You won't magically find motivation one day, you will create it for yourself... 1. Reframe it as "motivation is doing" 2. just start doing whatever it is you hope to achieve 3. voila - you're on you're way 💪
As an INTP-T, this video is so damn accurate to me. I feel this struggle all the time. In my society, i'm such an awkward socially, i'm more like an alien more than a human. Also, i'm always being misunderstood very often, that's why i'm really hard to trust people. In my school, i got a 1st rank at my class, and i feel ambition, i'm afraid if my rank goes down, but also i'm so lazy to study. Also, in my school, i don't have many friends bc my topics of conversation is really different from others. I'm more prefer to talk about psychology, economy, politics, history, science, conspiration theory, while the other girls at my age (middle schooler) is always talking about boys, crush, love, while i think those topics are a waste of time. This struggle is really hard, sometimes i wanna have so many close friends, but i can't 😥.
I hope that you find value and validation from knowing your type early on in life. Don't worry, if you focus some energy on trying to understand other people, and on not worrying so much what they think of you, and instead just accepting that people will always think you're weird, and that's ok, I'm sure you'll find happiness and contentment, as I have. Just wish it didn't take me 30 years to figure it out.
I believe all INTPs are sharing the same struggles, and you will need to find that one friend, maybe a life partner, with different personality to help you through that. Granted nothing wrong with us being INTPs, but this personality can only be successful in life with support from others imo.
It's worth some effort now to get good or better grades.(Think of them as a plan B policy). Boys and girls are only really interested in each other when their hormones hijack their brains (so it's really the other girls that are more like aliens). They may hijack yours oneday. Best to make friends with people who have similar interests as yourself. Maybe join a debating or astronomy club. Spend energy creating a good life for yourself first, rather that worrying about how you will share it with one ther person.
I am an INTP the struggle is real. When I knew I am an intp I was happy that I am a genius. But the struggle I am facing is just too much to handle. It took 3 years for me finish one thing that an ordinary person would take only 6 to 8 months. I would have loved having deep knowledge in one thing rather than having knowledge in everything. I would have loved having interest in one thing so that I would have not be exhausted while doing things I need to do
As an intp myself I have come to learn that, motivation is a fleeting emotion that comes and goes. You can't really rely on it to achieve anything. Try developing good habits and eating a healthy diet Discipline is what separates the masters from the mediocre Remove distractions and focuse on the tasks at hand Hope this helped!
As an INTP, all of these called me out. XD ESPECIALLY the 2nd one. I can't recall how many ideas and projects, and career interests I went through and abandoned either before even finishing or without even starting. This is why I ended up dropping out of college after changing my major 3 times in 1 year and only ever worked in food service, because I'm interested in so many things that I have no idea which one to pick, as we get just 1 option and school is too expensive to keep changing majors often, and I'm still trying to figure out what I want to be when I "grow up." I've actually been working on starting a novel/graphic novel series since I was 19, but so far, I've been coming up with a bunch of characters and backgrounds, and changing the plot that it's been almost 20 years, and still no book, just notes. I only subvert the 4th one for being solid in my decision to never have kids, though. But everything else is accurate.
bro I'm a programmer, an uncertified web developer, I make music too progressive house music, I like editing photos and videos. I love science. I love math. I fucking love all these things. I'm 17 y/o. I'm too confused about my career of choice. I'm just perplexed which way to step in! Help please - INTP - T
Even as an INTP I don’t fit with other INTPs. They’re out building rocket ships and polishing their Nobel prizes. Here I am in spaghetti stained shirt, painting a tiny pink flower on a canvas while eating banana bread slices and leaving laundry in the dryer for the 4th time in a row.
That intp's can't always state their emotions understandably, as said at 8:16, is due to their depth of thinking. They may want to for the perfect words for a couple of weeks or months. It is in their nature to think any matter from all possible aspects. If they hurry, they may be misunderstood or they don't even find any suitable words, if they take their time, opportunity to come back to the question at hand may not rise, or they may not be believed for their lack of emotion after so much time.
It's true as an into in my whole life I've always felt misunderstood that's why i don't like group projects because when i creat an idea they always misunderstood it also of how i think or feel.
