DON'T LET HER BREAK YOU - Motivational Speech by Andrew Tate
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- DON'T LET HER BREAK YOU - Motivational Speech by Andrew Tate
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We are the backbone of society. If you read this, do not simp, do not send that text. Rechannel that energy and build yourself up. As men we are valuable, stay powerful my brothers.
Well said. My ex-wife cheated on me when my daughter was three and I filed for divorce within a week. I was able to get custody and she had to pay child support, or was supposed to. I didn't want my child to grow up in a divorced family as I did, so a year later her mother and I tried working things out and re-married in about 6 years. This was the worst mistake I ever made. I supported her as she jumped from job to job. I encouraged her to stick with one that would have been a great option for a career even though she wanted to quit. She finally got the promotion and was doing well. So well, that she decided she no longer needed me and filed for divorce. This time is was more of a mess, but I still was able to get custody of my daughter, 13 at the time, because she told her mother when she heard us arguing that she was staying with her dad. She tried everything, even going so far as to try and get me to hit her, but I'm not that kind of man, so she failed. After she left she tried twice to come back, normally when things weren't going her way in life, but I was no longer her safety net. I learned my lesson the hard way and while I have been in other relationships, I have not married again. I haven't met a woman that shows me any benefit to marriage, not for the man. Was I perfect, no, but I am loyal to a fault and would have worked to keep our marriage. She was so quick to break her vows and punch out when it suited her. If someone shows you they don't want you, believe them. Semper Fi, gents!
@@captainaudistay strong, you got this
@@captainaudi Many of us have been in your position but we came out hurt and came up stronger
@@captainaudi She's only hurting you because you're letting her.. Don't dwell on her.. Even though I don't know you I know your pain.. I moved away from my family for my ex-wife and then she divorces me for a bunch of superficial B.S. Only to be a girl afterwards I knew form childhood, thought it was destiny, that we were meant to be toghther.. I move back home to be with her.. And then years later she breaks up with me over the phone because I going through tough times and then finds another man and buys a house with him..
I can't promise you that you will find someone else but I will promise you this.. There will come a day when you are glad she didn't stay in your life.. Again I don't know you or your story but I doubt that you went throguh the heartbreak I went through not only once, but twice.. Listen to Tate's message and let all of that sadness and angry constructively.. If you do this no woman will never hurt you again.
Thank you brother
I’m losing my gf of 2 and a half years.. she’s gonna regret this decision more then I am.. it may hurt right now.. but someone like this comment in a month after the gym.. let’s see if I’ll be sad
Get your fucking gains dude, show her what's she's missing out on
Stay Hard bro.
How you feeling man had the same
I'll be here
You still sad?
Not gonna lie, seeing the comments of fellow brothers going through a breakup is helping a lot. Lets get over her and become STRONGER!!!
I needed this in a BAD way... its time to attend the Funeral of my past... and bury it at sea!!!! THANK YOU GOD FOR LETTING ME FIND THIS VIDEO!
Yes, that’s the spirit!👏
Ahmen now its time to get to work mfer
it is that time for all of us
Amen brother!
Get over the past, but learn from IT, accept it as a valuable lesson. Dont feel bitter or angry at yourself.
the feeling of a break up is the most powerful positive energy a man can have. Men if your going through it, embrace it, rise above and conquer 💪 Y’all got this!
@@Cracker__r wtf
😢
I went through a break up recently it hurts a lot because the first relationship will always hurt a lot but, I have to push forward and continue with life
Broken up with 2 days ago, been sad but I’m done with that now. She lost someone that truly cared about her and showed it in every way. Her loss not mine, time to level up once again. 👑
Literally 2 days ago🤦🏾♂️
@@deletroiswhat’s the prob? It’s fresh and he’s trying to move forward
@@TCGhits Um actually it’s no problem. The same thing happened to me at the same time so I was agreeing sir…anything else?
@@deletrois I pray for you as well! Keep marching forward, become stronger and win many battles that lie ahead. Don’t give in and out your faith in God. 🙏🏽 best of luck to ya.
How are you guys after a month?
Don't be broken, people. Years later she is still begging to return and said she is on standby to come back in a flash if I ever open the door of return. This is what happens when you channel that energy and become a formidable force to be reckoned with.
and would you accept her or not?
@@deenizmpr I've honestly told her I won't as I've had my mental closure and joyful about my new life without her.
@@DaWitOnethen you truly never loved her to begin with. When you really love someone to the point of obsession, you are willing to do whatever it takes to get that one person back even if the odds are all in your favor in the end…
No. Maybe she went out and got plowed by 35 men since the split and he wants nothing to do with that filth. End of of story.
