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If a woman cheats on you respect yourself and let her go and be with the guy she cheated with, never you simp or settle, never let a woman who has screamed and moan under the heat of another man mess you up. No matter how beautiful she is be a man and let her go, it's not easy but that's what a real man with dignity will do. Hanging around will be setting yourself up for more pain and disrespect, once a cheat will always be a cheat.
@@belle3055 a man or woman being a human is not in question here, second chance to do what? Men and women are created differently. Men cheat for physical involvement but a woman cheat for emotional involvement, once a woman sleeps with a man it messes up her mentality and emotion unlike a man. She becomes loyal to the new sex partner and resents the old one,so kick her out or allow her to go continue with her new found love. However, man or woman nothing justifies cheating.
@@alexconfidence2354 this all started of great until you said the typical, 'women cheat out of emotions and men cheat just for the physical.' Believe it or not, some women can actually have sex with multiple men without emotional attachment. Hence why porn stars exist, so it depends on the woman, in the same way that it depends on the man. Not every man cheats just due to the physical either,, sometimes it's down to emotional involvement. Don't let a persons sex alone allow you to get those lines blurred
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *Johnsonspy*
Don't go through your partner's phone. Not only is it a huge violation of your partner's autonomy but it's also just plain pathetic. Besides what will it get you? You'll either ruin your relationship by finding out they're cheating or ruin your relationship because they weren't but you still didn't trust them and went behind their back. If you feel the need to do this *Johnsonspy* all this I saw it's just heart wrecking.
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Expertise like you one in a million. You left no stone unturned to reach this result of getting me into my targets phone *Johnson* . I am proud of you. You are the gem of a person!. Scooping her phone activities opened my eyes to a lot of things
I wish I have had someone telling me all this before I got married. My husband of 25 years used to behave like a dictator and all the red flags were there. Emotional abuse is a serious problem in a relationship. From emotional abuse, cheating started.THANK YOU *Johnsonspy* for posting this time to get me all the evidence.
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Thank you my friend. I just found out the girl I’ve been with for a year cheated on me. I loved her more than I loved myself, and I ended up losing myself to the relationship. When I caught her in the act all she did was laugh and smirk, and it absolutely killed me. What was crazy is that she would tell me all these wonderful things, like how she wanted my children, and how she wanted to marry me and build a home with me. I keep blaming myself, but from your video I see that this was a blessing in disguise. You’re right, I deserve so much better, so thank you for putting out videos like this. It helps so much with the recommendation *Johnsonspy* . Much love my friend, take care
He got home from work I told him how I seen him randomly in his tow truck with a girl not woman lifting her head from his lap. He was profusely claiming that wasn’t him. After 21 years I’m more than sure I can. Recognize my husband and the next car over so cuz I wouldn’t pretent like always I believe him he put me in between bed and dresser choking me swear to god it’s true about seeing your life flash before your eyes I begged for my life for him to let go. That was last year since then I have on going nonstop anxiety. 3 days I threw him out I’m running never looking back. Thank you so much for your advice. Just confirmed from everything you said that I am definitely making the right choice because he fits every thing you have said. Your a amazing man *Johnsonspy* lucky woman your wife.
You really helped me. My intuition was screaming at me. She was looking through my phone so I asked to look through hers. Before she did this she started deleting messages. I messaged the guy she was texting and he told me they had been seeing each other regularly when we were together. We were days away from getting married. I really dodged a bullet.
There are men for those types of women too. I've seen a happy open relationship in real life. The woman adores her man but she just needs to experiment to be happy.
Time to move on, evidently she don't have enough respect for herself if she's having affairs outside of the relationship. I've finally moved on from my ex wife and life couldn't be any better & blessed with a woman that puts in the same amount of energy into me as I do her. Everything happens for a reason fellas
One thing I’ve learned from getting cheated on.. is holding a grudge is the worst thing ever.. knowing another guy smashed your chick is heartbreaking.. and knowing another guy has a one-up on you is something that can make a dude insanely pissed.. BUUTT forgiving makes it easier to attract another person.. holding a grudge gives the person who was cheated on a bad vibe.. and others can sense this.. forgiving the cheater but not forgetting what they did was the best option ever.. I can smile and be positive and others sense positive energy making finding new people much easier. Hope this makes sense
If she cheated, I cannot move on with her. She's considered unpure to me, I cannot stay in a relationship after they cheat, no matter how much I love her. Just walked away from a cheating lyer. I cannot do it. And she was the love of my life. I'm gone...
There is no excuse for cheating my wife of 20 years did this and I tried to stay but can not I'm done and I'm leaving she decided to have an affair instead of coming to me and talking about her alcoholism and trying to save our life I'm sickened by her and don't even want to look at her.
Same here, I divorced her, have 50/50 custody and can't even stand the sight of her. Cheating is the most disgusting thing a person can do especially with kids involved, absolute selfishness.
Same story, but I was the alcoholic. Been sober now for 10 years, but when I first got clean is when she stepped out. Now 10 years later, I finally had enough of being a doormat.
Exactly man. I literally gave her my everything. And when I was away on my job, she cheated cuz some guy told her he can care for her more, and love her. And in the end just used her. When I was working to my bone. So I can come back and just talk to her every night. Bad things happen to good people ig. And now she’s all sorry and guilty and saying how he manipulated her, and that she’s gonna wait for me forever. Fuck that shit. I’m not gonna accept that
@@himotiwari my wife of 9 yesrs together 15 yrs cheated and actually tried to tell me i drove her to see another man but they inly kissed though....yeah right meanwhile i heard messages of her plotting to leave me with him she denied that i heard what i heard these women are truly delusional.
Never trust a cheater liar hurts bad to detach day 20 blocked ex gf who cheated 20 months ago and still red flags blocked on her FB whole time where I caught her cheating crazy hurts bad but I'm done.
Most definitely. If a guy stays with a cheating woman, soon enough, she will attempt to pass off the child she conceived with the other man as your own.
