hey everyone!!! it's rosie from the video! i just wanna say thank you to mark for the opportunity & thank you for all the supportive comments. i was really nervous to tell my story, reading all the comments i finally felt seen & heard, i can't thank you guys enough for hearing my story, to all those out there who have been through similar or are currently struggling please know that you are not alone, speak your truth, i felt trapped & i believed there was no way out of my home life but there are so many resources for us survivors, there are so many people who want to help us, big shoutout to Hope of the Valley they helped me stay off the streets & provided me shelter, i hope to continue to find light in all this darkness thank you guys!!
You are such a brave young lady for sharing your horrific story with us all Rosie, and here you are concerned for the welfare of others in a similar predicament. From the first moment that you started to speak here, I could sense your emotional intelligence and warmth as a person. Please keep working towards recovery and building the life that you so richly deserve ❤
Hi Rosie. You are heard and seen Mama. I’m sorry you went through this abuse and for so long. You deserved to have been protected from that monster. Thank you for speaking up now. I know you wish it would have been sooner, but I hope you realize that even now, your voice is just as powerful and it’s making a big impact. Your voice not only represents your sister, but also so many kids who have dealt with their own monster. Congrats on the apartment! Sending you a big hug! ❤️ ~Daci
Right? If I'm concerned about someone being alone with my kid I would never A: be around this guy and B: leave the room without bringing them with me like what? Come on
Rosie, I never comment on Mark's videos, but you need to hear this: You are in the middle of breaking the cycle of generations of abuse. It is hard work; it is GOOD work. You are a survivor right now, but you will thrive. Hold tight to those people who support this work, and steer wide of people who try to drag you into their own cycles of abuse (drugs, trafficking, other self-harming escapism tactics). You are worth the work. Your family is stuck in the cycle. You may forgive them in time, but your forgiveness will be for YOU, for YOUR peace, on YOUR timeline. I care so much about you, and I believe in you.
This cycle is painful and terrifying to face, but getting out of it is so worth it. I refuse to live the same pain of my ancestors to spite my own self. I refuse to abuse those who show me empathy because I am envious of their ability to see good. This world was made with a spot for all of us, and I will achieve all I want and need from this life and give all that falls freely from me, to others. There is no one size fits all, there is no specific timeframe; your peace is worth the work and patience of confronting your inherited pain. ♥️
Boomers/Gen x (and yes Gen X here myself) are among the worst parents when it comes to pedophilia. I'm lucky I wasn't harmed by a parent or relative....but when I told my mom that a FEMALE doctor assaulted me when I was merely 5 years old, she told me to "shut up."
Blows my mind how women continually get blamed for the bad behavior of men. Many women are financially dependent or culturally/religiously taught to stay with the man no matter what. If she’s an Immigrant she may have limited resources and the daughter said in the video that she was getting abused herself. How about you place the blame where it should be; on the father. The ultimate betrayal is a parent choosing to sexually abuse their child. It is tragic that it was enabled by the mother however the abuser is responsible for his actions.
Im so sorry Rosie this happened to you. God bless you. < 3 . I went through this very simular with my mom and dad they never protected me or helped me with anythimg. They just kept telling me they wish i was dead and that im nothing but a burden.
As a male survivor that was also fed to the wolves by my mom, what pisses me off more than the perps themselves, is the spineless, cowardly non-action of those that allow it to happen. My heart hurts for you Rosie, but know that the experience can hone you as strong as chiseled steel, but can also fill you with compassion and love for others that have experienced similar trauma. How do I know? I’m now 63 and have a great life.
Some that stand by do so because they themselves feel powerless because they too had been victims of abuse as children. What I want to know, to all the men out there, why do you not address toxic MALENESS that permeates our society? You rape, you molest, you physically, sexually, emotionally abuse and wreck so many generations of women yet you all do nothing to figure out what to do to FIX your gender.
Why women choose to be with monsters is beyond me, especially when you see attractive women who have all of the options with abusive men it makes no sense.
1000000%!!! I love my husband but if I ever had a thought he was doing something inappropriate with any one of our kids it would be over! When you become a parent it’s your job to protect your children at all costs!
I think they feel powerless to speak out against it. Also, there's shame in some cultures, which they want to preserve their reputation and protect the abuser from punishment
This girl is going to be a success story. She’s got it all- she’s smart, she’s gorgeous, she’s insightful, she’s aware. Can’t wait to see what she goes on to do.
This is why I have to watch these videos in moderation.... This broke my heart. So beautiful. So young. So smart. I sincerely wish you the best in life.
@@jasonbourne5142as a Christian, this rhetoric is not at helpful and borderline evil to say to a victim. You’re insinuating that a demon made him do those things, not that he was just an evil man. Evil people exist, WITHOUT demonic influence. Take that rhetoric and shove it up your backside. Don’t you EVER say that to a victim.
I just donated to Hope the Valley rescue mission in Rosie's honor. I have a daughter Rosie's age and this breaks my heart. As a father, my purpose in life, the only thing that matters to me, is the well-being and happiness of my children. I'm shattered that there are parents out there who would hurt their children, or allow them to be hurt. Thanks Mark for bringing this to us, and Rosie for motivating me to help, just a little.
Hope of the Valley helped Rosie and her sister get their own apartment, which they just moved into last week. Donations in Rosie’s name to my channel’s GoFundMe will be given to her.
I felt I was ok with my abusive childhood. Then I had a child and it made me angry. I love her so much and would do anything to protect her. Why didn’t my mom feel the same?
Im hispanic, and I've talked to my family about what my cousins did to me. Its like they dont care, I suffer every day, and they get to live life like they did nothing wrong. Im so sorry for that little girl who lost her innocence. I pray you heal and are always surrounded by good people and lots of love.
@@commentpotato_0Ik it sounds crazy but yes, high areas of poverty correlate with with things like this. Whether it’s the poverty itself or the mindset of the people is a different question
In our Latino culture, they say that “family comes first” or “family is everything” so when you go through this type of trauma everyone will turn on you and you will always be the outsider when you speak out against this bs behavior. I applaud anyone who is brave enough to speak out. Cut them out of your life! The titles they hold don’t mean s**t when their behavior speaks for them. Stay strong Rosie! No estas sola ❤
“Latino” means Latin and of Latin origin. Hence the term LATIN_o. Indigenous Americans and mestizo Americans etc. of south Central America and Mexico are Not ethnically Latino and never have been. HISPANIC LITERALLY MEANS SPAIN. AND THE CULTURA LATINA-THE LATIN CULTURE, THE LATIN PEOPLE, THE LATINO TRIBES (Latini), THE LATIN ETHNICITY AND THE LATIN LANGUAGE ALL COME FROM ITALY! LATINO IS THE SOLE IDENTITY OF SOUTHERN EUROPEAN LATIN MEDITERRANEAN DIASPORA WHOS ETHNICITY AND CULTURE COMES FROM THE TRUE AND REAL LATINO ANCESTORS OF ITALY. And Hispanic is literally the Latin language for Spain not the native Americans they colonized such as those Of south, Central American and Mexican origins weather you or others like you acknowledged it or not. Both Hispanic & Latin/Latino culture come from Europe that is Latin Europe. & Latin Europe was Latinized by Italy hence how Latina Italy got the historical Latin name LATINA! LATINO= SOUTHERN EUROPEAN LATIN MEDITERRANEAN DIASPORA OF THE LATINO ANCESTORS OF ITALY. Hispanic is the name the TRUE Latino people of Rome/Italy gave the Spaniards. People from south central America and Mexico are historically native Americans & now some Mestizos whom where just forced to learn Hispanic ways just like people in North America who where forced to learn English ways and it ends there. Being culturally UNROOTED due to brainwashed acculturation is why so many Americans especially North Americans don’t know their own identity Nor even care.TRUE Latin people need representation in North America as we are misrepresented all day long in this country and it’s not ok. Culturally rooted proud People native to south Central America and Mexico who embrace their true identity feel the same way with FALSE brands like Hispanic and Latino as that is Not their origin it is the origin of their conquerors. South Central Americans and Mexicans are indigenous Americans, mestizo Americans, Castizo Americans, zambos, pardos, sub Saharans etc. Not Latins, Not Latin Blood therefore Not LATIN_O. LATINOS are SOUTHERN EUROPEAN LATINS born anywhere in the world who’s roots come from the LATIN Roman Empire of the Mediterranean Race. Again HENCE HOW LATINA ITALY GOT THE HISTORICAL LATIN NAME LATINA! If those like you want to claim the Hispanic identity and origins of Spain then what ever. HOWEVER us culturally aware true Latin Mediterranean people are tired of this brainwashed American obsession with misappropriation and cultural rape of foreign Latin terms from Italy. Supporting American Brainwashed cultural theft for “gain” and “benefit” does Not magically change this. CULTURALLY REMOVED North Americans need to learn and respect their true culture that way they can stop stealing from mine. & TRUE LATINO MEN & WOMEN AKA SOUTHERN EUROPEANS HAVE ALWAYS BEEN MULTI GENETICALLY MIXED ETHNIC PEOPLE DUE TO OUR MIDDLE EASTERN, NORTH AFRICAN & ETHNIC BALKAN DNA. THIS CULTURAL RAPE TOWARDS THE TRUE LATIN PEOPLE OF ITALY EXIST BECAUSE THOSE LIKE YOU BELIEVE YOU HAVE & WILL CONTINUE TO “BENEFIT” FROM THE CULTURAL THEFT TOWARDS US TRUE LATINO MEDITERRANEANS WHO DESCEND FROM ITALY! THE TERM LATINO DERIVES FROM THE VERY FIRST LATIN TRIBE CALLED THE LATINI. LATINI IS PLURAL FOR LATINO AS LATINO IS SINGULAR FOR LATINI. THEY WERE CALLED LATINI BECAUSE IT WAS A TRIBE OF MANY PEOPLE HENCE THE PLURAL TERM FOR LATINO BEING LATINI. LATINO REFERS TO A SINGULAR FORM OF BEING LATINI AND ALL THE LATINI INFLUENCES. THE SAME WITH LATINA BEING SINGULAR AND LATINE BEING PLURAL IN THE LATIN/ITALIAN LANGUAGE. THESE ARE ALL TERMS CREATED SOLELY BY THE TRUE LATINO MEDITERRANEAN ANCESTORS OF ITALY. YOU CAN NOT BE PART OF AN ORIGIN, HISTORY AND ETHNICITY WHICH YOUR ANCESTORS FACTUALLY ARE NOT HISTORICALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR. END OF STORY. IT HAS BECOME TRENDING PROPAGANDA FOR THOSE WHO ARE NOT OF PROMINENT LATIN MEDITERRANEAN ORIGIN TO MISAPPROPRIATE LATIN EUROPEAN TERMS OF ITALY AS TRENDING PROPAGANDA TO APPEAR MORE DESIRABLE FOR SOCIAL STATUS FOR SOCIAL ADVANTAGE. AND IT NEEDS TO BE EXPOSED AND PUT TO AN END. PERIOD. there is No sono Latino/ soy Latino when you are Not of actual Mediterranean Latin diaspora, specifically of prominent Mediterranean Italian diaspora. There is No “our Latino culture” when you do Not descend from the SOLE people who are historically responsible for the Cultura Latina the Latin culture. And it is delusional to believe so.
Stay strong Rosie. Thank you for speaking up and sharing the story. Hope this will inspire more victims out there to be strong and speak up to themself! Sending you hugs and love.
Mark, please keep us updated with Rosie if you can. You can tell she is a good person and I really only want the best for her. Is there anyway we can set up a gofundme specifically for her? I really want to help her and I'm sure others do as well. Rosie, please keep your head up if you see this. I believe you and shame on your mother for not supporting you.
Abuse is a cycle, she shared her mother was abused as a child. Sometimes woman have low self esteem and are trapped. Especially if the man is a good provider. It’s easy to say what you would do but it’s not easy. When you call police the police side with the man. In the 90 s they’d say go to a hotel for the night. After all we are talking married couples and families.
Speaking as a incest survivor, i can confirm, the mother not protecting the daughter is just as traumatic as the abuse suffered at the hands of the father. Im 58 and finally stopped contact with my mother two years ago. She was still in contact with my father via facebook, like nothing had happened 😢 my heart goes out to all young girls suffering this abuse ❤️
My mom is still in contact with my abuser as well. I don’t understand it. However, I’m not as strong as you and didn’t cut my mom off. For me my mom not protecting me was way worst than the abuse. My entire family knew and no one put a stop to it. Come to find out my mom was selling me for beer and cigarettes.