I’m have INTP type and I have been for various reasons in mental hospital ~6 months and I have asparger and trust me it is true that INTP-s have hard live in society when you don’t understand full people around you. So if you are another type of personality pls be gentle with us. (:
I just took a personality test yesterday and came out as INTP and I can’t explain how relived I am that I’m not alone lol. I was labeled as gifted in Elementary as everything came easy to me and really wouldn’t try on subjects as it was “easy” as I grew up Middle School and High School was easy as well but way more work, like Long Division etc. and I always had problems with teachers asking me to show my work. So I’ve struggled with laziness and always questioning why school is even important especially in this day and age where everything is online. And as a kid I wanted to be an Astro-Physicist but dropped that idea after I realized I have to get a PhD whic gc just means more school 😅
Hello i am also an intp. The story you said is literary me. We definitely share the same worldview. can we be friends online? your social media pls? I am tired of this life. I desperately need to talk to someone who thinks like me.
I believe all introverted types could get along with all personality types, INTPs gets mentally struggled a lot compared to other personality types, it is hard or a burden for them to open up their emotions. I believe they are the most gentle thinkers, they desire to be polite, even if they prefer to be logical, and unique.
It seems like everybody rejects me. The only thing I can think of is they see me as being smarter than them... So that makes them mad. I don't treat people as if they are stupid.
I would rephrase second point because it's not like we lose all motivation but rather our vivid imagination allow us to spend out motivation points on sitting in front of the wall and imagining things that you are motivated about for hours, then returning to reality and feel achieved for some time (hence no motivation) I would also disagree about stubborness. Never in my life i wasn't stubborn if i am wrong. I did felt terrible admitting it sometimes but i did. In fact i generally find it helpful if someone point to my mistake. Once i discussed something with my friend (it was basically a question about logical reasoning of some certain situation). This question bugged me for a long time after and then i realized i was wrong (but didn't have contacts to this guy). 3 years later we met again and first thing i did is I said to him i was wrong then. However he didn't remember any conversation and laughed at me that i still was thinking about smth like this.
Before procrastinating, I see a task from start to end and if it's something I can do in one day or in last few hours, I just put it off. But yes, I do understand that tasks are learned and done better when a person gives little time everyday.
#1 - Does not apply to all INTPs. I enjoy the isolation. #2 - 100% agree #3 - Agree but I am always aware of my surroundings including people. I just don't care what they think most of the time. #4 - Yes, this is true #5 - This can be true but I don't get so frustrated #6 - Most people are not to be trusted #7 - Not true for me. Most people mistake me for an INFP until I explain how dumb they sound. #8 - Although it is true most can't keep up, I'll explain myself in a way only intelligent people will understand. So if you misunderstand me, well...
I strongly suspect you are dishonest, most people don't even know what IN.. anything means and blowing up your own whistle how others can't understand you...that isn't going to give you credibility. There is a good change they have a reason why their and your conclusion wouldn't meet and perhaps just you lack the capacity to see it. also, keeping your mind open even the ideas that you can't comprehend is a good idea, because you never know
Lack of motivation is so terrible. I have so many great ideas, and I know I've got the potential to be great. If I wasn't so prone to procrastination and abandoning projects, I could be in an amazing place in life right now...
Ohhh now it all makes sense thanks for making it clearer for me to understand my weird-ass self. I grew up with few friends but those few friends were usually close to me and weird as well. Currently struggling in finding that special someone to understand me. I feel like I scare everyone off or they just get bored of or impatient with me. The struggle is real, at least I’m happy being alone if need be.
I think too much, I need a good reason to do something, and decide if it’s worth it or not. Sometimes I know I need to do it, like waking up out of bed, but I always think questions like, ‘what’s the point?’
As an INTP I have problems with motivation. Not because I cannot focus or so, but because of I always before project/deal think about the worst ending of this problem, and thinking like I’m not in my worst side, it’s ok 😅
I really am INTP, but i am not naive at all, i can be motivated when i want to, and even tho i hate social interaction, I definitely do have the potential to be social. But, i myself created these characteristics by noticing what was bad in myself and causing me harm
You missed on most naive. I'm with an ISFP that thanks to her Ne trickster is clueless to others' motives. It was one of her best features as I kept matching on apps with INFPs that used their Ne to see motives that weren't there in me and lacking Ne I was able to be accepted at face value for a change which was refreshing.
why is this so relatable,, yes I need my alone time but i hate being ignored or alienated,in this society you have to be a extrovert if you wannna have friends. yes I lack motivation in my life, i easily get bored with stuff i was excited about earlier and even if i get some motivation, it doesn't lasts long. i am really naive and stubborn when it comes to any type of relationship and then i end up being vulnerable, and ofc i can never take a proper decision, even if i take one i know already that i will regret it , i was born with social awkwardness, i just can't go in front of. a person and talk like i am full of shyness and tho i have fear of being misunderstood i am always misunderstood, it's not easy being the weird person
Because loneliness and being Alone is different , we like to be alone most of the time but we feel lonely because it's like living in a world of aliens who do not understand you at all , and you do understand them only because you have studied their behavior and tried to mimic their comunication.