I don't think cheating is accidental, moving on with a cheated partner is the biggest mistake of a lifetime, it could happen again and again and again, Jessica your doing a great job, keep up with the good work?
I'm In The Same Situation, I Found Out Last Year Mid And I Have Tried To Forget But In Vain. It Has Hit Me Now After Moments Of Analyzing And Re-analyzing The Event And I Think I Should Hang The Boots And Move On. Infidelity Can Actually Break A Man, It Is A Sign Of Disrespect To A Man Who Loved You, It Means She Has No Respect For You, It Means She Doesn't Love You It Means There Is No Feeling For You, It Means You're Are Not Worth And The Reason She Has Opted For Another Man.. I'm Ready To Move On Now....
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I got cheated on for a while and found out. I was working about 16 hours a day cause I was making good money and was trying to save money so we could do something with our lives. I figured that job was not going to last long and tried to work and save as much as possible. I understand I was not fully into the relationship because of this, but I was doing it for us. I never asked questions when she was going out, I wanted her to be able to have friends and go out cause I couldn't. I trusted her 100%. When I found out she told me that I made her feel unwanted, ugly, that I destroyed her self-esteem, and that the other guy made her feel special and wanted. This happen for about 2 years. We have been together for 10 years. I found out about 8 months ago and I'm still with her. In a way a feel like a total loser for not leaving her cause I'm one of those guys who would tell other friends if your partner is unfaithful you should leave the relationship, but look at me now. I'm not even sure if she's been with other men besides the one she admitted. She would try to talk to me about her feeling lonely but I made a mistake and I didn't listen to her because deep down I figured she understood that I was working for us, for our future together. One thing I don't understand is why she didn't leave me if she felt all of that and she cheated for so long. She is truly a beautiful 29-year-old woman, she could get any guy she wants, better looking than me, with more money than me but she is still with me. I'm not ugly, I'm pretty good-looking also, but I'm def not the hottest around. It totally sucks cause now I don't trust her and she knows it in her heart. We have spoken about it all this time and we are trying to make it work but it totally sucks not trusting your partner. I have been 100% faithful. To whoever reads this, don't feel sorry for me, I just wanted to get it off my chest. I quit my job to spend more time with her and things look better but my heart is totally destroyed.
Quiting your job is the worst mistake you made or will make. Use the time to build yourself and make a better life for yourself, and you not setting boundaries but allowing her walk over you she will continue and lose all respect for you. You did nothing wrong by working hard to beat time, and she has no reason to cheat if she truly loves you. True love is the ability to wait because anybody can say I love you but not all can wait and prove it. I am not an advocate of break ups but bro you are setting up yourself for more pains ahead. Build yourself and pray God gives you a woman who truly loves and deserve you. She should encourage you to work hard while asking you about future plans not cheat on you. She is for the street bro, she better go stay with the man she cheated with because sex deos something to women she will always have feelings and respect for the other guy over you while she is just feeling pity for you. Use your brain bro and be a man, don't settle and never you allow yourself to be messed up by any woman no matter how beautiful or good looking.
@@alexconfidence2354 he is young with very little experiences. I like your words of wisdom to him. I only hope he'll heed the warning! It's only a matter of time before he is broken completely.
Bro I'm here cause this girl who cheated on me just broke up with me yesterday! I was in the same boat as you detail for detail my story sounds so familiar to yours 💔 mine though with different time spans, cheated on me after a year I was working a 12hour shift job got the same excuses you did I stayed cause I loved her I was hurt I didn't want to lose her but in hindsight it was not worth it the two years we stayed together I hated her guts the anger the stress the depression I got from this was not worth it I truly wish I had left earlier I thought maybe we are a special case we can be different from others that's a lie I was telling myself this past two years but I really should've left So yesterday she dumped me and I'm here feeling miserable but all along I knew her cheating was her saying she wanted out and I don't think I'll enjoy losing myself over this It's been two years since I found out bro and I can tell you it's not worth it I thought I'd be a special case reading comments like this one I'm writing thinking all these people are crazy I can turn this around I'll be the special one but some of the best advice you'll get is from strangers learn to learn from other people's mistakes don't walk the road we walked it's not worth it as painful as it is as addicted to her you feel you might be leave bro You going to feel way worse when she eventually leaves you and you were thinking I could change her or she should understand why you shitty to her cause she cheated she won't she'll leave you with all your trauma she's already left you emotionally
I’m so sorry to read these comments. I’m going thru the same. She cheated on me & I resent her. We try to get back to that good place… but I can’t forget. And when I can’t forget, I don’t really forgive. It eats me up inside
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The situation become even more tricky when children are involved;you send her packing and get a real devil to your kids who will mistreate them anyhowly, you ask and told they are big headed.Better to swallow the pride
I’m not as well educated as this professional who offered a well-reasoned framework for thinking about infidelity, but I’ve lived long enough to feel comfortable in asserting this opinion: in the vast majority of cases, infidelity is a cancer that is hard to put in remission let alone eradicate. It’s the reason why the Bible and New Testament in particular is clear that marriage is a three-way commitment for life between a man, woman and God with the only out being infidelity. It destroys trust no matter the circumstances, creates resentment by both parties, and often leads to emotional and physical attachments that are almost impossible to fully heal. Plus it creates and increases the possibility for future infidelity on one or both sides. Really really really hard to recover from…regardless of expert professional advice like offered by this video.
Thank you, Jessica! I just found about it and was thinking on how to make an approach. This video made me figure out what to do next in the calmest manner. Keep it up!
Jess, this is too much unnecessary work no one should burden themselves with. Unfortunately, the next relationship might just be the same or even worse. Solution? People should never get themselves fully into relationships. Have control over your heart and when the inevitable happens, move on like nothing happened.
Again, a no-brainer. She cheats? Show her the door. Don't yell, don't get mad, don't ask why, just show her the door & move on. There're 7+ billion people on earth and more than half are women so why stress?
