7 Lessons that CHANGED MY STYLE FOREVER / Minimalist Wardrobe / Women's Outfits / Emily Wheatley
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As a teenager I worked in a high end fashion store on the Prom in Cheltenham. I used to walk past Cavendish House every day. I had a fabulous houndstooth check pencil skirt that I loved and wore often. I found out later that the window dressers/display artists, as they were called then, dubbed me “the pencil girl”, because they liked what I wore. So you never know who’s watching.🤣
Ahhhh love that! Such a fun story!
Wonderful video Emily! I've personally discovered (in my 80's) that I can be as edgy and far out in my personal style as what feels really good to me....and that is truly all that matters. This happened to me when I turned 80! It was like, who cares...I just want to be me. Sooo freeing! Your videos have helped cement that attitude in my style!
I'm so glad to hear that Carol! Thanks so much for sharing that with us!
I’m with you on this. I will be 78 shortly and I’m going for this style that I’ve always loved. Will be losing pounds to get there. Determined. Best to you.
You go girl 🤸🏻♀️💯
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻😁😁😁😁😁
The most refreshing part for me was seeing this bad-ass lady admit to being a people pleaser. There is hope...
:-)
This was so good, especially point #1 - nobody cares. I learned that the hard way, after so many years of trying to look acceptable, appropriate, businesslike, etc. But just wait until you are older and considered irrelevant that’s when it really hits you that nobody cares how great your outfit, makeup, hair, or thoughts are. So just be you and do you always.
Yes, love it, do you always! Thank you Erica!
A thoughtful, meaningful video.The antithesis of other fashion channels promoting consumption/ hauls.
You deserve a bigger audience.
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Completely agree! Very real and applicable.
Ahhh thank you so much! That means a lot!
Agree - this is a great channel. I get a lot out of it
@@EmilyWheatley its true, so refreshing to find someone on this site who looks great, who has a capsule wardrobe, so simple, no pressure!
My 7th grade home ec teacher always endorsed being tidy. Clean, pressed clothes, clean hair and face. Your smile should be you best feature.
I agree with the ripple effect. If I'm feelin' myself in an outfit, I walk with a spring in my step and have overall better outlook and attitude that day.
For sure! Glad you agree!
Over 60 and never had better advice. TY
This story about picking the same shirt as your future husband actually made me teary! I love this video!
Ahhh love that! Thank you!
Some thought-provoking insights here! On far too many occasions I’ve dressed in what I thought I “should” wear. It NEVER worked! First impressions last a long time; now I would rather be remembered for who I am. Loved your first date story.
Yes, great point about first impressions. Thank you Sheila!
I totally understand. After both of my kids I felt confused about myself and had to find my way back again.
Thanks for sharing that Sara!
I think that ripple effect happens not only in your life, but in your environment as well. I have noticed that since I started consciously developing my style, the women around me start upping their game as well. I see it at church and in the workplace, and with friendships. I love that dressing as your best self inspires other women to do the same.
I'll admit, I think about what other's will think way to much when I'm getting dressed and will tone things down if I feel I'll be noticed too much. Most of the people around me don't care or have personal style to speak of and I guess I don't want to look like I care too much about appearance. In reality, I wish I had more friends who loved style, and we supported that in each other.
Be you. Be the inspiration for your friends.
I do the same- almost always come up with a more “muted” version of a look. because surely I’ll be looked at too “try hard” for school drop off hahaaaa
I have so been there. And it is hard sometimes because we don't always want to be the center of attention. The good thing is that the more you do you the more people will come to expect it. And maybe with that you'll inspire some to up their style more as well.
