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- Not that being likeable is the goal in life, but we could surely use some tips when we need them. Being likable is entirely under your control.
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References
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0:34 Ask questions
1:10 Give your time without expecting something
1:35 show your flawz from time to time
2:09 Displaying positive emotions
2:37 be warm and competent
3:11 care about people
3:41 have postive body language
;-; well that was hard
thanks! I'll give you a like for effort
@wen np 💜️
Thanks
Appreciate it
So basically
be nice 🗿
People who wanna be liked by others: *I see this as an absolute win*
People who don't wanna be liked by others: *I see this as an absolute win too*
Lol
People who don't want to be liked: *I'll just do the opposite.*
Lool
I kinda wanna be liked by others but I don’t *need* to be liked by others in order to be happy❤️
People who don't honestly care how others feel about us (yes, I'm guilty), I see this as an absolute win!
Pen spinning should be on this list.
What u mean?
Next version. :)
Same with book spinning
*pulls butterfly knife out of pocket*
I agree.
Rule 1 of getting people to like you:
Dont value people liking you, or else you're just going to seek validation that you're not going to do anything with
This
that's kinda toxic ngl
@@dundun209 What is toxic?
being unkind or doing unkind things for personal gain or to make fun of others
why not value people who like you? if you're gonna play hard to get, you're relying on people to idolize you
I have social anxiety and am going back to on campus classes in the fall. I'm so nervous.
Relatable ;-;
seeing people exhausts me I wish zoom classes would be an option again
It might turn a different perspective, try watching videos and movies that have relate confidence, it works.
Ah darn I'm so sorry to hear that you have that, but you're a great person and you got this this!
The most effective way is to face it gradually
I feel you
In a world full of negativity, be a light source of positivity!
Yeahhhh!!!!
You are the source of our light.
@@Psych2go that's sweet.
Hmmmm, I agree, but negativity is the source of my dark humour, which is the main part of my personality
@@MeemahSN Relatable
its so hard to make people like you when you have intense anxiety attacks
and social anxiety
Ikr
They don’t care
@@marciagomez9528 ok?
yeah I have extreme anxiety and i'm very awkward with people. I just wanna be seen as cool once :((
@@cottoncloudzzz me too :((
Sadly, smiling is difficult because I'm often tired and/or sad.
I'd guess that means I probably have to work on taking care of myself a bit, before I work on my likability.
You definitely need to learn to like yourself before u try to get anyone else to like you
Me: *Genuinely wants to follow this advice*
Social Anxiety: No, socializing is not allowed here, social life must be nonexistent.
Hahaha
havent felt smtg hit this hard in a while
Same
Sounds like your social anxiety is getting a superiority complex and needs to be called to order! If you choose not to socialize, fine, but anything that prevents you from doing whatever you want to do is crippling and unattractive. Please remember that You are lovely; the part of you that says you can't do things is not.
there’s squad fills on fortnite & 7cupsoftea 😊
I'm honestly not that desperate for trying to make others like me.
Amen to that. Im not looking and not in the state of mind for a relationship either. All is Great 👍
Then why- alright
I’d hope more people ‘like’ me but most people around me hates me :( they often say that I’m annoying
Just what I thought! I don't really care about what people think if it doesn't effect my business.
Lucky
“Don’t fake these”
Well shit I’ve been doing this for years now to the point people think it’s genuine, have I learned a cheat code?
and to the point that i think its genuine too ☠️
I'm adding this to my Advice Spell Book-
Okay, so.. when I was in school I didn’t really talk much but when I was with friends. at school they got me to talked which means.. I should ask them the basic questions when I go back to school but when I’m online I ask the same questions over, and over again to different people I meet online which is getting annoying for me at least. but overall I was a caring and generous person in school I bet some people liked me at least. I was also such a gentle person to people in school I wasn’t mean to them at all I was nice to them. I even helped them pick up something they dropped on the floor, and gave it back to them.
