My breakup of a 14 year marriage after a new baby was my BIGGEST BLESSING. It did not feel that way at the time, but once the storm passes, the rainbow appears in your heart. Give it time and be thankful for the things that don’t work out. Rejection in ANY form is 100% ALWAYS God’s Protection!
@@vaughn7130 my channel says it all. I’ve been to hell and back. I let it make me better, not bitter. I’m thankful for everything that went wrong because it got me right with my soul.
My boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago and it’s a roller coaster of emotions. It’s so hard but going through these videos and hearing and reading stories of other people’s break ups helps me remember I’m not alone and things will get better. Thank you everyone ❤️
Just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and it’s been hard. How are you going now? Love hearing updates of people healing as it’s fuelling my hope moving forward.
How are you now? I had breakup after 9 years, feel sad but he's on point, it was 9 years of struggle trying to reconcile after a cheat didn't work, we had happy great memories but overall not working.
This comment should have way more likes if people get brutally honest. Bad relationships can turn dangerous for a woman whose been pushed too far to the brink for too long. Hence the tv show of true life stories of these women called “Snapped”.
This was true for me. I'm now so glad that the sob broke up with me; he was just wasting my time. I met a really loving man after that & we're still doing great 20 yrs on 💞
Steve is right. If the relationship is a bad one, the breakup is a blessing. If you have had bad years with that person, why on earth would you want some more bad years with them ???
When my 1st husband left after seven years, leaving me to raise two little boys, it was rough. But, In the long run, it was the best thing that could have happened. I met my second husband about 3 years later. We married after dating about a year and just celebrated out 38th anniversary.
Now THAT is a testimony if I have ever heard 1. I know there is a beautiful life coming my way. N u just reassured me that my life is about to soar into something beautiful. Ty for sharing something so awesome for those of us who r a cautious about what happens next.
I needed to hear this message this morning. I chose to end a chapter of 43 years and start new. No more lies, cheating or worrying. I have less years left than I had with my marriage but they will be God willing filled with peace and if God provides a committed and loving man, he will share the rest of it with me. Amen. 🙏
@@ShaShaLuva414 yes I was stupid. Hung on to all those years to keep the marriage going and things got worse for me to the point where I was finally convinced I needed to end it and I do not regret it. He calls me everyday and is begging me to go back and that will not happen. I'm at peace and a lot happier. I wish you many blessings in your journey in life and may you also enjoy peace and love as you deserve.
As long as you have a heartbeat, you still have a purpose. What you want, wants you too. Trust the process!!! Someone who deserves you will come because you chose self love over toxic codependency!! Have faith!!!
@@ShaShaLuva414 I just posted “The Narcissist’s Prayer” on my channel. You would resonate with it. My ex of 14 years was. Even diagnosed in a couples therapy session. They are the scariest humans on the planet. I understand not wanting to end up on “Snapped” lol
@@camuyana you were not stupid. You were manipulated!!! You already started your steps to joy… you ended the relationship. Now, release all negative emotions about him and MOST IMPORTANTLY, yourself for selling yourself short. That was the past and you don’t live in the past. You live in the present! Time to disregard your ex’s self projections and low vibrational energy!! Mental abuse is hard to heal from if you’re not aware that’s what was happening. He had 43 years of playing on your heart and mental state. Thank God you are free!!! All the best to you!
Totally agree. I was in a 26 year marriage. Unloved and miserable most of the time. Yeah. Breakup was a huge blessing. Believe me. My life took a huge turn. After my divorce, I found an amazing guy. Much younger than me. We are happily married. I can’t believe I was in a loveless marriage for 26 frikking years. What a waste of my life. Yes , that breakup was a huge blessing.