I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing *Johnsonspy* on the internet put the wind up these low life oxygen thieves. Love what you guys do keep up the Great work mate well done respect....
I feel just as most men will suffocate if they are trapped in monogamy some women too need to be polyamorous to be happy. much respect to you for being able to discuss this topic without sounding feminist or dismissive of any group. It's time people tried to be honest with themselves and let go of overbloated egotism. One person's personal happiness should not supercede another's if they can come to an agreement.
Ohh haha sorry man but if you break up over an argument.. and she sees someone quick after..she was seeing someone WAYY before this “break up” ..and the argument was an excuse to go off with someone else. This is a classic trick.. used by cheaters and narcissists.
@Titan what is the problem with you. Are you just much in love. She gonna stay only with you to keep repeating all these phenomenon you ve seen few days ago. Cheating partner can never be loyal as supposed to. Any little argument she is off to this new guy. Moreover this new guy is now in your relationship equation which she will hardly let go of him. He has become a thorn and but difficult for your woman to keep him out her way. He is now only standby. And this action from the so called is been activated by your same woman. For all you know your woman is bondy with him and come to think of you gonna be fooled all the time. Remember Women cheat with emotion and not just with any other reason. Be alert & vigilant before you are consumed. Brotherhood needs you!!
Anytime someone cheats it’s over. If you got a marriage and a family and want to try and fix it go ahead. It’s over. If the husband cheats maybe you can save it but if it’s the wife then absolutely not. Women cheating is always in a much more devious manner and women lack the accountability and honor to change those behaviors.
I know it's so unlikely but.. If somebody were in a relationship with me, and they weren't feeling it, regardless of the length of time we've been together.. Just tell me. I can do nothing but respect the fact that you told me instead of lying and cheating behind my back. I'd be thankful. That's what real men/women do. Who has time and will power to do all this sneaking around? Come on. Why cheat on someone when you can just tell them you're not feeling it anymore? Is it really so difficult to be a decent person instead of giving someone false hope and holding someone else's husband/wife hostage. Things don't need to end messy if you do it the right way by hiring *Johnsonspy* to do that.
Even for the recognition *Johnsonspy* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
It's selfish to cheat. I'm pretty sure my ex cheated on me. STDs are scary, and I would rather have heart aches for a while . She is a mean person. They all get pleasure . Otherwise, they won't take it.
Cheating is INTOLERABLE for a WIFE/NOVIA! She thought she could FIND BETTER! BE BRAVE and LEAVE! Imagine, you COULD end up TAKING CARE.. of a CHILD THAT is not YOURS!! Lololololol 😂
You can never truly love a woman who cheats again as love is built on trust and you will never trust her again. You love the image of her. Run and try to find something real or you will die bitter and alone even if you stay.
I'm lost at the point of 'if she's cheating but you still love her'. I thought fidelity was one of the tenets of the foundation of a relationship. Anyway......
But letting a woman u love go is bot east. My woman went out with a guy she knew from her tertiary days without my consent.. When i caught her she said its nothing but the guy has been trying to go out with her a for a long time.. she sees nothing wrong with that..
The mother of my daughter has cheated with 3 different guys that I know for a fact from starting July 2023 up until May 2024 all three dudes she knew before me I noticed changes the year my daughter was born 2021 of april noticed them aroung November. 2021 her reasons was I wasn’t there for her because I worked nights 5 6 7 days a week 5pm -3:30 pm it is now October 2024 she’s moving out in 2weeks and the reason is we need space and she’s tired of the arguing and nit picking which I am guilty of but honestly I do have love for her and I’m currently heart broken about everything
I love this girl. Ask her to marry me. But she told me let see as things goes that she has no man has ask herlife . But all of a sudden I start seeing her with a guy. Now I use the no contact rule. But she is with this guy day in day out. I feel like......
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If she cheated, don't take her back. If a woman comes back after cheating, it's because she was disappointed out there and not because she loves you. She wouldn't have come back if her external affair had worked out.
Can I have help? I find my wife spends time on her phone a lot and I keep catching her comment on other guys stuff in a flirty way she always says it’s nothing and then blames me and says I have a problem should I be concerned and she’s always buried in her phone :( what should I do? Anybody can comment
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I have got prove that my gf is cheating on me this morning and but she is dying and crying and begging me to forgive her as I can't even stay with her and she also can't but I feel like she loves me what should I do
Today I found out my girlfriend was living with another man as a roommate and she still says she have nothing to do with that guy and she loves me what does that mean ?
Thanks Jessica,I found out that my wife is cheating , we talked about it but she has failed to change,she even aborted after a separation but she later came back , even after coming I found out she still sleeps with the same guy.the problem is that she even abandoned our only son of 2yrs
It’s really a sad thing ylu went through. What I learnt is as a guy, never take back a woman who’s cheating and sleeping with another guy or multiple guys. Never take back a girl who has gone to date other guys.
My wife cheated recently I found out a week ago she says it only happened once and when I found out she apologized and dropped the person she says she want to work on it but it seems like just words and no action it happened while I’m currently deployed any advice
I can personally relate to this, for I went through it, but thankfully I came out stronger. As a word of advance, cut your losses and move on. Peace 🕊️✌️ from Luanda-Angola 🇦🇴✌️🇦🇴
I'm In The Same Situation, I Found Out Last Year Mid And I Have Tried To Forget But In Vain. It Has Hit Me Now After Moments Of Analyzing And Re-analyzing The Event And I Think I Should Hang The Boots And Move On. Infidelity Can Actually Break A Man, It Is A Sign Of Disrespect To A Man Who Loved You, It Means She Has No Respect For You, It Means She Doesn't Love You It Means There Is No Feeling For You, It Means You're Are Not Worth And The Reason She Has Opted For Another Man.. I'm Ready To Move On Now....