Oh, wow! Spot on! These points were brought home to me as I prepared a capsule Red/Blk/White (school colors) capsule wardrobe for our 50th high school class reunion, last weekend. With closet, purchased, borrowed, thrifted clothing items, I threw it altogether (tough, because of changing season of hot one day and cool the next). Then, at the last moment a friend said, "Oh, I've got the perfect jumpsuit for you!" Well, I brought it home thinking, "Yeah, right..." but my youngest saw it and said, "Hey, that's cute. Sure you can pull it off". Out of my comfort zone, I went with it, decided to shine it on, and surprised myself that "ripping that bandaid off" was quick, painless, and then, EXCITING. No body cared, most loved it, and the fun times rolled all evening. Funny thing is...I HATED HIGH SCHOOL...but, after 50 years we are all over ourselves and know it is the friendships that last and have real meaning.
Love this story Lizzie! Such a perfect example of a lot of these lessons. Thank you so much for sharing it with us!!
If someone does not like my outfit, my first thought is usually "you have no taste!" :D Jokes aside, I do take 'outfit rejection' a little personally. I I try to remember that the most important thing is to dress for yourself, so you can feel comfortable and be yourself, and thereby attract the people that matter to you. Thanks for these helpful confidence boosters!
I felt you were totally talking about me!As I have gotten older and let myself go gray ,I have struggled with “is this to edgy or not age appropriate or to loud”. I was very encouraged by your video.❤️
I have only found your videos in the last few days. I really love this one today. Thank you for reminding me that it's not that important what I wear in the greater scheme of things. In the last year I have moved somewhere that women/people don't seem to wear the kind of things we wore where I come from. (the UK). I am quite often the only women with make up on, or wearing a brighter colour- and they aint that bright ! I am now starting , after a year of settling in, to reconsider what is my 'look' now? After a few years of things being different (for everybody), I can now watch videos like yours, to help me find what fits for me now. It's all very exciting really, and ...after all, it's just an outfit. So thanks for reminding me of that. 🏵🌺🌻
Second time listening 🎧.....I so enjoy your videos ☺️ I'm 72, was a wardrober for 25 year's. Teach, teach, teach. Changing my style in retirement. Thank You 😊
Yes Emily. Totally agree with everything you said except what you said about losing yourself when your had your son. You didn’t lose yourself, you just explored another facet of your being. You had the ability to bring life into the world and you did. You were always who you are just a new and different option. Now that you’ve been a mom for a couple of years, you have the opportunity to shoe him how fierce his mama is ( and there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.) Be the beautiful best you can be. Thanks again for your fashion wisdom. 🙏🏻💜
Ahhh so well said Lisa!! Thank you so much!
People do care- if you are happy and confident, but not about your clothes. In fact they won’t even remember what you wore.
Emily Wheatley fashion philosopher and decent human being, brava 😊😊🙏🏼⭐🍁❤
Thank you AC! Love that!
Yes also lost my creative style sense of self when I became a mom. Taller version of your frame in my 60’s I’m finding it again with an older body and a lot of mistakes along the way related to new shape. My daughters have kept their style as moms cheered on by me. Thank you! I just cut off my very lovely bob because it’s not me right now loving shorter edgier hair. I think the compliments I get are more that I’m dressing as myself and that comfort is what they see.
Yes for sure, people notice us more when we dress for ourselves in what we love :-)
Congratulations on the hair cut. I went the opposite direction…..from short pixie-ish to long, past my shoulders.
I loved this! I’ve also really struggled with worrying about what people think. I still do but it’s hard. You are SO right about how nobody really cares about your clothes. Everyone is too busy worrying about themselves!
Yes, I think people still notice our best selves but just not about the technicalities so much. Great feeling to know we can just dress for ourselves. Thanks for sharing with us!
I learned lots of these way back in high school a hundred years ago. When I thought I wanted to be a teacher and my ‘best’ friend told me they wouldn’t let teachers wear gaucho pants, which I wore all the time, and when I’ve continued to wear clogs when they just come in and out of fashion, when my mom compliments anything I wear that she would wear, but nothing I wear that she wouldn’t. You just have to dress for yourself and own it. Great video.
Definitely! Thank you for sharing Linda!