This is so so true. When we experience breakups at the time of course it's very devastating. But after all those tears and snot flying yes I said snot! You wake up and realize it was the best thing that could have happened to you because you don't have to worry about being mistreated, belittled and cheated on by someone who never loved you from the beginning. If they truly loved you they would never have mistreated you and took your love for granted. 😳💔😁❤❤❤❤❤
Sometimes a breakup forces you out of your comfort zone. I got really comfortable in my 7 year relationship. I focused on him and invested all my time in the relationship rather than myself. The relationship and all its problems was a major distraction from the fact I had no ideas what I wanted to do with my life or who I was. I was 20 when I met him. Our relationship was so toxic and I for some reason wouldn’t leave and then eventually it all came to a blow. I had no choice but to be alone and focus on myself and finally invest the free time I had into bettering myself. I hope all you remember you need self love more than anything ❤
Steve is right! A bad relationship breaking up is a good thing. It frees you up to one day sooner or later run into a good romantic partner for you. But be careful as you'll tend to make the same mistakes again. Don't rush into an intimate relationship. Take it slow and get to know the person.
3 yrs. With a guy, My Mom diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer and as I'm her rock, had been HIS rock, the night before I have a appt.with my own breast surgeon he sends me a text, " I swear to God I never want to hear about feelings again. I'm not the MAN for you. Bye Jackie." No argument nothing just had a 5hr.conversation with him Fri. And he told me bye through a text msg. IHe never checked to see if I was even alive. The most painful experience I've been through. I'm trying to heal physically, spiritually and emotionally.
Big facts!!! Everyone else is all sad about how long I been with my ex but babbbyyyyy… I know God is at work… I’m a little stressed, mentally, emotionally and even physically because I’m human that’s just my body reacting but I’m staying as calm as I can and I’m thanking God every minute for deliverance.
Mine was horrible too. It's the worst when it ends with both of you hating each other when there was once a time when you 2 just couldn't get enough of each other. Sad.
I knew it wasn’t gonna work out in the first moment I met him. But I stayed because I was afraid of being alone. I had a lot going on at the time and he was a distraction. So many red flags and I stayed for a whole year. Eventually when he wanted to break up, I already was there emotionally. Now I’m learning what it means to be happy alone.
Amen! You have to wake up from a bad relationship and move on to heal from a toxic relationship to find a new man who would be a blessing for a new start! Thanks Steve! 😊
A 2 month relationship. Felt more like 2 decades. After the last argument my head and my chest hurt. The first night alone felt long, long, long, long. But the day after, it was pure joy. And the following night I prayed and affirmed some things to myself. I had a moment of clarity and I'm glad.
I think that the essence of grief after a breakup is realizing with time the blessing of that separation. While you discover it, you suffer, but you also learn about yourself, you grow up emotionally and become a better and stronger person. Everything happens for a reason and, even if it’s difficult to accept it at the very beginning, you end up saying “Thanks god I’m no longer with that person”.
My breakup was definitely a Blessing. Living and Loving a Narcissists is hard. Them narcissus can make you crazy if you don’t recognize it early enough to, walk away with all of your marbles 😅😂
I need to get that to stick inmy Braun cuz he took everything from me...money, car, furniture, home, then my freedom for a minute and he is still trying to keep me on a string. God make me stronger
I pray your strength in the Lord, I can imagine it’s no easy task. However I encourage you to take it a moment at a time, then one step at a step then you can take it one day at a time. It’s truly a lost good or bad and I’m sure it’s hurts. But God is your strength while Your weak. Hold your head high smile When you feel like crying and cry when you like your drying on the inside. Jesus will never fail you!!
The thing that keeps us stuck in this gut wrenching heartbreak for so long is not accepting the break up. We know that we have broken up with the person, but yet we are still hoping deep down that it’s gonna get sorted and be okay one day… and that, in turn, leaves you stuck into the emotions and leaves you locked in the heartbreak for longer ❤❤
Hello beautiful angel 😇 I must confess I love your smile 😊 I got attracted by your beautiful profile while I was schooling through. Sorry for intruding your privacy 😊
Hello beautiful angel 😇 I must confess I love your smile 😊 I got attracted by your beautiful profile while I was schooling through. Sorry for intruding your privacy 😊
I just need someone we could always talks things out and be very good to each other I know we learn everyday I need someone to teach me what I never learned
I know my break up is a blessing. Yet, it doesn’t make it easier. Every individual is unique and you know that you will never be able to meet another one just like this person. Yes, there will be a different one, different love. But never you will be able to be with that exact person ever again. It’s sad, heartbreaking. In those moments of intense pain, I start thinking that all life is very temporary. One day we will all get old and die… and those moments will erase and this life will be behind us. We can’t take anything and anyone with us. All this will not matter that much one day. It helps me.
