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When she asks for a "break" in your relationship. Do this

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ส.ค. 2024
  • In this insightful video, I delve into the complex and often misunderstood topic of taking a break in a relationship. Whether you've been faced with this situation or are simply curious about the dynamics of relationship breaks, this video offers a comprehensive guide to understanding the various reasons and implications.
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    00:00 - Intro
    00:39 - What does the 'break" really mean?
    02:32 - Why she asks for a break
    03:37 - Reason 2
    04:06 - Reason 3
    05:16 - What should you do during the break?
    08:16 - How long should you wait?
    09:08 - How to re-attract her

ความคิดเห็น • 108

  • @JWaller412
    @JWaller412 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    Always assume it’s somebody else and just move on. If it’s meant to be she’ll come back. If not, you dodged a bullet. As long as you’re improving yourself, there will always be other options.

    • @4yajustblazin
      @4yajustblazin 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      If she leaves you and comes back, nobody wanted her ass either. Say no to the reachback

    • @sarcasm2960
      @sarcasm2960 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      If she comes back its because she got her cheeks clapped and ready to come back to her secure relationship and thats you 😂

    • @gtoexpress8111
      @gtoexpress8111 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Amen 🙏🙏🙏

    • @victorayodele2577
      @victorayodele2577 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A case the two had a rough argument asking for a break and within a day she's bin longing for a conversation and criticises for not reaching out.

    • @davidoderinlo1314
      @davidoderinlo1314 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Never accept her back if she left she is just coming back to make your life miserable it is because I have experience it.

  • @mauriceoduor4126
    @mauriceoduor4126 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    She's keeping you as a Plan B while leaving herself open for a new relationship with someone else.

  • @KofiAClement
    @KofiAClement 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    She asked for a break when i soo much needed her. truly, i was sick, but managed to give her a space... Trust me, the break took her a long time to try reaching me out but it was too late for me. She had to become an ex in that case ✌️💪.... She's alive, i am alive

    • @gtoexpress8111
      @gtoexpress8111 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen 🙏🙏🙏

    • @KofiAClement
      @KofiAClement 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@gtoexpress8111 Amen

  • @ernestmalonkane8668
    @ernestmalonkane8668 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    If she ask for a break, just give it to her, don't even ask her for how long. Just give it, go quiet 🤫 and watch her behavior. Her behavior in your silence will reveal what she mean by the "break" that she is asking is for.

    • @lambypigs
      @lambypigs 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ernestmalonkane8668 yep she asked for a break/space , I left and now she keeps reaching out for petty things . Literally harassing me smh

  • @SPIKYOCTOMashups29
    @SPIKYOCTOMashups29 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    This is so spot on 💯 I once heard that statement last year. I already saw it coming. Instead of the usual chasing, begging and sending paragraphs, I said nothing. I chose to move on and worked on myself. Things started to improve for me. Later on I met someone new whom I'm still with right now. When my ex found out that I met someone else, that hit a nerve. So I agree with you. Asking for a "break" for me simply means it's a break up. Thanks Jessica for this ✨

    • @gtoexpress8111
      @gtoexpress8111 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen 🙏🙏🙏

    • @olumidekayode9984
      @olumidekayode9984 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same here: asking for a break for me simply means break up

  • @ismailamanneh8628
    @ismailamanneh8628 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    The no contact rule actually works for me. I’m finally back with her😊. Now I use that as my weapon. They hate being ignored.

  • @marekknieshtschav6391
    @marekknieshtschav6391 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    "can we take a break" = I got another person that I'm way more into but IDK if it'll work out so you better wait for me while I explore better options.
    the beautiful simplicity of the "break" is that it lets YOU off the hook easy. they don't want you anymore and you can start reclaiming yourself while they're still lying to themselves about how clever they were.

  • @samaglah
    @samaglah 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Taking a break is when you are fed up with the thing or person and want to try new things. Just move on bro. Don't waste time.

