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I needed this. I’ve found myself trying to chase someone and in turn I’ve been destroying myself emotionally and mentally, ruining my own mood with a single thought.
@@JulienHimself help me to detach myself and to stop procrastinating! I feel like I’m holding myself back for a person who left me and keeps giving me mixed signals. Please help!!! @julienhimself!!!!
Recently managed to pull when I was out alone. Being able to do whatever you want without judging yourself or thinking that other’s don’t like you is a huge deal. Going in with the mindset that people do like you and having fun and enjoying the moment by yourself attracts so much attention, which makes approaching so natural. I really like your content! I have a long history of anxiety which I’ve almost completely overcome. Working on always keeping my head up and absorbing and enjoying my surroundings at all times, and not shying away from approaching or smiling at people by thinking that you do have value and to just let yourself feel the discomfort. You’re a huge inspiration, thanks Julien!
"Conversation" WHAT Conversation??? This generation knows Sit-coms, Laughing machines, and Cool "Bar talk". OMG What a Gem 💎 to actually Have a conversation. I seriously Doubt most of them even Know How to hold a conversation. Thank God you're coaching them 🙏
Going through an emotional wreckage rn. Overwhelmed by feelings of attachment and fear of losing someone. This video is a saviour! Helped me a lot. Can't thank you enough. ❤
Hey just wanted to give you a little tip 😊. Don't worry to much about losing someone, enjoy your time with them and everything is gonna be alright ❤. Because worrying about what ifss will distract you from the good moments you have. You can trust me on this one because I recently initiated a breakup with a person who was focused on what if I dump her too much, and guess what it came to a point where she was blinded and insecure by all the negative things that wasn't really there 😅. It broke my heart, but I learned to love myself first and never allowed those fears ruin my emotional state. Love yourself and people will love you back, don't dwell in negative iffs, live in present and enjoy the flow ❤❤❤
@@JulienHimself 1) Whatever outcome you think other people can give you, find a way to give it to yourself - instead of pursuing, attract. 2) Lower the bar, get rid of the bar, let it flow - we have a lifetime of experience, share it. 3) With change and transformation some things have to shatter in order to get to that next level. 4) Audit your experiences
Oh yees im cuming mentally even while reading coments!!! Awesome! The best feeling now that im experiencing is the carefreenes. I used to think that @JulienHimself was a god but im happy to know that he is just a guy with whom we all (juliens herd🐑😂)could just enjoy time spent together and laugh a lot. Though im feeling that chaos which comes along with change and sometimes i felt like i was regresing because overwhelmingness wasn’t the feeling that i was hoping to achieve. With great power comes great headaches... starting to see alot of oppurtunitys that can sometimes overwhelme but they are worth it! Your concepts, Julien, are starting to become my reality. Special thanks to you, our lord! Khe khem, i ment - our guy*😏 Truly changing lives out there🙏🏻
I like how pick up has evolved from complex principles that didn't make sense to now, simple principles that are simple but makes sense but used to be overlooked because they're too damn simple. I think as Julien is progressing
I think these concepts made sense. And they were pretty easy to understand. Yet difficult to implement. He's talking about the same concepts now, just with an inner instead of outer approach
@@MonotoniTV my point was that things like provide value, don't be annoying, don't sell but give opportunity, you're not everyone's type so approach a lot are all simple concepts but normally because they're not exciting similar to pick up lines or they're not flashy are often overlooked by newbies. It's similar to why people are attracted to fad diets. This phenomenon is because people lack confidence in themselves to follow common sense and often look for magic or nonsense because they can't believe things that will get them ahead are just simple and common sense.
Julien, I can relate so much with the silence, like I can talk non stop but i overthink the silence way too much and it fucks me up, need to let go of that . Thanks for awesome content by the way! Love it ❤
Lowering the bar is the most useful advice in this whole talk btw. If you're confident you can just point out and say little random things that seemingly aren't that interesting but it's an easy way to get conversation going. When your confidence is low and you REALLY want the other person to like you, it's like impossible to say anything because you feel like everything you say is boring or dumb.