Today my bf and I of 1 year broke up. He loved using me to better his life and his home when I visited, but he never once told me he loved me. No amount of gardening, cooking, cleaning, gifts, favors, or beauty will make a man love you the way you need to be loved. They just do or they don’t. Not spending another day with this emotionally unavailable man is a blessing. Getting angry at every conversation about the future is not the reaction of a man who loves you. Explaining to him more affection and quality time would make me validated was thrown back at me as me starting an argument. It was insane. I was just supposed to shutup and sit there content while he drank and gambled on sports everyday and only made small talk with me about his work and his dog. I can’t eat or sleep from the heartbreak nausea and anxiety but I know feeling it now will help me heal faster. Like you know they’re a loser but it still hurts.
You're right Steve it teaches the biggest lesson that you've never tought by your parents,let me tell you something man I 've never had chance to see my parents in my whole life till I'm 'bout 30 years old but you taach me more than I thought ....
Do you want the nxt 10 years to be like the first 10 years. Our divorce ended 34 bad years. I got a new start. My son and his two older bros were blessed w/memories after his Oct 7 funeral. They no longer have another 10 bad yrs. God blessed them us to start a new start. My son was promoted during this .His wife is a dynamic career map. Her blessings elevated from the District Attorney to being in house atty for a major insurance company. Thank you for laying it all on the table.
My wife broke up with me today after 10 years. It was ten bad years but we loved each other dearly but fighting and arguing was always constant... im hurting but thanks to harvey for a uplifting message.
Sometimes though the other person desires the breakup after you thought and did everything to build a great marriage. When someone decides to leave a marriage after 30 years it can be a real, real shock to the person that didn't want it to end and was also loving and kind to the person that chose to leave...
Hallelujah Steve ... A Man' ( men ) Once Told Me I'm Stealing His' Years ... Years Of Badness And He ' Never Man' Up ... When He' Left Me That's The Blessing I' Needed. Homeless And ALL. Amen ❤🎉
I rather be alone than to waste another second on a man or relationship that ain’t worth a rats tail..been there done that I rather have my peace than to settle for a peace of a man.
Mee too...when he came back,after 10years,I was and I'm still begging him but I realised, its not worth it, he's not making any attempts for us whatsoever, it's like a one way traffic...and I'm kinda getting fed up
@@lindaowiti5636 If he was your Soulmate; he would not have left you! The Lord has someone better for you. He’s not worth anymore of your life. Ask Jesus to help you to move on & be happy. One day you’ll look back & say, “Thank You Lord!” Love & Prayers, Sister Pat Also, remember to never give into a man because he’s charming & romantic, because men have a tendency to turn it on & off like a water faucet; until they get you. You literally have to say, “if you truly love me, put a ring on my finger & marry me first!” 💓👏
wow I'm so sorry to hear about that I'm sure there's someone out there for you. I’ve been married for 32years I was 24 and she was 20. She got cancer in 2020 I was totally lost without her. She took a major hit the treatment was horrible for her. I could do nothing to change any thing so I felt helpless.. I miss her everyday. Mothers are the glue that holds everyone together.
Agreed, it may not feel like it at the time but sometimes it’s GOD’S way of giving u a new start n sometimes it’s the right person, just not the right time ❤ there’s a lot of healing ❤️🩹 and growth that needs to be done ✅
Sometimes you have to accept and admit that it is not your fault that someone broke up with you. You were too good for them! And sometimes think that by walking away you are going to go running after them
My break up was such a blessing, the relationship was very one sided and my ex treated my wants and needs like they didn't matter and like everyone and everything in my world wasn't worth his time, every time I tried to communicate with him he would either ignore me, change the subject, tell me what I wanted to hear to shut me up, roll his eyes or turn everything back on me, I was absolutely miserable, I remember one day sitting there in tears and thought to myself do I really want to feel this way for the rest of life?? HELL NO!! I left and I've never been happier
I was getting beat up for the last 5 years! Routinely… and still thought it could get better…it didn’t 😢… I think God for my life!! and a brand new start!!