Thank you for sharing your story and your resilience. I think it’s a lot worse when your so called protector takes a blind eye and is complicit to the abuse. The betrayal and hurt people go through is just horrible.
Your mother is as guilty as your father and the number 1 enabler to the abuse….this so sad!! Praying for you Rosie and I’m so sorry that you are going thru this horrible experience.
As someone who comes from Arab culture, this is unfortunately common. These women are male identified. They will tell you to "cover up" as if its your fault for tempting the husband.
I blamed my mother for years but as I got older I realized when you are poor or combined with poor and uneducated you feel like you have no options to even survive if you don’t have the man in the home. It basically turns being poor into a crime all in it’s own class. The mom probably stays stressed thinking , no not thinking, but knowing you gotta watch every move made by this man to protect her girls must be exhausting on top of everything else. I’m rambling and probably not making much sense but I know there can be many sides. I would like to think any mom would go to the ends of the earth to protect their babies I just know that in reality it’s harder than some may think to do the 100% right thing sometimes for the most messed up reasons.
Devastating is not a strong enough word in hearing this story. As a father with all girls, I cannot begin to fathom how a man can look at his own daughters with anything less than the purest form of love. I cried for you Rosie. And always will.
Rosie I was sexually abused by several step father's step grandpas my biological grandfather and step uncles. My mother knew everything!!!! I was more angry with her than my abusers also. I feel a connection with you and your story. Im so proud of you for sticking up for yourself. I spoke up All the time and my mom would just turn the other cheek. Absolutely sickening im 46 now and haven't spoken to any of ny biological family since I was 14. My grandma aunt and all the family shunned me for speaking up and reporting my last step father best thing ive ever done. It was hard supporting myself at such a young age. I went through hell trying to deal with my emotions but truthfully I will always struggle it never goes away. But at least today im not suffocating from my trauma it doesn't go away but t gets somewhat better. Keep your head up and always remember that you are a survivor!!! Thoughts and prayers sent your way ❤️
Im so proud of you! I was abused for almost 10 years growing up. Age 4(maybe even earlier)-11 or 12. My mom’s dad was the perpetrator. He’s dead since 2004. Even when he was bed ridden he tried to grab my hand and force me to to let him touch me. The worst horror of my life. I cried of relief the day he died. 35 years old now and thank god for a few years of therapy to get me passed my immense amount of anger I felt towards my mom, my grandma and that family. I told my mom when I was 7 years old she denied he would touch us. We drove to my grandparents house every weekend from Los Angeles to Rancho Cucamonga. It didn’t stop for another 4-5 years. Thank god got therapy.
my mom experienced something similar. she was molested and sexually harrased by her uncle--my grandmother's brother--and *no one cared.* his funeral was a big deal, and when my mom refused to attend, my grandmother gave her so much shit for it. appalling. i hate her. the way the women of our family will bend over backwards to ignore the horrible actions of their sons, husbands, brothers, uncles. it makes me sick. it makes me sick that you had to go through this. breaking the cycle of abuse is so hard, but it's so important. you're stronger than you know, and you still have so much life ahead of you. you got this.
What a beautiful young lady, articulate, intelligent both academically and emotionally who has suffered her whole childhood from the worst kind of abuse, sexual abuse from her father and unprotected, unloved, neglected and dismissed by her mother. Wishing you a good strong recovery Rosie, you will make it and from that recovery will be able to help others suffering in a similar way.
Rosie your insight and wisdom will take you far. Use your time now to heal...and then set your childhood aside. Let the dysfunction of your parents be your catalyst for a better future. Someday you will be a great mother!!❤
Side note but the pandemic worried me so much because I thought of all the kids that had school to escape their unstable homes. That’s all I thought about. She was stuck there with no school no work. I’m so sorry this happened to you. What makes me more angry is her mom saying to lock her door. Wow.
“I’m uncomfortable with myself now” was such a powerful line for me. Your pain radiates through the screen, but so does your strength. Thank you for speaking out, giving a voice to those who haven’t found theirs yet. ❤️
Hey kiddo I have almost the same story. It has taken me 17 years to completely heal. I finally realized my mom is a weak narcissist and it’s best to go no contact with those types of parents. Take this time to recover and love yourself completely. The universe will provide you a mother and father that’ll never hurt you. I’m thinking about you and sending you the biggest hug. I’m sorry you went through this and I’m sorry you have to parent yourself. You’re so incredibly strong. Please never forget that.
Being Mexican and around the Mexican culture I know how hush hush things can become and it’s heartbreaking how many victims and stories go unknown and you became a voice for many of those. Being vulnerable is the strongest thing a person can do and I hope nothing but healing and prosperity for you girl
I’m so sorry you all had bad experiences with your fathers my Black Mexican father from Mexico was always loving caring patient and to this day still supports my mom in their 60s he has never done this and when something like this came out about one of your cousins had to be held back from nearly beating him to death. I’m so sorry I wish you could experience a loving protective Hispanic father like my Afro Mexican dad
It’s the saddest thing to see her so broken yet so strong. Thank you for sharing your story Rosie. I truly believe by you sharing helped a lot of us girls who’ve been thru a similar life story.
Some people do not deserve to have kids. Her father is disgusting but her mother is just as complicit. I really hope Rosie is able to find her healing and inner strength. She's so young and she can still be happy without those people. Thank you for sharing your story and the awareness that it creates ❤❤❤
Que triste historia yo lloré con tu testimonio pero tu eres una persona muy linda valiente y vales muchísimo deseo que encuentres el alivio para tu alma no te rindas en buscar sobre salir a todo esto
My father was abusive, physically and mentally. My mother also could not leave for over 30 years. She is Asian and grew up being taught that your husband is God for you. You cannot ever leave. This codependency was so deeply ingrained in her, she couldn't act. She was terrified of being alone. I blamed her for a long, long time, and even now I bring it up during fights. Deep down, though, I know that it was not her fault. This is a systematic, deep, deep opression of women, carefully cultivated for centuries, in many strongly patriarchal countries. It destroyed the lives of both my sister and I. My father just passed away last week, not having improved himself at all, never admitting anything. I feel sorry for him. The girl in the video can hold her head up high, know she is a good human being. At least she always has that.
This is exactly why I called the police on my husband. He was my best friend. But the 2 year old foster daughter of mine he hurt was more important than a grown man. He commit suicide two months later. It wasn't my fault. I did the right thing. You did the right thing, Rosie! It's only normalized if you normalize it. Stay strong! Turn that anger into love.
@@FF-fd4tm thank you. That made my day. We were intending to adopt her, but since I couldn't provide her a father, she went back to her grandparents. She was adopted by a family who absolutely loves her. My oldest son is doing much better and my two youngest sons don't remember, as they were 1 and 2 when it happened. Thank you for asking.
@@timmy101able I caught him in the act at 2 in the morning. He was drunk and when I saw him he immediately acted like he didn't know where he was. I grabbed her and my other children out of their rooms and locked us in my bedroom and called the police.
I want to believe you but I used to hear my own mother say things JUST like that in public only to let my father and brother abuse me in private before taking her turn too. I've never met a virtue signaler who didn't use those phrases as a mask.
@@john-ic5pz, In your mom's case, saying those words was virtue-signaling. Those of us who have survived the harm sexual abuse caused don't say it lightly. Online it's impossible to tell. The good news is that those of us who survive long-term profound depression and self-doubt become vigilant about the safety of our children, grandchildren -- all children. The statistics reveal there are many victims of childhood abuse who commit suicide. So, it's good that you've survived. I've learned over the decades how weak my mother was when we needed her protection. If she had not retreated into her room leaving us unsupervised with our inebriated father and friends, or if she believed us when we told her what happened...but that was typical of her: the only person she cared about was herself. I'm in my 70s and am finding it impossible to forgive her. She's 97 and still obsessed with herself. Nothing is ever her fault, and she's terrified of dying.
@john-ic5pz that's exactly what I was thinking. These parents that talk like they love their kids so much and "would kill if anyone ever thought about doing that to their kid" most likely won't. It's an act. Many people don't care about their kids. They just have kids because it's what they're 'supposed to do' by a certain age.
The lack of memory is a trauma response. I have had the same with my trauma. She's a brave woman for telling her story and I am happy she is in therapy. As soon as she started crying it broke my heart ... Rosie you are a beautiful, smart young woman and I wish all the best for you x
Rosie I am with you... I am 47 years old and my name is Rosie and I was molested by my grandfather from 2 -12yrs old... I understand the pain and suffering that comes from carrying a lifetime of shame and pain... Just know that you are not alone in your survival and be gentle on yourself... Every single day is a chance to heal... Your bravery will never go unseen... Stick to Hope of the Valley and their amazing programs... I believe in you from one Rosie to another ❤
Dear Rosie- When Mark asked about your regret, you said you wished you said something sooner. I hear you. What you feel is real and valid. Having said that, I’d like to gently shed a little light on your regret. Please try to see that you DID speak up over and over and over, from such a young age. You spoke up in the limited ways a child is able to speak up. You spent years searching, waiting for someone to hear your cries- especially your mom who should’ve been a reliable protector. As a trauma survivor who has wrestled with very similar regrets, I have a gentle challenge for you: Is it possible that you could reassign that regret to your parents? THEY BOTH are the rightful owners of that extremely heavy burden you carry. You did the absolute best with what your growing mind/brain could possibly handle throughout the years. You are resilient with a strength beyond your years. As you seek to leave your trauma in the past, you will develop your own tribe; a true family who supports you in healing with love and grace. Please keep up with therapy- the work is worth it. Each day, and especially on the dark days, I humbly request that you give yourself the gift of self-care. You are worthy and you are loved. My hope in writing this is that you could somehow feel the strength of a fellow woman-warrior who can tell you, without a doubt, that there is light and love to be experienced as you emerge from your past life that was full of trauma. Your voice is not only worthy to be heard and acknowledged, but your story will bring hope to countless others for many, many years to come. May your soul be filled with peace, may everyday bring a new reason to smile, and may you see yourself as the mighty warrior you are. ❤️🩹 There are countless brighter days ahead for you, dear one. Hugs. -e
I hope she hears these words. They resonate with me. The guilt I held has been similar to you and Rosie. Mine Guilt was for getting under the cover, but it’s not mine to hold, being a child and speaking up over and over in many ways. You are right Erica, she did speak up sooner! Amazing note. I’ll say lastly, I believe in us Rosie. :)
Perhaps what she really means is that she wished she had DONE something about it sooner. Either way, you are right about reassigning the regret to her parents, and the only genuine way to do this is by taking actions against her parents. The only way to properly reassign the regret to her parents is by making them regret what they did. She needs to seek retribution not only for her own peace of mind, but also to warn any abusive parents out there that their victims won't stay as victims forever...
I'm a 48 year old man and a father of 2 girls and a boy and I want to wish Rosie all the best this world has to offer God knows she has suffered plenty.. Cried throughout listening to her telling her story..
It’s horrific to hear how many mothers allow their children to be abused- which obviously is abuse in its own right. Sending prayers that Rosie goes on to have a wonderful, healthy life full of people who value her.
I’m looking forward to a 6 month follow up with Rosie. She is a warrior in the middle of the hardest battle of her life. We stand with you Rosie. We believe you.
she's a warrior? what's that mean? warriors have training, tools, and the support and admiration of their societies. Rosie and everyone like her are just regular people with survival instincts. calling her a warrior is like calling her dad a monster... no, that glorifies what is an every day reality of human nature and the human condition for large percentages of the population.
Dear Rosie, I am sorry for the pain that you had suffered at the hands of your parents. No child should ever feel unsafe with the very people that are supposed to protect them. I wish I could give you a hug and tell you that you are such a beautiful person. Keep up that fighting spirit and know that you are so loved.
This is deeply disturbing and genuinely heartbreaking. I cannot understand how a man can sexually abuse anyone, let alone a child, and let alone his OWN child. It makes one question how often this happens without any consequences. I pray for her and wish to send her healing energy.