Now it not in so much that we do not WANT to let people in as being so much in our heads and being oblivious our surrounds. We are also aware that hardly no one is interested in the things we are interested in.
Searching an INTP who shares the same worldview as me. So if you are an INTP, can we be friends online? your social media pls? I am tired of this life. I desperately need to talk to someone who thinks like me.
I am always being rejected by people. I have wondered if it is because I am INTP. I think people should be willing to accept others that aren't exactly like them.
Hmm, I have traits and ended up with test results of both intj and intp, but I honestly seem to have more common traits with intp, especially after watching this video
I can understand that, I used to be INTJ for many years, but then I started to become an INTP for the last few years. The main reason someone transforms between them is "hopeless". Since INTJs can see the future more than others, they will lose the hop from the 2nd or 3rd attempts, they just need to compare the tests they've done with the other possibilities they didn't, so they will know the result of the other 99 attempts without doing it. And, when they face a real challenge, they will not try to go in another direction in their life, because INTJs have basics and rules in their life... And you can think about what will happen next. To make it more clear, what will INTJ do in his/ her waiting time? Now Imagine the same thing if an INTJ waited for SOOOO long time, like months or years, without having the power or money to find a new good hobby (for example: reading, learning languages, sports,..). They will just keep thinking in their World, then, they will try to avoid the bad feelings that will come by doing anything else, then they will start to lose the motivation over time, and will get used to useless hobbies they usually hated to spend time on it... And, step by step, they will transform into INTP, and that's what happened to me. Maybe you feel that you are both because your free time in your schedule increased, or because you start to feel hopeless with your life, mostly when people didn't understand you..... Just try to fight your laziness, and find anything to fill the gap in your time. Being INTJ is much better than being INTP. No offenses, But I hope that you get the idea.
As an INTP-T i didn't really know that it's just my personality...i thought i had alexithymia lol..this was very helpful..i got to know myself a little better
The brotherhood. Hello aliens, weirdos, whatever you have been called by "normal people", we all share the same mindset here. As a fucking INTP I love seeing a lot of aliens woohoo. 🎉
I think one reason I have problems with people is because I can see various outcomes ahead of time. They think there is no way I can see it. To me it is common sense.
I'm INTP and this video is accurate. I'm super smart and basically right about most things way before most people...but it doesn't matter because nobody believes me or takes me seriously, accept my wife and brother who have seen me predict the future multiple times and now they trust me. But growing up I was an outcast and a weird conspiracy theorist..but now that all my wild theories have come true, my family has acknowledged that I was right for all those years. The theories I have now are taken more seriously, so that's good.
Hey, do you have some examples? I'm struggling with that too most of the time.. But there is people who indeed consider me smart and intellectual but it's came from more mature people's and more aged also by some correlation.. cause the folks my age(23) most of them are stupid, silly giggling dolls. I can have a good conversion only with 30 - 40+ years old guys on my job. But it's just being said that there is more chance to find mature human and someone to talk more deeply around those ages.
As n INTP i suffers alot being misunderstood by people...whenever m just trying to open up n share my opinion they misunderstand me..but people who r close to me understands me so its a bit easy for me...n thats how m not good at making new friends either..
This would fit by 90% here too. Some nor so much ,i have tolerance for others i simply cant stand BS. Ans had had to learn keeping m mouth shout telling out loud truth what i think. Being INTP and in the High funtioning ASD has so much in common
Number 1 problem solved with internet community, like how I comment on this video while I am INTP. Not meeting the people make it easier to cominicate. You can see ALOT of INTPs commentings here and there on random videos on TH-cam.
i was put in the ISTJ camp but have a lot of these problems too. The test was right in the middle of both the S and the J so I'm probably somewhere in-between?
I am intp t And this is so accurate because I AM MISUNDERSTOOD ALL THE TIME And yes I still fear to trust people because I am afraid they will misunderstand me and I will be alienated once again
As an INTP, i'd like to disagree with the wording at 2:41. "their attention span may be a stumbling block." While yes, we may have trouble focusing on things, it isn't our attention span. It's our motivation, how much we like doing something. I, personally, have been immersed in a project for hours end because I was interested in the project and I felt highly motivated to complete it. Attention span isn't an issue, motivation is.
I disagree with number 5, stubbornness. INTP are always open to modifying their opinions according to new information. This one of their strongest points. Hence the indecision spoken of earlier because of their shifting opinions.
