Not weird when you realize what women don't have physically they obtain socially (power) , an attractive successful woman that doesn't sell her vag is having marital issues my turn to profit in my equivalent to sex(clout) , modern women only want one thing and it's disgusting (clout)
@@NessaGee-hx1etwhy make a video responding when no one spoke directly to you? Wanting to start an argument…..Maybe you’ll go ahead and say that’s not weird either but defending that is weird asf but maybe you don’t have morals either
The Gel lady is 100% class; she didn't blame the other woman and she didn't speak of her husband like he was a monster. The husband's vague, cryptic videos and the shit-stirring OF girl are the opposite.
so that girl isn’t just a home-wrecker.. she’s a stalker too. she’s making up scenarios in her head about being in some kind of competition with ashley???? it just screams insecurity
I love how she called herself a “therapist” and then immediately broke client-patient confidentiality. Like who says they’re doing “therapy” and then tells everyone what said client was dealing with. What a sicko
i don’t think she said she was a therapist in a literal sense. i believe she was just providing advice to someone. sex work doesn’t guarantee client-patient confidentially-you can tell anyone anything about any conversation you’ve had in professions besides ones where confidentiality and informed consent is required. edit: also i’m not defending her, i think she’s awful. i don’t go around telling my friends about what my others friends tell me that was intended to be private. it’s the ethical thing to do. she has bad morals but realistically she’s not breaking any rules.
@@alextokuthat’s why I carry around and NDA with me at all times. every person I talk to must sign one. got a backpack pull of them, work is tough sometimes cuz there’s a line to sign my NDA
This shit makes people afraid to reach out for help!!! I've had first hand experience and it's some of the hardest shit to get through even years later
It’s the having her children in the video while discussing this subject matter for me. The fact that she was basically telling the world that she has low boundaries for men (a mistress) while introducing her toddler daughter is insane w/ the amount pedos on social media. And THEN she goes into talking her job in s3x work. Like ma’am? Then the husband 😵💫 He should have not said anything. There’s no way you can get out of this. You’ve embarrassed yourself, your wife, & now you’re about to be broke when she puts you out.
Plus imagine being a homewrecker and then blaming the wife and then claiming the wife was coming after her when she hadn't said shit about her. Honestly the husband and this ho DESERVE each other I mean trash should always be taken out together.
so bullying someones choice to get a BBL isn't harming other women with bbl's? she bullied the other chick plain n simple. All those unnecessary statuses when she could've aimed all her attention at the REAL problem - her unfaithful husband.
What kills me is the husband pissed off at his wife when it was the sex worker that put his business out there for the world but he’s trash talking his WIFE Like he had no part in it whatsoever He’s trash and his little side piece is trash
Jesus. How insecure & sad do you have to be to destroy someone else's life because you felt like you were being "low-key bullied" which was truly her reading far too much into random shit.
I think there is a level of narcissism to it. Everything she saw Ashley post just had to be about her. Even stuff that was posted before Ashley knew she existed.
@jjthe I agree and disagree. I think the things she posted cut her deep because of the shit people say about women who do OF & stuff like that in general. She likely got triggered by the content but only saw it because she HAD to go see the stuff she was posting. Like who follows the spouse of a guy who you were supplying your services to?
@@lexiwexiwoo Yeah but the whole reason she was triggered was because she believed that virtually every comment Ashley made was directed at her, including stuff that was made before Ashleyknew about her. It's pretty classic narcissistic behavior. Especially, when you add on top of it that she made a video talking about this under the impression that people would be on her side
Homewreckers are egotistical assholes, but let us take a moment to shame the husband as well. Dude was thinking with the wrong head, and even if the Gel lady wasn't a good partner or not he could have just left the marriage and kept things private instead of using an OF girl as therapist. I feel bad for all the children involved.
@@rakantopini the OF worker would never have been in the situation if he didn’t actively pay her and give her deeply personal information about his wife and relationship. It’s 100% his fault for giving this OF worker the power to do this in the first place and his reaction to it all publicly is a disgrace too.
He could've just said no. We need to Stop infantilizing men and defending them like they are toddlers who can't handle consequences. It's like they get their ego boosted as 'strong independent man' If they want to. And they also get their action supported when they act like literal babies If they want to. So Fed up.
It's not always black and white, I dated a married man who led me on for months that his marriage is over and he's in love with me, he wants to be with me and we were planning on moving in together. Until I had enough of the empty promises and messaged the wife..she had no idea of him cheating and he dumped me by ghosting me. Broke my heart. He's a piece of shit who just used me while lying to both of us.
What timing ? The one when he didn't want to be on the internet from the start ? I'm not trying to defend this dumb.ass but you've conveniently forgot that part
What timing ? The one when he didn't want to be on the internet from the start ? I'm not trying to defend this dumb.ass but you've conveniently forgot that part
Who would want to be a client of hers going forward? Isn’t client privacy just as important as the sex workers privacy? She’s sabotaging her own business on top of not minding her own business
Apparently you don't understand how down bad the current religion has men , just the fact that any man would pay to see sid from iceage in the first place should tell you first of all the husband probably didn't do it (il become a Mandela effect truther if anyone presents any real evidence) that or the guy is someone she selected while being on the pill and hence incredibly low in testosterone so he doesn't pick real women rather any woman hence being able to enjoy both a 10 and sid from iceage
Desperate losers with degrading kinks and no self worth, which unfortunately seems to be on the rise. Depravity is a disease of shamelessness and no respect.
For real. Like why would I go to her, knowing she could potentially leak embarrassing information about me. Although seeing how Ashley’s husband blamed his own wife for “airing out their dirty laundry,” rather than the person he should have been blaming, I can see how the clientele she gets is probably not that smart
This new generation if sex workers are a joke, they brag about it like it is something to be proud about. 99% of them ends up broke, alone and unemployable before they turn 35, I don't really care if a woman wants to sell her body. But this whole over glorification of it is quite problematic and sad, especially because most of them are so hungry for attention. That they fuck up their own career by running their mouth online, it is all honestly so sad. Plus I don't get they guys that fuck up their relationship by fucking these 5/10 potato looking whores, especially when he is in a relationship with a beautiful woman that also seems to be a yard worker and a good person.
Currently feeling pretty horrible for Ashley. I can't imagine how stressful it is for her to be dealing with relationship problems to then be put on blast by the problem.
She comes off in a few ways: 1. Has absolutely nothing better to do/way too much free time 2. Massive pick-me 3. Lacks respect for other women and is weirdly competitive for no reason
Gel Lady seems to be a hard working, savvy business lady and content creator. I hope she gets her millions soon, and I hope the wannabe clout-chasing home wrecker reaps the full consequences of her action. I’m not supporting harassing her, but she absolutely deserves it. No respect.
Agree. The first scenario I could see why the internet would go crazy over because to me it sounded like she was taking her life into a hypothetical scenario. She already has work experience plus in her own scenario she stated 20 years which would mean the kids are all grown up. The second scenario where she is more concrete would make sense where one side has no work skills and is left alone I can understand. Though it is kind of misogynistic to assume the man is the bread winner. It could be like a Married With Children scenario where the man is the stay at home side lol. As for the OF women I don't know enough of the order in this story to fully blame her ( by Atozy's video it sounds as if she made a response video to a video where she wasn't called out, but we also have evidence shown that the wife reached out to her and even called her out on Instagram). Depending on the order of events ( when the "to make him feel like he is cheating" Comment made by the gel lady) I could see OF girls first video being somewhat justified, but both seem like bad guys here, more so the OF lady though.
@@TheCommanderTaco Yeah, I’d only seen a handful of Gel Lady’s videos on my for you page before this, but I enjoy following internet drama. After learning all about it and taking some time to get my thoughts in order, I’m convinced Gel Lady is above reproach in this situation, but home wrecker has proven herself to be an ego driven, clout chasing, borderline narcissist. Not really enough evidence about the husband to draw any fair conclusions. What he did was obviously hurtful and childish, and his long awaited response was a pretty much a nothing burger. I get the whole situation is messy with a husband sneaking behind his wife’s back to play therapist with a prostitute, but I’m fully on Gel Lady’s side at this point. Even if the leech keeps finding ways to be offended by Gel Lady’s tik toks, that’s not Gel Lady’s problem the leech can’t stop chasing attention. I hope it bites her so hard in her BBL. I’m thinking about creating a tik tok just to leave heavily critical comments on all OF girl’s content and sending Gel Lady some words of support.
@@TheCommanderTaco And I think if you took the time to look deeper into it, you’d quickly find yourself fully supporting Gel Lady while losing all respect for OF girl. Her only redeeming quality is she is calm in her videos. If you can see through that veil, every sentence she speaks and point she attempts to make is uncalled for, belittling, and immature. I’ve never seen a clout chaser I’ve despised more. It’s one thing to annoy workers for views, but to insert yourself as a therapist because someone’s husband wanted to pay to sleep with you is truly psychotic or purely narcissist.
This OF lady is the absolute worst therapist then if she really wants that to be the comparison she’s making… airing out this mans whole entire life when that’s the biggest rule you can break. Sure as hell outed his identity by making this response… before it was just speculation but then she went and confirmed it.
“Used me for their success” LOVIE WERE YOU NOT CASHING IN ON THAT SUCCESS AS WELL?? The absolute AUDACITY this man has! Defending the mistress over the wife SMH
The nerve of him to claim that he was "used" for her success, is beyond belief. I have a feeling that he has definitely enjoyed the things "her success" created. Shame on him.