OMG! Exactly what people need to hear besides the rule of this and that. Wear your confidence, be authentic, and have fun...it is just an outfit, right? thank you, Emily. Love your channel and its positive vibes 😍
Totally agree on all your points! I truly believe energy attracts like energy and how we feel including our personal branding is at the heart of our ripple effect. Hope this video gets lots of views!
Absolutely!!
Spot on! As a woman in my mid-50's, if I could say anything to girls and women younger than me, it would be these points. We need not absorb other people's insecurities and express them in how we dress; we are not other people's opinions of us. Everyone has a sphere of influence. Thank you for using yours wisely and well, and with such grace and humility!
Emily I am so happy to hear that there is another person on earth thinks that she lost her self a bit after having a child. After having my son who ever I met they were telling me how blessing it was, they all looked so normal, already returned back their normal size; babies were sleeping through the night. I felt more isolated. 170 cm size 36 girl became chubby mom. I hated myself. I am still struggling with my weight after 8 years. I have always 10 pounds to loose. My son is the most precious human being on earth for me but I feel more like me when I am not with him; and definitely more like a mother with him.
Thank you so much for sharing that Ceyda!
What you said in the final point really resonated with me. I had lost whatever sense of style I had in my new identity as a mum. beginning to unearth it little by little.
Dear Emily, this is the best video I have seen. Not just of yours but of all the others. Thank you so much. You have helped me to feel confident in the clothes that I love. Before I cared too much what other people thought.
Thanks for opening up about "losing your style" when you had your son. I felt the same way after I had my first son! When I emerged from my postpartum haze, I dumped so much money into rediscovering my personal style, and felt like I was getting nowhere. It wasn't until I had my second son right before the pandemic, and the pandemic itself, that I discovered all that money I wasted buying things that weren't me came from a place of insecurity. Love your channel and your advice... it's definitely helped tremendously being confident with my own style, and truly loving my (now much smaller but well curated) wardrobe.
That is so fantastic to hear! Thank you for sharing with us Annie!!
"The Ripple Effect"...excellent thoughts my Fashion Friend :)
yay! Thank you!
Girl, i love you!! I'm watching for 2 years now different channels of women about finding my personal style. Finally i found you! ! Representing how i think and feel about fashion and about myself . I'm 57 years old , holding to black ever since i was 17 years old and thinking all the time, don't i have to make an evolution towards more color? I worked just like you 13 years in the fashion industry and always in doubt.....! Finally i get some answers. Thank you so much, keep on being so honnest and saying what we all feel without that commercial twist in your video's!
That is so great! Thank you so much for your comment! So great to hear!
As a childless stepmom, I can completely relate to the feeling of losing your personal identity and trying to find it again under different circumstances and assigned titles.
I think people just really don't notice what others are wearing. I do notce when I really like something and have to have it, though!
Yes definitely! And I think people who appreciate clothes and fashion will appreciate fellow fashion friends outfits :-)
Love this video. I really agree with your style approach and the connection to confidence. The older I get, the more I realize once you just 'do you,' the confidence builds. Authentic style is the best and easiest. Thanks for the reminder and inspiration...😊
Thank you Linde!
A few years ago I was in a vintage shop and fell in love with a hat. Although I don’t wear a lot of hats OR a lot of vintage I felt amazing in it, so I bought it. I’m going to an outdoor wedding at a vineyard this weekend and I thought - if I don’t have the nerve to wear it now, then when will I ever wear it? My not-so-confident self says I can always leave out the hat at the last minute! That would leave my outfit looking very unremarkable.Thank you for the timely video.
Yes!! Wear it! Like ripping off a band aid :-)
Dear Theresa, go, girl! 🤩🌹
I am confident in my style, and don't give a fig about what anyone else thinks! 😊
Thank you for another informative video! ~ Amy xx
I'm so glad!
Great video❤️ thank you for that.
Glad you enjoyed it!