@@CharcharBinks-h8u she said he kept pulling on her clothes she kept saying no but he kept pulling on it and she kept remembering the first time someone forced themselves on her. And just froze up, she said she can't remember what really happened to her fully all she knows was that he did things to her
When I asked her for the full story, thats what she told me. She said she wanted to break up because she blames herself which if what happened was actually the way it happened I don't really think it was her fault she said she clothes she was wearing was tearing because she was holding on to it very tightly Or maybe I'm just in denial.
I told her that sounds like rape not her fault but she said as long as something happened it is her fault and her calling it rape makes her feel like she has trauma now that it's easier to blame herself
HI Jess, not sure if my situation is normal or not, but I fell in love with a lady at work and we had an affair for about six years, she walked away because she didn't think i would commit to her; fast forward 4 years and i send her a message to say goodbye (I'm trying to move on) and she says she wants to see me, so we meet up and i fall in love with her again ! (Important to know is that both of us are married ! ) She tells her husband and moves out, i don't say anything to my family as my eldest daughter is getting married and I don't want to ruin her day. Meanwhile we go to see her ex boyfriend in concert (he's a singer) and two days later she's texting him, 3 days later she starts an argument, then he invites us to stay at his house, she declines and then she tells him she is free (while I'm away ! ) and intimates that she has no objections to either him staying with her or her staying with him , it didn't happen, but she tried to set it up for the following week . I love her so much, but I don't think she would miss me if i died ! Help me, what should I do ?
Good question. Maybe I could help. There’s a saying ‘fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me’. This might seem like a you problem rather than the men. You might be rushing into relationships or you are not giving yourself time to grow and mature. Hope this helped. Anyways I think Jess will have a better answer.
Im actually so fucking tired of everything i see on the internet being so extreme and one sided. There’s some nuance to this shit, saying her heart was never in it or isn’t is just bs. All this talk about it happening again is also bs, multiple studies confirm this. I have just been cheated on and do still love her, i need to cope and im looking in the internet for maybe some help, but these fucking one sided shit stories from nobodies does nothing but make me feel worse. I am sick and tired of having to feel so alone because my situation isn’t as clear cut as everyone makes it out to be. Please someone who stayed with a cheater and had a good experience talk about how hard that was, give me some god damn nuance
My ex cheated on me. I took her back and she did it again. They lose respect for u. THEY CANNOT HELP IT. It's biological. My most recent ex cheated and I already know I can't take her back. The damage done by females who cheat is permanent.
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Even if you let her come back you can't trust her fully like before. It's gonna be worst relationship than been before.
If a woman cheats on you respect yourself and let her go and be with the guy she cheated with, never you simp or settle, never let a woman who has screamed and moan under the heat of another man mess you up. No matter how beautiful she is be a man and let her go, it's not easy but that's what a real man with dignity will do. Hanging around will be setting yourself up for more pain and disrespect, once a cheat will always be a cheat.
Well said.
Women are human just like men!
They deserve second chances too.
@@belle3055 a man or woman being a human is not in question here, second chance to do what? Men and women are created differently. Men cheat for physical involvement but a woman cheat for emotional involvement, once a woman sleeps with a man it messes up her mentality and emotion unlike a man. She becomes loyal to the new sex partner and resents the old one,so kick her out or allow her to go continue with her new found love. However, man or woman nothing justifies cheating.
@@alexconfidence2354 this all started of great until you said the typical, 'women cheat out of emotions and men cheat just for the physical.' Believe it or not, some women can actually have sex with multiple men without emotional attachment. Hence why porn stars exist, so it depends on the woman, in the same way that it depends on the man. Not every man cheats just due to the physical either,, sometimes it's down to emotional involvement. Don't let a persons sex alone allow you to get those lines blurred
@@alexconfidence2354 What does it mean if she left her stuff behind at my place?
That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him or her so you just dealt with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one-- living and seeing him everyday anticipating when will he or she do it again. Your videos are incredibly well done. No critique, thanks for doing this *Johnsonspy*
Don't go through your partner's phone. Not only is it a huge violation of your partner's autonomy but it's also just plain pathetic. Besides what will it get you? You'll either ruin your relationship by finding out they're cheating or ruin your relationship because they weren't but you still didn't trust them and went behind their back. If you feel the need to do this *Johnsonspy* all this I saw it's just heart wrecking.
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Expertise like you one in a million. You left no stone unturned to reach this result of getting me into my targets phone *Johnson* . I am proud of you. You are the gem of a person!. Scooping her phone activities opened my eyes to a lot of things
@@MaryJane-qx7pk how does one get to access the services of Johnson SPy. We need it to chase some Women out of our life.
I wish I have had someone telling me all this before I got married. My husband of 25 years used to behave like a dictator and all the red flags were there. Emotional abuse is a serious problem in a relationship. From emotional abuse, cheating started.THANK YOU *Johnsonspy* for posting this time to get me all the evidence.
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Thank you my friend. I just found out the girl I’ve been with for a year cheated on me. I loved her more than I loved myself, and I ended up losing myself to the relationship. When I caught her in the act all she did was laugh and smirk, and it absolutely killed me. What was crazy is that she would tell me all these wonderful things, like how she wanted my children, and how she wanted to marry me and build a home with me. I keep blaming myself, but from your video I see that this was a blessing in disguise. You’re right, I deserve so much better, so thank you for putting out videos like this. It helps so much with the recommendation *Johnsonspy* . Much love my friend, take care
They enjoy humiliating you, it's just their nature, they are narcs. Never never never give a cheating man/woman a second chance. You deserve respect.
He got home from work I told him how I seen him randomly in his tow truck with a girl not woman lifting her head from his lap. He was profusely claiming that wasn’t him. After 21 years I’m more than sure I can. Recognize my husband and the next car over so cuz I wouldn’t pretent like always I believe him he put me in between bed and dresser choking me swear to god it’s true about seeing your life flash before your eyes I begged for my life for him to let go. That was last year since then I have on going nonstop anxiety. 3 days I threw him out I’m running never looking back. Thank you so much for your advice. Just confirmed from everything you said that I am definitely making the right choice because he fits every thing you have said. Your a amazing man *Johnsonspy* lucky woman your wife.