He is jealous of her success and upset she doesn’t need him. That’s all I got from him. Probably had a lot to do with their issues. He definitely did not like her post about working and not depending on a man. I wouldn’t be surprised if he put the OF girl up to it. Especially because of the “He never saw me naked or anything… he just wanted to talk.” 🙄🥸🫣
@@coachmikeyditkaop isn’t the only one who cares. It’s disgusting behavior. She has a military career and children to take care of. The lady calling out her husband is a horrible person
I mean, her scenario happens not just in husbands who cheat but husbands who suddenly die too. The wife ends up carrying the financial burden and picking up the pieces if their kids are too young.
Look, if you treat a man right he's not going anywhere. She probably stopped trying and he found someone who would put in the effort, sucks to suck but maybe you should value your partner and not take them for granted
I want to know how long it'll take the home wreaker to realize that she's killing her own career because most guys don't want to use the services of a OF who is going to tell the world their dirty secrets.
There's a reason she was jealous of an actual business woman not just another made in China 99cent copy-paste sid from iceage looking ass 304 like she/herself
@@Va13chkayeah but the ones with deep pockets that she wants to get into want to keep those affairs under wraps as much as possible because they know they will get taken to the cleaners with that divorce. Some will and have killed side chicks that didn't know how to be discreet just to save face and keep from getting divorced.
So lemme get this straight, the attention seeker is a sex worker and took offense to Gel Lady saying she would teach her daughters to not be financially dependant on men? The jokes genuinely do write themselves at this point.
She is a hundred and ten percent right about having your own money and working your own job. It's much more common than people like to think. You can be a faithful wife and mother. And then one day, hes in a midlife crisis. And he wants a divorce, hes gonna dump the 13 kids you have and go marry his secretary. She's exactly right
If you give up trying your husband deserves someone better is all I'm gonna say. I've seen how women give up once they think they've locked down a man, it's happened to me too. You know what happened? I found someone better
@@branch7628exactly you find someone better and then pay out as much as you can and alimony and child support so that they don't have to worry about it
@@Notantree Yup, you never know what's gonna happen. Get a skill. You don't have to want independence, but you should be able to survive on your own finances just incase you have no choice.
LOL Did anyone else notice how much of a stalker the mistress became once she knew she was talking to the gel lady's husband!? She combed through months of posts looking for ANY that even remotely sounded like they were about her! Then kept lurking on every post/video she made for her "chance to shine"! For someone who "doesn't care" about the situation she sure does care about the millions of followers her "new John's" wife had! Who wants to bet SHE is the one to message the gel lady about her husband just to start this drama for clicks! She was waiting for Gel lady to say ANYTHING about the situation and the moment she could she got her 15 mins of fame from it. "Main character syndrome" is right she legit thought someone with 12mil+ followers gave two craps about the chick her husband was talking to! They didn't have a physical affair not that it makes the cheating better but it's another reason why she cares very little about this homewrecker!
YES OMG I JIST COMMENTED THIS. she’s not just a homewrecker, she’s stalking and harassing ashley AND her children 🤢 making up scenarios in her head about ashley stalking her social media, even though that’s exactly what she was doing. she thinks ashley knows her but even said she’d been following her for years… like ashley needs to press charges for online intimidation or threats cause that girl sounds delusional as hell
@@jedimojojojo1603 As far as I can tell it was just emotional cheating over messages because she is an online sex worker (think onlyfans) and he was caught messaging her explicit things and she would send her nudes because that is how those types of parasocial relationships work online with little to no chance of becoming "real" affairs. But without knowing everything it is hard to tell. It still shocks me that he blames his wife for "exposing" him when it was really the chick he was talking to that essentially put him in the spotlight of this drama. Makes me wonder if he is still talking to her...
One of my biggest (and hopefully irrational) relationship fears is that, I'll find someone, we'll have kids and everything seems like it's basically perfect. Then one day they just leave without any explanation and no build up. It mostly comes out of a trauma caused by my abusive parents. They always told me I wasn't good enough to have a healthy and reciprocated relationship.
This is a crappy situation for Ashlee & her family. Her husband could do the very least by not allowing the side chick to talk crap about his wife the mother of his children. He’s pathetic & so is the side chick smh
Like grow uppppp he got mad she making all the money I get not wanting to b in the videos so don’t be in the videossss lol he childish n probably gay needs to grow up stop crying so much
Ashley handled this way better than I would have. She genuinely seems like a kind and humble woman. I feel for her and what she's going through. It's sad, and ppl these days will do anything for views🤦♀️
@@NessaGee-hx1et Well duh, why would she just suck it all in? What kind of response is this? Is she meant to be an emotionless monster or are you just stating an alarmingly obvious fact??
Is the gel lady still up and running? I want to subscribe to her. She did nothing wrong. The other one, well 😒 Anyway, I'm going to go look up gel lady and see what I can learn from her. I've also been looking for a good gel to make my stupid hair look like I HAVE SOME 😤
I spent 22 years with my first love, thought I would be cared for, and then he left me for my 18 year old daughter's best friend... who was also 18. I'm so glad I never stopped working, but I had no savings, no credit and no support system. It happens and it sucks but I don't feel ashamed for it, I just kept going, we all do. Why is this marketed as drama? It's like normal life.
What the pick-me girl doesn’t realize, is that for man women, just communicating with another girl on OF is crossing a line into cheating territory. There is no need for her to try to invalidate the gel ladies feelings and response to such a scenario or air it out online. It just shows the lack of class and ethics the one sitting on her kitchen floor has.
Venting about realtionship problems to a potential homewrecker is always over the line. He should have talked to like his homeboys(gf) sisters w/e. Add insult to injury he went to a sex worker while in a marriage without consent, and he went to have personal/intimate engagements with them too. There's no amount of deflecting he can do to square that circle.
@ProPandaPlays 1 second ago Fool needs stop being a bitch and crying lol his wife seems soooo golden how tf he gonna cry n complain like a bitch I bet you it was cause she was bringing in all the money now he feels insecure like a bitch like he is one cause he is lol
This genuinely makes me sad. I started following her and loosely watching her videos earlier this year when they were still making videos together. I saw she had taken down everything with her husband in it but I honestly feel so bad her privacy was violated like this, and that her husband is putting out those crap responses. I don't think she could have responded any better and she is a strong person for how she handled this. I hope she gets some peace.
Ashlees husband is next level delusional she said nothing about him besides “Id never bad talk him because he’s my family” and he still went online and made her enemy #1. He didnt make her she made herself. I watched ashlee long before I ever saw a video of them together and personally preferred when he wasn’t in the videos.
Totally. He even went as far as getting pissed at his damn wife when she literally said nothing about any of this, but this girl aired it all and he said nothing about HER.
The Gel Lady gave great advice to young women in regards to working and keeping your financial independance, especially now that "trad-wifes" and depending on a man for all of you needs is becoming popular. The sex worker saw that, probably saw the life she was leading her own daughters into, and got pissy. And she's hungry for attention so she just had to air the dirty laundry. Major respect to the Gel Lady, she seems like a class act from what I saw
"I don't feel like this man is heard..." Girl, what are you talking about? Because he DMed you for easy sex, you think you know the inner workings of his mind? Incredible.
I’m not necessarily a fan of Gel Lady, but I hope that gaudy home wrecker gets some serious karma. I’m not against sex workers or anything, but that cretan is absolutely classless.
Of girl definitely losing customers after this. Many married men or guys in relationships on there that wouldn’t want her to blast their relationship next. I hope they mass unsubscribe
@@Diogenes-totesWho tf cares if someone is a sex worker. I can't stand this dumb "simp" name-calling. You don't like sex workers, don't fuck with them, simple as that🙄
The first video ever uploaded to Only Fans was from a guy explaining how to fix simple house hold stuff like how to change out parts in the back of the toilet, how to replace pipes under the sink, and how to clean out your ac unit every year and proper ways to set up a ladder and how to change or repair a door nob.
Imagine thinking you're being targeted by someone on the internet based off coincidences, so you insert yourself into their lives. Definition of MC syndrome.
I'm sure it wasn't one or the other, you are exaggerating. She's just a POS but most places with evacuation warnings are fine and they can still have time to leave. And they are clearly fine. I lived in Jacksonville Fl and we were told to evacuate EVERY YEAR and even to this year it's been a bit of splitter splatter. So people who don't want to evacuate understand the reasoning, the risks and the very low chances in alot of areas. Saying she need to eveacuate to safety when they are fine and live in the area is as tone deaf as her acting like it's ok to tell the husbands life story.
The scenario the gel lady first described recently happened to my mom. Although my dad and her were together for 30 years, he was still able to do what he did, and my mom was blind sided after being a stay at home mom of three. What Ms. Elliott explained is real thing that happens, and she is 100% correct for saying it is in the best interest of people to have their own careers and lives outside of a relationship.
It happened to my parents too. Except… my father went for someone older?? The knowledge of that kind of helps because it doesn’t make it as creepy. But regardless. Painful.
