I made the mistake and chase her, did everything i could for her, and all just for getting dropped.. It destroys your self esteem, believe me brothers. If she doesnt get what a great person you are, let her go, she wasnt the right one...
Well, if you chase and did everything for her, I believe your self-esteem wasnt that great from the beginning anyway. You saw yourself as lower value than her, and thats clearly a self-esteem symptom.
@@snufte i am working on that. 💪 the thing is, even if i had the confidence it still wouldnt work out, but i would've gotten away from her faster. Im glad its over now, life teached me alot there.
@@appeljuicesurf Good! Yes, and I mean you are thinking the right thing! If she doesnt get it she aint the right one. As long as you make sure you optimize your life as you clearly do.
How to make a girl miss you? My advice: Don't. If you are trying to make a girl miss you, then that's the whole problem. Don't *try* . Focus on yourself more and don't be so narrowly-focussed concerning others when you do have to focus on her/others.
The girl who I thought was the love of my life left be back in July 2018 after I was going through some heavy personal shit and I was heartbroken. I showed her that the day she broke up but literally after that day, I acted on social media and toward my friends as if I was living my best life. I drowned myself in school and in the gym to try and level myself up. She came crying back so quickly you guys have no idea. But by then, I had already realized that I respect myself way too much to give her a second chance. Forgive, but never forget boys. Sometimes we confuse missing the idea of this girl rather than the girl herself...just some food for thought.
This girl who I've been consistently texting always took several days to text back. I finally decided to ghost her when she finally replied and she's been calling me for 2 days straight. I am pretty sure I should continue to move on and forget about her even though I liked her
@@MatthewRumble then its a waste of your time, unless you just tryna smash let her know what's up and invite her over 🤷♂️. If she doesn't show , you delete and move on
Brooo this kind of stuff happens to me too. There’s a girl that replies me one day after at the same particular time. After she replies my last message, I’m off. I’m not up for silly games
Absent and silent are the two profound ways to make a woman or anyone for that matter to miss you.. keep in mind nobody, especially women won’t miss you if they didn’t have any prior feelings, connections or time spent together.
Just don’t call, don’t text.....she won’t take her hands off you. I remember this one time in high school this girl told me to give her space. I didn’t talk to her for 1 week and she was all over me like melted butter.
Rhuel Smith she told me the same and I was like” ok but why?” and she said”to forget about you”.That hurt but now I am way better without that bitch.She was wasting my time and she wouldn’t give me the same attention that I gave her.
Rhuel Smith yo the same thing happened to me I gave her space then days passed by I gave her a little drink and she blushed and the nest day we talked and she looks interested and I told her u down to hangout she said yes and then quarantine happened and we stop talking and texting, but she still views my instagram stories and sometimes she's one of the first ones to view my story, so idk
I don't advise my students to play mind games to win back a girl. This may seem like a good move in the short term but long term generally doesn't work all that well.
If you have to actively make a girl miss you, just drop it all together. Trust me. If a girl genuinely likes you she'll miss you regardless of how many times you've texted her. I would know, as all the advice these types of channels love to give ("make her chase you" is a very common one) I did the complete opposite and I'm in a VERY healthy and loving relationship.
This is key information to apply to exes also. Which I feel like he was expressing at the end. Have value for yourself and keep living your life to be happy. Good people and good women will eventually show up and stay. And if they don't, guess what, you're living your life and being happy so you will have won more than the majority of the world! Great video Lloyd!
Who cares.. get out there and f@ck other women .. that are alot younger and hotter than your ex wife.. and trust me after that your not gonna even care what the heartless ex wife is doing with her life. Btw I was in the same situation.. she initiated divorce and we have two small children together.. after I got back out in the game, realizing my self worth and value to how other women were invested in me .. the ex wife became just a distant memory.
joelercoaster I almost did bro, alcohol too making me week lol. If she does reach out I recommend making her wait a couple hours and give her a cold reply, then take about 20 mins for the next reply, if she does have interest that way she’ll have some scarcity so will try harder, if not jump on tinder, every girls is on there atm 🤣
Kyle A we been talkin for a year but she still talks to her ex so that’s why I NEVER took her serious I don’t think I literally ever spent more than a Wendy’s meal the whole time on her lmao but she got mad cuz I went to the beach with another girl -__- when she did the same thing with her ex last month... like wtf? The logic of these chicks man... so I don’t think she’ll reach back out but she did send me 40 texts in a row when she was at the beach with her ex... so idk it’s just a mess and honestly I think it’s all because of the stupid virus... huge cockblock. But I need to upgrade from her anyway
Everything you're saying is, in my opinion, humbling but expert advice. Why would I want a girl who's in-and-out? Just because they come back, why would I actually want them back? There's something so much more worthwhile in us men that is more important than any temporary person.
THANK YOU! this is exactly what I was thinking before you said it! I had a great report with a girl, we had been talking for a while and one day, we hit a peak lol, we were just so there, connected, I was flirting with her, she was happy and excited, then by the afternoon she took like 4 hours to respond to a text, then simply ignored my last text altogether, it was a facebook message, she never opened "seen" nor responded, she is still following my stories though, she's the first to see them, but she's been acting distant for few days and I simply lost interest, I had completely disregarded quite a few things I didn't like about her just because I wanted to give a chance, maybe I'm wrong and here she goes shit testing me for the 3rd time in a week, ffs, I'll pass all those tests but I don't want her anymore, she need to resolve her issues, Bottom line, all women act the same, they shit test, push and pull, but not all are worth the pursuit, sometimes you gotta let her go
Good video!!! Also one other thing I've found why women will leave you suddenly is their ex is in the picture and they don't know what they want or there's something you just can't control so don't put it on yourself. And like Lloyd said they are being immature. Had this happen a few times to me. I just went on my purpose and they hit me up a few months later and I ignore them.