@@christianchavez8848 And you're thinking about this because? I don't know how broken you have ever been, but a solid man would not do whatever it takes to get that 'one person back' as it is a time bomb. When someone shows you their core values and character would ruin you long term, you will suck up the pain and move on. There is a lot I went through that I would not disclose here. To create a healthy and sustainable relationship, you need more than just love - respect, loyalty, selflessness, thoughtfulness... And the love I have come to embrace is not the Hollywood magical love with sprinkling dust, but a complete thoughtful series of actions that solidifies a bond that stands the test of time.
Been self loathing for two months now . Finally letting it go ..
I pray for your healing 🙏🏾.
I believe in you. Have self respect and move on you'll be better for it. Don't let her win.
respect from one brother to another.
Same here
Wasted years, dont do that. Wish ibfound red pill earlier
I did everything for her, I gave her my all, and 10 hours after the breakup she acted like I never existed in here life. It hurts like hell, but we gone win this and be better in life ❤
Same Here. We will win. No we are winning who wants to drag an unhappy unfaithful soul
move on at the speed of light women are not like men.
Reza I’m sorry to hear about that but I believe you dodged a bullet can you imagine if you were married the girl?
@@Americanpatriot-zo2tk yes I probably did, I thank god for this. But it’s getting better by time. Thank you ❤
@@momisoma6477 you are going to make it! Believe me that’s a big deal coming from someone like me. I’m impressed with your tenacity.
Been 3 months now, 17 years down the drain but oh well life goes on, we got this kings 💪
Never simp for a woman. Move on.
Needed to hear this as confirmation lol. Thanks g
Or if she wants you back, put next to no effort in, get her to organise things, get her to make the effort and get her to pay for stuff so you getting your money back you spent on her the first time then see if she sticks around. If she can’t even do that and leaves again just don’t even care. Also depends on what she did to take her back, if she cheated then never, if it was just her being disorganised and too comfortable to be disorganised on the things you organised for you and her, like forget a date or not being on time for a meal we organised like I split up for then it can work, she’s come back and now I’m letting her do all the work
Absolutely. Don’t even wave bye to her. She’s made her bed. Get better. They chase you then and you can do what you want with who you want. You are the prize. Stop putting woman on a pedestal.
I made that choice a few months ago, best choice I made. I'm focusing more on myself, gaining a lot of self confidence, and working more on my goal. I'm done putting off my goal, I put it off way toooo long.
Patrice O’Neal taught me that! If you haven’t been down the Patrice red pill rabbit hole I whole heartedly recommend it. You will learn ALL YOU NEED TO. RIP Patrice 🙏
“The heartbreak never ends you just learn to live with it”
@@KetoFatty yeah but I’m not killing nobody that’s just horrific
It ends
It’s does end it’s does dull trust me bro I can look at her pictures with her and her new bf and I don’t even feel any emotion at all it’s just a random person. that I think I used to know
It ends
4 years was in my own head , she left my at my lowest as my business failed as well . Moved on a handful of months later and tore me down again. I managed to take the pain and make myself a better life . Still single but finally at peace . Have a completely new life and a business that is booming . It too a long time but i took that pain and flipped it
Motivating😎
love ya Brother me too i will get there like you i did the same!
Anger drives me i turn into postivtive energy
I went through exactly the same thing
Good to hear brother!
Needed to hear this! Getting divorced from my abusive wife. She's not worth it at all
Best of luck bro.
Good Luck brother…peace & fulfillment is possible without her ❤️🩹
A new day Awaits you mate.
Me too, then an awful relationship with an escort I met. Basically wow yes the video is good
Remember, you got her good years......
I know for a fact that the person reading this is really strong.
You are really a strong man and your are doing so good! Anxiety is really hard to overcome so be proud of yourself for not giving up.
(virtual hug) Remember that everything will be okay, it doesn't matter when, just hang on okay? Hang on. It will come - and after it arrived you will be so happy,
happy about the fact that you never gave up. That you are strong. I want you to stand up for yourself, for you future. Time is passing, Always hang on and wait for your happiness to arrive.❤
Needed to hear that. And find this video. Respect 🙏
Thank you
Thanks ❤
Amen 🙏
Had about 4 days now that I can’t eat cause I got dumped for someone else , these videos are really helping me remember what the real goal is , not waiting on a text
Block, delete and never message again.
Use the conviction that you have in the strongest area of your life and channel it into no contact.