Her mother told her never to be left in the same room with their father, but Rosie’s first memory of him sexually abusing her was when her mother left her in the room with him after speaking with him. She knowingly fed her daughter to the wolves that day & every day after that..😢😢😢😢
This actually makes me want to bawl this girl is so beautifully soft and sweet and she NEVER deserved this but I couldn’t picture a better person to come out of it all 🖤 (as a fellow girl who’s been hurt)
It makes me tear up hearing her cry and voice break when she talks about her family defending her abuser ik the pain and betrayal you feel when you speak up and just want some comfort or compassion and just get discarded like it was nothing I’ll pray for your healing
Medical person here: Rosie, Know that you are an honest, very kind & really intelligent and beautiful person, who has the strength to know right from wrong and Chooses to be with Healthy people. You are Definitely Not Lazy, you are appropriately grieving your trauma right now. Just give yourself a bit of time and know that All that you are doing with therapy and being with the right people who support you, will totally empower you and ALL YOUR MOTIVATION will come back and you will make your dreams come true!! ❤from Montreal
Wow! I’m so sorry you had a mother that didn’t put her children first. It breaks my heart when I hear of mothers like that. You’re beautiful, brave, and a remarkable young lady.
But you’re not sorry she had a father who put her through that and was an evil person? Yall are sick people. Im sure thats the last thing she wants to see over “im sorry your father did that to you”
This woman is so beautiful and well-spoken. Her pain is palpable. I hope she finishes her education, stays clean, and creates a safe and nurturing life for herself. Her mother, and father are both the abusers. They are both weak and pathetic.
@@raulchaidez2946Her mother is a fucking hypocrite, she allowed Rosie to be abused and tormented by her father. Knowing 2 of her daughters were being abused she still allowed that man back into their home. while also saying “I don’t know why they are inviting my abuser to our family gathering”. Her mother is clearly in the wrong as well.
@raulchaidez2946 her mother is just as complicit as her father. Her mother allowed her father to continue abusing Rosie. It doesn't take away from Rosies love for her. Just like many paedophiles. Some were once assaulted too. They just grew up to become the perpetrators. Just like Rosie's mum being a victim and being aware. Yet choosing to live a fantasy instead of reality. She knows and she chose to allow it to continue.
Abusers never get they just rewards . I have a friend who remembers when her dad raped her when she was 3 and he's living it up, never in prison, surrounded by grandchildren from his other kids . She did confront him about it and he said it's cuz he thought she was not his daughter by blood and he apologized . No proof from his abuse. And he has a shit ton of money. He has to much power to br taken down
I hate that she keeps apologizing for crying ☹️ Rosie, it’s okay to feel, to grieve, to process. This is really hard stuff that isn’t normal or okay for a child to endure. You’re so strong for sharing your story, please please don’t apologize! Every feeling you feel is valid and heard ❤
She was right about her mother too. She was indeed a bad mother. You don't sacrifice your children for a bit of comfort. Her older sister and brother are nearly as bad. Ignoring their two sisters' repeated molestation in order to pretend there is a healthy, intact family to return to is grotesque. Rosie, you were forced to be the brave one in your own life, even as a child, and that is heartbreaking. Shed those tears; you've earned them. But don't forget that being treated so horribly has nothing to do with you and everything to do with the monster and his enablers. You preserved the kind, decent heart they treated so poorly. You can have a life full of good people like yourself, people who will treat you with the tenderness you always deserved. Be open to it. It really is waiting for you.
Rosie you have every right to speak up to family members about abuse. Even if they don't want to hear it. It's your body, and no one has a right to trespass your body! Your mother has to take responsibility for the abuse she caused you! You can love your mother, but you don't have to like her or the things she does!! I have been through abuse and learned it's not your fault. Your mother should have been so selfish!!
This comment is from Heaven. She really was preserved in innocence by God's Sovereign grace. And she needs to KNOW, Rosie, you will know... You will be who God called you to be. He brought you through this so that you could be built, and not broken, and help others who, by the free will abuse of others, have been hurt by others. You were placed here by Yeshua to encourage others to take a stand against wickedness. I am not just saying little cliches, I'm saying this with all my being!
Moses who was saved as a baby, out of hundreds of thousands of Hebrew babies, killed a man and was exiled from Egypt and stranded in the desert... All to be sent back to Egypt to help millions of Israelites out of their bondage... Joseph was thrown into a cistern by his OWN BLOOD. His brothers all wanted him gone so they devised to kill him... but he was scared by the kindest of them. But even the kindest of his brothers wanted him gone, so they sold him instead. These people... We overlook them because they are in the Bible and seem more important but they're not... These were humans just like us, and they were treated in extremely inhumane ways. And then we have Jesus. Who has experienced every child's abuse in His very own body. Because we are all living, breathing only by God's power, so it is God Himself who feels these experiences. He feels every atom of pain, to the very same degree of hurt. He loves you... And He has a plan for you. Do not let those demons who have hurt your body tell you who you will be. Ever. Remain in Him, and He will CONTINUE what He started, you WILL be a pure, loving mother. Forever. All of eternity. And as long as you hold His precious, nail-pierced hands, your hands will protect. Your hands will bring life. It is you, Rosie, rare and precious soul, the world is not worthy of. But you cannot let them or any ounce of hatred tell you who you are. Even though every thing in you might scream with pain to lash out. Sometimes I feel like I'm internally bleeding. One of my dogs, that unfortunately I abused by violence because of my poor upbringing when I was little, later in her life suddenly got sick with internal bleeding. She couldn't be touched, or she would bleed internally in the area in which she was touched. I was the only one in her room at the vet when she died. Everyone else was outside crying, they couldn't take the heartbreak. By the time she was sick, I was older and more forgiving and God had changed me at that point. Part of her knew I was better, not evil anymore, but she was still unsure of me... Because some wickedness remained... But overall, I was very sad at how I treated her. And I looked her and I knew she was forgiving me... She was one of the strongest, most gracious and protective dogs ever. When I was abusive, and I would hurt my little baby Chihuahua, and I say through shame and tears, she would defend her. Her name was Winter. You are like Winter, in my eyes, Rosie. You are everything I said about her character. That is you! So, again, you won't be named by your past. Keep looking to the people that inspire you. Mimic them. I've also been abused in some ways. Nothing like you, but still... I have been. We have to honor our pains. And sometimes I feel like Winter when she died. The pain of my experiences, makes everything I go through feel like it is touching me, and I internally bleed. But I also have to tell myself that I'm like Winter. I'm like Jesus. Because I have accepted Him. And I have to let forgiveness win. And we have to remember that, though it seems so evil sometimes, there is always a light, and we have to just fully agree with the fact that everything we go through is especially and divinely placed in our lives to make us into the image of what we lost and what was taken from us, the image of our dear God.
i want to hug her so bad. the emotions i feel towards the mother i can not even put into words. rosie im so terribly sorry you were failed by the very people that brought you into this world. i’ve never wanted happiness and success for a stranger as much as i want it for you. 💔 this is unfathomable
As an American of Mexican descent, I can tell you in our culture sexual abuse within the family is common, and it is kept silent. Because of this, the cycles continue. I’m a survivor and didn’t even realize I had a severe traumatic childhood until my therapist told me. Thank you for bringing awareness to the forefront.
Why, though? My boyfriend is Mexican and his oldest brother is a pedo and almost all the family protects him. What is this? Why is this a cultural thing? The fvck??
I also come from a Mexican family and it happened across several generations. My cousin was abused my multiple family members. My Grandfather molested neighbor children ( he died before I was born) My uncle tried to do it to me and there are others. I never thought of it as a cultural thing
She is so brave, not only to speak up and stand her ground with her mom, but to get into therapy and take the steps to work through her trauma. I’m heartbroken she went through everything she did. It isn’t fair and is something no one should ever have to go through. And it’s a shame her dad is still around and not behind bars.
Rosie, I know nothing can replace a parent’s love and protection, but I hope these comments show you how deserving you are of that and much more. We believe in you.
I have watched countless SWU videos and never commented. But you, precious young lady, are about to create your very own future on your own terms and your gentle spirit and the way, in the middle of your pain and anger, you appreciate your friends and their families kindness moved me so much. Sending you so much love. You are a rare gem ❤️
came from a clip on TikTok immediately searched up on utube.. Was left speechless & heartbroken Ill never understand her parents mindset💔 Rosie idk how you are doing it but Keep On Going ! 💪🏽 Ik You've prolly heard this way tm but Truly Im So Proud Of You ! You're So Strong & Brave You spoke up at the right time Left at the right Time Bc of that u r where u r today ! Ik Something Good Is Coming For You Keep Your Head UP Keep Walking Forward Stay Protected!! ❤️🩹🫂
@@livmoon7279 Stopping by just to add that OP is (most likely) not saying the father does not deserve punishment or isn't the lowest of the low, only that the mother DID NOTHING to protect her daughters and chose the @buser over her daughters. No mother whom deserved to have that title will discover her partner abusing her babies and asking a 4 y/o to forgive her father, another 5 y/o to never be alone with her father and her 17 y/o to accept her abuser back again AFTER knowing what he did to her. The mother (after the 1st discovery and denial) is just as guilty as the father/abuser.
I love this girl so much, and I don't even know her. I wish I could go back in time to protect her and her siblings from this bad man. Rosie, if you see this, just know- you've got the right to feel tired and unmotivated at times. It's trauma response. Be kind to yourself, girl. 💜You deserve it! You're a WARRIOR and a SURVIVOR. The courage to share your story could help so many people. You are not what happened to you. It doesn't define you. You've got your whole life to live, and you can make it BEAUTIFUL. I wish you all the best, and I hope you get all the lucky breaks you need to get your dreams to come true!💜💜💜💜💜💜
I love that you call your mom out. In our culture it is VERY common for moms to not see both sides be one sided about situations. I see it and I hear about it all the time, I am glad you see it and call it out. I hope for the best for you! You can do it, break the cycle and keep calling them out!
This was the hardest video I've ever watched of yours. My heart was crushed listening to the beautiful young woman talk about this monster. This man needs to be in jail. You're a strong woman with your whole life ahead of you. I wish nothing but the best for you moving forward in life x
I haven't watched videos from this channel in well over a year but I'm watching it after the one with Bethany. I've literally watched well over 1,000 homicide documentaries over the years, possibly a few, but these were tougher to get through than a lot of those. The First 48 does a good job of showing the horrific impact of homicides on the survivors, albeit not as much as Mark can with this format. Heartrending stuff.
I'm sorry no one protected you. You are soo strong. You are protecting other children and teaching parents that parents are supposed to protect their kids by any means. You are the mouthpiece for children who aren't able to speak and create awareness that family can be predators too. Thank you Rosie. Keep your head up.
Rosie- if you read this, my mother had a Very very similar situation as you. Please keep fighting for yourself - you’re so young and have a whole life to live still. And As someone who is on meds for depression/anxiety medication can really really help with motivation- it’s a WORLD of difference. You can create the life you deserve just keep putting one foot in front of the other.
generational trauma runs deep especially in hispanic families:’) i hate how common these stories are. my heart aches for you rosie. i am so proud of you for speaking out despite how difficult and scary it is. im so sorry for how awful their reactions were but you are breaking the cycle of abuse and silence. this will probably not be something you can fully heal from but i pray you get pretty damn close to it. you are such a strong person for surviving this and still going, i wish you a life filled with love and good people who support you. thank you for sharing your story.
This poor girl. You can hear the pain in her voice as she tells her story. I would be 100% down for getting some sort of go fund me set up for her to help this girl get on her feet and have a shot at life. ❤
Mark stated in another comment that if you donate to his gofundme and specifically note that you would like it to go to Rosie, that money will be given to her.
I’m so sorry you went through that awful shit. You don’t need to apologize for crying, it’s beautiful to see you vulnerable and open. I really wish/hope for the best for you. And you are absolutely beautiful ❤
This is just so sad. A father is every little girls first hero. Her father was a monster and her mother was no better. Rosie, you are so brave and a beacon of light for so many. May God protect you and keep you safe
Rosie... my heart goes out to you. My mom forced me out of her house when I was 13. A homeless girl in the city. God rescued me... I went to medical school. There is hope for your life. Ditch the drugs...get your education... pray. I am praying for you. Rosie, you are so intelligent, articulate, and beautiful. Oh, I excelled after I left my toxic family. I went from homeless abused girl, got myGED, went to college, and now stand on my two feet. Work through the depression. Your child Will come back to you from heaven one day.