The husband’s response is the one that really shook me bc I saw all of Ashley’s videos first and she never once dragged his name through the mud, and she even defended him in the one video saying she wouldn’t let people smack talk him. His response is so much more telling, and it tells us he probably did a lot more than he was vaguely accused of and is telling on himself fr 👀
The opening part speaks to me. That's why i am adamant about building a career first than a family. If my husband does end up leaving me for someone else, I would be able to provide for myself and my children.
Ashley is 1000% correct. Not only do healthy relationships sometimes crumble, but people also die or become disabled and can no longer sustain their lifestyle. Its important to have a backup plan, especially if you have children.
Nobody cares about your lifestyle especially if your just spending that money carelessly, Ashley is 1000% wrong... Healthy relationships do not crumble.
@@TheHipisterDeer By lifestyle I meant their standard of living. When you have kids and a mortgage you need to have a plan on how to make ends meet if your partner can no longer work or is gone, otherwise you risk homelessness.
She knew she was in the wrong and that’s why it hit home and personal for her. That’s why she took everything so seriously like it was her being attacked.
Thank you for showing the truth about what’s happening and who is the actual victim. My heart goes out to Ashley, she’s so sweet and has done nothing to hurt anyone and has kept it classy throughout this whole mess..this weirdo OF s-worker “therapist” is a total narcissist, and deserves to be called out and shamed for not only her behavior but her lack of human decency and disregard for the privacy of others.
She was finally getting noticed for her comedy and her products... I hope that doesn't get overshadowed by the influx of people coming to see the 'gel lady' from all these videos talking about this.
I dont feel sorry for the husband one bit. Grow up and be honest with your spouse and get real help. Theres no excuse to go seeking comfort from an OF model, thats one of the most pathetic excuses Ive ever heard. The mental gymnastics side chick is doing to justify her OUTING HERSELF is crazy.
@@generalfranco9399Uhm no, you’re clearly doing mental gymnastics to justify your emotional cheating. I got married at 19, still with my husband, and there was a time where I felt like he wasn’t hearing me or caring…never once did I even look for attention outside of my marriage. I don’t care how down bad we are/were, no ounce of attention from an outsider would stray me from him! If you feel like you genuinely cannot talk to your partner, BREAK UP/DIVORCE. It’s so funny that people like you really think that your reasoning is justified. So embarrassing. ETA: It also doesn’t matter if she could see your sadness without discussing it, as soon as a man would even try to get into my business, I’m shutting it down. It’s disrespectful.
@@generalfranco9399 I did take it at face value. I never once made assumptions on your character nor how you run your marriage. By you stating that you felt “heard” by another woman is the mental gymnastics to justify you even entertaining the woman who is not your wife. I understand that it isn’t always as simple as talking…but once another woman comes in and tries to make you “feel better” about what you are going through, is inappropriate. You can make your own assumptions about my marriage all you want lmao, I fear for your wife since the one time that she wasn’t “hearing you,” you took up another woman comforting you. I don’t care how much my husband isn’t hearing me, I’m going to tough it out until it gets better or divorce him if it is that bad. Men and women who unintentionally or intentionally seek out people outside their relationship is wrong. It’s laughable, as you say.
@@knowbody9679then should he not speak to her about that if that's how he's feeling? Stop whining online, no one feels sorry for you. You are an adult, you are responsible for your choices. You realize all your problems would end if you grow a spine and work towards fixing them?
Women get shamed for not being stay at home moms and homemakers. The same people that shame women for not being at stay home moms and homemakers, get off at knowing that men cheat/find someone else that is younger. They just love seeing women betrayed and leaving women with nothing.
It just baffles me that when the husband did finally say something, it was to bash his wife and not, oh idk, the lady who put all his business out on front street in the first place 🥴 he’s just angry because Ashley’s not lying for him anymore. She didn’t make you look bad, Mr. Large Black Man Whose Name We Still Don’t Know, your infidelity and insecurity did 🙄
So she’s basically showing all her clients that she doesn’t know how to mind her business and will air their private matters if it means she gets some attention.
MANNNN ugh. Did he ever bring up a conversation where he was like "I dont want this attention anymore?" Cause how Ashley is speaking, it sounds like she would've held the door open for him back to privacy if he ever just communicated his needs without escalation.
Or it's him literally really wanna talk to someone I don't know but sometimes family relationships don't help and need like a therapist or someone to actually just talk.
Deflection and zero accountability. Yet he doesn’t want to be “the bad guy.” I feel so bad she’s stuck dealing with him for the kids, I guarantee he’s coming for every penny she makes
He wasn't "heard"? Apparently she heard him loud and clear, considering she respected his wishes and removed him completely from her accounts. I love how these folks just believe this bs without even thinking about there being two sides to the story. I've seen men believe women about allegations the same way. You don't know this mf and he's a married man trying to get in your pants and you expect every word he says to be the truth? Nobody is that naive, she just simply recognized the dude and continued talking to him and making him trust her because she knew he needed a shoulder to lean on and she recognized an opportunity to draw some attention to her content and didn't care if she destroyed two lives in the process. People like this are some of the lowest forms of life, imo. How she thinks this situation is gonna lead to her selling more pics of her box is beyond me. If anything, people are going to get mad enough to start cancelling subscriptions. And rightfully so. Men, stop giving women like this your hard earned money because they would do it to you too just as easily. There's too many people showing box for free to be doing all that. "The only reason I even responded to any of this was because I felt like I was being bullied." Yeah, they start harping on about bullying the second they are held accountable. Gives me the 100% ick.
@@imperialdra-mon5907 Tell me you're one of her subs without telling me you're one of her subs. You been on comment after comment white knighting for this random chick that is using your own money against you. Nothing prideful about being a simp. I'm sure she will pick you. And there's no solid "proof" that points in any direction. However, there is _evidence._ Just because you can't see through it, doesn't mean everybody else has to simp for this chick.
😂 thats all just divorce prep. Cause she going to claim this $20000/month channel is mine not ours. But she wont get far with that. Any judge would look at that and in 2 seconds say oh you were married then this is real easy 50/50. Next.
The gel lady literally protected him and he had the absolute audacity to turn his back on her. Without her he’d be broke. I wish her peace and harmony. She did not deserve this chaos and heartbreak.
That OF has a very guilty conscience that’s eating her up inside for her to think all of Ashley’s videos and posts are referring to her. I’ve never seen someone so deluded that they see themselves in every situation. I feel sorry for Ashley for many reasons. She didn’t ask for this at all. She has handled it like a pro with grace and integrity. Good for her not to stoop to the level of the clout chaser.
My husband is an army veteran, idk what gel lady does in the army but as an army wife we are there for one another. The fact that this s worker came into a married man is just sick. The husband and OF girl deserve eachother. I hope army/gel lady has a good life for real
Ashley herself has a strong position in army. Pretty sure she could've just reported his adultery but she wouldn't do it because she's kind and don't want her kids to hate him.
@@dea9457 yeah, that’s exactly what i thought. of course she didn’t want to make it public, he could go to jail (if he is in the military). but, ofc, the of model needed that itty bit of clout to make her life worthwhile.
What a sad place the world is when it is so full of attention seekers. Thankfully I am of an age where I have leant from my mistakes - I don't X and I don't Tik or Tok about them.
She's not a therapist, she's just an OF Hoe, let me guess she claims she's a therapist cause she listens to people, hell if that makes her a therapist then I guess I'm Sigmund Freud cause I both LISTEN and give advice to people when they ask for it.
I am appalled that she is even able to use Therapist in her title! I went to school for years and did an internship just to be able to become one! Who the H@#* does that? A person with an undiagnosed personality disorder does that, that's who! 😡 It should be illegal! ✌
I'm proud of this lady for keeping her head high and turning this unfortunate situation into something positive for herself. I think we all need to take a lesson from this businesswoman; keep your maturity, have grace, don't give in to your anger, and be the bigger person by not throwing around blame. We have to accept sometimes in life it's better to walk away than stay and fight a losing battle. I applaud Ms. Gel Lady for having ladylike class!
7:22 i’m more focused on watching how the kid is just opening the kitchen cabinets and going thru them.. as she’s making a response video..? terrible parenting.
OF farm tool is like one of those high school bullies that acts like if she says things casually and calmly with a vocal fry they’re allowed to say awful things and if you call them out “you’re just so emotionally immature” with “really negative energy” and “harassing them!” Basically those girls that are horrible narcissists who think they can get away with anything by using weaponized HR language.
Okay, I might get this mixed up. But I just need to know why is this woman in Gel Woman's business in the first place? Because the Gel Woman was just saying, be mindful of what people do in their life and she'll make sure her daughter knows it. And then this random chick, comes out saying she felt disrespected. About what tho? Because unless she's the homewrecker, she shouldn't be coming out saying stuff like this.
@@randompelt4976 mmmm.. She is an OF model and unless I missed something and it went beyond the internet and did more than paying her for videos and nudes etc, I mean she is an OF model. Tam NOT saying these professions are even the slightest bit related, I am just saying that within the world of prostitution, most of the Johns are either married or are in a relationship. I dont think either profession has a vetting process. Tho to be fair, he did open up to her. That being said, she most likely has now lost just about any trust and discretion that should come from her end and the type of work she does.
Gel lady's fear is my fear. Never found myself there and sure won't if I can help it. The only person who always has your back is you. In relation to the other lady--I wish more people would mind their own business.
her child is there during that hurricane but she's worried about publicly shaming someone who doesent deserve it instead of safely evacuating with her child.