😊
Just found out my girl and the mother of my kids for 10 years has been seeing someone for the past 3 years. Don’t know what happens next but this shit really hurts. I don’t wish this on anybody. Really needed this video
Sorry for what happened bro.
Did she cry when u confronted her?
Fuck man! I wish you all the best. Hope you will be better soon and have a wonderful live after this nightmare ends.
I wouldn’t wish that on my worst enemy bro hope it works out for u fam
U got this king
Being productive is the only thing I can think of, but the pain won’t stop. I’m going to the gym, doing everything I can, but still dying inside. The only time I feel ok is when I fall asleep and forget for a little bit.
Time heals and spirituality is always good
Time bro, that's all.
@BugattiFlow. It’s difficult. You must talk to god. Ask to be shown the way, thy will be done. Let him know you need help my friend. The pain sucks, try to remember it’s temporary and will not be forever. Don’t give up.
Do you go to the gym everyday?
Signed in there a year ago with my girlfriend but i havnt been there very often. She was my first girlfriend and broke up with me in december and first i was a fucking zombie but now im going to the gym everyday and its fucking great. You can do it too bro! just go every day 💪🏻💪🏻
There is light ahead brother. I was exactly the same. Slept 1 night in 6 weeks when we split up. Couldn’t think, focus, eat. Time IS the healer. Hard to accept. Keep on practicing routine. Gym and work. I feel your pain, but don’t let some fucking bitch destroy you who doesn’t give a fuck about you. Stay strong brother
Been 6 years still haven't recovered from it hopefully this will be the year i break free frm the memories
You wasted for 6 freakin years?!!! For real mate??!!!
You revised it lot so now you need turn to the new book
Lets fucking go boys, we’ve been given energy time to direct it. We are men, we are movers and shakers
In my very early twenties my first girlfriend of 3 years told me she didn't love me anymore and to be fair I couldn't blame her, I wasn't who I need to be and I wasn't going anywhere in life. The breakup almost killed me and highlighted everything wrong with me, everything that was weak within me. In that moment you can chose to let the darkness consume you or you can embrace the uglyness of life, embrace hard truths and make a commitment to yourself to change. It's been 12 years since then, I am married, own my own house and car, very financially well off, a really good small circle of friends who are all doing better than before. Everything is working better than expected.
It takes more than just seeing the light, you need action too, bravery and courage to change, without that nothing will happen. Some people are broken by life and some people use life as a catalyst for immense change, be the latter.
May I learn why you are still watching this video? For another woman?
@@ahmetyuksel4360 A person cant click on this video to give advice? Or what if he's just trying to gain more knowledge? that's like someone trying to teach you how to make more money but you're already making money
I‘m heartbroken and really could need some motivation but I’ll never be so low that I need a motivational speech from a Tate. FU TH-cam algorithm
My girlfriend (ex now) cheated on me last night. I havent been able to stop thinking about it and was looking for a video JUST LIKE THIS. Andrew Tate wisdom never misses, Im going to use this as motivation to better myself. Her Loss…
Don’t take that disrespect
She wouldn’t b alive if I were you
Stay strong brother, we are alll here for you. Reach out if you need someone to talk to, my mail is on my channel
Move as far from her as you can if posible. If not, do what’s best for you and don’t waste your time like i did. Good luck brother.
I’m going through relationship shit aswell we broke up a week ago. Don’t play victim play predator
If you’re truly high value or even a standout person, they always come back… If you love someone, let them go.
I had never been so disrespect by a girl before and that's why she stuck with me,she showed me that I was nothing to her after leading me on and making me feel special.
I'm sorry you have to go through that but now you know how it feels because many many many men do this to women all the time. Selling you the dream. It hurts doesn't it. Its interesting reading the comments from the guys because it's like it's the end of the world but I have spoken with men many about how us women should accept men's lying and cheating and being taken for granted because he may do all this but he comes back home to you. It's different for men, men can have sex without feelings so we should be happy with that. Now you feel a piece of what I have felt as a woman constantly, not just once.
That’s not your faurl
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Bro I feel you man but you have to be strong I hope u find urself in a better place
💯
It’s been almost two years since she left and it haunted me every day, but after this moment I will never accept defeat again
Yes!! There ya go! Hope you rebound massively! Keep God in your mind and prayers and you shall defeat the serpent. 🙏🏽
Stay strong
I just can’t understand how a man can be so correct on so many topics
U aint bull shitting
😂😂😂
speaking from experience
You gotta believe in yourself. It isn't important if your girl is gone. Get up and make money. If the money is low, go kill it in the gym. Write a book, make music, create art, do stand up comedy, take whatever job you can get and be the best. You have the choice to make youself a winner by going out into the world and winning.
love this comment
He's right procrastination is a killer for me, I sit around feeling sorry for myself.