@@PsychologyRefresh I notice patterns in society and when people say nice sounding words that are full of shit I mostly have a hard time to explain it to the fooled one. But then after a while I find a way to tell it in some way to the person. I care about the people you know. These days are full of lies and political bs from all sides and this crap is everywhere. So many people fell for it but I never do.
i think the only struggle u told us that we wont get a girl in this 8 min video , it doesnt make sense that how does it implies as our struggle since all that i saw was a very common behaviour among various introverted types and u just posted crap from the first line u saw on google and not even bother to research
To my fellow INTPs read the subtle art of not giving a f*ck, it explores why motivation is a waste of time. INTPs live in our heads, we have a very rich and colourful internal environment. We take for granted that everyone is as deep thinking and analytical as we are, they’re not. They are always out chasing what we are born with, an inner calm. My best friend is Mr Extrovert and is always asking me to come to his boxing club with him. He has a majorly stressful job and uses boxing to excise all that tension. He’s verging on the edge of a breakdown (his words, not mine) has ruined a ligament in his knee with all this exercise and needs a nose job that booked for 1 months time because it got broken by accident when he was boxing and now he can only breathe out one side of his nose. We earn the same money but I work for myself caring for the elderly in a medical capacity where they need an appointment to come see me. Everyday is quiet and easy, people think I’m really zen. Which pleases me. Don’t try too hard, find someone you don’t mind doing and don’t live extravagantly. The rest of the time, I live in my head, and it’s a quirky place 😊😊
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As an INTP motivation is the biggest struggle in my life, I have no motivation and never had, hope one day I will find it.
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
Same here it’s tough.
I’m so unmotivated I can’t even fini...
so true after failing an exam i really lost my motivation.
You won't magically find motivation one day, you will create it for yourself...
1. Reframe it as "motivation is doing"
2. just start doing whatever it is you hope to achieve
3. voila - you're on you're way 💪
As an INTP-T, this video is so damn accurate to me. I feel this struggle all the time. In my society, i'm such an awkward socially, i'm more like an alien more than a human. Also, i'm always being misunderstood very often, that's why i'm really hard to trust people. In my school, i got a 1st rank at my class, and i feel ambition, i'm afraid if my rank goes down, but also i'm so lazy to study. Also, in my school, i don't have many friends bc my topics of conversation is really different from others. I'm more prefer to talk about psychology, economy, politics, history, science, conspiration theory, while the other girls at my age (middle schooler) is always talking about boys, crush, love, while i think those topics are a waste of time. This struggle is really hard, sometimes i wanna have so many close friends, but i can't 😥.
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
accurate asf
I hope that you find value and validation from knowing your type early on in life. Don't worry, if you focus some energy on trying to understand other people, and on not worrying so much what they think of you, and instead just accepting that people will always think you're weird, and that's ok, I'm sure you'll find happiness and contentment, as I have. Just wish it didn't take me 30 years to figure it out.
I believe all INTPs are sharing the same struggles, and you will need to find that one friend, maybe a life partner, with different personality to help you through that. Granted nothing wrong with us being INTPs, but this personality can only be successful in life with support from others imo.
It's worth some effort now to get good or better grades.(Think of them as a plan B policy). Boys and girls are only really interested in each other when their hormones hijack their brains (so it's really the other girls that are more like aliens). They may hijack yours oneday. Best to make friends with people who have similar interests as yourself. Maybe join a debating or astronomy club. Spend energy creating a good life for yourself first, rather that worrying about how you will share it with one ther person.
I am an INTP the struggle is real. When I knew I am an intp I was happy that I am a genius. But the struggle I am facing is just too much to handle. It took 3 years for me finish one thing that an ordinary person would take only 6 to 8 months. I would have loved having deep knowledge in one thing rather than having knowledge in everything. I would have loved having interest in one thing so that I would have not be exhausted while doing things I need to do
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@@hunterlord25 Literally. Patrick Star from SpongeBob is also noted as being an INTP 😂
@@hunterlord25 hope he's an actual genius xDn't
Dude, you need to work on your grammar. Call yourself an INTP? tsk tsk....
@@nickkwasak He could be from another country, and not familiar with English.
As an intp I think it would be great to have a community were we motivate each other.
Okay!
We'll get that started tomorrow...
Someone make a discord
We can motivate each other but not our selfs
r/INTP there ya go
As an intp myself I have come to learn that, motivation is a fleeting emotion that comes and goes. You can't really rely on it to achieve anything.
Try developing good habits and eating a healthy diet
Discipline is what separates the masters from the mediocre
Remove distractions and focuse on the tasks at hand
Hope this helped!
