How to know if you're the only guy she's interested in or talking to

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  • Tough call. She get's a lot of attention, and understandably so. You're in the race for her heart but you wanna know if you're the only guy she's interested in or talking to. Happy viewing!
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    00:00 - Intro
    01:04 - Sign 1
    01:55 - Sign 2
    02:46 - Sign 3
    03:51 - Sign 4
    05:05 - Sign 5
    05:45 - Sign 6
    06:45 - Sign 7
    07:41 - Sign 8
    08:33 - Sign 9
    09:00 - Sign 10
    10:00 - Final thoughts

ความคิดเห็น • 279

  • @greatness3554
    @greatness3554 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    1) Her texts and calls are quite frequent.
    2) She is making excuses to be in close proximity to you.
    3) You guys are on the same page about commitment.
    4) Her social media posts seem to be directed at you.
    5) She accepts your plans right away.
    6) She tries very hard to impress you.
    7) She is not afraid to get emotional and share her feelings with you.
    8) She displays jealousy when other girls give you attention.
    9) She introduces you to friends and family.
    10) She likes giving you attention.

    • @cautarepvp2079
      @cautarepvp2079 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Straightforward eh? What if you don't reciprocate? Some short time and she leaves you..

  • @fonzworthbentley7455
    @fonzworthbentley7455 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    You're *NEVER* the only guy she's talking to. They are always entertaining other men.

  • @classicrocker889
    @classicrocker889 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    ALWAYS TRUST YOUR GUT FEELING(S). Never ignore them this is a good basic guide . Every woman is different so her signs of Faithfulness or UNFAITHFULNESS will be different. Keep your eyes open and Watch what goes on around you !!!!! No Woman can deceive you if Keep You Eyes Open .

  • @ishmaelotoo5215
    @ishmaelotoo5215 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Some girls will show most of these signs but in the end, you will realize she was just using you to kill her boredom

    • @ayokunledavid
      @ayokunledavid ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very right bro, they just use you to while away time

    • @johntez25mc-supercop
      @johntez25mc-supercop ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bitter truth

    • @emmanuelmensah7480
      @emmanuelmensah7480 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have been there before she was using me until she came to meet another girl in my house

    • @esivuewaliu9009
      @esivuewaliu9009 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Truth

  • @Coastal_band1
    @Coastal_band1 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    when you two are really into each other, you will be on the same page with regards to commitment.. we are all busy buh we make time for things that matter to us

  • @Dtown1996
    @Dtown1996 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    Women are always juggling guys. If she’s doing these things then that means you’re higher on her depth chart

    • @12Messenger
      @12Messenger ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Tbh i used to hate to accept the truth but it happens. Stay pursuing your purpose and live a life of abundance.

    • @12Messenger
      @12Messenger ปีที่แล้ว +17

      And the best way to get over your ex gf is to find a cooler girl you REALLY like and typically better looking than your ex you'll get over her quickly I PROMISE. You hurt even more when you just settle for a girl who can keep you company everyday and have reliable sex with....DONT. GO FOR THE GIRL YOU REALLY WANT

    • @definedbyalohallctmliveit3459
      @definedbyalohallctmliveit3459 ปีที่แล้ว

      This is the second time I believe I’ve been ghosted & were in all this connected levels very jealous, possessive, texts a lot, calls constantly, talks constantly! And this is on the weekend! Should I pull away? Or Engage through text? Or end it? & We Both are going through issues as well! Our attraction is unbreakable! Am I over thinking?

    • @iandiru6433
      @iandiru6433 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@definedbyalohallctmliveit3459 Talk to her about whats going on and as i said earlier if she is commited and willing to hear you and your concerns then the relationship can still be rekindled if she becomes distant and unwilling to heed to your concerns however painful its best you move on keep on praying some day GOD will locate and grant you the woman who will cherish,appreciate and love you for who you are sometimes its better leave a broken relationship than hurt yourself trying to fix it.your mental,physcological,emotionall well being is very important as well

    • @phatmeechie1958
      @phatmeechie1958 ปีที่แล้ว

      I can tell your an P also brother 100

  • @ganymede3141
    @ganymede3141 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I'll make this easy: You're NEVER the only guy she's talking to or interested in. She's always juggling multiple guys and has a dozen orbiters in a holding pattern.

  • @rodneysessoms8804
    @rodneysessoms8804 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Oh just continue to be your honest self and exhibit patience. The truth always reveals itself, I was talking to a young lady for about 2 years and even she came from another state to visit. Long story short the guy she was living with happens to get into her phone and contacted me twice spitting fire and cursing me. I didn't go back & forth with him, but I had to call the police because the 2nd time he went in on her and I feared for her safety. Later she sent me text explaining her behavior, my issue is we're going to have female & male friends, but this isn't high school. We're supposed to be adults & be honest if there's someone else occupying our time. Tread carefully fellas, these females out here old as they are running game and getting caught up smh

  • @GUITARTIME2024
    @GUITARTIME2024 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I like the classy way you speak. Bring that to America. We need it.