But God loves me I wonder why I was created, as I've been giving so much. Maybe not money or women, but I'm blessed
How long will you weep?
God says: how long will you mourn over a door I closed 🚪
I needed to hear this, mourn no longer my friends
I was looking for a female version of this but this version is so much better. 7 years and it's over. It's been one month without him and I am further in my healing than I ever thought. Literaly not wasting another day. Using all this heartache to my advantage. I pray he heals too. Thank God for Andrew Tate 🙌 his words help me wake df up and stop crying lol I'm hitting the gym. I'm working multiple jobs. Focusing all on me. Pray all u men out there push through grief. Your worthy ❤ have a blessed day 🙏🏾
don't forget the gym. Helps a lot with your self esteem and will get you actual abundance with options
@@zeppkfw most def. The gym has been so great for my mental health and stress. Thanks for your kindness 😊
Quick recovery. Just focus on yourself. You cant revenge. The best revenge is to get busy.. work out, have multiple jobs.. in short focus on yourself and you will forget about him forever. Assume he is d3ad,_ mourning lasts for a week and everything gets back to normal.
Yaaassss queeeen
And you are worthy as well 🙏
Girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me. Nice to see some brothers in the comment section offering support. Been through it before and the best thing is to get in the gym and get the mind and body right. This video gets me motivated. Thanks guys
Feel you. Mine was 3 years and she immediately went cold on me. Now I'm on a relentless self improvement journey. She will regret losing a good man who is working to become even greater.
She didn't break up with you. She set you free. Go enjoy life without the baggage holding you back.
@@justinhunstad1760 💯
Girl of my life broke up with me and im struggling knowing theres no future with her no more
@@msl2796You were a man before you met her, you can be a man once again. When you’re there, be better. When you’re better, don’t stop, keep going, be EVEN BETTER. The second you give up is the second you deserve whatever negativity you’re feeling. 🤝 You got this brother.
I needed to hear this. My wife left me at my lowest. My business tanked, was in a big financial hole. I’ve been torturing myself these last few months I need to move on and just focus on myself and my daughter. If she couldn’t be there in tough times when I needed her the most she doesn’t deserve me. I’ll bounce back and better than before her lose. It hurts but I need to move on. This video hit me hard. The hardest part is we still live together, I haven’t left because we haven’t filed for divorce yet and it will go against me in court for my daughter. we moved to WA from AZ to start my Business so it’s not easy. Ive been beating myself up mentally and I will be fighting for my daughter in court will look bad if I leave so I hear. I need to get the divorce started if she can’t be with me she’ll have to do everything on her own I’ll take care of my daughter and no running back. Enough is enough.
Hell yea man, love to hear it. I wish you well.
@@07stanggg6 thank you!!
Good luck brother. I’ve been through the same. Everything will work out how it’s supposed to be. Can’t control the future, just your mind. Just keep on listening to these vids. And keep your head up bro
@@MrJacob028 Thank you brother. I keep telling myself it’s for the best and just move it. It hurts but I will be better then ever. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@@theboy466 Thank you my good sir. I appreciate the love.
I am 24 years old, just got out of a 6.5 year relationship. Got cheated on and I am devastated. 1 week after my breakup I am starting to realize I have so much to accomplish. I am in the tech field making 100k with two jobs. If I am 24 years old making 100k who says I cant make 1 mil or 10 mil per year in the next five years? I am starting to realize all the potential i have to become the greatest version of myself. I pray everyone watching this video to realize your their potential and their life is not fn over! You are here for a reason! Please let this be a reminder that you are great and you could be greater if you let yourself!
Thank you brothers. I feel so abandoned and broken and lost but I’m using these messages as a channel to find a better me and be the best. I will be better. I spent 4 hours in the gym last night couple days before that it was 3 I am slowly becoming a better man. In career,physical attributes and most of all mental. I love all of you.
Don’t gym don’t become successful (not necessarily rich success is different for everyone) for a woman. Do it for yourself.
Good excuse
shut up
@@CollaborativeGlobalMarketingHe's not saying don't go the gym or be successful. He's saying don't do it for somebody else, do it for you.
@@inkwyvern5171the commas were jibberish. Hence the sarcasm.
I cared for about 2 days.
Then started doing things I hadn't done in a while since being with her.
Gym. Dieting. Tanning. Working more than before. Nothing else.
This is what I did before when I felt my greatest and looked my best, no relationship to focus on just making gains.