She left me cause I was strict as she was studying abroad...I kept an eye on her at whatever she does....so she felt boring and said me that she realized that she shouldn't have leave her ex boyfrnd...he never tortured her like this... Man I was like " Ok " cause I can't think anything it hitted me like a storm🙂🥀
I wouldn't even go as far as believing she has changed. Women don't have incentive to change because there are plenty of men to go around that they can get. We, on the other hand, we have that drive to do it, not saying it comes easy for us but what we go through, facing the rejections, embarrassments and failures makes us go through enough pain to follow that goal of embettering ourselves. That's why I, at best, recommend leaving women who come back in the friend zone.
Really good video! What I like about this channel is not only the good advices, but also the really clever way of approaching the issues. It helps you reaching that precious insight that will spare you lots of troubles in the end. Thank you Lloyd.
I so glad you posted this video because I feel like I can totally relate to this right now. I was talking to this super hot girl like 4 months ago we hooked up a couple times and than she just all the sudden just wanted to be friends. Honestly she had a lot of baggage going on in her life so I just walked away. Trust me guys if the girl has a crappy job and just broke up with her boyfriend 2 months before you meet her. Run for the hills!!! So I deleted her off all social media and moved on with my life expecting never to hear from her again. So I started to work on myself getting myself out of debt working out and watching your videos. So she hits me up 4 months after we broke it off. And just started asking me all these questions and just seemed curious about what I was doing. So I was vague and just kind of made it seem like it was nothing. Now what I realized it that you have to be gauging Their interest. I didn’t mention anything about hanging out. And the reason why is because she really wasn’t showing any interest. Now if she would of said I miss you and I want to see you than we could make something happen but she said none of that. So I’ve decided I will not hit her up until she wants to make it easy for me to hang out with her because if she isn’t going to make it easy for me she isn’t worth my time! And all you men out there if you’re doing the chasing than someone is doing the running. So focus on you and always put yourself first! Thanks for the video man well done!
Guys, you're doing it wrong. You have to show interest in the woman. She reached out when she called and you didn't seem interested. She's not going to do it again. You lost an opportunity. If she's super hot, she has a lot of guys chasing her, no need to come back to you. Remember this, if you're not paying her attention, someone else is.
I AM she didn’t call me she just texted me. And is honestly just seemed like she wanted something from me because she just lost her job from covid-19 and was saying that she needed money. I called her out on it she sbviously denied it. I hope that made her realize I’m not going to take her bull shit anymore. Remember it’s not what a girl says that matters it’s what she does. She totally could of hit me up when she had a job. And didn’t hit me up until she was in a position of disparity I think that is a red flag for sure. I’ve learned to stay away from the ones that have to much baggage it will just create so many problems in the future. Trust me not worth it at all. Thanks for the advice though man
This Was Perfect Timing In My Situation Lol More Of These Type Of Vids Please. Can You Make A Vid About How To Tell When She Playing You, How To Tell She Talkin To Others On Social Media Etc
Hey George, Humans will keep " window shopping" until they find the ultimate one... All you can do is give yourself some space and become the best version of yourself and let love find you instead. Hope you heal soon.✌️
Nowadays seems dating is getting into mind games, manipulation and heartbreak, a shame, since human beings are meant to develop strong and deep connections to evolve as a species, however sex is now a commodity and you're simply replaceable.
9/10 there is another guy that she chose over u. Move on. Forget them.... if she has "the fear of missing out " u don't need someone as emotional irritation like that. Look forward and don't look back. Use their actions and standards right back on them.... they don't even know what to do. They don't handle rejection very well and most don't have any sort of game. Move on and u will attract women of the same vibe that deserve you.
Lloyd I have a confession to make to you. 4 months before I met a girl, we hooked up, and i liked her. But i was always texted her first, and that bothered me. I am a Todd V's fanboy, but i couldnt find advice from him at this topic, so i searched random what to do, and i found your video about it, which was something like 'why she never texts first'. I did what you say, stop texting her for one week. The result? She texted me after 5 days, she asked to meet me, and since then she always call and text first, she is my girlfriend and really attached to me. This convinced me that you know what you are talking about, and i have to say a big THANK YOU for giving me a great relationship :)
Seems like when you work on being your best self, it changes your perspective. And typically when yoh have truly gotten past it and moved on ,that is when it happens fellas. Great video
I had my ex break up with me a little under a month ago. I’m doing no contact, and my goodness it is hard. 😂 I’ve brought up my grades. I’ve started running again and doing push-ups. I’m applying for jobs. I’m doing my best to have fun and post a little on social media despite the pandemic making it hard. She just wanted a perfect guy. If she wants me back I’m not going to trust her.
Doge Is Pro I just won’t trust her for a VERY VERY LONG time. She was a good friend and I don’t want to kick her out of my life completely. Just for the couple months of no contact. And probably not as a love interest for at least 6 months of us “dating” again BUT NOT EXCLUSIVE. I won’t make that mistake again. If she proves she has changed I might give her another chance. Even if she doesn’t believe it, I believe people can change. Out of the small chance that she is changing, will change or has changed I’ll get back together with her and STILL be cautious because even changed people can change back to old ways.
Conrad Smith changing takes not weeks maybe years but maybe she will change really fast(still tho I don’t think she will).You should take this month or months and try to forget her ,try to erase the hopes of getting back because this months you take are for healing you not giving you false hopes.