As an INTP, all of these called me out. XD
ESPECIALLY the 2nd one. I can't recall how many ideas and projects, and career interests I went through and abandoned either before even finishing or without even starting. This is why I ended up dropping out of college after changing my major 3 times in 1 year and only ever worked in food service, because I'm interested in so many things that I have no idea which one to pick, as we get just 1 option and school is too expensive to keep changing majors often, and I'm still trying to figure out what I want to be when I "grow up." I've actually been working on starting a novel/graphic novel series since I was 19, but so far, I've been coming up with a bunch of characters and backgrounds, and changing the plot that it's been almost 20 years, and still no book, just notes.
I only subvert the 4th one for being solid in my decision to never have kids, though. But everything else is accurate.
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bro I'm a programmer, an uncertified web developer, I make music too progressive house music, I like editing photos and videos. I love science. I love math. I fucking love all these things. I'm 17 y/o. I'm too confused about my career of choice. I'm just perplexed which way to step in! Help please - INTP - T
Even as an INTP I don’t fit with other INTPs. They’re out building rocket ships and polishing their Nobel prizes. Here I am in spaghetti stained shirt, painting a tiny pink flower on a canvas while eating banana bread slices and leaving laundry in the dryer for the 4th time in a row.
As an INTP, also don't fit, I draw fantasy creatures.
That intp's can't always state their emotions understandably, as said at 8:16, is due to their depth of thinking. They may want to for the perfect words for a couple of weeks or months. It is in their nature to think any matter from all possible aspects. If they hurry, they may be misunderstood or they don't even find any suitable words, if they take their time, opportunity to come back to the question at hand may not rise, or they may not be believed for their lack of emotion after so much time.
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It's true as an into in my whole life I've always felt misunderstood that's why i don't like group projects because when i creat an idea they always misunderstood it also of how i think or feel.
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I’m have INTP type and I have been for various reasons in mental hospital ~6 months and I have asparger and trust me it is true that INTP-s have hard live in society when you don’t understand full people around you. So if you are another type of personality pls be gentle with us. (:
Thank you for this comment!
@@PsychologyRefresh No problem if words can make word better place than it worth to say it’s. ;)
I noticed being in ASD snd INTP is so common , same here
I just took a personality test yesterday and came out as INTP and I can’t explain how relived I am that I’m not alone lol.
I was labeled as gifted in Elementary as everything came easy to me and really wouldn’t try on subjects as it was “easy” as I grew up Middle School and High School was easy as well but way more work, like Long Division etc. and I always had problems with teachers asking me to show my work. So I’ve struggled with laziness and always questioning why school is even important especially in this day and age where everything is online. And as a kid I wanted to be an Astro-Physicist but dropped that idea after I realized I have to get a PhD whic gc just means more school 😅
Hello i am also an intp. The story you said is literary me. We definitely share the same worldview. can we be friends online? your social media pls?
I am tired of this life. I desperately need to talk to someone who thinks like me.
I believe all introverted types could get along with all personality types, INTPs gets mentally struggled a lot compared to other personality types, it is hard or a burden for them to open up their emotions. I believe they are the most gentle thinkers, they desire to be polite, even if they prefer to be logical, and unique.
It seems like everybody rejects me. The only thing I can think of is they see me as being smarter than them... So that makes them mad. I don't treat people as if they are stupid.
I would rephrase second point because it's not like we lose all motivation but rather our vivid imagination allow us to spend out motivation points on sitting in front of the wall and imagining things that you are motivated about for hours, then returning to reality and feel achieved for some time (hence no motivation)
I would also disagree about stubborness. Never in my life i wasn't stubborn if i am wrong. I did felt terrible admitting it sometimes but i did. In fact i generally find it helpful if someone point to my mistake. Once i discussed something with my friend (it was basically a question about logical reasoning of some certain situation). This question bugged me for a long time after and then i realized i was wrong (but didn't have contacts to this guy). 3 years later we met again and first thing i did is I said to him i was wrong then. However he didn't remember any conversation and laughed at me that i still was thinking about smth like this.
Interesting insight!
B4 2020, #2 was a big problem for me. Try INTP with ADHD on for size.
Before procrastinating, I see a task from start to end and if it's something I can do in one day or in last few hours, I just put it off. But yes, I do understand that tasks are learned and done better when a person gives little time everyday.
Thanks for sharing!
#1 - Does not apply to all INTPs. I enjoy the isolation.
#2 - 100% agree
#3 - Agree but I am always aware of my surroundings including people. I just don't care what they think most of the time.
#4 - Yes, this is true
#5 - This can be true but I don't get so frustrated
#6 - Most people are not to be trusted
#7 - Not true for me. Most people mistake me for an INFP until I explain how dumb they sound.