Not going to the gym when you get with a chick is one of the worst things you can as a dude. She isn’t going to thank you for dropping the gym “for her”. In fact she lose attraction when you veer off of your purpose.
@jermaineayivoh8263 🎯
You stopped doing the things that made her attracted to you in the first place. It's very common, we think we have her and can relax and then it blows up. Gotta stay on your purpose/gym at all times. Learned this the hard way too..
@@kendog0311 did this on a daily basis for 8 years, once i got into a relationship she liked my looks, prett solid abs and all that shit, till that turned on me calling me obsessed even though i went only for 3 months in 2 years. Calling or acusing me i want to to fuck chicks or cheat on her. Never flirted, liked a photo, cheated or anything. So it was always walking on egg shells or sabotaging me to eat chips because i am not fun if i don't do it. I am boring.
The 1st 8 mins feel like he's speaking to my soul. I'm greatful to listen to this guys wisdom
1. Eat healthy
2. Go to the gym and take it out there
3. Keep your living space clean and organised
4. Find a new hobby
5. Reconnect with family and friends
6. Find a way to make more money
7. Don't hold on to grudges
8. Improve all aspects of yourself that you feel you are lacking in
Do all these and you will be a top tier man. Once you've done all these it's probably going to be a year since breakup and you will not even want your ex back
My baby momma dumped me for a guy that can give her more. Relationship wasn’t perfect but geez I would have walked through the fire. She wouldn’t and told me her love is conditional. Fair enough. I need to move on. This video is a start.
Hypergamy is almost never satisfied
I needed this. Let it go, do you, don’t fall for the over texting trap and chasing her, she wants to see how far she can go to control you and have you chase and she doesn’t give anything. Focus on you, be nice, but drop her, if you love her and comes back and changes, sure cool. For now, focus on you, she knows how you feel, it’s up to her now. But do you.
Bro she texted other guys behind my back and told me its normal...im her bf i told her its not normal and i told her if she really love me delete all those guys contact which she's just saving for her own chit chat.....she told me me she can't delete all....i ask why...she never answer...she keep saying only some she can delete....while i delete anything for her....i cuaght her flirting soo thars why i ask her to delete those guys...but she's not willing to delete everything and told me she'll delete only the ones i caught....tell me what should i do bro
@@doubleJJ01 time to move on. respect yourself.
@@doubleJJ01its hard, but if she doesn’t respect you, then she hasnt deserved you
@@parmaso6634 thank you...ill keep in mind
@@doubleJJ01dump her. That's disrespect. Your kinghood will be gone. Reclaim yourself before Oneitis take care of you.
She just broke up with me, been with her for 3 months. Now im working out every day and I’m building myself. Stay strong kings 👑👑👑
Bro what are 3 months that’s nothing, I don’t want to be rude but that’s nothing. We broke up 2 days ago I was 4 years in a relationship with her from the age of 16-20. feels like I’m dying inside. But I have to do what has to be done. Build yourself get a sixpack, get rich. I feel the depression kicking in and it gives me motivation because I don’t want to live that live like that.
Same bro, use that energy
Little Update, been going to the gym consistently, now made my first 200$ this month on posting Tik Tok videos of other people’s content. Trying to build a Shopify site which I sell some random ass products. You guys are gonna hear from me in the future.
@@TheNoobiconmonths years people feel what they feel bro. Either way we support each other and kick ass daily
Honestly I feel more bad for her than I do for myself
Weak just work on yourself
It means you have a beautiful heart... It's ok.. I get you 100%
These people are Narcissistic...
Just pray to your higher being for more Serenity.. and that what you do won't hurt your inner self, your true essence..You were made the way you are by God, not by this dude or that dude... Work in yourself and work for your goals.
Live, Love, Learn... It's ok if it's not perfect... NOTHING AND NO ONE IS PERFECT... NOT EVEN A WOMAN.
Absolutely especially when you know they ARE NARCOPATHS. 😂😢
@@jacobramirez3026His empathy being in tact after his women betrayed him is an extraordinarily powerful sign of emotional quotient. It's strength, not weakness. People who shelter in their own shadow stonewalling their emotions have already submitted the greatest part of the human experience; to feel. This man even feels bad for his girl, knowing she's gonna be worse off after fucking up and leaving him.
Think of it this way. After he's demonstrated that kind of durability, do you really think calling him weak is gonna have any affect? You're trying to blow a wall down with your lungs. You're wasting your breath.
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She hurt me way to bad I'm done. She broke my reality of her and that magic. She made me feel like a villain for being their for you, for trying my hardest for nothing.
