Are you a woman? If so, that makes sense, overall men like to chase and women like to be pursued (for people with healthy attachment and self esteem etc)
I just blocked them at this point, ultimate rejection you can’t reach out to me. I’m tired of the push and pull, ignoring and pushing away, my patience reached its limit. If he doesn’t want me and wants to continue rejecting then I reject right back. I don’t have time for games.
I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex girlfriend, and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring her back into my life.
If you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference. How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?
You push me away I stay away. I’m not here to beg for someone to be part of my life. I’m complete on my own. If you add to my life great. As soon as you take and don’t add…. Bye Felicia
It’s the message at the end that is truly the one we need to hear… Nothing evil or manipulative when you’re operating from a place of authentic self love and inner peace… I truly appreciate your videos Father Alex 🫶🏽
It depends, if they are aware of what they did wrong (esoecially after you pointed it out). If they want you, pushing them away will work. If they dont want you, you will know soon enough. They wont admit to wronging you , and wont fight for you either.
No no Father Alex, This will ONLY works IF the guy/ woman fulfills both conditions below: 1.) Has self-esteem issue. Confident men and women will just say “ok” and move on. 2.) He/ she is head over heels for you. If he/ she doesn’t see you as “the one”, they will not try to win you back even-though they maybe having self-esteem issue.
Totally right !!! What he teaches are not healthy situations ! Unavailable people don t go away because they are not really hurt if you push them away. I learnt the hard lesson
Wow! You just described my marriage the past 3 minths. We had the fight to end all fights and i actually am done with the bs and i moved out He is obsessed with me and finally trying to change for me after 9 years
This was one of your best videos. Watching you speak, all the way from India. Am a hot 50, sending you love n light. Keep up the good work! Am learning, better late than never!😂
Alex from 11:30 you started to talk about big ego, karma, shitty partner, low self esteem, self love and self image. Would you pls make more videos about the second half of this video. Thank you love 💕
Sometimes you gotta push someone away to challenge them. Even though that man have never done anything wrong.. Because a man needs to be challenged, is the type of a man who used to work very hard to get what he desires. People do not value anything they get too fast or you are avaliable why would they make effort.
Honestly though!❤ Since our misunderstandings, I went silent pushed away initially, also due to my circumstances which was what he misunderstood as my excuse. Now he looks back and thinks, what we could've achieved, he even told me this but,am alright with my self esteem. Have been healing, high time now,still,we both miss each other. (Sayin this with evidence)
Father Alex im keeping you in my prayers🙏🏻 im not gonna lie when i first started watching you i thought you were toxic but now i understand 😂 you have changed my perspective ❤ thank you
It makes me laugh so hard when Alex caughts himself making a mistake when saying the ages of his nieces or mistakes in general and quotes what we would think of that like " oh my God he is a bad uncle he is etc etc " 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Why should i want someone who secretly hates themself? It's not worth it. When i had low self esteem i was attracted to that but now, i honestly teach myself to not give a fuck because i don't need someone who fucks with my selfesteem. I need someone to teach me to love them in a gentle way, because honestly, most people lack being gentle, not being judgemental, respectfully
Is there something wrong with me because if someone pushes me away i just think well f that and i will never bother with that person again even if they try and come back in my life
Father Alex training us to become little calculating psychopaths is so wholesome
Haha, yeah I can't believe that this is how human mind really works
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lol, whats ur instagram handle?
Yes I love it hahaha 😂 if the guys were saintly mf*ers then we might not need to be calculative psychopaths hehe 😜
If I’m pushed away, I go away.
Same
I was pushed away & stayed away... His wish was my command. I'll move on if I'm not wanted
He mean when someone act disrespectful you spud act like you don’t want this kind of behaviour , not push away just in random way
Are you a woman? If so, that makes sense, overall men like to chase and women like to be pursued (for people with healthy attachment and self esteem etc)
I just blocked them at this point, ultimate rejection you can’t reach out to me. I’m tired of the push and pull, ignoring and pushing away, my patience reached its limit. If he doesn’t want me and wants to continue rejecting then I reject right back. I don’t have time for games.
I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex girlfriend, and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring her back into my life.
If you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference. How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?
His name is Fatherabulu, and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.
Great share it here. It will help if u grab a new hobby or something
I am half princess, half menace now! Thanks, Alex!
This 100% works on a man that’s not meeting your standards
Well I must be a psychopath because I ain't never feel to run back to a man who pushed me away and expressed he didn't want me.
He said both had to have willness to compromise.
That's because there was never an emotional bond or connection with those people.
Lol same
He is so on point. I get treated so badly because I am chasing them.
He tried to make a play and I used your advice. Now I’m focused on myself again.
The way you understand human is why I listen to you.
You push me away I stay away. I’m not here to beg for someone to be part of my life. I’m complete on my own. If you add to my life great. As soon as you take and don’t add…. Bye Felicia
It’s the message at the end that is truly the one we need to hear… Nothing evil or manipulative when you’re operating from a place of authentic self love and inner peace… I truly appreciate your videos Father Alex 🫶🏽
Exactly how I feel. Best part of the video. I needed to hear that.
This is like the sunshine after the storm. Love the clarity, and your genius!
It depends, if they are aware of what they did wrong (esoecially after you pointed it out). If they want you, pushing them away will work. If they dont want you, you will know soon enough. They wont admit to wronging you , and wont fight for you either.
No no Father Alex, This will ONLY works IF the guy/ woman fulfills both conditions below:
1.) Has self-esteem issue. Confident men and women will just say “ok” and move on.