  • @captainkeyboard1007
    @captainkeyboard1007 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Not only do you elaborate on your advice, you also answer the questions the human mind bears. You make honest-to-good common sense. I wish I had learned these things when I was a child. These hints should be taught as lessons on dating and courting.

  • @RedBerrySky7
    @RedBerrySky7 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    in this era of social media you will never be the "only guy" you can be the "main guy" but never the "only guy"

  • @javierortegon7536
    @javierortegon7536 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    WHEN A WOMAN HAS MULTIPLE MEN IN HER LIFE SHE IS NOT WORTH A DAMN !

  • @danielfiavey7735
    @danielfiavey7735 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    We see all the red flags, we see all warning signs but we are just too stubborn to accept the reality that the person we are interested in doesn't feel much the same way we do about them; all because something called love is blind and loving eyes don't see!

    • @marcuslarkins930
      @marcuslarkins930 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Or you just don't want to or niece to it. But you want her to be the one cuz you love her and she not

    • @jamesbedugraham8056
      @jamesbedugraham8056 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree on the issue and the matter

    • @MrDeRobert
      @MrDeRobert ปีที่แล้ว

      👊

    • @emmanuelmensah7480
      @emmanuelmensah7480 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love is not blind as you say you blind your heart and mind not to accept the wrong side of her, your eyes are tool to see

    • @JordanTu-leni
      @JordanTu-leni ปีที่แล้ว

      NB: even women watch and learn on how to pretend to win our hearts., mostly we fall for Thier fake moves without even knowing who they really are. That gender is a deep breath.

  • @michaelkoii9672
    @michaelkoii9672 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Had all these signs from ladies but never understood some of their meanings. Thank you Jessie for highlighting these.

  • @blessedone6292
    @blessedone6292 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This is the exactly what am looking for all this while ......am finding it difficult to believe if my girl truly love ........believe me 90% of these, she is doing it.....am so happy and thanks alot

  • @haveyourselfagooddayyeah1643
    @haveyourselfagooddayyeah1643 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I have been going thru a ruff path in my 6years relationship and I’ve observed all these things with her for the past few month to a year and I’ve been wondering if I’m overthinking or reacting but you just confirmed everything. It’s time for me to leave this relationship 😔

  • @mrtheozzy6227
    @mrtheozzy6227 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is the info I've been searching for over months 😄

  • @emmanuelsalako7370
    @emmanuelsalako7370 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Friend zone, girl friends they are almost everywhere you go. When you have something serious in mind but she is not so feeling you and have other men that have the ball in her hand. Women would never be fully understood by men, but we thank God for Jessica that puts some things in perspective so we can all avoid the land mines in relationships... I particularly love this video, for it helps to narrow down the playing field! And a true woman who is awesome would value the potential of a great man, women very interesting especially if she wants you to like her... Jealousy is a good sign but when it's too much it can be something else

  • @chidichoms
    @chidichoms ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jessica you are saving my life here, u don't even know it.

  • @aklikpe
    @aklikpe ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thanks very much Jessica, your contents are very much educative and revealing. Keep up with the good work.

  • @MrMoet
    @MrMoet ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like your tone. It makes me even more receptive to your instruction. I am a new follower who is very glad you popped up on my YT timeline .

  • @ferdinardomoga2003
    @ferdinardomoga2003 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hey Jessica, always on point. This has been a good one.

  • @Introvertedalpha
    @Introvertedalpha ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great tips, especially being on the same page about commitment.

  • @terhemengabriel9491
    @terhemengabriel9491 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jessica , this is one of the best videos from you. The signs are not conclusive but they are a very good guide. Some of the signs seen does not in any way means the lady is interested. Some ladies are just game players , some like to be chased , some are just time wasters and yet others are genuinely confused. Time however will reveal what's going on.
    Thank you !

    • @terhemengabriel9491
      @terhemengabriel9491 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It is important to note that multiple dating is very common now. Many see it as wisdom and protection from heartbreak and lack of trust. Unilateral commitment is a very scarce virtue nowadays.

  • @nountrending
    @nountrending ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow. Your video came at the right time. Thanks so much.

  • @CCobraProductions
    @CCobraProductions ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you as always for your timely advice .