So when the gel lady texted her privately , the homewreckrt didn’t want to answer her but she want to answer random people on the internet about something that involves the lady she didn’t want to explain herself too.
I feel so bad for Ashley and the kids she has and the other chic, because they didn’t ask to be involved in this mess. Her husband is indeed a clown. No one knew Sheila existed until she announced herself to the world. She’s just as much as a clown for making it seem like he was a victim for reaching out to a woman who wasn’t his wife for advice or help with his marriage and wife. She should be ashamed and Ashley’s husband should be even more ashamed.
I find it so gross for these kids in the SWer background ans just posting her whole kids face on media she posts links to OF on. There’s things you don’t mix!
There has been cases of teens killing themselves after their school finds their moms only fans. She is setting her daughters up for so much pain and suffering.
1:40 has a man, I think gel lady has a fantastic point, you'll never know when someone will break up with someone younger, both men and women. I'd say be self sufficient in a relationship just in case thing end, even if you're married still be self sufficient just to be safe, because a break up can anytime
Ashley has handled this in such a classy & graceful way. I aspire to be like that during stressful & petty shit. I hope she can heal & this side girl can learn to stfu 💀💀
You explained this so perfectly. She didn’t need to post anything she wanted two minutes of fame off of Ashley. Poor Ashley. She’s emotionally going through it because her husband emotionally cheated with this disgusting human and this human thought posting and getting attention would make people like her like no we all feel awful for Ashley. This is so sad. I hope Ashley gets to heal in private poor thing 🥹
The real reason why she doesn't blame the "side chick" is because essentially it is her husband who created all of this. He got jealous of her success, didn't feel like a man enough and cheated. But Ashley has too much class to bash her husband even if he's the bad guy. The simple fact that he offered to be in her videos even if they aren't together is telling us everything we need to know about the amount of audacity he has.
This story upset me so much when I first heard about it, and I cannot stand even looking at that other woman who is unbelievably cruel for no reason at all except attention, which will quickly go away, and the attention she does have is negative as it should be. Ashley did not deserve this at all!
man this is such a sad situation. i feel like the internet is slowly turning adults into toddlers and toddlers into adults, i fucking hate it here man.
Ashlee has always had 100% of my respect everytime people have tried to cause drama with her. She shuts it down quick & never accuses/disrespects those who do that to her. She's the last person who deserves this, but also the strongest & I hope her private situation can go back to being private. It's so obvious she wanted to keep this away from social media.
Shes so amazing taking personal responsibility for being a public figure. A lot of people like social media until it shows its two faced nature. Im so happy she knew what she was getting into and accepting the consequences of being online. All in all, I hope everyone can respect whatever privacy she has left
And in the United States if you didn't work for 20 years and your husband leaves you for someone else, you won't even have Social Security to fall back on when you are elderly.
Farmer's tool acting like a psychologist is hilarious because it's her that needs therapy 😂 hope Ashley gets the kids and her hard earned money, while the 2 farmer's tools regret everything when they lose it all.
She thinks she's getting back at her dad by dating Mr biggums meanwhile her dad is happy with his real daughter that didn't come out looking deformed like her
It’s weird when homewreckers are proud of ruining relationships.
Not weird when you realize what women don't have physically they obtain socially (power) , an attractive successful woman that doesn't sell her vag is having marital issues my turn to profit in my equivalent to sex(clout) , modern women only want one thing and it's disgusting (clout)
Not the first time people stole something and share it on the internet, for sure theyre going to do this one day
She owes nothing to Ashley her husband does.
Homewackers
@@NessaGee-hx1etwhy make a video responding when no one spoke directly to you? Wanting to start an argument…..Maybe you’ll go ahead and say that’s not weird either but defending that is weird asf but maybe you don’t have morals either
The Gel lady is 100% class; she didn't blame the other woman and she didn't speak of her husband like he was a monster. The husband's vague, cryptic videos and the shit-stirring OF girl are the opposite.
Sorry if this is a dumb question but what is an OF girl? 😅
@@baabee4722Only Fans
@@baabee4722 onlyfans girl
@@baabee4722only fans, a site used to sell pornography
@@baabee4722Only Fans i assume
Hearing "be the woman you want your daughter to be" and immediately think its targetting you is a huge self report
You can only be hurt by things that you think are true.
so that girl isn’t just a home-wrecker.. she’s a stalker too. she’s making up scenarios in her head about being in some kind of competition with ashley???? it just screams insecurity
Yesss, especially since Ashley blocked her on social media 😳
There’s literally a video she made, of him in bed with her. He wasn’t using her for “”therapyyyyy””.
@@sandywave4971nah that wasn't him, don't get me wrong they're both assholes but the guy in the video wasn't the (ex) husband
@@sandywave4971 wait no way 💀is this true?
@@sandywave4971 omg was that actually him?? i thought it was s babydaddy
I love how she called herself a “therapist” and then immediately broke client-patient confidentiality. Like who says they’re doing “therapy” and then tells everyone what said client was dealing with. What a sicko
Exactly. What she thought was improving herself image she destroyed it again.
Shes also into s3x work. If she's out here releasing her clients personal information, she's gonna lose a lot of clients too
i don’t think she said she was a therapist in a literal sense. i believe she was just providing advice to someone. sex work doesn’t guarantee client-patient confidentially-you can tell anyone anything about any conversation you’ve had in professions besides ones where confidentiality and informed consent is required.
edit: also i’m not defending her, i think she’s awful. i don’t go around telling my friends about what my others friends tell me that was intended to be private. it’s the ethical thing to do. she has bad morals but realistically she’s not breaking any rules.
@@alextokuthat’s why I carry around and NDA with me at all times. every person I talk to must sign one. got a backpack pull of them, work is tough sometimes cuz there’s a line to sign my NDA
This shit makes people afraid to reach out for help!!! I've had first hand experience and it's some of the hardest shit to get through even years later
It’s the having her children in the video while discussing this subject matter for me. The fact that she was basically telling the world that she has low boundaries for men (a mistress) while introducing her toddler daughter is insane w/ the amount pedos on social media. And THEN she goes into talking her job in s3x work. Like ma’am?
Then the husband 😵💫 He should have not said anything. There’s no way you can get out of this. You’ve embarrassed yourself, your wife, & now you’re about to be broke when she puts you out.
you're spot on. she's a terrible mom. some women don't care about their children's safety.
Yep. She could've easily had the kid stay in another room. She has no business having her toddler on screen while talking about that stuff, or at all.
Plus imagine being a homewrecker and then blaming the wife and then claiming the wife was coming after her when she hadn't said shit about her. Honestly the husband and this ho DESERVE each other I mean trash should always be taken out together.
It's a common trend for sex workers. Most don't value themselves, why would they value others.
Hair Gel lady didn't do anything to hurt anyone. Why ruin her life?
Because she can. That literally seems to be the reason, because she thinks it’s funny and she’s getting all this attention for horrific behavior
so bullying someones choice to get a BBL isn't harming other women with bbl's? she bullied the other chick plain n simple. All those unnecessary statuses when she could've aimed all her attention at the REAL problem - her unfaithful husband.
What kills me is the husband pissed off at his wife when it was the sex worker that put his business out there for the world but he’s trash talking his WIFE
Like he had no part in it whatsoever
He’s trash and his little side piece is trash
@@arangelyshow did she bully her? Delulu af 🙄
Right what a clown@@Lifewithoutyou0105
Ashley seems like a genuinely nice person and doesn't deserve any of this sh*t
she's nice, but she overshares and cost her her marriage and a happy/stable upbringing for her kids.
@@marzattackz6736she and the kids will be perfectly OK without the cheater
@@marzattackz6736the other lady did that not Ashley
@@marzattackz6736her husband and father of her children, cheated on her. He broke the marriage, he cost the marriage.
@@marzattackz6736Ashlee didn't do that she gave a scenario and this random woman inputted herself into her relationship
Jesus. How insecure & sad do you have to be to destroy someone else's life because you felt like you were being "low-key bullied" which was truly her reading far too much into random shit.
MAJOR levels of insecurity right here. ong
I think there is a level of narcissism to it. Everything she saw Ashley post just had to be about her. Even stuff that was posted before Ashley knew she existed.
@jjthe I agree and disagree. I think the things she posted cut her deep because of the shit people say about women who do OF & stuff like that in general. She likely got triggered by the content but only saw it because she HAD to go see the stuff she was posting. Like who follows the spouse of a guy who you were supplying your services to?
@@lexiwexiwoo Yeah but the whole reason she was triggered was because she believed that virtually every comment Ashley made was directed at her, including stuff that was made before Ashleyknew about her. It's pretty classic narcissistic behavior. Especially, when you add on top of it that she made a video talking about this under the impression that people would be on her side
Homewreckers are egotistical assholes, but let us take a moment to shame the husband as well. Dude was thinking with the wrong head, and even if the Gel lady wasn't a good partner or not he could have just left the marriage and kept things private instead of using an OF girl as therapist. I feel bad for all the children involved.
Both are awful. You can't have one without the other
@@rakantopini the OF worker would never have been in the situation if he didn’t actively pay her and give her deeply personal information about his wife and relationship. It’s 100% his fault for giving this OF worker the power to do this in the first place and his reaction to it all publicly is a disgrace too.
He could've just said no. We need to Stop infantilizing men and defending them like they are toddlers who can't handle consequences.