You are a beautiful woman with so much soul. Love your channel. There’s always something to learn❣️
I too have worked in the fashion industry and have a pretty good understanding of the impact. Your outfit can make on your confidence.
Thank you for sharing 😎
Thank you so much for your lovely comment :-) Glad you understand!
I've been experimenting and struggling to find my style for a long time: trying to fit with the croud, please my mother (another fashion enthusiast but we have polar opposite style aesthetic), and trying to dress up in a way I thought my dates want me to. You really start to feel yourself and get that confidence boost only when you are true to yourself and your style.
Over the last two years I realized, that my wardrobe is kind of a dream wardrobe, but in a way for me as a person in my dreams. The cool, chic, traveling, business edgy girl. Yes, all of that very rare! Most of my time I am the always on my bike or feet, between family and office girl. So I changed what's in my wardrobe step by step: more sporty/chic garments, outwear and shoes, less wide leg pants, leather, long skirts, thin and delicate tops... I still have some delicate, cool or dramatic items, but just a few for special occasions... Now my wardrobe fits my lifestyle. 💕🤗
That is so great! Thank you for sharing that with us!
Ive just remembered a painful experience .A family wedding and I after trying on many ideas ,I chose a jewel coloured floral blouse ,a pale grey skirt ,pale grey blue blazer ,skin coloured fishnet tights and sandles . Oh my goodness ! My Mum showed me her clear disaproval and told me so . Mum avoided me ,so too did many other family members ,I was ignored .I was not encourged on the wedding photos ,well ,I was placed at the back ,dispite my only being 5ft 2ins . One ,very sweet Auntie admired my flesh coloured fishnet tights and later on when the ignoring got too much for me ,when another Auntie refused to dance with me , my dear Uncle Jack listened to me as I couldn t help weeping . The skirt I wore was short ,but only about 2ins above my knee , certainly it was the skirt my Mum didnt approve of .Still I decided to dance alone ,which I enjoyed ,only when my fun was cut short due to I had to accept an early lift home ,or lift at all . In the mini bus home ,I was inconsoluble and couldn t hold my tears back .Students who were unknown to me were so sweet as they tried to soothe me on the hired bus .Isn t it crazy when almost all of a family group (very big family ) disapprove and thus render you invisable ,because of your chosen outfit .This incident was a couple of decades back and I remember it just now . Such rejection again has brought a tear to my eye .Yes indeed ,true ,it is only clothing and so silly that some will strongly judge you for what you are wearing .A few years back ,here in England , a couple were walking in the park .They loved to wear gothic clothing ,a gang attacked the couple because of what their clothing represented to the gang .The girl was beaten so badly ,she lost her young life .A uniform can represent power and create fear in others and as I sit here writing , I feel that clothing has a bigger impact psychologically ,on us , than we realize . My comments perhaps are a little bit heavy , however , your discussion suddenly brought memories to mind . Thank you Emily for your content ,your style is impeccable ,edgy ,clean and beautiful .
A pixie styling tutorial would be nice.
Yes! Becoming a mother is an existential crisis for every woman, at least in the West. Thank you for saying it. I have 3 grown kids. The good news is, as they grow and need more and more of an advocate to the outside world, we Mom's get stronger and more determined and more confident. Thanks for the video!
Thank you Nancy!
Love you and your channel, Emily. Just want to respond to what you said about struggling with your self identity when you had your son. I certainly did. I had my son (only child) in my 30's (I'm an artist) and I was like 'me'--a mother?! I remember my friend trying to reassure me. She said, "You can still be 'you'. It's not like you'll have to start wearing 'pant suits'!...lol
Haha so true! I don't know why we feel that way but great to hear I'm not the only one :-) It's great when we realize we can be both.
Another great episode!