You really helped me. My intuition was screaming at me. She was looking through my phone so I asked to look through hers. Before she did this she started deleting messages. I messaged the guy she was texting and he told me they had been seeing each other regularly when we were together. We were days away from getting married. I really dodged a bullet.
@@Steenogreeno I just found out I have been getting cheated on. I’m curious how to go about messaging these guys she has been cheating with?
My 8 years women cheated with her manager😢 i forgave her it took her less than 2 months she did it again with the very same guy. It's time i let go
Whenever a woman cheats the relationship is never the same it's not worth it to get back together
@@fabiansmith5860 no seriously how could a relationship be worth it when your partner clearly doesn’t respect you
There are men for those types of women too. I've seen a happy open relationship in real life. The woman adores her man but she just needs to experiment to be happy.
And ik u would defend a man cheating, becuz that's what males do
@@oaktown6508 knowing this makes it that much more painful. The relationship is permanently destroyed.
Let her go! You will realize the wisdom of this action later on.
I couldn’t understand how that loved suddenly turned to hate in my heart. I just couldn’t forgive it was over my principles.
Betrayal.... is one of thee hardest feelings to get through....
Keep pushing gentleman 🙏🏻
If it’s out of your hands, it definitely deserves freedom from your mind too 🤷🏻♂️
Move on!!!!!!
Time to move on, evidently she don't have enough respect for herself if she's having affairs outside of the relationship. I've finally moved on from my ex wife and life couldn't be any better & blessed with a woman that puts in the same amount of energy into me as I do her. Everything happens for a reason fellas
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One thing I’ve learned from getting cheated on.. is holding a grudge is the worst thing ever.. knowing another guy smashed your chick is heartbreaking.. and knowing another guy has a one-up on you is something that can make a dude insanely pissed.. BUUTT forgiving makes it easier to attract another person.. holding a grudge gives the person who was cheated on a bad vibe.. and others can sense this.. forgiving the cheater but not forgetting what they did was the best option ever.. I can smile and be positive and others sense positive energy making finding new people much easier.
Hope this makes sense
If it's not worth it. Step back and find another partner. My opinion.
Na it’s fact
The best is letting her go no matter how hard its , and no More problems.
Relationships are BASED ON TRUST and if your partner cheats, they lost that trust and as difficult as it is, better move on.
Preach
If she cheated, I cannot move on with her. She's considered unpure to me, I cannot stay in a relationship after they cheat, no matter how much I love her. Just walked away from a cheating lyer. I cannot do it. And she was the love of my life. I'm gone...
There is no excuse for cheating my wife of 20 years did this and I tried to stay but can not I'm done and I'm leaving she decided to have an affair instead of coming to me and talking about her alcoholism and trying to save our life I'm sickened by her and don't even want to look at her.
Same here, I divorced her, have 50/50 custody and can't even stand the sight of her. Cheating is the most disgusting thing a person can do especially with kids involved, absolute selfishness.
Oh may Allah be with you 🙏🏼
Your pain is so difficult
Same story, but I was the alcoholic. Been sober now for 10 years, but when I first got clean is when she stepped out. Now 10 years later, I finally had enough of being a doormat.
I came here looking for reasons to continue while in my heart I know for a fact that I'm never going to forgive for what she did
That feeling
I know how much it hurts damn why did she do it in the first place
Exactly man. I literally gave her my everything. And when I was away on my job, she cheated cuz some guy told her he can care for her more, and love her. And in the end just used her. When I was working to my bone. So I can come back and just talk to her every night. Bad things happen to good people ig. And now she’s all sorry and guilty and saying how he manipulated her, and that she’s gonna wait for me forever. Fuck that shit. I’m not gonna accept that
@@himotiwari my wife of 9 yesrs together 15 yrs cheated and actually tried to tell me i drove her to see another man but they inly kissed though....yeah right meanwhile i heard messages of her plotting to leave me with him she denied that i heard what i heard these women are truly delusional.
@@himotiwari dis happening to me rn
Forgiving ur girlfriend after she cheated is hard! But forgive her and delete her number. Block her on all platforms.
Don't blocked instead make them jealous by your stories 😅
Never trust a cheater liar hurts bad to detach day 20 blocked ex gf who cheated 20 months ago and still red flags blocked on her FB whole time where I caught her cheating crazy hurts bad but I'm done.
If your girlfriend or boyfriend cheat leave the person immediately don't even think about it
Most definitely. If a guy stays with a cheating woman, soon enough, she will attempt to pass off the child she conceived with the other man as your own.
Kind of the situation I’m in idk If it’s mine
@@zariusflood cheat back on her 😂
Never on earth will i stay with someone who cheat the moment i know its over right there no matter how i love her
I have nowhere else for my kids and I to go. My family is all passed. She continues to lie to me. I don't know what to do. I am sick of blaming myself
@@williamford6553 don't blame yourself for anything, it never your fault it's her
If she cheats, I think I will need to let her go.
Don’t think, just let her go.
Don’t even bother getting your stuff, talking to them , ever! Move on immediately
If you still want her back, what you should do is get therapy hommie!!
Come on! A wife/woman cheats on you and you think there's a relationship worth saving? Give me a break
“Don’t expect to be treated like number 1 while playing the role of number 2.
Facts
Point
I don't think cheating is accidental, moving on with a cheated partner is the biggest mistake of a lifetime, it could happen again and again and again, Jessica your doing a great job, keep up with the good work?
I'm In The Same Situation, I Found Out Last Year Mid And I Have Tried To Forget But In Vain. It Has Hit Me Now After Moments Of Analyzing And Re-analyzing The Event And I Think I Should Hang The Boots And Move On. Infidelity Can Actually Break A Man, It Is A Sign Of Disrespect To A Man Who Loved You, It Means She Has No Respect For You, It Means She Doesn't Love You It Means There Is No Feeling For You, It Means You're Are Not Worth And The Reason She Has Opted For Another Man.. I'm Ready To Move On Now....