  • @ssemakulaandrew5731
    @ssemakulaandrew5731 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is my best channel, I can't take any step away though I still have challenges with my relationship

  • @appadoopomme4055
    @appadoopomme4055 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for taking effort to create videos like these , Hope you live a happy life😎👌✨

  • @bilaljawed5155
    @bilaljawed5155 ปีที่แล้ว

    Most Intellectual woman I have ever seen ❤️

  • @TRUTH24-7
    @TRUTH24-7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for the tips Miss Jessy ❤️🙏🏼

  • @dhanrajmohan701
    @dhanrajmohan701 ปีที่แล้ว

    Public comment. Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge and inspiration with humanity. Words of wisdom.

  • @jeremygray7260
    @jeremygray7260 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Jessica, at the end you stated that the circumstances or suggestions were not always on point with what really may be circumstances. I’ve got a tough one! She’s really unpredictable, but facts are facts and I love your commentaries on the subjects at hand.
    Some have been on point, I feel I’m stupid for sticking around. Your opinion is more than welcome. If we were to be at more in depth discussions about it. Love it , hope you have a blessed night! ❤

  • @johnmatthew8596
    @johnmatthew8596 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is rich. Thank You so much, I am blessed ❤ 💝

  • @juzywyz4461
    @juzywyz4461 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're so Right. Jessica , just my experience with my present relationship.

  • @johnmosha7670
    @johnmosha7670 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for the update. Love you ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @abdouliejammeh5213
    @abdouliejammeh5213 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Jessie you are indeed amazing ❤🎉

  • @africanfam500
    @africanfam500 ปีที่แล้ว

    This gyal spits sweet sacred wisdom.i lov it from kenya

  • @kabelomakgahlela1391
    @kabelomakgahlela1391 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ❤love !!❤ love!! ❤love for this Channel...☺☺

  • @jackosodo3838
    @jackosodo3838 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very helpful tips. From Kenya!

  • @malineli3266
    @malineli3266 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jessica on point as always🇧🇧

  • @harvelle1
    @harvelle1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great commentary!

  • @JohnnyK237
    @JohnnyK237 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jessica I love ur videos you’re giving so much knowledge

  • @dereksilver5382
    @dereksilver5382 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Jessy for this info

  • @makamuwatshilidzi
    @makamuwatshilidzi ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm new here and this platform is informative 👌 thanks I came across it today🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦📍

  • @Avenidadermc
    @Avenidadermc ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Jessica ❤️. Learning voice over from you from afar🙇🏽‍♀️.

  • @SoJesusChristMusic
    @SoJesusChristMusic 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Video was on point! Shared!

  • @skysevensstudio3332
    @skysevensstudio3332 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great content of all time,❤.

  • @abelestifanos21
    @abelestifanos21 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tnx for the helpful tips.

  • @iginas4eva
    @iginas4eva ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this tips

  • @footballmagic6769
    @footballmagic6769 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have been waiting for this video and same topic

  • @lostson7475
    @lostson7475 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Thanks 🙏 Jessica your videos are educative but all in all it’s very hard to get a genuine relationship in this generation
    YOUR NEW SUBSCRIBER 🤝

  • @jamesroberts7115
    @jamesroberts7115 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I been down that road before with high maintenance woman before everything u said is exactly what I went through. So I no longer friends with her anymore but she doesn’t have intentions just dating multiple men no time for that 🏃🏽‍♂️

  • @wassanfrancis8009
    @wassanfrancis8009 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Jess🙏

  • @reubenmogwasi3548
    @reubenmogwasi3548 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was deep n helpful thanks alot

  • @Thejagodfada1233
    @Thejagodfada1233 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great advice 👍

  • @pontianekakoro1737
    @pontianekakoro1737 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The last statement is the most factual...☺️

  • @idictak9591
    @idictak9591 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great job
    #Sunshine girl ❤️

  • @okumagbeabbey2030
    @okumagbeabbey2030 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    always on point

  • @broaddusmarines
    @broaddusmarines ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You just got a new subscriber.

  • @sylvesterese466
    @sylvesterese466 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jess', thanks... Just thanks... Huge One..

  • @minniemuigai6283
    @minniemuigai6283 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hey jessica you have been of great help when we got into a rough patch with my girlfriend coz of her philodering behaviour i jst decided we part ways.

  • @bajanlandscapes
    @bajanlandscapes ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes...that is very much true🥰👍

  • @rahabmugambi7697
    @rahabmugambi7697 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow very important and well researched information

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  หลายเดือนก่อน

      Glad you think so!

  • @oscarspringer1260
    @oscarspringer1260 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good morning lovely beautiful woman 👠😘👠 of God, thanks 🙏 for your honesty.