I really felt like I made them smile when I did that. it made me smile! I hope I can do the same when I go into 7th grade this year
Be my friend,I like you already. I'm in 7th grade this year 🎉
@@jhaninenuli7278 Oh! okay, I would love too!
How old are you?
@@jhaninenuli7278 I’m 13
Me too
If you can't think of a question, try asking the person about themselves or what they are doing. Showing true interest in others is very refreshing n_n
When you do all these and that one fake classmate still turns everyone against you
🙌🏼 totally agree
Right. All it takes is 1person.
I faced this during my college days! And people say that she is good person. Wtf
Me: Watches the video
Also me: forgets everything immediately
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That is good to hear
i'm so happy you made a right decision. I'm sure there are plenty of good things for you in this world. I wish you best of lucks
Thanks everyone. Good bless you too
How does your reply say *2 weeks ago*
🙏🏿
"7 Things That Would Make People Like You More"
Me: Just be yourself brah, if someone dislikes the person you are, ignore them, be with ppl who like u for u
Yes, be like this. However, you might want to know if people dislike you for a good reason
for some ppl that's a bad thing to do bc for some ppl being is unattractive to ppl (not in a sexual way btw)
The problem is: if you don't know who you are and what you are like, how can you be yourself??
Everytime I gain a friend, a new version of me is created!! 😭 And I don't want this, but Idk how to stop or be me...
@@ailnlin5450 i think u should spend some time on your own trying out different things (activities, hobbies, ideas, ect) so u can learn about who you really are, then try to talk to people and be yourself once you know how you are
depends
damn,i remember these times when i was used to be so likeable by people,now that i have lost this ability by actually trying to be likeable,i wonder if i ever gonna regain this ability by watching this video
I’m loving the art style!
Thanks to all the animators for these videos AND the narrator (you have such a calming voice) of course!
I'm no expert but one great piece of advice I can give to everyone trying to get ppl to like them, is to not make any jokes with ppl who aren't your friends until you both become more comfortable with each other. This is because when u make a joke with someone new, they may or may not find u funny. This might not seem like a big deal, but I can tell you from personal experience and other peoples experience (my friends and other people that I know well) that when you make an unfunny joke with someone new, it makes the other person not wanna be around you as much. This obviously isn't something that people do on purpose, its simply something that many people do completely naturally (but if the person starts making jokes when u both first meet then I guess its fine to do so tho). Also if someone comes up to you and starts making jokes and u wanna become closer with them, one thing I do in this situation is just laugh at their jokes which usually makes them feel like you enjoy being with them.
I just start cracking dark jokes about myself and everyone laughs. Maybe at me, but they're laughing.
Same ^^"
We are all social creatures who care about our social image….
Maybe not 100% true haha
@APxFeezy nah. Isolation protects my health. I’m unhappy around people. The only time I truly feel at home is when I’m alone, in complete isolation. I can’t stand humans. I can’t stand them at all. I lose my sanity without isolation. Spending a week with others is too much. After a day I want to be alone for eternity. My mental health got so fucked up because of humanity. My dream is to be alone, at least then I can sort out my life
@APxFeezy I went without friends for majority of my childhood. I grew up with a father who never cared about me. I don't feel like i've ever belonged. I'm not in corona lockdown, my isolation is by choice because socialisation is too draining. My mental health is ruined because of constant socialisation with people who couldn't give two shits growing up. I have a constant fear of being manipulated or abused because I've never had real friends. The good friends left, the toxic ones replaced them. Being alone is my best bet. If I'm not in a toxic friendship, I push the person away because of my insecurities. I could've had a great friend group if I wasn't dealing with symptoms of impostor syndrome at the time of meeting them.
@@Psych2go _sure..._
@APxFeezy yes. I do know.