You know I grew up in a house of women with no dad. I've had girlfriends no problem it's the alpha mentality Im learning from your videos. So thanks man, a lot of things make sense now an I don't feel bad about it anymore
You mentioned such an important part for me, that I also had to figure out after so many girls, that were nothing but unreliable and cost me time and happiness: When she leaves you out of nowhere, ghosts you, with no really good reason, then it shows her immaturity and will give you an idea, what she will most likely do again, when she comes back. Nobody should waste their time on people, who do this. And for me, the only way for a second chance would be, if she honestly repents and clearly communicates, that it was wrong and that she has taken steps to better herself. Otherwise, this is such a low quality sign of a girl, that will flake again and again and lacks the courage to commit, be honest and reliable.
A girl I had feelings for about 4 years ago started chatting with me after I commented on her Instagram story, we started talking back and forth until just yesterday she ghosted me. I should have learnt my lesson before developing feelings for her once again, lesson is if a girl has ghosted you once she probably will do it again
once a girl meet a really good guy who really care about her, who shows he is in love with her they just walk away for the simple fact they just wanna bad guys into their lives
Just cause you have a girlfriend doesn’t mean you don’t need to hear it anymore. I learned that the hard way. Forgot how to attract my GF and she dumped me.
I think the summary of your advise across all your videos is pretty brief and quite effective. MOVE ON. Man , there's more value to your life than seeking acceptance and validation from egotistical narcissistic person who is full of herself. PERIOD. If someone likes you and is also being positively human, they'll talk to you. If they have a problem they'll be mature to address it rather than be 'bitchy' about it. Otherwise there's plenty to life, and there are plenty to you.
When did men become such simps? Such wimps? Putting women on such a pedestal it’s ridiculous. Handle Your own business. Don’t concern yourself with anything having to do with her and put yourself first. Always.
Men been a simp from the beginning. Fighting over them, starting wars....where the hell you been...we just now realizing that it's not good for us. The phrase "a happy wife is a happy life" been around for decades maybe even centuries
I want to add something to these fair words: it is sad to admit but love cannot be created, it’s something that just borns naturally. When you try to build love chances are that it is not gonna last and you may understand years later that, even what you were able to build with this person, was not actually love
Omg it's painful thinking that I've messaged her way to much. Maybe if things don't work out, I always fear the worst is always going to happen. It's all I'm used to.
Instead of saying "a girl" , i Instead say "that girl". I try to only keep stereotypes tied to the specific people who have demonstrated them. I think all girls should get a clean slate until they start treating you as 2nd place.
Reminds me of a chick I was wild crazy about when we were both hella young. Then one day years and years later she hits me up of social media and I started talking to her because I had been working on myself and I was curious if I still even found her attractive - All I can say is I'm glad I missed that bullet when I was young and desperate/needy...
This is really good advice but, idk how to tailor suit it to my situation. The girl that left me has 2 kids and the father of the children has been the major rift in our relationship... he was trying to get with her during and after we broke up. Idk what she thinks or feels but I know right now we’re on hiatus & im giving her space & time... I’m minding my own business and I’m doing what I gotta do. I still love her & miss the kids, and from what I hear, they miss me & don’t understand where I went.... it’s a tough spot but ultimately I’m trying to better myself rn
I got one question should the man go after the girl or the girl after the man? I ask this because I feel that some girls wait for the guy to go after them to show that you are really interested in them and if you do your thing and do your life they take it as if you are not interested and look for someone else
Look at nature for for answer - the male is always the hunter, the chaser not the female. You are an animal with animal instincts. Chase the woman. A woman will let you know if she's interested, it's up to you to pick up the cues and make your move.
I'd be up for chasing, but most modern girls/women think you have to chase them for your whole life and it's like hunter's worst nightmare, not being able to really catch your prey, just smelling, or taking a small bite and constantly chase it till the end of your life.
@@DutchmanPF93 I'm a woman. I know what I'm talking about. There shouldn't be confusion about male/female roles in courting but here we are. A woman will give you signals to let you know she's interested. It may be a look, a smile, a text etc. It's subtle or it should be. You need to watch for the cues and then act. Women should not be chasing men, it goes against our natural instincts and real men don't like it. When a woman chases a man she comes off as desperate, needy or clingy and men tend to find that very unattractive. If you see a woman you want, go after her otherwise you'll lose out to the guy who will. Never let fear of rejection get in your way. Good luck!
@@Lifes_Frosting So it's basically the same principle for both genres then? I mean girls also don't like needy men. It's funny how I'm starting to see we are basically the same except for some little few things
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What if she was happy with you but you were the one to push her away by being a bit to immature ? She loved me and she was actually a really loyal and genuine person. What do I do it’s been about a month now and I haven’t talked to her how can I get her back ?