This is some insightful stuff man. I can honestly say I've been focusing on the social part of my life recently and it's been hit or miss. Mostly because of that getting stuck in your head and filtering if it's good enough. Your video is timely for that reason. Being free and enjoying the vibe of interactions is my current goal. Maybe it might help me in the romance department too.
I genuinely needed this. I recently just had a rough break up with my girlfriend over not allowing myself to be more vulnerable and flow with my expression. Enjoy the show that is you. 🙏🌎❤️
Julien!! Had one of the best nights out. Really understood that inner state, experimented with that intention layer, adding value, fun carefree passion, hardly matters what you say. And noticed/felt when I switched into the wanting/neediness. Love and light! Was so much fun!
I want to say genuine "hi" for people. I like your video as always julien,because it always help me so much..too many social scammer out there,it's so rare to found the authentic one..i dont want to connect with others for impression,i just want it from my heart a deep connection..
You are on the right path. Sometimes it could feel lonely to be the “only one who feels” trying to find connection with others. Soon you will learn to generate those connections naturaly, and you will realize how far you have come. Btw Its never easy to implement ideas But they become your second nature at one point. If these videos resonate with you, you will get where you want to be at some point if you arent there yet. Dont worry and trust the process. And i hope that you feel that i wish the best for you! my best attemt to connect with you xd Best of luck finding deep and hearthwarming talks/conections out there!🎗🙏🏻
When I have to change, I've take decisions which will disrupt my inner self and the surroundings. My new decisions will shatter everything I am comfortable with and it has to happen that way. This will be my new ME and I am going to embrace it because I was solely responsible for those decisions. Thanks, Julian, brother for this video.
You are such a delightful speaker. This is so true and after many years, I’m 66, I have come to this moment finally…believing it is not the circumstances but our state of mind. We are taught in our modern life to look outside for our worth. My life has been dedicated to personal growth.. I still struggled with feeling scared to step into my true self. It is exciting to see younger people getting the lesson faster and clearer Thank you for sharing this valuable truth and putting in such a fun and relatable way 💜
This has been an amazing approach for my career thus far. Everything is virtual and I’m taking what I have learned from this video to my virtual conference calls.
Julien this content is amazing. Enhancing communication will help you in all areas of life. Can you make more videos on your process when creating videos and public speaking? How can you do this without script and being coherent. It's an incredible skill.
Thank you! Yes, planning on it! Until then, check out my social skills/communication skills manifesto here that covers ALL the fundamentals when it comes to this: th-cam.com/video/pCZdJiGSk8g/w-d-xo.html 👌
BRO YOUR VIDEOS ARE WHAT I WANTED LITERALLY NOW I LETTED GO OF ANYTHING AND I AM TALKING TO PEOPLE BETTER BECOUSE I DONT CARE OF HAVING THEY VALIDATION I DONT CARE THAT THEY LIKE ME OR NOT
Beware of things but don't let it get inside ur head ... This is my favorite line in this video , it's a huge take-away . The whole video in and itself is a take a away , your mannerisms is very cool buddy . Spontaneity is the key .. excellent vid 💥🔥🔥🔥❤️ edit : tomorrow morning is my exam , watching this video in midnight to relax and yes it is relaxing ..thanks
This is so good and I love that he is dressed bad lol. It’s funny too because this is spirituality taught in a very interesting way. In spirituality, it’s how we see ourselves and this experience that creates reality. Our experience and beliefs is the vibe/ vibration.
Yessssssss!!!! B4 7:14 I almost came, the thought of a man Actually enjoying the moment! The flow! Connecting without an agenda! 😲 Not shut down, shut off or so self consumed and " It's all about me"... Dude! I pray these men Get it! To be Real & Authentic & allowing her to be also! Epic!
Great video. Create the world you want to live in and then share it with others. For in the end the party keeps going on even when there is nothing left to say.
my man! great video, i see you've grown a lot with the years. the click to me was this dynamic of having/doing/being paradigms, so to find my worth, or maybe pre-finding my worth on myself, since it resigns on being me, and in so, not to be attached to the outcome of social interactions. i think you went through a path that puts you in a position to have experience on things i need to get clarification about. i will watch this video a few more times!