  • @gtoexpress8111
    @gtoexpress8111 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Break means move on from her or him - Its to many fish in the sea to let one relationship crush your feelings - Once these words come out of his or her mouth relax and say okay then you move on - Video on point as usual 😅😅😅

  • @khoury1980
    @khoury1980 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    My wife who we've been together for 16 years,last month I noticed shes been acting a bit different, she told me she's going to her friend's house with my car which is fine, I felt something was off so I checked my dashcam and I heard a conversation with her and a guy and it sounded like she's cheating on me or about to , then I confront her and she tells me the conversation I heard was over coffee , that she would always cancel with him because she knew I'd be upset. Anyway, she lied to me and she met a front that she knew when she was younger, it was another man but she claims they are friends. She would go to his house a few times after she lied to me about it but she knows I don't like it and she says his girlfriend is there. We argue about this friend alot but she swears up and down that they are just friend s. Then today she tells me she wants a break from our relationship and it caught me off guard , she wants time alone. I didn't take it well. Then this evening she tells me to forget about what she said earlier. I'm so confused

  • @hightopfad
    @hightopfad 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I don't believe in breaks! If we need to have a break then it's time to BREAKUP

  • @chimabartholomew3761
    @chimabartholomew3761 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    God bless u dear Jessica, I really learn from this video of yours. Truth is, am actually going through the "give me a break" shit right now. Like u rightly said, I've zeroed my mind about the relationship... Thanks for this once again ❤

  • @nicholaskabutey4964
    @nicholaskabutey4964 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Unfortunately this has been my situation for the past five months, I’ve been begging this girl, she agreed but is still disconnected, watching this video has opened my eyes, I think this’s the time to let go off her.

    • @53strat55
      @53strat55 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      5 months lmao

  • @kevinbulze207
    @kevinbulze207 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I was in a situation like this before personally i knew she wanted to leave the relationship at end its life. In the end she thinks the other guy was better than me in the end i give God thanks for opening my eyes

  • @mphomoffatmudau8672
    @mphomoffatmudau8672 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are a very intelligent and hardworking individual Jessica. Keep it up. We learn a lot from you.

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much!

  • @francisgkmamuzu5048
    @francisgkmamuzu5048 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you. She does not deserve my genuineness.

  • @gmfx78
    @gmfx78 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Am glad you are back to your normal videos. I need more of these please.🎉🎉🎉

  • @amaadomaatv
    @amaadomaatv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    3. What should you do during a break?
    It's most important to take advantage of a "Break" to make yourself Better than when they left you

  • @bat170
    @bat170 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    By the time the break was over, I had already wedded and she only saw the wedding pictures on social media.
    Don't take them back when they come back from a break.

  • @nixonmacelus4448
    @nixonmacelus4448 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Absolutely amazing advice
    Always appreciate your advice
    Thank you keep up the amazing work

  • @jonathanmoris4222
    @jonathanmoris4222 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Personally what's in my mind is if i start asking a woman to love me, then I've lost my value, I've become the cheapest thing on earth b'se one day i can find love else where. I'm not worthy of begging to be loved, it even sounds wierd lol. And they should know that it's so exhausting and we got tored of that childish things since we have a lot to do.

  • @toyinhameed
    @toyinhameed 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This video makes so much sense.
    God bless you

  • @afrikanmike
    @afrikanmike 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    They'll Never Always Tell u whether They've Met with Someone else or not - they usually come with EXCUSES EVEN FROM YOUR PAST DISAGREEMENT & DWELL ON THAT AS EXCUSE OF WANTING AN EXIT 😂😂🤣🤣

  • @kporhawondersetsoafiayao361
    @kporhawondersetsoafiayao361 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    These questions are loaded 😮

  • @nwannagodson7164
    @nwannagodson7164 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So spot on,wish i learnt dx earlier

  • @philiptescot6969
    @philiptescot6969 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Mine is asking for a break now😂😂💔I’m broken Buh I’m okay 🙂

  • @christiannoriega9509
    @christiannoriega9509 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thanks for the Guidance, Jessica! Everything you say is 💯 Solid True!