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@kerriflorence9992 Working under him? What exactly is going on here? LOL!🤪
Once a cheer always a cheer
Cheating is cheating! It doesn’t matter if she was already out of the relationship. Never take back a women who cheats. She will blame you
We have two kids together already,the best suddenly became a nightmare when this cheating stuff started, i wish i had d strength to let go
So many single beautiful women out here. Why should I stay with a person who cheated?
I got cheated on for a while and found out. I was working about 16 hours a day cause I was making good money and was trying to save money so we could do something with our lives. I figured that job was not going to last long and tried to work and save as much as possible. I understand I was not fully into the relationship because of this, but I was doing it for us. I never asked questions when she was going out, I wanted her to be able to have friends and go out cause I couldn't. I trusted her 100%. When I found out she told me that I made her feel unwanted, ugly, that I destroyed her self-esteem, and that the other guy made her feel special and wanted. This happen for about 2 years. We have been together for 10 years. I found out about 8 months ago and I'm still with her. In a way a feel like a total loser for not leaving her cause I'm one of those guys who would tell other friends if your partner is unfaithful you should leave the relationship, but look at me now. I'm not even sure if she's been with other men besides the one she admitted. She would try to talk to me about her feeling lonely but I made a mistake and I didn't listen to her because deep down I figured she understood that I was working for us, for our future together. One thing I don't understand is why she didn't leave me if she felt all of that and she cheated for so long. She is truly a beautiful 29-year-old woman, she could get any guy she wants, better looking than me, with more money than me but she is still with me. I'm not ugly, I'm pretty good-looking also, but I'm def not the hottest around. It totally sucks cause now I don't trust her and she knows it in her heart. We have spoken about it all this time and we are trying to make it work but it totally sucks not trusting your partner. I have been 100% faithful. To whoever reads this, don't feel sorry for me, I just wanted to get it off my chest. I quit my job to spend more time with her and things look better but my heart is totally destroyed.
Quiting your job is the worst mistake you made or will make. Use the time to build yourself and make a better life for yourself, and you not setting boundaries but allowing her walk over you she will continue and lose all respect for you. You did nothing wrong by working hard to beat time, and she has no reason to cheat if she truly loves you. True love is the ability to wait because anybody can say I love you but not all can wait and prove it. I am not an advocate of break ups but bro you are setting up yourself for more pains ahead. Build yourself and pray God gives you a woman who truly loves and deserve you. She should encourage you to work hard while asking you about future plans not cheat on you. She is for the street bro, she better go stay with the man she cheated with because sex deos something to women she will always have feelings and respect for the other guy over you while she is just feeling pity for you. Use your brain bro and be a man, don't settle and never you allow yourself to be messed up by any woman no matter how beautiful or good looking.
@@alexconfidence2354 he is young with very little experiences.
I like your words of wisdom to him.
I only hope he'll heed the warning!
It's only a matter of time before he is broken completely.
Bro I'm here cause this girl who cheated on me just broke up with me yesterday!
I was in the same boat as you detail for detail my story sounds so familiar to yours 💔 mine though with different time spans, cheated on me after a year I was working a 12hour shift job got the same excuses you did I stayed cause I loved her I was hurt I didn't want to lose her but in hindsight it was not worth it the two years we stayed together I hated her guts the anger the stress the depression I got from this was not worth it
I truly wish I had left earlier I thought maybe we are a special case we can be different from others that's a lie I was telling myself this past two years but I really should've left
So yesterday she dumped me and I'm here feeling miserable but all along I knew her cheating was her saying she wanted out and I don't think I'll enjoy losing myself over this
It's been two years since I found out bro and I can tell you it's not worth it I thought I'd be a special case reading comments like this one I'm writing thinking all these people are crazy I can turn this around I'll be the special one but some of the best advice you'll get is from strangers learn to learn from other people's mistakes don't walk the road we walked it's not worth it as painful as it is as addicted to her you feel you might be leave bro
You going to feel way worse when she eventually leaves you and you were thinking I could change her or she should understand why you shitty to her cause she cheated she won't she'll leave you with all your trauma she's already left you emotionally
How has she been treating u as of late
I’m so sorry to read these comments. I’m going thru the same. She cheated on me & I resent her. We try to get back to that good place… but I can’t forget. And when I can’t forget, I don’t really forgive. It eats me up inside
A cheater is always a cheater
Most people will say cheating is cheating. No one believes there is redemption. That's sad.
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The situation become even more tricky when children are involved;you send her packing and get a real devil to your kids who will mistreate them anyhowly, you ask and told they are big headed.Better to swallow the pride
Stay in that situation until the children can decide who they want to live with or they'll pass their values on to the children.
Wow
If u have been subscribed to this channel for a long time, and she still goes on to cheat then move on fast.
I’m not as well educated as this professional who offered a well-reasoned framework for thinking about infidelity, but I’ve lived long enough to feel comfortable in asserting this opinion: in the vast majority of cases, infidelity is a cancer that is hard to put in remission let alone eradicate. It’s the reason why the Bible and New Testament in particular is clear that marriage is a three-way commitment for life between a man, woman and God with the only out being infidelity. It destroys trust no matter the circumstances, creates resentment by both parties, and often leads to emotional and physical attachments that are almost impossible to fully heal. Plus it creates and increases the possibility for future infidelity on one or both sides. Really really really hard to recover from…regardless of expert professional advice like offered by this video.
if she needed emotional needs fullfilled outside of the relationship. Ill go fullfill my emotional needs outside too... sounds fair?
Thank you, Jessica! I just found about it and was thinking on how to make an approach. This video made me figure out what to do next in the calmest manner. Keep it up!