My girl just broke up with me today saying I was immature and that she wanted someone that was mature, plus she wanted me too be stable furthermore, she such a good lady, I feel I said a lot of things badly not deliberately she has anxiety and ptsd due to her previously relationship abuse and such.... I like to joke around in general, like banter and better funny but enough of that i was with her all the time further said that i was stressing her out a lot so I dont know what to do.. she said she wants to focus on her education and that she wanted to have a man not a child im 22, lol I look after all the time when she is stressed I dont know what to do i understand that I can joke around a lot and I really love this girl a lot we spent 24/7 together all the time, literally I was living i her house majority of the time because she wanted to have me around all the time to be honest, she is really amazing i know I fucked up but saying some stuff that wss hurtful to hurt but I did not mean it deliberately at all, because I banter a lot with my friends she wants me to be more mature and take and be stable to be honest she such a serious girl I know I've done wrong I've seen many videos about no contact rule to be honest so im not sure to be honest with you
@@AmirZ1 It’s been 7 months bro and we don’t talk anymore, when we do it feels like I’m talking to stranger so tbh man I think if she really loves you and you can genuinely show her you changed then there might be hope but definitely don’t lose yourself trying to please someone else
I just broke up today, my friend i guess the only was to improve ourselves and hopefully we can show them we changed like me and my girl weve been together for 2 months right.. she wanted a really mature man!, and she said that I was a child i understand her point and such I really don't know what to do because she said to me that when I'm with you I feel so stressed and when im not with you I'm not stressed at all, so I really dont know she said that she felt relieved breaking up with me... because it doesn't cause her stress she wants me to be mature and become stable in terms of priority right and also have good job, furthermore she wants me to become a man not an immature idiot so I dont know what to do at this point i literally don't know what to do
@@jesusperales8027 yeah I understand that but the weird thing is though she is 18, and also like she knows i can change we only dated for 1 and half months my friend she's really serious person, I dont know whats wrong to be honest she was like I want to focus on my education etc.. her mental health too. She was lije hopefully in the future we can get back together because she said she loves me and wants to be with me as well
My girl just broke up with me today saying I was immature and that she wanted someone that was mature, plus she wanted me too be stable furthermore, she such a good lady, I feel I said a lot of things badly not deliberately she has anxiety and ptsd due to her previously relationship abuse and such.... I like to joke around in general, like banter and better funny but enough of that i was with her all the time further said that i was stressing her out a lot so I dont know what to do.. she said she wants to focus on her education and that she wanted to have a man not a child im 22, lol I look after all the time when she is stressed I dont know what to do i understand that I can joke around a lot and I really love this girl a lot we spent 24/7 together all the time, literally I was living i her house majority of the time because she wanted to have me around all the time to be honest, she is really amazing i know I fucked up but saying some stuff that wss hurtful to hurt but I did not mean it deliberately at all, because I banter a lot with my friends she wants me to be more mature and take and be stable to be honest she such a serious girl I know I've done wrong I've seen many videos about no contact rule to be honest so im not sure to be honest with you
I would just advise men to not care as much as women do. Women will want you to care as much as they do and once you do they won’t view you as a prize catch anymore. So unless you guys are dating gotta ramp down your obsessions with that person. Idk why women do this, but they do.
"If a woman meets a great guy and gets scared/runs away from him; that's a sign of her immaturity."
Golden words by Lloyd
John DeBord 100% agree with you like wtf will you run?
I woman could run away for many reasons. Just assume she wasn't meant for you and move on. Don't overthink it.
I AM yeah because you are immature.When you say many reasons you mean”I left you for someone else”
John DeBord ...it has more to do with her insecurity.
If she’s not into you, she won’t miss you. That’s the reality
“If a girl left you that easily one time, who’s to say she won’t do that again.” Bro, yes! Never look back!
you meant if she left the guy once, and then come back she could do it again ?
@@dat1008 Bingo
I’ve experience this and after leaving the second time I did a trick and now she’s chasing me.
Am doing for 4th time. God, I should die 😂😂
One of my exes left me three times :) Sometimes love makes people stupid.
I made the mistake and chase her, did everything i could for her, and all just for getting dropped..
It destroys your self esteem, believe me brothers. If she doesnt get what a great person you are, let her go, she wasnt the right one...
Well, if you chase and did everything for her, I believe your self-esteem wasnt that great from the beginning anyway. You saw yourself as lower value than her, and thats clearly a self-esteem symptom.
@@snufte yeah you are right about that.
@@appeljuicesurf The great thing is, work as hard as you can on raising that and the problem will go away :D
@@snufte i am working on that. 💪 the thing is, even if i had the confidence it still wouldnt work out, but i would've gotten away from her faster. Im glad its over now, life teached me alot there.
@@appeljuicesurf Good! Yes, and I mean you are thinking the right thing! If she doesnt get it she aint the right one. As long as you make sure you optimize your life as you clearly do.
How to make a girl miss you?
My advice: Don't. If you are trying to make a girl miss you, then that's the whole problem. Don't *try* . Focus on yourself more and don't be so narrowly-focussed concerning others when you do have to focus on her/others.
The best way to get someone's attention is to withdraw yours
Corey Waynes favourite line :)
Very true though.
The girl who I thought was the love of my life left be back in July 2018 after I was going through some heavy personal shit and I was heartbroken. I showed her that the day she broke up but literally after that day, I acted on social media and toward my friends as if I was living my best life. I drowned myself in school and in the gym to try and level myself up. She came crying back so quickly you guys have no idea. But by then, I had already realized that I respect myself way too much to give her a second chance. Forgive, but never forget boys. Sometimes we confuse missing the idea of this girl rather than the girl herself...just some food for thought.
Luca D 👍🏼
Girls leave you when you are at your lowest
Boys stood for them at their lowest
Give this guy Oscar...
I bet he’s married to her right now.
This girl who I've been consistently texting always took several days to text back. I finally decided to ghost her when she finally replied and she's been calling me for 2 days straight. I am pretty sure I should continue to move on and forget about her even though I liked her
@Max Montair she lives in another state :(
@Max Montair exactly 👍🔥
For how much time did you ghost ?
@@MatthewRumble then its a waste of your time, unless you just tryna smash let her know what's up and invite her over 🤷♂️. If she doesn't show , you delete and move on
Brooo this kind of stuff happens to me too. There’s a girl that replies me one day after at the same particular time. After she replies my last message, I’m off. I’m not up for silly games
Dude your advice is epic, "if she meets a great guy gets scared and runs away from him...is a sign of her immaturity..." I'm a Subscriber now!
"If a woman meets a great guy and gets scared/runs away from him; that's a sign of her immaturity." bro that's awesome!!!
Absent and silent are the two profound ways to make a woman or anyone for that matter to miss you.. keep in mind nobody, especially women won’t miss you if they didn’t have any prior feelings, connections or time spent together.