I do everything guy says about flow and amazingly you do attract lots of people that way cos you make everything interesting. I even had people come up to me thinking i worked at the place I was in with friends talking about salads so well (no joke) they got curious, or annoyed lol cos theyre bored and I wasnt, and walk up to me to ask if I knew about any good salads. I never make a convo fall to silence for too long. sometimes i do feel like exhausted or that the other person doesnt even try to fill in and thats when I have to rethink stuff and thats when I get worried, but I dont chase cos its stupid. I do overthink, but always in my own head. And rambling helps me alleviate it. Its my best therapy. Even if I felt guilty or ashamed afterwards cos i can say weird stuff sometimes, spit truth or even personal stuff. But if you turn that 'weakness' into strength and are proud of who you are, people cant easily use those things against you either.
Oh man, feel ya. Try making them understand how you feel about that. Be aware how you say it so they couldnt just laugh it off, but also dont go in depresing loop over this. Be serious but in a light way. Also remember : “You can bring horse to the water but you cannot make the horse drink it.” Maybe even use this allegory that i just mentioned in a fun way to end that conversation xd Really Hope this helps!🥂🎗
That thing about lowering the bar is important for me. When I'm not in the mood, I often overthink what I say. Like, today at work I observed myself self-sabotaging my voice as I walked around doing my job. I stopped myself from speaking when I absolutely could have made conversation with the lads on site. I really need to learn to be a bit more chaotic than I already am maybe.
@@JulienHimself listen i didn't know you existed until this video appeared on my feed but trust me it's the perfect timing! thank you for being you, you've helped so many people!
Glad I found your channel! You're saying what I always thought but was kinda scared to face: the chaos of the new state of change and letting go. Now I know exactly what's happening and what I need to mentalize. Thanks for that, Julien!
I've just discovered your channel and I have to say that your energy is so different from the rest of the people and you're helping me being more confident and deeply understand who I am ! Thank you so much for your videos!!!❤❤❤
I teach my kids this. The right people will come to you without you having to chase. Now the teacher of my oldest is saying that she is too detached 😂! She rathers stands alone then acting like she likes people just to be part of a group. And she loves it! The right people come up to her and ask if they can be her friend.
It’s funny how the person trying to clap you made stop as they almost completely through you off your very rehearsed script/ monologue about not following a script (you literally made them stop so you could complete your planned “un planned”talk)
Hello mate, not sure you’ll see this coment but i wanted to tell you that your work is of substance, you help people for real and reshape the possible future of the next generations, i hope that enough people will hear what you have to say.
I’ll never forgot a interview with rob zombie talking about making house of 1000 corpses , he said he basically just went off the top of his head , really turned a switch on for me
I have been studying your programs and videos recently like a college course. And I am resonating with the principle of taking value vs offering value. By thinking about it continously and meditating on it. This simple principle completely changes the tone of interactions. Now I am in the process of identifying what triggers me into a state of giving vs taking so I am primed with this state before my interactions.
Stick with index funds people! Stress free investing with history on your side! Individual stocks can go up but also can definitely go way down. Invest in solid index funds/ ETFs with low fees and you will build MASSIVE wealth long term without stress or hours of research 💰
There’s two ways to think about how you present yourself: Take me as i am, don’t judge me on how I look, judge me on what I can do/who I am. OR I respect that you have given me your time and effort to come & listen to me, and I will present myself with equal effort. I loved what you had to say, and yet found you incredibly disrespectful for taking so little effort on your appearance for your audience.
Needed to see this video. I been working on myself and I absolutely understood everything he was saying. I’m happy because I’m on the right path. I just need to keep going and maybe even step it up now that I’m at this level. Thanks
This makes me remember about what that random guy in u tube being interviewed by a psychologist who said he wants a partner who is already complete. He does not want someone who expects him to complete her. It’s burdensome to him.