@@5DNRGabsolutely incorrect. Self-medicating with recreational drugs is the surest path to failure. Therapy, school, a job, and building credit. That's what she needs to do. And keeps surrounding herself with stable safe sane people. No contact with abusers and betrayers. Please do not go around on the internet telling people that self-medication is healing. The healing process does not include unmonitored drug use
That thumbnail picture is so cool! She looks to me like some kind of warrior, a strong determined woman ready for a fight, but in a good way, like in movies. No idea of her story yet, but the thumbnail made press play! 😄
My wife is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. She was abducted and raped by two men when she was 5. Honestly, she's the most benevolent human being you could imagine. The work I've put into learning and being with her, and the work we've done together has been gifted back to me 1000 fold. Survivors are incredible people, no matter which stage of their journey they are at. If you have one in your life, you're blessed with a love like no other ❤
I am Mexican/American and this happened to me. Sexually abused by 2 uncles that lived with us. Now I'm 30 years old and i refuse to have children. Thankfully I found my amazing husband who understands and even got a vasectomy.
Don't change your life because of what some garbage humans decide to do. Bad things don't have to happen to your kids. As a parent, you're the protector.
@@Ashley-mc5bi Huh how was I inconsiderate? I just said she shouldn't let others limit her life's potential. If she doesn't want to have kids, then that's her prerogative.
@@the.marinator They're not "letting" garbage humans control their life. Until you've experienced that trauma you won't know that you don't have a choice in how it affects your mind and personal views long term.
When my abusive dad got sick in the pandemic the same thing happened to me. My family told me I had no choice but he was coming home for us to help him. By the grace of God another aunt intervened and didn’t allow my mom to do it
Rosie, you’re the same age as my daughter and if you were my daughter I would be so proud of you. You’re so articulate, smart, refined, well mannered and appreciative of the great people in your life who have supported you - I know there’s something amazing out there for you - I wish everything good for you in your future ❤
Suggestion for you….rent a room, go to a trade school for something like Medical Assisting. If you like it, climb the ladder to nursing. I think you’d do great with your compassion, grit and determination. A lot of schools may only be 6months and help with job placement. Good luck! You’re a champion!
Rosie, as hard as this is to hear, your mother is also your abuser. You will always have problems "forgiving" your parents, and they don't deserve it. Your very best route is to focus on healing yourself, find purpose, and eventually pair with someone who will love you and protect you. When you have children, it's your choice alone whether you allow your Mom (forget your Dad) to be around your children. Don't feel guilty about your anger and drug abuse. Leave it all behind.
You are a warrior, my dear. It's a long, hard road, but you are so very capable of making the journey. Thank you for sharing. Sending you a mama bear hug. ❤
I am a older woman who has lived through sexual abuse from my father and physical abuse from my mother. She didn’t believe as a child or as a teenager. In fact no one in my believed me. He wrote me a letter asking for forgiveness for what he did to me. Mother never did. I guess this triggered me. Sorry that this happened to you. You’re a survivor who is not alone. Stay strong ❤
I loved your last sentence - “ I am happy, I’m free.” Rosie, I’m so sorry for what your parents put you through. Hearing you speak was so inspirational as I see a strong young woman in you. Your attitude to continue in therapy and thoughts of career choices is wonderful. You are an amazing person so please continue advocating for yourself. Be well💕
It's tough admitting you are glad any family member is terminally ill but i've been there. It feels like a chokehold has been released. I'm sorry for what you went through and thanks for speaking up for the younger generations of your family and breaking the cycle of silence 🙌🏼
Wow, Rosie. This was hard to watch. I remember being your age and thinking I loved my mother (she allowed me to be abused from 8 months-16 years old.) You seem much wiser than I at your age. It took me becoming a mother in my 30’s before coming to realizations you already have. Stay strong. You’ve done everything right. Keep making smart choices. No more regrets, no more guilt. Everyday, wake up, stick to a routine, one step in front of the other. Surround yourself with people who want to raise you up. You got this kiddo. (I realize you’re anything but a kid).
What a strong woman Rosie is. She made some good decisions and it sounds like she is very aware that she needs stability and healing and is taking active steps to help herself. It's great that she found the program she's in, too. I hope she finds a job soon.
I’ve lived your life Rosie, my mother would even ask me if my father touched me starting when I was less than 10. I am only 26 but around 21 is when I cut the chord from my father completely. I’ve prayed to remember so I just knew what the truth was and didn’t feel manipulated. Your life is just beginning, and the most beautiful part is we are so young with this awareness. Life is full of mistakes but people like us are able to look at them honestly and confront them, so we may grow to be better people. Trust yourself Rosie, so far when everyone tried to hide your story, you’ve done everything in your power to hold onto and stand for the truth. All of this work you put into yourself will benefit you. You have proven time and time again that a life far from the pain of your upbringing is more than possible, you deserve happiness and freedom, and you will have it!
sending you so much love, friend ❤ I'm 25 and my abuser was my grandfather, but otherwise the same story. I have so little context for so much of my childhood. I also still can't sleep without layers of clothing on because I never feel safe to sleep in less, I'm afraid of being walked in on. I wake up kicking out to defend myself often. I was 22 or 23 when my family finally cut my grandfather off after years of me trying to voice my pain, only because my uncle revealed that he too was abused by him. But the damage has been done. Rosie mentioning the kissing on the neck, the groping in front of other people and not being allowed to wear certain clothing at home made the hairs on my arms and neck stand up. I remember all of that so vividly. Recovery is a lifelong journey I guess, but we'll get there ❤
Oh, Rosie. My heart and prayers go out to you. I cried along with you in this, you are so strong for sharing such a deep wound. As a survivor of my own father, I can tell you that things do get better. I hope you can find the strength to keep going, keep loving yourself. Thank you for showing me that we are never truly alone!
I have a similar story to Rosie's. Still hate my mother to this day for not stepping in earlier. She didn't do anything about it for almost 12 years. Feared for my life and felt alone. It's a terrible thing to have the one that birthed you knowingly allow the abuse all due to the fear of the loss of a money source. Don't know if you'll see this comment but I feel for you Rosie. I hope you find happiness.
i hope you find happiness in the world as well, there is good in life , rosie is my long time friend and i was looking through the comments to see all the nice comments and it touches my heart that she has alot of love and support even from strangers . You are strong and a wonderful person and never give up . I feel everyones pain even my friends coming from a home of abusive parents . I wish you the best
I@silfd2567 I feel for you also. No child should have to suffer abuse of any kind, especially sexual. I wish you good luck on your journey to healing.❤
The stupid mom is complicit and should have called the police. Don’t expect a small child to be careful or somehow aware you horrible dullard. I’m disgusted by these “people.” I’m supposed to have pity on the mom? She’s a full grown adult and she knew what was going on. POS
I LOOOOVE this girl. Something about her. Beneath the trauma there is an amazing person. She's going to do something with her life .. you'll see. She is so brave.
Sweet and fragile heart, you are loved by strangers more than you know. Thank you for your courage in telling your story. May God bless you and keep you in his hands for a peaceful and happy life from here on forward. Thank you, Mark.
hey everyone!!! it's rosie from the video! i just wanna say thank you to mark for the opportunity & thank you for all the supportive comments. i was really nervous to tell my story, reading all the comments i finally felt seen & heard, i can't thank you guys enough for hearing my story, to all those out there who have been through similar or are currently struggling please know that you are not alone, speak your truth, i felt trapped & i believed there was no way out of my home life but there are so many resources for us survivors, there are so many people who want to help us, big shoutout to Hope of the Valley they helped me stay off the streets & provided me shelter, i hope to continue to find light in all this darkness thank you guys!!
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Rosie you are so strong. Thank you for sharing your story & I wish you all the best.
Keep your head up Rosie
You are such a brave young lady for sharing your horrific story with us all Rosie, and here you are concerned for the welfare of others in a similar predicament. From the first moment that you started to speak here, I could sense your emotional intelligence and warmth as a person. Please keep working towards recovery and building the life that you so richly deserve ❤
Hi Rosie. You are heard and seen Mama. I’m sorry you went through this abuse and for so long. You deserved to have been protected from that monster. Thank you for speaking up now. I know you wish it would have been sooner, but I hope you realize that even now, your voice is just as powerful and it’s making a big impact. Your voice not only represents your sister, but also so many kids who have dealt with their own monster. Congrats on the apartment! Sending you a big hug! ❤️ ~Daci
When a mother tells her baby never to be alone with their dad, she knows.
Exactly...😡
Why on earth would she get with a man like that or stay with him!
@@SuperSlimshady1 Exactly..
@@sexysenior8934 some people shouldn't have kids or be parents
Right? If I'm concerned about someone being alone with my kid I would never A: be around this guy and B: leave the room without bringing them with me like what? Come on
Rosie, I never comment on Mark's videos, but you need to hear this: You are in the middle of breaking the cycle of generations of abuse. It is hard work; it is GOOD work. You are a survivor right now, but you will thrive. Hold tight to those people who support this work, and steer wide of people who try to drag you into their own cycles of abuse (drugs, trafficking, other self-harming escapism tactics). You are worth the work. Your family is stuck in the cycle. You may forgive them in time, but your forgiveness will be for YOU, for YOUR peace, on YOUR timeline. I care so much about you, and I believe in you.
Stopping transgenerational dysfunction in our families from continuing is the most important work we can do 🙏
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This cycle is painful and terrifying to face, but getting out of it is so worth it. I refuse to live the same pain of my ancestors to spite my own self. I refuse to abuse those who show me empathy because I am envious of their ability to see good. This world was made with a spot for all of us, and I will achieve all I want and need from this life and give all that falls freely from me, to others. There is no one size fits all, there is no specific timeframe; your peace is worth the work and patience of confronting your inherited pain. ♥️
Beautiful. 😊❤️
@@doyoufeelbonita❤️👏👏👏
"Just lock your door, nothing's gonna happen." like how tf is that comforting?
Absolutely sick
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Boomers/Gen x (and yes Gen X here myself) are among the worst parents when it comes to pedophilia. I'm lucky I wasn't harmed by a parent or relative....but when I told my mom that a FEMALE doctor assaulted me when I was merely 5 years old, she told me to "shut up."
Its a disclaimer that's all.
The ultimate betrayal is when a Mother does not protect her child. I am so sorry Rosie. No child should experience that. Stay strong girl.❤
And when a father does (or doesn't) do the same. Our children are the reason we are on this planet.
Blows my mind how women continually get blamed for the bad behavior of men. Many women are financially dependent or culturally/religiously taught to stay with the man no matter what. If she’s an Immigrant she may have limited resources and the daughter said in the video that she was getting abused herself. How about you place the blame where it should be; on the father. The ultimate betrayal is a parent choosing to sexually abuse their child. It is tragic that it was enabled by the mother however the abuser is responsible for his actions.
It’s not her fault he is an asshole
Horrible insight.@@ravenasana
Im so sorry Rosie this happened to you. God bless you. < 3 . I went through this very simular with my mom and dad they never protected me or helped me with anythimg. They just kept telling me they wish i was dead and that im nothing but a burden.
As a male survivor that was also fed to the wolves by my mom, what pisses me off more than the perps themselves, is the spineless, cowardly non-action of those that allow it to happen. My heart hurts for you Rosie, but know that the experience can hone you as strong as chiseled steel, but can also fill you with compassion and love for others that have experienced similar trauma. How do I know? I’m now 63 and have a great life.
So true, eff the cowards that stand by perps and allow it to happen. They deserve the same disgust.
Kudos to you
I’m glad you made it out and living your best life!
Absolutely! You will have super powers. Believe it or not.
Some that stand by do so because they themselves feel powerless because they too had been victims of abuse as children. What I want to know, to all the men out there, why do you not address toxic MALENESS that permeates our society? You rape, you molest, you physically, sexually, emotionally abuse and wreck so many generations of women yet you all do nothing to figure out what to do to FIX your gender.
Her father is evil , but so is her mother for keeping her in that situation.
Her & her older sister in that situation. That’s pure evil by association
@@_blueshawty6698 Stockholm syndrome is real
Yes, the mother is evil and selfish
Everyone failed this young lady. I hope she can heal 😭.
Why women choose to be with monsters is beyond me, especially when you see attractive women who have all of the options with abusive men it makes no sense.
I’m a mother. I would burn this world to the ground to protect my children. This poor precious angel. God, please keep her close❤
It really pains me that her mother didn’t protect her from this man, I’m glad you’re willing to protect your kid/kids if this ever happens to them.🫶🏼
1000000%!!! I love my husband but if I ever had a thought he was doing something inappropriate with any one of our kids it would be over! When you become a parent it’s your job to protect your children at all costs!