I’m working on improving myself, not just how I look but also how I act
I’m also working on how I act . You’re not alone. 🤝💕
But remember to always be yourself and try not to care TOO much about what other things as reputation does indeed matter in real life😁
Indeed 💗🌺
me: scrolling through youtube
Psych2go: HERES WHY YOU'RE DEPRESSED
Lmao
8. Be true/real. Don"t always hide your emotions/feelings.
When someone ask "How are you ?" Most of people says "Ok" or "fine".
Me :"I am fine when I am here with you", 'Depend of the say, sometimes it's ok, sometimes not ok, like all people no ?"
Accept we have feelings and emotions, we can't be on the top mood every time. Show people the reality. Not the fake "Ok" every time.
We like people who share their deep experiences/anecdotes.
First and foremost the important thing, love/like yourself!!!
Get to know who you are as an individual. From there, share that energy with others. Positive energy is like body odor, very contagious!!!
Great tip 👍
All the best😁
I still dont understand self love concept. There are so many contradicting statement and people who love saying self love always do double standart. Thats why I never love myself. I always be harsh on myself
I love the animation so much. The aesthetic and the smooth movements.
0:11 ERET STRAWBERRY DRESSS
AHHH
@@redpark2 AAÆ
I need to put this in my notes.
I've never been able to watch a video this fast from when they post it I'm so excited it hasn't even been up for 1 minute awesome
Show your flaws
*Sweats* perfectionist
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BruhXD
Yeah xD ^^"
Being yourself is so important.
Listening to what people are telling you is a likeable trait too. Most people aren't really listening when others are telling them their story, since they're just waiting for them to finish so they can start talking about their own story. Listen and ask questions about what someone is saying
I really like asking people questions but I really don’t know what to ask them ..
Okay, TH-cam is just being mean, now, recommending this to me
Very simple and helpful! Thanks a lot!👍
Thank your for all your videos.They are very truthful,the pictures are the kindest I ever seen.
The whole idea to bring psychology closer to people this way is I think immensely helpful.
Most people in my class fear me, run from me when they see me, laugh while they run from me, when I stare at them they fear, I ask them questions, they ignore. I don’t know why people are so scared of me, but I only use fighting for self defence, but all they think is that I’ll bully them. I’m a really nice person in reality, but people just dont see it. I have feelings too, my fellow classmates. 🙃
ouch
I am sorry that people don’t see the nice person you seem to be. Your comments are poetic and maybe you should share what you wrote in this site with some of your classmates. Perhaps, they will look at you differently in the future.
This is out of topic but this channel has helped me improve my english. I can understand everything they say without substitles. So thanks :)
Great job dani! Keep it up!
Good job 👍
I loveee the dancing at the end! That made my day, thank you
I SAW THIS IN MY NOTIFS AND CLICKED WITH A BLINK OF AN EYE. I LOVEE YOUR CHANNEL !!
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0:08 Omg,now its googly no google.
Wtf
Thas gooogly
Me realising that I do most of these without knowing and still some don't like me is hurtful
Somewhere most of these kinds of videos should be prefaced with the basics... "Not everybody is going to like you... AND you're just going to have to learn to be cool with that."
There are just personalities that don't mesh with us... and we still have a life to live on this planet... That's okay. They don't have to like us to just be decent and move along... I don't have to like everybody I meet either, and I can still be decent to them, and move along. ;o)
@@gnarthdarkanen7464 ok
Thanks for the video!
Perfect timing for this videoooo I was just talking about thisss😭✨
P2g: keep chin down to avoid looking like you're looking down on people
Boa handcock: literally bends back to look at far down as possible it becomes up
And people still like her xD (me included)
@@blue-uv4mh same lol. I love her relationship with luffy
@@oopsy444 yeah ^^
I've had people hang out with me when they needed money-
That's where you draw your boundaries and set your standards even higher.
@@Psych2go yes
If I ever have a friend like that I'd bring them whenever I buy something and don't share anything to them
Thank you! This is a great video. 😊
I need this so bad lmao, thank you so much
In primary school there was always that one kid that didn't *really* care about people yet would always help out so they could do anything but work
**the video shows 7 things that would make others like you**
Me: Just be yourself brah, if they dislike you being who you want to be, ignore them, be around people who love u for u
but don't murder people that's, that's just bad
Going back to school soon thanks for the tips!