It's like they get their ego boosted as 'strong independent man' If they want to. And they also get their action supported when they act like literal babies If they want to. So Fed up.
It's not always black and white, I dated a married man who led me on for months that his marriage is over and he's in love with me, he wants to be with me and we were planning on moving in together. Until I had enough of the empty promises and messaged the wife..she had no idea of him cheating and he dumped me by ghosting me. Broke my heart. He's a piece of shit who just used me while lying to both of us.
@@89tothbiankaut he didn't lead the only fans lady on. Your case is slightly different.
The timing of the husband not wanting to be on the internet all the time and this lady talking shit is just something
Tales as old as time. I love stereotypes.
What timing ? The one when he didn't want to be on the internet from the start ?
I'm not trying to defend this dumb.ass but you've conveniently forgot that part
What timing ? The one when he didn't want to be on the internet from the start ?
I'm not trying to defend this dumb.ass but you've conveniently forgot that part
And then the first time he speaks out, he’s bashing his wife! Just say you chose your side chick and move on!
I feel so bad for gel lady.
I have SOOOOO SOOO much respect for Ashley now. She really is so composed and just handling this gracefully as hell.
Who would want to be a client of hers going forward? Isn’t client privacy just as important as the sex workers privacy? She’s sabotaging her own business on top of not minding her own business
Apparently you don't understand how down bad the current religion has men , just the fact that any man would pay to see sid from iceage in the first place should tell you first of all the husband probably didn't do it (il become a Mandela effect truther if anyone presents any real evidence) that or the guy is someone she selected while being on the pill and hence incredibly low in testosterone so he doesn't pick real women rather any woman hence being able to enjoy both a 10 and sid from iceage
Desperate losers with degrading kinks and no self worth, which unfortunately seems to be on the rise. Depravity is a disease of shamelessness and no respect.
For real. Like why would I go to her, knowing she could potentially leak embarrassing information about me. Although seeing how Ashley’s husband blamed his own wife for “airing out their dirty laundry,” rather than the person he should have been blaming, I can see how the clientele she gets is probably not that smart
Seen the OF pics of her and she is nasty lmao guys gotta be down bad to pay for that 😂
This new generation if sex workers are a joke, they brag about it like it is something to be proud about. 99% of them ends up broke, alone and unemployable before they turn 35, I don't really care if a woman wants to sell her body. But this whole over glorification of it is quite problematic and sad, especially because most of them are so hungry for attention. That they fuck up their own career by running their mouth online, it is all honestly so sad.
Plus I don't get they guys that fuck up their relationship by fucking these 5/10 potato looking whores, especially when he is in a relationship with a beautiful woman that also seems to be a yard worker and a good person.
This woman has a young daughter behind her and instead of evacuating her baby she’s on the internet making TikToks???
Average tiktok narcissistic behaviour
The child is destroying the kitchen, and she makes a joke about it.
@@AzarychKids are going to be unruly monsters, just like their mother. It's so unfortunate to see
Yeah I’m hoping they didn’t make the evacuation in time.
It's clout chasing cause she keeps responding. I guess her OF income isn't giving her the attention she desperately needs
Currently feeling pretty horrible for Ashley. I can't imagine how stressful it is for her to be dealing with relationship problems to then be put on blast by the problem.
She comes off in a few ways:
1. Has absolutely nothing better to do/way too much free time
2. Massive pick-me
3. Lacks respect for other women and is weirdly competitive for no reason
Ikr, it was such a huge trip to hear that woman go ‘if you were a better, more understanding wife he wouldn’t have cheated on you with me.’
She is insecurity to the max.
Screams insecure fr
@reginarainer9740 and then also say they have never met in person... gurl go lay down
Technically first video she had something better to do...evacuate herself and her daughters...
Gel Lady seems to be a hard working, savvy business lady and content creator. I hope she gets her millions soon, and I hope the wannabe clout-chasing home wrecker reaps the full consequences of her action. I’m not supporting harassing her, but she absolutely deserves it. No respect.
Agree. The first scenario I could see why the internet would go crazy over because to me it sounded like she was taking her life into a hypothetical scenario. She already has work experience plus in her own scenario she stated 20 years which would mean the kids are all grown up. The second scenario where she is more concrete would make sense where one side has no work skills and is left alone I can understand. Though it is kind of misogynistic to assume the man is the bread winner. It could be like a Married With Children scenario where the man is the stay at home side lol.
As for the OF women I don't know enough of the order in this story to fully blame her ( by Atozy's video it sounds as if she made a response video to a video where she wasn't called out, but we also have evidence shown that the wife reached out to her and even called her out on Instagram). Depending on the order of events ( when the "to make him feel like he is cheating" Comment made by the gel lady) I could see OF girls first video being somewhat justified, but both seem like bad guys here, more so the OF lady though.
@@TheCommanderTaco Yeah, I’d only seen a handful of Gel Lady’s videos on my for you page before this, but I enjoy following internet drama. After learning all about it and taking some time to get my thoughts in order, I’m convinced Gel Lady is above reproach in this situation, but home wrecker has proven herself to be an ego driven, clout chasing, borderline narcissist. Not really enough evidence about the husband to draw any fair conclusions. What he did was obviously hurtful and childish, and his long awaited response was a pretty much a nothing burger. I get the whole situation is messy with a husband sneaking behind his wife’s back to play therapist with a prostitute, but I’m fully on Gel Lady’s side at this point. Even if the leech keeps finding ways to be offended by Gel Lady’s tik toks, that’s not Gel Lady’s problem the leech can’t stop chasing attention. I hope it bites her so hard in her BBL. I’m thinking about creating a tik tok just to leave heavily critical comments on all OF girl’s content and sending Gel Lady some words of support.
@@TheCommanderTaco And I think if you took the time to look deeper into it, you’d quickly find yourself fully supporting Gel Lady while losing all respect for OF girl. Her only redeeming quality is she is calm in her videos. If you can see through that veil, every sentence she speaks and point she attempts to make is uncalled for, belittling, and immature. I’ve never seen a clout chaser I’ve despised more. It’s one thing to annoy workers for views, but to insert yourself as a therapist because someone’s husband wanted to pay to sleep with you is truly psychotic or purely narcissist.
This OF lady is the absolute worst therapist then if she really wants that to be the comparison she’s making… airing out this mans whole entire life when that’s the biggest rule you can break. Sure as hell outed his identity by making this response… before it was just speculation but then she went and confirmed it.
She's also a soldier which is sad too
"I didn't even know them before this." Also her. "I had been following her for two years". 👀
“Used me for their success” LOVIE WERE YOU NOT CASHING IN ON THAT SUCCESS AS WELL?? The absolute AUDACITY this man has! Defending the mistress over the wife SMH
This is what I'm saying, that was his wife. She was making the family successful. Was he jealous?!
@@ButtahLoveRollmy first thought because if I/ YOUR WIFE is making money why would my husband not profit off what WE did TOGETHER.
@@ButtahLoveRollSounds like it.
There’s literally a video she made, of him in bed with her. He wasn’t using her for “”therapyyyyy””.
@sandywave4971 That turned out to be actually a different similar looking guy.
The nerve of him to claim that he was "used" for her success, is beyond belief. I have a feeling that he has definitely enjoyed the things "her success" created. Shame on him.
EXACTLY YYYYYY his self importance is WILD
Dude cheated and wanted to make it all about himself
Frr. Ashley made about 100+ videos. Only 8-10 had her husband. What a manchild!
He is jealous of her success and upset she doesn’t need him. That’s all I got from him. Probably had a lot to do with their issues. He definitely did not like her post about working and not depending on a man. I wouldn’t be surprised if he put the OF girl up to it. Especially because of the “He never saw me naked or anything… he just wanted to talk.” 🙄🥸🫣
Still don't know who he is and have never watched their couple video lol I just know her from her gel videos
The husband doesn't deserve the gel-lady... she's a class act & deserves better! ❤ the mistress & the awful husband deserve each other. Losers.
The husband knows damn well he did wrong, and he's twisting everything around to make himself look like the victim. He and OF lady deserve each other.
Yes that fatty and him are a match made in hell
Can we skinned them and do a walk of shame as well skinless ?
Honestly he’s always seemed like a humourless fuck, and he’s definitely gonna regret it.
There’s literally a video she made, of him in bed with her. He wasn’t using her for “”therapyyyyy””.
His video made him go from an attractive, nice, big gruff teddy bear of a guy that loves his wife to a run of the mill meat head.
I feel so bad for Gel Lady and her children. She seems like a strong woman who can set a good example for her kids, the whole thing is just sad.
I know, right?!
I think your the only person who cares
@@coachmikeyditkaop isn’t the only one who cares. It’s disgusting behavior. She has a military career and children to take care of. The lady calling out her husband is a horrible person
@@coachmikeyditka yup…come to find out when you have a social life, you learn to care about people.
@@coachmikeyditka You don't have to brag about being a moron.
That guy doesn't deseve the gel lady. In fact he deserves Ms "Poor me being bullied after wrecking a home".
I mean, her scenario happens not just in husbands who cheat but husbands who suddenly die too. The wife ends up carrying the financial burden and picking up the pieces if their kids are too young.
She is also in the military
Yeah. It was a pretty reasonable thing to think and act on about. Future-proofing herself financially at least.
