23:38 I truly wish I had had access to these kinds of talks years ago when I was much younger. It would have had such an impact on my life. I used to feel so bad when I would try to better my life and people would say I’ve changed. Id have so much guilt. It took me years to overcome that and not fall back into old patterns and actually stick to making the progress I knew was right for me. Thank you for sharing your journey and wisdom.
Your ministry is such a blessing and you two are such a beautiful example of a true marriage of wisdom and love. Continue to inspire God’s people. Thank you!
I have been watching for a couple weeks now. And thank you for all your wisdom and input in my life that I need. I'm 67 years old, I'm a widow. I'm looking to be married again. You have truly Been a blessing to me. And l pray to God continue to use you all for his glory. Thank you. Dena joyner
Thank you for this episode. I'd struggled with this for years. Felt like because they're family and I'm a believer, I should just deal with it. God is teaching me emotional boundaries are good
I really enjoyed this topic.. I can really relate to these feeling of persecution, manipulation, hate.. I started avoiding them in my 30’s but it caused me so much trauma already 🥺
FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOSOEVER SHALL BELIEVETH UNTO HIM SHALL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE JOHN 3:16
The Spirit les me to your podcasts this one especially and I realized I had a major soul tie with this one guy that I had been sexually intimate with. Even though things didn’t work between us I was holding on to him in many ways and couldn’t shake him off my mind and thoughts. I went through the practical ways of letting him go as you suggested … the clean sweep and all! I repented and renounced and reset. Thank y’all for allowing God to use you to help me a young Zimbabwean woman living in Canada. I have a question though. How do you break a soul tie with someone if it ended in the conception of a child
You can be there for your child because the child is innocent. A child need to have a relationship with both parents. You can be a mature adult and set boundaries so that the child can have a parental bond. Leave toxic situations alone. Why open up a can of worms. Your heart should be tied to that child, not rekindling a poisonous relationship.
4:43 I think it’s also because she was able to lean on her man of God when she was feeling the temptation. I’m speculating. But that’s rare to never have backslide. Since my husband isn’t quite the man of God he should be or even wants to be I’ve felt myself go back many times bc I’m living with someone and have become one with someone who at the time equally yoked in the world standpoint but I grew spiritually. Or try to. It’s hard to continue when he doesn’t make it know that he prays. Or studies. Anytime I’ve seen him engage is with watching yt pastor like Jennings. 😅he gets mad when I tell him he’s gotta read the Bible as well. I’ve told him about 3 times in our decade of marriage. Each time he got mad. Any advice on how to handle a spiritual slacker or better yet when one grows spiritually becomes unequally yoked from their partner
13:53 how do you deal with being used in a marriage for the Christian. Like what if they married u for the sole purpose of you serving them n it’s pretty much one sided.
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
I love you both and have learned a lot from your episodes but honestly it bothers me that Ken brings up how Tabatha had to get herself together in the first 2 yrs of your marriage in almost every episode. I don’t know exactly what was going on the first 2 yrs of your marriage but I’m sure it was not just one sided. What about forgiveness? Doesn’t scripture tell us that love keeps no record of wrong(1 Corinthians 13:5). And if the Lord is able to cast our sins into the sea of forgetfulness then why do you Ken have to bring up Tabatha’s faults in almost every episode? May I suggest focusing on the amazing blessing that you both are to each other and how God is now using you to help other relationships because of what you have gone thru together?
This video was the answer to my prayer today. Thanks for the help! ❤❤😊
23:38 I truly wish I had had access to these kinds of talks years ago when I was much younger. It would have had such an impact on my life. I used to feel so bad when I would try to better my life and people would say I’ve changed. Id have so much guilt. It took me years to overcome that and not fall back into old patterns and actually stick to making the progress I knew was right for me. Thank you for sharing your journey and wisdom.
Your ministry is such a blessing and you two are such a beautiful example of a true marriage of wisdom and love. Continue to inspire God’s people. Thank you!
I have been watching for a couple weeks now. And thank you for all your wisdom and input in my life that I need. I'm 67 years old, I'm a widow. I'm looking to be married again. You have truly Been a blessing to me.
And l pray to God continue to use you all for his glory. Thank you.
Dena joyner
I was led to this channel. The sharing, teaching, relatability, and tone are on time and target. Thank you God. Thank you for this couple.
Thank you!
This was incredible! Thank you for the affirming Godly community over blood relation. Tabitha’s prayer was beautiful. Needed this 🙏🏼
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Thank you for this episode. I'd struggled with this for years. Felt like because they're family and I'm a believer, I should just deal with it. God is teaching me emotional boundaries are good
Right on time EVERYTIME❤
Thank you! I am on my personal journey to get my advice from the LORD!