Stay single until someone match your loyalty
Just don’t call, don’t text.....she won’t take her hands off you. I remember this one time in high school this girl told me to give her space. I didn’t talk to her for 1 week and she was all over me like melted butter.
Do you deliberately put melted butter on yourself?
Victor Palafox lol no
Rhuel Smith she told me the same and I was like” ok but why?” and she said”to forget about you”.That hurt but now I am way better without that bitch.She was wasting my time and she wouldn’t give me the same attention that I gave her.
Doge Is Pro sorry bro. I hope you find someone new, and remember to wear protection. (Masks, gloves)
Rhuel Smith yo the same thing happened to me I gave her space then days passed by I gave her a little drink and she blushed and the nest day we talked and she looks interested and I told her u down to hangout she said yes and then quarantine happened and we stop talking and texting, but she still views my instagram stories and sometimes she's one of the first ones to view my story, so idk
I don't advise my students to play mind games to win back a girl. This may seem like a good move in the short term but long term generally doesn't work all that well.
@Jack Smith bro you dum cuz they say kids are not going back to school and your Crush is mybe going to be with a guy next year
@@jmonkey3713 it's not a fucking move shit like that doesn't happen
What's your email ?
This is the kind of info that i want to hear. Good job brother.
The only thing you've been missing is sleep bro
Lmao i feel attacked 😅
Lol
If you have to actively make a girl miss you, just drop it all together. Trust me. If a girl genuinely likes you she'll miss you regardless of how many times you've texted her. I would know, as all the advice these types of channels love to give ("make her chase you" is a very common one) I did the complete opposite and I'm in a VERY healthy and loving relationship.
This is key information to apply to exes also. Which I feel like he was expressing at the end. Have value for yourself and keep living your life to be happy. Good people and good women will eventually show up and stay. And if they don't, guess what, you're living your life and being happy so you will have won more than the majority of the world! Great video Lloyd!
This man here blessing us with sacred knowledge, proper lad
My ex wife is on a rebound relationship 💀. Ima be strong N heal shes gonna be the 1 regretting it. We have 2 kids
Who cares.. get out there and f@ck other women .. that are alot younger and hotter than your ex wife.. and trust me after that your not gonna even care what the heartless ex wife is doing with her life. Btw I was in the same situation.. she initiated divorce and we have two small children together.. after I got back out in the game, realizing my self worth and value to how other women were invested in me .. the ex wife became just a distant memory.
Forget your ex guys. It's not worth it, trust me
Another absolute pearler of advice! Man you’re incredibly concise, consistently. Which is hard to find these days
The timing on this video was perfect! I’ve been a bit needy and too available to talk, due to having to stay in because of lockdown
Kyle A exactly! I think that’s literally the reason I just lost this girl lol
joelercoaster I almost did bro, alcohol too making me week lol. If she does reach out I recommend making her wait a couple hours and give her a cold reply, then take about 20 mins for the next reply, if she does have interest that way she’ll have some scarcity so will try harder, if not jump on tinder, every girls is on there atm 🤣
Kyle A we been talkin for a year but she still talks to her ex so that’s why I NEVER took her serious I don’t think I literally ever spent more than a Wendy’s meal the whole time on her lmao but she got mad cuz I went to the beach with another girl -__- when she did the same thing with her ex last month... like wtf? The logic of these chicks man... so I don’t think she’ll reach back out but she did send me 40 texts in a row when she was at the beach with her ex... so idk it’s just a mess and honestly I think it’s all because of the stupid virus... huge cockblock. But I need to upgrade from her anyway
joelercoaster Sounds like a headache hahah
Kyle A massive one... so after a couple days and the feelings die down it will actually feel relieving AF!
Everything you're saying is, in my opinion, humbling but expert advice. Why would I want a girl who's in-and-out? Just because they come back, why would I actually want them back? There's something so much more worthwhile in us men that is more important than any temporary person.
*Remember:* It's always about the power
Power ?? How ?
I'll say it again: God, I love this man. I swear.
THANK YOU! this is exactly what I was thinking before you said it!
I had a great report with a girl, we had been talking for a while and one day, we hit a peak lol, we were just so there, connected, I was flirting with her, she was happy and excited, then by the afternoon she took like 4 hours to respond to a text, then simply ignored my last text altogether, it was a facebook message, she never opened "seen" nor responded, she is still following my stories though, she's the first to see them, but she's been acting distant for few days and I simply lost interest, I had completely disregarded quite a few things I didn't like about her just because I wanted to give a chance, maybe I'm wrong and here she goes shit testing me for the 3rd time in a week, ffs, I'll pass all those tests but I don't want her anymore, she need to resolve her issues,
Bottom line, all women act the same, they shit test, push and pull, but not all are worth the pursuit, sometimes you gotta let her go
Good video!!! Also one other thing I've found why women will leave you suddenly is their ex is in the picture and they don't know what they want or there's something you just can't control so don't put it on yourself. And like Lloyd said they are being immature. Had this happen a few times to me. I just went on my purpose and they hit me up a few months later and I ignore them.
She left me cause I was strict as she was studying abroad...I kept an eye on her at whatever she does....so she felt boring and said me that she realized that she shouldn't have leave her ex boyfrnd...he never tortured her like this...
Man I was like " Ok " cause I can't think anything it hitted me like a storm🙂🥀
Best way to make her want you again?
Be seen by her with another woman.
i did it once, and instead she is gone lolz..
@@luqmanabdurrahmansudradjat1472 then you got your answer
@@shuneughu4244 ahaha.. lolz..
I wouldn't even go as far as believing she has changed. Women don't have incentive to change because there are plenty of men to go around that they can get. We, on the other hand, we have that drive to do it, not saying it comes easy for us but what we go through, facing the rejections, embarrassments and failures makes us go through enough pain to follow that goal of embettering ourselves. That's why I, at best, recommend leaving women who come back in the friend zone.