Hi from Canada in June 2023! This was excellent, thank you. I also noticed it was very relevant to how we see people and groups of people (real or imagined) in society right now. I'm 59, raised very conservatively, and I've always been fascinated by people that really GO for it! In the 80s the Punk kids sitting in the streets, I was so amazed and proud (?) of them. A little jealous, too. 🤗 Now I still dress "up" but love to play with edgy accessories; it's empowering to wear great boots... 😄
7 great lessons! Thank you 😎
Glad you like them!
Thanks, Emily, for validating all of these things that I wanted to believe, but needed another voice to express. I live in a town where my style of dress doesn't fit the basic "norm", but I very often get complimented on how I put things together. I love to see someone who obviously has their own style and feels confident in it. I try to always let them know how great they look!
💐 Yes, Kathleen, I completely agree with you about Emily's points in this video📲 having validated my own suspicions.
Brava! I'm impressed that you're holding your own while going against the grain of your community🏘️. 😬I'd worry about losing my re-emerging passion for fashion (& individuality) moving to another location🗺️〰️esp. since it was something I allowed to go 💤dormant💤 for a season. I fear I might backslide out of concern😨 of being considered vain. 🥳 I wouldn't want to miss the joy of all this rediscovery & reevaluation.
😉One of my besties, another native Angeleno, moved to a small suburb of Sacramento where they wear rather generic gear. 😱Even more ordinary jeans & tees to church⛪. She said it's definitely impacted her mode of dress too.
😎Now, LA is casual capital, but it's something we know how to do with some style. In fact, you can 👀find an amazingly wide array of fashion looks within our typically sunny, hot🥵 climate. Dressing down @ church💒 is unfortunately becoming more common, but they still maintain certain sartorial standards.
🤗Like you, I also make a point to compliment anyone with an elevated look. I understand & appreciate now more than ever the energy & thought that goes into finding & maintaining style. It's lovely when someone clearly feels worthy of the extra effort.
💚 Bridget from Cali☘️
(using my pal's YT acct)
Yes keep doing you! I know how that can be in a smaller town. I think smaller communities can sometimes be more supportive. And I love that you always let someone know you appreciate they're look. Support each other is what I always say.
Same here, in my Midwest city.
Regarding #6 - It IS PERSONAL, but I think you mean “DON’T TAKE IT PERSONALLY.” Our styles are very personal, but we don’t have to take criticism personally. Nice video content! I agree 100%.
🖤 love your honesty
Great video Emily, thank you.
I have realized that I have been dressing to hide. I wear a lot of black but I love a pop of color. I love a black dress with a printed scarf! But I wear black pants with a black tee instead even though I don’t really love outfit. I feel meh. No one notices me me in my black pants and blazer combo. I only dress for myself when I at home. This week I am going to try to dress for me so I feel good and not Meh. I was wondering why I never felt satisfied with my wardrobe. Between your channel and a small wardrobe I am realizing that I have a schizophrenic wardrobe. On the weekends I live in dresses both black and with some dark prints which I will wear with a blazer or bright colors with a black or navy duster when I go out or want to feel amazing! But when I go to work I feel like nothing . I think I have been shopping to be invisible.😬this video really validates what I have been thinking.
Be you. Be happy for yourself.
Thank you so much for sharing your struggle of "meh" with us. I'm so glad this video inspired you to step outside that this week. Let us know how it goes!!!
I have had the same experience of realising this, Sheila!
@@EmilyWheatley I have figured out how to shine. I have these black cotton midi racer back dresses that I have been wearing with very bright duster cardigans, ( hot pink, turquoise, cobalt, Kelly green ) with my white Chelsea doc martens. I felt more alive .I am 55 years old and I am over the all black look. Thank you.
(Just realized I'm into the neutral look)😂
Having kids does make you really reassess who you are. I had PND after having my sons and having to relocate and change jobs all within a couple of years, it took its toll on my identity and affected my confidence massively! I can now look back and be thankful that as you say I sorted my self out and decided I could still be me! I look around and young folk today really don’t seem to care what they look like, they go round in leggings and false eyelashes, very weird! its the old birds like me that seem to be more into fashion! I should say my personal style is the total opposite of yours but I still learn lots from you. I’m what you’d call eclectic maximalist :D
I'm so glad to hear that you still find value in my channel. Think we can all still inspire each other even when different.