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Your allegory is crazily funny
Emotional Masturbation
Don't stop the process untill you feel like you are not that person what you are in the Past.....
I gotta say I love this video!
My biggest takeaway is just a takeaway. See, I'm getting rid of the bar :)
I needed this. I’ve found myself trying to chase someone and in turn I’ve been destroying myself emotionally and mentally, ruining my own mood with a single thought.
Yes, chasing people will create a massive downward spiral... Glad this helped! 🙏
Relatable
Same,Idk what to do tbh
if u rub one with her/his pic, it goes away
@@JulienHimself help me to detach myself and to stop procrastinating! I feel like I’m holding myself back for a person who left me and keeps giving me mixed signals. Please help!!! @julienhimself!!!!
Recently managed to pull when I was out alone. Being able to do whatever you want without judging yourself or thinking that other’s don’t like you is a huge deal. Going in with the mindset that people do like you and having fun and enjoying the moment by yourself attracts so much attention, which makes approaching so natural. I really like your content! I have a long history of anxiety which I’ve almost completely overcome. Working on always keeping my head up and absorbing and enjoying my surroundings at all times, and not shying away from approaching or smiling at people by thinking that you do have value and to just let yourself feel the discomfort. You’re a huge inspiration, thanks Julien!
The bigger secret is to find them not liking you amusing.
yeah Im having a hard time to do whatever I want without judging myself thinking people dont like me esp girls LOL
Sound that bud. Yeah Whatever I have heard that all before. Pretty generic stuff there bud
Nice comment I love it!
Nice comments I should say
This guy just highlights how drugs make you so emotionless and narcissistic you stop caring about EVERYTHING.
"Conversation" WHAT Conversation??? This generation knows Sit-coms, Laughing machines, and Cool "Bar talk". OMG What a Gem 💎 to actually Have a conversation. I seriously Doubt most of them even Know How to hold a conversation. Thank God you're coaching them 🙏
"Whatever outcome you think that other person will give you, find a way to give it to yourself".
Absolutely key! I missed that quote, I'll try to remember it
Going through an emotional wreckage rn. Overwhelmed by feelings of attachment and fear of losing someone. This video is a saviour! Helped me a lot. Can't thank you enough. ❤
Hey just wanted to give you a little tip 😊. Don't worry to much about losing someone, enjoy your time with them and everything is gonna be alright ❤.
Because worrying about what ifss will distract you from the good moments you have.
You can trust me on this one because I recently initiated a breakup with a person who was focused on what if I dump her too much, and guess what it came to a point where she was blinded and insecure by all the negative things that wasn't really there 😅.
It broke my heart, but I learned to love myself first and never allowed those fears ruin my emotional state.
Love yourself and people will love you back, don't dwell in negative iffs, live in present and enjoy the flow ❤❤❤
That intro visual is the best symbolic explanation of neediness I’ve ever seen.
The timing of this video was impeccable - exactly what I needed today. Thank you, Julien!
Great to hear! What part resonated with you the most?
@@JulienHimself 1) Whatever outcome you think other people can give you, find a way to give it to yourself - instead of pursuing, attract. 2) Lower the bar, get rid of the bar, let it flow - we have a lifetime of experience, share it. 3) With change and transformation some things have to shatter in order to get to that next level. 4) Audit your experiences
Oh yees im cuming mentally even while reading coments!!! Awesome!
The best feeling now that im experiencing is the carefreenes. I used to think that @JulienHimself was a god but im happy to know that he is just a guy with whom we all (juliens herd🐑😂)could just enjoy time spent together and laugh a lot.
Though im feeling that chaos which comes along with change and sometimes i felt like i was regresing because overwhelmingness wasn’t the feeling that i was hoping to achieve. With great power comes great headaches... starting to see alot of oppurtunitys that can sometimes overwhelme but they are worth it!
Your concepts, Julien, are starting to become my reality. Special thanks to you, our lord! Khe khem, i ment - our guy*😏
Truly changing lives out there🙏🏻
@JulienHimself, does this work for attracting intimacy physical and spiritual?