Really good video! What I like about this channel is not only the good advices, but also the really clever way of approaching the issues. It helps you reaching that precious insight that will spare you lots of troubles in the end. Thank you Lloyd.
I so glad you posted this video because I feel like I can totally relate to this right now. I was talking to this super hot girl like 4 months ago we hooked up a couple times and than she just all the sudden just wanted to be friends. Honestly she had a lot of baggage going on in her life so I just walked away. Trust me guys if the girl has a crappy job and just broke up with her boyfriend 2 months before you meet her. Run for the hills!!! So I deleted her off all social media and moved on with my life expecting never to hear from her again. So I started to work on myself getting myself out of debt working out and watching your videos. So she hits me up 4 months after we broke it off. And just started asking me all these questions and just seemed curious about what I was doing. So I was vague and just kind of made it seem like it was nothing. Now what I realized it that you have to be gauging Their interest. I didn’t mention anything about hanging out. And the reason why is because she really wasn’t showing any interest. Now if she would of said I miss you and I want to see you than we could make something happen but she said none of that. So I’ve decided I will not hit her up until she wants to make it easy for me to hang out with her because if she isn’t going to make it easy for me she isn’t worth my time! And all you men out there if you’re doing the chasing than someone is doing the running. So focus on you and always put yourself first! Thanks for the video man well done!
Guys, you're doing it wrong. You have to show interest in the woman. She reached out when she called and you didn't seem interested. She's not going to do it again. You lost an opportunity. If she's super hot, she has a lot of guys chasing her, no need to come back to you. Remember this, if you're not paying her attention, someone else is.
I AM she didn’t call me she just texted me. And is honestly just seemed like she wanted something from me because she just lost her job from covid-19 and was saying that she needed money. I called her out on it she sbviously denied it. I hope that made her realize I’m not going to take her bull shit anymore. Remember it’s not what a girl says that matters it’s what she does. She totally could of hit me up when she had a job. And didn’t hit me up until she was in a position of disparity I think that is a red flag for sure. I’ve learned to stay away from the ones that have to much baggage it will just create so many problems in the future. Trust me not worth it at all. Thanks for the advice though man
This Was Perfect Timing In My Situation Lol More Of These Type Of Vids Please. Can You Make A Vid About How To Tell When She Playing You, How To Tell She Talkin To Others On Social Media Etc
Hey George, Humans will keep " window shopping" until they find the ultimate one... All you can do is give yourself some space and become the best version of yourself and let love find you instead. Hope you heal soon.✌️
Jason Dias thanks bro, appreciate the words
She talks to me ,even though she already has someone bruh.
Your use of cap bothers me... 🤔🤔
Jin Oh Sleep It Off You’ll BeAlright
I'm so confused right now. I wish she will miss me the way I really miss her so much😭😭
Emeldrich Aparici same here, been thinking since day one on break
@@hsuehhow before you sleep at night. You are always wondering my brother like me???
I know how you feel.. but get back out in the game and get with younger hotter women and you'll be fine.
Simp
@@pawelpawlowin95 have u ever faced such situation that ur calling these men simp? The world's not as red pulled like u think
Nowadays seems dating is getting into mind games, manipulation and heartbreak, a shame, since human beings are meant to develop strong and deep connections to evolve as a species, however sex is now a commodity and you're simply replaceable.
“Goosebumps”
9/10 there is another guy that she chose over u. Move on. Forget them.... if she has "the fear of missing out " u don't need someone as emotional irritation like that. Look forward and don't look back. Use their actions and standards right back on them.... they don't even know what to do. They don't handle rejection very well and most don't have any sort of game. Move on and u will attract women of the same vibe that deserve you.
Hurts like hell when she wants a break
Prioritize yourself.
Keep your goals
Shoot for better.
Law of attraction!
This guy is spot on. If she's not willing to make changes, then why should you?
Lloyd I have a confession to make to you. 4 months before I met a girl, we hooked up, and i liked her. But i was always texted her first, and that bothered me. I am a Todd V's fanboy, but i couldnt find advice from him at this topic, so i searched random what to do, and i found your video about it, which was something like 'why she never texts first'. I did what you say, stop texting her for one week. The result? She texted me after 5 days, she asked to meet me, and since then she always call and text first, she is my girlfriend and really attached to me. This convinced me that you know what you are talking about, and i have to say a big THANK YOU for giving me a great relationship :)
Seems like when you work on being your best self, it changes your perspective. And typically when yoh have truly gotten past it and moved on ,that is when it happens fellas. Great video
I had my ex break up with me a little under a month ago. I’m doing no contact, and my goodness it is hard. 😂 I’ve brought up my grades. I’ve started running again and doing push-ups. I’m applying for jobs. I’m doing my best to have fun and post a little on social media despite the pandemic making it hard. She just wanted a perfect guy. If she wants me back I’m not going to trust her.
Conrad Smith don’t ever go back to her.
Doge Is Pro I just won’t trust her for a VERY VERY LONG time. She was a good friend and I don’t want to kick her out of my life completely. Just for the couple months of no contact. And probably not as a love interest for at least 6 months of us “dating” again BUT NOT EXCLUSIVE. I won’t make that mistake again. If she proves she has changed I might give her another chance. Even if she doesn’t believe it, I believe people can change. Out of the small chance that she is changing, will change or has changed I’ll get back together with her and STILL be cautious because even changed people can change back to old ways.
Conrad Smith changing takes not weeks maybe years but maybe she will change really fast(still tho I don’t think she will).You should take this month or months and try to forget her ,try to erase the hopes of getting back because this months you take are for healing you not giving you false hopes.
Conrad Smith wait a sec...you were just friends?