  • @4hinson777
    @4hinson777 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jessica,
    Been a minute since taking in your videos, this one I'm sure is a good one too! 🔥👌🏾

  • @lugnerthelisma1246
    @lugnerthelisma1246 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful my dear!

  • @brighttobias
    @brighttobias ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Inspiring ❣️❣️

  • @dvforextrades
    @dvforextrades ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you very much

  • @yawampofo8529
    @yawampofo8529 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    All the clues are true. Stay with Jess if u want a peaceful and awesome advice.

  • @jossell911
    @jossell911 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great vid💯

  • @jeffbrown1887
    @jeffbrown1887 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Another good video

  • @usenasolutions
    @usenasolutions ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you

  • @adventuresinafricaandabroa1942
    @adventuresinafricaandabroa1942 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Number 6 that's a green light for me.

  • @joebuegar876
    @joebuegar876 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are a Queen 🙏🙏

  • @mockapp6973
    @mockapp6973 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are good.

  • @alaoabiodun8575
    @alaoabiodun8575 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    @jessica if she is busy with work and basically works from 9am till 9pm in the night she might definitely not have chance to call you frequently.

  • @levarallen824
    @levarallen824 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Jessica

  • @virginiaharvey
    @virginiaharvey ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Showing off,good one.

    • @virginiaharvey
      @virginiaharvey ปีที่แล้ว

      @risse meansL congrats on marriage a few know do this not many.I'm single fifteen yrs,don't have that issue.this.happy marriage to u both!

  • @niiamu3300
    @niiamu3300 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are right!

  • @agyeimaxwell.
    @agyeimaxwell. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for sharing 👍🙏🔥♥️✅💯

  • @OhanaSkinCareSalon
    @OhanaSkinCareSalon ปีที่แล้ว

    Blessed love

  • @evanceotiende8459
    @evanceotiende8459 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very true ❤

  • @findinggrowth743
    @findinggrowth743 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love ya channel as a guy no lie and respect and take everything in a respectable light. The more I watch listen,understand the more I dislike my ex and we had 7 yrs in and makes me wanna built back up my wall on marriage and dnt do it every. And on this video I’m not sure bout this young lady I met a while again she fits some but no enough to be sure

  • @augustinedeman2100
    @augustinedeman2100 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All the above you mension are fact 🇸🇱

  • @sarahboakye7691
    @sarahboakye7691 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great points mentioned 👌
    Always with great videos Jessica ❤️👏

    • @amoakorichard2060
      @amoakorichard2060 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sarah Boakye is here for the tips…I see you lol

  • @fernandonando7214
    @fernandonando7214 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Jess, For Your Advices. I Wanna Go Through Every Video On Your Channel But You Currently Have Alot Lol

  • @legogeneral2234
    @legogeneral2234 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    True ....

  • @adolfarthur9366
    @adolfarthur9366 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jess u made a point about ladies who don't like u but tell u all her problems for u to help her.
    Can u explain further please.
    Thanks 😊

  • @buterajohn2252
    @buterajohn2252 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks

  • @dave3678
    @dave3678 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't really think there is a direct way to know you're the only person she's talking to, because a relationship can be exclusive and there is still someone on the side.

  • @thesiixth7770
    @thesiixth7770 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lookin like a straight Jedi Master I swear she knows the force lol

  • @rickjames21
    @rickjames21 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    My girl definitely cheating but i have no evidence. I can feel it. I think she is using me for the money

  • @juandef4115
    @juandef4115 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The thing is. Your advice is great. But every woman varies and so does the full situation

    • @morrisonmichael162
      @morrisonmichael162 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      If you paid attention to the video, you'd realize she said that at the end of the vid.

    • @iandiru6433
      @iandiru6433 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fact is naturally all women do that but if you are lucky enough to find a loving one thank God cherish her and do your level best not to disappoint her

  • @danielmboungoumayengue2298
    @danielmboungoumayengue2298 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes, Jessica, you're right. I wish I knew this. Unfortunately, I dumped so many girls we describe in as "attachantes" How blind I was !

  • @gerismbougou9326
    @gerismbougou9326 ปีที่แล้ว

    cool content...

  • @georgebronyiaye7562
    @georgebronyiaye7562 ปีที่แล้ว

    So we gonn' hit 1 Million Subs very soon. Wow 🔥♥️ (2yrs)

  • @feinusatovc.4125
    @feinusatovc.4125 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's been a year and and couple of months since we loved each other, and gone through taught days with long distances; what hurts is almost of these signs are being acted from here, plus excuses for calling me back late.

  • @immaculatelum5102
    @immaculatelum5102 ปีที่แล้ว

    So realistic

  • @deejaymckenzieug
    @deejaymckenzieug ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice

  • @okikiakinnibosun4953
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