Me too!! Immediately and without hesitation. I would do time to protect my children 110%
You're a good mom ❤
I don't understand how so many mothers lack the natural instinct to protect their children in this way. It's unbelievable
But the man is the natural leader and protector right? Why would she protect? 😂
and the father?
both parents are suppose to protect@@br00klynnative58
I think they feel powerless to speak out against it. Also, there's shame in some cultures, which they want to preserve their reputation and protect the abuser from punishment
@@br00klynnative58 yes we are in the good cases! I would die to protect my son and daughter and probably a strangers
This girl is going to be a success story. She’s got it all- she’s smart, she’s gorgeous, she’s insightful, she’s aware. Can’t wait to see what she goes on to do.
And she seems like a good soul.
After what she has been through, she's still a very sweet girl. Lots of strength of character, so I think you're right.... she'll do well.
You got a crystal ball
I concur! We are all cheering for you Rosie!
I agree ! 💜
This is why I have to watch these videos in moderation....
This broke my heart. So beautiful. So young. So smart. I sincerely wish you the best in life.
Agreed. I watched the one with Bethany right before this one but that'll be all I can get though tonight.
Exactly
Literally these mfs will have me with a house full of people it’s the Scorpio in me😅😅😅
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How can a father touch his own daughter that is sick her dad needs to get lock up wtf
It's called demonic influence
@@jasonbourne5142 He’s not influenced by demons, he IS a demon
@@jasonbourne5142as a Christian, this rhetoric is not at helpful and borderline evil to say to a victim. You’re insinuating that a demon made him do those things, not that he was just an evil man. Evil people exist, WITHOUT demonic influence. Take that rhetoric and shove it up your backside. Don’t you EVER say that to a victim.
How are these people not in prison is beyond me!!!!!
I wish she had press charges on this monster !!
I just donated to Hope the Valley rescue mission in Rosie's honor. I have a daughter Rosie's age and this breaks my heart. As a father, my purpose in life, the only thing that matters to me, is the well-being and happiness of my children. I'm shattered that there are parents out there who would hurt their children, or allow them to be hurt. Thanks Mark for bringing this to us, and Rosie for motivating me to help, just a little.
Thank you for being a great Father to your children.
Thank You ❤
Thank you. ❤
Hope of the Valley helped Rosie and her sister get their own apartment, which they just moved into last week. Donations in Rosie’s name to my channel’s GoFundMe will be given to her.
@@SoftWhiteUnderbelly follow-up after she’s settled, please. 💕
As a mother myself , I can’t understand how a mother can put ANYTHING above her child 😔
I felt I was ok with my abusive childhood. Then I had a child and it made me angry. I love her so much and would do anything to protect her. Why didn’t my mom feel the same?
Because you're a real mother. 💗
Happens all the time, women are weak
Lots of “mothers” out there are like this unfortunately.
@@higgaroc 60%
Im hispanic, and I've talked to my family about what my cousins did to me. Its like they dont care, I suffer every day, and they get to live life like they did nothing wrong. Im so sorry for that little girl who lost her innocence. I pray you heal and are always surrounded by good people and lots of love.
And I pray that for you too precious one. 💜🌌🦋
Very typical Hispanic life
i don’t think it has anything to do with being hispanic but being coward and terrible people. i’m sorry for what happened to you!
Or they say don’t say anything we don’t want to cause problems
Deeply sorry x happened 2 me too
Both her mother and father deserve to be in prison
This is the result of poverty which we have plenty of in the USA.
@@karlabritfeld7104 The land of the free and the home of the brave. Well... LOL
@@karlabritfeld7104 So poverty leads to p---lia, are you for real!?
There are people in terrible situations and they don't r--pe children!
@@commentpotato_0Ik it sounds crazy but yes, high areas of poverty correlate with with things like this. Whether it’s the poverty itself or the mindset of the people is a different question
@@karlabritfeld7104thafaque
Rosie's mother should be SO GRATEFUL that Rosie turned out to be this smart, wonderful young woman in spite of what she allowed her to be put through.
In our Latino culture, they say that “family comes first” or “family is everything” so when you go through this type of trauma everyone will turn on you and you will always be the outsider when you speak out against this bs behavior. I applaud anyone who is brave enough to speak out. Cut them out of your life! The titles they hold don’t mean s**t when their behavior speaks for them. Stay strong Rosie! No estas sola ❤
“Latino” means Latin and of Latin origin. Hence the term LATIN_o. Indigenous Americans and mestizo Americans etc. of south Central America and Mexico are Not ethnically Latino and never have been. HISPANIC LITERALLY MEANS SPAIN. AND THE CULTURA LATINA-THE LATIN CULTURE, THE LATIN PEOPLE, THE LATINO TRIBES (Latini), THE LATIN ETHNICITY AND THE LATIN LANGUAGE ALL COME FROM ITALY! LATINO IS THE SOLE IDENTITY OF SOUTHERN EUROPEAN LATIN MEDITERRANEAN DIASPORA WHOS ETHNICITY AND CULTURE COMES FROM THE TRUE AND REAL LATINO ANCESTORS OF ITALY. And Hispanic is literally the Latin language for Spain not the native Americans they colonized such as those Of south, Central American and Mexican origins weather you or others like you acknowledged it or not. Both Hispanic & Latin/Latino culture come from Europe that is Latin Europe. & Latin Europe was Latinized by Italy hence how Latina Italy got the historical Latin name LATINA! LATINO= SOUTHERN EUROPEAN LATIN MEDITERRANEAN DIASPORA OF THE LATINO ANCESTORS OF ITALY. Hispanic is the name the TRUE Latino people of Rome/Italy gave the Spaniards. People from south central America and Mexico are historically native Americans & now some Mestizos whom where just forced to learn Hispanic ways just like people in North America who where forced to learn English ways and it ends there. Being culturally UNROOTED due to brainwashed acculturation is why so many Americans especially North Americans don’t know their own identity Nor even care.TRUE Latin people need representation in North America as we are misrepresented all day long in this country and it’s not ok. Culturally rooted proud People native to south Central America and Mexico who embrace their true identity feel the same way with FALSE brands like Hispanic and Latino as that is Not their origin it is the origin of their conquerors. South Central Americans and Mexicans are indigenous Americans, mestizo Americans, Castizo Americans, zambos, pardos, sub Saharans etc. Not Latins, Not Latin Blood therefore Not LATIN_O. LATINOS are SOUTHERN EUROPEAN LATINS born anywhere in the world who’s roots come from the LATIN Roman Empire of the Mediterranean Race. Again HENCE HOW LATINA ITALY GOT THE HISTORICAL LATIN NAME LATINA! If those like you want to claim the Hispanic identity and origins of Spain then what ever. HOWEVER us culturally aware true Latin Mediterranean people are tired of this brainwashed American obsession with misappropriation and cultural rape of foreign Latin terms from Italy. Supporting American Brainwashed cultural theft for “gain” and “benefit” does Not magically change this. CULTURALLY REMOVED North Americans need to learn and respect their true culture that way they can stop stealing from mine. & TRUE LATINO MEN & WOMEN AKA SOUTHERN EUROPEANS HAVE ALWAYS BEEN MULTI GENETICALLY MIXED ETHNIC PEOPLE DUE TO OUR MIDDLE EASTERN, NORTH AFRICAN & ETHNIC BALKAN DNA. THIS CULTURAL RAPE TOWARDS THE TRUE LATIN PEOPLE OF ITALY EXIST BECAUSE THOSE LIKE YOU BELIEVE YOU HAVE & WILL CONTINUE TO “BENEFIT” FROM THE CULTURAL THEFT TOWARDS US TRUE LATINO MEDITERRANEANS WHO DESCEND FROM ITALY! THE TERM LATINO DERIVES FROM THE VERY FIRST LATIN TRIBE CALLED THE LATINI. LATINI IS PLURAL FOR LATINO AS LATINO IS SINGULAR FOR LATINI. THEY WERE CALLED LATINI BECAUSE IT WAS A TRIBE OF MANY PEOPLE HENCE THE PLURAL TERM FOR LATINO BEING LATINI. LATINO REFERS TO A SINGULAR FORM OF BEING LATINI AND ALL THE LATINI INFLUENCES. THE SAME WITH LATINA BEING SINGULAR AND LATINE BEING PLURAL IN THE LATIN/ITALIAN LANGUAGE. THESE ARE ALL TERMS CREATED SOLELY BY THE TRUE LATINO MEDITERRANEAN ANCESTORS OF ITALY. YOU CAN NOT BE PART OF AN ORIGIN, HISTORY AND ETHNICITY WHICH YOUR ANCESTORS FACTUALLY ARE NOT HISTORICALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR. END OF STORY. IT HAS BECOME TRENDING PROPAGANDA FOR THOSE WHO ARE NOT OF PROMINENT LATIN MEDITERRANEAN ORIGIN TO MISAPPROPRIATE LATIN EUROPEAN TERMS OF ITALY AS TRENDING PROPAGANDA TO APPEAR MORE DESIRABLE FOR SOCIAL STATUS FOR SOCIAL ADVANTAGE. AND IT NEEDS TO BE EXPOSED AND PUT TO AN END. PERIOD. there is No sono Latino/ soy Latino when you are Not of actual Mediterranean Latin diaspora, specifically of prominent Mediterranean Italian diaspora. There is No “our Latino culture” when you do Not descend from the SOLE people who are historically responsible for the Cultura Latina the Latin culture. And it is delusional to believe so.
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Stay strong Rosie. Thank you for speaking up and sharing the story. Hope this will inspire more victims out there to be strong and speak up to themself! Sending you hugs and love.
@@elettramia6380 You're writing comment in colonial language and technology aka computer/phone.
I thought she was Asian ( east Asian) who lived in Mexico. Is she indigenous?
Mark, please keep us updated with Rosie if you can. You can tell she is a good person and I really only want the best for her. Is there anyway we can set up a gofundme specifically for her? I really want to help her and I'm sure others do as well. Rosie, please keep your head up if you see this. I believe you and shame on your mother for not supporting you.
Absolutely...this Girl needs help to get Out of everything and get good Therapy....and this PIG of a Father needs to See the Police -.-
Make a donation to Hope of the valley, the place that is helping her
Abuse is a cycle, she shared her mother was abused as a child. Sometimes woman have low self esteem and are trapped. Especially if the man is a good provider. It’s easy to say what you would do but it’s not easy. When you call police the police side with the man. In the 90 s they’d say go to a hotel for the night. After all we are talking married couples and families.
@@carlitasway2477so women will put up with anything to not be accountable for themselves or their expenses? Sound right to me..
Yes please …. She deserves only the best in life ❤
Speaking as a incest survivor, i can confirm, the mother not protecting the daughter is just as traumatic as the abuse suffered at the hands of the father. Im 58 and finally stopped contact with my mother two years ago. She was still in contact with my father via facebook, like nothing had happened 😢 my heart goes out to all young girls suffering this abuse ❤️
My mom is still in contact with my abuser as well. I don’t understand it. However, I’m not as strong as you and didn’t cut my mom off.
For me my mom not protecting me was way worst than the abuse. My entire family knew and no one put a stop to it. Come to find out my mom was selling me for beer and cigarettes.
Thank you for sharing your story and your resilience. I think it’s a lot worse when your so called protector takes a blind eye and is complicit to the abuse. The betrayal and hurt people go through is just horrible.
I’m so sorry you were & still are let down & betrayed SO badly by those whose role is to protect you
Your mother is as guilty as your father and the number 1 enabler to the abuse….this so sad!! Praying for you Rosie and I’m so sorry that you are going thru this horrible experience.
As someone who comes from Arab culture, this is unfortunately common. These women are male identified. They will tell you to "cover up" as if its your fault for tempting the husband.
I blamed my mother for years but as I got older I realized when you are poor or combined with poor and uneducated you feel like you have no options to even survive if you don’t have the man in the home. It basically turns being poor into a crime all in it’s own class. The mom probably stays stressed thinking , no not thinking, but knowing you gotta watch every move made by this man to protect her girls must be exhausting on top of everything else. I’m rambling and probably not making much sense but I know there can be many sides. I would like to think any mom would go to the ends of the earth to protect their babies I just know that in reality it’s harder than some may think to do the 100% right thing sometimes for the most messed up reasons.
I hope she reports this to the police. Abusers never stop
@@elizabethbray4467you’re despicable defending child abuse!!! Sicko.
