Silent Treatment in Relationships - A Recipe for Disaster

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  • Silent Treatment in Relationships - A Recipe for Disaster
    In this video, we explore the consequences of silent treatment in relationships, focusing on the emotional distance it creates between couples. When communication breaks down, it can lead to toxic dynamics and unresolved conflicts that can slowly destroy what was once a strong bond. Silent treatment, a form of emotional manipulation, often seems like a way to punish your partner, but it ends up creating deeper emotional rifts.
    We dive into how ignoring your partner, instead of having tough conversations, can cause resentment to build and push both people further apart. The silent protest that begins as a way to make your point can become a dangerous tool that erodes trust and love over time.
    The video also explores the impact of this toxic communication on personal growth and how it can shape your behavior in future relationships. Silent treatment isn’t just about avoiding conflict; it’s a way of creating emotional distance that leaves no room for resolution. If you’re dealing with passive-aggressive behavior or struggling with emotional withdrawal, it’s time to rethink how you approach conflict.
    By sharing relatable experiences and offering insights into healthier communication styles, we hope to shed light on how to break free from these toxic patterns and learn the importance of talking things through in a relationship.
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  • @alank9754
    @alank9754 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    Woman: I'm going to give him the silent treatment.
    Man: It's so nice and quiet.

  • @winniethepoohandeeyore2
    @winniethepoohandeeyore2 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    She acted like a toddler and he left her. Good for him.

    • @popstarprincess123
      @popstarprincess123 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      That’s a insult to toddlers
      Toddlers at least tell you what is wrong first

    • @winniethepoohandeeyore2
      @winniethepoohandeeyore2 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@popstarprincess123 Nope lol

  • @RainFox919
    @RainFox919 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

    So ignoring your partner teaches a lesson. Yes it does HE walks away.

  • @coco_bold
    @coco_bold 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    PATHETIC. The woman is stupid. Not only silence is manipulative but also cruel and doesn't give the other any place. You do that to someone you hate or you despise, not to someone you love and to communicate with. People are not mind readers. Silence means you don't respect them. What did she gain? Nothing but contempt or indifference.

  • @martinabest5801
    @martinabest5801 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    Communication is critical for a happy, mature relationship. Silent treatment is just immature, emotionally abusive behaviour.

  • @sbradley3008
    @sbradley3008 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Ahh, the age old, "he should be able to read my mind."

  • @NotSleepy-r5y
    @NotSleepy-r5y 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Her: I treated him like a 3 year old and he left!

    • @edwo6648
      @edwo6648 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      More like women act like 3 year olds.

  • @thomasmurray3920
    @thomasmurray3920 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Reminds me if the definition of insanity- doing the same thing over and over expecting different results.

  • @eldredge_ape
    @eldredge_ape 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    This woman’s thought process doesn’t just make no sense. It makes an infuriating lack of sense.

  • @009AWB
    @009AWB 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Most men prefer the sounds and laughter of the living over the silence of the dead.

  • @Springfield2016
    @Springfield2016 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    If this " Silence" is a real movement, there will be a lot of broken relationships. Ignoring your partner leads to loneliness.

  • @davidj.leavitt7176
    @davidj.leavitt7176 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Ha, ha, ha, ha. This gal is funny. Early in my marriage, my wife tried to pull the same crap, “the silent treatment”. I have this crazy habit of asking about something 3 times. It’s my 3x rule. My kids, grandkids, and family all know. Anyway, the 1st time my wife tried it, I did the 3x routine. Still silent. Okay, I grabbed some diapers, clothes for our 3 daughters, and left. Period. After a couple of hours, she was going plumb loco trying to find us. Found us at a Baskom-Robbins ice cream parlor after we’d spent the day at a park having fun. It never happened again.

  • @rsnhostmaster
    @rsnhostmaster 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    The silent treatment assumes that people are mind-readers. How can anything be fixed if the other person does not know what is wrong? Men are direct communicators and do not pick up hints. This is a recipe for becoming forever single.

    • @perryhopkins3195
      @perryhopkins3195 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      Congratulations she invited her self to the lonely cat lady club.

  • @ivithos2128
    @ivithos2128 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    So, when he holds to his own beliefs and values, she attempts to manipulate him to force him to agree with her. She is being childish. If you can't stand your partner not sharing your views, then the adult thing is to end the relationship and move on. Instead, this woman decides to be petulant.

    • @009AWB
      @009AWB 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Agree. “You’re not supposed to use my tactics against me. You are just supposed to sit there and take it.”

  • @jeremybethea5747
    @jeremybethea5747 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    “Silent treatment” is the pinnacle of being a petulant child you don’t get your way silence they disagree with you silence then nothing gets solved, to be honest silence treatment is hardly a punishment

  • @tomj528
    @tomj528 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Always funny when women think their silence is a punishment.