Jess, this is too much unnecessary work no one should burden themselves with. Unfortunately, the next relationship might just be the same or even worse. Solution? People should never get themselves fully into relationships. Have control over your heart and when the inevitable happens, move on like nothing happened.
One sure thing is that life is a personal journey. And there are more than enough excuses/reasons for shortcomings.
Again, a no-brainer. She cheats? Show her the door. Don't yell, don't get mad, don't ask why, just show her the door & move on. There're 7+ billion people on earth and more than half are women so why stress?
That's not how human emotions work.. pretending it doesn't bother you won't help. No one thinks like that.
I wish there was more people like you to stop all these cheaters, they need serious jail time for that, especially when they take money from you in the relationship, keep doing what your doing *Johnsonspy* on the internet put the wind up these low life oxygen thieves. Love what you guys do keep up the Great work mate well done respect....
I feel just as most men will suffocate if they are trapped in monogamy some women too need to be polyamorous to be happy. much respect to you for being able to discuss this topic without sounding feminist or dismissive of any group. It's time people tried to be honest with themselves and let go of overbloated egotism. One person's personal happiness should not supercede another's if they can come to an agreement.
You have really helped me Madam Jessica thank you so much
We broke up 8 days ago. after 17 mos being together.
Over an argument.
4th day of NC.
If I find out she cheated IT'S OVER!!!
Ohh haha sorry man but if you break up over an argument.. and she sees someone quick after..she was seeing someone WAYY before this “break up” ..and the argument was an excuse to go off with someone else.
This is a classic trick.. used by cheaters and narcissists.
You may be right!! I hope not.
@Titan what is the problem with you. Are you just much in love. She gonna stay only with you to keep repeating all these phenomenon you ve seen few days ago. Cheating partner can never be loyal as supposed to. Any little argument she is off to this new guy. Moreover this new guy is now in your relationship equation which she will hardly let go of him. He has become a thorn and but difficult for your woman to keep him out her way. He is now only standby. And this action from the so called is been activated by your same woman. For all you know your woman is bondy with him and come to think of you gonna be fooled all the time. Remember Women cheat with emotion and not just with any other reason. Be alert & vigilant before you are consumed. Brotherhood needs you!!
Sorry my brother but 1000000000000000000% she’s cheating, over an argument going on almost a a week: been there same results, kick her out
Anytime someone cheats it’s over. If you got a marriage and a family and want to try and fix it go ahead. It’s over. If the husband cheats maybe you can save it but if it’s the wife then absolutely not. Women cheating is always in a much more devious manner and women lack the accountability and honor to change those behaviors.
I know it's so unlikely but.. If somebody were in a relationship with me, and they weren't feeling it, regardless of the length of time we've been together.. Just tell me. I can do nothing but respect the fact that you told me instead of lying and cheating behind my back. I'd be thankful. That's what real men/women do. Who has time and will power to do all this sneaking around? Come on. Why cheat on someone when you can just tell them you're not feeling it anymore? Is it really so difficult to be a decent person instead of giving someone false hope and holding someone else's husband/wife hostage. Things don't need to end messy if you do it the right way by hiring *Johnsonspy* to do that.
Even for the recognition *Johnsonspy* gets, his skills is so underrated at least by most tech fans in general. I mean I get that there is stamina and all that involved in things like he does but being able to stand so far away and have the ability get the information needed with high speed as expected to hit it perfectly with a paddle just over the net is extremely impressive.
No way . 304 she’s for the streets
It's selfish to cheat. I'm pretty sure my ex cheated on me. STDs are scary, and I would rather have heart aches for a while . She is a mean person. They all get pleasure . Otherwise, they won't take it.
Don't be a simp . She got to go. Once she has cheated, there's no way back.
Just think of the way she gasped when he entered her.
Cheating is INTOLERABLE for a WIFE/NOVIA! She thought she could FIND BETTER! BE BRAVE and LEAVE! Imagine, you COULD end up TAKING CARE.. of a CHILD THAT is not YOURS!! Lololololol 😂
If you love yourself let her go.
You can never truly love a woman who cheats again as love is built on trust and you will never trust her again. You love the image of her. Run and try to find something real or you will die bitter and alone even if you stay.
Remember. Once a cheater is always a cheater
I'm lost at the point of 'if she's cheating but you still love her'. I thought fidelity was one of the tenets of the foundation of a relationship. Anyway......
Wtf
@@LHaks exactly moving tf on
But letting a woman u love go is bot east. My woman went out with a guy she knew from her tertiary days without my consent.. When i caught her she said its nothing but the guy has been trying to go out with her a for a long time.. she sees nothing wrong with that..
The mother of my daughter has cheated with 3 different guys that I know for a fact from starting July 2023 up until May 2024 all three dudes she knew before me I noticed changes the year my daughter was born 2021 of april noticed them aroung November. 2021 her reasons was I wasn’t there for her because I worked nights 5 6 7 days a week 5pm -3:30 pm it is now October 2024 she’s moving out in 2weeks and the reason is we need space and she’s tired of the arguing and nit picking which I am guilty of but honestly I do have love for her and I’m currently heart broken about everything
If it ain't worth it...I'll just smoke weed n call it a day..😎
What do you do if your wife didn’t actual take in the act of sleeping with someone but had texts with a person that was her “friend”
I love this girl. Ask her to marry me. But she told me let see as things goes that she has no man has ask herlife . But all of a sudden I start seeing her with a guy. Now I use the no contact rule. But she is with this guy day in day out. I feel like......
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Play boy dont care about cheating girlfriend because women love play boy and support them with cash even to the extent of marry them.
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This shows up at the right moment as my ex just emailed me after blocking her everywhere last week 😂
Hey try after 8 years of separation, but I don't respond to any of her txt or messages in my DM
If she cheated, don't take her back. If a woman comes back after cheating, it's because she was disappointed out there and not because she loves you. She wouldn't have come back if her external affair had worked out.