Devastating is not a strong enough word in hearing this story. As a father with all girls, I cannot begin to fathom how a man can look at his own daughters with anything less than the purest form of love. I cried for you Rosie. And always will.
Well said, Sir. I have daughters too and this breaks my heart. It’s the ultimate betrayal and sin.
Pedophile father
This makes me furious as a father mothers need to put their foot down and stop letting this happen to our kids
I’m so sorry, Rosie 💔
What about the women? Disgusting
Rosie I was sexually abused by several step father's step grandpas my biological grandfather and step uncles. My mother knew everything!!!! I was more angry with her than my abusers also. I feel a connection with you and your story. Im so proud of you for sticking up for yourself. I spoke up All the time and my mom would just turn the other cheek. Absolutely sickening im 46 now and haven't spoken to any of ny biological family since I was 14. My grandma aunt and all the family shunned me for speaking up and reporting my last step father best thing ive ever done. It was hard supporting myself at such a young age. I went through hell trying to deal with my emotions but truthfully I will always struggle it never goes away. But at least today im not suffocating from my trauma it doesn't go away but t gets somewhat better. Keep your head up and always remember that you are a survivor!!! Thoughts and prayers sent your way ❤️
They should be publicly shamed. Not protected!
Sick evil perverts,so sorry.
Im so proud of you! I was abused for almost 10 years growing up. Age 4(maybe even earlier)-11 or 12. My mom’s dad was the perpetrator. He’s dead since 2004. Even when he was bed ridden he tried to grab my hand and force me to to let him touch me. The worst horror of my life. I cried of relief the day he died. 35 years old now and thank god for a few years of therapy to get me passed my immense amount of anger I felt towards my mom, my grandma and that family. I told my mom when I was 7 years old she denied he would touch us. We drove to my grandparents house every weekend from Los Angeles to Rancho Cucamonga. It didn’t stop for another 4-5 years. Thank god got therapy.
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Thank you for sharing this
my mom experienced something similar. she was molested and sexually harrased by her uncle--my grandmother's brother--and *no one cared.* his funeral was a big deal, and when my mom refused to attend, my grandmother gave her so much shit for it. appalling. i hate her. the way the women of our family will bend over backwards to ignore the horrible actions of their sons, husbands, brothers, uncles. it makes me sick. it makes me sick that you had to go through this. breaking the cycle of abuse is so hard, but it's so important. you're stronger than you know, and you still have so much life ahead of you. you got this.
Internalized patriarchy & misogyny maybe
@@a.w.3772that and no accountability, they always want to seem like the perfect family.
What a beautiful young lady, articulate, intelligent both academically and emotionally who has suffered her whole childhood from the worst kind of abuse, sexual abuse from her father and unprotected, unloved, neglected and dismissed by her mother. Wishing you a good strong recovery Rosie, you will make it and from that recovery will be able to help others suffering in a similar way.
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Rosie your insight and wisdom will take you far. Use your time now to heal...and then set your childhood aside. Let the dysfunction of your parents be your catalyst for a better future. Someday you will be a great mother!!❤
She lying.
@@ST8OFCONFINE2552go away, troll!
@ST8OFCONFINE2552 Thanks for clearing that up. So glad you're here to share your insight and experience, it really adds a lot
Side note but the pandemic worried me so much because I thought of all the kids that had school to escape their unstable homes. That’s all I thought about. She was stuck there with no school no work. I’m so sorry this happened to you. What makes me more angry is her mom saying to lock her door. Wow.
SAME. 😢
I thought about that a lot too. School is some kids only esca
Same. Every day
I was a self absorbed new father who only though about my family. I never stopped to consider what you said. 💔
@@GrannySoupLadlei bet you're a liberal
“I’m uncomfortable with myself now” was such a powerful line for me. Your pain radiates through the screen, but so does your strength. Thank you for speaking out, giving a voice to those who haven’t found theirs yet. ❤️
Hey kiddo I have almost the same story. It has taken me 17 years to completely heal. I finally realized my mom is a weak narcissist and it’s best to go no contact with those types of parents. Take this time to recover and love yourself completely. The universe will provide you a mother and father that’ll never hurt you. I’m thinking about you and sending you the biggest hug. I’m sorry you went through this and I’m sorry you have to parent yourself. You’re so incredibly strong. Please never forget that.
This gives me hope ❤
She is a remarkable, beautiful, brave soul. She is so much stronger than she thinks. My heart goes out to her and her sister.
She is a real survivor, she accepts what her parents really are, she does not sugar-coat. She is is destined for good things.
wishing you all the best. I'm so proud of you.
Being Mexican and around the Mexican culture I know how hush hush things can become and it’s heartbreaking how many victims and stories go unknown and you became a voice for many of those. Being vulnerable is the strongest thing a person can do and I hope nothing but healing and prosperity for you girl
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Same in black communities unfortunately.
@@tywilliams3891 So true. 😔
@@lyndenmanning what's up with the monkey?
I’m so sorry you all had bad experiences with your fathers my Black Mexican father from Mexico was always loving caring patient and to this day still supports my mom in their 60s he has never done this and when something like this came out about one of your cousins had to be held back from nearly beating him to death. I’m so sorry I wish you could experience a loving protective Hispanic father like my Afro Mexican dad
Only one person hated more than an abuser- a truth teller . My heart goes out to this person :(
Damn, that is to the bone truth.
She is lovely wishing her the best
It’s the saddest thing to see her so broken yet so strong. Thank you for sharing your story Rosie. I truly believe by you sharing helped a lot of us girls who’ve been thru a similar life story.
Some people do not deserve to have kids. Her father is disgusting but her mother is just as complicit. I really hope Rosie is able to find her healing and inner strength. She's so young and she can still be happy without those people. Thank you for sharing your story and the awareness that it creates ❤❤❤
Que triste historia yo lloré con tu testimonio pero tu eres una persona muy linda valiente y vales muchísimo deseo que encuentres el alivio para tu alma no te rindas en buscar sobre salir a todo esto
My father was abusive, physically and mentally. My mother also could not leave for over 30 years. She is Asian and grew up being taught that your husband is God for you. You cannot ever leave. This codependency was so deeply ingrained in her, she couldn't act. She was terrified of being alone. I blamed her for a long, long time, and even now I bring it up during fights. Deep down, though, I know that it was not her fault. This is a systematic, deep, deep opression of women, carefully cultivated for centuries, in many strongly patriarchal countries. It destroyed the lives of both my sister and I. My father just passed away last week, not having improved himself at all, never admitting anything. I feel sorry for him. The girl in the video can hold her head up high, know she is a good human being. At least she always has that.
Everyone who sees this video who knows this girl and her parents, will know what her parents did.
Rosie you are beautiful. You are articulate and intelligent. I hope you get through your trauma and life starts to treat you kinder.
The culture of silence is breaking because of these brave souls who are speaking up for themselves and for all victims.
This is exactly why I called the police on my husband. He was my best friend. But the 2 year old foster daughter of mine he hurt was more important than a grown man. He commit suicide two months later. It wasn't my fault. I did the right thing. You did the right thing, Rosie! It's only normalized if you normalize it. Stay strong! Turn that anger into love.
I’m so sorry that’s extremely rough… I’m glad you acknowledge it’s not your fault, I wish you all the best.
Omg! You are a hero! My own mother didn’t protect me. You are the definition of a true mom. How is your precious baby girl doing now?
@@FF-fd4tm thank you. That made my day. We were intending to adopt her, but since I couldn't provide her a father, she went back to her grandparents. She was adopted by a family who absolutely loves her. My oldest son is doing much better and my two youngest sons don't remember, as they were 1 and 2 when it happened. Thank you for asking.
Did you have proof he was abusing the 2 year old?
@@timmy101able I caught him in the act at 2 in the morning. He was drunk and when I saw him he immediately acted like he didn't know where he was. I grabbed her and my other children out of their rooms and locked us in my bedroom and called the police.
It's disturbing how many people go through stuff we will never know.
Thanks for stepping out.
As a mother myself, I can't fathom how a MOTHER could EVER allow this. 💔 I'm so sorry, Rosie.
I want to believe you but I used to hear my own mother say things JUST like that in public only to let my father and brother abuse me in private before taking her turn too.
I've never met a virtue signaler who didn't use those phrases as a mask.
@@john-ic5pz,
In your mom's case, saying those words was virtue-signaling.
Those of us who have survived the harm sexual abuse caused don't say it lightly.
Online it's impossible to tell.
The good news is that those of us who survive long-term profound depression and self-doubt become vigilant about the safety of our children, grandchildren -- all children.
The statistics reveal there are many victims of childhood abuse who commit suicide. So, it's good that you've survived.
I've learned over the decades how weak my mother was when we needed her protection. If she had not retreated into her room leaving us unsupervised with our inebriated father and friends, or if she believed us when we told her what happened...but that was typical of her: the only person she cared about was herself.
I'm in my 70s and am finding it impossible to forgive her.
She's 97 and still obsessed with herself.
Nothing is ever her fault, and she's terrified of dying.
@john-ic5pz that's exactly what I was thinking. These parents that talk like they love their kids so much and "would kill if anyone ever thought about doing that to their kid" most likely won't. It's an act. Many people don't care about their kids. They just have kids because it's what they're 'supposed to do' by a certain age.
I'm sorry yall had such worthless mothers.. 💔
@@keysnlemons7756i wouldnt go as far to say that MOST people don’t care about their kids
It’s hard not to cry along with this young lady. Her pain is so heavy.
I cried too. Rosie deserves so much better. I’m proud of her too.
Yeah I clicked on this expecting an intense game of hide and go seek but instead I got detailed trauma
The fact that she didn’t even know what happened made it a lot less sad for me.
fucking incel that is called trauma your mind will block the bad memories@@Seargent_Scraps
fucking incel@@Seargent_Scraps
The lack of memory is a trauma response. I have had the same with my trauma. She's a brave woman for telling her story and I am happy she is in therapy. As soon as she started crying it broke my heart ... Rosie you are a beautiful, smart young woman and I wish all the best for you x
Rosie I am with you... I am 47 years old and my name is Rosie and I was molested by my grandfather from 2 -12yrs old... I understand the pain and suffering that comes from carrying a lifetime of shame and pain... Just know that you are not alone in your survival and be gentle on yourself... Every single day is a chance to heal... Your bravery will never go unseen... Stick to Hope of the Valley and their amazing programs... I believe in you from one Rosie to another ❤
Dear Rosie- When Mark asked about your regret, you said you wished you said something sooner. I hear you. What you feel is real and valid. Having said that, I’d like to gently shed a little light on your regret. Please try to see that you DID speak up over and over and over, from such a young age. You spoke up in the limited ways a child is able to speak up. You spent years searching, waiting for someone to hear your cries- especially your mom who should’ve been a reliable protector. As a trauma survivor who has wrestled with very similar regrets, I have a gentle challenge for you: Is it possible that you could reassign that regret to your parents? THEY BOTH are the rightful owners of that extremely heavy burden you carry. You did the absolute best with what your growing mind/brain could possibly handle throughout the years. You are resilient with a strength beyond your years. As you seek to leave your trauma in the past, you will develop your own tribe; a true family who supports you in healing with love and grace. Please keep up with therapy- the work is worth it. Each day, and especially on the dark days, I humbly request that you give yourself the gift of self-care. You are worthy and you are loved. My hope in writing this is that you could somehow feel the strength of a fellow woman-warrior who can tell you, without a doubt, that there is light and love to be experienced as you emerge from your past life that was full of trauma. Your voice is not only worthy to be heard and acknowledged, but your story will bring hope to countless others for many, many years to come. May your soul be filled with peace, may everyday bring a new reason to smile, and may you see yourself as the mighty warrior you are. ❤️🩹 There are countless brighter days ahead for you, dear one. Hugs. -e
I love this post very very much thank you. And thank you Rosie
I hope she hears these words. They resonate with me. The guilt I held has been similar to you and Rosie. Mine Guilt was for getting under the cover, but it’s not mine to hold, being a child and speaking up over and over in many ways. You are right Erica, she did speak up sooner! Amazing note. I’ll say lastly, I believe in us Rosie. :)
Perhaps what she really means is that she wished she had DONE something about it sooner. Either way, you are right about reassigning the regret to her parents, and the only genuine way to do this is by taking actions against her parents. The only way to properly reassign the regret to her parents is by making them regret what they did. She needs to seek retribution not only for her own peace of mind, but also to warn any abusive parents out there that their victims won't stay as victims forever...