Very true -- thank you!
So insightful. Thx for sharing!
I love all of your ideas today! I don't have a style, but your lessons spoke to me!
Excellent advice! Thank you Emily.
This is what I needed to hear especially the mom part. Thank you so much!
Deep.
Good job.
A sense of confidence - great point!
Loved the story about the flannel and your husband. ❤️
Thank you for sharing your heartfelt lessons.
I love your style & your channel! I’ve always loved classic pieces with a little edge. My job is pretty conservative but I can slide in an edgy boot or cool blouse with my classic suit.
Love that you can get a bit of edge in there, always helps. Thank you Heather!!
Emily, thank so much for your analytical and inspiring suggestions and advise. I have favorite fashion, skin care and health UTubers I follow. Your videos lean strongly on your advise and suggestions by experiences vs selling the product. Plus you’re a doll to watch. I wish you were a neighbor to help me with my closet but I will persevere to minimize for a specific style that is me.
You are so wise, insightful, and inspiring! Just found you and subscribed (obviously!)!
Hello Emily as a fellow veteran of the Fashion Industry and lover of clothing as far back as I can remember, I agree with every lesson you speak of because I have also struggled and triumphed with finding my personal style which ultimately should have been no surprise to me is Eclectic. My ever changing style comes down to a mood/feeling each day when I'm looking through my closet. Like you, one if my more go-to types of styling includes edge but I do have a feeling for it all. Once again it's a mood thing for me. I'm new to your channel and enjoy your style perspective and will continue watching with anticipation of your next episode.
Great to hear from another veteran of the FI. I'm with you on the feeling, on feeling the mood for sure. Thank you so much for your comment! Hope to hear more from you on future episodes. Welcome to the channel Mary!
Thanks Emily loved this!
Glad you did!
This! ❤❤❤
Thanks, Emily. 😊❤ Always a great video...learning something new to apply to my own style, often with "hey, I have that type of (fill-in-the-blank dress/shirt/scarf/shoes, etc.)" and you have given me a fresh way to style it. 😁❤️👏 Preach! All of these points are incredible.
Thank you ! I live this !
Glad you like it!
Uniforms for work are very liberating, even if they are rather hideous...lol
Beautifully said 🙏💕
Thank you 🤗
:-)
Your videos inspired to get my hair cut exactly like yours. I love it and have gotten so many compliments. One hidden benefit is that my hair even looks good (or especially looks good?) when it's dirty, LOL. I'll be keeping this look for a long time.
Emily, I LOVED this episode so much. Thank you for the nuggets of wisdom presented here❣️
Thank you so much!
Love your style lessons. I love fashion but I love doing Me and being Me. Never afraid to try something fresh and new even though I'm a classic, simple style lover. I always dress for me first! Just subscribed to your channel!
Love it, keep it going!
Loved this! Life lessons for us all!
Thank you Martha!
I’ve said it on other videos, I love your style and you are definitely an inspiration. You are keeping me on track paring down to what I actually enjoy wearing. My wardrobe overwhelms me with clothing that I have no idea why I bought it. What I do wear is simple pieces from Universal Standard, H&M and Kaliyana. So why do I have a purple chiffon blouse with a dozen rows of ruffles? Thanks for all the inspiration, you are actually helping people out here!
Thank you so much! So great to hear that!
So, I'm 43. When I first started experimenting with style I would watch numerous videos where women would say 'this works and this doesn't, and here's why', and it all sounded very logical. But then a couple years later, it was the same video, but the style that doesn't work was the one that apparently did work a couple years ago. It was kinda exhausting. And the breaking point was when Gen z started embracing mom jeans. Like, you are cosplaying me from my most awkward stage of puberty, a style that has been universally laughed at every year since as a completely unflattering style. But now the style youtubers are here explaining why this style was the more flattering style. Something just clicked, and I realized that it is all kind of meaningless. And that's when I started dressing for myself, and now I actually get a lot more positive comments about my style.