Conrad Smith and if you want to get over her just delete every picture you have with her in your phone there is no point in keeping them.
Well that was one smooth 7 minutes of talking. Honest guy, he is damn right
Happened to me. This guy s speaking facts💯 especially the last part he mentioned!!
By the time 4:50 came, I smiled so hard I tearjerked. The advice is on point!
to my experience this guy is stating FACTS🔥
Ithink that's good advice Alot Of Times the Men are blamed but They don't Know the Girl was the Problem so even the ladies Need to adjust Also
You know I grew up in a house of women with no dad. I've had girlfriends no problem it's the alpha mentality Im learning from your videos. So thanks man, a lot of things make sense now an I don't feel bad about it anymore
You mentioned such an important part for me, that I also had to figure out after so many girls, that were nothing but unreliable and cost me time and happiness: When she leaves you out of nowhere, ghosts you, with no really good reason, then it shows her immaturity and will give you an idea, what she will most likely do again, when she comes back. Nobody should waste their time on people, who do this. And for me, the only way for a second chance would be, if she honestly repents and clearly communicates, that it was wrong and that she has taken steps to better herself. Otherwise, this is such a low quality sign of a girl, that will flake again and again and lacks the courage to commit, be honest and reliable.
A girl I had feelings for about 4 years ago started chatting with me after I commented on her Instagram story, we started talking back and forth until just yesterday she ghosted me. I should have learnt my lesson before developing feelings for her once again, lesson is if a girl has ghosted you once she probably will do it again
Good video man. Good advice. Fellas honestly move on. Like he said you can maybe hook up with your ex but don’t invest in her again.
I’m watching a lot of TH-camr who makes this kind of videos but you are the best bro 🙌
Thank you. This video made me think a lot. It did what it needed to do.
once a girl meet a really good guy who really care about her, who shows he is in love with her they just walk away for the simple fact they just wanna bad guys into their lives
Me: not Sigle
the same me: watching "thesingleguy" channel
Dotcom Vibez does your gf have a friend (girl)? 🥺
@@celeste1132 yes
Dotcom Vibez I was there 2 years ago lmao. Now I’m actually single
Just cause you have a girlfriend doesn’t mean you don’t need to hear it anymore. I learned that the hard way. Forgot how to attract my GF and she dumped me.
We are the "not single guys who still watch pua stuff to keep it fresh" gang :P
I think the summary of your advise across all your videos is pretty brief and quite effective. MOVE ON. Man , there's more value to your life than seeking acceptance and validation from egotistical narcissistic person who is full of herself. PERIOD. If someone likes you and is also being positively human, they'll talk to you. If they have a problem they'll be mature to address it rather than be 'bitchy' about it. Otherwise there's plenty to life, and there are plenty to you.
Thanks for this comment, Wilson. All the best to you, mate.
Well said. Wish we all could listen to this and stop blaming ourselves so much.
Thesingleguy: Right on brotha.
When did men become such simps? Such wimps? Putting women on such a pedestal it’s ridiculous. Handle Your own business. Don’t concern yourself with anything having to do with her and put yourself first. Always.
Men been a simp from the beginning. Fighting over them, starting wars....where the hell you been...we just now realizing that it's not good for us. The phrase "a happy wife is a happy life" been around for decades maybe even centuries
It's a pandemic, you dullard, and, as such, there is a scarcity of women by default
Clash ofqueen maybe your dumb ass has just realized this. But actual men have been aware of simping way before the internet.
Clash ofqueen “No wife, happy life”.
Tell me how you have 60K+ LIKE YOU ARE WAY TOO UNDERRATED for your wisdom🖤
Channels need time to grow, you don't get million subscribers overnight
He had 40K like five months ago when I subscribed. Growth takes time lol
Well I never said he had to be by a certain number, I just said he's underrated, and I've seen his growth
Good deal. I concurred.
This was powerful bro. Thank you
everything I needed to hear god bless
Thank you brother! Shoulda watched this 6months ago wouldve saved a lot of time
4:49 your statement here is remarkable
So smart and true , love your videos bro
I want to add something to these fair words: it is sad to admit but love cannot be created, it’s something that just borns naturally. When you try to build love chances are that it is not gonna last and you may understand years later that, even what you were able to build with this person, was not actually love
Awesome content!
4:55 I love this dude Lloyd
Best advice bro!!!!
well said, amazing video
Omg it's painful thinking that I've messaged her way to much. Maybe if things don't work out, I always fear the worst is always going to happen. It's all I'm used to.
thanks for the video
in the right time i was looking for video like this thanks a lot
Great advice bro
Instead of saying "a girl" , i Instead say "that girl". I try to only keep stereotypes tied to the specific people who have demonstrated them. I think all girls should get a clean slate until they start treating you as 2nd place.
Excellent, thank you.
Man you make my day❤️
Love the videos bro
This is great thank you
Put yourself first ❤️❤️
Putting my self first ❤️❤️
Good advice
That was a bombass video, thanks
New subscriber ❤️ love this
Thanks, man
Reminds me of a chick I was wild crazy about when we were both hella young. Then one day years and years later she hits me up of social media and I started talking to her because I had been working on myself and I was curious if I still even found her attractive - All I can say is I'm glad I missed that bullet when I was young and desperate/needy...
Greetings Lloyd, you should try a collab with Alpha male strategies or with Tripp advice... Stay strong bud...