Look, if you treat a man right he's not going anywhere. She probably stopped trying and he found someone who would put in the effort, sucks to suck but maybe you should value your partner and not take them for granted
@branch7628 I hope you find peace bro.
@@branch7628you're victim blaming? Really?
I want to know how long it'll take the home wreaker to realize that she's killing her own career because most guys don't want to use the services of a OF who is going to tell the world their dirty secrets.
There's a reason she was jealous of an actual business woman not just another made in China 99cent copy-paste sid from iceage looking ass 304 like she/herself
Good point!
Exactly, she basically admitted to the world that if she finds out who you are irl then you could be next to have your business revealed to the world
Men don’t think they do stupid shit all the time.
@@Va13chkayeah but the ones with deep pockets that she wants to get into want to keep those affairs under wraps as much as possible because they know they will get taken to the cleaners with that divorce. Some will and have killed side chicks that didn't know how to be discreet just to save face and keep from getting divorced.
So lemme get this straight, the attention seeker is a sex worker and took offense to Gel Lady saying she would teach her daughters to not be financially dependant on men?
The jokes genuinely do write themselves at this point.
She is a hundred and ten percent right about having your own money and working your own job. It's much more common than people like to think. You can be a faithful wife and mother. And then one day, hes in a midlife crisis. And he wants a divorce, hes gonna dump the 13 kids you have and go marry his secretary. She's exactly right
If you give up trying your husband deserves someone better is all I'm gonna say. I've seen how women give up once they think they've locked down a man, it's happened to me too. You know what happened? I found someone better
@@branch7628exactly you find someone better and then pay out as much as you can and alimony and child support so that they don't have to worry about it
Even if he never leaves you. He can still die.
@@Notantree Yup, you never know what's gonna happen. Get a skill. You don't have to want independence, but you should be able to survive on your own finances just incase you have no choice.
and an additive to it is that it can definitely happen both ways, so everyone should really be prepared for that.
LOL Did anyone else notice how much of a stalker the mistress became once she knew she was talking to the gel lady's husband!? She combed through months of posts looking for ANY that even remotely sounded like they were about her! Then kept lurking on every post/video she made for her "chance to shine"! For someone who "doesn't care" about the situation she sure does care about the millions of followers her "new John's" wife had! Who wants to bet SHE is the one to message the gel lady about her husband just to start this drama for clicks! She was waiting for Gel lady to say ANYTHING about the situation and the moment she could she got her 15 mins of fame from it. "Main character syndrome" is right she legit thought someone with 12mil+ followers gave two craps about the chick her husband was talking to! They didn't have a physical affair not that it makes the cheating better but it's another reason why she cares very little about this homewrecker!
RIGHT?! Like girl go touch fuckin grass
Yeah she crazy on a big scale
YES OMG I JIST COMMENTED THIS. she’s not just a homewrecker, she’s stalking and harassing ashley AND her children 🤢 making up scenarios in her head about ashley stalking her social media, even though that’s exactly what she was doing. she thinks ashley knows her but even said she’d been following her for years… like ashley needs to press charges for online intimidation or threats cause that girl sounds delusional as hell
I am confused? Did the gel lady's husband cheat on her with the half Asian looking female in the video?
@@jedimojojojo1603 As far as I can tell it was just emotional cheating over messages because she is an online sex worker (think onlyfans) and he was caught messaging her explicit things and she would send her nudes because that is how those types of parasocial relationships work online with little to no chance of becoming "real" affairs. But without knowing everything it is hard to tell. It still shocks me that he blames his wife for "exposing" him when it was really the chick he was talking to that essentially put him in the spotlight of this drama. Makes me wonder if he is still talking to her...
One of my biggest (and hopefully irrational) relationship fears is that, I'll find someone, we'll have kids and everything seems like it's basically perfect. Then one day they just leave without any explanation and no build up.
It mostly comes out of a trauma caused by my abusive parents. They always told me I wasn't good enough to have a healthy and reciprocated relationship.
this hits uncomfortably close to home for me
This is a crappy situation for Ashlee & her family. Her husband could do the very least by not allowing the side chick to talk crap about his wife the mother of his children. He’s pathetic & so is the side chick smh
He’s a damn child himself fr
Like grow uppppp he got mad she making all the money I get not wanting to b in the videos so don’t be in the videossss lol he childish n probably gay needs to grow up stop crying so much
He’s an insecure lol bitc
How could he have possibly stopped her from talking? People sometimes paint the craziest scenarios as if it's something completely normal.
@@ProPandaPlayswhy the hell did you say “he’s probably gay”??? What does that have to do anything??? Bruh, stop being a cringe ass sexist
Ashley handled this way better than I would have. She genuinely seems like a kind and humble woman. I feel for her and what she's going through. It's sad, and ppl these days will do anything for views🤦♀️
I’m sure she cried and screamed off camera. We only see what she wants to show/
@@NessaGee-hx1et I agree, but she handled it online very well.
@@NessaGee-hx1et Well duh, why would she just suck it all in? What kind of response is this? Is she meant to be an emotionless monster or are you just stating an alarmingly obvious fact??
Is the gel lady still up and running? I want to subscribe to her.
She did nothing wrong. The other one, well 😒
Anyway, I'm going to go look up gel lady and see what I can learn from her.
I've also been looking for a good gel to make my stupid hair look like I HAVE SOME 😤
@@BabyMonkeyDefenderher gel is bomb!!!!
“Don’t use OF girls as therapists” I thought for SURE a BetterHelp ad was coming up 😂
I spent 22 years with my first love, thought I would be cared for, and then he left me for my 18 year old daughter's best friend... who was also 18. I'm so glad I never stopped working, but I had no savings, no credit and no support system. It happens and it sucks but I don't feel ashamed for it, I just kept going, we all do. Why is this marketed as drama? It's like normal life.
If you don’t mind me asking, is she his daughter too and does she still talk to him?
bro... wtf?
Ma’am that is not life
Life dished you out the worst and most rare scenario it could 💀💀💀
This sounds like a p*rn plot with how messed up this is
@@CaptainAdmiralMango HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA OMG it does. It's not, but dang... it really does!
What the pick-me girl doesn’t realize, is that for man women, just communicating with another girl on OF is crossing a line into cheating territory. There is no need for her to try to invalidate the gel ladies feelings and response to such a scenario or air it out online. It just shows the lack of class and ethics the one sitting on her kitchen floor has.
Venting about realtionship problems to a potential homewrecker is always over the line. He should have talked to like his homeboys(gf) sisters w/e. Add insult to injury he went to a sex worker while in a marriage without consent, and he went to have personal/intimate engagements with them too. There's no amount of deflecting he can do to square that circle.
@ProPandaPlays
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Fool needs stop being a bitch and crying lol his wife seems soooo golden how tf he gonna cry n complain like a bitch I bet you it was cause she was bringing in all the money now he feels insecure like a bitch like he is one cause he is lol
@@Dark_Tesla dudes a clown lol
That’s the issue bet bitch got micropwem fr @@Dark_Tesla
Whitney little b ain’t a man@@Dark_Tesla
This genuinely makes me sad. I started following her and loosely watching her videos earlier this year when they were still making videos together. I saw she had taken down everything with her husband in it but I honestly feel so bad her privacy was violated like this, and that her husband is putting out those crap responses. I don't think she could have responded any better and she is a strong person for how she handled this. I hope she gets some peace.
Ashlees husband is next level delusional she said nothing about him besides “Id never bad talk him because he’s my family” and he still went online and made her enemy #1. He didnt make her she made herself. I watched ashlee long before I ever saw a video of them together and personally preferred when he wasn’t in the videos.
Same. He was so aggressive and rude towards her. In the end, he did her a favor. She can move onto better
This is just sad. The husband and the OF girl deserve each other. I just feel bad for the Gel girl.
nope, cause if there is something out there, I hope it causes Mr. jackass and Ms. Hole misery.
Totally. He even went as far as getting pissed at his damn wife when she literally said nothing about any of this, but this girl aired it all and he said nothing about HER.
honestly rooting for her to make it big and buy super sexy male escorts for herself to post on her socials, eventually her ex should see lol
Don't feel to bad about her she the same person who makes fun of d*ad Iraqis
really?where?@@monisahmedrizvi1697
The Gel Lady gave great advice to young women in regards to working and keeping your financial independance, especially now that "trad-wifes" and depending on a man for all of you needs is becoming popular. The sex worker saw that, probably saw the life she was leading her own daughters into, and got pissy. And she's hungry for attention so she just had to air the dirty laundry. Major respect to the Gel Lady, she seems like a class act from what I saw
"I don't feel like this man is heard..." Girl, what are you talking about? Because he DMed you for easy sex, you think you know the inner workings of his mind? Incredible.
I’m not necessarily a fan of Gel Lady, but I hope that gaudy home wrecker gets some serious karma. I’m not against sex workers or anything, but that cretan is absolutely classless.
Serious, even sex worker have class, shes just a soggy trash you left at the side of the road waiting for the trashman to take.
Of girl definitely losing customers after this. Many married men or guys in relationships on there that wouldn’t want her to blast their relationship next. I hope they mass unsubscribe
>I’m not against sex workers
SIMP
@DiogenesOfKekistan it's simping to not care about hookers hooking?