I like how pick up has evolved from complex principles that didn't make sense to now, simple principles that are simple but makes sense but used to be overlooked because they're too damn simple.
I think as Julien is progressing
I think these concepts made sense. And they were pretty easy to understand. Yet difficult to implement.
He's talking about the same concepts now, just with an inner instead of outer approach
@@MonotoniTV my point was that things like provide value, don't be annoying, don't sell but give opportunity, you're not everyone's type so approach a lot are all simple concepts but normally because they're not exciting similar to pick up lines or they're not flashy are often overlooked by newbies. It's similar to why people are attracted to fad diets. This phenomenon is because people lack confidence in themselves to follow common sense and often look for magic or nonsense because they can't believe things that will get them ahead are just simple and common sense.
@@aminerkin9844 rsd was never about pick up lines (maybe in the beginning, shortly after "the game" was released)
Julien, I can relate so much with the silence, like I can talk non stop but i overthink the silence way too much and it fucks me up, need to let go of that . Thanks for awesome content by the way! Love it ❤
Great takeaway! Glad this resonated with you! 🙏
Lowering the bar is the most useful advice in this whole talk btw. If you're confident you can just point out and say little random things that seemingly aren't that interesting but it's an easy way to get conversation going. When your confidence is low and you REALLY want the other person to like you, it's like impossible to say anything because you feel like everything you say is boring or dumb.
The creating the dream while simultaneously enjoying it part tripped me out 😳 thanks for the help, keep it up man!
You’re welcome! Glad that part resonated with you!!
Love that!! “You’re talking, creating and also enjoying” yes!!!! I know exactly what you’re talking about. Just letting it flow🙏🏾🔥
Yes!! 🙌
This is some insightful stuff man. I can honestly say I've been focusing on the social part of my life recently and it's been hit or miss. Mostly because of that getting stuck in your head and filtering if it's good enough. Your video is timely for that reason. Being free and enjoying the vibe of interactions is my current goal. Maybe it might help me in the romance department too.
I really like how you wear what you want and don't care what people think
I genuinely needed this. I recently just had a rough break up with my girlfriend over not allowing myself to be more vulnerable and flow with my expression. Enjoy the show that is you. 🙏🌎❤️
Change of heart.
Fork dat britch
That's my favourite card of all time!
@@78SHAFER bitch really? She was once ur gf u onced really loved or liked her ...bit harsh calling her a bitch becus of a breakup
Thanks for sharing this. At 21 years of age, I needed this to help shape the person I want to be while finding myself.
Glad this was helpful! You got this 🙏
Julien!! Had one of the best nights out. Really understood that inner state, experimented with that intention layer, adding value, fun carefree passion, hardly matters what you say. And noticed/felt when I switched into the wanting/neediness. Love and light! Was so much fun!
Fantastic! Glad this all helped! 🔥👊
Love how julien can wear anything and be confident.
I want to say genuine "hi" for people. I like your video as always julien,because it always help me so much..too many social scammer out there,it's so rare to found the authentic one..i dont want to connect with others for impression,i just want it from my heart a deep connection..
Thank you! If you're looking for AUTHENTIC expression + connection, then you're in the right place! 🙏
@@JulienHimself yeaay!!! Horay!
You are on the right path. Sometimes it could feel lonely to be the “only one who feels” trying to find connection with others. Soon you will learn to generate those connections naturaly, and you will realize how far you have come. Btw Its never easy to implement ideas But they become your second nature at one point. If these videos resonate with you, you will get where you want to be at some point if you arent there yet. Dont worry and trust the process. And i hope that you feel that i wish the best for you! my best attemt to connect with you xd
Best of luck finding deep and hearthwarming talks/conections out there!🎗🙏🏻
@@janissilins5346 i hope so brother..thank you for your words! I wish you all the best too!
When I have to change, I've take decisions which will disrupt my inner self and the surroundings.
My new decisions will shatter everything I am comfortable with and it has to happen that way.
This will be my new ME and I am going to embrace it because I was solely responsible for those decisions.
Thanks, Julian, brother for this video.