  • @mauriceoduor4126
    @mauriceoduor4126 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    A woman asking you for a break in the relationship already has another man in the wings. Give her the break and let her go. For a woman to ask for a break, she has lost most of the love that she had for you.

    • @53strat55
      @53strat55 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly, modern women who have done casual hook ups and are into the dating scene 100% have them lined up. Not worth the wait at all, move on. Respect yourself.

    • @user-vf5bv6vo4b
      @user-vf5bv6vo4b หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Facts!

  • @lesetjaditle930
    @lesetjaditle930 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you Jessica ...

  • @djdebonairone
    @djdebonairone 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Another great video beautiful!

  • @abassolalekan2440
    @abassolalekan2440 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you, Jessica.

  • @freshpage1
    @freshpage1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why do I feel like crying after watching this.
    Wish I knew this waaaay back to deal with that moment better. Thank God I'm OK now🤑

  • @kereeditsegosiame5021
    @kereeditsegosiame5021 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    How many chances can you give to someone you love,

  • @vincentmutongi4975
    @vincentmutongi4975 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    When they ask for a break, they are seeing someone else. Bro, dont tolerate such BS, move on.

  • @kelvinvyiper3049
    @kelvinvyiper3049 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Mine is even adding the up to the break. 😂😂😢

    • @aaronandrew360
      @aaronandrew360 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sorry bro 😂😂

  • @BigMerc91CMDNJ
    @BigMerc91CMDNJ 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I remember my ex asking me would she be wrong if she wanted to see other people because she's been thinking about it. I said no not at all. I've been no contact for 9 months and I haven't felt this good in a long time. Don't get me wrong the first 6 months were rough. Today I woke up and my first thought I said to myself was that I'm ready to love again. I'm not going to though. I'm going to wait after the year anniversary to reevaluate how I'm feeling. Her birthday is the 28th and hopefully I don't get any hoovers. I think she tried to hoover me a month ago because I got a text message from a phone number based in California I never saw before. It was the language and phrases that made me feel it was her from a fake number. I ignored it of course.

  • @mirkoilic4798
    @mirkoilic4798 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My opinion is if you love someone you don't need break. You need to talk with your partner about problem/s. Because you are team.
    Or if you don't want to be with someone in relationship anymore be onest and say the reason/s. It's simple.

  • @rahabmugambi7697
    @rahabmugambi7697 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thumbs up !Jessica ❤🇰🇪🇬🇭

  • @ringnyuangel8111
    @ringnyuangel8111 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    This happened to me yesterday 🥺🥺🥺

  • @nlmal4
    @nlmal4 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you

  • @Sythneta
    @Sythneta 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I just discovered my Girlfriend of 3 years has been married...am actually devastated

    • @oggualafein
      @oggualafein 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      How tf does this happen

    • @Sythneta
      @Sythneta 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She was good at hiding her life i gues​@@oggualafein

  • @brianomuti4939
    @brianomuti4939 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wise advice Jessica

  • @salupo4908
    @salupo4908 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ey Jessica, how about if she tells you that can we be best frnds yet before your hv been lovers, what can you do!!

  • @crishanthaperera3526
    @crishanthaperera3526 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's really valuable dear 💐🤝👌

  • @jfb_et
    @jfb_et 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Spot on🎉😊

  • @TheDon6
    @TheDon6 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Big facts!

  • @ogreunderbridge5204
    @ogreunderbridge5204 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its to my repeated experiences, that if you happen to give your wanted attention to somebody else she knows well, she´ll usually come running back begging like the "Cable Guy". Complications makes for choices. I learnt gratitude enough to thank my fluffy lord for 24 hour service mobile locksmiths :))

  • @Extrabrains
    @Extrabrains 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    There's a likelihood she has found someone else. Better not settle for less, you'll be miserable.