I'm a 48 year old man and a father of 2 girls and a boy and I want to wish Rosie all the best this world has to offer God knows she has suffered plenty.. Cried throughout listening to her telling her story..
It’s horrific to hear how many mothers allow their children to be abused- which obviously is abuse in its own right.
Sending prayers that Rosie goes on to have a wonderful, healthy life full of people who value her.
It’s very hard to believe that there are good men who have no wish to SA children.. so thank you for being good. It helps a lot.
I’m looking forward to a 6 month follow up with Rosie. She is a warrior in the middle of the hardest battle of her life. We stand with you Rosie.
We believe you.
she's a warrior? what's that mean?
warriors have training, tools, and the support and admiration of their societies.
Rosie and everyone like her are just regular people with survival instincts.
calling her a warrior is like calling her dad a monster... no, that glorifies what is an every day reality of human nature and the human condition for large percentages of the population.
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existential warrior
When you have to fight to survive and overcome major adversity while also possibly caretaking or defending others.
I hear you ❤
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Dear Rosie, I am sorry for the pain that you had suffered at the hands of your parents. No child should ever feel unsafe with the very people that are supposed to protect them. I wish I could give you a hug and tell you that you are such a beautiful person. Keep up that fighting spirit and know that you are so loved.
Rosie was not only heard, but just gave a voice to those of people who can’t speak up
This is deeply disturbing and genuinely heartbreaking. I cannot understand how a man can sexually abuse anyone, let alone a child, and let alone his OWN child. It makes one question how often this happens without any consequences. I pray for her and wish to send her healing energy.
Me too man it keeps me up at night it's horrifying
A lot
Most likely Dad was abused. It’s the cycle
@@dimplesp4046it could be, but not necessarily. It’s still a disgusting thing to do to a child either way
Seriously. How does anyone do this to an innocent child, it doesn't get any more depraved than that.
Her mother told her never to be left in the same room with their father, but Rosie’s first memory of him sexually abusing her was when her mother left her in the room with him after speaking with him. She knowingly fed her daughter to the wolves that day & every day after that..😢😢😢😢
This actually makes me want to bawl this girl is so beautifully soft and sweet and she NEVER deserved this but I couldn’t picture a better person to come out of it all 🖤 (as a fellow girl who’s been hurt)
It makes me tear up hearing her cry and voice break when she talks about her family defending her abuser ik the pain and betrayal you feel when you speak up and just want some comfort or compassion and just get discarded like it was nothing I’ll pray for your healing
Medical person here: Rosie, Know that you are an honest, very kind & really intelligent and beautiful person, who has the strength to know right from wrong and Chooses to be with Healthy people. You are Definitely Not Lazy, you are appropriately grieving your trauma right now.
Just give yourself a bit of time and know that All that you are doing with therapy and being with the right people who support you, will totally empower you and ALL YOUR MOTIVATION will come back and you will make your dreams come true!! ❤from Montreal
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Wow! I’m so sorry you had a mother that didn’t put her children first. It breaks my heart when I hear of mothers like that. You’re beautiful, brave, and a remarkable young lady.
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But you’re not sorry she had a father who put her through that and was an evil person? Yall are sick people. Im sure thats the last thing she wants to see over “im sorry your father did that to you”
This woman is so beautiful and well-spoken. Her pain is palpable. I hope she finishes her education, stays clean, and creates a safe and nurturing life for herself. Her mother, and father are both the abusers. They are both weak and pathetic.
No mames dont insult her mother
@@raulchaidez2946Her mother is a fucking hypocrite, she allowed Rosie to be abused and tormented by her father. Knowing 2 of her daughters were being abused she still allowed that man back into their home. while also saying “I don’t know why they are inviting my abuser to our family gathering”. Her mother is clearly in the wrong as well.
@raulchaidez2946 her mother is just as complicit as her father. Her mother allowed her father to continue abusing Rosie.
It doesn't take away from Rosies love for her.
Just like many paedophiles. Some were once assaulted too. They just grew up to become the perpetrators. Just like Rosie's mum being a victim and being aware. Yet choosing to live a fantasy instead of reality. She knows and she chose to allow it to continue.
Thw word for what they are is - evil.
@@raulchaidez2946 wtf!? Did i misunderstand you? You being sarcastic?
Why isn’t this man in prison???
Abusers never get they just rewards . I have a friend who remembers when her dad raped her when she was 3 and he's living it up, never in prison, surrounded by grandchildren from his other kids . She did confront him about it and he said it's cuz he thought she was not his daughter by blood and he apologized . No proof from his abuse. And he has a shit ton of money. He has to much power to br taken down
Right? I’m confused well! The mom probably tells police she’s lying? What about the other kids? Jfc 🤦🏽♀️
This is sad, disgusting, moving, specially for anyone who went through the same situation as her. Never be ashamed Rosie, we are survivors.
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Your amazing!! Thank you for sharing your story, what a testimony!! Love & blessings 🩷✨
I hate that she keeps apologizing for crying ☹️ Rosie, it’s okay to feel, to grieve, to process. This is really hard stuff that isn’t normal or okay for a child to endure. You’re so strong for sharing your story, please please don’t apologize! Every feeling you feel is valid and heard ❤
She was right about her mother too. She was indeed a bad mother. You don't sacrifice your children for a bit of comfort. Her older sister and brother are nearly as bad. Ignoring their two sisters' repeated molestation in order to pretend there is a healthy, intact family to return to is grotesque. Rosie, you were forced to be the brave one in your own life, even as a child, and that is heartbreaking. Shed those tears; you've earned them. But don't forget that being treated so horribly has nothing to do with you and everything to do with the monster and his enablers. You preserved the kind, decent heart they treated so poorly. You can have a life full of good people like yourself, people who will treat you with the tenderness you always deserved. Be open to it. It really is waiting for you.
Undoubtedly, her mother was abused in exactly the same way! - So sick!
Rosie you have every right to speak up to family members about abuse. Even if they don't want to hear it. It's your body, and no one has a right to trespass your body! Your mother has to take responsibility for the abuse she caused you! You can love your mother, but you don't have to like her or the things she does!! I have been through abuse and learned it's not your fault. Your mother should have been so selfish!!
This comment is from Heaven. She really was preserved in innocence by God's Sovereign grace. And she needs to KNOW, Rosie, you will know... You will be who God called you to be. He brought you through this so that you could be built, and not broken, and help others who, by the free will abuse of others, have been hurt by others. You were placed here by Yeshua to encourage others to take a stand against wickedness. I am not just saying little cliches, I'm saying this with all my being!
Moses who was saved as a baby, out of hundreds of thousands of Hebrew babies, killed a man and was exiled from Egypt and stranded in the desert... All to be sent back to Egypt to help millions of Israelites out of their bondage... Joseph was thrown into a cistern by his OWN BLOOD. His brothers all wanted him gone so they devised to kill him... but he was scared by the kindest of them. But even the kindest of his brothers wanted him gone, so they sold him instead.
These people... We overlook them because they are in the Bible and seem more important but they're not... These were humans just like us, and they were treated in extremely inhumane ways. And then we have Jesus. Who has experienced every child's abuse in His very own body. Because we are all living, breathing only by God's power, so it is God Himself who feels these experiences. He feels every atom of pain, to the very same degree of hurt. He loves you... And He has a plan for you. Do not let those demons who have hurt your body tell you who you will be. Ever. Remain in Him, and He will CONTINUE what He started, you WILL be a pure, loving mother. Forever. All of eternity. And as long as you hold His precious, nail-pierced hands, your hands will protect. Your hands will bring life.
It is you, Rosie, rare and precious soul, the world is not worthy of. But you cannot let them or any ounce of hatred tell you who you are. Even though every thing in you might scream with pain to lash out. Sometimes I feel like I'm internally bleeding. One of my dogs, that unfortunately I abused by violence because of my poor upbringing when I was little, later in her life suddenly got sick with internal bleeding. She couldn't be touched, or she would bleed internally in the area in which she was touched. I was the only one in her room at the vet when she died. Everyone else was outside crying, they couldn't take the heartbreak. By the time she was sick, I was older and more forgiving and God had changed me at that point. Part of her knew I was better, not evil anymore, but she was still unsure of me... Because some wickedness remained... But overall, I was very sad at how I treated her. And I looked her and I knew she was forgiving me... She was one of the strongest, most gracious and protective dogs ever. When I was abusive, and I would hurt my little baby Chihuahua, and I say through shame and tears, she would defend her. Her name was Winter. You are like Winter, in my eyes, Rosie. You are everything I said about her character. That is you! So, again, you won't be named by your past. Keep looking to the people that inspire you. Mimic them.
I've also been abused in some ways. Nothing like you, but still... I have been. We have to honor our pains. And sometimes I feel like Winter when she died. The pain of my experiences, makes everything I go through feel like it is touching me, and I internally bleed. But I also have to tell myself that I'm like Winter. I'm like Jesus. Because I have accepted Him. And I have to let forgiveness win. And we have to remember that, though it seems so evil sometimes, there is always a light, and we have to just fully agree with the fact that everything we go through is especially and divinely placed in our lives to make us into the image of what we lost and what was taken from us, the image of our dear God.
You are forever blessed and I love you! I feel your pain! You will rise, in Jesus name!
You, Rosie, will be a GREAT mom.
💖 love and prayers ...
i want to hug her so bad. the emotions i feel towards the mother i can not even put into words. rosie im so terribly sorry you were failed by the very people that brought you into this world. i’ve never wanted happiness and success for a stranger as much as i want it for you. 💔 this is unfathomable
As an American of Mexican descent, I can tell you in our culture sexual abuse within the family is common, and it is kept silent. Because of this, the cycles continue. I’m a survivor and didn’t even realize I had a severe traumatic childhood until my therapist told me. Thank you for bringing awareness to the forefront.
I was about to say this is such a mexican cultural thing. (i too am mexican america) It’s sickening
Why, though? My boyfriend is Mexican and his oldest brother is a pedo and almost all the family protects him. What is this? Why is this a cultural thing? The fvck??
Absolutely true. Bad hombres.
SAchica: I had heard this from a friend who was from same group. Did not want to mention it so, Thank you. The more we understand,the better. Tee
I also come from a Mexican family and it happened across several generations. My cousin was abused my multiple family members. My Grandfather molested neighbor children ( he died before I was born) My uncle tried to do it to me and there are others. I never thought of it as a cultural thing
She is so brave, not only to speak up and stand her ground with her mom, but to get into therapy and take the steps to work through her trauma. I’m heartbroken she went through everything she did. It isn’t fair and is something no one should ever have to go through. And it’s a shame her dad is still around and not behind bars.
There’s no way I would ever stay with a man who I wouldn’t leave my kids alone with. That’s just vile. Rosie, I’m sending you such an enormous hug!
Rosie,
I know nothing can replace a parent’s love and protection, but I hope these comments show you how deserving you are of that and much more.
We believe in you.
I have watched countless SWU videos and never commented. But you, precious young lady, are about to create your very own future on your own terms and your gentle spirit and the way, in the middle of your pain and anger, you appreciate your friends and their families kindness moved me so much. Sending you so much love. You are a rare gem ❤️
This interview was a hard one. I'm so sorry this little one didn't feel safe she is beautiful and my heart goes out to her.
came from a clip on TikTok immediately searched up on utube..
Was left speechless & heartbroken
Ill never understand her parents mindset💔
Rosie idk how you are doing it but Keep On Going ! 💪🏽
Ik You've prolly heard this way tm but
Truly Im So Proud Of You !
You're So Strong & Brave
You spoke up at the right time
Left at the right Time
Bc of that u r where u r today !
Ik Something Good Is Coming For You
Keep Your Head UP
Keep Walking Forward
Stay Protected!! ❤️🩹🫂
Omg, you can hear it in her voice that she’s still so hurt & traumatized about this situation. Mom genuinely betrayed her daughters.
Mothers who let this happen are the worst kind of abusers
and the father doing the abuse isn’t?
@@livmoon7279they’re both bad
What can you expect from them?...they love to get rid of their own offsprings...🤨
@@livmoon7279 Stopping by just to add that OP is (most likely) not saying the father does not deserve punishment or isn't the lowest of the low, only that the mother DID NOTHING to protect her daughters and chose the @buser over her daughters. No mother whom deserved to have that title will discover her partner abusing her babies and asking a 4 y/o to forgive her father, another 5 y/o to never be alone with her father and her 17 y/o to accept her abuser back again AFTER knowing what he did to her.