3 months and 20 days after I finally started letting go. I hope I get control of my mind again and start to accept.
It's a process bro I am going through same we have to go through the pain and thoughts in order to come out better 💯
You'll heal...took me 6 months
Dude.. be weak when you're I love. And when it hurts. Let it hurt more. Don't suffer but endure the pain
..this is how you process pain and live
So true. I made a mistake when my fiance left me two years ago. I didn;t processed the shock. I "moved on". I mean I wished she will be back after a while seeing me succeeding in life. Did I succeed? Yes. I make few times more money, traveling around, my career looks good. But! But - she moved on. Decided to start a new chapter with someone else. Now I feel the whole pain like never before. Don't make my mistake. Don't numb the pain, let it pierce you, fight it, and then hopefully accept it and move on for real.
I got discarded 4 month ago from my wife after going through a rough 10 months being bad and needing an operation was off work couldn’t hit the gym and found out she was texting other guys from her works getting dropped off from guys from her works and then she got rid of me right before my operation !!! She left me when I needed her the most ! I thought we were a team but it was me just providing for her .. I moved out went no contact I’ll never talk to her again I’m hitting the gym hard I’m finding myself again getting my empathy back my masculinity looking after other brothers who are going through divorces !! There’s a serious feminist power movement at the moment and all men need to stand up and be men if your wife or gf doesn’t want you shut the door weld it shut and never speak to them again better yourself and when she comes running back tell her you’ve made your bed lay in it !!!
Great motivation speech, actually this is what I was looking for, I’ve been in this hole for almost 3 years, now is now to climb back up and keep going forward 😊
Fark bro three years? No Hoe is worth that…mine left me took the house got remarried and moved her simp husband in with her and his kids…I decided to to got them gym go harder in jiu jitsu Im now coach i never looked better at 46, my two boys respect me more than their step dad and I got myself a beautiful young wife 21 years younger…and I’m honestly not showing off but what I’ve done is like Andrew said I’ve used that negative energy to rebuild myself…you can do it and possibly get to a better position than I’m in.
@@MoJoJoJo747 Damn ur a G
@@MoJoJoJo747Woowww i needed this. Letsss goooo. Goinn thru a breakup now for 2 months. Today was my first day in the gym. Time to let goo and rebuild
It is better to live alone in the corner of an attic than with a contentious wife in a lovely home. Proverbs 21:9
I cannot stop laughing how all his videos are randomly popping up on my feed. Thank God for that as I need them!!
Yes brother. I have no idea who you are but wish you best. I am 38 now, two years ago my fiance decided to dump me. I moved on, but still had hope to come back. Gave her time, while I worked on my career. Now she decided to risk her new chapter with somebody else. My heart is shattered... But now - I am starting to move on. Scared as hell that it might be too late to find true love... But - we will get there. The world is cruel place. WIsh you all best
@@HCforLife1wish you the best my man
6 years down the drain it hurts so bad but i guess i don't have enough resources to keep her happy, its a lesson learned and its definitely gonna make me sharper. Keep your head up fellas its gonna be ok.
Wife of 8 years finally moved on after being split for 2 years. Hardest thing to digest mentally.
Going through that right now, your not alone.
🙌🙌🙌@@quintanillafam94
how you holding up man?
Been there. Hang in there and do the work. Claw your way out.
Who’s gonna carry the boats & the logs 💪👊🏼
Dude?!?!
You kidding me??
This is like the best motivational speech I ever heard.
Do you have more of these insulting get your ass in gear
antidotes?
Thank you
We got this, bros! Let's get that bread.
Remember guys you are the prize let them chase you while you become the success you want to be
Met this girl... I liked her and well I gave up on her because I felt not being worthy of her... I tried to get her back with those words.. she just doesnt care anymore.. it broke my heart and I cant get her out of my head. It HURTS, but I feel like all there is to do left is what Tate talks about in this video. Work as hard as possible and never feel like being unworthy... AGAIN!
Letting go of an amazing feeling, better than anything I've ever felt.
Its been a month that we're apart, I ve treated her like a queen, never cheated on her, never been abusive either emotionnaly, verbally or physically and I was open for communication. 6yrs together ffs thrown away. I loved her deeply, respected her, and planned my future with her to have kids and then she pulls the classic "everthing has changed, I need to put myself first...". Im working on my mindset and working out, and focusing on my job and just embracing the pain and letting go althougb it hurts so much to have trusted someone so much and at the end they act as if you ve done nothing. I know that have done all my efforts, and was very loyal, better to sleep oppressed than oppress someone. For all the brothers going through a shitty situation you can go through this this is my 2nd failed long term relationship I think I need to become selfish and let the girl enter my frame and not the other way around. Stay strong, I know that you cared a lot, and loved too much, and been kind too much that the other part took it for granted, but be sure that the time will show them that they have lost a diamond while they were collexting rocks.