  • @richardcox4413
    @richardcox4413 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    So, she behaves like a complete and utter *insert nasty word here* to all of her partners, and was surprised when they all walked away? And how long did it take for her to realize that she was behaving like an immature imbecile? Honestly ... I have no words ... 🙄

  • @bleh2911
    @bleh2911 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    There's nothing mature, or logical about how she's conveying her displeasure. She's not looking for understanding, this is about breaking him, making him feel like he's wrong and to get him to surrender to her terms through silent punishment. The silent treatment in a relationship has NEVER worked for either side. As an aside, it would also be nice to mix in more pleasant endings and stories where people act like adults, and figure out their mistakes before things go too far.

  • @johndavidson2365
    @johndavidson2365 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    It's Powerful. Powerful enough to make him leave, enjoy the wall. The story of an immature B Word.

  • @NerdoftheGames
    @NerdoftheGames 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    My ex tried doing the same thing to me by giving me the silent treatmeant. I sent her packing out the door fast.

  • @terryyates6125
    @terryyates6125 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Play stupid games..., win stupid prizes. When communication stops in the relationship one of the people in the relationship will get their feelings hurt. Enjoy the monster you're making because it's your fault that you listened to stupid advise. You can't fix something if you don't know what broken.

  • @thomasmurray3920
    @thomasmurray3920 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Is he supposed to be a mind reader?

  • @sharmaineipvaiching9826
    @sharmaineipvaiching9826 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I am a woman but I don't understand this woman's way of thinking.. She thinks men are telepathic?

  • @SteveMccart
    @SteveMccart 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    This sounds like a petty , immature thing to do. How does she know that he knows the game shes playing.

  • @thomasmurray3920
    @thomasmurray3920 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    A chance to explain yourself? You had plenty of chances to do that-each time he asked you if something was wrong. But no, you kept skeptical, and he came up with the only logical conclusion.

  • @stephencollins5706
    @stephencollins5706 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    He has to think same as you, thats controlling and definitely manipulative, humans are not mind readers. Such bad behaviour, time to leave and let them have all the silence you want.

  • @chrisj.1608
    @chrisj.1608 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    How childish seriously

  • @louishagene3332
    @louishagene3332 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    She has dysfunctional methods of dealing with her relationship

  • @Toncats
    @Toncats วันที่ผ่านมา

    It's unbelievable how stupid some people can be. Communication is the only thing that can make a relationship flourish.

  • @urchbsmirch22
    @urchbsmirch22 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Yeah nothing says "empowerment" like ignoring your boyfriend and acting like a child

  • @isettech
    @isettech 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Back in HS I lost a girlfriend to the silent treatment. Recognized it for the power play it was, and knew it would not wok in a life commitment. I moved on. There was no room for that in my future.

  • @rjroy8143
    @rjroy8143 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "If a man doesn't change his beliefs and agree with me, that means I wasn't heard."

  • @rjroy8143
    @rjroy8143 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "He's a grown man. He should be able to read my mind."

  • @michaeldickens4184
    @michaeldickens4184 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    When you see the same pattern with different people and you are the only constant. Then it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out that you are the damn problem

  • @perryhopkins3195
    @perryhopkins3195 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Good, she doesn't need to be part of the genetic pool.

  • @GeorgeJoseph-p1i
    @GeorgeJoseph-p1i 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    At the end when he gave her the silent treatment classic and btw how many men did she go thru before she got it ....smh

  • @Sneakysquid2077
    @Sneakysquid2077 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Women, y'all need to understand something about men (or rather people in general). We are NOT mindreaders! There's already a divide between men and women. You are making it worse by not communicating.

  • @bloodalpha1170
    @bloodalpha1170 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So she decided to ignore any problems and treat him like A toddler and then doubled down by sending him.The middle finger then continues to sleep with.God knows how many get in relationships and has the same problem...... guss what your the problem lady

  • @thestorm2260
    @thestorm2260 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    "It's a statement"
    Lady, so is exterminating an entire race. Where is Hitler's medal? Such a stupid argument.

  • @richiebeadle7382
    @richiebeadle7382 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Once you receive the silent treatment from your partner. GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM THEM. These people need professional help and should have a sign saying "stay away im broken". They will break you mentally.

  • @tommyboy8667
    @tommyboy8667 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    She’s really out of touch. BTW what software are you using for these awesome videos?

  • @JAYBOXPOWER1987
    @JAYBOXPOWER1987 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So you used silent as manipulation? That's very childish!

  • @floridashawn7317
    @floridashawn7317 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Silent treatment? Yes please.

  • @firewindapple
    @firewindapple 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    one question, if they don't talk, do they have sex? if not what relation is this?

  • @_bulenty
    @_bulenty 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This is the dumbest woman on planet earth

  • @harryking4007
    @harryking4007 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Never try to please a female or beg her .

  • @WilliumGreen
    @WilliumGreen 5 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    SO! Who is feeding today's women the stupid pill?

  • @Rob-sjdp4
    @Rob-sjdp4 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    lol it's not petty its powerfull 😂 being able to express ones opinion is okay but expecting othr people to YES every though process you have is not reality