Yes Yesca break was the was the best thing in my life. So I can life my best life for something real and new. Faithful one one my life. I had to freshion up my life
Unfortunately it’s not always so simple. I can’t pretend to know what it’s like to be truly betrayed by another person, but I do know the 4 years I spent with who I believed was the love of my life were good ones. I will never regret them. She offered me so much, she made me see the world with more optimism. I am a better person now for having been with her. That’s why it hurts so bad to see it end, even if it was on friendly terms and we still care for each other
My breakup of a 14 year marriage after a new baby was my BIGGEST BLESSING. It did not feel that way at the time, but once the storm passes, the rainbow appears in your heart. Give it time and be thankful for the things that don’t work out.
Rejection in ANY form is 100% ALWAYS God’s Protection!
Agreed ❤Amen sister
Very inspiring and heartfelt
Well said Mam!!! 🙌🏻🌹
@@hawaiigirl8089 💜💜💜
@@vaughn7130 my channel says it all. I’ve been to hell and back. I let it make me better, not bitter. I’m thankful for everything that went wrong because it got me right with my soul.
It is always a blessing if you have done everything you supposed to do and nothing changed
Omg yes💪💪💪💪
And I did that
That's right.
Yes it is
Yes Yes Yes
My boyfriend broke up with me a few days ago and it’s a roller coaster of emotions. It’s so hard but going through these videos and hearing and reading stories of other people’s break ups helps me remember I’m not alone and things will get better. Thank you everyone ❤️
Just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and it’s been hard. How are you going now? Love hearing updates of people healing as it’s fuelling my hope moving forward.
How are you now? I had breakup after 9 years, feel sad but he's on point, it was 9 years of struggle trying to reconcile after a cheat didn't work, we had happy great memories but overall not working.
Not at all
@@khaliladnan9351same thing happened with me
Girlfriend of 5 years just left me without giving me a reason. Just a few weeks if space and bam we’re done. I hope you’re doing better now
Sometimes the breakup protects you from going to prison
😂 Truth! 💯
This comment should have way more likes if people get brutally honest. Bad relationships can turn dangerous for a woman whose been pushed too far to the brink for too long. Hence the tv show of true life stories of these women called “Snapped”.
@D Harmon Ahaha! You are right. Lol
Oh u have met my ex? Lol
I’m at that point
This was true for me. I'm now so glad that the sob broke up with me; he was just wasting my time. I met a really loving man after that & we're still doing great 20 yrs on 💞
I feel you he walked out on me 14 years yes was wasting my time
Awesome report 👌
Steve is right. If the relationship is a bad one, the breakup is a blessing. If you have had bad years with that person, why on earth would you want some more bad years with them ???
When my 1st husband left after seven years, leaving me to raise two little boys, it was rough. But, In the long run, it was the best thing that could have happened. I met my second husband about 3 years later. We married after dating about a year and just celebrated out 38th anniversary.
Point made. Congratulations!
Now THAT is a testimony if I have ever heard 1. I know there is a beautiful life coming my way. N u just reassured me that my life is about to soar into something beautiful. Ty for sharing something so awesome for those of us who r a cautious about what happens next.
😇😇😇😇😇😇😇❤️♻️🙌
I'm happy for you and yours
Good for you. I just separated from my husband and I feel so liberated and free
I needed to hear this message this morning. I chose to end a chapter of 43 years and start new. No more lies, cheating or worrying. I have less years left than I had with my marriage but they will be God willing filled with peace and if God provides a committed and loving man, he will share the rest of it with me. Amen. 🙏
Wow 43 I did 30 yrs most likely your significant other was a Narcissus. Mines was and I left right before I went crazy a committed a homicide 😅😊
@@ShaShaLuva414 yes I was stupid. Hung on to all those years to keep the marriage going and things got worse for me to the point where I was finally convinced I needed to end it and I do not regret it. He calls me everyday and is begging me to go back and that will not happen. I'm at peace and a lot happier. I wish you many blessings in your journey in life and may you also enjoy peace and love as you deserve.
As long as you have a heartbeat, you still have a purpose. What you want, wants you too. Trust the process!!! Someone who deserves you will come because you chose self love over toxic codependency!! Have faith!!!