You are such a delightful speaker. This is so true and after many years, I’m 66, I have come to this moment finally…believing it is not the circumstances but our state of mind.
We are taught in our modern life to look outside for our worth. My life has been dedicated to personal growth.. I still struggled with feeling scared to step into my true self.
It is exciting to see younger people getting the lesson faster and clearer
Thank you for sharing this valuable truth and putting in such a fun and relatable way 💜
Agreed!! You're VERY welcome! 🙏
If u want a specific girl, u have to be good with girls in general to get her
So what happens if that’s messed up?
@@HIPEMS83HOP get rich or game over
@@HIPEMS83HOP keep trying until you get comfortable.
Befriend them with sexual undertones
Respect
Super important!! -Owen
Oh yeah!! 🔥👊
So glad I found this channel!! Detachment is so powerful.
Glad you enjoy it! And welcome to the channel! 🙏
@@JulienHimself Thank you 🙏
Biggest take away i got is all the feelings/validation i look for in others i already have inside me
Nice takeaway!
Julien, you are so good at articulating this stuff. Even if we already understand the concept, it’s great to get it hammered in in different ways
its true dude
Thanks so much! Glad this resonates! 🔥👊
Imagine chasing that person within and letting him/her out to tackle the world!!!
So much value in this video. I found myself having the best conversations when I improvise and let it all flow. Also lowering the bar is helpful too.
I love this I feel so relaxed knowing it’s okay being the authentic me by lowering the bar and opening possibilities
YES!! 🙏
This has been an amazing approach for my career thus far. Everything is virtual and I’m taking what I have learned from this video to my virtual conference calls.
Nice! Amazing to hear!
Julien this content is amazing. Enhancing communication will help you in all areas of life. Can you make more videos on your process when creating videos and public speaking? How can you do this without script and being coherent. It's an incredible skill.
Thank you! Yes, planning on it! Until then, check out my social skills/communication skills manifesto here that covers ALL the fundamentals when it comes to this: th-cam.com/video/pCZdJiGSk8g/w-d-xo.html 👌
BRO YOUR VIDEOS ARE WHAT I WANTED LITERALLY NOW I LETTED GO OF ANYTHING AND I AM TALKING TO PEOPLE BETTER BECOUSE I DONT CARE OF HAVING THEY VALIDATION I DONT CARE THAT THEY LIKE ME OR NOT
My dude is so confident he's teaching men how to get women in his PJs, nice!
Legend shit
You touched upon the point of "comfortable with being silent", which I have not heard by any other speakers. It is really motivating. Thank you.
Julien Ive been watching your videos non stop now. Youre the guy personal growth. Just wow. Thanks.
Beware of things but don't let it get inside ur head ... This is my favorite line in this video , it's a huge take-away . The whole video in and itself is a take a away , your mannerisms is very cool buddy . Spontaneity is the key .. excellent vid 💥🔥🔥🔥❤️ edit : tomorrow morning is my exam , watching this video in midnight to relax and yes it is relaxing ..thanks
Great takeaway!! Glad you resonated with this video so much! 🙏
This is so good and I love that he is dressed bad lol. It’s funny too because this is spirituality taught in a very interesting way. In spirituality, it’s how we see ourselves and this experience that creates reality. Our experience and beliefs is the vibe/ vibration.
🙏🙏🙏
Yessssssss!!!! B4 7:14 I almost came, the thought of a man Actually enjoying the moment! The flow! Connecting without an agenda! 😲 Not shut down, shut off or so self consumed and " It's all about me"... Dude! I pray these men Get it! To be Real & Authentic & allowing her to be also! Epic!
This man is very smart and he is using direct communication… which it’s impossible for people to not understand!! This is very interesting.. 😅
Dude you bring such wisdom is an incredibly accessible way
Great video. Create the world you want to live in and then share it with others. For in the end the party keeps going on even when there is nothing left to say.
Yes!! 🙌
Silence has the most power.
This was great, hilarious, and so true!! I did however, find myself a bit distracted by his ‘just rolled out of bed’ look 😉
Mate!!