@@Diogenes-totesWho tf cares if someone is a sex worker. I can't stand this dumb "simp" name-calling. You don't like sex workers, don't fuck with them, simple as that🙄
The first video ever uploaded to Only Fans was from a guy explaining how to fix simple house hold stuff like how to change out parts in the back of the toilet, how to replace pipes under the sink, and how to clean out your ac unit every year and proper ways to set up a ladder and how to change or repair a door nob.
Imagine thinking you're being targeted by someone on the internet based off coincidences, so you insert yourself into their lives. Definition of MC syndrome.
I mean she was already involved cause she was fucking around with gel lady's husband
This is absolutely disgusting the fact she would rather gain clout instead of evacuating herself and her family to safety is absolutely wild like wtf
I'm sure it wasn't one or the other, you are exaggerating. She's just a POS but most places with evacuation warnings are fine and they can still have time to leave. And they are clearly fine. I lived in Jacksonville Fl and we were told to evacuate EVERY YEAR and even to this year it's been a bit of splitter splatter. So people who don't want to evacuate understand the reasoning, the risks and the very low chances in alot of areas. Saying she need to eveacuate to safety when they are fine and live in the area is as tone deaf as her acting like it's ok to tell the husbands life story.
Dickriding in the middle if a hurricane is probably top tier insanity rn
@@Miss_OnyxRosedoesn’t sound like a bad thing to do in a hurricane💀🤣
(Get it because sex😎)
So she STALKED the wife for 2yrs! Insane!
The scenario the gel lady first described recently happened to my mom. Although my dad and her were together for 30 years, he was still able to do what he did, and my mom was blind sided after being a stay at home mom of three. What Ms. Elliott explained is real thing that happens, and she is 100% correct for saying it is in the best interest of people to have their own careers and lives outside of a relationship.
It happened to my parents too. Except… my father went for someone older?? The knowledge of that kind of helps because it doesn’t make it as creepy. But regardless. Painful.
But then the wife will do the same shit that they blame on the husband.
@@Kova-ow2enstay bitter
@@Indomita506 you litterally just proved him right lmao
@@thecoolestofthe834s2 how? I have a wife. Gtfo
The husband’s response is the one that really shook me bc I saw all of Ashley’s videos first and she never once dragged his name through the mud, and she even defended him in the one video saying she wouldn’t let people smack talk him. His response is so much more telling, and it tells us he probably did a lot more than he was vaguely accused of and is telling on himself fr 👀
The opening part speaks to me. That's why i am adamant about building a career first than a family. If my husband does end up leaving me for someone else, I would be able to provide for myself and my children.
Ashley is 1000% correct. Not only do healthy relationships sometimes crumble, but people also die or become disabled and can no longer sustain their lifestyle. Its important to have a backup plan, especially if you have children.
Nobody cares about your lifestyle especially if your just spending that money carelessly, Ashley is 1000% wrong... Healthy relationships do not crumble.
@@TheHipisterDeer By lifestyle I meant their standard of living. When you have kids and a mortgage you need to have a plan on how to make ends meet if your partner can no longer work or is gone, otherwise you risk homelessness.
@@Jordan-nw4sj He wasn't working to begin with, that was her income not his.
Right he a clown and a crybaby lolol@@TheHipisterDeer
A BACKUP PLAN?!
So basically this whole thing started because this one sex worker took “if the shoe fits wear it” to the heart 🤣🤦🏽
OMG I can't even believe this is the guy who got HER. She deserves so much better.
That little smile she cracks as she's airing out all the drama, even/especially when her words sound like complaints, says everything
She knew she was in the wrong and that’s why it hit home and personal for her. That’s why she took everything so seriously like it was her being attacked.
Thank you for showing the truth about what’s happening and who is the actual victim. My heart goes out to Ashley, she’s so sweet and has done nothing to hurt anyone and has kept it classy throughout this whole mess..this weirdo OF s-worker “therapist” is a total narcissist, and deserves to be called out and shamed for not only her behavior but her lack of human decency and disregard for the privacy of others.
She was finally getting noticed for her comedy and her products... I hope that doesn't get overshadowed by the influx of people coming to see the 'gel lady' from all these videos talking about this.
I dont feel sorry for the husband one bit. Grow up and be honest with your spouse and get real help. Theres no excuse to go seeking comfort from an OF model, thats one of the most pathetic excuses Ive ever heard. The mental gymnastics side chick is doing to justify her OUTING HERSELF is crazy.
Obviously his wife was not giving him the attention or respect he needed as a man. It’s sad. Like a cycle of negative energy.
@@generalfranco9399Uhm no, you’re clearly doing mental gymnastics to justify your emotional cheating. I got married at 19, still with my husband, and there was a time where I felt like he wasn’t hearing me or caring…never once did I even look for attention outside of my marriage. I don’t care how down bad we are/were, no ounce of attention from an outsider would stray me from him! If you feel like you genuinely cannot talk to your partner, BREAK UP/DIVORCE. It’s so funny that people like you really think that your reasoning is justified. So embarrassing.
ETA: It also doesn’t matter if she could see your sadness without discussing it, as soon as a man would even try to get into my business, I’m shutting it down. It’s disrespectful.
@@generalfranco9399 I did take it at face value. I never once made assumptions on your character nor how you run your marriage. By you stating that you felt “heard” by another woman is the mental gymnastics to justify you even entertaining the woman who is not your wife. I understand that it isn’t always as simple as talking…but once another woman comes in and tries to make you “feel better” about what you are going through, is inappropriate. You can make your own assumptions about my marriage all you want lmao, I fear for your wife since the one time that she wasn’t “hearing you,” you took up another woman comforting you. I don’t care how much my husband isn’t hearing me, I’m going to tough it out until it gets better or divorce him if it is that bad. Men and women who unintentionally or intentionally seek out people outside their relationship is wrong. It’s laughable, as you say.
@@knowbody9679ofc a man is defending someone cheating not surprised one bit
@@knowbody9679then should he not speak to her about that if that's how he's feeling? Stop whining online, no one feels sorry for you. You are an adult, you are responsible for your choices. You realize all your problems would end if you grow a spine and work towards fixing them?
Women get shamed for not being stay at home moms and homemakers. The same people that shame women for not being at stay home moms and homemakers, get off at knowing that men cheat/find someone else that is younger. They just love seeing women betrayed and leaving women with nothing.
It just baffles me that when the husband did finally say something, it was to bash his wife and not, oh idk, the lady who put all his business out on front street in the first place 🥴 he’s just angry because Ashley’s not lying for him anymore. She didn’t make you look bad, Mr. Large Black Man Whose Name We Still Don’t Know, your infidelity and insecurity did 🙄
Exactly. And this is why people shouldn't lie to make their spouse look better...cuz if they aren't, the truth will eventually get out.
So she’s basically showing all her clients that she doesn’t know how to mind her business and will air their private matters if it means she gets some attention.
😂😂 that's what I said. She sucks at this 😂
MANNNN ugh. Did he ever bring up a conversation where he was like "I dont want this attention anymore?" Cause how Ashley is speaking, it sounds like she would've held the door open for him back to privacy if he ever just communicated his needs without escalation.
He was so insecure that his wife was doing bigger and better things lol he had to run to someone that he felt was beneath him 🤡
Or the wife wasn't treating him right and he found someone who would?
How do you know?
Or it's him literally really wanna talk to someone I don't know but sometimes family relationships don't help and need like a therapist or someone to actually just talk.
@@branch7628You know that how? She has already stated she removed her hunsband and understood he didn't wanna be in videos, you sound pathetic my guy
@@fallen_angel249yea so he chooses to talk to a young s@x worker??? bs excuses. go to a therapist ffs
How did Ashley use him? He didn’t have to agree to be in the videos. Also Ashley didn’t bring up that you cheated, your mistress did.
Deflection and zero accountability. Yet he doesn’t want to be “the bad guy.” I feel so bad she’s stuck dealing with him for the kids, I guarantee he’s coming for every penny she makes
Clout is so contagious, it kept this woman from evacuating her home before a hurricane hits it!!!
He wasn't "heard"? Apparently she heard him loud and clear, considering she respected his wishes and removed him completely from her accounts. I love how these folks just believe this bs without even thinking about there being two sides to the story. I've seen men believe women about allegations the same way. You don't know this mf and he's a married man trying to get in your pants and you expect every word he says to be the truth? Nobody is that naive, she just simply recognized the dude and continued talking to him and making him trust her because she knew he needed a shoulder to lean on and she recognized an opportunity to draw some attention to her content and didn't care if she destroyed two lives in the process. People like this are some of the lowest forms of life, imo. How she thinks this situation is gonna lead to her selling more pics of her box is beyond me. If anything, people are going to get mad enough to start cancelling subscriptions. And rightfully so. Men, stop giving women like this your hard earned money because they would do it to you too just as easily. There's too many people showing box for free to be doing all that.
"The only reason I even responded to any of this was because I felt like I was being bullied."
Yeah, they start harping on about bullying the second they are held accountable.
Gives me the 100% ick.
Your Making assumptions to you have no proof of what you say
@@imperialdra-mon5907
Tell me you're one of her subs without telling me you're one of her subs. You been on comment after comment white knighting for this random chick that is using your own money against you.
Nothing prideful about being a simp.
I'm sure she will pick you.
And there's no solid "proof" that points in any direction. However, there is _evidence._
Just because you can't see through it, doesn't mean everybody else has to simp for this chick.