@@ShaShaLuva414 I just posted “The Narcissist’s Prayer” on my channel. You would resonate with it. My ex of 14 years was. Even diagnosed in a couples therapy session. They are the scariest humans on the planet. I understand not wanting to end up on “Snapped” lol
@@camuyana you were not stupid. You were manipulated!!! You already started your steps to joy… you ended the relationship. Now, release all negative emotions about him and MOST IMPORTANTLY, yourself for selling yourself short. That was the past and you don’t live in the past. You live in the present! Time to disregard your ex’s self projections and low vibrational energy!! Mental abuse is hard to heal from if you’re not aware that’s what was happening. He had 43 years of playing on your heart and mental state. Thank God you are free!!! All the best to you!
Totally agree. I was in a 26 year marriage. Unloved and miserable most of the time. Yeah. Breakup was a huge blessing. Believe me. My life took a huge turn. After my divorce, I found an amazing guy. Much younger than me. We are happily married. I can’t believe I was in a loveless marriage for 26 frikking years. What a waste of my life. Yes , that breakup was a huge blessing.
I know exactly what ur talking about!!!!
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I am so happy and proud of you!
Yes it is Steve ! 😊
This is so so true. When we experience breakups at the time of course it's very devastating. But after all those tears and snot flying yes I said snot! You wake up and realize it was the best thing that could have happened to you because you don't have to worry about being mistreated, belittled and cheated on by someone who never loved you from the beginning. If they truly loved you they would never have mistreated you and took your love for granted. 😳💔😁❤❤❤❤❤
Sometimes a breakup forces you out of your comfort zone. I got really comfortable in my 7 year relationship. I focused on him and invested all my time in the relationship rather than myself. The relationship and all its problems was a major distraction from the fact I had no ideas what I wanted to do with my life or who I was. I was 20 when I met him. Our relationship was so toxic and I for some reason wouldn’t leave and then eventually it all came to a blow. I had no choice but to be alone and focus on myself and finally invest the free time I had into bettering myself. I hope all you remember you need self love more than anything ❤
Breakup was the blessing because It was a bad relationship so I did have a new start. God has blessed me in so many ways!
Very simple and yet profound. Love him. He’s like a big brother every woman should have. ❤
Hard to get and accept, but so true... Thank you Mr Harvey 🙏 💜
Exactly 💯 happy I found this video
Steve is right! A bad relationship breaking up is a good thing. It frees you up to one day sooner or later run into a good romantic partner for you. But be careful as you'll tend to make the same mistakes again. Don't rush into an intimate relationship. Take it slow and get to know the person.
Amen sooo very true everything happens for a reason and if the lord be for you then who shall be against you amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾
I’m extra Happy about my break up 😁 its a blessing to get rid of someone who doesn’t even know you or take the time to listen so yay me I’m free 💜✝️💜
Me to
Me to
Same here.
Exactly mine ex never talk to me either
I'm dealing with that right now. Please keep me in prayer 🙏
3 yrs. With a guy, My Mom diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer and as I'm her rock, had been HIS rock, the night before I have a appt.with my own breast surgeon he sends me a text, " I swear to God I never want to hear about feelings again. I'm not the MAN for you. Bye Jackie." No argument nothing just had a 5hr.conversation with him Fri. And he told me bye through a text msg. IHe never checked to see if I was even alive. The most painful experience I've been through. I'm trying to heal physically, spiritually and emotionally.
Hello ❤
Men are heartless, the majority will leave a woman for any reason at any time and often they leave when you need them the most (seriously) 🙏
Power to you ❤
🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Crying ages women terribly. Emotions are SO hard to rid yourself of. Bitterness and Jealousy age you. Smile and be BRAVE.
Hello ❤
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Big facts!!! Everyone else is all sad about how long I been with my ex but babbbyyyyy… I know God is at work… I’m a little stressed, mentally, emotionally and even physically because I’m human that’s just my body reacting but I’m staying as calm as I can and I’m thanking God every minute for deliverance.
Why are you allowing him to destroy you in all ways? Get out while you're able
The break up I had was horrible how it happened but was a great blessing.