HALLELUJAH!!!! Thank you!!! God bless you both 🩷🩷🩷🩷✝️
This was so encouraging ❤ Thank you guys for your testimonies and wisdom.
Thank you for this video. GOD BLESS both of you!!!❤
Same to you!
Yo!!! God bless you guys
Thank you both for being voices I too can listen to!!!!
😭🙏🏼 this is exactly what I needed to hear. It was the first thing that came up this morning.
Thank you for this video! May God bless you both!!! I'm learning a lot from you guys :)
This truly ministers to me. I know I’m going to revisit this one in particular as needed. Love your ministry! Thank you for your obedience🙌🏾🙌🏾💙
Right on time as usual! Thank you both
You are welcome! Thank you for watching Chelsea :)
I really enjoyed this topic.. I can really relate to these feeling of persecution, manipulation, hate.. I started avoiding them in my 30’s but it caused me so much trauma already 🥺
I really needed to hear this today, thank you!
I love this couples, just found out your channel
GOD is protecting me
so encouraging
Wow God bless you all❤
Great message, amen!
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Tabitha, you are my mentor
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She's my mentor as well!!! This is awesome!!
This was soo good and right on time for me!!
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First time viewer! This came up right on time for me. No searching just on my home feed, Thank you
So glad you enjoyed it!
Thanks for this great message ❤
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Wow this message...
Jesus didn’t cut off anyone so I don’t think we cut them off we pour more and pray more! Exactly what he said!!!
A close door is because GOD allow it!
This was tooooo good!!
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Great message
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This is good
FOR GOD SO LOVED THE WORLD THAT HE GAVE HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON THAT WHOSOEVER SHALL BELIEVETH UNTO HIM SHALL NOT PERISH BUT HAVE EVERLASTING LIFE
JOHN 3:16
Yes it does
The Spirit les me to your podcasts this one especially and I realized I had a major soul tie with this one guy that I had been sexually intimate with. Even though things didn’t work between us I was holding on to him in many ways and couldn’t shake him off my mind and thoughts. I went through the practical ways of letting him go as you suggested … the clean sweep and all! I repented and renounced and reset. Thank y’all for allowing God to use you to help me a young Zimbabwean woman living in Canada.
I have a question though. How do you break a soul tie with someone if it ended in the conception of a child
You can be there for your child because the child is innocent. A child need to have a relationship with both parents. You can be a mature adult and set boundaries so that the child can have a parental bond. Leave toxic situations alone. Why open up a can of worms. Your heart should be tied to that child, not rekindling a poisonous relationship.
Yes people will fall off , we loose some and gain Godly friends. , church families..
I wanted to know what does it mean if a man is intentionally (purposely) hurting his spouse’s feelings and in what way should their spouse respond?
4:43 I think it’s also because she was able to lean on her man of God when she was feeling the temptation. I’m speculating. But that’s rare to never have backslide. Since my husband isn’t quite the man of God he should be or even wants to be I’ve felt myself go back many times bc I’m living with someone and have become one with someone who at the time equally yoked in the world standpoint but I grew spiritually. Or try to. It’s hard to continue when he doesn’t make it know that he prays. Or studies. Anytime I’ve seen him engage is with watching yt pastor like Jennings. 😅he gets mad when I tell him he’s gotta read the Bible as well. I’ve told him about 3 times in our decade of marriage. Each time he got mad.
Any advice on how to handle a spiritual slacker or better yet when one grows spiritually becomes unequally yoked from their partner
Ken and Tabritha how do I deal with my neighbor? I have a problem with her
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Would you be able to do a podcast on Lust please
Its ok
13:53 how do you deal with being used in a marriage for the Christian. Like what if they married u for the sole purpose of you serving them n it’s pretty much one sided.
I have a problem with that
REPENT FOR THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND TURN FROM SIN AND TURN TOWARDS RIGHTEOUSNESS THROUGH CHRIST JESUS
JESUS CHRIST IS COMING BACK SOON AND WE MUST BE READY FOR WHEN HE COMES BACK
I love you both and have learned a lot from your episodes but honestly it bothers me that Ken brings up how Tabatha had to get herself together in the first 2 yrs of your marriage in almost every episode. I don’t know exactly what was going on the first 2 yrs of your marriage but I’m sure it was not just one sided. What about forgiveness? Doesn’t scripture tell us that love keeps no record of wrong(1 Corinthians 13:5). And if the Lord is able to cast our sins into the sea of forgetfulness then why do you Ken have to bring up Tabatha’s faults in almost every episode? May I suggest focusing on the amazing blessing that you both are to each other and how God is now using you to help other relationships because of what you have gone thru together?