#8 - Although it is true most can't keep up, I'll explain myself in a way only intelligent people will understand. So if you misunderstand me, well...
Thank you for sharing this!
I strongly suspect you are dishonest, most people don't even know what IN.. anything means and blowing up your own whistle how others can't understand you...that isn't going to give you credibility. There is a good change they have a reason why their and your conclusion wouldn't meet and perhaps just you lack the capacity to see it. also, keeping your mind open even the ideas that you can't comprehend is a good idea, because you never know
Lack of motivation is so terrible. I have so many great ideas, and I know I've got the potential to be great. If I wasn't so prone to procrastination and abandoning projects, I could be in an amazing place in life right now...
Love that!
Ohhh now it all makes sense thanks for making it clearer for me to understand my weird-ass self. I grew up with few friends but those few friends were usually close to me and weird as well. Currently struggling in finding that special someone to understand me. I feel like I scare everyone off or they just get bored of or impatient with me. The struggle is real, at least I’m happy being alone if need be.
Glad to hear it
I think too much, I need a good reason to do something, and decide if it’s worth it or not.
Sometimes I know I need to do it, like waking up out of bed, but I always think questions like, ‘what’s the point?’
As an INTP I have problems with motivation. Not because I cannot focus or so, but because of I always before project/deal think about the worst ending of this problem, and thinking like I’m not in my worst side, it’s ok 😅
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
Broo that's me I always think about every outcome and the bad things that could happen like getting canceled
I really am INTP, but i am not naive at all, i can be motivated when i want to, and even tho i hate social interaction, I definitely do have the potential to be social. But, i myself created these characteristics by noticing what was bad in myself and causing me harm
Thanks for sharing!
I don't really think I'm stubborn
Same here
the pain .... the struggle wow, spot on.
Thank you!
As an intp this is very useful to know my weaknesses and try to change them but it’s gonna take a while to change
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@@PsychologyRefresh thank you
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You missed on most naive. I'm with an ISFP that thanks to her Ne trickster is clueless to others' motives. It was one of her best features as I kept matching on apps with INFPs that used their Ne to see motives that weren't there in me and lacking Ne I was able to be accepted at face value for a change which was refreshing.
Thank you so much for this insight!
That's interesting. That would explain my cynicism.
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why is this so relatable,,
yes I need my alone time but i hate being ignored or alienated,in this society you have to be a extrovert if you wannna have friends.
yes I lack motivation in my life, i easily get bored with stuff i was excited about earlier and even if i get some motivation, it doesn't lasts long. i am really naive and stubborn when it comes to any type of relationship and then i end up being vulnerable, and ofc i can never take a proper decision, even if i take one i know already that i will regret it , i was born with social awkwardness, i just can't go in front of. a person and talk like i am full of shyness and tho i have fear of being misunderstood i am always misunderstood, it's not easy being the weird person
I think the big ambitious yet no motivation is my biggest weakness as an INTP lol I'll try to get to get better tho
Interesting.
The struggle is worse for an INTP that also has combat related PTSD and depression. Makes the isolation and lack of motivation get debilitating.
Thanks for sharing!
Where/who did you serve with?
@@Malikav0311 Army from 1998-2018, six trips to Afghanistan and two others in the Balkans.
@@raethdarkflame1292 Cheers brother. Marine infantry, 3/3, 09-13, 2 deployments to Helmand province. I relate to your original post.
This video sent shivers down my spine with its accuracy.
This vid was damn accurate
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As an intp-a, i have to say this summarization is so accurate. I would really like to see what can be done to mitigate these struggles.
i wish my family and friends may spend some time to watch this video to understand me better.
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
I feel as an INTP I need a sidekick who can implement all the ideas I have since they will forever live in my head
I feel like we’re better suited as the sidekicks tbh
@@leviticuscornwall9631 isn’t that the truth. Operate from the shadows
@@jamaisvu2664 if you’ve ever read DC comics we’re basically Oracle
We're scatter-brained wallflowers. This video read my soul. 😂
No motivation I just want to live in the moment and read, it's pretty useless to be an intp but your mind is an interesting place.
Thanks for sharing!
Because loneliness and being Alone is different , we like to be alone most of the time but we feel lonely because it's like living in a world of aliens who do not understand you at all , and you do understand them only because you have studied their behavior and tried to mimic their comunication.
Its not about intp, its autism
Theyre "naive" but "sceptical". Aint that something
Which one are you?
Yeah I caught that too. It is indicative of the flawed nature of the MBPT. It's interesting and can be helpful at times, but humans a way too complex.