Mine was horrible too. It's the worst when it ends with both of you hating each other when there was once a time when you 2 just couldn't get enough of each other. Sad.
How are you?
Indeed Steve, after 17 abusive years I left and now am better. Kids grown and we have 5 grandkids! Praise God...
Perfect
Power to you sis
Naija lol
I fear una
Our kids are 26,21 and 19 The 2 youngest are with me in my house and the oldest is on her own
Thank you Mr Harvey. I needed to hear this right now.
Agreed l stayed 6 yrs ,when after the first year I knew it wasn’t working
Same 😅❤️
Same. It was easier I think to focus on our problems in the relationship instead of confronting my own personal failures.
I knew it wasn’t gonna work out in the first moment I met him. But I stayed because I was afraid of being alone. I had a lot going on at the time and he was a distraction. So many red flags and I stayed for a whole year. Eventually when he wanted to break up, I already was there emotionally. Now I’m learning what it means to be happy alone.
Same...
Same
@Christinaalexaaa...thanks for sharing. This is currently me too😢
how did you learn to be alone? i relate a lot
Girl I stayed for 6 😭
This has a lot of hidden pain for him too.
His eyes tell a story. It hurts to be loved for your money and not for yourself.
You nust always comfort yourself there is no other way,you go man
I love that perspective! Sometimes things do need to be freshened up! ⬆️ ❤
Hello ❤
Agreed
i feel like this could be applied to almost anything
i love steve’s advice
Amen! You have to wake up from a bad relationship and move on to heal from a toxic relationship to find a new man who would be a blessing for a new start! Thanks Steve! 😊
A 2 month relationship. Felt more like 2 decades. After the last argument my head and my chest hurt. The first night alone felt long, long, long, long. But the day after, it was pure joy. And the following night I prayed and affirmed some things to myself. I had a moment of clarity and I'm glad.
Men suck
I think that the essence of grief after a breakup is realizing with time the blessing of that separation. While you discover it, you suffer, but you also learn about yourself, you grow up emotionally and become a better and stronger person. Everything happens for a reason and, even if it’s difficult to accept it at the very beginning, you end up saying “Thanks god I’m no longer with that person”.
Amen amen and amen because I had 19 bad years. I agree 1000 percent sometimes the break up is the blessing in JESUS name. ❤❤❤🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
My breakup was definitely a Blessing. Living and Loving a Narcissists is hard. Them narcissus can make you crazy if you don’t recognize it early enough to, walk away with all of your marbles 😅😂
I never saw it....but he definitely was one
I never saw it....but he definitely was one
I lost everything I worked for
Yes yes yes!!!!!! I may have to restart my whole life but it was a blessing. A new chapter
So true
Breakup after years of marriage was my blessings and I never went back. Thank God
Love Steve Harvey! My husband and I have been married for 55 years. We are very blessed!
How did I not know about your show!??!!????
Thank you Mr. Harvey!!!!
I needed this message so much this morning.
Hello ❤
You’re telling the truth Mr. Steve. Good advice indeed.✌🏾
Waoo thanks to you Mr Harvey I Saw myself as a failure after 14 yrs BT now I do feel Soo flesh n free
Amen brother amen I agree on that now I am fully healing inside and outside praise God amen
Im getting stronger and i know its ablessing for me now😊😊
Thats right you want them back so bad and then once they come back you get to thinkin why? Whats so great bout them they got to go!
Amen it really was a blessing for me and I know I tried everything. It takes two to work at it .
Hello ❤
Sometimes what we truly need is just a fresh start
Breakup is the blessing because you can’t keep waiting for the same person over and over again
It’s hard but what don’t kill you only makes you stronger
Very well said! Outstanding outlook and viewpoint.
Stay strong ladies. When the storm passes, keep praying, and life will get better 🙏
I need to get that to stick inmy Braun cuz he took everything from me...money, car, furniture, home, then my freedom for a minute and he is still trying to keep me on a string. God make me stronger
I pray your strength in the Lord, I can imagine it’s no easy task. However I encourage you to take it a moment at a time, then one step at a step then you can take it one day at a time. It’s truly a lost good or bad and I’m sure it’s hurts. But God is your strength while
Your weak. Hold your head high smile
When you feel like crying and cry when you like your drying on the inside. Jesus will never fail you!!
