I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex girlfriend, and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring her back into my life.
If you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference. How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?
Are you a woman? If so, that makes sense, overall men like to chase and women like to be pursued (for people with healthy attachment and self esteem etc)
You push me away I stay away. I’m not here to beg for someone to be part of my life. I’m complete on my own. If you add to my life great. As soon as you take and don’t add…. Bye Felicia
Sometimes you gotta push someone away to challenge them. Even though that man have never done anything wrong.. Because a man needs to be challenged, is the type of a man who used to work very hard to get what he desires. People do not value anything they get too fast or you are avaliable why would they make effort.
It’s the message at the end that is truly the one we need to hear… Nothing evil or manipulative when you’re operating from a place of authentic self love and inner peace… I truly appreciate your videos Father Alex 🫶🏽
It depends, if they are aware of what they did wrong (esoecially after you pointed it out). If they want you, pushing them away will work. If they dont want you, you will know soon enough. They wont admit to wronging you , and wont fight for you either.
Wow! You just described my marriage the past 3 minths. We had the fight to end all fights and i actually am done with the bs and i moved out He is obsessed with me and finally trying to change for me after 9 years
No no Father Alex, This will ONLY works IF the guy/ woman fulfills both conditions below: 1.) Has self-esteem issue. Confident men and women will just say “ok” and move on. 2.) He/ she is head over heels for you. If he/ she doesn’t see you as “the one”, they will not try to win you back even-though they maybe having self-esteem issue.
Totally right !!! What he teaches are not healthy situations ! Unavailable people don t go away because they are not really hurt if you push them away. I learnt the hard lesson
Father Alex im keeping you in my prayers🙏🏻 im not gonna lie when i first started watching you i thought you were toxic but now i understand 😂 you have changed my perspective ❤ thank you
Honestly though!❤ Since our misunderstandings, I went silent pushed away initially, also due to my circumstances which was what he misunderstood as my excuse. Now he looks back and thinks, what we could've achieved, he even told me this but,am alright with my self esteem. Have been healing, high time now,still,we both miss each other. (Sayin this with evidence)
It makes me laugh so hard when Alex caughts himself making a mistake when saying the ages of his nieces or mistakes in general and quotes what we would think of that like " oh my God he is a bad uncle he is etc etc " 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Alex from 11:30 you started to talk about big ego, karma, shitty partner, low self esteem, self love and self image. Would you pls make more videos about the second half of this video. Thank you love 💕
Why should i want someone who secretly hates themself? It's not worth it. When i had low self esteem i was attracted to that but now, i honestly teach myself to not give a fuck because i don't need someone who fucks with my selfesteem. I need someone to teach me to love them in a gentle way, because honestly, most people lack being gentle, not being judgemental, respectfully
Is there something wrong with me because if someone pushes me away i just think well f that and i will never bother with that person again even if they try and come back in my life
I recently went through a difficult breakup. My five year relationship ended a month ago, and it's been incredibly hard. I still have so much love for my ex girlfriend, and I can't seem to get her out of my mind. Despite my best efforts to win her back, nothing has worked, and the thought of being with anyone else feels impossible right now. I know it might sound odd to share this here, but I miss her deeply and can't stop thinking about her.
I completely understand the pain of letting go of someone you love. I went through a similar experience when my 10 year relationship ended. I couldn't imagine my life without her, so I tried everything to rekindle our love. I eventually found guidance from a spiritual counselor, and their support helped me bring her back into my life.
If you're open to it, seeking help from a spiritual counselor might make a difference. How did you find your spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with them?
His name is Fatherabulu, and he's an incredible spiritual counselor known for helping restore relationships.
Father Alex training us to become little calculating psychopaths is so wholesome
Haha, yeah I can't believe that this is how human mind really works
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lol, whats ur instagram handle?
Yes I love it hahaha 😂 if the guys were saintly mf*ers then we might not need to be calculative psychopaths hehe 😜
I was pushed away & stayed away... His wish was my command. I'll move on if I'm not wanted
He mean when someone act disrespectful you spud act like you don’t want this kind of behaviour , not push away just in random way
ffs i be doing it all wrong
Are you a woman? If so, that makes sense, overall men like to chase and women like to be pursued (for people with healthy attachment and self esteem etc)
If I’m pushed away, I go away.
I am half princess, half menace now! Thanks, Alex!
You push me away I stay away. I’m not here to beg for someone to be part of my life. I’m complete on my own. If you add to my life great. As soon as you take and don’t add…. Bye Felicia
Well I must be a psychopath because I ain't never feel to run back to a man who pushed me away and expressed he didn't want me.
He said both had to have willness to compromise.
That's because there was never an emotional bond or connection with those people.
Lol same
This 100% works on a man that’s not meeting your standards
Sometimes you gotta push someone away to challenge them. Even though that man have never done anything wrong.. Because a man needs to be challenged, is the type of a man who used to work very hard to get what he desires. People do not value anything they get too fast or you are avaliable why would they make effort.
Agreed!
The way you understand human is why I listen to you.
He tried to make a play and I used your advice. Now I’m focused on myself again.
It’s the message at the end that is truly the one we need to hear… Nothing evil or manipulative when you’re operating from a place of authentic self love and inner peace… I truly appreciate your videos Father Alex 🫶🏽
Exactly how I feel. Best part of the video. I needed to hear that.