I am working on myself. I am reading, working out 3 times a week, working 50 hours per week. Journaling my career goals. I know I am improving.
I know I am improving. But she is still stuck in the past of who she thought I was before. And I think she is starting to realize what she lost. I have always been this man with passions, hobbies and strong work ethic.
I love her and she busts her ass. She has great qualities. But she does need to level up and mature a bit to catch up with me. And that doesnt mean ill slow down for her. Ill still read. Look and search for opportunities in my job field, work out, read and pray. I am improving and taking action.
Just do it. My time is now!!
🙏🏿 I will listen to this video about 3-4 times a week! I want to get here!!!
You will💪
I acctually got some tears of joy after what Tate said
I really needed this
She ain't worth it. Hit the gym bro.
You're crying from a man's speech, far out get a grip are you PM'S.
@@peterlawson8040shut the hell up. Anyone can cry and let it all out of they need to.
Bein a hard ass won't help you move on.
14 years together and a 4 year old. After months of trying to work things back together for our family, i cant let it drown me anymore. Her best friend just had a divorce, driving that into our lives. Yesterday was the first day on 14 years i looked at my wife and was truly unattracted. In the moment i seen her unhappiness and felt mine.
Let her go.. Seek success in silence. They are always watching king's.
Chin up we are meant for more men.
God knows best, and he always has a plan. Never forget that my brothers
I walk the fuck away, I do self discipline, I work on me and let them come to me
Definitely embarrassed myself and was self destructive. The good thing is, a strong man is a better off than a coddled woman.
I have to let go of my 2 and a half year relationship with this Man I thought I knew... I have a 1 yr old son and I'm 3 months pregnant with our second child, he hits me , he plays minds games... he loves me one day and the next day I ain't shit to him... I'm hurting bad... girls go through shit with Men as well... Strong strong guys!... I would of die and/or kill for this Man.... there's good women out there.... don't give up.. learn from this and most of all love yourself
Bro, we need more from Andrew tate, especially in your edit
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This couldnt of come at a better time.
Had my little heart broke in my teens took me a long time to get over .
However I went on to achieve quite alot for my age .
I seen this girl around the area couple of years back and the wall had hit her so so hard and I don't believe she's ever changed that much natural born lier
Wow the future has made me happy about the past .
Thanks for sharing that. 👏
All things in life temporary. She’s never yours it’s just your turn. Yup, it hurts cause we invest time maybe years but in the end life goes on or it doesn’t, you decide
I needed this…
She left, destroyed me but I am using that energy I started boxing kickboxing, gym, and working all night on a new project with goals to get rich
I think you could use this for more than just a past relationship. Loss of any loved one.
Sorry to hear what everyone's going through hopefully time will help you heal .I'm sure it will😊
Thank you Andrew Tate God bless you 😊
If I have listened to all these before my high school graduation exam,I would have been doing way better for that
This juist pop up on my youtube...i think its a blessing to listen to the top G...
I recently found out the mother to my kids and the women I cherish didn’t want me in her life anymore . I was bad with alcohol but didn’t see it and what problems it caused . I don’t drink anymore my heads so much clearer I see my kids and her for food and activities every now and again . If I need help she is there and amazing to me .
We are not together she wants to be alone it’s been 7 months but I just cherish what time we spend together. We have to be strong for the kids and not let them suffer .
It’s even harder for me as the love I have for her gets stronger and stronger all the time .
Keep if the booze guys it’s a silent killer in many ways 💙
I’ll be praying for you brother . Just be careful with those feelings your keeping for her because if she never wants to get back together we’ll then your hurting yourself .. cause your not opening yourself up to be looking for someone else who will love you and you can cherish her.. stay civil with your X to co-parent successfully, so you still get that time with your children.. Then in due time I would be asking to spend time with your children only. This whole hanging out with your kids and she’s there is wrong. Especially if she has
No plans of getting back together with you. So if that’s the case i know it will be hard to, but you’ve gotta accept that and move forward with your life brother.
I pray everything works out for you to where your the happiest you’ve ever been.. stay tough stay strong.
@@robertnance7522 thanks for this yeah a few friends have said the same .
It’s not right but I love her so much and don’t want the kids to grow up with step parents .
I grew up like that and it was awful .