2.) He/ she is head over heels for you. If he/ she doesn’t see you as “the one”, they will not try to win you back even-though they maybe having self-esteem issue.
Totally right !!! What he teaches are not healthy situations ! Unavailable people don t go away because they are not really hurt if you push them away. I learnt the hard lesson
14:22
Wow! You just described my marriage the past 3 minths. We had the fight to end all fights and i actually am done with the bs and i moved out
He is obsessed with me and finally trying to change for me after 9 years
One of my favorite videos from you. Real and insightful ❤
This man is the real deal,one hundred percent
This was one of your best videos. Watching you speak, all the way from India. Am a hot 50, sending you love n light. Keep up the good work! Am learning, better late than never!😂
Alex from 11:30 you started to talk about big ego, karma, shitty partner, low self esteem, self love and self image. Would you pls make more videos about the second half of this video. Thank you love 💕
Great explanation of self love!
Ok this only works with some people, the guy i pushed away kept coming back...but as soon as i felt pushed away i was really gone!✌️
That’s the point 😂😂😂
That's because you didn't liked them
I enjoy your content Dalexis. Watching from Kenya.
This is fundamental, specially for a recovering people-pleaser :D
Sometimes you gotta push someone away to challenge them. Even though that man have never done anything wrong.. Because a man needs to be challenged, is the type of a man who used to work very hard to get what he desires. People do not value anything they get too fast or you are avaliable why would they make effort.
Agreed!
Idk if pushing them away works for everyone . For example, it's never worked for me. We just end up fighting again.
It works. You could be doing something wrong.
Bless you Padre 🙏🏾 *bows sarcastically* 😂❤
Hey Father A 😁 Can you talk about avoidant men ?
When you light up it allows us to know your human! Your the goat. Love it ❤😊
Honestly though!❤
Since our misunderstandings, I went silent pushed away initially, also due to my circumstances which was what he misunderstood as my excuse.
Now he looks back and thinks, what we could've achieved, he even told me this but,am alright with my self esteem. Have been healing, high time now,still,we both miss each other. (Sayin this with evidence)
You are very good at strategies❤❤❤
Me is different . When people push away .I move on and I don't play those games. If I played that I will make sure he will regret it .and idgf
this vid a whole vibe 🎀
i should do that in my interviews honestly
He said he going to Thailand! Like I care! If he was paying my bills I might say something about it.
Father Alex im keeping you in my prayers🙏🏻 im not gonna lie when i first started watching you i thought you were toxic but now i understand 😂 you have changed my perspective ❤ thank you
He was saying to say hello on his fan page but I’m not saying anything to a married man that I don’t know or probably won’t ever even meet!
It makes me laugh so hard when Alex caughts himself making a mistake when saying the ages of his nieces or mistakes in general and quotes what we would think of that like " oh my God he is a bad uncle he is etc etc " 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Why should i want someone who secretly hates themself? It's not worth it. When i had low self esteem i was attracted to that but now, i honestly teach myself to not give a fuck because i don't need someone who fucks with my selfesteem. I need someone to teach me to love them in a gentle way, because honestly, most people lack being gentle, not being judgemental, respectfully
@5:10 Father Alex's mannerisms🥵
I know exactly that feeling. It's kind of invigorating.
I like a lot your videos and all what you share, wisdom.. thank you to share. .bless to you.
P.s- we love to see you light up 😘
Asè😂❤🎉
We LOOOOVE it 😂❤
Needed this ❤
Perfect timing
Nice video Alex❤
Is there something wrong with me because if someone pushes me away i just think well f that and i will never bother with that person again even if they try and come back in my life
This video is so true
I push away guys as a sport 😂
Powerful 🔥
So much wisdom😅 love this !!!
I appreciate this so much🙏🏾
father alex 🔥
Awesome video!!❤
Father Alex my bf block and end the relationship when I mention something that bothers me.
I'm a sigma ,I don't do that.
Lmao your thumbnail 😂😂😂😂
When i push away it means im prepared for them to go and reach the next good man ahahah lots of men in the Universe is not a problem
5 star video
But how can you push them away? Being less available…? Not replying to texts?
His message is: push them away when the F up!
NOT to manipulate them.
Simple as that!
Push and pull ❤
I think they will rather dump u, having other options and not being that much into u
Weed and meditation compatible?
Asking for a friend
YOUR words literally changed my opinion
Thank you so much❤
Thank you Sir
As always ❤
Father 👨 Alex that name kills me
💯 True advice
Gold!
Very true .
At this stage of the game I can tell you 95% of men get with the wrong partner
Thank you so
Lol I can’t feel my feet or my ears. Your smoking some good shit
I pushed them away by being clingy ahahahha..yes i pushed many men away but they hold.on tight.
Yeah❣️
Always or just at the beginning of the relationship? I mean, if we are being together for some months, does it work the same?
My babyyyyy😍♥️♥️♥️loved your session.
I wanna know how can I tell if he loves me
10 star video 🤞
How did you become so knowledgeable about psychology and human interaction?
Robert Greene
I neeeeeeed ur advice plsssss it’s important
I miss you 🥰
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sheshhhhhhh
Can I talk with u I really need it !
Games games games hahaha
I love you
People know when they are pushing BS.
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Dark psychology 🤣
Why play games? Sick world….
I love watching u smoke
Your a Sweet ❤ 🧁
Just loc your hair
That's dumb people just need to be real and not play games
Yall mad in the comments 😅