This is really good advice but, idk how to tailor suit it to my situation. The girl that left me has 2 kids and the father of the children has been the major rift in our relationship... he was trying to get with her during and after we broke up. Idk what she thinks or feels but I know right now we’re on hiatus & im giving her space & time... I’m minding my own business and I’m doing what I gotta do. I still love her & miss the kids, and from what I hear, they miss me & don’t understand where I went.... it’s a tough spot but ultimately I’m trying to better myself rn
I got one question should the man go after the girl or the girl after the man? I ask this because I feel that some girls wait for the guy to go after them to show that you are really interested in them and if you do your thing and do your life they take it as if you are not interested and look for someone else
Look at nature for for answer - the male is always the hunter, the chaser not the female. You are an animal with animal instincts. Chase the woman. A woman will let you know if she's interested, it's up to you to pick up the cues and make your move.
@@Lifes_Frosting But it's just the oposite of what he is saying in the video you should go your way so If I'm doing my thing how am I gonna chase her?
I'd be up for chasing, but most modern girls/women think you have to chase them for your whole life and it's like hunter's worst nightmare, not being able to really catch your prey, just smelling, or taking a small bite and constantly chase it till the end of your life.
@@DutchmanPF93 I'm a woman. I know what I'm talking about. There shouldn't be confusion about male/female roles in courting but here we are. A woman will give you signals to let you know she's interested. It may be a look, a smile, a text etc. It's subtle or it should be. You need to watch for the cues and then act. Women should not be chasing men, it goes against our natural instincts and real men don't like it. When a woman chases a man she comes off as desperate, needy or clingy and men tend to find that very unattractive. If you see a woman you want, go after her otherwise you'll lose out to the guy who will. Never let fear of rejection get in your way. Good luck!
@@Lifes_Frosting So it's basically the same principle for both genres then? I mean girls also don't like needy men. It's funny how I'm starting to see we are basically the same except for some little few things
Lloyd stay keeping it real 🤣 7:00
I love this girl and she started doing this sort of thing. Please help me lloyd!
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We can't go out side
hello can you please make a video on a womans ego. There ego is getting way higher than before
Dude you look like Ali Gattie, Kahl Drogo, Roman Reigns & that other muscular actor dude as well like wtf
Where were you all my life lol.. love your videos bro
Well. What if there is 2 months quarantine to which I can't go out and do my cool activities I enjoy?
Find some other activities you can do at home
Learn an instrument
Learn a language
Try editing photos or videos like a pro .......
@@redamasarani well currently doing really productive big things but as it gets longer. The loneliness just get worse.
What if she was happy with you but you were the one to push her away by being a bit to immature ? She loved me and she was actually a really loyal and genuine person. What do I do it’s been about a month now and I haven’t talked to her how can I get her back ?
That happen to me
My girl just broke up with me today saying I was immature and that she wanted someone that was mature, plus she wanted me too be stable furthermore, she such a good lady, I feel I said a lot of things badly not deliberately she has anxiety and ptsd due to her previously relationship abuse and such....
I like to joke around in general, like banter and better funny but enough of that i was with her all the time further said that i was stressing her out a lot so I dont know what to do.. she said she wants to focus on her education and that she wanted to have a man not a child im 22, lol I look after all the time when she is stressed I dont know what to do i understand that I can joke around a lot and I really love this girl a lot we spent 24/7 together all the time, literally I was living i her house majority of the time because she wanted to have me around all the time to be honest, she is really amazing i know I fucked up but saying some stuff that wss hurtful to hurt but I did not mean it deliberately at all, because I banter a lot with my friends she wants me to be more mature and take and be stable to be honest she such a serious girl I know I've done wrong I've seen many videos about no contact rule to be honest so im not sure to be honest with you
@@AmirZ1 It’s been 7 months bro and we don’t talk anymore, when we do it feels like I’m talking to stranger so tbh man I think if she really loves you and you can genuinely show her you changed then there might be hope but definitely don’t lose yourself trying to please someone else
I just broke up today, my friend i guess the only was to improve ourselves and hopefully we can show them we changed like me and my girl weve been together for 2 months right.. she wanted a really mature man!, and she said that I was a child i understand her point and such I really don't know what to do because she said to me that when I'm with you I feel so stressed and when im not with you I'm not stressed at all, so I really dont know she said that she felt relieved breaking up with me... because it doesn't cause her stress she wants me to be mature and become stable in terms of priority right and also have good job, furthermore she wants me to become a man not an immature idiot so I dont know what to do at this point i literally don't know what to do
@@jesusperales8027 yeah I understand that but the weird thing is though she is 18, and also like she knows i can change we only dated for 1 and half months my friend she's really serious person, I dont know whats wrong to be honest she was like I want to focus on my education etc.. her mental health too. She was lije hopefully in the future we can get back together because she said she loves me and wants to be with me as well
Now a days...us men are the CATCH...not the female. Remember that fellas. She has to EARN YOU!
My girl just broke up with me today saying I was immature and that she wanted someone that was mature, plus she wanted me too be stable furthermore, she such a good lady, I feel I said a lot of things badly not deliberately she has anxiety and ptsd due to her previously relationship abuse and such....
I like to joke around in general, like banter and better funny but enough of that i was with her all the time further said that i was stressing her out a lot so I dont know what to do.. she said she wants to focus on her education and that she wanted to have a man not a child im 22, lol I look after all the time when she is stressed I dont know what to do i understand that I can joke around a lot and I really love this girl a lot we spent 24/7 together all the time, literally I was living i her house majority of the time because she wanted to have me around all the time to be honest, she is really amazing i know I fucked up but saying some stuff that wss hurtful to hurt but I did not mean it deliberately at all, because I banter a lot with my friends she wants me to be more mature and take and be stable to be honest she such a serious girl I know I've done wrong I've seen many videos about no contact rule to be honest so im not sure to be honest with you
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I would just advise men to not care as much as women do. Women will want you to care as much as they do and once you do they won’t view you as a prize catch anymore. So unless you guys are dating gotta ramp down your obsessions with that person. Idk why women do this, but they do.
100th like, thank you brother