Can I have help? I find my wife spends time on her phone a lot and I keep catching her comment on other guys stuff in a flirty way she always says it’s nothing and then blames me and says I have a problem should I be concerned and she’s always buried in her phone :( what should I do? Anybody can comment
Forgive cheating and get back together? Ha ha ha. No way!
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As someone who's passionate about checking if my other significant is cheating, I'd honestly love to do this. It looks like a lot of fun. Also, the one cyber spy shouting encouragement when *Brian Hacks Online* was doing drills on the system was fantastic. I'd love to have that dude just follow me around and deafen me with motivation.
I have got prove that my gf is cheating on me this morning and but she is dying and crying and begging me to forgive her as I can't even stay with her and she also can't but I feel like she loves me what should I do
Same thing happening with me bro..!
My former girlfriend told me not because of cash that's she is being with me but later found that he flirts outside the box but I keep it cool.
Is a cheater worth it.....joke of the year.
Today I found out my girlfriend was living with another man as a roommate and she still says she have nothing to do with that guy and she loves me what does that mean ?
It means: RUN
I really need to talk to you as you mentioned in video how do I I’m in pain emotionally spiritually mentally physically
and what if after the affair they are still communicating behind your back?
Thanks Jessica,I found out that my wife is cheating , we talked about it but she has failed to change,she even aborted after a separation but she later came back , even after coming I found out she still sleeps with the same guy.the problem is that she even abandoned our only son of 2yrs
It’s really a sad thing ylu went through. What I learnt is as a guy, never take back a woman who’s cheating and sleeping with another guy or multiple guys. Never take back a girl who has gone to date other guys.
My wife cheated recently I found out a week ago she says it only happened once and when I found out she apologized and dropped the person she says she want to work on it but it seems like just words and no action it happened while I’m currently deployed any advice
I can personally relate to this, for I went through it, but thankfully I came out stronger. As a word of advance, cut your losses and move on. Peace 🕊️✌️ from Luanda-Angola 🇦🇴✌️🇦🇴
I'm going through the same even though we talk she's changed a lot with how she communicates & hides stuff from me
How can I move on am just so exhausted. I have tolled through online seeking for a proper Help. A lot of things are going on my head
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I’m sorry you’re going thru this. So am I
I'm In The Same Situation, I Found Out Last Year Mid And I Have Tried To Forget But In Vain. It Has Hit Me Now After Moments Of Analyzing And Re-analyzing The Event And I Think I Should Hang The Boots And Move On. Infidelity Can Actually Break A Man, It Is A Sign Of Disrespect To A Man Who Loved You, It Means She Has No Respect For You, It Means She Doesn't Love You It Means There Is No Feeling For You, It Means You're Are Not Worth And The Reason She Has Opted For Another Man.. I'm Ready To Move On Now....
Thanks for the video, unfortunately I didn't meet you earlier, I am a victim of cheating wife
So sorry to hear
Mine got graped. Then a month later she did, she just let him do it I found out today.
I don't know what to do
Can u explain? Graped and then let him do it later!? Sounds like bs excuse.
@@CharcharBinks-h8u she said he kept pulling on her clothes she kept saying no but he kept pulling on it and she kept remembering the first time someone forced themselves on her. And just froze up, she said she can't remember what really happened to her fully all she knows was that he did things to her
When I asked her for the full story, thats what she told me. She said she wanted to break up because she blames herself which if what happened was actually the way it happened I don't really think it was her fault she said she clothes she was wearing was tearing because she was holding on to it very tightly Or maybe I'm just in denial.
I told her that sounds like rape not her fault but she said as long as something happened it is her fault and her calling it rape makes her feel like she has trauma now that it's easier to blame herself
@@mrhollowman9167how did she put herself alone with a man to be graped in the first place. These women just make up anything like they had no choice.
HI Jess, not sure if my situation is normal or not, but I fell in love with a lady at work and we had an affair for about six years, she walked away because she didn't think i would commit to her; fast forward 4 years and i send her a message to say goodbye (I'm trying to move on) and she says she wants to see me, so we meet up and i fall in love with her again ! (Important to know is that both of us are married ! ) She tells her husband and moves out, i don't say anything to my family as my eldest daughter is getting married and I don't want to ruin her day. Meanwhile we go to see her ex boyfriend in concert (he's a singer) and two days later she's texting him, 3 days later she starts an argument, then he invites us to stay at his house, she declines and then she tells him she is free (while I'm away ! ) and intimates that she has no objections to either him staying with her or her staying with him , it didn't happen, but she tried to set it up for the following week . I love her so much, but I don't think she would miss me if i died ! Help me, what should I do ?
Help me friends....i cheated on my girl in the last 7month but moved on to regret and correct but she has found out now and she ends the relationship
Man or women leave period guys
You are my go to when I need advice. Thanks
Glad to hear it!
Thanks you Jessica
Hi jes, what could be wrong if men you all dated end up cheating on you?
Good question. Maybe I could help.
There’s a saying ‘fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me’.
This might seem like a you problem rather than the men. You might be rushing into relationships or you are not giving yourself time to grow and mature.
Hope this helped.
Anyways I think Jess will have a better answer.
Okay @queen13
Date men who have integrity. If a man, or woman for that matter, don't have integrity then they will cheat sooner or later.
Im actually so fucking tired of everything i see on the internet being so extreme and one sided. There’s some nuance to this shit, saying her heart was never in it or isn’t is just bs. All this talk about it happening again is also bs, multiple studies confirm this. I have just been cheated on and do still love her, i need to cope and im looking in the internet for maybe some help, but these fucking one sided shit stories from nobodies does nothing but make me feel worse. I am sick and tired of having to feel so alone because my situation isn’t as clear cut as everyone makes it out to be. Please someone who stayed with a cheater and had a good experience talk about how hard that was, give me some god damn nuance
My ex cheated on me. I took her back and she did it again. They lose respect for u. THEY CANNOT HELP IT. It's biological. My most recent ex cheated and I already know I can't take her back. The damage done by females who cheat is permanent.