Not me being diagnosed with ADHD and doing the personality test and seeing the parallels. 🤯
Thanks for sharing!
False. I prefer being alone and i don't feel lonely nor isolated.
The last one is totally wrong. How can i be affraid, if i'm completly sure that there is no chance at all for me to be understood?
Interesting question!
Now it not in so much that we do not WANT to let people in as being so much in our heads and being oblivious our surrounds. We are also aware that hardly no one is interested in the things we are interested in.
this is the most relatable video I’ve seen so far
Searching an INTP who shares the same worldview as me. So if you are an INTP, can we be friends online? your social media pls?
I am tired of this life. I desperately need to talk to someone who thinks like me.
THIS IS SO FREAKING ACCURATE
As an INTP, I relate to all of these.
Great!
I am always being rejected by people. I have wondered if it is because I am INTP. I think people should be willing to accept others that aren't exactly like them.
"Being different can make you feel different."
well i personally couldnt tell you why
Yes. I finally understand my personality better but still unmotivated to live my life
Hmm, I have traits and ended up with test results of both intj and intp, but I honestly seem to have more common traits with intp, especially after watching this video
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I can understand that, I used to be INTJ for many years, but then I started to become an INTP for the last few years.
The main reason someone transforms between them is "hopeless". Since INTJs can see the future more than others, they will lose the hop from the 2nd or 3rd attempts, they just need to compare the tests they've done with the other possibilities they didn't, so they will know the result of the other 99 attempts without doing it. And, when they face a real challenge, they will not try to go in another direction in their life, because INTJs have basics and rules in their life... And you can think about what will happen next.
To make it more clear, what will INTJ do in his/ her waiting time? Now Imagine the same thing if an INTJ waited for SOOOO long time, like months or years, without having the power or money to find a new good hobby (for example: reading, learning languages, sports,..). They will just keep thinking in their World, then, they will try to avoid the bad feelings that will come by doing anything else, then they will start to lose the motivation over time, and will get used to useless hobbies they usually hated to spend time on it... And, step by step, they will transform into INTP, and that's what happened to me.
Maybe you feel that you are both because your free time in your schedule increased, or because you start to feel hopeless with your life, mostly when people didn't understand you..... Just try to fight your laziness, and find anything to fill the gap in your time. Being INTJ is much better than being INTP. No offenses, But I hope that you get the idea.
As an INTP-T i didn't really know that it's just my personality...i thought i had alexithymia lol..this was very helpful..i got to know myself a little better
Thanks for sharing!
The brotherhood. Hello aliens, weirdos, whatever you have been called by "normal people", we all share the same mindset here. As a fucking INTP I love seeing a lot of aliens woohoo. 🎉
I think one reason I have problems with people is because I can see various outcomes ahead of time. They think there is no way I can see it. To me it is common sense.
Have to say waiting for eternity for people to realise they are wrong... so true it's uncanny.
Well, that was super painful. And true.
I'm INTP and this video is accurate. I'm super smart and basically right about most things way before most people...but it doesn't matter because nobody believes me or takes me seriously, accept my wife and brother who have seen me predict the future multiple times and now they trust me. But growing up I was an outcast and a weird conspiracy theorist..but now that all my wild theories have come true, my family has acknowledged that I was right for all those years. The theories I have now are taken more seriously, so that's good.
Hey, do you have some examples? I'm struggling with that too most of the time..
But there is people who indeed consider me smart and intellectual but it's came from more mature people's and more aged also by some correlation.. cause the folks my age(23) most of them are stupid, silly giggling dolls. I can have a good conversion only with 30 - 40+ years old guys on my job. But it's just being said that there is more chance to find mature human and someone to talk more deeply around those ages.
As n INTP i suffers alot being misunderstood by people...whenever m just trying to open up n share my opinion they misunderstand me..but people who r close to me understands me so its a bit easy for me...n thats how m not good at making new friends either..
Would an INTP get that tattoo (4:04)? I have considered getting one, but can't decide on the best tattoo.
Absolutely everything you said is true, thank you.
Thanks for watching!
Before watching these videos I didn't know the MBTI personality test could be so perfect
INTP here. I wouldn't wish it on others.
;)
i had a counsellor and they told me their head hurt trying to understand how i think 😭
I don't even know how to describe the sound I made when he talked about INTP's almost never getting the credit for having been right about a thing.
This would fit by 90% here too. Some nor so much ,i have tolerance for others i simply cant stand BS. Ans had had to learn keeping m mouth shout telling out loud truth what i think. Being INTP and in the High funtioning ASD has so much in common
Thanks for sharing!