Only 55 secs in.... already engaged.
This dude is mustard !!
Nice! Glad this resonates with you! What part engaged you the most btw?
my man! great video, i see you've grown a lot with the years. the click to me was this dynamic of having/doing/being paradigms, so to find my worth, or maybe pre-finding my worth on myself, since it resigns on being me, and in so, not to be attached to the outcome of social interactions. i think you went through a path that puts you in a position to have experience on things i need to get clarification about. i will watch this video a few more times!
Nice takeaway!! Glad this resonated!
I do everything guy says about flow and amazingly you do attract lots of people that way cos you make everything interesting. I even had people come up to me thinking i worked at the place I was in with friends talking about salads so well (no joke) they got curious, or annoyed lol cos theyre bored and I wasnt, and walk up to me to ask if I knew about any good salads. I never make a convo fall to silence for too long. sometimes i do feel like exhausted or that the other person doesnt even try to fill in and thats when I have to rethink stuff and thats when I get worried, but I dont chase cos its stupid. I do overthink, but always in my own head. And rambling helps me alleviate it. Its my best therapy. Even if I felt guilty or ashamed afterwards cos i can say weird stuff sometimes, spit truth or even personal stuff. But if you turn that 'weakness' into strength and are proud of who you are, people cant easily use those things against you either.
How do you get past the silence if they are annoyed or it goes on long what do you do
Found your channel recently its very insightful, and needing to let go is probably my biggest thing from this
Welcome to the channel! Great takeaway! 🙏
I feel like I'm always initiating every get-together with my friends. It's annoying. 😪
Oh man, feel ya. Try making them understand how you feel about that. Be aware how you say it so they couldnt just laugh it off, but also dont go in depresing loop over this. Be serious but in a light way. Also remember : “You can bring horse to the water but you cannot make the horse drink it.” Maybe even use this allegory that i just mentioned in a fun way to end that conversation xd
Really Hope this helps!🥂🎗
Self amusement is so key with women.
With people, yes... Regardless of gender!
I was saying with women because men tend to self amuse with other men, but act differently with women.
Amazing content as usual Julien, and so important for today's World.
Thank you! And agreed! What part of this video did you find the most helpful btw?
@@JulienHimself Being happy with just yourself; and instead of needing an outcome, invite people to be apart of your life
I'm so glad I bought High Vibe Communication. Cant wait for the content to drop!
Booyah! You're going to LOVE it! It covers everything... See you on the inside! 😉
Whats that
That thing about lowering the bar is important for me. When I'm not in the mood, I often overthink what I say. Like, today at work I observed myself self-sabotaging my voice as I walked around doing my job. I stopped myself from speaking when I absolutely could have made conversation with the lads on site. I really need to learn to be a bit more chaotic than I already am maybe.
unrelated but i absolutely love how you're doing this in a sweater and bed hair likeeee
Lol 👌
@@JulienHimself listen i didn't know you existed until this video appeared on my feed but trust me it's the perfect timing! thank you for being you, you've helped so many people!
Glad I found your channel! You're saying what I always thought but was kinda scared to face: the chaos of the new state of change and letting go. Now I know exactly what's happening and what I need to mentalize. Thanks for that, Julien!
Welcome to the channel! And you're very welcome!! 🙏
You are so cute....she is crazy
This channel is new to me but this is my favorite person to ever give me lessons for far rn in this moment .
Lol, welcome to the channel! 🙏
@@JulienHimself it's an honor
Your clothing style has evolved along with your content
Lol, thanks! 👊
This guy literally rolled out of bed to give this talk
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this man had a dream and was motivated af
@@JulienHimself Rocking the PJs look brother. Lol.
I've just discovered your channel and I have to say that your energy is so different from the rest of the people and you're helping me being more confident and deeply understand who I am ! Thank you so much for your videos!!!❤❤❤
Amazing to hear!! Welcome to the channel! 🙏
Julien never disappoints
Thank you! What was your favorite part of the vid btw?
Hands down, the best example.