Amen! And amen! Blessings!
Amen brother preach brother preach
Stop falling for potential... That's the best thing I've heard since the breakup.
STRAIGHT FACTS !!! 💜🙏🏾💜
100000% true! This is a blessing
"SOMETIMES YOU JUST NEED TO FRESHEN UP EVERYTHING" 🎉❤🎉
Singing Isaac
The thing that keeps us stuck in this gut wrenching heartbreak for so long is not accepting the break up.
We know that we have broken up with the person, but yet we are still hoping deep down that it’s gonna get sorted and be okay one day… and that, in turn, leaves you stuck into the emotions and leaves you locked in the heartbreak for longer ❤❤
Hello beautiful angel 😇
I must confess I love your smile 😊
I got attracted by your beautiful profile while I was schooling through.
Sorry for intruding your privacy 😊
You have a big heart, Mr Harvey. 🌷
Uncle Steve knows best!🙌💖
Thank God for you Mr Steve Harvey ❤
Hello beautiful angel 😇
I must confess I love your smile 😊
I got attracted by your beautiful profile while I was schooling through.
Sorry for intruding your privacy 😊
The breakup is the breakthrough onto something better. 🙏
Yes mine was a blessing, from a narcissist...TY Lord for Life...
I just need someone we could always talks things out and be very good to each other I know we learn everyday I need someone to teach me what I never learned
Hi
I know my break up is a blessing. Yet, it doesn’t make it easier.
Every individual is unique and you know that you will never be able to meet another one just like this person. Yes, there will be a different one, different love. But never you will be able to be with that exact person ever again. It’s sad, heartbreaking.
In those moments of intense pain, I start thinking that all life is very temporary. One day we will all get old and die… and those moments will erase and this life will be behind us. We can’t take anything and anyone with us. All this will not matter that much one day. It helps me.
I broke up from a 2years old relationship and im finding it difficult to move on but i now believe the breakup is a huge blessing thank you steve❤❤❤
THE BREAKUP IS THE BLESSING!!!!! WHICH IS SO VERY TRUE!!!!!!
Today my bf and I of 1 year broke up. He loved using me to better his life and his home when I visited, but he never once told me he loved me. No amount of gardening, cooking, cleaning, gifts, favors, or beauty will make a man love you the way you need to be loved. They just do or they don’t. Not spending another day with this emotionally unavailable man is a blessing. Getting angry at every conversation about the future is not the reaction of a man who loves you. Explaining to him more affection and quality time would make me validated was thrown back at me as me starting an argument. It was insane. I was just supposed to shutup and sit there content while he drank and gambled on sports everyday and only made small talk with me about his work and his dog. I can’t eat or sleep from the heartbreak nausea and anxiety but I know feeling it now will help me heal faster. Like you know they’re a loser but it still hurts.
God answers prayers, I prayed for peace and God delivered. Praise God
You're right Steve it teaches the biggest lesson that you've never tought by your parents,let me tell you something man I 've never had chance to see my parents in my whole life till I'm 'bout 30 years old but you taach me more than I thought ....
Do you want the nxt 10 years to be like the first 10 years. Our divorce ended 34 bad years. I got a new start. My son and his two older bros were blessed w/memories after his Oct 7 funeral. They no longer have another 10 bad yrs. God blessed them us to start a new start. My son was promoted during this .His wife is a dynamic career map. Her blessings elevated from the District Attorney to being in house atty for a major insurance company. Thank you for laying it all on the table.
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Getting over a break after a few years and then thinking you find a better person confused which was worse and feeling suffocated it hurts so bad
Keep it moving forward and up!! Good things are coming without a doubt!!
My wife broke up with me today after 10 years. It was ten bad years but we loved each other dearly but fighting and arguing was always constant... im hurting but thanks to harvey for a uplifting message.
Sometimes though the other person desires the breakup after you thought and did everything to build a great marriage. When someone decides to leave a marriage after 30 years it can be a real, real shock to the person that didn't want it to end and was also loving and kind to the person that chose to leave...