😂 thats all just divorce prep. Cause she going to claim this $20000/month channel is mine not ours. But she wont get far with that. Any judge would look at that and in 2 seconds say oh you were married then this is real easy 50/50. Next.
nope. the trash husband said he didnt want to do social media and didnt want fame. so why the hell would the judge 50/50 social media? @@KayJay940
leeches man. @@KayJay940
The gel lady literally protected him and he had the absolute audacity to turn his back on her. Without her he’d be broke. I wish her peace and harmony. She did not deserve this chaos and heartbreak.
Chick with the glasses is MESSY. I hate her attitude.. the gel lady was super respectful and was very anonymous
That OF has a very guilty conscience that’s eating her up inside for her to think all of Ashley’s videos and posts are referring to her. I’ve never seen someone so deluded that they see themselves in every situation. I feel sorry for Ashley for many reasons. She didn’t ask for this at all. She has handled it like a pro with grace and integrity. Good for her not to stoop to the level of the clout chaser.
My husband is an army veteran, idk what gel lady does in the army but as an army wife we are there for one another. The fact that this s worker came into a married man is just sick. The husband and OF girl deserve eachother. I hope army/gel lady has a good life for real
Can't adultery get someone dishonorably discharged?
@@Musicanimedork01 adultery in the military (especially if you are both enlisted) can earn you up to a year in jail!
@@dell4813yet another reason to love military marriages
Ashley herself has a strong position in army. Pretty sure she could've just reported his adultery but she wouldn't do it because she's kind and don't want her kids to hate him.
@@dea9457 yeah, that’s exactly what i thought. of course she didn’t want to make it public, he could go to jail (if he is in the military). but, ofc, the of model needed that itty bit of clout to
make her life worthwhile.
What a sad place the world is when it is so full of attention seekers. Thankfully I am of an age where I have leant from my mistakes - I don't X and I don't Tik or Tok about them.
The irony that one of the perks of a real therapist is confidentiality 😂
Yeah who the fuck goes on OF for theraphy lol
I'm actually disgusted she calls herself a "therapist."
She's not a therapist, she's just an OF Hoe, let me guess she claims she's a therapist cause she listens to people, hell if that makes her a therapist then I guess I'm Sigmund Freud cause I both LISTEN and give advice to people when they ask for it.
I am appalled that she is even able to use Therapist in her title! I went to school for years and did an internship just to be able to become one! Who the H@#* does that?
A person with an undiagnosed personality disorder does that, that's who! 😡 It should be illegal! ✌
I'm proud of this lady for keeping her head high and turning this unfortunate situation into something positive for herself. I think we all need to take a lesson from this businesswoman; keep your maturity, have grace, don't give in to your anger, and be the bigger person by not throwing around blame. We have to accept sometimes in life it's better to walk away than stay and fight a losing battle. I applaud Ms. Gel Lady for having ladylike class!
7:22 i’m more focused on watching how the kid is just opening the kitchen cabinets and going thru them.. as she’s making a response video..? terrible parenting.
**WHILE THEY SHOULD BE EVACUATING** no less...
OF farm tool is like one of those high school bullies that acts like if she says things casually and calmly with a vocal fry they’re allowed to say awful things and if you call them out “you’re just so emotionally immature” with “really negative energy” and “harassing them!” Basically those girls that are horrible narcissists who think they can get away with anything by using weaponized HR language.
Exactly
Omg how did you capture this type of bully perfectly
She has a narc look on her face for sure.
Okay, I might get this mixed up. But I just need to know why is this woman in Gel Woman's business in the first place?
Because the Gel Woman was just saying, be mindful of what people do in their life and she'll make sure her daughter knows it.
And then this random chick, comes out saying she felt disrespected. About what tho? Because unless she's the homewrecker, she shouldn't be coming out saying stuff like this.
No, she is a homewrecker, she knew the man was married.
@@randompelt4976I have a strong suspicion that she may have even sought her husband out
@@randompelt4976 Then she deserves being disrespected
She either wants clout or is the "mistress" or quite possibly both
@@randompelt4976 mmmm..
She is an OF model and unless I missed something and it went beyond the internet and did more than paying her for videos and nudes etc, I mean she is an OF model. Tam NOT saying these professions are even the slightest bit related, I am just saying that within the world of prostitution, most of the Johns are either married or are in a relationship. I dont think either profession has a vetting process. Tho to be fair, he did open up to her.
That being said, she most likely has now lost just about any trust and discretion that should come from her end and the type of work she does.
Gel lady's fear is my fear. Never found myself there and sure won't if I can help it. The only person who always has your back is you.
In relation to the other lady--I wish more people would mind their own business.
The fact Ashley regularly tries on wigs, and her whole brand is hair related: and Monique assumes a single black wig is a message meant for her
Crazy chick
Gel lady needs to separate her finances from the hubs immediately if she hasn't already.
her child is there during that hurricane but she's worried about publicly shaming someone who doesent deserve it instead of safely evacuating with her child.
So when the gel lady texted her privately , the homewreckrt didn’t want to answer her but she want to answer random people on the internet about something that involves the lady she didn’t want to explain herself too.
I feel so bad for Ashley and the kids she has and the other chic, because they didn’t ask to be involved in this mess. Her husband is indeed a clown. No one knew Sheila existed until she announced herself to the world. She’s just as much as a clown for making it seem like he was a victim for reaching out to a woman who wasn’t his wife for advice or help with his marriage and wife. She should be ashamed and Ashley’s husband should be even more ashamed.
I find it so gross for these kids in the SWer background ans just posting her whole kids face on media she posts links to OF on. There’s things you don’t mix!
There has been cases of teens killing themselves after their school finds their moms only fans. She is setting her daughters up for so much pain and suffering.
I loved how you called her “your therapist” at the end. Classic!
1:40
has a man, I think gel lady has a fantastic point, you'll never know when someone will break up with someone younger, both men and women. I'd say be self sufficient in a relationship just in case thing end, even if you're married still be self sufficient just to be safe, because a break up can anytime
Ashley has handled this in such a classy & graceful way. I aspire to be like that during stressful & petty shit. I hope she can heal & this side girl can learn to stfu 💀💀
Yes!!!
I could barely follow her train of thought… she’s so vague and talks like she’s reading something without any punctuation
Clout is a hell of a drug
You explained this so perfectly. She didn’t need to post anything she wanted two minutes of fame off of Ashley. Poor Ashley. She’s emotionally going through it because her husband emotionally cheated with this disgusting human and this human thought posting and getting attention would make people like her like no we all feel awful for Ashley. This is so sad. I hope Ashley gets to heal in private poor thing 🥹
The real reason why she doesn't blame the "side chick" is because essentially it is her husband who created all of this. He got jealous of her success, didn't feel like a man enough and cheated. But Ashley has too much class to bash her husband even if he's the bad guy. The simple fact that he offered to be in her videos even if they aren't together is telling us everything we need to know about the amount of audacity he has.
There has been such a great epidemic of homewreckers and we need to finally do something about it. Seriously.
It's not just the homewreckers either. It's not hard to say "no I'm not going to cheat on my SO because I love them" and go home.
@@Jenna2k very true
I feel horrible for Gel Lady. she did absolutely nothing to deserve this and is just a woman trying to live. I hope she recovers and stays happy.
This story upset me so much when I first heard about it, and I cannot stand even looking at that other woman who is unbelievably cruel for no reason at all except attention, which will quickly go away, and the attention she does have is negative as it should be. Ashley did not deserve this at all!
6:10 ''the jelly'' 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
man this is such a sad situation.
i feel like the internet is slowly turning adults into toddlers and toddlers into adults, i fucking hate it here man.
Ashlee has always had 100% of my respect everytime people have tried to cause drama with her. She shuts it down quick & never accuses/disrespects those who do that to her. She's the last person who deserves this, but also the strongest & I hope her private situation can go back to being private. It's so obvious she wanted to keep this away from social media.
From lady to lady, im sorry this happened to her! Gel Lady, your mindset is in the right place! Dont let others steal your peace.
Shes so amazing taking personal responsibility for being a public figure. A lot of people like social media until it shows its two faced nature. Im so happy she knew what she was getting into and accepting the consequences of being online. All in all, I hope everyone can respect whatever privacy she has left
I never thought we would be saying the "gel girl" is one of the most sane and genuine person out there.
I had been hearing references to the 'Gel Lady' but had no idea what that was. Thanks for filling me in! Jeepers!
And in the United States if you didn't work for 20 years and your husband leaves you for someone else, you won't even have Social Security to fall back on when you are elderly.
Farmer's tool acting like a psychologist is hilarious because it's her that needs therapy 😂 hope Ashley gets the kids and her hard earned money, while the 2 farmer's tools regret everything when they lose it all.
She thinks she's getting back at her dad by dating Mr biggums meanwhile her dad is happy with his real daughter that didn't come out looking deformed like her
Did he even earn an income outside of her? Genuinely asking. He always looked dressed in lounge wear to me
She made herself a victim 😂😂😂
Like, literally NOBODY knew who she was until SHE said something. 🤦🏻♀️
I don’t use hair gel but I want to buy her gel to support her and make that money to help during the stupidity of this situation. Good luck Ashley! ❤
Buy some and donate it to a shelter or similar charity that serves people in need. Basic personal upkeep products like that are always in need.