Number 1 problem solved with internet community, like how I comment on this video while I am INTP. Not meeting the people make it easier to cominicate. You can see ALOT of INTPs commentings here and there on random videos on TH-cam.
Thank you for this insight!
i am glad my best friend is an INTP.. one of the only 2 friends, and my wife an INFJ.... i got lucky
i was put in the ISTJ camp but have a lot of these problems too. The test was right in the middle of both the S and the J so I'm probably somewhere in-between?
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As an INTP, has someone come up with a great way on how to not become INTP? I really struggle with the bad sides of INTP.
I have been thinking I might be Autistic or ADHD or OCPD etc etc...
At the end of the day I am just INTP.
I am intp t
And this is so accurate because I AM MISUNDERSTOOD ALL THE TIME
And yes I still fear to trust people because I am afraid they will misunderstand me and I will be alienated once again
Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
THESE ARE LITERALLY FACTS WTFF
As an INTP, this is facts
Yes!
i just feel like getting roasted in here while laughing at my own weakness lol
I relate a lot.
To which point in particular?
@@PsychologyRefresh 1 and 8
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As an INTP, i'd like to disagree with the wording at 2:41.
"their attention span may be a stumbling block."
While yes, we may have trouble focusing on things, it isn't our attention span. It's our motivation, how much we like doing something. I, personally, have been immersed in a project for hours end because I was interested in the project and I felt highly motivated to complete it. Attention span isn't an issue, motivation is.
Why this is so true bro😢
I wonder if I am an intp or it’s just my adhd
It's ok to cry through the video 😭
Thanks for sharing!
INTP-T. I live in a perpetual world of "I told you so" but you didn't listen. 😂
Exactly!
As an INTP who sadly relates to all of these, I'd like to know if non-INTP's relate to this as well.
Thanks for sharing!
As an INTP that struggles with being understood, does anyone else get the feeling people gaslight you all the time?
Okay!
I’m watching this instead of doing my homework 1:52
This is true myself
i did not come here to have all of my current issues called out
LITERALLY EVERY SINGLE PROBLEM IM GOING THROUGH RIGHT NOW JDNDJDJD
Okay!
I think most people have number 2 not just intps
Bro make me intp to entp
What do you mean by that?
Damn i feel attacked.
thanks
ALIENATED 🥺😭😂😂
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Thank you for bringing up your perspective!
Bahaha NAIVE 😢😭😭🤷
8/8 guilty
7:59 My life.
How do you feel about that?
Same 😥
that's totally me
so true
I disagree with number 5, stubbornness. INTP are always open to modifying their opinions according to new information. This one of their strongest points. Hence the indecision spoken of earlier because of their shifting opinions.
Interesting point!
I'm intp and I am both indesicive and stubborn. Even I don't understand how this is possible.😳
@@theladymorgana8657 stubborn in what way?
all correct
Alright!
What's with the creepy thumbnail pictures?
Finally someone said it
I hate having intp I wish I was different 😪
Why?
@Nate S I love beeng an INTP despite all the difficulties. I see what others do not see and I love that.
@@MaceLupo What is your biggest strength?
@@PsychologyRefresh I notice patterns in society and when people say nice sounding words that are full of shit I mostly have a hard time to explain it to the fooled one. But then after a while I find a way to tell it in some way to the person. I care about the people you know. These days are full of lies and political bs from all sides and this crap is everywhere. So many people fell for it but I never do.
@@MaceLupo Very interesting!
i think the only struggle u told us that we wont get a girl in this 8 min video , it doesnt make sense that how does it implies as our struggle since all that i saw was a very common behaviour among various introverted types and u just posted crap from the first line u saw on google and not even bother to research
To my fellow INTPs read the subtle art of not giving a f*ck, it explores why motivation is a waste of time. INTPs live in our heads, we have a very rich and colourful internal environment. We take for granted that everyone is as deep thinking and analytical as we are, they’re not. They are always out chasing what we are born with, an inner calm. My best friend is Mr Extrovert and is always asking me to come to his boxing club with him. He has a majorly stressful job and uses boxing to excise all that tension. He’s verging on the edge of a breakdown (his words, not mine) has ruined a ligament in his knee with all this exercise and needs a nose job that booked for 1 months time because it got broken by accident when he was boxing and now he can only breathe out one side of his nose. We earn the same money but I work for myself caring for the elderly in a medical capacity where they need an appointment to come see me. Everyday is quiet and easy, people think I’m really zen. Which pleases me. Don’t try too hard, find someone you don’t mind doing and don’t live extravagantly. The rest of the time, I live in my head, and it’s a quirky place 😊😊