4:19 Okay, thank you. I was worried about being unable to do no. 4 on this list
Yeyyyy *my type* of topic finally.
Thank you admin, this video show me the way and hope can help other people too 🥰
If others don't like me, well then so be it. I am not that desperate to make others like me. If somebody likes me than thats nice, and if not, thats nice too.
The mind delights in making connections.
Excellent video!!!
Im pretty confident in my stuff like my style or my way of interacting but what bothers me is that most people don't usually talk to me if not necessary, I don't really care if they don't like me it's just I want a bigger friend group
Yeah I find some of these helpful, I do most of them but when doing these I often forget about self love. I think I relate to the person who's "to nice for their own good"
Well damn, I just *knew* the fact I tend to ask people questions and actively engage with whatever they're telling me was a good thing (despite feeling annoying af)
Thanks for the advice:)
Thanks for this awesome video.
Perfect timing!
ive reached a point in my life where almost all my friends dropped me and now i’m here trying to become more likable this hurts
Helpful hint - join groups to do fun things, that way you'll find people who like the same thing you do. They'll most likely like you right away because you're having fun doing something that you both enjoy, and it gives you something to talk about and do together.
Not me down this rabbit hole again
OMFG the outRO WAS SO DAMN CUTE AND ADORABLE ANSKSJ-
You know this is a great video considering that school is almost starting :)
just be you and love yourself and the entire world will like you Simple as that 🙂
One phase of my life ; I always wanted to be liked and walked that extra mile .. alas none ever liked me nor cared and I finally started to like me 🙏🙂
I don't wanna be liked by people. I have stopped caring about what people think of me long ago. I just want to like myself more 🥺
You can try self love meditations
@@er-xj8sn Thank you for the suggestions
Thank you, i was doing things the wrong way all this time. I can finally try and be more positive. Please take this as a thank you gift--->🍫🍪
Would it be possible to receive a list for asserting boundaries even if you fear the responses?
I'm in love with Amanda's voice
I just love her voice, soo soft and relaxed
In love with your voice ❤️
Very helpful 😳😉
You're the source of my life
thank so much
I generally don't worry about whether people like me or not, though I do follow most of these tips. They feel more honest, and several people have commented on how they like my genuine nature.
Thank you
I just like asking dumb questions like whats your favorite color. Its fun to learn it.
These are all extremely hard as a person with Borderline personality disorder, but i'm working on it. :)
i read the title and clicked so fast 😭
You're voice is clean
Sometimes, I just don't want to show off my talent.. because to me that seems like I'm just a show off, or a person that likes attention too much
exactly
Well this explains why I'm so popular, I set aside anything I'm doing as soon as I see someone who could use some help, even if they're a complete stranger, I also ask a lot of questions and make pretty clear that I'm not close to perfect when I meet new people
Not trying to flex, I guess I'm just trying to confirm what the video is saying
Essentially this is a checklist for a sociopath to gain friends they can manipulate. With the one exception being, the point about freely giving your time. That they would do in reverse.
those outro dancing tho😂💚
good video thank you
Can you please make a video of a topic about "perfectionism" like disadvantage, advantages etc.?
According to this list, I should be a very likeable person
dont you hate it when the people who are good are viewing this video literally doing all of this while the bad people are liked and not even following any of this-
FR😭😭
Also be brave, honest and merciful. Defend the weak, uphold the just, protect the innocent, help those in need, and strive not to be better than others, but to be better than your former self...wait a second, that's probably a different list. But still good advice. And dance, that never hurt nobody.
Thank you 😌
All the best 😁
Watching this since the last friend I tried to make got jealous of me and said they are going to cut my throat & don’t fall asleep
Early ! Tbh I no longer care of what other think of me, others are jerks