Yes, exactly. Dressing for yourself is the only way to go!
@peasnap3000
That is so true about influencers constantly changing their minds about what's in or out. So we go and buy their recommendations only to find a short while later that they are now considered old fashioned. I'm 72 and so I shouldn't be too concerned
about such things, but I try not to look like a stereotypical old lady. I still wear my skinny jeans because I don't suit any other style. This is why I love watching Emily's videos.
Her advice is ageless. ❤
I think you absolutely nailed it in this video - Thank you!
Thank you so much!
God, how refreshing! Great points.
I always dressed for me. I did the layering before J.Crew made it a thing. I layered out of necessity. I was so thin I needed the layers to keep my pants and skirts up and to add bulk to my wafer thin figure.I couldn’t even wear belts, so I threaded through my belt loops. Now at 53, I am still wearing my clothes that way.
I do think hair very much dictates style.
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Yes! Thanks for sharing Joelle!!
I know my style, although sometimes I experiment and I love my wardrobe, most of the time. However, I am sometimes made to feel as if I am overdressed for the occasion.
Most people want to dress down as much as possible and don't want you to make them feel inadequate by setting the standard too high. Am I right? what to do about this?
On one occasion, when I went to court, I had a nicer suit on than my lawyer. She complemented me. On another occasion, when I worked in Real Estate , I wore a hounds tooth pencil skirt and a jacket and kitten heels and the Partner Owner was wearing ripped jeans and booties with a knitted top. She said to me: " you know, we are really casual and relaxed around here.". Giving me a dress- down. What's up with that?
Yes, I'd say it comes down to the person. Some people appreciate it and some get self conscious if you're dressed up more than them. Such a bummer. But I say, always rock you!
I always went with it's better to overdressed than under dressed. I went on an interview and my dress was questioned. I told them that wearing a suit to an interview is a show of respect and I understand that I would not dress this way day to day in my position. I got the job
Great video Emily, FOR SURE😎👍🏽…..
Thank you! That shirt story is super! To thine own self be true...
Yes, love that!
Thanks for these tips; I wish everyone who doubts their personal style is good enough for others to see would watch this and love themselves and their self expression more because of it!
Yes, me too!! :-)
Enjoyed this video very much, thank you.
Glad you enjoyed it!
Emily, just struck me when you said you are a people pleaser, I am too, but always feel this works so much against me, try to control it all the time. I see you as a very confident woman, would never guess you admit sth like that. Maybe there is hope for me too!😃
Love your edgy and original style, wish you your channel grows big as you deserved that! 👍
Thank you so much! :-)
Yes yes yes
thank yoy
I just discovered you and subscribed. I’m MUCH older than you but your advice fits anyone of any age.
you are awesome!
These are some great lessons. I work with older women, like grandma old and let me tell you, older women (not all, but definitely the ones I worked with) can be so critical and will slip in little things to make to feel “other”. Anyway that being said, I found myself sometimes placating to them by dumbing my style down, I am also edgy, boho, punk, sporty so many things but I didn’t want to be “loud”. But that wasn’t me. I love style, I love fashion, and I love being creative. You have to be you, don’t let others dictate how you be creative with yourself, with how you curate your style. I couldn’t believe I let that happen! Thanks for these lessons and encouraging us fashion friends to be unique and to not give up on our style!
Thank you so much for sharing your experience with us. We definitely all go through those times.
Very nice video!!! 😊
I feel U girl. ✌️
Excellent as always...🥰
Thank you so much 😀
Watching and styling from Bavaria Germany
Hello to Bavaria!!
Just love your accent!
Haha thank you!
Great Video!
Thank you!!!