The mother (after the 1st discovery and denial) is just as guilty as the father/abuser.
@@queeniecobain agree
I love this girl so much, and I don't even know her. I wish I could go back in time to protect her and her siblings from this bad man. Rosie, if you see this, just know- you've got the right to feel tired and unmotivated at times. It's trauma response. Be kind to yourself, girl. 💜You deserve it! You're a WARRIOR and a SURVIVOR. The courage to share your story could help so many people. You are not what happened to you. It doesn't define you. You've got your whole life to live, and you can make it BEAUTIFUL. I wish you all the best, and I hope you get all the lucky breaks you need to get your dreams to come true!💜💜💜💜💜💜
I love that you call your mom out. In our culture it is VERY common for moms to not see both sides be one sided about situations. I see it and I hear about it all the time, I am glad you see it and call it out. I hope for the best for you! You can do it, break the cycle and keep calling them out!
This was the hardest video I've ever watched of yours. My heart was crushed listening to the beautiful young woman talk about this monster. This man needs to be in jail. You're a strong woman with your whole life ahead of you. I wish nothing but the best for you moving forward in life x
I haven't watched videos from this channel in well over a year but I'm watching it after the one with Bethany. I've literally watched well over 1,000 homicide documentaries over the years, possibly a few, but these were tougher to get through than a lot of those. The First 48 does a good job of showing the horrific impact of homicides on the survivors, albeit not as much as Mark can with this format. Heartrending stuff.
This girl is an inspiration. You can just FEEL that she is going to make it out and do really well.
I'm sorry no one protected you. You are soo strong. You are protecting other children and teaching parents that parents are supposed to protect their kids by any means. You are the mouthpiece for children who aren't able to speak and create awareness that family can be predators too. Thank you Rosie. Keep your head up.
Rosie- if you read this, my mother had a Very very similar situation as you. Please keep fighting for yourself - you’re so young and have a whole life to live still. And As someone who is on meds for depression/anxiety medication can really really help with motivation- it’s a WORLD of difference. You can create the life you deserve just keep putting one foot in front of the other.
Rosie you are a STRONG LADY!! I'm from a Native American community and it's rampart here!! Stay strong girl!! Don't give up!! 🥰
Rampart😬😬😬
🍃🦬🍃 Mitakuye Oyasin Mita Kola 🤶🏽✌🏾
How native are you actually? 🤔
generational trauma runs deep especially in hispanic families:’) i hate how common these stories are. my heart aches for you rosie. i am so proud of you for speaking out despite how difficult and scary it is. im so sorry for how awful their reactions were but you are breaking the cycle of abuse and silence. this will probably not be something you can fully heal from but i pray you get pretty damn close to it. you are such a strong person for surviving this and still going, i wish you a life filled with love and good people who support you. thank you for sharing your story.
R u kidding yourself? Heaps of generational trauma happens to all races.
This poor girl. You can hear the pain in her voice as she tells her story. I would be 100% down for getting some sort of go fund me set up for her to help this girl get on her feet and have a shot at life. ❤
Mark stated in another comment that if you donate to his gofundme and specifically note that you would like it to go to Rosie, that money will be given to her.
@jewelsbarbie thank you!
@@brooketheil6551 ❤️❤️
I’m so sorry you went through that awful shit. You don’t need to apologize for crying, it’s beautiful to see you vulnerable and open. I really wish/hope for the best for you. And you are absolutely beautiful ❤
This is just so sad. A father is every little girls first hero. Her father was a monster and her mother was no better.
Rosie, you are so brave and a beacon of light for so many. May God protect you and keep you safe
Shes been needing to talk to someone who JUST LISTENS for a long time!
I’ll be praying for her healing journey!
Rosie... my heart goes out to you. My mom forced me out of her house when I was 13. A homeless girl in the city. God rescued me... I went to medical school. There is hope for your life. Ditch the drugs...get your education... pray. I am praying for you. Rosie, you are so intelligent, articulate, and beautiful. Oh, I excelled after I left my toxic family. I went from homeless abused girl, got myGED, went to college, and now stand on my two feet. Work through the depression. Your child Will come back to you from heaven one day.
Do NOT ditch any drugs until you are emotionally stable...self-medicating is part of your healing process.
@@5DNRGabsolutely incorrect. Self-medicating with recreational drugs is the surest path to failure. Therapy, school, a job, and building credit. That's what she needs to do. And keeps surrounding herself with stable safe sane people. No contact with abusers and betrayers.
Please do not go around on the internet telling people that self-medication is healing. The healing process does not include unmonitored drug use
That thumbnail picture is so cool! She looks to me like some kind of warrior, a strong determined woman ready for a fight, but in a good way, like in movies. No idea of her story yet, but the thumbnail made press play! 😄
Same here!!!!
My wife is a survivor of childhood sexual abuse. She was abducted and raped by two men when she was 5.
Honestly, she's the most benevolent human being you could imagine.
The work I've put into learning and being with her, and the work we've done together has been gifted back to me 1000 fold.
Survivors are incredible people, no matter which stage of their journey they are at. If you have one in your life, you're blessed with a love like no other ❤
What a great comment!
This.❤
“ I just want to be heard” oh honey, I hear you. So proud of you for getting out. You should be proud of what you did telling your story. 😢
Yep you’re right,
so definitely xx
I am Mexican/American and this happened to me. Sexually abused by 2 uncles that lived with us. Now I'm 30 years old and i refuse to have children. Thankfully I found my amazing husband who understands and even got a vasectomy.
Speak up about this 💔, I'm sorry you went through this. It's not your fault.
Don't change your life because of what some garbage humans decide to do. Bad things don't have to happen to your kids. As a parent, you're the protector.
@@the.marinatorDon't be so inconsiderate
@@Ashley-mc5bi Huh how was I inconsiderate? I just said she shouldn't let others limit her life's potential. If she doesn't want to have kids, then that's her prerogative.
@@the.marinator They're not "letting" garbage humans control their life. Until you've experienced that trauma you won't know that you don't have a choice in how it affects your mind and personal views long term.
When my abusive dad got sick in the pandemic the same thing happened to me. My family told me I had no choice but he was coming home for us to help him. By the grace of God another aunt intervened and didn’t allow my mom to do it
Rosie, you’re the same age as my daughter and if you were my daughter I would be so proud of you. You’re so articulate, smart, refined, well mannered and appreciative of the great people in your life who have supported you - I know there’s something amazing out there for you - I wish everything good for you in your future ❤
Someone please give this girl a career opportunity she deserves you are one brave beautiful young lady love u Rosie ❤
She's only young she will be able to figure it out on her own, she seems like a very capable lady.
Suggestion for you….rent a room, go to a trade school for something like Medical Assisting. If you like it, climb the ladder to nursing. I think you’d do great with your compassion, grit and determination. A lot of schools may only be 6months and help with job placement. Good luck! You’re a champion!
💜💜💜💜💎💎💎💎💎
Who are you talking too@@hollyegee2199 ?
Rosie, as hard as this is to hear, your mother is also your abuser. You will always have problems "forgiving" your parents, and they don't deserve it. Your very best route is to focus on healing yourself, find purpose, and eventually pair with someone who will love you and protect you. When you have children, it's your choice alone whether you allow your Mom (forget your Dad) to be around your children. Don't feel guilty about your anger and drug abuse. Leave it all behind.
You are a warrior, my dear. It's a long, hard road, but you are so very capable of making the journey. Thank you for sharing. Sending you a mama bear hug. ❤
I am a older woman who has lived through sexual abuse from my father and physical abuse from my mother. She didn’t believe as a child or as a teenager. In fact no one in my believed me. He wrote me a letter asking for forgiveness for what he did to me. Mother never did. I guess this triggered me. Sorry that this happened to you. You’re a survivor who is not alone. Stay strong ❤
I am so sorry. I see all these comments and damn. I just want to hug you all.
I loved your last sentence - “ I am happy, I’m free.” Rosie, I’m so sorry for what your parents put you through. Hearing you speak was so inspirational as I see a strong young woman in you. Your attitude to continue in therapy and thoughts of career choices is wonderful. You are an amazing person so please continue advocating for yourself. Be well💕
It's tough admitting you are glad any family member is terminally ill but i've been there. It feels like a chokehold has been released. I'm sorry for what you went through and thanks for speaking up for the younger generations of your family and breaking the cycle of silence 🙌🏼
I've been there too. I cursed god when my abusive father did not die of his heart attack. I was 10.
Wow, Rosie. This was hard to watch. I remember being your age and thinking I loved my mother (she allowed me to be abused from 8 months-16 years old.) You seem much wiser than I at your age. It took me becoming a mother in my 30’s before coming to realizations you already have. Stay strong. You’ve done everything right. Keep making smart choices. No more regrets, no more guilt. Everyday, wake up, stick to a routine, one step in front of the other. Surround yourself with people who want to raise you up. You got this kiddo. (I realize you’re anything but a kid).
Poor baby 🥺 you’re stronger than you think Rosie. A lot of people are rooting for you!
What a strong woman Rosie is. She made some good decisions and it sounds like she is very aware that she needs stability and healing and is taking active steps to help herself. It's great that she found the program she's in, too. I hope she finds a job soon.
I’ve lived your life Rosie, my mother would even ask me if my father touched me starting when I was less than 10. I am only 26 but around 21 is when I cut the chord from my father completely. I’ve prayed to remember so I just knew what the truth was and didn’t feel manipulated. Your life is just beginning, and the most beautiful part is we are so young with this awareness. Life is full of mistakes but people like us are able to look at them honestly and confront them, so we may grow to be better people. Trust yourself Rosie, so far when everyone tried to hide your story, you’ve done everything in your power to hold onto and stand for the truth. All of this work you put into yourself will benefit you. You have proven time and time again that a life far from the pain of your upbringing is more than possible, you deserve happiness and freedom, and you will have it!
sending you so much love, friend ❤ I'm 25 and my abuser was my grandfather, but otherwise the same story. I have so little context for so much of my childhood. I also still can't sleep without layers of clothing on because I never feel safe to sleep in less, I'm afraid of being walked in on. I wake up kicking out to defend myself often. I was 22 or 23 when my family finally cut my grandfather off after years of me trying to voice my pain, only because my uncle revealed that he too was abused by him. But the damage has been done. Rosie mentioning the kissing on the neck, the groping in front of other people and not being allowed to wear certain clothing at home made the hairs on my arms and neck stand up. I remember all of that so vividly. Recovery is a lifelong journey I guess, but we'll get there ❤
Oh, Rosie. My heart and prayers go out to you. I cried along with you in this, you are so strong for sharing such a deep wound. As a survivor of my own father, I can tell you that things do get better. I hope you can find the strength to keep going, keep loving yourself. Thank you for showing me that we are never truly alone!
I have a similar story to Rosie's. Still hate my mother to this day for not stepping in earlier. She didn't do anything about it for almost 12 years. Feared for my life and felt alone. It's a terrible thing to have the one that birthed you knowingly allow the abuse all due to the fear of the loss of a money source. Don't know if you'll see this comment but I feel for you Rosie. I hope you find happiness.
i hope you find happiness in the world as well, there is good in life , rosie is my long time friend and i was looking through the comments to see all the nice comments and it touches my heart that she has alot of love and support even from strangers . You are strong and a wonderful person and never give up . I feel everyones pain even my friends coming from a home of abusive parents . I wish you the best
I@silfd2567 I feel for you also. No child should have to suffer abuse of any kind, especially sexual. I wish you good luck on your journey to healing.❤
The stupid mom is complicit and should have called the police. Don’t expect a small child to be careful or somehow aware you horrible dullard. I’m disgusted by these “people.” I’m supposed to have pity on the mom? She’s a full grown adult and she knew what was going on. POS
@silfd2567 please heal take your time I’m sorry
Same.
He is a sadistic, evil "man". Her mom is just as bad.
My heart breaks for you. You are brave. I wish you healing and strength.
I LOOOOVE this girl. Something about her. Beneath the trauma there is an amazing person. She's going to do something with her life .. you'll see. She is so brave.
Sweet and fragile heart, you are loved by strangers more than you know. Thank you for your courage in telling your story. May God bless you and keep you in his hands for a peaceful and happy life from here on forward. Thank you, Mark.