Hook
    0:16 Intro
    1:08 Defining a "good girl"
    1:45 Personal History
    2:36 Consequences of being inexperienced

ความคิดเห็น • 26

  • @hellothere3683
    @hellothere3683 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Wish I had this video when I was younger. Feel very far away from this place now alhamdulilah but listening to your experiences brought back some similar memories and them awful feelings you're left to deal with alone. So nice of you to share for others💓

  • @samreenkhan6203
    @samreenkhan6203 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Good to hear from you again. Many congrats again on becoming a mother!

    • @bajifey
      @bajifey  2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you so much 😀

  • @MK-er9jk
    @MK-er9jk 12 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Bajifey you never disappoint . I didn't know we needed this talk until I finished listening to you. Very important to bring awareness to this . Good job👍

  • @ikramlahriouil6073
    @ikramlahriouil6073 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    This video hit the right spoooots!! It’s so comforting to know that I’m not the only one living through all of this 😭❤

  • @nabit7093
    @nabit7093 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Tasneem, jazakullah khair for all these beautiful and well needed points of wisdom. I cant tell you how relatable and how needed these things were to hear. Especially being an older sister and having to figure out these things on our own, it feels so good hearing the validation that someone, like an older sister, can tell us that; what we feel is ok, what we need to do to improve, and, that we will be ok. Actually MORE than ok. Literaly tears in my eyes. Been followiing you from the early days and very happy to see you flourish into this new stage of life and motherhood. Thank you again, lots of love and duas ❤

  • @ojitosrodriguez114
    @ojitosrodriguez114 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    To have a lot of love inside of yourself and have no one to reciprocate you is depressing.. I've resorted to just wanting to be single forever cus this "dating" stuff is not for me.

  • @baybeebunny1
    @baybeebunny1 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What I love the most about listening to anything you upload is your emotional intelligence!! This was a great topic to cover. As someone who was raised in a Muslim Pakistani house, I found being that good girl gave me an identity like you explained. I don't identify with this anymore, but, even hearing you cover the topic was enjoyable because everything you said is so true and relatable! I look forward to more videos.

  • @dmystfy
    @dmystfy 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I like the flash of words in the beginning.

  • @obdirect
    @obdirect วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was so interesting to listen to, such a fresh and real perspective. I can't imagine how tough that must have been, and I just want to give you a big hug. 🤍Always such an important lesson: lead with kindness, and if you can't, it's better to stay quiet. Sending you so much love as you embrace this beautiful new chapter as a mum! Congrats!! ☺

  • @_whatsoever
    @_whatsoever 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This is one of those videos that mean so much to me & I wanna thank you so much for

    • @bajifey
      @bajifey  3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      So glad you feel validated! ❤️

  • @manelhj6208
    @manelhj6208 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Always a pleasure watching your videos since i started watching you a very long time ago ( 10 years ), congratulations for this baby ( aka the new channel) and the other baby human too, i hope you enjoy every bit of both these new adventures ❤

  • @sufiahussain811
    @sufiahussain811 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Wow i really resonated with alot of things you said. Even if nothing happened, the feelings that you experience in these situations are still real. Truly a insightful conversation and i hope for more in the future. Take care

  • @strwbrru4788
    @strwbrru4788 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    thank you for making this it came at the exact time that i needed :)

  • @IsraKorra
    @IsraKorra 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love the Kuch Kuch Hota Hai reference, her heartbreak was reallll 😢 love this video 👏🏻

    • @bajifey
      @bajifey  2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ❤️❤️❤️

  • @hirahusman5427
    @hirahusman5427 วันที่ผ่านมา

    great wisdom! (I related TOO MUCH)😭

  • @hajrar7448
    @hajrar7448 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤️ < because there aren’t words for how this video makes me feel

  • @delshahid8971
    @delshahid8971 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is good❤❤❤

  • @isabella-nitebloom
    @isabella-nitebloom 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    girllllll……..oof 😭😭😭💔

  • @strwbrru4788
    @strwbrru4788 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    could this be added on spotify or soundcloud :,)

    • @bajifey
      @bajifey  2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yesss as I upload more episodes will do!

  • @sylvrstone
    @sylvrstone 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

  • @mariyam_bashir
    @mariyam_bashir 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    🤍

    • @mariyam_bashir
      @mariyam_bashir 15 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      (long time no see by the way! as-salaam alaykum.)