  • @gilbertbwerere
    @gilbertbwerere 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You are so smart , you should start writing books on relationships

  • @carlusmclean7662
    @carlusmclean7662 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you 😢

  • @emi5277
    @emi5277 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Jessica. You vast knowledge on relationship and women are intriguing. Do you do counseling for couples? And how do one get in contact with you? Kind regards

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I do. Sign up to my patreon. Www.patreon.com/jessicaos

  • @anthonyjoy5512
    @anthonyjoy5512 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Jessica, my question is, what if the reverse is the case.. I mean, a partner asks his woman not to bother calling or texting him and that if she does ,he won't respond.
    Also ,he didn't specify if he wants a break or he's ending the relationship. This week will make it 3 weeks, no contact from me or him

    • @JessicaOS
      @JessicaOS  9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Sounds like that relationship is over

  • @adriancortes9623
    @adriancortes9623 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My woman said she once a break but we can still text once in awhile what do you do in that case.

  • @amaadomaatv
    @amaadomaatv 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love you Jess

  • @danielvalentine9813
    @danielvalentine9813 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    She said she needs to sort personal issues what do i do?

    • @sarcasm2960
      @sarcasm2960 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Dump her, save yourself.

    • @Anon-qp3kt
      @Anon-qp3kt 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Let her go for now. Focus back on yourself, if she wants you then she’ll come back but don’t expect it. Don’t stalk her on any social media platform because chances are there’s somebody new. Go find someone else if you want, you are now plan B.

  • @adusagyei3679
    @adusagyei3679 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks

  • @adriancortes9623
    @adriancortes9623 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is my first time of a woman asking for a break if you can please help

  • @onkgopotsemokholo8384
    @onkgopotsemokholo8384 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Exactly wat am going through right now

  • @integrafreak1
    @integrafreak1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    She need a break…to go try out outside

  • @abrahamisaac1756
    @abrahamisaac1756 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What’s your advice, if she wants a come back after 2yrs of the break.

  • @brianmanning9563
    @brianmanning9563 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Notes taken

  • @UgotwreckdYT
    @UgotwreckdYT 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if kid involved?

  • @arontestec2806
    @arontestec2806 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How about to take a break because of religious

  • @timothycorless7286
    @timothycorless7286 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Walk away.

  • @so3710
    @so3710 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hmmm, u don't lose yourself in d process!

  • @NicholasOwadie-fs5xk
    @NicholasOwadie-fs5xk 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please can you give us English class on your channel

  • @NicholasOwadie-fs5xk
    @NicholasOwadie-fs5xk 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish one day I can see you one on one

  • @Awesam3rd
    @Awesam3rd 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hello Queen 👑🇺🇳🇺🇸

  • @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv
    @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I break?my love
    My Battery go lowing

  • @aaronandrew360
    @aaronandrew360 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv
    @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    No break?my love
    I like love no like money
    More

  • @michaelrussell80
    @michaelrussell80 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had ex girlfriend she was too easy to go

  • @bernardbaker9451
    @bernardbaker9451 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish I had met you in 1989.

  • @kakasaidi
    @kakasaidi 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What happens when a man asks for a break.. 😉
    Make an article about breaks of men 🚹

  • @moromohammed9869
    @moromohammed9869 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤

  • @borokinnihabeeb5412
    @borokinnihabeeb5412 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv
    @EmmanuelKwao-kw5yv 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My honey give you happy
    Everyday

  • @kennethogorman5436
    @kennethogorman5436 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You’ve lost a lot of weight. You’re just a really, really beautiful girl.

  • @user-jc5ih8jp3s
    @user-jc5ih8jp3s 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    If your so called woman ask for a break... unless you realise she may have mental health issues.
    Just end it. Time waits for know man. She's bored & wants to explore her options. So end it to free to go in search of her golden fleas.
    Take that time to rediscover yourself as a man.
    Goodluck.

  • @Tatenda-dm1wq
    @Tatenda-dm1wq 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    This happened to me a last weekend 😢🥹

  • @henrybotwe1900
    @henrybotwe1900 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    in Ghana seeking from a break means [ its over between us but u can still send me cash pls]

  • @RichDatingDragon
    @RichDatingDragon 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    👍