That's so true if if didn't service u what u needed what u missing if u leave that was not a benfit❤ what have you lost Amen
yes totally agree, different we need time to think how much you miss each other we need healing
Does not change the hurt. Acceptance might be the last stage of grief.. but it’s still hurtful
It’s all about PERSPECTIVE 🙌🏿
I starting seeing this dude like the single girl mantains the other ones single
Hallelujah Steve ... A Man' ( men ) Once Told Me I'm Stealing His' Years ... Years Of Badness And He ' Never Man' Up ... When He' Left Me That's The Blessing I' Needed. Homeless And ALL. Amen ❤🎉
Three things you should never break: Promise Trust And Someone's heart ❤️
That is so true I am a testimony for that thank you Lord
I rather be alone than to waste another second on a man or relationship that ain’t worth a rats tail..been there done that I rather have my peace than to settle for a peace of a man.
And I spent the last twenty years hoping he comes back.
I’m hoping he comes back too after 1 month of break up
Mee too...when he came back,after 10years,I was and I'm still begging him but I realised, its not worth it, he's not making any attempts for us whatsoever, it's like a one way traffic...and I'm kinda getting fed up
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If he was your Soulmate; he would not have left you! The Lord has someone better for you. He’s not worth anymore of your life. Ask Jesus to help you to move on & be happy. One day you’ll look back & say, “Thank You Lord!” Love & Prayers, Sister Pat Also, remember to never give into a man because he’s charming & romantic, because men have a tendency to turn it on & off like a water faucet; until they get you. You literally have to say, “if you truly love me, put a ring on my finger & marry me first!” 💓👏
wow I'm so sorry to hear about that I'm sure there's someone out there for you. I’ve been married for 32years I was 24 and she was 20. She got cancer in 2020 I was totally lost without her. She took a major hit the treatment was horrible for her. I could do nothing to change any thing so I felt helpless.. I miss her everyday. Mothers are the glue that holds everyone together.
I always am the one leaving. Men usually never leave.
Agreed, it may not feel like it at the time but sometimes it’s GOD’S way of giving u a new start n sometimes it’s the right person, just not the right time ❤ there’s a lot of healing ❤️🩹 and growth that needs to be done ✅
God is faithful! I believe he will deliver on ALL of his promises and one of which, a man and marriage better than I ever imagined or prayed for ❤️
Sometimes you have to accept and admit that it is not your fault that someone broke up with you. You were too good for them! And sometimes think that by walking away you are going to go running after them
My break up was such a blessing, the relationship was very one sided and my ex treated my wants and needs like they didn't matter and like everyone and everything in my world wasn't worth his time, every time I tried to communicate with him he would either ignore me, change the subject, tell me what I wanted to hear to shut me up, roll his eyes or turn everything back on me, I was absolutely miserable, I remember one day sitting there in tears and thought to myself do I really want to feel this way for the rest of life?? HELL NO!! I left and I've never been happier
Yep yep i was BLESSED beyond after, i went to school got friends ,enjoyed my life,
8 yrs later foung a great guy
GOD BLESSED one God is good
My breakup was truly a blessing. The hardest part was finding out he'd been with me AND another woman at the same time. What a "POS"
Thank you uncle Steve!
I was getting beat up for the last 5 years! Routinely… and still thought it could get better…it didn’t 😢… I think God for my life!! and a brand new start!!
Oh I know it was a blessing for me period 🙏
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Yes Yesca break was the was the best thing in my life. So I can life my best life for something real and new. Faithful one one my life. I had to freshion up my life
True,True,True!!! The Break up is Truly the blessing especially if it was some bad years!!!!!!! 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Steve get a refresher get rid of the old! AMEN❣️
Unfortunately it’s not always so simple. I can’t pretend to know what it’s like to be truly betrayed by another person, but I do know the 4 years I spent with who I believed was the love of my life were good ones. I will never regret them. She offered me so much, she made me see the world with more optimism. I am a better person now for having been with her. That’s why it hurts so bad to see it end, even if it was on friendly terms and we still care for each other
If Steve broke up ,he has his millions to comfort himself
Amen! ... thank you! Uncle Steve 🥰🍁😇🙏🏼
I swear I just looked at myself in the mirror differently after hearing this
The break up is the blessing. I gat that now!