It depends, if they are aware of what they did wrong (esoecially after you pointed it out). If they want you, pushing them away will work. If they dont want you, you will know soon enough. They wont admit to wronging you , and wont fight for you either.
Ok this only works with some people, the guy i pushed away kept coming back...but as soon as i felt pushed away i was really gone!✌️
That’s the point 😂😂😂
That's because you didn't liked them
Wow! You just described my marriage the past 3 minths. We had the fight to end all fights and i actually am done with the bs and i moved out
He is obsessed with me and finally trying to change for me after 9 years
P.s- we love to see you light up 😘
Asè😂❤🎉
We LOOOOVE it 😂❤
This man is the real deal,one hundred percent
Hey Father A 😁 Can you talk about avoidant men ?
No no Father Alex, This will ONLY works IF the guy/ woman fulfills both conditions below:
1.) Has self-esteem issue. Confident men and women will just say “ok” and move on.
2.) He/ she is head over heels for you. If he/ she doesn’t see you as “the one”, they will not try to win you back even-though they maybe having self-esteem issue.
Totally right !!! What he teaches are not healthy situations ! Unavailable people don t go away because they are not really hurt if you push them away. I learnt the hard lesson
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One of my favorite videos from you. Real and insightful ❤
This is fundamental, specially for a recovering people-pleaser :D
Idk if pushing them away works for everyone . For example, it's never worked for me. We just end up fighting again.
It works. You could be doing something wrong.
Me is different . When people push away .I move on and I don't play those games. If I played that I will make sure he will regret it .and idgf
I enjoy your content Dalexis. Watching from Kenya.
i should do that in my interviews honestly
When you light up it allows us to know your human! Your the goat. Love it ❤😊
Great explanation of self love!
He said he going to Thailand! Like I care! If he was paying my bills I might say something about it.
Father Alex im keeping you in my prayers🙏🏻 im not gonna lie when i first started watching you i thought you were toxic but now i understand 😂 you have changed my perspective ❤ thank you
Bless you Padre 🙏🏾 *bows sarcastically* 😂❤
Honestly though!❤
Since our misunderstandings, I went silent pushed away initially, also due to my circumstances which was what he misunderstood as my excuse.
Now he looks back and thinks, what we could've achieved, he even told me this but,am alright with my self esteem. Have been healing, high time now,still,we both miss each other. (Sayin this with evidence)
It makes me laugh so hard when Alex caughts himself making a mistake when saying the ages of his nieces or mistakes in general and quotes what we would think of that like " oh my God he is a bad uncle he is etc etc " 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Needed this ❤
5 star video
You are very good at strategies❤❤❤
Nice video Alex❤
Alex from 11:30 you started to talk about big ego, karma, shitty partner, low self esteem, self love and self image. Would you pls make more videos about the second half of this video. Thank you love 💕
father alex 🔥
Perfect timing
Why should i want someone who secretly hates themself? It's not worth it. When i had low self esteem i was attracted to that but now, i honestly teach myself to not give a fuck because i don't need someone who fucks with my selfesteem. I need someone to teach me to love them in a gentle way, because honestly, most people lack being gentle, not being judgemental, respectfully
Powerful 🔥
this vid a whole vibe 🎀
YOUR words literally changed my opinion
He was saying to say hello on his fan page but I’m not saying anything to a married man that I don’t know or probably won’t ever even meet!
Awesome video!!❤
I like a lot your videos and all what you share, wisdom.. thank you to share. .bless to you.
This video is so true
I push away guys as a sport 😂
When i push away it means im prepared for them to go and reach the next good man ahahah lots of men in the Universe is not a problem
Is there something wrong with me because if someone pushes me away i just think well f that and i will never bother with that person again even if they try and come back in my life
So much wisdom😅 love this !!!
I appreciate this so much🙏🏾
I think they will rather dump u, having other options and not being that much into u
But how can you push them away? Being less available…? Not replying to texts?
Father Alex my bf block and end the relationship when I mention something that bothers me.
@5:10 Father Alex's mannerisms🥵
I know exactly that feeling. It's kind of invigorating.
How did you become so knowledgeable about psychology and human interaction?
Robert Greene
Weed and meditation compatible?
Asking for a friend
Lmao your thumbnail 😂😂😂😂
Lol I can’t feel my feet or my ears. Your smoking some good shit
As always ❤
Gold!
Push and pull ❤
Very true .
Thank you Sir
At this stage of the game I can tell you 95% of men get with the wrong partner
His message is: push them away when the F up!
NOT to manipulate them.
Simple as that!
Thank you so much❤
I pushed them away by being clingy ahahahha..yes i pushed many men away but they hold.on tight.
Father 👨 Alex that name kills me
💯 True advice
Thank you so
My babyyyyy😍♥️♥️♥️loved your session.
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I miss you 🥰
People know when they are pushing BS.
Always or just at the beginning of the relationship? I mean, if we are being together for some months, does it work the same?
10 star video 🤞
Yeah❣️
Games games games hahaha
I wanna know how can I tell if he loves me
I neeeeeeed ur advice plsssss it’s important
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I love you
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Why play games? Sick world….
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Dark psychology 🤣
Can I talk with u I really need it !
I love watching u smoke
Just loc your hair
Yall mad in the comments 😅
That's dumb people just need to be real and not play games
Your a Sweet ❤ 🧁
Why is an actor from Sons of Anarchy acting desperate for attention?
16:06 - 16:18😂❤ F yeah
how often do u smoke
You are amazing , thank you 🙌🏼
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