Lol, thanks! 👊
I teach my kids this. The right people will come to you without you having to chase. Now the teacher of my oldest is saying that she is too detached 😂! She rathers stands alone then acting like she likes people just to be part of a group. And she loves it! The right people come up to her and ask if they can be her friend.
It’s funny how the person trying to clap you made stop as they almost completely through you off your very rehearsed script/ monologue about not following a script (you literally made them stop so you could complete your planned “un planned”talk)
Hello mate, not sure you’ll see this coment but i wanted to tell you that your work is of substance, you help people for real and reshape the possible future of the next generations, i hope that enough people will hear what you have to say.
I’ve been looking for a channel like this for a long time, exactly what I need, great advice .👍
0:25 Be Self Amused.
There's so much value in your videos 🙏🏻👍🏻👍🏻 Thanks
This guy is amazing I can feel his energy is a unique relaxed vibe
that concept is pure beauty
You are the most amazing person and have had the most influence on me ever
Needed to hear this! Thank you!
I’ll never forgot a interview with rob zombie talking about making house of 1000 corpses , he said he basically just went off the top of his head , really turned a switch on for me
Your visual cues are really helpful btw, thank you for your insight!
I was there in LA. I really loved meeting you guys. Great content!!
Awesome! Thank you!
Daddy Smurf spitting Facts!!
Lol, YES!! 😂
Great approach..love yourself now.
I really love being alone. I love boring things like reading and watching videos. And I really hate it when someone interrupts my time for myself.
"..so high value that he can pull it off" 👀
Nice try Julieeenn Blaaancc, I see that sweater!
Also great video 👍🏻
First video from your channel and I must say, Bravo!!!👏
Thank you!! And welcome to the channel! 🙏
Im going crazy because i know whats going on i need to get through this
I subscribed after the first minute and half
Wow! Powerful concepts that can change your whole perspective.
Thank you!! Glad this was helpful! What part resonated with you the most btw?
I have been studying your programs and videos recently like a college course. And I am resonating with the principle of taking value vs offering value. By thinking about it continously and meditating on it. This simple principle completely changes the tone of interactions. Now I am in the process of identifying what triggers me into a state of giving vs taking so I am primed with this state before my interactions.
I think you are on the right path in terms of advice, few areas that need sharpening up though
Thx!
My Man, you’re like Pauly Shore but with direction & better advice . Keep going
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you explained it very good and many details, ty
There’s two ways to think about how you present yourself: Take me as i am, don’t judge me on how I look, judge me on what I can do/who I am. OR I respect that you have given me your time and effort to come & listen to me, and I will present myself with equal effort. I loved what you had to say, and yet found you incredibly disrespectful for taking so little effort on your appearance for your audience.
Needed to see this video. I been working on myself and I absolutely understood everything he was saying. I’m happy because I’m on the right path. I just need to keep going and maybe even step it up now that I’m at this level. Thanks
Glad it was helpful! Check out High Vibe Communication if you want to ACCELERATE your progress: www.highvibecommunication.com 👊
Bro you hard 🔥🔥
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I'm dead...really thanks 😂
What an outfit 😂 Looking forward to seeing you in Frankfurt this year!
Lol thx! And yes, can't wait to tour Europe again!
Cozy as fuck. Love it
@@JulienHimself Hello father j
@@JulienHimself the out fits awesome.
Just be yourself.
People's different experience are amazing !
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That outfit is definetly my favourite one xD
Lol, thanks! 👊
Good stuff! I struggle not depending on others to be happy, and I also realized those people notice that and they become distant.
Would you recommend saying/doing the first thing that comes to mind?
You could yes, as long as it's socially calibrated... But there's a lot more to it! 👌
Thanks. Great advice
I NEED THIS SO MUCH THANK YOU!
You're very welcome! What part spoke to you the most?
@@JulienHimself emotional masturbation, being the party yourself, and realizing how unnecessary neediness really is.
This makes me remember about what that random guy in u tube being interviewed by a psychologist who said he wants a partner who is already complete. He does not want someone who expects him to complete her. It’s burdensome to him.
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