Oh it’s so tough
I feel this and in the same boat as I rebuild my life and business in a town we used to live in. My daughter is the one who suffers the most and the beer is something I’ll never touch again. I’ve always been the one people turned to for strength with my work and attitude. Now I’m asking Him for a spot instead of a fellow trainer in the gym. It’s hard and my wife is stronger then I ever knew.
Godspeed
@@traps361I feel ya too mate . I’ve always been the positive one for others now I’m just a broken man
Its not her or anyone else breaking you. Only person thats doing it is you and only you yourself
Helped me from heartbreak thanks my bro.
Needed to hear this during a workout❤
I’m lost for words….beautiful ❤
Holy smokes, this was ridiculously powerful. One of those few, rare videos which hit you like a ton of bricks.
Yup. I think we men need that. I am 38, devastated after my ex-fiance moved on... feeling completely lonely. No friends as I sacrificed everything to her and moved out to another country for 7 years... Life is hell. But I need this kind of videos. Resonating better with me motivating to do things instead of analyzing every bit and piece of my life.
@@HCforLife1 I'm also 38 (for a fortnight lol), and also had to deal with that same pain after sacrificing everything and getting disrespected like that. It's so massive to how a bloke feels inside, but, please know you ain't alone in dealing with such pain, I've been there before mate... as have most dudes.
After birth now already for 3 years ongoing I've been disowned as the father of my only daughter, and I've been mourning day and night ever since.
I could easily get over such an narcisstic and sadistic ex but I've given her the power to destroy me and my life since she noticed that I am extremely vulnerable regarding emotional abuse with declaring my only child dead for me at 43 years old age.
To let go my forbidden daughter seems impossible but after 3 years of waiting, begging, crying, stalking and exposing my weakest side ever, my mind is brainwashed, my heart is torn apart, I lost my business and my savings, and even physically broken down as well.
This year I have to choose for myself before it's too late but I'm scard the rest of my life by the most inhumane mother of my little child who still doesn't even know that I am alive anyway. I made the worst mistake of my life to believe in an narccisist who's even able to let me prepare the whole babyroom just for nothing.
My parentalship she suddenly decided to turn into an anonimous donorship.
I will let go of my only little girl who I'm not allowed to get to know but my heart will keep on bleeding
I will rise...
Yes you can!!
Thank you. Sadly for me it’s been a year.. but man I needed to hear this.
Please we need more of these videos… perfect editing and the way the concepts mesh flow
It’s day 3. Ive been to the gym 2 days and about to go again. I’m lot wasting a second. It’s time to get to work.
(0:34 this is true) It is better to be hit with the hard truth. Yes nine time out of ten majority of women will find a better mate very quickly. It is for the better as men to just focus on self improvement. Keep thy nose to the grinding stone.
Don’t waste time on some trash that has no confer for you or anyone. Don’t cry over spoiled spilled milk.
Focus on yourself and go for what you want that is worth having.
I wish I had these talks when I was at my worst. I came really close to losing almost everything if I had been a lesser man. It took me way too long to pick myself up without these hard truths. I had to figure it much slower than I would have if I had this spoken to me sooner. But that’s ok. Made it out enough so that I can start building again.
Keep on trucking brother. In 2017 I was homeless, addicted to heroin, zeroed out, with a bankruptcy on my credit report. Now I own my home cash, I’ve been clean for 6 years and rebuilt my credit up to 720 (bankruptcy falls off the report in 2025). In the past few months I’ve lost 60lbs down from 420lbs, I’m 6’6. The next year is gonna be centered on getting down another 140lbs to 220lbs. It’s possible but nobody is gonna do the work for us. I got tired of watching my friends die or wish they were dead while people like Tate are walking on clouds. 🚀
@@zebrapleco7895damn man im anchoolic 21 years old this shit made me time out(think)
I needed this today. Thank you!
Been a year and some months ended up self destructive but this helped seal up my past.
I made her my only reason to live everyday
Now I have nothing else
Go chase that bag big guy
Thank u
being broken for almost 4 months now and It's really embarrassing to myself but I know and I feel it for some reason I'm getting better day by day.
I was a time waster and heavy drinker, but my own headspace became my jail with negative thoughts and feelings. Through my own decisions I pushed out and hit the gym harder, got the promotion I deserve and the chance to further improve myself. All I can say to everyone is this, the past will eat your life away, the future is where your growth is and the present is the opportunity to choose where you go. Don’t let what could of been affect what can be
2 years now am up and stronger then ever 💪🏻
If there's one thing I learned from this video, it is that I met a high value woman who is better on every aspect and form than myself. She was worth it. Thanks Andrew
She's my ex girlfriend